GIRL to WOMAN: Harsh truths to learn in your 20s to elevate..

this a rant style video of all the things I have personally learned ini my 20s and more specifically the last 2 years that have helped me understand myself better and truly REALITY. please enjoy xoxo
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[@haileygamba]

To all those that don’t know this I do 1 on 1 consulting sessions with my subscribers over on my instagram for such an affordable price! If you are interested head over there so get on the phone with me and I can give you advice or a listening ear to anything you want to share with me !!! @haileygamba

[@stephanieross2126]

Please continue this series ❤️ it gave me those kinda butterflies when you know someone’s preaching the truth and u get that kinda guilt knowing you’re the only person stopping you from getting what you want

[@stephanieross2126]

Also can you please do a video on advice on how to deal with those stuck up women in the work place who swear they’re the only ones in the room and can’t stand to see any other woman winning i.e. those jealous/envious women who can sense you don’t scare easily so they’ll continue to do whatever it takes to make you miserable while you’re there.

[@stephanieross2126]

It’s more so managers at my job but every other woman is like that and it’s disgusting to see. I am in a place now where I can finally tolerate a job and I’m not about to let some wannabe-important snobs and managers get me fired by trying to get a reaction out of me or feeling like they can get away with treating ppl like shit.

[@stephanieross2126]

The difficulty with this for me, is that I can’t tell if I’m too sensitive or if these women are literally being abnormal jackasses. I already have to deal with my family this way, and me knowing they’ll never change helps me accept that. But I’m not gonna allow anyone regardless of status treat me like that if the fact is I’m not crazy and they are the problem. But I’m also in control of how I react and that’s MY PROBLEM. That’s where I always fall short of myself

[@candacewebb120]

♥️🥺

[@charlie4412]

I feel so lucky being 18 and accessing this wisdom. And my choice to wait until marriage has been completely affirmed.

[@lillystar4029]

Yes! Do it! Everyone has different desires regarding their sex lives and if they want to wait until marriage or not. I didn't but I do wish I had sometimes because having sex just didn't do anything for me and I didn't feel differently afterwards. Might as well honor god and stay away from being potentially hurt or negatively affected by sex with men who don't deserve your temple.

[@charlie4412]

@@lillystar4029 Thanks for the advice big sis🫶🏽

[@danacross9694]

Yes absolutely! I'm 18 as well and love the fact that I can access this knowledge. Thankyou hailey xx

[@itswithloveshelbi]

Please wait. ❤

[@floweryvanilla1064]

Sameeeeee 😂❤

[@lukelesia4562]

There she goes again being everyone’s big sister we didn’t know we needed! I’ll never stop sending praise to this channel Hailey is doing the WORK🫡✨

[@motherbenz]

yesss fr

[@toneenvision]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💯

[@UdoADHD]

“Be with somebody who is picky” wow yes, this is major! Never thought of it that way.

[@Penguinmarshmellow96]

Girll! "Somebody doesn't need to do catastrophic things to you for you to end it with them. You can leave when you feel not so great about something." Thank you, Hailey! There are many times where I would keep "friends" around who have shown patterns of shit-talking, hypocritical behaviors, and ghosting. I would feel guilty when I take a step back, but realizing its okay to cherish memories with someone and love them from a distance.

[@ingeniousoracle5825]

“Attention does not always equal intention.” 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌 12:06

[@zahhira]

BOOM!

[@damienwelch9067]

Turn everything that's bad into educational situations

[@grae1152]

Nobody: Me: all men cheat Hailey: they are amazing men out there Me: shift in mindset

[@jadaswindle8564]

I think the most enlightening time for women is in their 20s. The lightbulb comes on at around 24-25 depending on your life experience. All of these things surrounding discernment and self-awareness are key !!

[@damienwelch9067]

Sumtimes 28 till 34

[@raquel4677]

Yes! Im 25, but at 24 my lightbulb def came on!

[@phoenixlareign8146]

Yup because the brain has reached its adult development. That’s why I say youths shouldn’t be put out at 18 like society believes smh

[@verykerrietv1027]

Girl, wait till you get to 40!!

[@user-rt9xq3zg6o]

Yes 😂❤ 24 here 🙋🏻‍♀️ , although I know I got more to learn , I do feel more enlightened now than I did at 20-21 . Glad I took the time and solitude to think for myself , learn and be able to grow . Even though it’s slow growth , some progress is better than none .

