GIRL CHAT: Should You Stop Treating Your Man Like One of Your Girlfriends?

[@HappilyNappy000]

No one gossips more than a married couple. My husbands my best friend. We talk about EVERYTHING!!! And its fun to get the male perspective on things. We have great conversations and I love that

[@4knewt505]

That's so sweet. I used to have that and I have friends who have that. Btw, really like your profile name

[@ceairamrc]

Right?? I’d be so sad if I couldn’t gossip with my husband! Whenever I get the tea he’s the first one I wanna spill to 😂Sometimes he’ll text me from work like “Baby when I get home I got some CHISME!!!!” (Chisme is gossip in Spanish lol)

[@bye230]

HappilyNappy000 agreed

[@bremarie3442]

I get it. But there's a separation of gossip. My husband and I gossip not all the time but we spills the tea. But there's some womanly gossips I dont tell him or if I do I keep it brief because he not gonna listen or have anything to add to the convo/gossip like my girlfriend. But it also depends on the type of husband you have. My husband wants to stay in the loop with whats going on with me how I feel and stuff. And if Im not sharing asap he gets a lil mad. But as a woman we do need to keep certain things t o ourselves, so remember that.

[@allysonevans7783]

OMG my fiance is SOOO gossipy!! I love it! He can't wait to get home to tell ms what's happening at his job! Lol ( I used to work there too!)

[@jakerose6949]

I died when Adrienne said, “Lemme find out you a second dad to these kids.” 😂😂😂

[@bethanyraegant9056]

Jake Rose saaaanmmmmeeee😂😂😂

[@OfficialAnthony]

Riiight! I’m screaming! 😂😂😂😂

[@KimmiePie1]

Jake Rose that was a good one 😭😭😂😂

[@bornempath8426]

💀💀💀💀

[@sierrasierra2595]

omg same lmaooo

[@EleashaD]

I'm so tired how people keep putting these "rules" or what to do or what not do on relationships, at the end of the day, every relationship is different smh🙄🙄🙄🙄

[@bunnyixi]

eleasha dorvil this 💯

[@Grace-mr8bc]

Preach.

[@natashamitchell8863]

True, but some of these rules make good sense & can help someone along their journey of discovering what will & what will not work for them.

[@sophiejohnson8416]

eleasha dorvil they aren’t “rules” they’re suggesting IM smh

[@elenavernet8376]

eleasha dorvil exactly

[@rachaelbrown4471]

tam: “I feel like i talk too much” loni: “speak yo truth” 😂😂😂

[@UrbanAfricano93]

Rachael Elizabeth 😂😂😂😂

[@s.melonita4454]

🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

[@damiengarbutt7229]

Palm tree shade right there. 🤣

[@inspirationalempressoflove220]

🤣

[@JoshuaOtusanya]

These women are so damn beautiful!! Just like whoever is reading this comment :)

[@deemarcelin255]

Aww!

[@gracia799]

This made my day 😊

[@nyjelledeb2]

Thank you... wonderful way to start my day

[@Goddessj_]

Awww that you you just made me happy and my day 🤗🤗🤗

[@sinikiwesibanda1463]

Thank you

[@mgmtgirlyeah7493]

Jeannie is the only one who really got what Iyanla meant. She wasn't talking about gossipy men or men who talk about fashion (which btw doesn't make a man effeminate). She meant that men and women can have different viewpoints and you're not going to get your point across if you only focus on how a woman would interpret the situation.

[@vanessawalker5366]

Exactly

[@sabb5829]

Absolutely

[@Shawnta.realestate]

Jeanie is the only one with depth on the panel 😂

[@MajesticMyronn]

Mgmt Girlyeah and Iyanla clearly said “ men think differently “

[@827honey1]

Yep.

[@bethanyraegant9056]

Adrienne “let me find out you a second dad to these kids” 😂😂😂 I love the fact that they finish each other’s sentences!

