GIRL CHAT VAULT: Married, but on a Dating App!

Real fam, do you know anyone who’s guilty of going on a dating app while in a committed relationship?

[@sarahmatos1651]

My last ex made a tinder account behind my back because he "wanted to see if anyone would like him"... boy you were lucky that I even liked you. Next

[@user-sl7ki4ip7v]

😭

[@sinosakambana]

Lmaaaoo 🤣🤣🤣

[@jamesfulton8154]

@@user-sl7ki4ip7v 😁

[@jayjanzee9059]

😂😂😂👏👏👏👏

[@gabrielacampos9461]

PERIODT queen

[@iamloved7758]

Sorry but in my book that's cheating. I'm with Tamara if you're in a relationship "Flee from temptation" Not Run to it!

[@katiebuton15]

Tamera’s dress is sooo fire 🔥

[@maddmax4148]

Glade am not the only one it's beautiful

[@t.savagesmith7848]

So is Loni

[@_fancymemeli4483]

YES! I actually have that exact dress. Still haven’t worn it out yet but it’s STUNNING

[@rochellthomas7205]

Yes it is love it

[@amiejalloh2467]

_FancyMeMeli where did u get it.

[@xchaotiic]

I'm a single woman and this year I tried Tinder, huge mistake. Literally every guy that I actually found interest in was married. They don't tell you until after the fact of getting to know them and it angered me. I ended up deleting the app.

[@No_Show94]

Smh

[@Nastyboiguy1]

Giirrllll 🤣🤣tinder is for sex and sex only!!!! Don’t go tryna find a husband on there cause chances are they’re already husbands🥴🥴🥴

[@mireillemessan]

xoxo_queen my experience was that they just wanted to sleep with me 😒

[@-.a9942]

Try ok Cupid tinder is trash

[@II.am.Gold.]

@@-.a9942 OK cupid and Pof are all trash.

[@gingerlynoise]

“To stimulate my mind... andddd............... and my *bodeyyyhhh* “

[@maritzarodriguez6219]

Sierra Carter Lmfaoooo died !!! Adrienne is hilarious 😂

[@daisyr.8457]

People don't realize the internet is cancer for relashionships .😑

[@CreativelyKia]

daisy r. No it’s cancer for the people who dont know how to act rational in a relationship

[@ValerieAbena]

It’s not. The internet isn’t a problem, it’s other things. If the internet didn’t exist something would replace it as a trigger of issues in relationships

[@aliciap8583]

It really is though, people have a great thing and then go and ruin it by acting single on the internet. And if that's not the straw that broke the camel's back there are so many men and women I know in terrible relationships that portray everything as perfect and happy online, just because no one wants to talk about their failed marriage, especially when they see other people in a perfect relationship online. Behind the scenes they are in a toxic relationship, cussing and screaming at eachother every night. Putting up a front can be damaging to a relationship too. That's why my boyfriend and I both agreed to keep our relationship extremely private, we want to protect what we have. No lies. No secrets.

[@mckenzie.8653]

No. People are. Don't blame the internet bc people choose not to act like mature adults.

[@aliciap8583]

Fun fact: I found my step sister's husband on Tinder once. Although I haven't talked to her in years (we had a fall out). I still went off on her husband and took screenshots of his account, I basically cornered him and said if he does it again I'm gonna tell her, cause no matter how ugly, she deserves to know the truth. They've been married several years and have 2 kids together, whether we're cool with eachother or not I wasn't about to let him do their family dirty like that.

[@serenabean868]

Alicia P I have maddddd respect for you because you weren’t vengeful but you also stood your ground and would not let him be rude to your stepsister no matter what happened

[@ayaan8877]

Respeccctt 🙌

[@ashrafbee4234]

sisters will always have each other's back no matter what

[@simonnader8173]

i'm sorry you guys had a fallout but you did the right thing! And one day she will realize that and come back to u!

[@jemimajanvier4706]

I respect you for that

[@suhanndee]

“Darnette, eating BEANS and POTATOES” lmfao Adrienne

[@omgitsme39]

Tamera is the best dressed 90% of the time, always want to know what brands she frequents

[@lsucollegelife]

M M She has the most money, so her stylist is better!

