Getting Rid of Everything + Becoming a Minimalist

[@stephanieledogar6511]

A digital declutter is just as important as a physical declutter because it occupies space in your mind. Good for you

[@bluumberry]

I have a lot easier time decluttering physical things than digital. The few times I motivate myself and declutter digital stuff, there's like another folder waiting the next day and the previous decluttered folder needs doing again. It never ends.

[@potbellyfatguyfromnewyorkcity]

a computer runs faster when there is less data on there as when you open any file, it does not have to search through the other data to find it. most ppl. also have useless junk photos in the thousands or old files that are of no use like a college essay they wrote.

[@saraatintochristlikeness9098]

What I did last year which was much easier was start backward. I started with 30 items at the beginning of the month and was down to one at the end bc it was easier after getting rid of so much to be get rid of just a couple more things

[@KaylaKempers]

ouuu I like that approach too!

[@Willahbean]

Great idea!!!!

[@eileenclaussen977]

To help me, I added the total and divided by 30 = 15 items per day. Makes it more manageable for me.

[@kaitlyne1870]

That sounds a lot less stressful than only getting rid of one thing when you have SO much to get rid while dreading having to come up with so many things later in the month. I mean, I get the idea behind starting small, but I definitely like your idea better.

[@MsPink0769]

I did over 100 items in one day. It was exhausting and I had no idea I had accumulated so much stuff.

[@jboudie]

Fun fact! I used to work at bed bath & beyond in the wedding registry department and one of the first things I learned in training was that bone china is actually extremely durable and strong... Before bridal appointments, managers would encourage us to stand on the teacups and saucers in front of customers to demonstrate how crack resistant our bone china products were lol (just thought I would throw that in when you mentioned being scared to break your bone china teacup/saucer)

[@kathineu8959]

Living with someone else actually makes it harder, you can’t just declutter their stuff. We have some things that drive me crazy because it’s useless, but my husband wants to keep it 🙄 Living in your own you can throw things out if you don’t like it without discussing about it

[@KaylaKempers]

That's so true! In the past when I try to help people declutter and they don't want to get rid of things (for example, my mum can sometimes be like this), it usually takes a few rounds of decluttering to get them to let go of stuff. and it helps to really discuss with them why they think they need it without putting too much pressure on the fact that you think it should be gotten rid of. But ofcourse at the end of the day we have to respect the wants of our roommates/families/partners. Good luck with your decluttering!

[@briannamccarthy2043]

Life hack: The minimalist challenge is easier in February because a) it's the shortest month of the year and b) it's not too long after Christmas so you might have some unwanted presents that you might want to get ride of/ donate. Love this video. I can't wait to do the challenge.

[@KaylaKempers]

Brianna McCarthy omg Brianna over here with an amazing tip 👏🏼 makes me want to do it again 😂

[@staceyrupps9260]

The Minimalists! Listen to their podcast while decluttering! I find having them talking while I’m cleaning is so inspirational. Helps to stay on track while taking on a huge project

[@jeannebowes2898]

We are seniors so we have two garage sales a year. I sift the house constantly and saleable items are stored. I donate once a week to the homeless and food bank to keep current.

[@TheKnowledgeCrusade]

I could get lost in the way you smile. It’s enchanting and absolutely captivating! 🌟😍

[@icedcoffeeandbookss]

Hey for the digital declutter: Go through your friends list and following list too!

[@KaylaKempers]

this is a great idea!

[@tequishabraden7260]

This was phenomenal! I did the opposite, 1 per day. But each family member participated as well. It was so rewarding to see what we didn't really reach for and be able to share that with someone else! And the best part of it all was that we don't spend all of our time looking for lost items because they now have a home! Great video! Love your energy!

[@elizabethbrundagemediajour150]

When you talked abour getting rid of or donating the jewelry sorter that reminded me of Don Aslett in his book " Clutters Last Stand" talks about decluttering and also getting rid of what is called "junk bunkers" the clutter container, boxes etc. Loved your video.

[@Debbiesdilemmas]

Its unfortunate that most of us deal with our stress in unhealthy ways. Some shop too much, some eat too much, some do both.....like me.😥 Of course there are others that do much more harm to themselves than this. At least if we recognize it we can get help and correct it our vices.

