Girl Talk- Answering really personal questions

Hey Tinnies! Today I’ll be answering your questions from Instagram, we’re going to be covering topics about relationships, plastic surgery, sex, confidence and more! Have more questions? Leave them below and I’ll try to answer them in my next Q&A.
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[@tina_yong]

It’s so nice to see everyone open up and share their answers below. Thank you for being vulnerable and honest about your insecurities. It’s made me appreciate you even more ❤️

[@mmcjireyesvivianclairether318]

Learned alot about you with this video. Love it 🌻

[@yu3r11]

Thanks for sharing Tina! ❣

[@rlvashishth]

We love you tina❤️👌👌

[@animachetia6907]

What do you think? Should l love myself how I am or should I do anything like plastic surgery to love myself. Plz reply me. 😥😥 Btw happy birthday in advance. 🎊🎉😷😘♥️

[@gigia2250]

Let's begin from the fact that when your videos are 36 minutes I just LOVE YOU!!!! You are amazing!!!! And I am so happy for you and everything you succeed!!!

[@sachanielsen9134]

Omg I love how you just openly and honestly say “please don’t leave any mean comments, if you do I might not open up in the future, because mean comments do affect me”! Like yees queen let them people know that they can’t just do whatever they want to! I love that you’re just honestly saying that it affects you, mostly people just say “don’t leave mean comments” and I think that makes people want to even more, but now when you’re actively telling people what could happen if they do leave mean comments I think there would be way less of a chance for them to actually do it, because they are confronted with the consequences of their actions even before they’ve done it!! ♥️♥️😘🌸Love you and love your videos! If I could change anything about myself it would be to have even more confidence and to love myself more! And I would love a gift card to Mark & Scribe! Love everything you do! 😘♥️

[@sarak9287]

I see your point, but there are some disgusting ones out there that even if you told them that they will still do it, they don't care what you feel, and knowing that it affects her would make them want to hurt her more, they love having that effect....

[@oliviagrace2246]

For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. John 3:16❤️

[@tina_yong]

❤️ Hope you enjoyed this Q&A! Remember to enter the giveaway by answering this question: "What’s one thing you would change about yourself?”

[@brianabautista7744]

Self love

[@malikbhai81]

Tina Yong I think that if I could change one thing in me it would be my hair condition 🤣🤣🤣💜💜💜....but seriously I want to know your hair care routine.....so please post a video on it.💜💜💜

[@julianitamz]

in the past I would prefer not to hesitated my divorce just because of daughter, it took longer and was painful

[@nirpumagupta3195]

My height

[@Srinidhi127]

Hi Tina! How are you? Hope your day is going well! I love your dress. Where did you get it from?

[@shitalcs]

'cant change a person nature but find the person who you want to be with' is the best advice from Tina , I accept it

[@Nugget-76]

Oh wow this got real really quick 😂 absolute legend! I think your honesty about sex and your relationship troubles really speaks about your maturity as a woman because honestly so many ladies especially Asian women in my community feel its better to not discuss those topics so hearing about it from someone I respect especially so publicly is so amazing. I think the one thing I want to change about myself is to take more initiation and nit let rejection scare me. Loved your video and all of your amazing content 💕💕💕

[@oliviagrace2246]

For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. John 3:16❤️

[@tracytian5517]

please do more girl talk videos, like if u want more girl talk videos!

[@verondaalvarado5812]

✋

[@BothHands1]

definitely would love more of these

[@pineapplekelsey5951]

Yes I love these

[@shivannajake137]

When she talks about topics, she makes it sound so interesting.

[@liaerenezzi6222]

Your right

[@_lovebby8254]

One thing I’d like to change about myself is my procrastination. I would like to work on things that I need to and want to right away rather than waiting and waiting on it. I’d love a voucher for petite cosmetics!

[@verondaalvarado5812]

Love this!

[@schema0000]

Thank you for this. For 22 year-old eldest child, this felt like having an older sister teach me stuff. ❤

[@rileywrenn6808]

Honestly usually I don’t care for Q&As because they kinda bore me, but this one was honestly really interesting and kinda inspiring 😅 loved this video, keep it up Tina!! 👍👍

[@babybluebellz]

I can't wait for her financial Q&A!

[@or4534]

this is so nice. we get to get advice from someone who is a whole role model. Thank you Tina!!!

[@yashtiraj2091]

This Q&A was one of the most educational one I've seen so far. You have grown Tina...I've been watching you for a few years now, it's great to see you at this stage of life. Your babies are gonna be so beautiful. "One thing I want to change about myself is my anger. I get angry on small thing, very quickly, I need to learn to think about situations and then react." Love you Tina❤

[@doreenwatson-read]

I would love to see you going through a pregnancy. If your blessed with a pregnancy, you could try out tummy creams , and talk about hormonal changes in your skin. And please take us shopping for baby . I just love baby stuff and watch loads of birth videos. I really wish I had studied midwifery.

