GIRL TALK | What If His Mom Hates You??

GIRL TALK TIME!! Talking about relationships- whether it be problems with your mans, problems with his family or getting over a toxic relationship. Love all the questions you guys sent me. Hope you enjoy!
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[@saracameron6701]

Mothers get jealous of their son’s relationships and the son needs to stand up for his significant other. He has to stand up to his mom. He’s not marrying his mom, he’s marrying you

[@imjennim]

YESS! ANOTHER GIRL TALK!!!

[@joycelee947]

Jenn Im I love you

[@weylie_hoang]

yethhh!

[@mrgiraffelover7388]

@@weylie_hoang As an Aepygigantogiraffa 🦒 Bull ( male ), I believe this is true based on my observation. Moms tend to look up to their daughter's boyfriends as if they are sons and that's why moms are more accepting of their daughter's boyfriends but they see their son's girlfriends as competitors and rivals and they will do anything to get rid of his girlfriend and keep him all to herself. For dads, they congratulate their sons for getting a girlfriend and since they look up to their son's girlfriends as if they are daughters, they tend to be very accepting towards them.But to their daughter's boyfriends, they always see their daughter's boyfriends as always planning on doing something bad to their daughters and that is why they don't like their daughter's boyfriends.

[@sophiachang]

You are the advice queen

[@joycelee947]

Sophia Chang I love u

[@weylie_hoang]

Thank youuuu, love you too! :)

[@SamanthaN92]

If a mother doesnt have a valid reason to hate the girl her son is dating, more than likely its jealousy. Jealous her son might leave or abandon the mother for the girlfriend. Mothers think no girl is good enough for their son. Even if the girl is the sweetest, most accomplished thing ever, its never good enough. Sucks I know. I think if you know your a good person, and have alot to offer your boyfriend, you shouldn't get discouraged by the mother. And if your boyfriend decides to leave you to please his mommy then your better off without him. Nothing worse than a mamas boy. A man should be mature enough to put his foot down and make his own decisions to what makes him happy. Not to please his parents. A grown man cant be by mommy or daddy's side forever. If the girl is a good person, I dont see why any man would ditch her all because his mom doesnt have a good enough excuse to hate her. Also, not all mothers are this way. A good majority of them are, but im sure theirs some mothers out there that are not completely insane 😂

[@saracameron6701]

Sam Nolan 🙌🙌🙌

[@ShaesWonders]

Yes I can relate to this so much! 🙌🏼

[@JulieStarLessSea]

This is very relatable for me as well! i needed to hear this thankyou :)

[@SamanthaN92]

Juliette Salh no problem Juliette ❤️ glad I helped you! 😊

[@26Sundrops]

Absolutely, my bf's mother is divorced and he's her only child, so that's probably part of it. She hasn't approved of any girlfriend he's ever had and I'm worried that she'll either never learn to accept me or that she'll bother him so much that she'll end up isolated from everyone. She's extremely stubborn, but I know parents will often learn to live with their child's choices. :)

[@joycelee947]

you should make a podcast!! or start a series like this because it is very nice and I feel like it would be nice/empowering during the morning or even just driving or something. also I love you so much!💗

[@Laurusstoyou]

ur sister joyce YES!!🙌

[@SA-qz3qf]

ur sister joyce never would have thought of it but youre so right! I would listen to the podcast

[@Bbb-zk8yj]

ur sister joyce I hope Weylie sees this comment!!!! Please make this happen!

