GIRL TALK: Moving Regrets, 6 years No Ring, Social Anxiety, etc. + Q&A | NaturallySunny

[@sosharla9915]

You will find in life people will always try to push things on you. Once you get married it will be kids . Then they need a sibling. It will always be something. Ultimately, it's your timing and God's timing that matters.

[@ellanjemartin]

this is so real, married and have a 5 year old. people have been pushing us for a second child for the entire 5 years of my sons life, we might not have anymore just to piss people off 😂

[@sosharla9915]

@ellanjemartin Haha Iove it!!

[@NaturallySunny]

That part!we aren't letting anyone rush our journey!

[@NaturallySunny]

Omgggg! And i would do that. Cause what! Are you about to have the baby?? Oh okay

[@kemaclem]

Not sure if you are advising that you know & aren’t ready or he knows and isn’t ready…..Either way, DO NOT let another 6 years pass you by(your 20’s& part of your 30’s) putting someone else’s needs before your wants/needs & desires! You are absolutely beautiful and highly intelligent…and nurturing. I KNOW there is a man out there that needs & wants that NOW! Not 6 years from now. So if the ring is not important then STAY. Get comfortable. But as you said you are “trying” to get out of your comfort zone. Apply that mindset to ALL parts of your life…not just moving out. I’m old enough to know that NO WOMAN wants to look back at her 20’s/30’s as time wasted.❤

[@NaturallySunny]

My man doesnt stop me from my wants, needs and desires. I still do what I want like travel, explore the world, get into new hobbies, etc. & when my relationship turns into marriage, it won't stop me from nourishing my own desires to be a free spirit.

[@manimarie08]

I agree with reply above. I don’t think we want to push marriage on you necessarily but I believe what the reply is really saying is don’t waste your young / good years “waiting” on anything. A man, a job, etc. ❤

[@dadondiva2365]

⁠@@NaturallySunnyI think your too much in your head and missed the point of the message! The message is not about you not doing or being able to do things because of a man. It’s about you waiting for something unknown in the future that may never come. Live in the moment and go for what YOU truly want for you right now !! Don’t waste the pretty!!

[@dadondiva2365]

If your waiting to see if he is going to be down for you, after 6 years, and your not 100 percent sure yet that’s alarming!!

[@nami2hot]

I just got married (2023) we were together for Ten years before we got engaged. It wasn’t that we didn’t want to. We knew we were each others person we just had to make sure we were setup for success. Mentally, emotionally etc that took time. I hate that the world makes it seem like if you’re not engaged within two years that your relationship some how loses value or in most case what they tell women “he must not really be into you” it’s stupid and a lot of the times wrong. God timing is God’s timing ❤❤

[@jaclynjoyce1237]

I truly believe that people need to stop focusing on society's timeline. We were taught to believe certain things growing up. God has individual plans for each of his children. It's important to trust the process and wait for his signal before rushing into anything.

[@Antosimbi]

Actually a lot of times it’s right, we shouldn’t focus on the exceptions. Focus on who your man is and see him for who he is to determine if they want you or not. But most of the time if a man is making you wait that long something is going on.

[@ihama99]

​@@AntosimbiExactly. Except you are are really young. 10 years. No thanks

[@wrightljac]

Actually you’re the exception not the rule. Grown men know within a year.

[@noirefit5954]

You’re the exception babe, not the rule. He could’ve easily have wasted your time but he didn’t. Congrats on the marriage though! You earned it lol

[@KGEswerve]

I lost my dad in 2010 and it's still hard. Sometimes it's hard to be that rock for others when you are still navigating your own feelings.

[@mizz2ts86]

Listen honey! I am 38 years old. I have been married since I was 24. It is beautiful, but it is hard! We love each other, but the only thing that has kept us together is God! Don’t allow anyone to rush you. Get your finances together, your emotions, your relationship with God (separately/together), and your communication with each other. I also suggest counseling together prior to marriage. Don’t allow anyone to put a time frame on something that is easy to get into, but hard to get out of especially when children are involved. We are coming up on 14 years and I’m happy we stuck it out and fought through the tough times. I also agree with the comments about not allowing someone to drag you along when you’ve made your intentions/plans clear. This is your life and you only get one. Do things how and when you see fit. My prayers and blessings are with you love❤

[@kikibunche8367]

@mizz2ts86 sis you said everything!!! I was thinking.