[@vanessawalker5366]

You can tell Loni is a true friend. Like super dependable and trustworthy. Thats a blessing to have friends like that, bc they definitely not making then like anymore

[@temitopedavid5508]

”I'm not gonna go broke tryna prove I'm not broke to you!✊🏾😭🤩” Loniiiiiiiii!!! Periotttttttttt😘😘

[@Malikx99]

Blue Watermelon 212 lol

[@Vajeakwa]

I swear I’m Tamara “Can u come over?” “Can I cook for u?”. I gotta stop treating my girlfriends like boyfriends😭😂

[@haveagoodday629]

What?!!!! How do I find friends like you? Girl, I would kill for someone to call me with "can I cook for you?" I get calls and texts now from my boyfriend asking me to come over.... But when I go, I'm the one doing the cooking. I'm tired! Sometimes I want to be treated like the boyfriend! 😂😂😂

[@amyrodriguez7621]

Lmao this is so me. But my girls love when I cook.

[@Vajeakwa]

Have a Good Day it’s bitter sweet lol. My friends and even my sister are like “girl 🙄 I’m not ur man” lol

[@blacknsmallbuys]

I end up being that for my friends. I parent their kids and eat well whenever we hangout

[@dashakae2822]

Meeee❗😂

[@dezeraejames7934]

Loni not Tamera's rent-a-friend, she's Tamera's rent-a-husband.

[@Nokss_20]

That made me uncomfortable

[@dezeraejames7934]

@@Nokss_20 What made you uncomfortable?

[@naturallycurlynicole4419]

@@dezeraejames7934 the fact that you said rent-a- husband. Duh lol

[@dinh5532]

Same but I felt like Loni likes being the dude.

[@rochelleborden4825]

Yesss and I love it 😂💕

[@cerisereid]

Lonnie and Tams friendship is the Cutest! 😂😊

[@bijoulareine]

Ikr and I love when they are playful with each other and make fun of each other 😂

[@BeautifulButterfly631]

I love Tamera and Loni's friendship! 🤗

[@reneeramoleta6262]

I agree with Jeannie, once you hang around your crush & absorb that they’re normal, you’ll get over them

[@desireeaniya72]

Adrienne this outfit is EVERYTHING! so classy and sheek ☁️✨

[@desireeaniya72]

haneulk7789 lol thanks 😂

[@jae9581]

My man is super manly lmao but he be like “ Girllllllllll let me tell you this tea” he does it to entertain me😂

[@dare2be520]

i like that, fr

[@jae9581]

Dare 2be me too makes my whole day and he does it all while we shopping for his tools at Home Depot 😂

[@yanisamontour2546]

@@jae9581 😂😂😂 i can picture it

[@diaviw9136]

when loni said “speak your truth” I DIED

[@Deefinewhine]

Avie D 😂😂😂😂😂

[@Tan87ful]

😂😂

[@wynsdaywhite6463]

Heads Up...ALL MEN GOSSIP

[@strawberriesncandii]

Dree Dream That’s so true. They talk mad mess.

[@Denise-ob8dk]

Dree Dream Right they just do it differently so it sounds manly. Lol. Like "guess what dude at the job did today?"

[@shonnie1203]

All people. Humans are social creatures. Gossiping is a social thing.

[@thatruth8900]

Not true

[@dreamyanon5151]

The Truth please don't let it be true 😭

[@darldinaebot3814]

I like Adrienne's view. I don't like talking about my feelings either. I need someone to be vulnerable because I can't to that well. Only close people get to know those details.

[@someonespecial581]

I'm the same way. I tell people my shame story is not for everyone.

[@nicoledavis6344]

Tamera is so pretty love the red and her curls!

[@summerlyric506]

Isn't she gorgeous??

[@empath3133]

Adrianne is such a scorpio haha they hate talking about their feelings 😂

[@indiaxlovee]

Or themselves in depth lol

[@evanaayuzawa6981]

Omg I wanted to write that hahahahaha 😂

[@Shawnta.realestate]

Omg not true. We’re deeply emotional and love to talk about emotions.... or maybe I’m broken

[@aliciapursue8351]

We can't help it!

[@Kbanks203]

@@Shawnta.realestate your moon sign may not be scorpio. Download horos app and find out what it is! & let us know! Lol

[@lexicarrillo9544]

“Let me find out you a second dad to these kids” 😂😂😂😂

[@rhapsodicchimera9768]

😂😂😂

[@JahealJ]

I want me and my partner to talk about anything we want. How bout That?

[@danix6452]

Jaymar Johnson yessss

[@ricardomoseley]

I’m not telling y’all a second time

[@Celine1Love]

We need to stop saying guys don't want to talk about their feelings. It helps EVERYONE!! this is just furthering the stigma making even harder for men to open up. Gotta stop saying and agreeing with things like this ladies...

