Getting Through the Holidays

I know I've been awful! I haven't posted in awhile but I've been loving all the comments and support we've been showing each other. Talking about grieving during the holidays today and also announcing my Facebook group! Come join us in a community of widows/widowers to support each other, vent, cry, etc.
xo
Weez

[@chiamakaonuoha4857]

Hello weez. I lost the love of my life six weeks ago and your page has kept me sane. Please would love to see more videos from you because your video uplifts me when I am having a terrible day. chiamaka from Nigeria

[@laurenelizabeth7525]

Hey Lindsay! I've been missing your videos. I hope that life is treating you kindly!

[@lifeofweez8225]

Lauren Elizabeth you are the sweetest. Thank you for being a support and a friend

[@laurenelizabeth7525]

Lindsay, I so love your transparency! Thank you for being so brave to share the memories of your last Christmas with Jake. I can only imagine how hard that was, and how hard this year is going to be. I just kind of numb out during the holidays, and trudge through them, but I always seem to fall apart right afterwards. I guess I'm just weird like that. It's also not easy to grieve in front of my new husband (which I think I've said that before). I admire you for making new traditions in honor of Jake. I wish I could do the same thing. And I'm so glad your new guy is so understanding! You're right, it is hard for them too. I work hard to be as sensitive as I can to my new husband, so I just use any opportunity alone to unleash some grief. Mine happens a lot in the car too! -Random subject change here- I just finished watching the series "Offspring" on Netflix, and it was soooo good. Without releasing spoilers for the show... it's so worth widows to watch! About the 4th season in is where we can relate to the main character immensely! I cried and cried, but in a good way! Plus, the show was really funny at times too! I totally recommend watching it if you have any down time! You are in my continual thoughts and prayers! I pray you navigate this season with grace for each and every day:) Your strength is amazing, and I thought you should know that.

[@lifeofweez8225]

Lauren Elizabeth I love getting your perspective as a remarried widow. It’s something that I am starting to see in my future which excites and terrifies me. It’s so nice to get your perspective. I completely relate to falling apart after holidays/events. I was completely fine on Thanksgiving then cried for a week straight after! Also- I am definitely going to check out the show. I love finding things I can relate to. Crying is hard but also so therapeutic. Hugs and prayers to you too ♥️

[@travislee7698]

I hope you post again one day.

[@lifeofweez8225]

Travis Lee I just actually did... finally. I wish I would have done a year update just to stay connected with all of you but it felt nice to sit down and talk again. Thank you for the support!

[@angelajackson90688]

Love u sis, I to have a new boyfriend now, we are taking it slow because of so much pain I feel for my ex that's past away but it is nice to not be alone and having some one to talk to but it will never feel the same as it was with me and Stanley but Im trying, yes its gonna be hard doing theses holidays and our anniversary is coming up on the 2 of dec I will be crying a lot before, doing, and after this will be my first Christmas with out him, but all I can do is keep moving forward and staying strong for my kids love u and god loves u to sis talk to u later

[@ashley3461]

Angela Jackson Don't worry about it feeling the same. No relationship is alike. Just be in the moment and enjoy yourself. You deserve some happiness after all of that pain.

[@lifeofweez8225]

Angela Jackson the first part of dating was pretty rough- especially trying to figure out how to separate and not compare the relationships- so hard!- but I am really thankful it worked out. I hope all went well with the new boyfriend, I’d love an update! I love your strength and faith. Thank you for sharing

[@ashley3461]

Hey beautiful! Can you email me your address (or a p.o. box)? I have something for you. And yes Christmas was hard. I spent the first Christmas without him with my parents. It would have been too hard to wake up at my house without him. Did you say you have a blog? I would love to read it! 👑 Keep your chin up! Love and hugs, beautiful!

[@lifeofweez8225]

Ashley ! So good to hear from you. I need to get a P.O. Box and then I’ll post it soon. I’m nervous about not being home for Christmas but that’s true that it will be harder Home and not waking up with him. Ha ha ha and no just my channel. Sometimes I refer to it as my Vlog. Just me mixing things up and confusing everyone ha. You are so sweet to send something. I will get that address posted soon.

[@ashley3461]

Life of Weez That sounds good. I also need to like email you a picture of me or send it in your package so you know who you're talking to. You haven't posted in awhile (which I understand, if I had a KZbin I would be terrible at updating it! 😂) but I hope you're doing ok. This can be a hard time, but it can be a beautiful time for you too as well. You're doing great though, and you are stronger than you realize. I know I've told you that before but I feel like you need to hear it again. And as always, my thoughts, prayers, and love are with you.