GIRL CHAT VAULT: Talking About Wanting Kids on a First Date

[@MAXKIDDO8888]

Isn’t Adrienne’s look in this video giving us full on Cheetah Girls 2 “amigas cheetahs” realness??

[@06050010631]

Now the song is in my head 😩🤣💃🏽💃🏾💃🏼💃🏾

[@e_v_a.m_e_n_d_e_z]

Amigas cheetahs friends for life!

[@kaelynburton3882]

Matt Miller well Adrienne did wear a blazer in the movie with a very similar hairstyle. You may not see the resemblance but others do! Just because she’s wearing cheetah print doesn’t mean that’s why people are saying that. Just let people live. It’s an honest comment that wasn’t rude nor disrespectful

[@straightblackgirl]

@Matt Miller 1) She said the whole which is accurate if you have ever seen the movie especially the final song of the movie. Because once I saw the look I thought of it too. 2) It is not that deep, Adrienne talks about Cheetah Girls all the time, she is quite of proud it.

[@bbyd0ll1]

Yesssss

[@gaila.9852]

I will never understand why people pressure others to have kids. Mind your business.

[@nicoleavery7238]

Social conditioning

[@gaila.9852]

​@@nicoleavery7238 There it is.

[@jamaicankisses8923]

😂 Mind yo business or go get yo self some more kids so u wont have time to be minding my business

[@LiLmSzDiVa]

Exactly

[@Tan87ful]

Exactly

[@michellewhitneyprince1298]

No disrespect to anyone. The real is way better with 4 women. You get to hear everyone’s opinions, on every topic.

[@Toruk_Makto17]

Eh, while I do like it better with the four of them, I personally believe it is because they have a bond with one another. I think Amanda had very valid points but "The Real" is a lot more lighthearted than the vibes that she brings to the show.

[@familyguy6668]

Exactly & they not rushing cause they not dull & always got something good to say ... I say get rid of adriane she so loud sounds like she has ciggs everyday & is such a people pleaser she rather be liked than be herself. Always trying to be relatable when she's not

[@vyspeeds]

I agree! It’s never the same with a 5th person and you can tell these four are just so in sync as hosts and as friends

[@BeatLabSk]

Shes already gone

[@animalsfanatic6014]

True... And they're so compatible...

[@mrstscarter]

My husband and I had a very intense conversation on our first date. We were 19yrs old and we talked about desire for children, views on abortion, political views, importance of family, past relationships, etc. By then end of the date, I was sold! It was the first time I had such deep conversation where the guy was not only willing to discuss these things but also initiated majority of it. 17 yrs later, we have been married for 14yrs and awaiting our 4th and final baby.

[@deem.4527]

I was 15 when we went on our first date. And we also talked about what we wanted for our future and our beliefs. I’m now 20 years old and getting married to him in December!

[@rebeccat6825]

@@deem.4527 hope u have/ had a great wedding

[@deem.4527]

@@rebeccat6825 It’s in 2 weeks! Thank you

[@naomigeorge7806]

tmgh h

[@Krfran14]

And look at Jeannie now, Married and pregnant... I love to see the growth x

[@feefs2139]

​@@TorfordorIt's growth. Stop getting so easily offended.

[@RTA6226]

And is now getting a divorce.

[@AnimatedBlast]

Yeah, look at her now 😂

[@mareze123]

👀NOBODY, ABSOLUTELY NOBODY: ADRIENNE: I CANT MAKE THIS STUFF UP 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

[@Sk88p]

"Is this the James guy Loni??" Yeah must have been him sending those morning texts.

[@Tan87ful]

😂😂😂😂

[@pontshopriscilla]

I totally agree

[@guadalupepineiro8060]

I love how this is when Loni and James started dating and we had no idea

[@Tan87ful]

Lol

[@TaylorMz09]

I had a dream that Jeannie & Adrienne were pregnant at the same time and announced it on the show. If it happens, you heard it here first ☺️☺️☺️

[@tyckeri]

Ok👌🏿

[@AngelLoveQuinnx]

Well see

[@TaylorMz09]

Loveahlan we’ll see what happens

[@moonchai3988]

Lol that would be cute though

[@rayannarose444]

Yeooo saaaame but it wasn’t a dream it was a random thought...tht would be so cute🥺

[@gaila.9852]

Color coordination pleases my soul.