[@MyGuy18]

👌 we just like to talk about them in a different way.

[@briandafrancies9811]

In a different way how?

[@brookelauren3668]

when tam said “it’s too late now boo i’m married”😂😂😂

[@seirra89]

Balling on a budget: Buy a tub of raw shea butter and add some natural oils to it like coconut oil, peppermint, olive oil, etc. you can use it all over your body and your hair as a moisturizer and since it's all natural you dont have to worry about all the bad stuff that some of the shelf products have.

[@jaykay5086]

The thing about loni being the kids dad is hilarious

[@Benji7586]

Thank you Adrienne for clarifying that not all men are one-worded all the time. 🤦🏻‍♂️ I'm very expressive haha

[@eduardatonga7056]

Who complains about someone sending you “Come over I’ll cook for you” 😂😂😂 Let me take your place, I’ll take one for the team.

[@summerlyric506]

"Can I cook for you?" Tam is so sweet!! Omg Her and Loni seem to have a great true friendship.

[@jackiemarro1744]

They need a guest host to breakup all of the stereotypes that they constantly spew.

[@DaniielaVergara]

THANK YOU FOR SAYING THIS. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 we need a show with younger women who ( hopefully) are more opened minding, don't believe in stereotypes about women-men. So annoying

[@ravenjmain]

Pure facts! Iyanla probably rolling her eyes like “no that’s not what I meant” 😂

[@smilealwaysnatasha3423]

Daniela G lol yeah I rolled my eyes when they were like I want a manly man... who drinks beer and watch football. Lol stereotypes must die.

[@missdaniellejohnlove1955]

It's not necessarily stereotyping. Men and women are very different, we have diff brains, diff hormones, diff roles. People treat us differently. Of course we all don't fit into the typical woman or man role but most of us do in some way.

[@sashafierce4824]

Thats jeanie because she really different for them

[@MajesticMyronn]

Now seeing that her & Jeszy are together... I’m sure he was interested as well! They both work for non-profit organizations that they care about as well as speak on issues that mainstream media doesn’t really talk about ( as much ) and I’m pretty sure due to that they brought the best in each other !

[@Denise-ob8dk]

Myronn Coleman I love your comment. I noticed that about them. I love re watching all of these clips and commenting. Sometimes I don't remember I commented and have the same thoughts as years before it's funny.

[@sungjemishsungjemish8212]

"You look rich people"🤣 I would Really love to see Jennie's mom

[@mangosteenlah6239]

Sungjemish Sungjemish you can. Go to jeannie’s youtube channel “hello hunnay with jeannie mai” she makes content with her mom and it’s funny asf😂

[@sungjemishsungjemish8212]

It aint Ms thank you dear 💓

[@mangosteenlah6239]

Sungjemish Sungjemish no problem! And her mom is just as funny and animated as jeannie makes her seem. Enjoy ❤️

[@lynette-sowingseedsoflove2424]

I just love Lonnie's and Tamera's relationship..can't get enough of it

[@empath3133]

Jeannie never noticed she said "my wife" 😆

[@deephillips6964]

True...I even had to go back n check what's date was on the vid 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@marieesedebe7590]

Leo AF bruh I was laughing for a good minute

[@natashadwyer8336]

Is she married? I think this is such a great varied panel.

[@JennHayden]

@@natashadwyer8336 sounds like you have a lot of catching up to do. enjoy!

[@natashadwyer8336]

Jen J lol I do! She has a wife? I know she went through a divorce. She speaks highly of her ex husband ...

[@DM-lr5xz]

"if you come to me and you wanna talk about my feelings, that makes me uncomfortable" I so feel you Adrienne!

[@mskathylaurielle]

When Adrienne said "They look like their breath stink." I CAN'T STOP LAUGHING 😂😂😂😂😂

[@NSiFe]

Lol "I wore it three of for times" LOOOL that's sooo many times!

[@juliannamazing]

when adrienne said “I FEEL LIKE THEY BREATH STINK” LMFAOOO

[@JustAutoChannel]

I love this show. I spend about 20 minutes every on this channel. You ladies make sense because you talk about real life issues that people deal with everyday. Relationship should comes with mutual respect. Thank you ladies for keeping it real.

