Girl Chat: Always a Bridesmaid, Never a Bridesmaid Again!

Adrienne Houghton, Jeannie Mai, Loni Love, and Tamera Mowry-Housley chat about the struggles of being a bridesmaid! They also discuss a new law in Illinois regarding hairstylists reporting cases of domestic violence and balancing the holidays with multiple families. If you are a part of more than one family, how do you juggle the holiday season?
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[@isabellejoseph3387]

When Tamera said the food was different I lost it😂😭😂

[@gabriellaking5859]

Tam lets Jeanie n Loni do all the work, then tells Adrienne "whatever you need, I'm at your service," hilarious 😂😂...!!

[@EloquentlyEse]

The black girl in green at 4:16.... dayuuum girl. You are a stunner!

[@three7446]

Tia and Tamara have such friendly faces that’s where their beauty comes from

[@jasi7313]

Loni did not need to go there with the salt and pepper lmaoooo

[@chinweofuru8974]

J Woods 😂😂😂

[@michellemartinez7445]

Exactly my thoughts lol

[@hannahfrahm8069]

I’m taking my class on Domestic Violence this weekend for my cosmetology license!!!

[@riseup6112]

Out of curisotiy why doyou need thatfor cosmetology

[@shelocsher2396]

Go girl! Congratulations!!

[@Hi-gg8rp]

@@user-kx9lc9lf6t exactly

[@user-kx9lc9lf6t]

Iman Khan and it should be allowed

[@Hi-gg8rp]

@@user-kx9lc9lf6t beating women should be allowed??

[@eileenvelazquez3958]

The way she said "the food was a little different" lol

[@MajesticMyronn]

If this show continues past 2020 ( which I’m positive it will ) once Israel & Adrienne reach 5 years we have to look back at this clip and their wedding and see how far they’ve come as husband and wife and Hopefully a family

[@utube2825]

I wonder if Adrienne will be able to have a child?

[@indirects868]

utube What the hell is that supposed to mean?

[@utube2825]

@@indirects868 .....it just means she needs to start trying asap, as shes aleeady 36 or so

[@Jelena2022]

That man has at least 6 kids. He should be done. Adrienne needs a divorce.

[@sxyteesa0890]

Well said same here I was very codependent and suspect my husband was narcissistic. I left him a month ago. I was pissed at first but now I see I need God to heal us and he needs to go to therapy or else we'll be done

[@AshiyaWhitley-ShawVeganAthlete]

The food was "different"... SO relatable!😬😂😂😂

[@Dori90210]

I love listening to how these ladies were so involved in A’s wedding! It’s like The Real version of Sex & the City😍

[@laydeeleshay5897]

Adrienne is in denial about how much work everyone had to put in at her wedding but in her eyes it was awesome... well obviously! You were the center of attention of course you couldn’t see it for what it was

[@Julia93939393]

.....girl, it was her wedding day

[@laydeeleshay5897]

@@Julia93939393 lol okay?

[@damiengarbutt7229]

Tam's positivity is so inspirational.

[@valerieahjahli9526]

This is so true. The last time I was a bridesmaid, I not only paid for all my bridesmaid stuff, I did everyone's hair (because I'm a hairstylist 🙄), planner, fixer, psychologist/counselor and janitor. A mess🤦🏾

[@DanielleRenee_]

loni is tht friend who be wanting to take over EVERYTHING and get all the praise and thanks but then complain about the amount of work she had to do

[@christina2311]

That's how cancers are. Cancer the zodiac sign.

[@shelocsher2396]

Yes! Same way she “loves” to be there for Tam&Adams babies but complains about how much of her life it takes up 🙄😩

[@mayalicious203]

yea shes def one of those ppl lol

[@LarryOfilms]

Yup, constantly reminds them what a good friend she is and all the work she does for them.

[@aalexttostado]

me

[@CourtGeorgee]

All of these clips from 2016 Adrienne looks the best she’s ever looked 😭 so so gorgeous

[@hlross3574]

I honestly just wish we would start talking more about all forms of abuse... including the most ignored of them all... child abuse.

[@hannahwalmer1124]

Male abuse is definitely the most ignored

[@hlross3574]

@@hannahwalmer1124 Nowadays, that is being talked about much more than in the past. Thankfully.