[@dearrose3275]

As a 23 year old living without out a mother.....I needed this💕💕💕💕💕💕

[@myagilbert333]

❤

[@amyoursafespace]

🤍💗we’re here bby

[@Prettyneece]

This is a video we need to add to a playlist and watch it a couple of times take written notes if you have to !

[@Materialgworlllll]

Thank you for the first point about sex!!! As someone who was a virgin until 25 and was friends with hella now retired hoes, they all said to wait and not have a hoe phase. I don’t understand why we give ourselves so willy nilly to men who refuse to even wipe their asses

[@lumin297]

Damn your comment ❤❤❤❤

[@Sallyy150]

Hahaha you got me at retired hoes

[@Skeforevr]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@LevelingUpMyLife]

Lmao

[@Sarah-kv3qs]

They don’t wipe? Why were your friends going that low. Even if they are going to do causal they must keep standards high 😂

[@spirituallydivineevibess]

GIRL I love you sm and ur whole life. I was in a THREE year situationship with this guy who I wanted to date but he never asked me out and all we did was have sex. It was so draining mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. We were so toxic and I begged him to be with me and now that I’m grown I just turned 21 and I’m like wow I’m so glad I’ve learned the power of loving myself and putting myself first. Back then I was so insecure, and was so negative when it came to my perspective on life. He was my first body I lost my virginity to him at 18. I’m so proud to say that at the age of 21 I’ve only ever had sex with one guy. I never could see myself being a whore or giving my body away to these bum ass dudes. I used to be friends w girls who were very promiscuous and ended up depressed later in life.. I’m so happy now I’m celibate. I told myself I’m not having sex again until I’m married. Enough with playing games we are too grown for that shit! ❤ Ur videos are heaven sent. Thank u for all that u do!

[@savannahw7980]

As someone over 30 🙈👵🏼 , I can tell you these tips are TRUTH! Thanks for another great video, Hailey! ❤️☺️

[@blckqueen6002]

I’m about to turn 30 in a few months and I needed this because it’s time for a change . Reality check 💕

[@Tina_Anton]

FINALLY, an honest video about self - improvement that covers all the real stuff and that doesn't sugarcoat ish. I've had to learn all of this through experience well into my mid 30s, so I truly hope younger ladies take note, save and revisit!!! Great content girl! I'll admit, I kinda miss the hygiene/beauty content, but this video was a true gem! 🎉❤

[@haileygamba]

Hygiene content is coming back I promise !

[@LeenaRose111]

Please continue! This really helped me . I’m 27! I never thought about choosing me first . I’m learning & being self aware now. Thank you❤

[@melliethemortician]

I have a very avoidant attachment style (childhood trauma) and i suffer from NPD(im a diagnosed narcissist) and the last guy I dated made me realize how many men are secretly mentally ill and dusting it off as 'Nah im just a guy that's how we act'. It was so bad that i needed mental help after the relationship ended bc of how badly he treated me then tried to turn it into me being a bad person bc I'm mentally ill. It took me finally leaving to realize i needed to work on myself so i wouldn't end up with another guy like him, im only 23 and it truly treasures so long to realize that we need to fix ourselves first even when we don't think we need to.

[@carissanicole]

Girl, i just turned 34 years old in July. Yep a Cancer just like you 😊 And im going through the "hurt locker" thing with this guy RIGHT now. Its been YEARS... Thank you for this. Crazy this video comes out RIGHT as im sobbing over him. The Lord does mysterious things 🙏🙏🙏 with & through good hearted people like YOU Hailey ❤

[@SR_20248]

I needed this talk in my 20s or even in high school when I had my first bf. I’m 30 now and have learned all of this the hard way 😅 but, better late than never. If you’re like me, have compassion and forgive your past self who was living in survival mode. I’d also like to add one more tip, quit alcohol. At least try “sober curiosity” for 4 months and see how it works. You’ll never regret not drinking. My anxiety and depression are gone, I feel more self confident because I’m no longer drinking to cope with social anxiety, better overall health and sleep, some days I feel high on life now, I haven’t felt this great since high school. I feel better mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually. I wish I had quit alcohol in my 20s.

[@freshpoison3540]

I’ve never left a comment before but WOW. I am absolutely blown away. The authenticity, the realness, the rawness!!! Every single point ! God bless you. ❤Everybody is so scared to speak the truth and tell it how it is…Us women have been lied to and we need to wake up and take our power back!!!