[@BombTheWhiteHouse]

Poor bitch u want a cookie

[@IfYouMeetAWolf]

@@BombTheWhiteHouse Who hurt you?

[@mrzkking3391]

I did both. I'm stopping both cold turkey.

[@CadetPrivateRawr]

Same. Eat too much. Shop too much. No intention of stopping. *shrug* I prefer to think of it as a challenge for balance. Shop more, declutter more. Eat more, workout more. "Balance." "Harmony." I'm great with excuses. :]

[@Debbiesdilemmas]

Mark yes please. Do you want to bring me one. I was making a joke. I’m actually the perfect weight and so what if I wasn’t? Are you a mean person in general or just online in the security of your own home?

[@kelliebontrager8706]

I never would have thought about the digital purge. Its so creative and important. I like how you handled the challenge.

[@michelledalenaa]

Bone china is sturdier than stoneware, btw. It's a common misconception that it is more delicate. In fact, when I purged, I got rid of all of my other dishes and kept only my good china. I have no choice but to use it every day. I put it in the dishwasher too. No issues.

[@barbwagner967]

Interesting approach. I liked most of what you did. My only exception is that I do buy packs of pens at Office Depot and don't mind having back up pens. I don't want to have to run to the store when one runs dry. :-)

[@monyscell8352]

That's where fountain pens really save the day (and the planet too) - you can tell when you need ink and just refill it over and over. And if you like to have different colors you can just have a couple different bottles of ink. They write much better (oh, the joys of REAL ink!) and it saves tons of waste plastic. Cheaper in the long run too. I'll never go back to using ballpoint pens. I'd encourage everyone to try it - you've never really written until you've written with a fountain pen. It'll improve your handwriting and it's so much more fun :)

[@barbwagner967]

@@monyscell8352 My daughter journals faithfully and is a fountain pen and fine ink connoisseur. But I would not want to use fountain pens when I am grading stacks and stacks of papers and recording grades in a gradebook. Thus, I buy packs of pens at Office Depot.

[@auntiali9344]

Ugh on fast fashion. I remember growing up my mom and I would sort through my clothes and the winter - or summer - clothes were packed up and put away. I think a lot of people would have a lot of room in their closets if they did that.

[@427skies]

I wear the same thing all year around. :/

[@robbien.3964]

427IndigenousSkies Same here.

[@TresChica88]

Well done! And I really appreciate you mentioning digital clutter.

[@KaylaKempers]

thank you so much!

[@ikrobiee]

I purge things at least three times a year. I find jewellery the hardest! Last year I got rid of most of it and I realized how little I wear. Now I can invest in pieces I will love for a long time.

[@babyroses12]

@Butterfly McQueen love your handle " don't know nothin' bout birthing babies" 😘

[@shirsmi5533]

Inspiring. I’m going to clear out some things right now. We put a 33 gallon trash can in our garage. Every day we will look at an area in our home and see what can be released. Then donate the good stuff that is weighing us down. Thank you. 😀

[@jeneva]

love this video :) I have been decluttering for a while now but since I dont have the time to do it everyday, once a week or so I go back to the same places and continue to declutter what I don't see necessary anymore. Sometimes I keep stuff and come back a week later and I'm like wait no lol I dont need this!

[@asisqueezylovediary6474]

I did that minimalist challenge is on my channel and that was only start of the full minimalist decluttering I did after. This is amazing start. I loved that challenge

[@greebo9859]

I'm so glad you said you shop when you are stressed that's just what I do.

[@cindynorris5983]

I am so going to do this staring in November. It'll be a no-buy, no-need November! Christmas present shopping doesn't count but I want buy anything for me. Mission declutter is on! Thanks for the inspiration!

[@shaunar7068]

You for your channel 🥰 💜love it!!! and referring to Matt D Avella😁

[@talkswithyazz]

Im inspired!! I’m going to do this challenge and film it too!! Thanks for sharing!!

[@BarbaraEyre]

Well done, Kayla. Everyone's situation is going to be different, depending on household sizes. And since yours was small, you supplemented with the electronic purge. Nice work.

[@katieglassie4264]

Love the idea of a digital clear out!

[@Jendalynne]

You’re such a breath of fresh air! 🤗

[@bethanyfish9085]

Kayla, I just wanted to say that you are so beautiful, also I love this video! Thanks for the inspiration!😃🤙

[@SimplyBeautiful516]

Me: oh that’s awesome that you realize you don’t need a bone china tea cup and saucer. Also me: But it’s sooo Sooo beautiful! Are you sure?? And that my friends is why I’m decluttering.. . again.