[@stephaniedesign888]

My husband will talk your ear off. I'm the one that's thinking in my head. PLEASE QUIET!!

[@smilealwaysnatasha3423]

Right! Everyone is different and that’s why I hate stereotypes

[@MyGuy18]

Lmao love it!

[@naomssi1300]

Loni, men dont need to like football and drink beer to be "manly"

[@desbhanj8474]

Please let her know!

[@CarmenxSullivan]

She didn't really say that, she was meaning that's what she likes..

[@AlexisDimes]

There is a scientific connection to the activities men and women choose based on the things they think their gender sees as normal for the or cool. Like more men will learn to barbecue then women will based on societies views as it being a manly thing (I’m saying this as a girl that barbecues but knows it’s more of a man thing), a ton of meat eating is seen as manly, a women keeping themselves looking cute for themselves is seen as normal, and anything else normal for your society, gender, or race is always going to be encouraged it’s hard to see because it starts very young. Beer is definitely portrayed as a manly type of drink even though many women also drink it. The same way meat is ate by many women as well but there is a reason men are less likely to give up both.

[@Zzucia]

@@AlexisDimes thank you. Why does this have to be explained lmao

[@samanthamarie7232]

It's just an extra plus when they are

[@roenaskates5485]

A "Smart Man" is going to take time to listen to his Woman!😏

[@MyGuy18]

True. And a smart woman will make sure to keep it timely. No slight.☺

[@marliemarlie1922]

I love the relationship between Loni and Tam,I wanna have a friend 🤪😁😊

[@walkingonthewordofgod5094]

😂😂😂

[@marliemarlie1922]

@@walkingonthewordofgod5094 what 😁😂

[@marliemarlie1922]

@Amber L 😁😁😁ok we're friends 🤗

[@4knewt505]

Y'all silly! Here's my truth...I dont have traditional social media so when someone comments on KZbin, I tell my kids, yeah my friend said this or that. BUT I DON'T KNOW THESE PEOPLE!! Ugh pitiful!

[@haveagoodday629]

@@4knewt505 😆😆😆

[@G254611]

Is it me? But honestly - I did not watch - 'The Real' - when Jeannie was married - because I was not aware of the Programme - here in the UK. Only stumbled on 'The Real' a few months ago. Since then I have been catching up on all the past Shows here on KZbin What I have found though - s there was a sadness in Jeannie's eyes in all the Shows I watched - when she was married. Now (since her divorce) - there seems to be a light in her eyes; a glow in her skin; she seems and looks happier and alive - I love this new Jeannie

[@smilealwaysnatasha3423]

God's Child that cause I think they really were separated and living different lives. Their hearts weren’t in it. I do not think Freddy or Jeannie are bad people at all but just out grew eachother.

[@G254611]

@@smilealwaysnatasha3423 - Well said and well observed

[@skeleton5459]

i never watched this show before until i heard about jeannie's marriage story and it peaked my interest cos she was so open about her story. i really like how open she is about it and she doesn't try to hide the issues they had and you can see her struggles.

[@abisagbobolarinwa9891]

God's child welcome

[@NS-mp7uu]

Ik this is late but I feel like watching the show now Jeannie looks sadder than I have ever seen her. I’m actually worried about her

[@ashantitheara]

Loni seems like the shy funny friend. Super private but the biggest heart and smile all the time. And keeps it 1000

[@stephs8277]

Can we not generalize genders... in my family my dad loves to gossip meanwhile my mom hates it. Everyone is different!

[@blesseddiscovered6196]

Mine too

[@Grace-mr8bc]

@BANGTANFM Say it louder. Preach.

[@missdaniellejohnlove1955]

@mixed men and women are different. That is fact but it is also a fact that we are all different. We have diff upbringing, are influenced by diff things have diff values but men and women are diff biologically, hormonally, our brains are different which affects how we think and feel. Women have periods. Of course men have feelings and should be encouraged to talk. The thing is we all have feminine end masculine energy. We should not deny differences but at the same time we all don't fit into one box.

[@andreacoleman4684]

True

[@laurenj432]

I just treat humans the same in general. I try not to talk excessively about myself in most situations

[@estelvillz3637]

yeah I learn that if you do like even simple things like telling people what you like or don't like can come flying back in your face. That's how fucked up people are.