[@lsucollegelife]

Vanessa Awada How???? Adam family is rich and Tam already had her bag! I don’t think so!

[@lsucollegelife]

Vanessa Awada You could be right! I don’t know for sure, but I would think it’s Tam. Especially since she is paid more than the others.

[@inspectorgadget1368]

Penelope Cruz Networth Tamera 4 million + Adam 3 million = 7 mil Adrienne 2 million + Israel 10 million= 12 mil Israel is a producer and song writer so he racks up in royalties.

[@joyherring81]

Jeanie will be soon Jeezy net worth is 15 million

[@Lyricdagoddess88]

a few years ago, my single best friend was swiping on tinder and saw my boyfriend, I asked him about it and he said "I was just curious" I told him "Bye boy"

[@sarangan1995]

She just described Jeezy 😂😂

[@hananemimouni]

isn't she already with him?

[@glittermafia5759]

@@hananemimouni Yeah, they are together and mutually exclusive. That fool is spreading rumors.

[@hananemimouni]

Glitter Mafia is the video old? Because the date is new but she’s been with Jeezy for a while now. So why are they putting this video now?

[@ms.hicks2u381]

Hanane Mimouni the title says “girl chat vault” they are posting old clips.

[@hananemimouni]

@@ms.hicks2u381thanks

[@crystald.1083]

Tamera is so fire!

[@lizzyelmizab8878]

Crystal D. I thought this said fired and I was wondering what she was doing wrong 😂😂😂😂🤣

[@sheila8092]

I was thinking that too. Like they all pretty but Tamera is just 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@nandinisingh60]

What's even worse is that if you encounter someone who is married and you don't have a clue.

[@helena3631]

That’s why you do a background check .. you should not be intimate with anyone till ur needs met etc first last name,job friends etc background check everyone

[@-.a9942]

But that can happen even if didn’t meet that person on line

[@nandinisingh60]

People can be good liars. Teach your kids to be honest because people out here (men and women) save themselves for so long to meet single people who haven't had kids from other people. This kind of situation is not to be taken lightly and it certainly isn't 2 sided, it's a 3 sided situation.

[@aura5944]

Like she said background check after viewing the drivers license.

[@Crz4wizard]

"... Keep going, there's more!" 😂😂😂

[@biancalewis4475]

I am loving the attire coordination between loni, Tamera, and Adrienne.

[@indigobeauty1]

And Jeannie...she has black & white in her blouse.

[@Honkydorie]

😊 jeannie is too. The red is the pop of color to bring it together. It's like if you were wearing black and white with red accessories. That's what you do to coordinate a group. One person is the contrast/pop of color

[@even5584]

Am I the only one who wants to dust off Loni's under eye ....too much setting powder

[@ohok6091]

Eve N 😂

[@uniniesco7117]

Tameras eyebrows are a wrong color too :/

[@jojocluddy2534]

😂😂😂

[@crowned_in_beauty]

And lack of setting spray

[@DonovanRobinson420]

I Fkn cried at this comment😭😭😭

[@fionabera1067]

Who left Jeannie out of the b&w theme 😭

[@courtneymackey7012]

Tam’s dress! Loni’s Jacket! 🔥 I love the black & white coordination the ladies have going on.

[@KJ-fr9xf]

Loni was right when she said Tamera and Adam stole the other peoples idea 😂

[@tonib9452]

Tamera’s 😍😍😍🙌🏾 Dress

[@syanderson83]

Anybody just see that post on jeezy ig with him and her singing tevin Campbell s "can we talk" out loud? Soooo cute. Im so happy for her!!!!!!!!! ❤

[@nonkululekopheshwa375]

She was literally describing Jeezy in this clip .

[@queenjoycole9710]

Y’all I thought Tam was so “by the books” but I’ve been keeping up with her lately and she’s funnn and so free spirited I loveee her😍😍😍

[@_KINGACH_]

Jeannie was describing Jeezy, she just didn't know it yet

[@riverasheba807]

I met my husband on online dating (web date). I meet him on 2004. I was pregnant with my older daughter. We got married February 2, 2009. We still married

[@Ena48145]

Aw! Congrats! I'm glad it all worked out for you

[@vangiegrl5537]

Sheba Shuler-Rivera that’s fantastic!!! Congrats

[@princess6683]

Back then, it was different I think. Nowadays, people have gone too far. Congrats to you though!