[@julietibbetts9262]

Omg me 😭

[@kaitlyne1870]

Same. I'm like: "I'm so glad she realized she didn't need that. ... I wish she could give it to me. I'd take it if I was one of her friends!" 😂

[@SimplyBeautiful516]

Katie Rosa I know, right?!!! 🤦‍♀️

[@SM-yd8hq]

The gold container would make a great terrarium.

[@petra.dreambig]

You look like a cute mix of blake lively and jenna marbles 😍 love the video!!

[@samantharowley125]

The minimalism game you're doing began with "The Minimalists", the guys who Matt D'Avella directed in the documentary Minimalism. Great job digging for more stuff.

[@kaylahutchinson9892]

I love your necklaces in the beginning of the video! Where did you get them?

[@Pealeah]

go Kayla! Can't believe I'm just coming across your channel!!! this is amazing!

[@lauraann7816]

I am attempting this this year. I just have to try not to get discouraged if I slip a little. Like most of us tend to be, I am too hard on myself at times. I have a chore chart for one chore a day for 30 days in January - hopefully the 31st will be my reward day. It's the 4th, and I am on schedule so far. I had a total of 21 items from the areas I worked on so far - literal junk like a broken spoon - a cracked serving spoon - and expired bottles of medicine. I tossed them all at once - trying to break my hoarding and procrastination. So I am good up until tomorrow with the declutter "game" . I am actually looking forward to finding 6 things for Monday

[@elevenaffirmations5821]

did you do it?

[@lauraann7816]

As it got closer to the end of the month naturally it got harder to find items in the larger numbers. I did continue through though even if I didn't quite reach the goal number. I figured keeping up the good habit was still worth doing. Thank you for asking 😀

[@elevenaffirmations5821]

@@lauraann7816 thanks :)

[@patriciajohnsonson8639]

OMG, How many small shirts do you need? Good for you to get rid of them!

[@rawveganfruitarian7290]

🍍🍍🍍 WHYYYYYYY do you guys have blasting music? The volume level is all over the place.

[@lilascharmante2712]

I agree, it's important to keep the levels of sound reasonably similar!

[@loreneknight9755]

Yes!!

[@charlottesmith8037]

Great video, bit random but the plant growing down your book case what plant is that? I want one!!!

[@KaylaKempers]

It's called a pothos plant/Devil's Ivy I believe. Super easy to care for!

[@charlottesmith8037]

Thank you much I will look into that xxx

[@beablack7014]

You kinda look like Blake Lively

[@kelliebontrager8706]

Bee Kosmoski ok so i never would have thought it up on my own but you are so right!! Especially blake from sisterhood of the traveling pants

[@111-d9t]

theminimalists.com started this challenge. Interesting articles on their homepage

[@111-x5x]

I have known about the minimalists.com for ages - nothing new to me. Check out minimum life on the internet. Interesting aricles to read.

[@KR-os6nn]

Awesome!! Thank you for sharing. Can you do a follow-up video of your tips and tricks? I want to do it! 😊🙌♥️

[@JolieUTU]

Good job! And so pretty, like Blake Lively's younger sister!

[@MysticManifesting]

You put all your clothes on the bed and then needed a pizza break. LOL. You are in trouble, girlfriend. Good luck! (Now I want pizza.)

[@Debbiesdilemmas]

When you mentioned Value Village I thought you must be Canadian.😊

[@elizapedia7045]

Simple suggestion is to trade on bunz

[@ItsEmilyNicole]

this is a good idea! i might try it

[@Starry_Night_Sky7455]

Does anyone ask where all this stuff will go? I mean if we're just dumping it in the landfill that seems kind of wrong, no? This whole downsizing of stuff is super trendy, so hmmm.....just a thought. I'm thinking of what the heck to do with stuff I'm setting free. When I do a clean up of my living space, I'm reminded that there's a bit too much stuff in the world being over produced by humans. Like, where does it all go eventually? All this stuff isn't sustainable. I'm so aware now. Think about all of the people dotting the planet that are *not* aware nor care about where all this stuff will go? We kind of don't need to create more landfill stuff. Uh, no. Done thinking out loud here. Luv the video! Getting rid of stuff is a lot of work.