[@ddh19454]

What I hate is when I realize I'm talking about myself too much And I kinda step back so that the other person can talk And they dont Or I even ask like how about you Can u relate But they don't want to talk about thierself And I just feel self centered Or if I stop talking.. the conversation ends I get bored of people like that... at the end of the day I still dont know anything about them

[@IceSprinkles]

Adrienne: i dONT spend money on clothes. I ONLY shop at forever 21. *is wearing CoCo Chanel earrings*

[@ladybluemoon1]

She said clothes she did say she issues pricey accessories or signature pieces reading is fundamental or rather listening

[@dnicaw]

But earrings are jewellery/accessories 🤔

[@mgeijho]

1.she said clothes. 2.Israel(who likes expensive things) bought her the earings.

[@larakaraman5375]

Adrienne :I just don't like talking about my feelings. Me:Same here❤❤❤

[@Faithhopelovegraceliving]

Damn, I can relate to Adrienne, truthfully I was raise differently than my husband. I was taught to suppressed my emotions, I was never allow to expressing them, because it is weakness, shedding a tear is weak, pretty much that saying “be seen and not be heard or something like that” always smile when in front of people that we see day to day. It was really hard. So I had to unlearn a lot, I thought it was normal. I still am uncomfortable with sharing feelings. And I don’t feel things that other people feel.

[@idoluleputlang1517]

I love how deep and insightful Jeanie is!❤

[@superbluerock8327]

"Absorb yourself around that person, just to see that they're normal" -Jeannie Mai Best. Quote. Ever. Literally, I figured that out on my own about a month ago, when I couldn't get over my crush. After deleting him from my life. So, I gave in and "absorbed" his atmosphere into my life. Eventually, realized he's just another guy. Not my type. Nothing special. Trying to avoid your crush or whatever, blocking him/her is just going to mess with your mind. Heart. Sleep probably. The way you think.

[@trish8321]

"Speak your truth" 😅🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂 I love Loni

[@CassieJCarter]

I knew this was old when Jeannie said something about her husband

[@MajesticMyronn]

It should be both ways... Men should also be considerate and realize rhat your woman is not always gonna want to talk about things you talk about with your guys ... I think their should be balance... if there are things that you guys both like to talk about rather than stereotypical “ girl-related “ or “ guy-related” things then that’s a good common ground ! As well as your communication style... guys and girls have different thinking patterns so what a person says may come across a different way to the person listening !

[@Hbomb3709]

Welcome back! I havent seen ur name on comments in awhile. Guess u had a summer break 2

[@sabb5829]

Myronn Coleman totally agree

[@827honey1]

Absolutely agree.

[@sunflowerg2872]

Men don't usually talk about things with women that they talk about with their friends.

[@keirybreedy8791]

I was thinking the same thing. What does she mean I am confused.

[@BiSounds]

Hey ladies, I plan on watching all the 14 minutes videos and giving them a thumbs up. You really heard us out and increased the length of your videos. Thank you very much!

[@shamimkagere]

I am like Tamera about taking care of my stuff, it always looks new yet i have had it for years. I have people always commending my smartness.

[@kaliestewart1009]

Tam looks stunning here 😍😍😍 but she always does ❤️

[@JackeiryBrito]

Adrienne is giving me Selena Quintanilla era vibes , I love it !

[@NeemahSpeaks]

Thank you Loni I like my man to be a man😍😍 Man and women minds are wired differently. PERIODT. (How much money they have🙃)😂😂 Loni’s makeup be coming through this year let’s keep it that way.

[@lmgutier]

Loni!!! “DON’T treat your gf like your bf.” SAY IT LOUDER!!!

[@sandycheeks143]

Adrienne’s look is giving me Selena Quintanilla vibes. Haha “anything for Selena” 😆

[@kierra305]

I love Tamara and Loni’s relationship 😂😂🥰❤️

[@rhinoavocado1569]

Sometimes the real unnecessarily reinforces sexist stereotypes... Not every woman loves gossiping, not every man drinks beer, not all women talk too much.. Like it gets really frustrating.. These are the same stereotypes that hold women down

[@Troy_Johnson]

They never said all

[@rhinoavocado1569]

@@Troy_Johnson they don't need to, the stereotype was still reinforced..