[@99txgh]

You still can if you want to, my sister does midwifery and she has a lot of mature students undergrads or post-grad students in her course, when she started the degree at 18 she was actually the minority, the rest of the students were much older (we live in the UK). I'm a medical student and on my obstetrics placement I was with midwives and have so much appreciation for them, they're so knowledgeable and love their jobs

[@maryanhoussein99]

Tina , this was so amazing. Being in my early 20s and still figuring out so much for myself, I really look towards the older women in my life for guidance and to hear their life stories and experiences, and it was just so awesome to get to hear some of yours. I would absolute love to see another video like this ❤ Sending much love from Canada 😇

[@ddavielle]

the fact that it's becoming more normal for women to talk about such personal things or i guess what people used to consider "taboo" like sex, health, insecurities, etc. makes me feel so happy. so many women have been scared to expose the things that we may not talk about often and these types of videos give us a level of comfort, like a type of relatability (like a big sister lol). i love it here! (also i really want petite cosmetics lashes lol)

[@evaggeliapalaiothodorou]

The one thing that I would like to change is being more confident about the things I love^^. When people make fun of my music taste like "You listen Kpop? They are gay. You don't know what they are talking about." or "You like anime? They are childish." They make me sad and so I don't have confidence 😟. So I end up hiding things I like that and not talking to people. But as the time pass I start thinking that my actions was wrong and I shouldn't be bothered. So yeah, I want to have that kind of confidence, be myself 😊😊. Thank you so much for your advices, love youu!!😊💕

[@jerlinjoseph3129]

Man you're so much like me I face the same problems too my parents and friends don't like the things I watch(anime) and the taste of songs(k-pop) I hv readings this felt like u are another version of me😊

[@peachxtaehyung]

Yes i am the same way! I am really shy about sharing my love of kpop :/

[@rheahan9804]

I love Kpop too. My mom always say that my idols are not that good in singing or they are just beautiful because they had plastic surgery. She thinks that kpop is affecting my grades because I spend alot of my time in it. But i dont really care now because i know none of those are true. And i love kpop for a long time already.💕 so dont mind those people cause it is your life anyways. I hope that you can find a real friend who can appreciate and accept the things that you love.

[@Pailofhoney]

Me too 😔

[@jenniferlocke2104]

Same things happen with me....I too feel less confident standing up for listening to something I like...

[@isabellahfwang]

tina is almost 30???? Her skin looks so young I thought she was only 25 or smth

[@tina_yong]

awww thank you! I turn 30 in 16 days!

[@antarakar4912]

@@tina_yong HAPPY BIRTHDAY IN ADVANCE♥♥YaY!!!!!! Loving from india

[@theyyluvvdivinee]

@@antarakar4912 i thought she was 23

[@user-th3tv8sr8t]

@@tina_yong Happy bday❤

[@cherryblossom3765]

d waiters same

[@elainebzbz]

In the spirit of relationships, the one thing I'd like to change about myself is definitely being more independent and learning how to enjoy my alone time. I've been involved in a long distance relationship for a year and sometimes it's really easy to think like, why aren't we spending all our time together and stuff. I'm just learning about the importance of living my own life and being there to support my partner. Thank you so much, Tina. I really enjoyed this video a lot. Also, I've had my eye on your Petite Cosmetics falsies for a while so I'd probably spend my voucher on that.

[@andreabbna781]

The way you speak and how honest you are, really makes it feel like i’m listening to an older sister/cousin. It was really nice to hear your experiences, thanks! 😊 One thing I would like to change about myself is to stop comparing myself to others, as far as where I am in my career and personal relationships. Petite cosmetics has some cute styles I would like to try

[@Zee-wf5kf]

I really love how the way she talk. It's crystal clear and calm. ❤️ And I've learn lessons from this video too thank you, Tina.

[@mahimashastry7856]

Can we just take a moment and appreciate how brave and open you've been about everything, only to help your viewers! Lots of love and hugs to you and all the best for the future Tina!

[@peachcakesanimations]

She really is thirty, flirty and thriving😂

[@gwen5949]

She’s thirty? I thought she was in her mid twenties.

[@serojasalim]

gwen sis watch the video

[@ninadrangon]

onion unnie HAHAHA periodt.

[@jennynguyen8096]

If I don’t look good like Tina when I’m 30 I’m fighting myself 😭 One thing I’ll probably change about myself is changing my habit of having motivation too late in life LOL it’s like I always tell myself I will have time in the future to do more stuff that I’m scared or nervous to do but those opportunities would easily get taken away. I want to take some risks and go for it except they are the good risk not bad risk •3•

[@jennalin7063]

I love how this video felt like a real girl talk and how honest you were. You are such a pretty human being and I love watching your videos.💕 If I could change one thing about myself, it would be my confidence. I am a bit introverted and I want to be able to confidently express my opinions and talk to people without thinking that others are going to judge me. I also want to be confident in my appearance and my body. I don’t like how I keep picking apart my facial features and judging the way my body looks. Hopefully as I mature, my ways of thinking will change like you. Tina, you are my inspiration😊 (Also, I have stubby eyelashes that even mascara won’t help and so I love your brand, Petite Cosmetics)

[@naseembegum9355]

What i love about tina is that she makes you teleport yourself into places of your own experiences in life and how those experiences can be having more to look forward to in the future...she is someone who has been through alot...well ofcourse all of us do too but she just makes you love yourself and feel good about life in general. If you are watching her videos, you're not wasting your time but you are making your time perfect to explore things out in the world! I am the only daughter of my family but when I watch her videos it makes me get big sister vibes..and I feel safe and relaxed and life just seems beautiful..as if whatever bad times I had has no impact on me anymore...💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

[@tina_yong]

Awww thank you so much

[@naseembegum9355]

@@tina_yong ❤❤❤luv ya

[@lv4656]

It’s crazy to think that I’ve been watching for years and how much more of your personality you put in your videos now, it’s great.