[@teresaperez1657]

Such a great idea! I would listen to that all day everyday lol

[@annecombs6939]

ur sister joyce omg YESSS

[@freedomheiress]

I’m sorry Weylie but my husband chose to stop speaking to his mother a few years ago because of her toxic behavior. I do not believe anyone should have to endure years of emotional abuse. This woman chose time and time again to talk shit about me, make threats, ultimatums anything to get him to leave me. And I know that sounds dramatic but it’s true and I TRIED and TRIED to get on her side because he and his mom were very close, so I understood the feeling that I was taking him away. But she is not able to see beyond herself in the least. When I proved myself loyal time and time again she would find some reason to call me names and put me down. When you, as a full grown adult, choose to abuse someone because of your own selfish desires... that is someone who should not be in your life. So my husband made the decision - him, not me - to cut off contact with her completely. And of course I hear from other family members how she blames me for this and I’m “in his head” but that’s just further proof that she is not capable of even TRYING to change so she can be in her son’s life. Truth be told I do not care if she likes me, but to give up her relationship with her child??? It’s unforgivable to me. I have this idea that maybe years down the line she would reach out and apologize to my husband because I want him to have his mother in his life. But to all those out there struggling with this - it is abuse. No one has the right to abuse you. To mistreat someone their child loves off some selfish idea or fear that you’re not what THEY want for their child. A good parent will learn to love you, will take the time to build a relationship with you. Respect and human decency is not something that needs to be earned

[@kaffenaddict8864]

Celeste Podeswik I agree not everyone deserves your love and attention. If it's toxic let it go regardless of who that person is. Narcissism is real.

[@letsjazzitup]

Awesome comment

[@Kt-cn2rq]

Lol even more fun when married 😂

[@olivianewberry3980]

Celeste Podeswik amen girl

[@inmyownbubble8]

♥️

[@loveskyfirefly]

This is my advice for the mom who doesn’t like you: I also had a similar situation where my boyfriends mom did not like me. My boyfriend told me not to worry if she liked me or not but I insisted that it was important to me because his mom was a part of him and I wanted her approval because I valued her opinion. Family is very important and I didn’t want to cause conflict down the road. So he assured his mother how much he loved me. How I brought him happiness and that he planned on having me in life forever. He told her how he never felt this way about any woman and that he wished for her to share or be happy for him. That is when the tide turned and I’m so blessed to be a part of not only his life but his families. Make sure your man expresses this because every mom wants nothing but happiness for their sons

[@weylie_hoang]

LOVE reading all the stories you guys are sharing!! Thanks for sharing, I love our community :)

[@tooncase]

Weylie, you are and have always been like the big sister I never had. I love listening to your advice. It always feels so personal and I find so much comfort in listening to you as if you were actually right here with me. The advice, especially about the aging and the toxic relationships were all things I needed to hear. Keep doing what you're doing.

[@Noonarocks]

ilikeweylie where did you get your hair ribbon ?! it's so cute

[@dj912sent9]

I think you should never try to win someones approval. It should never be your goal. Respect and have your boundaries. Some will never approve of you and it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them.

[@NATTYDEW]

I just broke up with my boyfriend of over 2 years and a lot of these questions & answers made me cry it’s nice to hear these messages I hope all you ladies feel better we all usually deserve way better than we get

[@UnKnown-nb5hn]

I related so much to that last person. I was in a toxic relationship for months & I wanted to leave but I didn’t want to be alone. In the end, he broke it off with me & I was the one that got hurt. I am now in a happy stable relationship & I’m glad that my ex was the one to have left because I couldn’t.

[@veronichelle]

exact same situation here! it happens much too often but i'm glad you are in a better place now. :)

[@alicecullenator22]

girl i hear you! i was shattered after a super toxic relationship, i kept ignoring all the red flags and kept trying to convince myself he was the one. almost a year later and im in the best relationship in my life! props to happiness for both of us :)

[@cathytran6902]

Love all your responses to the answers. You don't hold anything back and I like that realness you bring forth through your videos. All positives vibes!

[@EndohMiharu]

I definitely think it's a good idea to keep your arguments private because if you broadcast it you know people will start picking out sides, pointing out who was wrong, who was right, start criticizing you for being an imperfect person, etc. And if you see those comments it could really influence your relationship when your relationship should be private between you two. I don't think you want to invite the whole internet into your personal relationship.