[@mizz2ts86]

@@kikibunche8367 like girl marriage ain’t no joke and it ain’t for the weak! It’s not like these tv shows. And it doesn’t have to only involve infidelity for you to have problems. There could be a host of other things. People just don’t know until you are in it. I tell everyone to take your time, but also don’t waste your time either…ya know! They know if they want to marry you. If you are both in a mutual understanding of what you are both working towards I get it! Baby these are things I wish someone had told me! 🙌🏽❤️ Thank God we are on the other side of of, but Jesus was the reason😂😂😂😂

[@kikibunche8367]

@mizz2ts86 😂Amen! And yes I’ve shared with some other sisters in Christ, that I Thank God I had a foundation(Jesus Christ) before I got married because I would have lost myself! Marriage is a beautiful thing WHEN ITS DONE RIGHT IN CHRIST🤍 sometimes I come across women that’s so desperate to get married, but don’t understand that marriage is a death walk. Constantly dying to self. who ever came up with the saying marriage is the beautiful house with the white fence or however that saying is is a lie from the pits of HELL!! marriage is WORK!! And MOST DEFINITELY NOT FOR THE WEAK. I don’t know you sis but so glad to see a likeminded sister 🤍🧎🏾‍♀️‍➡️

[@wrightljac]

The last thing you want is a man that’s not sure about you. If you made it clear that you want to be married, and y’all have been in a relationship for 6 years & cohabitating what is he waiting on. I’ve been following you for years and admire you, so please don’t take this the wrong way. You’re single until you’re married. I’m not saying date around, I’m saying keep your guard up.

[@NaturallySunny]

We don't live together.

[@NaturallySunny]

If we were playing house then.. yeah that'd maybe be a different story. But i live on my doli girl.

[@horochata]

@@NaturallySunny I like that response. People in today’s day are too comfortable w playing house & rushing stuff . I see both sides. But I always will believe in doing what’s best for you girl . This nobody life’s but yours. Don’t let people pressure you

[@lajuanalivingston2181]

Hey Sunny!! I'm a silent supporter. I have never commented on KZbin but I follow you on all your platforms. Let me just say you represent us in the DMV well. I appreciate your content. I pray you continue to be blessed and successful always!!

[@AfricanMermaidOfficial]

You and I both. I love you Sunny all the way from South Africa.

[@mariahceline]

Ugh i swear we don’t deserve you sometimes. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing this much needed girl talk🤍

[@NaturallySunny]

Thank you so much, you are so sweet! 🥹

[@PhyliciaTheDiva]

Hey Sunny Girl... I'm here Chile'. I feel you. I lost my Dad at the tender age of 11. I was depressed and had to learn to deal with the loss of my Bestfriend extremely early in life. Don't allow people to rush you to get married. Our own sensitivities and being vulnerable about life no one will ever completely understand. Either way, keep yourself positive and really close to God and the people who love you the most. The things that are for you will come when God knows you're capable of being the greatest version of yourself to be your happiest in every single part of your life in your own timing.

[@lisawatson-roberts4567]

Sometimes grief hits hardest during the aftermath of happy events. If people took their vows seriously and understand 'better or worse' be very few divorces. Stay true to who you are❤❤

[@tf2432277]

The hair and makeup Is everything ❤

[@MsLady1916]

Dont let anyone push you into anything as longterm as marriage. I waited until my 40s and STILL struggled. We were great friends and had been through a lot together but going through things in a marriage is very different because your decisions, emotions, trials, etc affect you both and the enemy comes at you 10x harder once you say "I do". Love will do 2 things: last and wait ♥️🙏

[@maryburton9308]

Losing love ones never goes away. We learn how to continue to live. Live your life on your terms because it's your life to live.

[@AmandazzWorldd]

Girl we here for you for the long run highs and lows we lowkey internet besties and we love you ❤

[@NaturallySunny]

Locked in🤝🏽🤍

[@2infinityndamom]

The slumber party sounds lit. I worked a meet and greet you had and instantly wanted to be your best friend. You’re beautiful inside and out and just keep guarding yourself from the negatives. Your amazing as you should be ❤

[@uniquelyshellz]

Hey Sunny, I have been following you for a couple of months and have been enjoying your content. In addition to that, my heartfelt condolences on your dad's passing. I know all too well about losing loved ones and it's a feeling that may never go away. I am declaring God continues to give you strength and peace as you navigate your journey of healing and self-discovery.

