Girl code Doesn’t apply with cheating

[@austinwaggoner3826]

My mom didn't know about my father cheating on her until after he got arrested. She wanted to leave, but his mom begged her to give him another chance when he gets out.

[@DiarraHarris]

Ok?

[@NextianGeometry]

Hope there's enough time for her to realise that's a bad idea and could use the opportunity more wisely.

[@austinwaggoner3826]

@@NextianGeometry They're not together anymore. When he got out, he didn't like how we lived and kept talking poorly about us behind our backs. He has his own place now.

[@NextianGeometry]

@@austinwaggoner3826 I suppose he solved the problem of himself? Glad to hear it, hope things are better now.

[@austinwaggoner3826]

@@NextianGeometry They are. Sometimes, he drunk texts and tells me that mom threw him out. She told him that we didn't like him talking about us behind our backs and told him to stop or he wouldn't be welcome here anymore, but he kept doing it.

[@markfennell1167]

Also, it’s important to note that what is unusual to you is not necessarily unusual to another person Never judge a person’s activities or behaviors based on your own personality and behaviors We should stop talking about suspicious activities because there really is no such thing as suspicious activities. It is only perspective.

[@Generik97]

Ah got it, your one of those types who believes everything is subjective and that society should hold absolutely no morals upon people even when they are stabilizing and good for individuals. 🤪

[@fraterseeker]

I think you're missing a crucial piece of the way women behave around each other, Lin. The woman who is saying that "girl code doesn't apply when you're cheating on your boyfriend" is probably saying that because she was the one who convinced the girl to cheat in the first place, so that she could then go and tell her boyfriend that she was cheating, have that boyfriend break up with her, and then swoop in and steal her girlfriend's ex-boyfriend. Why do you think she's so adamant about not being seen as a bad person? You're too trusting, Lin. You, of all people, should know how women operate.

[@txdang2009]

Women keep other women single

[@AgentSmith1982]

You have created a whole story based on an assumption. It's really embarrassing.

[@fraterseeker]

@@AgentSmith1982 I'm not assuming anything, I just know and understand how women operate.

[@fraterseeker]

@@AgentSmith1982 I didn't make any assumptions. I just know and understand how women operate.

[@markfennell1167]

I say it’s none of their business One of the things I hate most about modern society is third-party is getting into other people’s business If it doesn’t involve you directly, then stay out of it.

[@Generik97]

This absolutely has to be a troll. Cheating in an exclusive relationship is a violation of trust and consent lamo. And in the situation where it's not open relationships are horrendously unstable even at the best of time lamo.