[@clairec9758]

3:05 when tina said it's been 2 and half years since she's been in SG and wooow it's been so long!!! i still remember your moving to singapore and apartment vid :o cant believe it'a been so long ,,, time flies

[@mansipatel6359]

The one thing I would change about myself is to look at life from a positive perspective, I've always only focused on what I didn't have, what I could have had to make me feel better about myself but now after realising the value of everything I already have, I want to view things from a positive and appreciative perspective.

[@thuthaotran13]

The one thing I would change about myself is to get stronger physically because I have been in a wheelchair for 11 years now, but I am not strong enough to push myself for long distances. If I win a voucher, I would use it on Petite Cosmetics because I love that the lashes are for hooded eyes.

[@antonnethcastillejos-sia9899]

Hi Tina! I have been watching your videos for quite a while now. And I must say, this is the very first time that I have commented in all youtube videos that I have ever watched. I just recently turned 29 on the 2nd of August and just like everybody else of my age who are still single, I can't help but think and worry about having a lifetime patner and kids - family of my own. I have been in couple of relationships and all of which just failed despite of giving my all. There was a time when I was on the verge of accepting that perhaps this is my fate. But then seeing you and watching you share what you have gone through made me realize that I don't have to be sad just because most of the people of my age have already been or are getting married. God is just still busy preparing my own Alfred. This may have been just a simple Q&A video for you but for me it's really something so thank you and continue to inspire us.

[@joannazhong5152]

Tina! First of all, I just wanted to say, you’re such a down to earth person, and I genuinely look up to you as my role model. Your videos honestly make my day! Your advice is so wholesome, you’ve taught me to handle bad situations in a mature way rather than holding grudges and making myself more unhappy. Something that I would like to change about myself is my communication skills about my emotions. I have a habit of giving people the silent treatment when I’m mad or sad rather than communicating with them. In my previous relationship, my ex said a lot of things to me when we fought; his horrible words deeply affected me. So now, I’m super closed off about my feelings and don’t like to talk about my emotions. This is something I would like to change about myself as it has gotten so close to ruining some of my relationships with people that I deeply value. Thank you for your video, and keep doing what you’re doing because you truly change lives! Love you ❤️❤️❤️

[@TiffxnyYeh]

You’re the one youtuber that I can sit through a whole 40 minute q&a and stay interested!! 🥰 Something I would like to change about myself is my confidence. I hope that one day I can be more outspoken and confident when I speak! I’d love the petite cosmetic voucher if i win :) Thank you!

[@syazyyyy]

I feel like I'm a pretty sensitive person. I can easily get hurt emotionally and lately, I've been trying to change that. I know my feelings ARE valid but sometimes its just not worth it to dwell on small things. That's something I would like to change. I'm sure my life would be so much happier if I stop doing this. This is such a great video Tina! Thank you for being so open and honest about everything. I love watching your videos. You are so chill and laid back and your voice is so soothing :) As for the voucers, I'm very interested in Petite Cosmetics. Thank you Tina for being such a wonderful role model ❤

[@lindseyc3037]

One thing I would like to change about myself is my mindset going into certain situations. I tend to be more negative when I think about things that are somewhat uncertain and I know that the world doesn't need anymore negativity. Sometimes I think that being negative is my form of hoping for a better outcome in life and the things that happen to me or the world, almost like a coping mechanism to not keep my hopes up for the future. However, by working on my mindset and outlook on life, I think I can do better for myself and the people around me. I would love to use the voucher on Petite Cosmetics to purchase products that could help me express my positivity in a better way since I feel like I can't be open enough with my parents to tell them I want so much to be confident on the inside and outside. I love your videos Tina, and see how much you've grown on your channel and I hope to do the same for myself. Thank you for inspiring me to be the best I can be! Love you Tina! ❤️😊

[@liuangela]

Haha I love these types of Q&A where we get to connect on a more personal level! I think one thing that I would like to change about myself would be to be less afraid of putting myself out there. Like the saying goes, "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take" I think it is important to realize that failure isn't the end of the world. There is a lot of growth and development that occurs and these experiences help shape us into better and stronger human beings. I would like to win the voucher for petite cosmetics because there are so many different styles of lashes on there that I want to try out to see which best suits my eyes! Thanks for such a fun Q&A video Tina!

[@dancingdreamstar]

The one thing I wish I could change about myself is I wish I was more accepting of myself/less hard on myself. I'm my worst critic and I don't cut myself any slack. I'd love that petite cosmetics voucher!!