[@brownsierra2607]

Hannah Walmer for sure

[@MrAllysonn]

Horrible one. I am a victims of it

[@MrAllysonn]

@Oh Absolutely Not! They usually go in the same category. Physical, mentally and emotional abused is also financial is a part of it.

[@tcoleman6167]

I love how LOUD Jeannie is! It's so comforting! Cause my house is LOUD!! 🗣🗣

[@sugar6718]

In South Africa we don't buy gifts for Christmas our Christmas is more about the food

[@reginahsimako8703]

they killed this show the minute they hired Amanda Seales. look at the chemistry these ladies had amongst themselves :(

[@CR38ion]

Seales was truly a nightmare, a bad era of the real 🤧

[@Deedeex2.00]

@@CR38ion I'm happy they have Garcelle now😩

[@stephanier4200]

I’ve said this for along time! People stoped watching because of her! 💯 right

[@okayimbackwhateverjones]

Wait no, I feel like Amanda made the show the REAL Real. But also, yes, she does from reports and commentary etc seem to be on 24/7 just as she represents herself to be on tv, so folks need to be prepared for that

[@stephaniehernandez719]

12:00 "HA HA" Loni laugh has me dying everytime!!! 😂

[@turnippoppy4662]

Two of my best friends are hairstylists. And yes we live in IL. They love this BC they truly do see and hear lot of things.

[@TheCMCDM]

My question is where the heck was Adrienne’s sister? Wasn’t she the actual maid of honor? Lol

[@Ela2828]

Honestly tho

[@niamenifee7415]

Probably with the kids they were the flower girls.

[@yyoo1294]

Adrienne probably didn't want her sister doing all the work.

[@dd5961]

I love these ladies! All so genuine.

[@Thewifelife40]

Adrienne saying her husband is a "man man" as if a man who wants to spend time with their families aren't men🤦🏾‍♀️

[@lafamiliananai3716]

Damn I don’t care how old this is, I felt Jeannie when she was talking about going back home and you’re back to being a 15yo! YAS YAS YASSSSS!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 love that feeling!!

[@dr.dermixgirlmd7479]

Bartenders and massage therapists should get this domestic violence training too.

[@Nananadadadawoo]

This is too real because I didnt even realize something was wrong with my health until my esthetician showed me before and after pics of my skin but most importantly told me how visible my weight loss was ( 120 to 98 pounds in a couple months) and asked if everything was ok

[@MajesticMyronn]

As far as mixed families go... we try our best and to get everybody to come together and be in such a loving and positive environment any time we get together ! Every family isn’t perfect but just because they aren’t doesn’t mean they’re dysfunctional ! So due away with the drama and try to keep the energy light , especially for the children ! It’s the holidays... you can atleast let it be gone for that one time EVERYBODY is together

[@commonerror420]

I love adrienne and Israels way of celebrating the holidays, the WHOLE family together in one place.

[@tvm-growthisunlimited9023]

Tamera was glad to serve because she barely did anything. lol

[@Andelyesther]

love love love love this shows

[@joncoreysmith3178]

The holiday season is a great season! A season to give. A season to learn. A season to exchange with those we care and cherish most. The holiday season shouldn't go un-noticed. #Holiday Season #Season Greetings #Gift Exchange

[@vturner]

did the bridesmaid thing ONCE as a REPLACEMENT and im never doing it again.

[@dulce141]

jeannie's hair is a perfect triangle lol never been a fan of this hairstyle she always does, she looks gorgeous with her hair down

[@TiSa1985]

I Love Tamara, I love Tia and Tamara. I grew up watching their TV show and it was one of my favorites. ❤️❤️❤️

[@UnlikelyAngel14]

Where was Julissa, Claudette, and Ashley? 😂 These ladies are her sisters!

[@hopemartinez7629]

Whichever family gives me a guild trip and tried to manipulate is the family that I choose second. My husband and I aren’t down with being manipulated

[@BattleAngel20]

It hurts dosent when own fam toy with u... How do u deal?

[@empressking1647]

So why'd Loni did all that?? Where was the Maid of honor. (Her sister) or Loni was the host.

[@saayehbahary6757]

Loni did not just read the "s" at the end of Illinois, it's silent lol.