[@mrenae6798]

Yes its possible! My friend met her husband the same way. Both good people. There was a small window of time where there were alot of good men online or just in the world in general. Its a new day lol

[@dabigessesse9334]

Can you tell me the website? I want to see some one to date

[@gothkid1011369]

if you CHOOSE to be IN A RELATIONSHIP you have NO BUSINESS on dating apps!! Like wtf EMOTIONAL cheating is cheating all the same And worse again if youre married 😭 No one forced you to be in the relationship (I hope 👀)

[@iamloved7758]

Omg I love Tamara's outfit

[@kennyray4458]

I really appreciate the Producers of TheReal are continuing to include posting past shows to include Tamera because of her positive energy...and believe it or not my children and their children are in to her and her movies n sitcoms

[@raayden6125]

Tameras skin be GLOWINGGGGG 😍

[@rahimalmawri4024]

Tamera looks so good.

[@natinthechat515]

OMG I love Tamara!!! "No, noo, nooo, nooooo, nooooooooo!!!" You can almost hear the finger shaking in your face with her tone of the word. WE LOVE YOU TAM-TAM!! :)

[@MYMusicMYLove]

I think this video is a lesson that you shouldn't just follow everyone's advice just because they have a platform. I'm so happy that Jeannie is growing and sharing her experiences but I remember her stating that she encouraged Freddie to look at other women and that admiring other people was a sign that your relationship was stable and you didn't feel threatened. I'm obviously paraphrasing. But it's a beautiful thing to watch these women grow.

[@ginaratedit1614]

Jeanie a Capricorn we keep it too damm real Lmfaooo

[@Pinesol605]

Yes mam!

[@MajesticMyronn]

This is actually funny to me because Chrissy Teigen actually stated she’s on Tinder because some of her good friends are also using it and she uses it as a way to connect with people and just get to know people... and John actually knows she uses it ! I feel like they have an open ( not open relationship ) sense of communication and know they are meant for each other and can trust each other and doesn’t expect the other to cheat because they know what they have... I feel like that’s the biggest difference ! The ones that are using it sneakily and having ulterior motives versus those who use it just as a way of connecting and networking are two different things

[@Ena48145]

Sorry, but their relationship is weird. I think she is just starved for attention from everything and anyone. That's bizarre and I would never allow my spouse to do that

[@helena3631]

Most hollywreid people in open relationships nothing here new

[@User74z13]

don’t she got her friends numbers or something tf is that 😂

[@dawnthompson9149]

Go i on fb or instagram to network thats BS

[@kiaedwards4895]

@Iretha Johnson are you yelling?!! 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭

[@jasmainjasmain2906]

It definitely happens. Dated a couple men lying they had room mates and find out it's their wife and kids afterwards. One was pregnant. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@batmanlikespizza2541]

If you’re in a relationship there is no good reason why you’re on a dating app; especially if you’re hiding it from your partner.

[@l.garcia3344]

I got married at a church and we partied in my house! My dress was the most expensive investment! ( under $500) Lol.... my fam and friends were our photographers, I bought or made decorations myself. My sister in law for foldable chairs from her job and we covered and decorated them. My other sister in law went to beauty school and she did my hair IT LOOKED AMAZING!!! My kids were flower girl and ring boy they were the perfect age (3 and 4) Food was purchased, Latinos style! Yes there was alcohol! We did get cash and gift cards (my husbands favorite was Home Depot and Lowe’s.... 😆😆😆 I always thought that was hilarious) My brother in law got us the cake, that was his gift to us. Our colors were white black and red (I’m a Scorpio! It was great!) I can keep going..... but the point is it was LOVELY! It’s was intimate! It was reasonable! It was just celebrating our lives together! As we were planning it we knew we wanted to be reasonable and simple. I felt bad I didn’t invite every friend I ever had and all fam members and all that. But the ppl that MATTERED to our every day life and love were THERE! Don’t get mad if someone doesn’t come, if someone couldn’t afford fancy clothes or trips or gifts it didn’t matter ppl were there because they wanted to be there, not to judge us! EVERYONE had a great time! No WAY in the universe someone could copy anything and I would feel any type of negative vibes! First starters it was all too personal and intimate to be able to copy lol and as long as my husband is only my husband go ahead and copy everything else!! Lol 😂 Honestly people! Keep it simple! 👰 🤵 I hope someone engaged reads this and I save them $10,000+ Spend money on your house, on vacations, save up for kids college! YOU ARE WELCOME!! Lol ♥️♥️🙏🏽🙏🏽♥️♥️🙏🏽🙏🏽♥️♥️