[@KaylaKempers]

Bonnie Hundley I actually donate everything that I have to value village, and I know they resell it 🥰 or I’ll consign it as well. Before I do any of that I usually ask all my friends and family if they want anything and that helps too!

[@heatherluna5075]

Why'd ya get rid of your hockey stick. That got me little nervous. Hahahaha

[@KaylaKempers]

Heather Luna because I don’t play anymore so it wasn’t in use. I donated it to a used sports equipment shop

[@unawkward7276]

I have too much stuff!!! 😩 But i get attached to stuff too easily 😩 Kay great video ❤️❤️ You are the only channel that has the bell turned on ❤️❤️❤️

[@Marz2598]

Unawkward I’m there rn. I’ve decluttered a lot but feel very guilty about getting rid of it. Either I’ve spent my money or someone else has spent money. And although I donate a lot of it i still feel bad :(

[@kalynbarrett1446]

Just curious, as someone who has never moved in there life... why do you move so much?

[@KaylaKempers]

because I'm in university and haven't had the same house the whole time. And if I go to my parents during the summer I have to move everything in the spring and then again in the fall

[@Rebecca-ld9mu]

Kalyn - I love to move! The longest I've ever lived in a home before moving was five years (and that was the first five years of my life). I get antsy after a while and love the change.

[@amberbramson2477]

My biggest question: What did you do with the majority of your items you got rid of?

[@KaylaKempers]

A few nicer clothes I brought to consignment, but most of the clothes and other household things I just donated to Value Village. Before I donate I usually ask friends or family if they want anything as well.

[@Simply_rat99]

That China set was technically 2 items.

[@seren4931]

Your hair 😍😍😍

[@teresamontenegro220]

The plastic thingy u can re use i say...

[@marissahoward1318]

i’m gonna take a pizza break ive never related more lol

[@nicolereadstarot]

"I don't wear lipstick." (Has lipstick on in the next clip) lol

[@KaylaKempers]

i definitely did not wear lipstick in this video 😅 I have pretty pink lips

[@kimprice1864]

I would like to see your apt with your stuff gone.

[@boboloko]

"The first day I got rid of my pants."

[@heatherluna5075]

Great job. Wow.

[@suzannehart8834]

465 items!

[@PunchJetsonCC]

Great Vlog!

[@carolinereterink1924]

I came across your video and this may sound really strange, because I think you are American. I think you look really dutch, this may sound weird but i was wondering if you are?

[@KaylaKempers]

I'm actually Dutch-Canadian ! so you're right :)

[@JN-go2yq]

That bone China cup looked awesome on your shelf. Such a pity you got rid of it.

[@tylerpeterson160]

I liked your video alot I dont understand why there are so many negative comments....

[@KaylaKempers]

Taylor Peterson thank you 🥰 I think that just always happens when a video gets a lot of views

[@57waterlily]

great job!👍

[@aizac.1979]

Has anybody told u u look like Blake Lively??? Ur gorgeous btw 😁!!!

[@KaylaKempers]

Awe haha thank you! Yes I’ve gotten that a few times, along with Jenna Marbles all the time 😝💛

[@Simply_rat99]

30 days = 465 items. I own less than 50 items... lol I cant even do this challenge.

[@sunflowers730]

Umm, pens run out of ink. That's why you have more than one of a color

[@taesspochkah]

Awesome video👍

[@DanielDavidHanks]

I kind of wish you showed a clip of you eating pizza LOL

[@marieke4727]

Do you have Dutch roots?

[@KaylaKempers]

I am half Dutch 😊

[@marieke4727]

@@KaylaKempers yeah...I thought so when I saw your last name. I am from the Netherlands, hallo✌. Leuke video's! Groetjes

[@Simply_rat99]

Sounds like you arent a hoarder. You just are a shopper. I'm a eat outer. So I dont collect things. But I still spend too much money.

[@fabulouslifeinchrist1349]

You look Scandinavian like Danish specifically.

[@teresamontenegro220]

Somewhere else in the house

[@sarah3796]

I don’t like this challenge. It’s just numbers. Konmari is life 🥰

[@sarah3796]

Oh man Americans buy a lot of clothes

[@lorikorstanje2964]

W at to go

[@Hansblender]

Who moves a couple times a year? OK...