[@zainabbangash3450]

Yea we are good ami♥

[@petrishalee2315]

Something I would change about myself is my feelings regarding my health. I live with some disabilities and they affect my daily living. When people ask questions, I would love to share and be confident in the person I am now however I often find myself shying away from talking about the negative impacts living with disabilities has as I feel it makes me look “weak”. That’s the biggest thing I wish I could change and it’s something that I am consistently working on. Thanks for the giveaway! (Entering for Mark and Scribe)

[@MrLettuceboy]

I really enjoyed this video. I love hearing people reflect on how they’ve grown. And you can tell that you’ve put a lot of effort into your personal growth. 💖

[@242010mely]

What would I change about myself? Honestly nothing. I’ve always had the strength to love myself and I’m so grateful for that. I’ve gone through bad situations that have made me aware of how important is to love yourself. Do things that make you happy and don’t think about what others will think 💕

[@frimlee7273]

It felt like chatting to a friend. I didn’t want the video to end! Thank you for being so open and honest.

[@krissyleinen]

Me: Don’t have a baby, not even in the mindset to have a baby at the moment. Tina says: “Would you watch if I reviewed baby items?” Also me, without hesitation: yeah, of course

[@ellinesoriao4853]

"What's no one thing you would change about yourself?" That would probably be my tendency to be a control freak. I have learned that in the past and have seen how it affected the closeness of my friendship with some of my high school friends. Being some sort of a big sister to them, back then, I thought I was just being protective over them, making them do what they should and be where they should to save them from having regrets and making mistakes they might not be able to fix. Now, I have come to learn this (the hard way): we are people, we can't be perfect. One way or another, we're bound to do something we wish we never did so we won't do it again. They are people too, they have their own thoughts and opinions. They, too, are their own kind of stubborn. P.s.: I could not have watched your video at a better time. I am actually in the process of overcoming my OCD and showing gratitude for the support of my high school friends who have been with me for 9 or 10 years strong (despite of having a control freak friend). 😍 I love watching videos like this. To see how open and honest you can be is amazing. Through this, I feel like we, your subscribers/ followers feel more connected to you. More girl talk videos and Tina sashimi, please. 😉 Also I would use the voucher on... Mark & Scribe. 😘

[@nattochi5355]

“What’s one thing you would change about yourself?” I hope I can be a person who brushes negativity off easily. For example, I bottle up sad and angry thoughts because I want to prevent arguments; yet, it doesn't help at all if I keep remembering these bad moments. It is indeed a challenging thing to tackle, but it's something I need to get used to 😺 (I will appreciate any of the two vouchers)

[@yvonnesene7287]

One thing I would change is my confidence . I’m pretty shy and I don’t like to be in front of people. You really inspire me

[@suigenerissantos5383]

I like how honest and sincere you were in this Q&A. Really helped.

[@lily-gx3uo]

Also, one thing I want to change about myself is probably patience. I can be really helpful and patient to my parents when I'm in a good mood but when I'm not, I feel like I get annoyed really easily! I'm not sure which giveaway I want to join, I love both, but probably mark and scribe 🥰

[@lily-gx3uo]

I'm loving this girl talk 😍 I'm learning so much about you and your stories are amusing 😅

[@mmcjireyesvivianclairether318]

I love her honesty about the things she got done! It was so relaxed and chill ♥️

[@djasminmiranda8126]

One thing i like to change about myself is that I want to learn how to open up myself to others, it's so hard to keep everything to myself. sometimes I'll just cry all night cause the emotion i feel is just to much.

[@pratiekshasenthilkumar6024]

First thing I would tell is that you are a really huge inspiration for me.. I learned a lot from all the little things u said about ur life and everything.. that helped and is still helping me change.. The one thing I always wanted to change i that... it is never easy for me to accept my mistakes and I end up blaming it on others. And because of this reason I have lost many important people in my life. I am really trying my best to get rid of this behavior or habit of mine. And I think I am improving that part of mine. I have someone by my side who helps me to really point out the flaws and change that part of me. I want to learn to accept myself for who I am too. And also I want to learn to be myself cuz i have actually nvr known myself so like I tend to act different with everyone I meet and it confuses me thinking which one is exactly me.. Hopefully I do become a better person in future where I get to understand people from their point of view. And I would love it if I got a voucher for Mark & Scribe.

[@Peachynabi]

I love getting to see you just open up like this and let us get to know you on a different level! ❤️

[@LoanNguyen-wn9tm]

"What's one thing you would change about yourself?" I'd say I would want to change my motivation, as in become more motivated to do more work or exercise. Mark and Scribe!

[@babybluebellz]

Thank you for answering all these personal questions. I love how open you are being! It really helps me think about perspectives and see how other people I relate to feel.

[@mariebiscuwit]

Tina when you said that what would I want to change myself an answer popped up instantly in my mind is that why would I want to change myself I should be happy for who I am physically, mentally and more. But that’s actually not my real answer, I actually want to change my perspective on life and how I shouldn’t close myself up just because I’m afraid of people’s opinions of me. I want to be the real side of me. I want to be kind, unpredictable and sort of spontaneous in a good way. And I just wanna say thank you for being so honest with us. No matter what stage you are in your life we’re here to support you.