[@inthenicoftimee]

I'm screaming, the lady at 05:30 was not with the cussing lmaooo

[@jazzjade4844]

I caught that too 🤣🤣😭

[@moonchai3988]

I came to the comments to see if anyone caught that 🤣 🤣

[@tomionabanjo9919]

Nicole AHAHAHA🤣

[@ceeforthesoul]

Fr lmaooo

[@aabduallahaabduallah9591]

She is the only normal one in this studio

[@destineeallen88]

Yo... James just got mentioned! Before he was james

[@roni6752]

James!! Wakes up at 4:00 am just to text Loni Good morning that’s when you know he’s a keeper!

[@AJD323]

I totally agree with tamera and jeanie on the topic of "all you can eat", sometimes you go to a buffet starving since you know that there isn't a limit on what you can get

[@forroses.2445]

I'm just worrying for his health tbh I dont think he should get banned but I hope he's healthy that's alot of food in one seating

[@jes3986]

But the buffet isn’t going to have an endless supply of food in the back. They can estimate how much will be used in a day but if you have someone eating an extremely large amount like that you can’t plan for it and they can’t keep an enormous amount of food in storage because they won’t want to waste food if it’s not used.

[@MajesticMyronn]

If we're gonna be honest... it doesn't matter what the question is... on the first date , you have to put all the stops and be 100% honest so that way you know what you're dealing with so you know whether or not before you go on another date that you want to be with that person or not be with that person ! I have no problem with that !

[@michaela_xo]

I agree with Loni, be considerate. He said he felt bad though so he was evidently just oblivious but you're right, that's just rude! 😂

[@MajesticMyronn]

I mean literally everyone goes to Buffets to eat as much as they want... usually within like 20 minutes they'll have more food supplied... so I'm not mad at him... it's ALL YOU CAN EAT for Gods Sake ! HOWEVER I feel like eating ALL of the same thing is a bit much ! That's 18 pounds of ONLY sushi that some of the other people eating their could've had...it's unfair

[@erissromero3822]

I agree if he was being greedy than yeah but if not hes in the right

[@jinaq]

I remember Loni saying Jeannie should have at least one child when she was still married... guess it hit different when she's the one on the receiving end.

[@llcooljay520]

Jina Q Loni has also admitted that a big reason she hasn’t had kids was because of a miscarriage. So her decision was borne from trauma. There are probably time when she regrets that decision, and didn’t want Jeannie to feel that way, but I personally agree with the Loni in this video.

[@MsRose00]

As a married woman who has made the decision to not have kids, I HATE when someone says “You should at least have one!” Like, what?! That’s ridiculous. As if you’re any less a mother whether you have one or four! Besides, if I realize it’s not for me (as I already have) do I get to give that ONE kid back?!

[@llcooljay520]

MsRose00 I have always been pretty unsure of having biological children myself. I respect your decision. You do not need to experience motherhood to be a fulfilled human.

[@jinaq]

@@llcooljay520 I don't disagree with Loni either, I was just stating an observation. And I also agree that not everyone wants or needs to experience motherhood. It is great when someone feels they would love to have that experience, and it is equally great when one decides that motherhood is not for them and hopefully our society will learn to be more accepting of women who decide the latter.

[@MsRose00]

llcooljay520 THANK YOU! And I commend the women who have chosen that path and do it well. Being a good mother is a hard, endless, and often, thankless job. And it’s also a calling. Some of these people having kids should’ve never picked up the call. Whatever higher power there is, clearly had the wrong number. 😆 I love being an aunt. I even have four godchildren. I have two dogs. And that’s how I choose to love and nurture.

[@zeynand4039]

I need to know this before the first date, I want kids and I don't want to go on a date if you never want kids. Also if you don't believe in marriage, if you have kids or been married before and topics like that, I need to know before hand. I want to go on dates where there is potential.

[@ashketchum1377]

Tamera said she get stuck on the phone for 15-20 minutes ??? Try an hour or two hours LOL

[@Tan87ful]

Lol

[@SamanthaN92]

I agree with Loni. Its a turn off for me personally if a guy has a child or children. Because 99.9% of the time his ex baby's mother is still going to be in the picture. I have to really really really like somebody for it to work with kids. I dont want children of my own and I definitely dont wanna be a step parent. If I ever decide to have children of my own, ill adopt as a single parent.

[@pamelahough3896]

I told my husband that I don't want a kid on our first meeting. I want to be upfront and I don't want to force someone to not want them.