[@rikaluvtayacalvin]

I’m absolutely delighted to hear you talk about not rushing into marriage at an early age. Please do not rush into it! Marriage can be a very beautiful union if each of you know yourself, love yourself, and have each other’s back. I can only speak from personal experiences.

[@CurlieRee33natural]

You are one of the most genuine, authentic and sweet KZbinrs I follow and I LOVE you girl! Keep doing what only YOU can do cause you are the BESTEST!❤️❤️

[@duhh345643]

My man and I have been together almost 6 years and got engaged earlier this month. Everyone kept telling me to “leave him, move on, he doesn’t know what he wants.” People are quick to judge from the outside without knowing anything about a person. My fiancé is my best friend and I can’t go into words how good he treats me and all of the things he’s done for me the moment we started dating. I met him when I was 20 still trying to understand life and myself I couldn’t imagine marrying anyone around that time. We always talked about our future together and now the time is right. I noticed the ones who judge quickly are single, miserable , struggling to find or keep a man and want to drag you to their position. If your happy with your partner that’s all that matters!!

[@tiyyas3022]

Atiya, you're human and have ups and downs. Part of growth is learning to safeguard yourself while balancing vulnerabilities. You and Aaron know what you have, never let people pressure you into destroying your relationship with their opinions. They will always have something to say whether you're dating, single, married, one child, two plus children in etc. As a soon to be 35 year old who watches you regularly, you are growing into such powerful woman who is sure of herself, her passions etc. Keep it up! Love you and Cooper!

[@latoyabattle]

I abso love your videos. Grieving is a process. It's like a roller coaster. At some point you're ok but then something triggers you. I think once you get to the point of acceptance, it becomes a little easier when you're triggered. You got this girl! And take your time

[@itzvaughna]

I lost my father in 2017 so I completely understand where you’re coming from. Im in an amazing relationship and we have spoken about marriage and kids down the line but losing my brother last year made me fully realize and im still coming to terms with not being able to have both of them experience those journeys with me. It’s very hard and im constantly telling myself to continue to make them proud…… but um yea i completely understand and i appreciate your transparency and your content is amazing! Always do what is best for you and continue to grow because you got this girl! I see you i support you im proud of you!

[@ShaniseNicole]

First of all Sunny you’re stunning & secondly when it comes to YOUR relationship protect it & set boundaries I’ve been with my husband for 14 years and we just celebrated our 11 year marriage anniversary and girl marriage is not something that’s a cute viral moment it’s something you love, nourish and protect and it’s not a easy decision to make at all. I used to do content creation and my relationship & my kids is not my social world but my real world folks could get a sneak peak but those are two things I do not play about. Continue to set boundaries & live for you and girl you are on God’s timing don’t let no one rush you

[@NaturallySunny]

Thank you so much beautiful! And im rooting for yall! 14 years is beautiful!🥹 i know its so much you learned. And thats what i am excited for. To see who me and aaron will be 10 years from now. & never will.

[@ShaniseNicole]

@@NaturallySunnyyes girl and still learning everyday I’m not too big on giving relationships or marriage advice because every relationship is different but I do say set boundaries when you said even our family ask I was like hecks nooooo our families know better we set that boundary while we was dating because it be draining especially when it comes directly from in your circle, but once you open that door and you expose yourself to social media especially your relationship unfortunately the unwanted opinions come but I used to tell myself I’m not showing all my life to be relatable or transparent to please my subscribers your people will always be your people and don’t need to know all your or see all your business to support you, I wish you the best babes God Bless and Be Encouraged 🖤😘

[@iamsarasnipes]

❤ I love how real and vulnerable you are, Sunny! Totally relate

[@AtiyaTene]

Sunny, i completely empathize with you so much on loosing your dad and all of your fears that have come along with it. i lost my dad in 2016. they stay in your head through your biggest accomplishments and that’s ok because your human you have a right to feel. I just try my best to pour into me and to let myself know that this is a baggage i will have to carry for the rest of our lives we just learn to grow with it the best way you know how. ❤️ hang in there girl! ❤️

[@SimplyTeeG]