[@Amanda-yg7vc]

I think the thing I really wanted to change for myself is to never be afraid of starting something new or continuing a hobby I really loved doing. I always have this fear that what i do is never going to be enough and that i have to strive more to achieve a certain goal. That's why I get down a lot and sometimes get negative about it. But, slowly but surely, I'm trying to learn how to have patience and value/trust the process. That it's not going to be an easy road ahead. I also needed to change my procrastination like what you've said and my outlook about work. I've been struggling to find work that speaks to me, that I'd really love doing. I hope I can be at a situation in my life where I can be as assured and confident in myself as you, Tina. You're like the big sister I've never had and I'm really thankful and grateful for your life. Everything you've shared with us has truly inspired me, especially your energy in the work that you bring! :) keep it up and I wish you all happiness, love, peace and joy for many years to come!

[@nicolemoses6974]

Pleeeease do more girl talk, I love this so much ❤️

[@Cinderhearth]

"You're much smarter than you look" that's a huge yikes right there 😂😂

[@hannah3970]

Fr 😂😂

[@arialoe4210]

I am only 15 so my parents won’t let me join your giveaway but one thing that I would change about myself would be my eyesight. I’m already -5.5 in my left eye and -6.5 in my right eye. And my eyes are still getting progressively worse every year🥺 it is predicted that if my eyes stabilise at 18 my eyes will reach approx -9. This really affects my mental health because until last year when I turned 13 I couldn’t wear contacts to theme parks so one time they lost my glasses and I had a huge panic attack because I couldn’t see a thing. To the mean replies that I’m gonna get. It not me using my phone both my parents and all my grandparents have/had a prescription of at least -6 so it is not my fault. *edit* Omg! I did not expect to get this much support. I would just like to clarify that yes I am too young for LASIK surgery and I don’t plan on getting it anytime soon. I did get ortho k lenses from the ages of 10 to 11 1/2 but it didn’t quite give me 20/20 vision so my parents decided to stop it. I was also offered atropine eye drops just before I turned 13 but after my “interesting” 🙄 experience with the ortho k lenses and the potential side effects we decided not to go through with it. I occasionally (very rarely) wear soft contacts when I have to go places where glasses might get annoying. I have had glasses since I was 7 so I have leaned to just deal with it. 💖

[@cocoa3519]

I'm the same at 13 though girl. I'm 19 now with -4.0 and -5.0. My eyes stabilized when I'm around 15 and it's just going back and forth at -4.5. If eye sight really gets you, you can maybe consult with your optimologist with the option of LASIK. obviously you are still too young to have this surgery, but it is an option that you can look into.

[@jessicachuyen7617]

Hi! Not that I think you will be getting mean comments but just wanted to clarify that myopia is believed to have a genetic component (hence why your family members also have it) but studies have shown that near work and less time outdoors also impacts on progression. I’m currently studying optometry and was wondering if your optometrist ever suggested orthokeratology or atropine eye drops (when you were younger) as an alternative to glasses/contact lenses?

[@dianadeliso8971]

I wore glasses for 19 years, from 6 to 25. I had -9 and -7 by the time i got laser. Don't let this affect you, find a frame you love and wear it with pride, that's what I did at least. If anyone ever made fun of me calling me four-eyes I would usually say "well, I might be four-eyed but I can see how ugly inside you are 4 times over". Be strong, you can do it!

[@ritachauhan7034]

Please girl take care of your eyesight and don't plan to get laser surgery as if now...wait at least until 18 or so ...I made the same mistake hope you will not follow my path ...more power to you

[@IWantAManager]

You don't have to worry about it.. One of my friend had -9.5 eyesight when she turned 18... To avoid blindness she had surgery at 19.. It's just few years...

[@tammyvo8867]

One thing I would change about myself is setting up systems of habits for my daily life. For the past year, I feel like I have fluctuated so much emotionally because I always focus on the happiness of others. Whether it's chasing after friendships or relationships, I have always put myself as the second priority... or second to last? But after going through my first heartbreak ever in my life, I realized how much I want to invest that effort to flourish my own self. Whether it is making the bed every morning or cleaning the place once a week, I want to celebrate these achievements and grow myself career and educational-wise more. You are such an inspirational woman because you show others in by showing your vulnerabilities and letting us know that is a strength of itself. I hope you continue to be yourself and more

[@shirleytey4139]

One thing I would change about myself is to speak up for myself and don’t be afraid of confrontation. I feel like a lot of the times at work during a meeting, I tend to just follow along others’ opinions and didn’t really give much of an input. I really envy those ppl that are not afraid to speak their mind even in front of the bosses/supervisors. Really hope that one day I can achieve this goal! ONE STEP AT A TIME IS KEY 🔑❤️ would really love to win the Mark & Scribe vouchers!

[@saroneaimah8854]

How do you even respond to a person who says “you’re smarter than you look.” Like......wtf??