[@brendanburress2696]

@24:22 sending the text I’ve been dreading “this makes my stomach hurt and doesn’t make me feel good, I think it’s best if we don’t talk anymore” NEVER settling for less, thanks girl for making me see that once again!! ❤️

[@cheyennewilson4033]

Finally someone not pushing hookup culture 🎉🎉🎉

[@theshaesthetic]

Right on time! It’s the season of stepping into womanhood right now! 👏🏽👏🏽 I’m currently working on my own video discussing the truth about your 20s lol. Thanks Hailey. ❤

[@Sallyy150]

You do not know how important your message is. I really always thought that some guys do not even deserve to sit with me or even smell my existence, let alone have sex with them. The idea of let's have fun, and we are enjoying sex as much as them, is absolutely nonsense. We are the prize, they should literally work for it. Unfortunately, when you come from a broken house, and your friends are dumb, you could look for acceptance from whoever, but no regrets. We Learn. Keep sharing the truth!

[@Sarah-kv3qs]

You can enjoy sex as much of them(we all have the biological drives lol) but if that guy isn’t even quality in your eyes or knows you enough to meet your need. The healthy dynamic she talked about is the key. Then it’s not even worthwhile. That’s what women failed on getting when they are “exploring” not seeing the guy in entirety even when it is causal

[@hhaannnnaahh222]

This was so brilliant Hailey ❤ I loved how honest you were at the start, some women get shamed out of that kind of honesty by male misogynists who are literally behaving in the same way. Also that bit about toxic relationships, there's a quote that sticks with me: "you're attracted to people who are as messed up as you are". The fact you ended up being turned OFF by how full-on and smothering that guy was shows how much growth has happened! ❤

[@bougiepeaches5497]

Speaking of people trying to convince you to marry, let's also talk about parents(who are miserable with parenthood) trying to convince us to have kids in our 20's. I found that really strange.

[@breyonparis333]

I needed this so much, just reminded me never to accept the bare minimum and I should only be doing things that serve me and the women I am today! & I love your polish sis! ✨🫶🏾

[@nataliak4357]

This video is pure GOLD. every single woman on thus planet should watch it. I love you so much Hailey thank you for these gems, I needed to hear this precious advice 100%. ❤🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@aubristrong9746]

I felt all of this. I’m approaching 28 and 27 was the turning point for me in so many aspects. Another amazing video!

[@kenyasaucedo5111]

The part where she said there doesn’t have to be an in depth reason for you to leave someone or something, yess literally it’s been a year since I got out of a 4 year marriage because I let so many things happen in the relationship and people would always comment like “well at least he didn’t cheat on you, or at least he wouldn’t hit you” like ma’am there’s nooo reason for my to be going through this just because you’re married you should not tolerate these things even after it’s been brought up that you don’t like certain actions.

[@bougiepeaches5497]

Hi, I just turned 20 on August 10th, I'm so happy you've uploaded this today because I'm going to be in school in Fall and I'm dealing with anxiety because I'm afraid I will fail my classes. Also, I'm glad that you're talking about this this year.

[@katicakatanga]

I turned 22 on August 10th :) I didn't expect it but I felt like I got a fresh start after my birthday and now I'm riding that wave lol. I wish you the best in school birthday twin! Refocus the energy that you can on ways you can prepare and plan for classes and assignments. i.e. look at the syllabi, don't be afraid ask the professors questions, and don't be afraid to make friends and try to create study groups. You got this!! Here's to personal and academic growth this year ❤❤❤❤

[@bougiepeaches5497]

@@katicakatanga Thank you, I really appreciate that birthday twin🤗🤗

[@karoline_wi]

Happy late birthday!! I turned 20 in august 11th❤️❤️

[@bougiepeaches5497]

Happy Belated Birthday@@karoline_wi

[@cellab.6040]

Turned 20 august 16th and I feel the exact same thing as you :/

[@LaVPC]

Hailey!!!! You never miss!!!! I really needed this as my 24th birthday approaches! Please continue this series! 🥹✨✨✨

[@airimonke]

I always come back to Hailey when I need advice or guidance. I am 20 now, and some things in my life are overwhelming currently. Having a none bullshit video helps a lot and saves the trouble of putting yourself in undeeded situations. I've been watching Hailey's videos since I was 18. Goodness, I was not in the right headspace before I met Hailey. She helped me get out of my pick-me-girl stage fast, cut toxic friendships, get out of a long-needed breakup and so much more. She's honestly done it all. Now I will say I am in a better relationship, protect my peace and take care of myself way more than I used to, have standards and boundaries with people, no longer people please, calmer and think out situations better, when negative people/energy comes they are out of my life as quick as they come. I would like to say thank you and you're literally the best big sister ever. As an only child, I've always wanted to have a sibling to turn to for advice. Thank you for everything!