Girl, I’ve been rocking with you since the panni and, although I don’t comment as much as I used to because now I watch you while I’m driving, the growth is amazing! I felt like your energy had shifted towards the end of 2023, to the point I sent up a couple prayers cause I was like what’s going on with Sunny?! And now for you to get on here being fully transparent is truly honorable, Sis. Honestly, that in itself shows that the love is mutual because even though you owe us nothing, you lowkey gave us a therapy session. I will forever be a supporter and let me find out I need to scroll the comments to get folks together so you don’t have to. People are weird because you literally do nothing to deserve any hate. Keep shining sis and Ima be tuned into every second of it. It’s nothing but love over here, boop! 🩵

[@NaturallySunny]

Awww thank you so muchhhh! You know i always appreciate you! I see theat profile picture and KNOW oop my homegirl is here! Yeah i knew it was showing up in my content which lowkey sucked. But i was still tryna show up😮‍💨

[@SimplyTeeG]

@@NaturallySunny Awe, period! Definitely gang gang 🤘🏾. & you showing up was and will continue to be appreciated. We’re all spiritual beings living this human experience and life be lifing lol…the difference is your life be lifing with a camera in your face. Real ones know grace def has to be extended 🫶🏾

[@j.angelic]

Whew chileeee the first part of this video really resonated with me 😮‍💨 I lost my dad almost 10 years ago and it still feels like yesterday the pressure from the world to rush you into marriage and kids is soooo annoying! I been with my significant other for almost 13 years and we are good where we at! Setting boundaries with your family is very uncomfortable but they gotta know it’s really not your business lol

[@NaturallySunny]

It really isnttttt! It is your life and sll the happy memories Im sure you have made is so worth creating those boundaries

[@JamillaandQue]

I have followed you for years boo and after meeting you in NY, you have such a beautiful spirit! Thank you for being so transparent and sending you love boo 😘

[@mahlodimathebe1995]

Hay Sunny, honestly honey take your time. This is your journey and no one should be out here pressuring you to move according to their made up time line in their heads. I've had to remind myself of that everyday because everyone's journey has to be different.... Now go out there and keep being your fine self 💋💗

[@Jewellianna]

I LOVE this video Atiya!💞 Such real and great vibes! ✨🙌🏾

[@adorable193]

I’m sorry for your loss! I’m praying for your strength and healing. Remember it is okay to NOT be okay sometimes, you’re still doing amazing! ❤

[@TashabyNature]

I lost my brother last September and my life has shifted so much. So many sad days, anxiety and depression just a journey. My dad is also very up there in age and not in the best state and I worry about not being married yet. I just don’t think about it anymore, I just let it flow and trust God at this point.

[@delyoung1282]

Hi Sunny I'm sorry about the loss of your Dad. 🙏 I came to you from Mrs. MRS. Jemima and I love your content so I'm locked in.😊 Sunny you do you, and drown out the noise. Girl if you only knew how long me and my husband was together before we got married you would be shocked I can honestly say to you it is REALLY the Love and it's not just a Marriage so take your time what's meant to be will be. Me and my husband we are still each other biggest supporters at the end of every day. So BLESSING to you AND your guy. 🙏 Thanks for SHARING

[@michellecarter4581]

Hello Sunny! Lost my dad in 2022! Still hard and has a birthday of St. Patrick’s! Love you Sunny! I am a real subscriber! Love your vlogs!❤i want nothing but blessings for you and your family! Gorgeous hair and makeup! New levels with new devils unfortunately! Too bad….they are the ones insecure! Keep vlogging!❤

[@truetotash]

Loving the top, Sunny! 😍 I was engaged for six and a half years before saying “we do”😅 Marriage takes sacrifice, compromise and selflessness, no need to rush or feel pressure when you have the ONE 🙏🏾🫶🏾 Girl “post and go!” is my go to now, it becomes so overwhelming and triggering so breaks are a necessity 🙌🏾

[@lesak7115]

Relatable content. I lost my dad in 2021 and I have been up and down every since! Continuing to be gracious with myself. Thankful for it all. Stay the course🙏🏾 we got this. Just live your life the rest will follow.