[@sammierose1150]

Saayeh Bahary I’m trilingual (English, Spanish, and French - in the order I learned them) and the intended original pronunciation is “EE-lee n’wah” *phonetically* 💁🏽‍♀️

[@cjay5995]

Love this episode

[@mmu6840]

Bing watched the real all week now it’s time for some helloooo hunnnnayyy binging 😂

[@sexyblack9016]

"This should be a piece of cake"😂😂😂😂lololol

[@rachelleanimals1367]

The other video they talk about how easy it was for them when they were in their friends wedding. Yeah bc you are famous! For normal people being a MOH & bridesmaid is so stressful & costs a lot of money

[@zaraaaaaa4733]

All of the girls makeup is slaying today

[@rachaelkopp3792]

I been a bridesmaid 2x and after the first I said I would never do it again. I caved for a best friend this past summer and I traveled 1,000 miles, it was a hot mess and I'm super OCD!So of course to get the wedding to move smoothly I had to like take over! THE ONLY other person I would do it for is my OG BFF and then I'm done. Its alot of work!! You have to go to all the dress appts, crafts, bridal shower planning, party, set up, wedding, reception, speaches, doing everything for bride, then you have to clean up the reception! At least for most ppl who can't afford party planners, etc! I got one more wedding left n then I'm retiring my bridesmaids cap!!

[@shanforshort8713]

Adrienne’s contour is magical her nose looks so different here.

[@allcreatedbyonegoodgod.156]

so Tamara was feelin' herself *that night* and turned out to be the Boujie Lush 😄😄

[@realtalk9404]

Omg can y’all stop dissing Loni like this is videos from 2016 like we all know that her makeup has been amazing this season 😍 let’s stop judging like people are negative on social media

[@madisonsparks5783]

Please just have these 4 again 😭

[@cwchris_]

I had a separated family, so we would just split the day, or spend actual thanksgiving with mom and then the next day w dad. Same with Christmas, Christmas Eve with mom (my grandma also worked Christmas Day so this worked out perfectly) Christmas Day w dad.

[@marylinehappy8504]

Men I get that you may lose your clients trust but it’s better than someone loosing their life. Many , way too many lose their lives over this. Please do what it takes to help anyone in that position!

[@winxclubfairiesrule1]

Thats true but think if somebody went ahead and said something before the client was ready, not only would she be losing the client and her trust, but now she wouldn't be in the loop of what was going on anymore which is even more dangerous. At least before somebody knew what was going, so they could keep an eye on things.

[@mondophakathi324]

Loni can be funny, You should have brought some salt and Pepper...🤣🤣🤣

[@starlagrace1804]

Loni is such a great friend

[@petitedebby5365]

I am not trying to be shady or anything like that, but I think they need to address whoever does Loni's makeup. She is such a beautiful dark skinned woman and this is not the first time they have given her the wrong shade of foundation/concealer. It seems as if the darker skinned you are the less they have your shade or know how to do your make-up, I say this from personal experience as I am dark skinned and it has happened with make-up artists. They need to change this, we are in 2019.

[@tileyscharfenstine8173]

Deborah Onafowokan this vid was in 2016.... it’s old.... do you not see the Christmas trees...

[@petitedebby5365]

@@tileyscharfenstine8173 ohhh thank goodness, thanks for telling me that xx

[@blaq_betty]

Yes ikr i experience such too but its gotten better this episode is old

[@petitedebby5365]

@@blaq_betty definitely. I am glad that things are changing, and now more companies acknowledge darker skinned women like us xx

[@blaq_betty]

@@petitedebby5365 yes and you share the same name with my mum Onafowokan

[@user-ik5sn2ew7g]

‘Your glam knows everything about you’, then why can’t they find the right colour make up for Loni’s skin? Making her look like Michael Jackson’s half cousin.

[@Al3xandra4812]

C8 Not to mention the bronzer on Adrienne...

[@gbeez2303]

@@Al3xandra4812 adde said she does her own makeup

[@damiengarbutt7229]

🤣 You tried it.

[@hlross3574]

This video is almost 3 years old. Also, Loni has said that this is how she liked her make up to look back then.