[@Wahsoep]

Where can I get a friend like Tam?You want to cook for me,me??Say no more,I'm there & I'll be the best 'Dad' to the kids too

[@BravoRecsKat]

My husband is my bff so I can’t relate lol I don’t like talking to women or anyone but my husband and I are sooo introverted

[@Nokss_20]

I wish for that ❤️🦄 women talk too much and are high maintenance. But I enjoy talking to my bf we have simple communication and I just prefer talking to guys.

[@smilealwaysnatasha3423]

That’s kinda unhealthy especially if God forbid he dies or leave you and then you don’t have a support system to rely on

[@simacanhelp1144]

Lol 😆! Loni is Tamera’s rentafriend. Awesome support system you have there Tamera.

[@MajesticMyronn]

Ok ! Here’s my thing....just becuase you have money doesn't mean spend it all.. You work for those coins to save and end up being happy when u realize u worked hard so u can spend it on something that is WELL DESERVED!

[@samanthajo1593]

Salvation Army’s clothes, shoes, and housewears are always 50% off on Wednesday’s.. my favorite time to shop there!

[@kyleighwhite1409]

I tell my man everything. Like he is my everything and I can’t keep a secret from him 😂my man is literally everything rolled into one.

[@CupCake-pq8fn]

I've learned so much from these woman. I really look up to them🤍

[@desertliving]

I love how Loni keeps it real

[@erinjoines7821]

I like how they turned in two seconds from talking about budget and then their first class plane tickets

[@malaika3231]

Me and my man be gossiping about everything 🤣😂

[@EH012]

Okay that drink tip about Happy Hour is ingenious AF. WOW.

[@queenlovelyngiva-tuke25]

'His wife and my wife'😂😂😭😭😂😂😭😂😂😭😂😂

[@sherrygivings8982]

Lol A-" Let me find out you a second dad to these kids". Love it...

[@teamlovepanda]

Tamara's baby daddy Loni 🤣

[@ylf3384]

Adrienne has cried many times in the show and yet she’s not emotional?

[@monicafabiola785]

Its your life partner he should be your best friend....periodt!

[@DreasBeat]

“His wife and my wife” lol 😂

[@Flamingobear]

This was the best episode ever!

[@evileye1]

Lol Tamara "we talk too much" 😂😂

[@ericaacosta5850]

Thanks for posting long videos! I don’t have cable bc it’s so expensive so these long videos have been lifesavers.

[@jaylamcknight9366]

When Jeannie said My wife ! 😂😂😂 and Adrienne caught her 😅😂😂

[@raquelchildofthemosthighgo3546]

I just Love Loni. She's a true friend, all attributes I admire.

[@maliquewisdom3867]

Loni hit Tam with that “ Speak your truth”😂😂

[@judyb5417]

I so relate with Loni, I go into the club for free and get all the guys to buy my drinks😂😂🤣🤣

[@ashleycaparrelli2935]

I love Lonnie and Tamara’s friendship

[@rahafalqureche2690]

A’s white collar is a science. Lemme tell you - HOW TF IS HER FOUNDATION NOT ON HER COLLAR? Claps to her. 👏👏

[@FashionStylist11]

Adrienne talking about her clothes are “trendy “ and I love forever21 meanwhile she has on Chanel earrings 😂😂😂

[@camillerose8673]

That cancer gang telling crushes you like them immediately ♋️ get em, sis. You don’t need a cancer sign to kill it though, I see you (whatever your sign is) reading this, it’s not too late 💕

[@rachelg6289]

I think that it’s terrible that women think that guys don’t want to talk about their feeling because then when one does, someone they’re being a “simp” for being human

[@PreBee-v9s]

Loni said “Yup, speak your truth” lmfao

[@sBaby-zs5ee]

She's crazy lol

[@amandaandersen7870]

Between my friends business, I don't tell my husband everything. But I share everything important because he is my best friend. 💙

[@ashleyfla]

I love Tamaras hair and outfit!!! Such a beautiful lady.

[@zahrahussain7895]

Adrienne always talks like she’s dropping bars

[@CoachJayP]

Depends on if you want a husband or a homegirl.

[@NellieKAdaba]

Right

[@aaronjohnson6622]

Real talk! I like this topic. Treat girls like girls and treat guys like guys