[@kphids]

The last question and your advice really hit me. I was stuck in a very toxic relationship for two years and when I ended things I felt miserable. That feeling was only temporary though and I've since moved on and honestly haven't been more satisfied with my life. I clung on to the relationship for so long since it was my first high school relationship. At that time I didn't know my self worth and relied on someone else to validate me. Keeping myself busy and working on my own growth definitely helped me get over it. Now I hate him but that's besides the point LMAO so happy to return from work and be blessed with another girl talk vid! Love you gurl

[@alliebens4263]

I think one piece of advice that I would offer to my younger self (who was stuck in a few toxic relationships) is that you need to really think on the fact that life is LONG. I know, people always say life is short. But no, imagine this toxic person who you KNOW isn’t good for you, that you’re still with him when you’re 30, that you spend an additional five long years with him and you’re now 35, and then you spend another five tumultuous years with him and you’re 40. And you’ve got your entire 40s to go through with him too. Think of the situation it will be when you have to be on this persons team as a parent (hardest job ever btw). And this isn’t even into your older years like 50s, 60s, 70s. You have to live with this person and live a generally unhappy life because you’re scared to be alone right now. I was in the same boat, more than once. And as dumb as it sounds, I was so afraid to be alone. So so afraid that I made decisions I knew weren’t good for me. And all I have to say is, I understand it is hard to break out of that cycle. I know it’s hard to sit alone in your living room watching tv, sleeping, eating. But I implore you to gather strength and do what you can to meet someone new. If you can’t handle being alone, then do everything in your power to meet someone new. And move on. You will be so happy and grateful you did. When I think about how much I wanted those relationships to work, it actually scares me now bc what if I had gotten my wish back then? I wouldn’t be in my happy marriage with a beautiful baby now. So girls, please find strength. If you don’t have it, fake it til you make it.

[@noelthan3685]

Where was this video last year when I finally got myself out of a toxic 4 year relationship with a guy who constantly lied to me and cheated on me... 😭 Still great to be reminded of putting myself first and foremost, and knowing my self-worth and what to look for in a healthy relationship. ❤ Thanks, Weylie. You really are like a big sister to us. 😍

[@adriana19952]

My Boyfriends Mom hated me. Like if looks could kill I’d be dead right now lol. But he was/is a huge mommas boy. She’d always have a comment or look at me funny. And I’m the one to confront and not beat around the bush but out of respect for her and him I didn’t say anything until our 2 yrs anniversary was coming around so I finally decided to invite her for dinner so we could talk. And I we talked for about 4 hours and got everything off our chest. At the end she apologized and as did I because I had some snotty remarks and another year later I can call her for anything and she can rely on me. She’s basically another mom that I’ve never had.

[@LauraMartinez-yk3hh]

adri cavazos wow this is really good advice. I was always looking for ways to just deal with my bfs mom hating me. I never thought of how to confront the problem and talk about it and fix it. This comment really encouraged me to invite her out to dinner and fix this whole thing. I hope it works out like it did for you.

[@lunarr04]

i know this comment is literally 2 years old but if possible - can you give me advice on how to do this? it’s literally my goal to be able to do this. my bf and i have been together for almost 2 years as well and i have been trying to get her to like me since our 3 month and she just doesn’t seem to want to try and get along and a dinner or something to make us get along and close literally would make my dreams complete so that i can finally be the girlfriend i want to be when she’s around 😭😭 hope you’ll be able to respond x

[@ubetterleavethefandomifuar8103]

i wish i have this

[@rosaleschristina]

It's probably the simplest thing to do, but could you film how you style your hair? You've been slaying with that hairdo

[@weylie_hoang]

yes! Coming soon!

[@tashipenn8433]

This video couldn’t have come at a better time! I just got out of a 6 year relationship that became toxic at the end and I realized that I should not be bumming around being sad but I found it hard not to until this video. Thank you Weylie for reminding me that I need to keep pushing forward everyday.