[@lily-gx3uo]

"you're dumber than you look"

[@jayesfoodnotes7352]

I get that a lot. People saying "oh you actually have a University face" don't know if it's a compliment or insult maaan

[@beatnote24]

"I was just about to say the same thing! Great minds, am I right?"

[@IncrediBelleJessi]

'My pleasure to prove you wrong'

[@raincassadee2316]

@@IncrediBelleJessi 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@MarianaBeaven]

There's a couple of things i wanna change about my self: first in a more professional level, i want to stop procrastinating. I noticed I procrastinate a lot when I'm feeling insecure about my own performance, and I can be too perfeccionist with my own work, and i often fear about not reaching my own expectations. Another big thing for me, relationship wise, is that I cannot seem to find a perfect middle point between being too dependent and being disconnected with my boyfriend. Sometimes i feel like I need a lot of attention and I can become clingy, but as soon as I don't feel reciprocated, I will become distant and there's not in between. Would love to try petit cosmetics!

[@bambiboy9359]

something i’d change about myself is probably my weight... i’m really skinny and i want to gain more! i may be confident at times, but it still affects me at times i’d love a voucher for petite cosmetics♥️

[@_tryingmybest]

me too! im severely underweight (17 y/o, 150 cm, 34.5 kg) so suuuuuppppper skinny and it is really really affecting an ordinary day when suddenly think that i dont like my body can bring mood down :( gaining weight is freaking difficult

[@danielleblando9751]

One thing I want to change about myself is my MINDSET. I’ve been very much insecure to my skin color, my eyes, my nose, my teeth and a lot more about myself and I always overthink things, so it really hit me when you said “You need to stop all those negative thoughts” I just felt what you said and somehow I know could get through it just how you conquer yours. I salute you for being such an inspiration to me. I’ve been consistently watching your vlogs for many years. - love, your fan from PH🇵🇭

[@mariahoang2498]

One thing that I would change about myself is trusting myself more and not being afraid of failure. I've grown up in a household where failure is seen as such a negative thing. I became really fearful of failing so I never took risks and always calculated my moves. Every day I'm starting to remind myself that I'm still in my 20s and if I fail I have years to come. Although, I know many successes come from some failure, I'm working every day to reframe my fear into confidence! I would Mark & Scribe. Love you Tina!

[@christalialie5678]

I want to say thank you, from this video, i learned a lot, about life, relationships, how to deal with my insecurities, and now i feel like all the shit that i "worried too much" means nothing, i must change myself, change my perspective, change how i see n how i think about something. May God bless u, Alfred and your family 🙏 i adore u sooo muchhhh ❤

[@karenalexamaeallada4097]

Really enjoyed this Hearty talk Tina ❤️ especially when its about the relationship because i recently got married. I did totally relate to this

[@bellflar]

I don't want to change anything 💜✨ it's not like I'm perfect but I love myself like this💕

[@TaKreatywna]

It is so nice that you talk openly about such personal stuff, I feel like there are a lot of people who hide their human side of KZbinr. I feel even more connected to you and Tinas online family :) If I could change one thing about myself is that I would appreciate so much if I could learn to stop to think so much and overthink. I know that I'm not alone in this. Although I try to control it and work on this for years it is really hard and can make life so difficult. Especially when it comes to relationships, I'm in 5 year relationship and my partner is so "said and end of topic", and I dwell about said thinks looking of deeper meaning and connections. I know that a lot of people can relate. I would love to spend the prize on Petite Cosmetics and treat myself in this hard for everyone time now. Thank you Tina for this girls personal talk - you are incredible :)

[@darkangelwings08]

I love how open you are about everything. It really does remind me of sitting down just chatting with a friend about life. As for your question, I would like to be a more outgoing person. To be able to meet new people without feeling super awkward and putting up walls. I've wished this for several years and I'm definitely better than when I was a teenager but I'd love if I could become as comfortable with it as the people around me are. I really enjoy both of your brands so I'd be fine with either of them. Keep up the amazing work, I love watching your videos once they're posted.

[@jimenasanval5702]

The one thing I would change about myself is regarding the way I “feel” emotions. Im very insecure of what I feel in a way that is hard to explain, ex. I get mad at someone but then I start thinking that my anger is just me overreacting and that i will make the other person think I am crazy, so I pretend I am not angry and completely make myself look calm; or maybe I like someone but then I doubt if I actually like them or if its just like me getting fascinated by the person. It is hard to understand I know. This has lead me to anxiety and overthinking habits. Anxiety for me is physical, when I “get/feel” anxiety my hands hurt and cramp up and my chest hurts, while overthinking causes me to become silent suddenly. What I would like to change is my confidence on my feelings and emotions, I want to be more confident with expressing feelings instead of suppressing them and also I want to learn new and better ways to deal with anxiety.