[@saradigota7201]

i love yall so much, the girl chat is so fun and cozy to watch

[@gaila.9852]

If you’re looking for someone to marry, then go ahead and ask if they want kids on the first date. Otherwise, that is a conversation for a later time.

[@IndiraRae]

i think it’s ok to talk about whether you want kids on the first date. it’s not like you’re saying you want kids with them right now but it’s good to know certain things like that

[@kokostenza4732]

Thanks Loni for always being real 🙌🏾🖤

[@gabriella8141]

I think they should be allowed to eat all you can eat but I also think it would be common courtesy to notice when you are eating all of the food and to curb yourself.

[@mauragaldamez7121]

Loni said “what bible- okay...” 😂😂😂

[@llcooljay520]

maura galdamez she’s like “there ain’t no bible verses about all you can eat buffets.” But then she’s also like “you can always find a bible verse that will say what you want” 😂

[@Tan87ful]

😂😂😂😂

[@shaerebholz5793]

“What kind of mathematics is that?” Lmfaaaao

[@Tan87ful]

Yep lol

[@chrissydadell3307]

Kanye some of us can’t stare at the roof for an hour in the morning lol we gotta work!

[@rabeccamckenzie9317]

That’s an excuse lol

[@flavialm1]

I think this is the kind of thing it needs to be discussed early on because saves you from investing your time on something that will end in break up, this is a big thing in people's lives, as for having kids already, I could never date a guy that had kids already, I hate the dynamic of having to share time with the kid, having to take care of another person's child and having to adapt our travels and dates over being kid friendly, if I'm ever going to do this kind of sacrifice is for my own kid.

[@Tan87ful]

Exactly 💯💯👏🏽👏🏽

[@kadijahhopkins2217]

Loni said “I must be a man” 😂😂😂

[@Tan87ful]

😂😂😂😂

[@TimsySkinopedia]

Jeannie now involved in Jeezy's baby mama drama 🙈

[@daisyr9586]

True !!! Lmaooo

[@kaymay6673]

Lol 😂 the irony of all 🥴

[@dgenral7]

I came here just for this comment that relationship is doomed from the start J needs to get rid of this piece of trash now... plus she referred to black men as dark meat on the side and her at the time white husband as her main dish typical racist Asian comment

[@mileycyrus201198]

What happened

[@sydneymerrifield2176]

Its legit. When i wake and stay off my phone for thrity forty minutes then read my book (on my phone sadly). Then get up, make my bed, do 20 minutes of Pilates, then drink a lrg bottle of water, my coffee and a light breakfast. I have SUCH a good day!!! Or when my husband is off we just stay in bed cuddling and have long conversations about everything.

[@meaganbianca2978]

09:50 i think she’s talking about James 10:15 AAAH! IT IS!

[@lauravazquez2492]

Adriennes story reminds me of Ross, Carol and Susan lol

[@sharkisland5931]

Legit my first thought

[@anisaj2282]

But Ross didn't have a child with Susan tho?

[@usergames6051]

Lol thought the same

[@RTA6226]

​@@anisaj2282😅😅😅😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

[@Samirahsworld1]

Can’t wait till September so we can get new episodes of the real 😭😭

[@ggtracy02]

Adrienne accidentally revealed on her a KZbin channel (in her last live) that The Real will be coming back, but doing their “home” version

[@michellerichardson3090]

I've had guys asked me and I usually answer "yes I have kids. Do I want more kids? That's an answer for someone Im in a relationship with"

[@ellefaith2081]

If it’s a buffet, then you eat anything until you’re full.

[@scooby9703]

Honestly there no rocket mathematical science to dating , when love comes around and you have a family enjoy it cuz there is a lot of people who will never get that opportunity...🌹💪✌️

[@theeelevatedsongstress]

I think it is ok to talk about it because God forbid you Want them and you end up Marrying someone who doesn’t, then it becomes this big thing that ruins the marriage or ends the marriage. So hey be up front!

[@MeccaLegal]

Ade always serving looks.

[@upsidedownkatrinaYT]

I wouldn’t want to bring it up but I’d like if a guy asked these questions. Would also show me he’s serious.

[@Hannah-gt2df]

About the "All you can eat", I think it's understandable that you are eating all you can eat, and as an athlete, that is a higher caloric intake. However, if you go to a buffet, have "All you can eat" of several different things, don't eat down one thing and there's none left of that one thing.