[@TonyaRenae]

Hey girl! This comment may be a little lengthy, but I have to get this out after watching this video. I am a super small content creator and watching you keeps me going instead of giving up. You are so inspiring and genuine. In my head, you are my cousin. Those people who speak negatively and judge you are probably speaking from their personal insecurities. I feel like when people have issues they project onto others. Keep shining your light and being your genuine self. I'm tripped out that someone had the nerve to say you don't want others to elevate higher!! All I get from you is that you are a strong supporter of everyone around you!! Also, take it from me, like you said, marriage is serious. I've been married since 2018 but together since 2012. Growing together and learning one another is so important. It is all in God's timing. Don't let others try to rush you. Keep shining Sunny!!! Oh yeah, I want to dye my hair ginger but I'm scared LOL

[@rarebrie]

5:22 Hey girly! People are ALWAYS going to have something to say when it’s NOT them. Especially when it comes to marriage! 🙄 My husband and I were together for 6 yrs before he proposed and people would always try to rush him into proposing and I hated it. He proposed when we both felt like WE were ready. What’s for y’all will ALWAYS be and nobody or nothing can change that. Continue to pay them NO mind. Love and light always, in all ways boo. 🤎

[@michellealexander6287]

Hi Sunny! I’m a faceless supporter (introvert)I’m definitely here watching every vlog routing for you in all that you do. I love your content and love seeing you grow💕

[@TommiMusic]

Thank you for your transparency. Forget the noise & focus on what brings you joy & comfort. Much love 💙

[@Sunkissjayxo]

I have been watching you for a few years and I absolutely love love your channel and I appreciate you sharing your truth with us. You are truly an amazing person and such an inspiration to me ❤

[@allofdestiny]

I gotta do 30 mins of cardio, you’re a lifesaver 🥹okay back to the video. Edit (after completion) I felt you on SO many levels on all of these topics so I’d be forever typing all the points I agree with you dropped so many gems and transparency. I feel like people treat the creators they watch like modern day sims and they wanna use the remote controller to our lives/content and it ain’t happening. Marriage is serious, it’s not a run to the store for a basic tshirt. People push kids like they’re the ones who will wake up at 3am to change/buy pampers. This video is so so profound. I’m proud of you for filming this and feel inspired to do a Q&A too. The alley girls are pathetic and sad😂 that’s a lot of invested free work to gossip daily with no bag involved. Feel honored girl because you gotta be SOMEBODY to even have a thread dedicated to you💪🏾heavy on post and leave. I be feeling bad for it sometimes but it’s def necessary. You’re a light, keep shining bright Sunny. Love you girl 💕

[@AccordingtoAma]

that's such a cute meet & greet idea !!!

[@NaturallySunny]

Eek! I really want to do it! Liek that is my DREAM meet and greet! Charcoochie boards, snacks, pizza, games, and skincare. Hellooooo! A good time😮‍💨🤝🏽

[@shiricathomas]

EXACTLY WHAT I AM GOING THROUGH RIGHT NOW! A month before my dad's birthday 2 days ago. I'm definitely going through it.

[@NaturallySunny]

Sending you soooo much love boo🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@justjanicesierra]

My dad passed in 2022 and I'll be getting married the end of this year. It's definitely tough. People have to see that marriage is more than just the wedding day. You don't have to apologize or explain to other people about your relationship❤.

[@jamilahhendricks7681]

Hey Sunny gworlll 👋🏾 It’s so good to see you post today! Thank you so so much for sharing your vulnerability 🙏🏾💕 with us and don’t be ashamed on how you live your own life because at the end of the day it’s your life to live, not other people. That’s why we love you ❤ because you’re a real one 🤞🏾& I feel the same exact way with grieving over my father as well he passed away in December 2013 (it’s been a decade already but that doesn’t mean I don’t miss him any more or less because that’s just not the truth). Especially when it comes to future milestones like having kids and marriage, etc. and not being able to have that loved one physically be there to witness that is what hurts but he’s with you Sunny and he’s so happy and proud of you and the woman you are becoming. I’m also thinking about moving back home to the Midwest (which I’m originally from) currently living in California and just things aren’t working for me but I know God has a plan and purpose for me, and for you and everyone else on this comment section. Yes most definitely get out of your comfort zone! ‼️ Love you ❤

[@Itzbreunna]

I love your personality Sunny! And your Hair always eats. From a person who has lost their dad recently I can relate to how you feel. I randomly have days where I’m sad and down and I wish I could talk to him.