[@jimenasanval5702]

And I would like to win the Petite cosmetics voucher ❤️

[@obscurezzx9347]

Sameee

[@lipikakp181]

One thing I would like to change about myself is my introverted nature. It's so hard for me to talk to someone and I want to lose that fear :) Would love to win the mark and scribe voucher! :D

[@charlie55758]

I think introverts are awesome and have a special gift! We just feel like we don’t fit in because society values extroversion a lot more. I recommend this book “Quiet” by Susan Cain, it changed my perspective of being an introvert!😊

[@lipikakp181]

@@charlie55758 I really appreciate this reply! Thanks for telling me this :) I'll make sure I give it a read😊

[@verondaalvarado5812]

Same! I didn't think of this

[@jamielaw4749]

I am the same! There are moments where I can act "extrovert", but only if I am mentally prepared to and I have to put on a character... otherwise, I have trouble even saying hi to people! I recommend Frank James' KZbin channel :))

[@peterpiper4418]

You're like a big sister that I wish would teach and share me life lessons based on your experiences. It's really interesting to listen to your experiences and how you've matured and the things you've realised about life. Please do that more! love you!!

[@gissellesalgado4]

The one thing I would like to change about myself is to stop worrying about not being were everyone else is weather it’s financially, educationally, or appearance wise, a lot of the times I put myself down bc Im not here or I havent started school, or im chubby etc. I feel like i have to give myself more credits with everything I have accomplished in life and be happy about how I look because im healthy and I have all my legs arms and eyes. Thats really the only thing i want to change about me!!!🙏🏽💗 Love you tina, and im so happy you did this video being so open and honest about these everyday real life topics❤️ thank you so much for everything that you do!!!🥰🙏🏽💓

[@peachplz111]

I appreciate your transparency. You are one of those genuine KZbinrs who are so honest about your life

[@winterismyfavseason]

I'm so glad you and your husband found eachother 🥺

[@tanuk7864]

Tina was literally my big sister in this video! Helped me a lot!

[@emilyb6541]

One thing I would change about myself is my weight. I've had many weight problems over the year and I continuously tell myself to get motivated and lose all that weight and I try so hard every time to exercise frequently but something gets in the way. Usually its just me getting demotivated and stressed about school and exams. So I guess along with that I would change my work ethic and determination to be able to reach my goal of losing my weight! I recently tried the Chloe Ting workout schedule that you did and I'm really hoping to be able to stick to it. I would like to win the Mark & Scribe voucher!

[@isxbxllxsxgxr425]

I feel you. I have the same problem.

[@rachitasingh1673]

Same here but I have personal and family issues also along with studies and it's so hard when you're just a tennager so I know what you feel .

[@MGWuang378]

Oh man Same. I want to lose 10kg

[@oldgrannystan]

from someone who's trying to lose weight too, i wish you the best of luck! hope we both get to reach our weight goal

[@emilyb6541]

@@oldgrannystan thank you so much! its so hard but i'm really trying! Good luck to you too!

[@serendipity9657]

A thing I would change about myself is how much I care about others opinions. I feel like this has affected my life a lot and stopped me from certain opportunities 😞I’m trying to work on this now and I hope I am successful 😓. Thank you for being so open and honest with us! I would love the petite cosmetics voucher ☺️

[@kekmajom]

I watched this right after watching your first Tina Sashimi video where you explained the difficulty of separating your authentic self from your online self. It's so refreshing to see how comfortable you are with being so open and honest on camera and see how much lighter you must feel having broken that down, and now be able to be so transparent. So much love for this!

[@bhumikasamal]

The most important thing that I want to change about myself is being confident the way I am and the way I look cuz I constantly compare myself with others even if I don't want to but sometimes I can't stop thinking about that. Like I wish I was as tall as her or as skinny as her or was able to study and get as good grades as her or as pretty as she is ,etc. I am trying to change myself and accept myself as I am and trying to work hard if I want to achieve something like as I want to lose weight I am trying Chloe Ting's challenge,if I want to get good grades I have to study hard,etc. Thank u for inspiring and helping us to be more confident and believe in ourselves ❤️❤️. And as a student another problem is of course procrastinating.I really want to be able to manage time and focus more on my studies and work hard for the goals I want to achieve. Often times I procrastinate and am not able to utilize my time well😣 but can't and that's something I will definitely improve its a promise to myself.I am happy that I was able to share this with u Tina. Love ya😘😘!! I hope u read my response😊😊. If I get selected then I would like to get the 100$ voucher for Mark and Scribe😄.

[@OnsDlaili1]

You are beautiful smart and you deserve all the best 😊

[@jacy5246]

This is honestly so helpful to hear and I really appreciate how open you are. I can't wait to see cute mini Tina and Alfreds 😍 For me, I would want to change my attention span. Too often I get distracted from a task at hand. If I win, I would love the cosmetics 🥰

[@Youholdmenow]

One thing I would like to change about myself is the fear of asking “dumb” questions and speaking out. Would love the mark and scribe voucher 🥰

[@jessicazhang4543]

Hi! What I really wish to change about myself is my time management and procrastination tendencies. I always get so stressed and overwhelmed easily, and I constantly compare myself to others, causing for me to try and ignore my problems (which we all know is the BEST solution!!). For the past years my work ethic has been deteriorating, which has further lowered my confidence in my abilities. However, I am trying to find my motivation again, and keep going. On another note, I really admire how you clearly state not to post mean comments, because why can't we all try to be less judgmental and have more empathy for each other?? I am hoping to be chosen for the Mark & Scribe voucher; I really like all your hair accessories and earrings! ♥♥♥