[@aleezaahmad4497]

thank you for this video weylie. it legitimately feels like I have a big sister just talking to me and not gonna lie, I really needed this. anyone can see how much you care and how you genuinely want to help us. your advice is always welcome, I hope you do more videos like this! recently I've been having issues with the person I used to consider best friend. its not outright drama, but more like issues that piled up and ultimately led to us drifting. i've tried to acknowledge and fix it, but it just feels like we can't go back and that she doesn't want to. when you were talking about how having just one good best friend is a blessing, even though i've heard that phrase a lot, I truly understand it now. if you asked me a year ago if I would be in the situation I am in now with my friend, I would've never believed u. I really thought there was nothing that could separate us, and that I would never be alone, but as my school year comes to a close I realize how naive I was. I have been questioning myself if what I want in a friend, like having someone be "ride or die" for you essentially, actually exists in life. I am still not sure if what I've been looking for is even possible, and I know I shouldn't keep trying to fix what we once had after all my failed attempts. But the saddest part is, I know if she tried even once, I would go running back to her because I miss having someone like that in my life so much. maybe it is time to close this chapter like you said. thank you again for your video. i love u weylie :'-)

[@daysiaphim132]

Its insane to see how much weylie has grown, it shows in all her videos. Thanks for being the older sister I never had! I’ve been watching you since 6th grade and now I’m halfway through college ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@michelleesquivell]

i totally agree with your distance and connection point of view. one of my best friends & i hardly talk but the bond is still there whenever we do hang out. it’s crazy but we really do pick up where we left off and we’re able to turn off our phones and just talk for HOURS as if time hasn’t passed. we’re not always center stage in each other’s lives, but we’ll always be in the background, never gone.

[@satujohanna6334]

I have a couple of things about marriage: I was 23 when we married and felt the pressure of having a BIG wedding and I also felt like if I don't I'm going to regret it. So we did have a very stressful big wedding that we did not enjoy because all of the prep and planning that needed to be done but our guests still to this day talk about how great our wedding was.. So my advice would be to listen to your own heart, if you don't want a big wedding, then don't! Now at 29 I would have just a simple service and a party with friends. On being married: It does not really do anything for your relationship except in the eyes of the law and that is important for long term. Other than that you go on with your life just the same. So spend that 10 + thousand dollars on your everyday life instead of one day.

[@samlove345]

Weylie you are so wise and mature for your age! I'm 27 and can't relate to most of the KZbinrs (especially the ones in LA) bc they seem so fake and act like they're Kim K or something but I love how real and down to earth you are! Keep doing you sista!

[@zipzapzop6519]

Good for you for wanting to maintain your privacy. I know a lot of KZbinrs feel obligated to show everything, even if it makes them uncomfortable. I applaud you for setting boundaries.

[@kimberlypham8033]

When Weylie said “couple goals!!” I immediately thought “UNDERWEARR!!” LMAAAO Love you girl 😂

[@amyflip]

Kimberly Pham sammme!!! 😂

[@weylie_hoang]

so funny because that's exactly what I think of now too LOL

[@Kt-cn2rq]

Omg.. don't do I do just let it go and have sad ass wholes in lace bras after 9 years keep some cute underwear and matching bras. 😂

[@cassiegv.]

I definitely agree with you, Weylie! I’ve been with my now fiancée for almost seven years now too. We own a 3-year old American Eskimo and we also had sooooooo many people that always asked us when we are getting married. We definitely are doing it on our own terms and always ignored how others criticize us and where we should be in our relationship. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter what others think and what stage they think your relationship should be at because you know, that’s YOUR relationship!

[@akiramiyashi]

To everyone struggling out there, here's a big virtual hug for you! You've got this! Take your time and you'll eventually get there! ♡♡♡♡♡

[@greatestescape]

My boyfriend & i have been together for nearly 3 years and your advice on keepin’ the spark alive was truly a much needed reminder! Thank you for the girl talks, sista! Much loves from Singapore 💕

[@studio86yt]

You always have great advices!! 😍

[@thecleelife]

Loved that reminder that you only fail when you truly give up! Thanks for the motivation, Weylie! :)

[@kwarmrakseadum9083]

I think the best thing to do after a break up is keep busy, think of goals you’d like to accomplish and when you do it helps take away all the bad and you are filled with an amazing feeling of happiness and accomplishment! As time has passed while trying to accomplish the goals you will feel normal again and finally free from the bad feelings.