[@ellebelle222]

Sunny is such a beauty. Truly inspirational. What a beauty, inside and out 😘

[@daysiashute2650]

Hey girl my dad ain’t even in my life and I’ve come to grips with the fact that my dad ain’t gonna walk me down the aisle. He’s alive but I don’t talk to him at all it sucks but he made it that way 😊 so I can understand you’re feelings some what .

[@NaturallySunny]

Mmm! Im so sorry😔 that really is a sucky situation especially with him being alive and able to make the decision. Im so sorry you had to come to terms with that sis

[@lifeofamaka6479]

I just can not imagine you getting hate. You are such a beautiful genuine soul so vibrant and sweet. I 100% agree that not everyone even us!! has to know about your personal life especially the marriage rush topic. No one should have any access to your own relationship at all, people should mind their business and I agree with you being selective with what you share.

[@Whitneyd21]

I’ve once heard that lust can present as love and it often takes ATLEAST 3 years for lust to show itself in relationships (to see if it was really love or not). I’ve been with the same man for ten years. We met when I was 19 (aka a baby) and people don’t understand my journey but I’d much rather move according to God and know that the foundation that is built will stand strong within a marriage. I know your reasons are different but I’m praying that as you continue to discover new things that you give yourself grace, continue to ignore naysayers and have peace in the good gifts that God will bestow on you.

[@miszbrown6801]

The sleepover is a vibe! Love that!

[@CorneliaS0308]

Awwww I enjoyed this video! The transparency was refreshing. I feel like not having a ring is not a big deal. I’ve been with mines over 10 years and no ring. 💍 we are very happy and content and just building. Doing everything we would do, and just was never one of those girls who was about all of that.

[@edithsampson7223]

Good Morning Sunny 🌞 I just want to say I Love you for who you are and how original you are. Please keep being the person you are. I have loss both of my parents and I want to say I know the feelings, the struggles and the sadness you are going through. Please keep your head up and know you have friends who understand you. ❤❤❤❤

[@ToniaTameka]

I remember when I first found your channel. 💜all the phases I’ve seen you grow through.Keep them boundaries up, keep the mystery up…clear up nothing🙅🏽‍♀️ Cooper is my daughter’s virtual puppy😂😂

[@NaturallySunny]

HAHA! okay to the clear up NOTHING! And awww, I have to give him some love from her! That just made me smile girl!

[@aviibeautyy]

always giving us transparency. Keep goin mamas🌻

[@authenticallykay_]

Take your time friend don't let nobody push their agenda on you! let it be God speed not theirs. I Pray that when the time does come that God comforts your heart in the most precious , biggest moment of your life!

[@takishajohnson7145]

Wishing you the beat! I love your personality, your style, your transparency. Please don't let these people change you. I love the Sunny part of you. Take care of you ❤️

[@calynnie]

I lost my dad 10 months before my wedding day!! My uncle and brother stood in for him but GIRL it was so emotional BUT GOD brought me through it and it was a beautiful day AND we’re still together after many years! Please Sunny don’t vibe off of those negative comments people are so miserable and they’re soul purpose is to (try) to bring other people down! I enjoy your content, God bless🙏🏽💞

[@NaturallySunny]

Oh my! Im so sorry to hear that sis. Im getting emotional thinking abojt that for you. But i am so happy yall are still together.

[@NaturallySunny]

& it is. It is.. i just look to God for my guidance and answers.

[@LadyDJBoston]

I've been following you for a fast minute. You are and always have been in Empress mode. Keep shining your bright light. 🌞 Thanks for sharing with us.

[@mssweetie14]

I lost my dad 6/8/03 n I was only 11 years old when I find him dead… Getting married is my biggest issue knowing my father can’t walk me down the aisle. Then had plan for 2 of my uncles to walk me… but they both passed away in 2015 now I’m stuck b confused bc all of my uncles done passed away… trust me I feel ur pain love ❤

[@Toiorchid86]

Sunny, I appreciate you for being vulnerable and transparent. 🙏🏽 I will never understand why society rushes people so fast. The timing for getting married, having kids, buying a house, starting a business, getting a degree, moving out of your parent's home, etc. looks different for everyone. People need to normalize, not pressuring other people to live their lives based on expectations. However, in the words of @allofdestiny, "society doesn't favor individuality." 🤷🏽‍♀️ Btw, some people in this comment section are doing exactly what you were talking about in the video... they're reaching! 😂🤦🏽‍♀️ I love your hair, gworl!