[@blaq_betty]

Its not a recent segment

[@rosaelegniarodriguez413]

Love how the videos are longer 😩

[@lamarshalewis5380]

I get and understand loni’s point.

[@seasonedqueen6960]

Tamera is beautiful honestly

[@Julia93939393]

This video is the perfect summary of these girls as friends... Loni: Will help but needs everyone to know every little detail she did Tamera: Talks a lot about how selfless she is but barely did anything Jeannie: Helps her friend and doesn't need to brag about it 😅🙃

[@golgoatha1642]

You can tell this an old video bc Loni makeup artist did her wrong. #AshyToAshy #DustToDust

[@RODDY.8]

Golgoatha LMFAOOOOO YOU’RE HILARIOUS

[@daejay2800]

😂 #ashytoashy #dustytodusty

[@natalia150598]

WORD!

[@HA4203___]

Lmao

[@ashleerenaelarsen8543]

@@daejay2800 ✔

[@AuroraP4t3L]

A lot of abused women are isolated and do not have money for a hair dresser. I'm glad the industry is trying to help, I just don't know how much it will.

[@jasi7313]

Abuse is not isolated to a certain class. If any women can be helped, it's worth it.

[@zollnushka]

Spending as much time with family as possible sounds great and all. Sadly, though, that's not always possible because one lives on a completely different continent, the tickets are outrageous, and one just may not have the funds to make the trip more than once a year/ two years, if even that...

[@malenahernandez9377]

Tamera always says how humble and helpful she's. But the truth is she's a spoiled celebrity, that's why she didn't gave a F about Adrienne's wedding. She's like a sweet person with words but not a hands on friend.

[@unknownunknown4029]

If the police come to you and ask, you have to tell the truth or it could be considered obstruction. If you are fired for cooperate with the police, your employer will be at jeopardy. They sometimes are not fully informed.

[@amethystwolf24572]

Its not just what you overhear, though. Physical abuse can really come out in places you wouldn't expect. Emergency appt where they're looking to cover up a missing chunk of hair? Bruises showing up on the scalp and nape of the neck? All kinds of way things like this can show up.

[@queenraiok91]

We go to my Mom's side Christmas eve and Christmas day we go to my Dad's side.

[@kaneiliaaakaneilia8896]

Ima need to speak to person in charge of posting picture

[@egyptjohnson8076]

Paned to the crowed and not a single person was cheering 😂😂

[@sarahwells1362]

I was the MOH for my sister's wedding earlier this year, and I swear after that I will never be an MOH for anyone ever again! I love my sis, but tbh she was a total bridezilla. Even though the bridesmaids had to pay for their own nails to get done, and her mom and mother- in- law had to pay for their own, she tried to demand that no one was allowed to get french tip on their nails but her (this was only one demand amongst other things). I get it, it's your day hun but you can't demand that no one get french tips but you if you aren't paying for it. After that experience, I'd rather just be a regular bridesmaid so I don't have to deal with all the stress.

[@jasi7313]

Idk maybe I'm a bitch, I feel like it's not unreasonable. Disclaimer I never been a bridesmaid or a bride lol but I feel like on my day my friends and family should be willing to concede some things to me lol

[@KING62915]

11:50 The Food Was a little Different 😂😂😂😂

[@Senglishify]

Loni ALWAYS has to be the centre of attention; no matter what the topic.

[@Julia93939393]

Seriously. Like who tells the bride that they didn't have fun at her wedding? And on T.V?

[@okayimbackwhateverjones]

Love it

[@tileyscharfenstine8173]

OMG THIS IS SO OLD!! I LOVE YALL BUT WHOEVER DOES YALLS CHANNEL NEEDS TO TRY AGAIN!! CAUSE THIS AINT IT!! THIS IS OLDDDDDD!

[@user-kx9lc9lf6t]

Tiley Scharfenstine y’all ain’t ever heard of THROWBACK THURSDAY... just enjoy the damn segment and stop screaming

[@laylateet7253]

Tiley Scharfenstine so what stop complaining and appreciate what you get

[@antjr6929]

Buy the box set

[@lexlandon7689]

I like it because i dont have traditional cable and i like catching up even tho its food

[@brittanycampbell6542]

who cares if this is from 2016 lol i'm only paying attention to the owl in the back that looks like hedwig

[@xarbiestaxxks2312]

brittany campbell omg 😭😭

[@TheSweetForever]

Nah bring that season all. It will save your life 😂.