[@rachelkearney8935]

A student?¿

[@rachelkearney8935]

Someone who likes adventure?¿

[@أممحمد-و3غ9ض]

I wish im thine like you. Which i used to be

[@thatthieff]

GHOST :U Heheh.

[@davidgarridoecunha7102]

If you keep shoping and hoarding you are not a minimalist...

[@ruthgoddard6539]

Why do you people want to get rid of everything. Clutter is not goid but i do not think it makes a person happy to get rid of everything.i think its just the new craze and after it looses its apeal it will be gone.and most think becayse the do it so should everone else.like it ir not.I have see thise that are so addicked to getting rud if stuff that even when nothing is left they keep trying to find things. It is a sickness just like hoarding is.

[@KaylaKempers]

I'm not sure if you watched the video, but I didn't get rid of LITERALLY everything. I simply decluttered and removed excess things that I didn't actually need or enjoy having. Which I think is totally healthy

[@KaylaKempers]

not to mention if you actually did watch the whole video you'd know that for the last week I didn't even get rid of anything physical and specifically mentioned that people still need to own things to live and be happy. For some people it is an extreme habit, but for me it isn't and I certainly didn't encourage the extremism side of minimalism. It may be more beneficial for you to comment on videos that you've fully watched and videos that actually encourage negative behaviour, rather than the videos of those who are genuinely trying to help people

[@ruthgoddard6539]

@@KaylaKempers i am sorry that i misjudged you i stopped watchinh because i thought it was going the way so many have gone. I owe you and apology. I dont like clutter.but i also dont like videos saying we need to throw everything out. One lady slept on a hammock and had a paper chair

[@mathildep56]

I started on my minimalism journey in 2016 and it made me a lot more calm. So it did make me happy. Its about eliminating things you do not need. You do not need to get rid of everything, that's not the point

[@mathildep56]

Its just to remove the excess. It can help on a lot of things xxx

[@111-d7d3r]

If you say I am getting rid of everything, then you would have nothing. You would be naked, no passport or...... So what you actually mean is : Getting rid of most of my things 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@111-x5x]

@Margherita Pomptuch No it is not. She should have written Getting rid of most of/a lot of my things. Everything = all things So my remark is perfectly valid FYI. Just a matter of correct English usage. Thank you.

[@Evelyn-dc8nf]

you look like blake lively

[@giennefarcais6834]

This is pointless and unhelpful. So you throw out a certain number of things a day. Is that worth an entire video?

[@throughcolouredglasses9300]

I liked it. It's nice to see other humans go through processes that I have to go through too like downsizing and decluttering. I like hearing other people's thoughts on why they get rid of things because they make me think about my own stuff and whether or not I really need it or why I think I do.

[@tessroorda7375]

If you have that view on videos like this then KZbin is not the place for you

[@yelenawhitmer1329]

OMG! You are really need mental help. So much stuff! I can’t even breathe...

[@KaylaKempers]

oof if you think I have a lot of stuff I hope you never see the insides of the houses of the rest of the population... you'll have a full on conniption 😂

[@kritikitti3868]

Keep what you want. Find new homes for what you don't want. Whatever. How bout a trip to the hairdresser for a nice trim. Then stop flapping your hair around. SOOO DISTRACTING. Stop saying 'like' when it isn't needed. 😲

[@KaylaKempers]

you really just came here to spread some negativity huh... interesting

[@gretaeder5996]

Kayla Kempers this is the first video I’ve seen of yours but I thought your hair was beautiful! I have long blond hair as well and I enjoy it. Plus little things like playing with your hair are habits and mindless actions that aren’t easy to just stop doing. Also, for me personally, I’m awkward in front of cameras and tend to do certain quirks when I am being recorded. So yeah, sure you flicked your hair back a lot but I didn’t find it bad or distracting. And yes, nowadays so many people put excessive “like”s in our sentences-I do it constantly-but because of how most of our society is in the habit of doing it, I don’t think it’s proper to be judged for it. Man, reading through comments shows just how critical the internet is....keep doing what you are Kayla💕👍

[@renysimone3312]

Very rude & so unnecessary.

[@rachelbutler4188]

That comment was like so unnecessary

[@lornagoodman1891]

I didn't find her distracting at all! Thanks for a great video.