[@alairl7769]

I really appreciated your honesty in this video and how you didn't hesitate to share very personal things about your life including sex, periods, and past relationships! If I could change one thing about myself it would probably be my electronic addiction. I know that I am not on my phone and electronics as much as other people but I also know I lose a lot of time to social media and my phone, time that I could be working out, or creating art, or baking and working on more money-making prospects. I often find myself wishing that I was born in the '80s because then cell phones weren't really a thing and people were always outside or doing something worthwhile with their time. Though, I wasn't, I was born in the 2000s and cell phones are a big thing and tend to be a big distraction for people my age. Also, I think that I would appreciate the Petite cosmetics voucher more (though I would be grateful for either one)!

[@diaryofspark]

Omg I loved this video so much, you're so cute :) even though I've been watching you for so long, did not know a LOT about you One thing I would change about myself is my confidence. I am working on becoming a more confident person by accepting and loving myself the way I am. I would love to have the chance to try out your Mark and Scribe brand

[@pamelafuentes64]

I feel like the biggest thing I would want to change about myself is my eyesight. I've had super poor eyesight since I was 6 and as much as I don't mind glasses, I really wish I could go around without them as they do get bothersome when I want to go to the beach/water parks etc. But all in all, I really do love myself and hope to confidently say it out loud ❤️ With the vouchers, I would love Petite Cosmetics, love you Tina! 💕

[@catherine1558]

Love how she's almost 30 but still looks 22

[@Crystalbomb321]

She looks her age and there is nothing wrong with that.

[@Anastasia-gn1uv]

I appreciate how simple and open Tina is and popularity doesn't change her. Tina you are so cute and beautiful. You are the best beauty guru ever. Thank you for your answers and of course for all your video😊😊😊

[@angelayeung5250]

One thing I would change about myself is to not take things personal all the time. I like to make sure people around me are taken care of and having a good time so when they aren't completely satisfied, I feel like it's partly my fault. I would love to win the mark and scribe! Thank you for being so open and honest!

[@narola5183]

those bangs do be slaying tho heehe

[@linor4cha883]

ARMY!!

[@narola5183]

@@linor4cha883 yeyee💜

[@mai-lidenman6804]

What I would change about myself is probably be my cut scars I did it while I was very young because of being adopted and racism against me from kindergarten to high school.

[@watermelonqueen1755]

My friend decided to cover her scars with positive quotes and flowers☺️

[@charro028]

You’re so cute!

[@gaoyoualee2585]

One thing I would love to change would be my mentally. When you’re kind of conditioned the way you’re suppose to be as a child and then you start to realize that you can be your true self but it’s so hard to change that little voice in the back of your head. I would love the mark and scribe. I love all your videos so much!! ♥️♥️

[@amaliejulieegholmkissov353]

To be honest I really loved this video, it was really nice to just sit and listen to you talking about relevant topics. It felt like a comfortable space where opinions can be shared freely, also it was lovely to hear more about you and get to know your personality more since you’re one of my favourite youtubers to watch. But one thing I would change about myself would also be towards my inner personality. I would make myself much more acceptive of myself and my own opinions. I have a hard time accepting several things about myself ex. my introverted personality and I would just really love to be able to love that about myself. I would love to use the voucher on Mark and Scribe! Btw please do make more videos like this! I really enjoyed it!❤️

[@ethylethanoate952]

I had graduated from college, currently waiting for university placement. My major would be something about biology, but to be honest, I don't really like that degree. These days I had been thinking, what is my passion and what do I really want in the future? I assume it would be a long journey to discover what is my career. That's one thing I want to change about myself, to be in the right place and have a occupation I would enjoy. I am grateful as this pandemic period, staying at home gives me extra time to sit back and reconsider my options. I take this time as a healing, nurturing and thriving process. Things may be rocky in the meantime, but I hope all of us can take a step back and rethink the choices we made. Thank you Tina for all your videos, thank you for sharing with us your thoughts and what you had been through, you are a truly amazing and humble individual. Lastly, I would like to have Mark and Scribe voucher, appreciate it!

[@kaylastanley1852]

Hi! The one thing I would like to change is how difficult it is for me to trust and open up to friends and my family. I would like the Petite Cosmetics voucher 🤗❤️.

[@minsugababy]

OMG TINA!!!! WE ARE BIRTHDAY BUDDIES!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️ IM TURING 19 ON JULY 16!!😂😂

[@pinkpanther1221]

When ur so early that ur not even sure if your still in this universe

[@tebetheia]

Thanks for your openness Tina! Love your content so much. The one thing I really want to change about myself is how snappy I am when I encounter the slightest inconvenience. I always tend to take my anger out on my partner because I always bottle up how I feel towards the public, even though he's the only person who knows me down to my core and is always so sweet and understanding towards me.

[@mayrinvarkey9134]

Your advice about changing negative thoughts and channeling them into positive thoughts made my day. I'm gonna try it.