[@ceeare12345]

If I were Adrienne I’d feel some type of way about Loni complaining so publicly about how she “helped me.” Loni should have spoken up in PRIVATE. NOT ON TV. That was foul. Don’t help someone if you’re gonna embarrass them publicly for it.

[@venomlily1651]

I think all of them are missing the point . There's a stigma surrounding being the perpetual, unfortunate bridesmaid . When couples start pairing up to dance at weddings and you're the ONLY one without a partner, folks tend to pity you . You see it in their eyes, especially as they're passing you . " Isn't it sad that she's the only one here who doesn't have anybody ?" That sort of thing .

[@meenmohamed20]

This is a Throwback video just incase you wondering why it's so long.And ofcoss Loni's make up 🙄

[@becomeacodeher1282]

lonis old makeup artist was HEAVY HANDED. she looks BOMB in the new episodes now tho

[@katiefedele1813]

Damn, jlaw has a lot of friends! I don't have that many friends. Damn.

[@oopsallbecki]

Why are they posting a Christmas episode in March ??

[@MissTrinidadandTobago]

Is Jonathan Bennett the same one from Mean Girls?

[@jae613]

They did Loni wrong with that makeup

[@darlenne7918]

Why didn’t Adrienne have someone else??

[@allthingsgurgicakartalova3240]

Tamera 😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@LiveOutLoud87]

Tamara was NOT happy lol

[@antoinetteconley5644]

Love this video, when tamera said the food was different I lost it 😂😭😭😭😂😂😂, Tam let's Jeanie's n Loni do all the work, then tells Adrienne whatever you need I'm at your service hilarious 🤣🤣🤣,😂😂😂, 🤣🤣🤣, Loni did not need to go there with the salt and pepper imaooooo, the way she the food was a little different lol 🤣🤣🤣, 🤣🤣🤣, 🤣🤣🤣, Tia and Tamara have such friendly faces that's where their beauty comes from,, Ha Ha Loni' laugh has me drying everytime 😂😂😂, 🤣🤣🤣,😂😂😂, 🤣🤣🤣,😂😂😂, 🤣🤣🤣, Loni can be funny 🤣🤣🤣, 🤣🤣🤣, you should have brought some salt and pepper 🤣🤣🤣, 🤣🤣🤣, 🤣🤣🤣 please just have these 4 Again 😭😭😭, 😭😭😭, 😭😭😭, so why'd Loni did all that?? Where was the maid of honor) her sister) or Loni was the host, Loni did not just read the s the end of Illinois it's silent lol 🤣🤣🤣, 🤣🤣🤣, 🤣🤣🤣, love y'all miss y'all keep it up continue watching all on KZbin

[@aishajamari2957]

I miss THIS The Real!!!!!

[@jvmcghee854]

REALLY? WHATS UP WITH THE OLD VIDEO CLIPS? NEW CLIPS PLEASE....

[@jaseholland2836]

Wait staring 2017!?!?

[@samanthaminnie5199]

Ok HELP. So I am a girlfriend. But, I have a daughter. Her father is my boyfriend. But to me, a married couple has more leeway when deciding who to be with on holidays whereas because we are not married, both sets of parents feel some type of way and feel the need to tell us what to do. I tried to alternate but the other family always had negative things to say

[@joncoreysmith3178]

Communication is key

[@hiboahmed8876]

THROWBACK

[@blaq_betty]

Old segment

[@damiengarbutt7229]

How did Loni okay this look? She looks like Mortisha drunk on brown liquor.

[@vanessag.121]

Maybe this is supposed to be a throwback girl chat? 🤔

[@arshalyyy]

And now JLaw is married lol

[@jesusaceves3893]

So she was a bridezilla

[@sugaray7435]

Omg Jeannie girl... hush lol Edit: she reminds me of Vanessa friend on the Cosby show the one that talks soooo fast.... lol

[@nette9836]

Weird, uncomfortable tension during this segment...

[@x3DaDivax3]

shout out to the beauts in the audience 4:16 7:17