[@terrykinyahwe2818]

Now I feel bad because I'm watching this right now..it's 4.32 am

[@riteshbdoerga6090]

The 1.5 baby mama story killed me lol..

[@dee8666]

That story was stupid !!!

[@RTA6226]

Why do they always pressure single women to have children? 😮

[@HarleyQuinn-ne3ew]

I don't understand how anybody can inject their personal preferences bout havin babies on somebody else. I've known my whole life I was gonna be a mama. I've literally waited my whole life for my daughter, but I would never tell another woman she should have a child. It's DEFINITELY not for everybody, and I would never recommend it to somebody who is sure they don't want any or on the fence bout it.

[@sarahcijntje5067]

Chile😂😂😂😂 I saw the uncomfortable look in Tam’s Eyes when Loni looked at her when she asked if kids were a deal breaker😂😂😂😂🤣

[@hummingbirdandbutterflies]

Lonnie I agree with you, I once met a guy with 16 children!! Tattoo artist 😳 People beware and create a list of what you want from someone before you go out and get serious. That Kanye tweet was a cry to plead for everyone to stop supporting and watching His wife’s family show, or anything they do.

[@Katie-xl1rb]

Hold on, Loni used to borderline BEG Jeannie to have a child and was extremely intrusive into her choice not to🤔 one rule for one...

[@Meekavintage]

💗TAM ..GIRL .that restaurant shouldn't have to make a ton of food that would be wasted most days just so in the rare instance that a triathlete comes in there one time that they have ENOUGH FOOD.. that's super wasteful .

[@shantell4847]

I wonder how Jeannie will be with Jezzy kids when she become their step mother

[@demetriuzz]

“Is this the James guy Loniiiii”😂😂😂😂 10:13

[@tigeress699]

I knew at age five that I didn't want to have children! I would only ever change my standpoint on that, if it was one of my celebrity crushes! 😂 But then again, I had my tubes tied so that wouldn't work, we could always adopt! 😂😂

[@MrsPetal]

I must be one of the few people that don’t use all these social media platforms, why you need more than one.

[@gaila.9852]

I’m glad that the situation with the lesbian couple worked out. It’s convenient that the kids have the same dad.

[@varshi]

The dude doesn't realise it was a set-up. The women probably wanted 1 more child from the same father....

[@Tan87ful]

Agreed :)) 💯💯👏🏽👏🏽

[@august21xp]

Don’t waste your time on a date !

[@Meekavintage]

If you owned an all you can eat and someone ate your whole buffet for that day and you only got $10 from it .bet you would be putting up another sign.. "ALL YOU CAN EAT BUT DON'T EAT IT ALL".(That's good Adrienne) its known to be respectful , those people have tho make a living too.if you eat enough for 2 or 3 people than pay the price 2 or 3 times

[@darengriffiths6097]

You guys should have devotion in the mornings and the evenings with your family or by yourself before you do anything at all. Love the videos I've watched by the way❤.

[@nataliep2741]

Jeannie said what kinda mathematics is that 😂😂

[@karenmav4162]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY QUEEN TAMERA

[@VeeShenge]

Yes, you should know of the gate if the person wants kids or not.I don't want kids and most women want kids and I dont wanna waste my time.

[@neshashantell2375]

The close up on the woman @5:30 😂😂

[@gettintipsy101]

Hahah 😂😂😂

[@siphomalala9748]

Watching this 2021 believe me thus the best thing you can do.Ask on a first date .So you don't waste ur time.I wish some told me this on my early 20s .

[@Era3662]

Check out the little ole lady in the grey at 5:29 - it's all in the eyes.

[@melissamartel9445]

I think it's problematic because he was only eating the sushi which would make it hard for the other customers to get to have any which isn't nice because it's not just an all you can eat for him, the other customers paid their money too and should also get to eat some sushi, but if he was eating an assortment of different meals and allowing the other guests the chance to try everything offered and they still banned him then that would be extremely unfair.

[@e_v_a.m_e_n_d_e_z]

Amigas Cheetahs friends for life!

[@dawnthompson7743]

The more Addrienne says "I can't make this up" makes me think the story is made up. Lonis story too...lol

[@okayimbackwhateverjones]

James made his first mention on The Real, #history

[@mida7777]

All of you ladies look beautiful!!!

[@nreynolds75243]

I solely agree and I'm a woman. I ask the same questions. Why waste time?!