[@cnicole_]

Weylie can I just say how amazing you are... I’ve been watching you since I was about 13 maybe or 14. I grew up watching you and I feel like in a way we are sisters... I never had an older sister growing up, I have a younger sister but I had to basically teach myself everything. I feel like watching you helped me grow into the woman I am today .. you felt like my sister.. and taught me things I didn’t know but needed to know. Your wise words help me get through certain times in my life and I Thankyou so much for that! I hope to one day finally meet you in person. I look up to you A LOT and I just hope that you continue to inspire other women❤️

[@makeupphilosophie4004]

About the marriage thing- my husband and I kind of gave in to the pressure from our families after about 5 years, at age 27. It was really nice to have a wedding and we are super happy and love being married, but I think it is so wise that you are trusting that feeling of not wanting to move to the next stage. If our marriage were really only the two of us then everything would be amazing but once you are married FAMILY becomes really important and the stress and obligations increase soooo much. You’re so smart to be aware of that! You really give great advice 😊😊😊

[@ATrueLoveOfficial]

I definitely agree about the marriage thing. I guess, there's no need to hurry for marriage if you two are happy for what you have right now in your relationship. It will come at the right time and you will know that it's already time. Thank you for this topic, it's really on point.

[@deardhonnamary]

This girl chat type of video i really love ❤️ weylie keep it coming girl i don’t mind watching it for 2 hours or more 😅

[@josefienw]

The way I think of it, weylie your channel may not be as big, but you have a community that really supports you vs. passive watchers and bots

[@princessshanesse]

14:21-17:00 is what i just needed 😭 Thank you weylie for being one of the best advicer a sistah can have. Always loved your girl talk videos. Hope you're doing well. Love ü 💕

[@angiechoglow]

These are my absolute fav type of videos from you because you’re so refreshing to listen to and have great advice. I resonated a lot with much of this. Appreciate you always being real with us all this time Weylie!

[@daniellemelendez3544]

Thanks weylie, my boyfriends mom keeps making up random lies and gossiping about me even though I’ve been nothing but nice to her. I needed this video.

[@mosher2689]

In the last question when you are giving a hug I cry…so truly feel your sincerity and love. Thank you Weiley you are angel. Love you from HK

[@geezGrace]

Girlllllllll you are on point with the whole marriage convo. I’ve been with my boyfriend for a little 8 years and everyone around me is getting married and I am starting to get pressured by family about moving forward and hitting that next step of getting married and even about having kids ( I’m currently in my late 20’s) but I feel the same way as you about it. Like I’m totally fine where I am in my relationship and I rather that part of my life to come organically instead feeling like I’m doing it to please other people

[@michellekoo7618]

Honestly one of the realist videos I’ve watched in a while.

[@soniasiddiqi9763]

Weylie is better than most therapists tbh, she’s so helpful! Love you 💞 keep it up!

[@kasinlau]

I need to find myself a weylie friend

[@Imlisakim0918]

this is exactly what I say after all her videos lol

[@starlightvampire]

Can I just say I am LIVIIIINGGGG for the way you've been doing your hair!! I am obsessed with those ties and bandanas you've been using! So so so cute.

[@foodouloveme2144]

Love you, and the title of the video is making me cry cuz the same thing happened to me, it is ridiculous that his mom only cares about the look rather than the inside or personality. It is such an unsolveble problem..

[@vexnoire4696]

you're so helpful, i really needed to see this... my boyfriends mom is always belittling me and saying how he's, "dating down." it really hurts but, it definitely makes me feel better im not alone!