[@kristababyy47]

We got married in my sisters backyard. Our best friend officiated. My bro in law bbq'd and we made different side dishes. Bought my bouquet at the dollar store so i still have it. It was very casual and we loved it! My sundress was $50.... Now my brother? His wedding cost him $25,000 and they divorced in less than a year.

[@AmarisAngel]

Thank you for posting longer clips of the show 😊

[@LaShaeMarie]

No it's an old clip it doesn't count 😂 I'm still mad

[@user-jb9fq2yx8f]

@@LaShaeMarie hahahha

[@adanmaiwunze7618]

It’s so beautiful to se how much Jeannie has evolved of the years on this show… it’s a shame this show got canceled man🤦🏾‍♀️😭

[@ashleyb6621]

Loni looks soooo good! The hair, makeup and that outfit!!!! You go Ms. Love 😍😍😍

[@lamarjohnson4035]

Just don't get married if you still curious! Simple

[@joyherring81]

Love Tamara’s entire look today!

[@zoelife7272]

tamera could say what she wants, i saw the unhealthy competition between she and her sister on their show - especially when she was getting married and tia was large pregnant. it was off the chain.

[@playboyprincess7832]

*Awwww, and look to 2021 she describes JEZZY TO THE TEE!!! NOW SHE IS JEANINE MAI JENKINS HUNNNNAY😝🤑😝...WITH A BEAUTIFUL BABY BLESSING ON THE WAY..SO HAPPY FOR MY GURL😘*

[@ladybluemoon1]

Yup I’m a single woman on a dating app a guy approached me thank God I have discernment I started questioning him he turned out to be married with a wife in Africa lol looking for friends I kicked him to the kirb after those questions thank God

[@Cookie20244]

In Africa men is allowed to have multiple wives it’s just so disgusting women over there are so brainwashed to accept it they really think women her have no dignity and self respect to accept being the 10th wife 🤦🏻‍♀️ their misogynistic law allows it

[@kamarwashington]

A A It’s their culture not law. Many people in America practice polygamy

[@dailystoic1893]

@@Cookie20244 Please get informed! First Africa is a continent with 56 countries. Hence different laws and jurisdiction. No such thing as an 'AFRICAN LAW' I'm from Kenya , we practise monogamy and polygamy is illegal. Alot of African countries practise monogamy. BEFORE YOU LEAVE A COMMENT BE INFORMED! Don't speak from a point of ignorance

[@Besh-ls5ee]

And yay Jeezy ticked all her boxes!😊🙏

[@nreynolds75243]

No a married person shouldn't be on the single dating app. That's just wrong. You've got some married people, men and women, who are lonely in their marriages. So the dating app is tempting. The other spouse who is being cheated on with the dating apps really needs to sit down with the other spouse and find out what can be improved on in their marriage. If that spouse has been telling you what's wrong and you ignore them, then they'll go somewhere else to get their needs meet and it's not always physical.

[@totsysmith309]

Jeanie you are the real!! Lol

[@c.a.7289]

More like fake

[@weddingswithbelles7613]

I like them all

[@hadiyazid]

Jeannie Beans got so many layers of friend!

[@HCRaeMS]

I dumped my ex real quick because of this! I was stupid and believed him the first time when he said he was just curious about it and never actually talked with anyone. But the second time I found it on his phone I dumped him in minutes and never looked back!