[@JohvannaA]

Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable with us 🫶🏽

[@bridgethegap91]

The slumber party is such a great idea! I would def attend even though I’m located in another state lol. Thank you for this video!

[@ItsPersonalwithAshleyElle]

Going on two years since I lost my dad so I totally get the wedding sentiment ❤

[@carolhawkins2752]

Sunny you are so right about marriage but it’s definitely what you both make it but you will feel it when it’s time you are so beautiful inside and out and you both look good together so just take your time I didn’t get married til I was 40 but that’s when I felt the person I was with was the one and he definitely was and still is so just take your time and I wish you well❤️

[@LizzGlams]

Aww sunny I enjoyed this❤ always love your videos, appreciate your transparency

[@NaturallySunny]

Thank you for listening!

[@briharvey7993]

It’s Sunny the Beautiful One ❤❤❤❤❤

[@aishabell1009]

I love your energy and I wish you all the best in any future plans!!

[@itsoliviaoctavia]

I lost my mom when I was 2 weeks away from having my first baby, her first grand. He is now 2, & it was and still is HARD. Losing a parent in general is hard, but you feel that loss more during milestones.

[@itzjustkay1972]

Auntie in the House 😂- Thanks for answering my questions. Luv this vlog. Sorry you went thru that a few months ago. You are appreciated, and don't ever stop being YOU!❤❤❤

[@nancyfranks7521]

Hey lady don't stop until your good is better and your better is best ❤ it's your life keep up the good work you guys look good together and listen to your heart and your mom 😊

[@gorgeousgorgeousgirl6754]

i love these vids sunny! makes us feel way closer through the screen 🥰❤️❤️

[@ellegraham8559]

Being really open on Social Media is really no different than in any other area of life, where you don't REALLY know the people! (I know I used 'really' too often ... lol!!) I'm generally a very open person, and often share too much, and it can come back to bite you in ways that you could never imagine, because we don't think like that and wouldn't treat another person that way! It's hard lessons learned ... especially the one to VALUE those people that we can really trust, and unfortunately we will always have to be smarter about what and who we share ourselves with!! LISTENING CLOSELY, AND TRUSTING YOUR 1ST INSTINCTS are VERY IMPORTANT tools when determing who, what, where, when you can trust and don't DIVE IN too quickly! You're smart, you know what to do! ❤🎉😊❤

[@JayMoReads]

Love this! Glad you’re doing well! Keep taking care of you sis! 💜 cute fit as well!

[@OnederfuLEE]

Sunny why do you keep reading Lipstick Alley comments? 12:14 You mentioned it twice.

[@NaturallySunny]

I havent went on their since 2020. Im just saying thats where the girls like to go and gossip about influencers

[@MiriamHss]

Love this vlog so much!

[@tarshalewis3123]

Hey Sunny I started following you a few months ago. And I really love your style and content. Keep doing you sis love it ❤

[@crysloves2eat_eat]

Love you Sunny♥️

[@NaturallySunny]

🤍🤍🤍

[@maviswiggins4912]

I really enjoy all your content, and thank you for opening up with us about some personal issues!🤗❤️

[@fendibanks746]

LOOOOOVE YEEEEEWWWW GREEEEEEEWL ❤❤❤❤ Just droppin' in to say heyyyy!

[@tanialeee]

Ooommmgggg. I say solo dolo all the time at work and my coworkers look at me like I’m crazy lol.

[@PropheticHealingMinistries]

this was honest and good amd i know you probably have so muxh more to express but cant not here anyway but its a release God is good ❤❤❤

[@CandidlyToni]

Everyone has these imaginary timelines. At the end of the day you have to do what’s best for you and your relationship. Relationships are had work, marriage is even harder. One thing you’ve said that is important is growing together in your relationship. Learning and understanding. Marriage will happen when it’s time. Only you two can decide that.

[@Nthatithibela]

Come to south Africa for vacation girl, it will be the most beautiful vacation ever.

[@NaturallySunny]

Definitely on my bucket list of travel destinations!!

[@magdalaleon7172]

Love your content gurl ❤

[@ThatsSoGwennie]

Sunny Gworl!!!🙋🏽‍♀️ Glad you were able to vent to us. When it comes to marriage and parenthood, it will happen when it’s supposed to. ❤

[@bohosweet]

6 years no ring is a bit much tho…you’ve given so much to another person. Men know. Men know immediately and don’t waste time when they know. Genuinely wish you the best tho.