[@mselenakim]

YASSS LOVE SIT DOWN GIRL TALKS FROM YOU ~ also superrrrr cute outfit! Also as for the long distance friendship, I have one right now since my other friend and I are both in grad school but shes currently on the other coast from me. but i agree that if a connection is there, ITS THERE.and you have to invest in each other, what the other is going through, scheduling a few hour chats/vidchats atleast once a month. It makes that catch up time more precious and more valuable that you want to keep going.

[@christinenguyen9437]

I love your minimalist, natural style for decor & your hair, outfits & makeup ! I love your girl talk videos so much ! your smile is contagious I swear ❤️ I’m so happy you’re happy ! you’re like the big sister I never had ☺️💕

[@donnachan4712]

Thank you for all the advice Weylie🙏🏻Each one made so much sense to me right now! "12 months of opportunity" Yass (jokes aside) that's truly the way to see it. We tend to be more focused on numbers than actual hapiness. Thank you for empowering so many of us

[@DeliaX]

your answer to the last question was on point. weylie you honestly have such great advice, very wise :)

[@SammiiLuhvzYouu11]

Weylie, the last question is EXACTLY what I’m going through, except I’ve been in this relationship for a year and a half. Your answer was just what I needed to hear! Thank you so much❤️

[@nor3xp]

Girl - you have such an amazing spirit and warmth to you whenever you talk, and no matter what the subject is, I just know when I come here to your channel, I’m going to feel something ☺️

[@Jenny-ft5zc]

Preach it, sister! 🙏😎 I wished an advice video like this existed back when I was in high school... I’m in my late 20s now but still remember how terribly shy and awkward I was during my teen years. Half of my friends were in relationships and dealing with some type of boyfriend drama, while I became a huge nerd. I kept myself busy with school and extracurricular activities, but remember always seeing my friends break down over their guys. It wasn’t an easy task for them to juggle good grades and BS... I just want to say it’s perfectly a-OK to be shy in high school! Take this time to really focus on yourself and achieve your goals! I became extra studious, won a small handful of scholarships, and got into my dream college. I’ve since graduated and am happily in a long-term relationship now. I know everybody is different, but I’m grateful that I kept my academics and love life separate. Embrace your shyness and invest that into your short and long term goals 😊

[@cpzchillthis]

Agreed! No problem waiting! I've waited 22 years before I met the one for me :D

[@lenabobena]

You’re the longest you tuber I’ve watched (subscribed when tampon vid came out). So nice to see you’re still active and act the same, it’s comforting

[@indra94546]

Yo I wish Weylie actually started like a series like this just on girl talk. That will be awesome!

[@SamanthaN92]

Im 25 and still dont have my shit together. I havent started college, I never been in a relationship, etc... Im scared when my 30th birthday comes around. I try to see the positives in my life because their is always someone that has it worse. I sometimes feel im too old 😂 also, to the girl that feels bad about not having a boyfriend in highschool, dont be sad. Boys in highschool are extremely immature. When I look back at my highschool days, I thank God I never got myself involved in a immature romance that would have ended anyway. Very rarely do high school relationships last. Highschool should be a time to focus on your future and college. Relationships just complicate things. Wait till your older lol!

[@estermelisa]

Sam Nolan this☝💕💕

[@talkingtoalison]

Sam Nolan youll get there!! College isn’t for everyone! And progress is progress you do you!

[@SamanthaN92]

talkingtoalison I want to go to college but the opportunity hasn't come around yet. Life throws curve balls and sometimes you get held back. I been working jobs back to back for 6 years. Im not complaining, im just saying thats how it is. Hopefully I can start before I turn 30! 😂 thank you ❤️

[@nonemountry1]

I feel better knowing that I'm not the one one that haven't dated and I'm 23.

[@SamanthaN92]

nonemountry1 Theirs much more inexperienced people out there than you may think.

[@TheComplexy]

I looooove your bow in your hair !

[@cz3821]

'You never fully fail until you give up', '...even that means you'll go ten times slower than other people...' Quote Weylie. Really got cheered up, thanks girl

[@Sandi_Luu]

Thank you so much for this video! This is exactly what I needed to hear from a girl to girl to give me encouragement to realize that my happiness and morals is more important. ❤️ Thank you for being my internet friend for the past 9 years since tampon days and my teenage years.