[@Kayla.Murphy-Tomasic]

Loni’s dance at the beginning tho 😂😂😂

[@marren573]

That's when all the wedding invitations started pouring in for Jeannie and now she feels enough wedding invitations.😅😅

[@VenekaWithDriveIntoGreatCredit]

The bride thing was shady. But...Pregnant women dont think straight. TRY to forgive her for stealing the wedding idea and moving her wedding up. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@ll9549]

Ade looking like cute beetlejuice 😄

[@brokenvibes4634]

1:31 periodtt Loni

[@kaylavarela7215]

Battling brides - they are not true friends. I have had “friends” like that and they are not true friends. The girl loved her idea and moved up her wedding FIVE weeks bc she wanted her whole set up. It’s not about your interest crossing over, she did it bc she wanted to one up her friend and be the one who did it first bc even she saw what was wrong with it. I would be livid if this happened to me bc it has happened in many different smaller ways and they are just telltale signs that the friendship isn’t going to work out in the long run. She didn’t ask or say anything to her friend, she went behind her back and did it. She knew bringing it up to her would bother her so she chose not to tell her and book it first. Shady.

[@vindozadm7772]

Dating apps kills my self-esteem. being rejected all the time 😒 and I'm single.

[@sarahcijntje5067]

Chile Tam’s DRESSS😱😱😱😍😍😍Good lord she looks MAGICAL and She’s a blessing

[@promisthomas7597]

I think it’s a problem for the bride in the article bc her wedding hasn’t happened yet, so now it seems like it wasn’t her idea first. Where as in the host scenarios the other persons wedding already happened.

[@queenjoycole9710]

I love role play, great idea 😍😍❤️

[@naomiblack21]

Loni looked so pretty.

[@ladyteeismegibbs6808]

WHO IS DOING LONI'S MAKEUP????? THEY MUST BE FIRED ASAP

[@smellmybush]

ladyteeisme gibbs and wigs. She always looks dusty to me

[@ladyteeismegibbs6808]

Like I don't understand it. Everyone else's makeup is on point.

[@dogmomtoone7583]

It makes her look ashy. There’s so many better artists out there that can make her skin look amazing

[@dee8666]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@xoxospam2708]

lmao in the netherlands we have this kind of website and its slogan is: flirting isn’t illegal

[@MajesticMyronn]

I just think how u original and selfish can u be... I wouldn’t proud of doing everything that my so called “ friend “ is doing and claiming as mine because I “ Chose to do it first “ it’s unfair... it selfish and it’s childish... because one if u know I’m getting married , and u somehow magically appear to have everything down to the venue , the colors , the food , the songs... I’m going to have a huge problem with that !

[@reneeramoleta6262]

I knew this was old but kept watching

[@jenniferbrown8224]

Tamera is so beautiful 😍

[@Singlehood2Marriage]

Nobody: Tamera: No..... No..... No!!! Lol she ain’t playing no Games in these streets!!! 😩😩😂😂

[@melissasingh4027]

Loving Tam dress 😍

[@tiffanymclymore]

Yes Adrienne, a family member decided to set their wedding date 3 wks before mine. A few months after my date was set. It was low key, we gone be first, and I peeped it. But it's a whatever! I never made a big deal but def peeped it.

[@brokenvibes4634]

DEFENITLY GUILTY

[@stylebyjoann1564]

Ooh yes, this girl I go to church with did the same thing to me with the hope that her wedding will get more attention. She even use my color. She put hers a week before ours.

[@bluemarble5225]

nobody: no one at all: not even Tamar: Tamara: you know what I mean?🤨

[@II.am.Gold.]

Tamera said No its a wrap. Ha lmaoo that black was coming out

[@hopenewson6521]

That Tamera is gorgeous!!!😍😍😍

[@nessalee7981]

I love Tamaras dress and jeannie mai needs her own talk show !!

[@beviebee4650]

Tamera Looks Ready... Girl Ya Lookin Goooooooood

[@sophiess9751]

8:19 Tamera's gay panic kicking in😂 I love it

[@bigbelly5519]

I found lots of the time Jeanie was trying to expand the topic so she just said that if she going to Tinder what others would write for her Bio. I found it more interesting for her for that cause they have more to talk about, I know other host have their fixed perspective so are less likely to put a spin on the topic

[@siciliabelluccia4582]

Hellllooooo hunnnnnaaayyyyyy 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love y’all 🤣❤️

[@ohemgeexoxo]

This happened in my marriage without me knowing 🙄🙄

[@indigobeauty1]

I'm sorry that happened...how are you coping?