[@amandan20]

Lol the all you can eat convo is just funny 😂

[@beedee7405]

The kids question is a dealbreaker and it should definitely be on the first time you’re meeting the person because it can make or break the decision of seeing that person again absolutely I don’t care if anyone is uncomfortable it will save people time and emotional problems

[@Tan87ful]

Exactly

[@ja_dor58]

They should change the sign to “ All you can eat but don’t eat it all” then 🙄 cause it’s the restaurant’s fault they should have more in the back to refill lol

[@theeelevatedsongstress]

😂😂😂 I’m so sorry but 1/2 baby mommas!! It sounds hilarious Low-key Just the whole 1/2 part. So basically that’s just two yeah 🤷🏽‍♀️ just two no half!

[@Jayyyke]

Perception of conversation is key. Cause they changed it and said “a family that can’t afford food, took their one child that day to eat as much as they can” the convo would be different

[@ms.christelapierre8808]

I prefer to know everything upfront. Tot bagay, on the table.

[@MrsPetal]

Depends on your age, if you’re both 50 or 70 or 80 you really need to discuss wanting kids if you’re oven is expired.

[@lifeofjune007]

"no bitch, no I don't" lmaooo me in my head when people say the same BS to me.

[@syukurabdullah9404]

I mean yea I agree with everyone in all u can eat but honestly he need to let the restaurant know in advance so that they can make 10kg of sushi for him just to eat on that day like I don’t blame the restaurant. They can prepare that 10kg of sushi just speacially for him and the rest are for regular people and families

[@girlzrock764]

Restaurants make a certain amount of food do it stays fresh and it doesn’t go to waste. Obviously they never assume some one like him is going to come and eat 100 plates. If they keep that much food every time , it’s a waste of food. And that’s not good. He can eat all he wants but just inform them before or something because that doesn’t seem fair to the restaurant.

[@changesme110yearsago9]

Adriennes idea reminds me of Mongolian Barbecue. You can stack as much as you want in a bowl

[@Tan87ful]

Interesting

[@kelsfrancis4873]

Adrienne that maths not mathsing 😭🤣😭

[@indeegrace]

It’s ironic the Loni is saying to Jeannie a few seasons ago when her and Freddie were having issues about children just to “have one” and “you can have one” and now she’s saying how harmful that can be to women who don’t want kids

[@rebekah4761]

When Adrienne starting saying 1 and a half baby mamas...I thought she was going to describe fraternal twins with a different set of dads. One pregnancy would his baby and the twin pregnancy would be half his, half from another guy.

[@demetrius_francus1268]

Me too. I was so confused. By the way, the girls were probably bisexuals, not lesbians.

[@Unknown-zk4nl]

It says ALL YOU CAN EAT, nothing rude about it loni and adrienne

[@nickemac910]

omg 🥺 is anyone else watching this in 2021 while james and loni are together 🥺

[@liviennenonord928]

If you never tried to have kids.... Been single! How in the world you'll know if you can have kids? 2. Is there a test to check if you can or cannot have kids in the market if you're: A. Not interested in having kids at the moment B. Not sexually active and never been? C. Etc.

[@gaila.9852]

It's one thing to be unsure and another to know that you are infertile.

[@syukurabdullah9404]

Ok but I get it all you can eat but atleast give a heads up to the restaurants so that they can speacially prepare the amount of food that you eat for his case

[@y0urgirlMC]

It doesn’t have to be a full on conversation. It can be a quick question & move on. Haha.

[@handsanitizer5127]

I'm with Tamara if it says all you can eat it better be all I could eat no limits.

[@dianaesquivel5303]

Oh how Miss Jenkins has changed 😌

[@geniaeugene348]

U guys are the best...u really inspire me a lot...thank u so much.. ♥ with love from Genie...in SA♥♥

[@gaila.9852]

Why just sushi though? He didn’t like anything else?

[@drezy07]

Jeanie talking about a man can't talk you into having kids....thats y never say never. lol congrats Jeanie you found the one.

[@tineeashmon9223]

Live the phone in the other room. Use an alarm clock.

[@msKita43]

📢 You can set a text to deliver at a certain time. He is not waking up, texting, then going back to sleep. He is sending a timed message.

[@elle_l808l]

It's the thought that counts

[@marguliensaintus8896]

Wait. Lmbo what verse was Jeanie trying to quote and how did it automatically apply to restaurant policies😂💖💖

[@Idaology]

Does anyone know what brand Adrienne’s blazer is? I need it, lol