[@kaytdo]

OMG WEYLIE I LOVE YOUR TALKS! ITS SO MOTIVATIONAL:’) LITERALLY YOU NEED TO GO ON TED TALKS

[@xHopeh]

This girl talk was so good!!! I mean all your girl talks were good but this one really touched me and I’m not even having relationship problems. Also, please do a hair tutorial on your hairstyle in the video!! 😍

[@yichenwang8114]

Your advice is always so constructive and motivate ppl to become a better person!!! You are the angel ❤️

[@GRLxSiLLY]

This is probably one of your best girl talk videos yet!! Everything is soo accurate and needed to be said/heard xoxo

[@animemangaluv13]

Spill the tea girl My situation ayee

[@joyjudourua4046]

My situation too

[@MS-sx5zm]

So happy that you answered that relationship spark question because i’ve been having problems like that in my relationship recently. Love your advice weylie

[@fluffffyheart]

Dear Weylie we are almost of the same age but watching your videos makes me feel like talking to a big sister! you seem to have so much wisdom in you

[@sivinab.1553]

It’s taking me an eternity to get my colege degree, most people (younger than me) around me already have it and on the family reunions they keep asking if im not finished yet. I’ve got a lot of anxiety about it. My best friend is in the same situation so luckily we support each other. I know everybody have their own time and we shouldn’t compare with others, buts sometimes it’s nice that someone remember it to you. Thanks girl!

[@katekwak7941]

random but if you had a podcast like this (girl talk stuff) i’d listen to it all day omg love you sista 💕

[@RayneFever]

It's so interesting you say that, because my Mother also has always told me growing up that you will only every have one true best friend. Being 24 now, 25 in October, I feel that was some of the best advice I've ever gotten. I think it's great that you made a note of that by using your platform, cuz its something small and simple that I feel I've never heard elsewhere in life. Me and my bf will be together 7 years in July, and I've been following you for almost that long. There are SO MANY similarities between you and wah, and me and my boyfriend. I also relate to you on the marriage thing cuz girrrrrrlllll people always be asking us when marriage is coming and we're both like it'll happen when it happens! Anyways, I feel you always give great advice, and that you think so so similarly to me. Actually, just by what you show on social media, we have a lot of similarities all over the place. I wish I could get to know you more personally. I follow you on insta, and if you ever get bored (although I doubt it cuz I'm sure youre super busy lol) you could check me out @rachiexhart I'd love the chance to talk to you sometime, although I know its not the most likely thing to happen! Peace out girl scout :)

[@Jasminefy97]

Weylie, thank you for the advice. I’m going through a tough time with my relationship, and the LDR doesn’t help either. Thank you for making me feel better! ♥️

[@applebear1529]

Weylie, I'e been watching for years now and I want to say you get better and better with your content! I love your intro and how you make it feel like you are addressing an audience or a buncha sistas, rather the camera ❤❤❤ love you

[@amandalee840]

Thank you for being so genuine Weylie! I relate so much to this. Keep doing what you're doing, you're truly a blessing!!!!

[@michinlee5372]

Weylie you've been uploading more than 20 minute girl talk vids AND I'M LOVING IT!!!

[@doanutfactoryx]

Love you Weylie and your talks! The part about not having my life together and what real friends are is definitely true. I'm currently going through the "already graduated from college and turning 26 in 5 months, but still working a minimum wage job and not using my degree." I go through phases of negative emotions and feel like I won't succeed in life. But, I tell myself that things will get better. I just need to take a break and try to incorporate new things in my life. I also plan to move back to LA one day. I'm hoping by the end of next year as I save up more money because I truly feel that is where I belong. As for friendships I didn't realize until last year that if someone really cares about you they will make that effort to be a part of your life. Now I only give to people who have shown me they are worth my time. Thank you Weylie for being a youtuber that not only spreads positivity, but also being true to yourself!