[@ohemgeexoxo]

​@@indigobeauty1 he left me. I cried my heart out, prayed about it, I moved back in with my parents (another state). It's been only a few months but staying busy, venting, and time has helped the most. Still dealing with it and co parenting its rough.

[@serenitymg1221]

Loni with a bob is giving me life !!!

[@juliannesharpe3066]

I Love the Black and White theme. Jeannie probably did Not the Memo!!! Loni looks Great!!! Of course, Tamera is On Fire!!!!

[@monarchstudiosart6011]

I want the beetle juice jacket it’s so lovely

[@Rjif83jid]

i might be wrong but sometimes i feel like all Tam and Adrienne do is brag about how "great" their marriages are like we get it you can't relate bc its all perfect 🙄

[@thabasiwela5501]

Yeah you are wrong honey

[@JS-ev4tz]

@@thabasiwela5501 period. People need to stop being jealous and stop being unhappy with their own lives and stop projecting that on others

[@milenasmith9640]

Actually, Adrienne was very open about her prior failing relationship/engagement... she’s finally happy and not settling for less. Tamara is also happily married... what’s wrong with that?

[@prettytee7525]

Nobody’s marriage is perfect. They just have great husbands

[@Soundwave2131]

When people have happiness in their life, they want to share it. They want to talk about it, spread it, and everything. If that makes you salty, find your happiness. The girls on the show always bring up their personal flaws so obviously they're aware nothing is perfect.

[@CB-bb2ix]

Tam looks sooo good

[@katecushing3847]

That’s why I don’t go on those sites! I get it’s the way now I just can’t.

[@shamimkagere]

Tamera was in super shape here!!!!

[@icecubemiles9486]

Loni looks phenomenal! Love all the looks shes been pulling

[@Firstladynneka]

Thanks, Jeannie, I'm gonna suggest role-playing today

[@playboyprincess7832]

*I don't even like telling ppl who my beautician is...Ler alone my FULL WEDDING DETAILS....WE WOULD NO LONGER BE FRIENDS .. That's a low key JEALOUS "friend" and I'm sure this isn't the first shady thing she has done 😒*

[@carolea1629]

💣💣💣😍😍😍😍 *Loni looking bomb*

[@tiffdawn4428]

I get what Tamera is saying cause my best friend copies me and she admits to it. But she would never copy my wedding venue and my plans

[@DS-ni1ed]

That 5 weeks move up was the shade

[@celestesharp6120]

Did the bride's friend also steal the dress and hair style? The friend couldn't have waited until after the bride got married for a week or two or at least got her permission? Or they have asked during the early planning stages if they could get married at the same time and maybe then the bride would have a chance to pray/think about it and find it in her heart to suggest having a double wedding?

[@carmenhamilton1256]

All of the ladies look boom, but Tamara is glowing!

[@vinci26]

2020 here and the “best friend “ who stole the wedding ideas that heifer better be ready for me to arrive in a white wedding dress

[@Zilivat]

💀💀💀

[@jayyysworld9242]

Loni looks great omgosh!!!!!

[@cocomaire]

Being attracted to other people and enjoying being found attractive isn’t an automatic sign that your relationship is over. It can add excitement to a long relationship (more than a decade). Having a profile on a dating app is weird though. You have to actively choose your partner every time someone else peaks your interest.

[@applechhetri2588]

I'll come clean, I've been married n been on dating website. Why? Because the man I married no longer cares about you and doesnt care about your mental health or your well being n just lives in the same house without talking to me for days, sleeping separately n he loves his ego more than me. After suffering too much mentally n feeling lonely I joined dating website while I was still married.i deleted the profile later though

[@christianone6611]

Divorce first... Then date. Don't date while married.

[@sallydsinger4071]

Girl you have to settle the current issue. Don’t carry it with you to the next relationship. Because who knows you might meet someone great but because of your current issues they have to move on from you. You must be mentally and physically ready once you join the dating app. Good luck.

[@TheGiggles713]

Tamera looks amazing!! I miss her on the show. I actually stopped watching it after she left lol

[@jeremyceniza]

Tamera's dress is beautiful but it looks like the top part of a curtain. 😄