[@NaturallySunny]

KNOWING and being READY is two totally different things though. Being ready looks completely different than knowing you want to be married to someone fyi. And girl you do not wish the best for me & that is okay 👌🏽

[@darling-niki8811]

Yea I AGREE!!! I say IF someone doesn't know after 6 years+ that they're ready to commit to you, then that's a major RED FLAG. Also being that you have moved out on ur own, pay ur bills on ur own & A man that doesn't feel a way or compelled to want to help his woman BUILD that together??? Ummm IDK- feels OFF to me. But to each its own & well wishes.

[@takishajohnson7145]

Congratulations on having a love that is willing to grow with you and do right by you. When you all are ready, things will be beautiful! Your life! Your own pace! Your story to create!

[@bohosweet]

@@NaturallySunny not to be going back-and-forth or anything like that, but you can genuinely have a difference of opinion and still wish the best for someone. I have been a silent supporter for a long time, and I think you are a beautiful young woman with a good head on your shoulders. There was no ill intent just a caution to the wind. Something I see in my line of work quite often.

[@kemaclem]

@@bohosweet Reading your original comment with an OPEN MIND vs playing defense would see no ill intent. You are absolutely correct. Men know! And men who appreciate & know what they have, don’t hesitate. They are READY to make a move, not comfortable & enjoying the amenities. Do not expect someone(a MAN) to make a costly commitment if it will give them nothing they do not already have! Message!

[@lucialorenzana1554]

I would just say that if you are a Christian and you believe in the word of God. Put God first above having sex etc because sex is meant for marriage for intimacy , to bond, and to pro create with your husband. Outside of marriage sex is sin and displeasing to God. It doesn’t take years to get married, it only takes the true desire , and understanding of its importance by both the man and the woman. So really it’s just between you and God and where you’re at spiritually.

[@FearofGodmom]

Amen.

[@Sincerely_Ky]

Period

[@mzbreannaa]

Amen sis

[@jazzyjazz1823]

I think your journey with your partner is your business and not people place to give an opinion. I just loss my father a month and a half ago. I’m in my 30s and I now know how it feels to loose a parent. The triggers and grief comes at random times. I definitely understand the marriage and a father not being there. You’re doing amazing and I see growth on your channel❤❤. I would love to do micro blading. You can’t see my brows without tint 😂

[@NaturallySunny]

My condolences sis! I think thats the part that people do not understand. Those triggers come out of nowhere and you really have to navigate them or its going to make you depressed(real bad). So i just hope we all navigate it with grace. Thats all we can do. And omggg! Get it! I trulyyy had the biggest confidence boost. I do recommend to get your brows waxed by someone you tryst first and then really do research on who to go to. Like look at their work for like a month or so.

[@jazzyjazz1823]

Thank you girl ❤ and good advice for the brows, especially me being picky about them.

[@___.KM___]

I love the thumbnail 😍😍😍😍

[@marij3583]

❤May GOD continue to bless you during your healing process 💐 Everything else will come to you in God’s timing 🙏

[@doridarling]

I love getting to know you through your vlogs/Q&A’s. 💗💗

[@NaturallySunny]

Awww! 🥹🥹🤍

[@jt2930]

Always enjoy your content! Meet and Greet in VEGAS baby!! Lol

[@OneakaShaw]

Your meet and greet idea is so cute! Thanks for sharing and being vulnerable. I know it’s not easy cuz persons on social media are ruthless sometimes. I too can relate with being in a long term relationship and getting constant pressure from family and friends re: marriage and so on. It’s frustrating and can be taxing on your relationship as well if it’s internalized so I totally get it. Everything will fall into place when the time is right. 🤍🤗

[@heyitsty4324]

Would you feel like an engagement is an extension of being a long term girl friend ? Or is an engagement a different level for you guys?

[@Deenie1215]

I love ur content…I’m not that nosey about people’s live, but I do wanna know…what top are you wearing…lol

[@keeashashaw]

Sunny!!! We appreciate this blog so much. Thank you for being vulnerable with us! I’d love to send you some candles from my business. Let me know your thoughts.

[@ashleyrobinson7462]

Love you boo 💙💙💙💙

[@ExclusiveBarbie94]

Happy Wednesday 😌