[@susanlee101]

Omg has it been 7 years already!! Be you and don’t feel pressured to do anything.

[@erikasankary5517]

Marriage is a paper! If you are committed you are good! Good for you guys💫

[@Trap.RnB27]

I’m not in a relationship but i found this advice really useful especially when you talked about how when your young you don’t need a boyfriend to be happy cause that’s what I feel sometimes ☺️. P.S I always look forward to your videos

[@user-rz6xm1xw3o]

Can you please do a hairstyle tutorial! 🙏 I’m loving this hair look 😍

[@adelamariaa]

2:10 I wished someone told me this 4 years ago when I was 17 and in a toxic relationship.. unfortunately mine lasted 2 years after 3 depressions, anxiety and panic attacks ... BUT, it's true: things do get better and now i'm in a 1 and a half year relationship with someone i can see myself for the rest of my life ❤️

[@modmurr4505]

tbh I never watched a girl talk before & your advice is actually so good! I'm been missing out

[@DeAnnah300]

Girl yes yes yes. Pleeeease do more of these. Like once a month if possible. Love your girl talk videos. Love ya weylie

[@vittoria4913]

Omg I literally live for your girl talks! They are so inspiring, motivating, and empowering. I loved every second of it!

[@aprilsadventures]

Take your time with marriage... there is NO need to rush into it. My husband and I were together for seven years before we finally did it...and I, personally, felt that that was kinda fast. You will both know when and if it's right for your relationship!

[@zhuerta12]

I love your girl talk videos! Weylie, you truly give out the best advice. After every girl talk video I feel inspired and happy from all the advice you give to us, thank you!

[@mallarieevans5392]

Thank you girl for the 25 quote I'm so happy for you to say that 25 Years Young!

[@Marygeniusz13]

you are literally like a big sister to me and im sure everyone!!! love ya!

[@ilovekimbabe]

I can relate so much to the last person. I just took a break from my 3 year relationship because it was way too toxic and it’s so hard but this video helped so much.

[@jennifertluong]

Love you sista! I literally dropped everything I was doing at home when I got a notification that said “ilikeweylie uploaded a new video.”

[@laurel-6485]

This girl talk is SO soothing and reassuring :')

[@shigekofukaya5082]

About the long distance friendship, I feel like social media puts so much stuff about how close friendship should be that makes us worry how her/our friendship isn't like how social media shows

[@BaileyBlurbs]

I love these videos from you weylie!! You’re the big sister I’ve never had but always needed. I’ve been watching you since you were in high school when getting 1 million views was such a big deal! Needless to say, I 💜U

[@moofeyy]

I really like these video talks from you weylie, even though I'm 2 years older than you but it feels like you're the older sister to me. Giving me these tips, life talks and self reflection. I've been engaged to my fiancé for 3 years, and of course other ppl engaged and married already in between those 3 years. They ask why I'm not having my wedding yet. Truth is, we're happy right now, no need to rush and we just want to slowly plan it.

[@cnicole_]

I feel you .. my boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years coming up in November and we defiantly go through that roller coaster of lovey dove and boredom but we definitely try to make that spark happen w dates and random acts of love !

[@ricebunnies29]

I love your Girl Talk videos! Just a thought, you should make your Girl Talk videos into podcasts :) Sometimes just listening to your voice is soothing

[@mailevanunen3146]

Weylie, i know you probably won’t see this but I’ve been watching you since I was 15 (I’m now almost 23) and can honestly say you are still my favorite youtuber!

[@CherylGoer]

Wow you are really good at this "girl talk"! I like a lot of things you say in the video, it really helps. Love your life perspective!

[@yvonnelu3836]

i seriously LOVED this video so much. i have a notebook where i write down advice that really helps me and i wrote down so much from watching this video. your advice really inspires me to look at life differently :)

[@boohoolindalieu]

I love watching your Girl Talk videos Weylie!!! If I ever have children I'm totally going to have them watch your videos because you give such good advice ❤️