[@haileygamba]

This makes me so happy to hear thank you for making my day ❤

[@ciannadresdenhall5524]

Yes yes and yes 🙌🏾 Im 26 years old and I am on my discernment, self awareness and self love era 🩷 Can’t wait for the next video 🥰

[@wendyayebale8979]

HAILEYYY! Girl , I’m 30 & what you mentioned about intimacy is so true . I’ve been married for 5 years now and I can say that I think about who I gave myself to back then & I really wish I would had not given so much of me . Not just physically but mentally . Some men don’t deserve your time or even a glimpse of your body . I look back and I wish I could erase them too .

[@ashjcupcaketv]

THIS VIDEO😊❤!!!!! I turned 30 this year and had I seen this video in my 20s it would have saved me a lot of pain and bs I went through do to being to "attached to people". Hailey please definately continue this content on thw channel as I feel it will help a lot of younger women out there and even women in their early 30s! Video ideas for you : How to navagate the " talking stage" to avoid being played with Also you could do a video on that last topic about the importance women still working even when in a relationship feel like this is something I have watched so many ladies get comfortable because their dude is taking care of everything just to get blindsided later! The art of never getting to comfortable and always staying prepared for nonscense to happen. Love you!❤❤ and great video as always!

[@vivislayyy]

i love how raw & real you are. i respect you taking accountability for your past it shows growth & wisdom, like you’re giving advice is given because you’ve learned from it. i love you & your videos🤍 always teaching me the importance of being a woman with values.

[@taelahnashae]

I literally loooooove it here! One thing about Hailey she’s gonna make sure she’s keeping us prepared for every season. Every video literally is aligned with where I am in life. So grateful for this content 🥰🥰😍

[@haileygamba]

I appreciate you ❤❤

[@leahr.1475]

I am LOVING the discernment series ❤

[@naram8282]

Bravo Hailey!!!!🎉 I’m not in my 20s, or 30s, I’m probably in your mom’ age group, but I wholeheartedly agree with everything you said in the video 😊 I loved the part about you bringing up how your mom is strong and doesn’t take bs. When in my 30s I operated like that , I was made feel guilty and told I’m intimidating. You hear that often enough, you start doubting yourself and waste yr of your life entertaining things and people that shouldn’t have. Kudos to your mom!!! If girls listen to everything you stated in the video, they’ll save lots of precious time and energy on pointless and useless things and people. You should be discerning who you give your time and energy to. That’s not selfish, that’s being smart . Good job Hailey! I’m glad you have this wisdom in your 20s. You’re ahead of many of us who didn’t have gurus like you when we’re growing up. 👍

[@Fallenangel-et8ww]

Can we pls appreciate how blatantly honest she's being to us? She's literally the elder sister we never had 💜

[@therealuniquenichelle]

Girl PLEASE continue to do these! I really enjoyed this and the “big sis” type dialogue (even thought I didn’t expect to be clocked like that😂), babe it’s much needed and this was right on time. Always love your message💋

[@Andraya958]

Babyyyy! When you said "chawclate" the dialect was STRONG! 😂 I find the beginning part of this video kind of ironic because there was a point in time where I was very picky very mean came off very stuck up high standards wasn't settling when it came to men or anything else and at some point I don't even know when and probably at the hands of a man that was like taken away from me. Your videos have been beyond helpful I've been watching nothing but you for about 3-4 days and the changes I'm seeing already.. WILD.

[@teemona6836]

This video was everything . SAY THAT SHIT 🗣️. It’s so crazy because I was younger (17-21) and I used to move like this . I lost myself for awhile (23 now) and found myself becoming a “pick me” chasing a feeling instead of loving myself and upping my standards ~ this video was a reminder ! Needed it ❤. Subbed

[@ClassyWithChrist]

I'm 28 girl, and everything you have said has been spot on. So glad I came across this video today. New subscriber❤❤

[@EbonyEyes00]

You girls getting access to these tips in your 20s is a true gift 🎁.

[@IamSTK1]

This video is so real, I think every woman needs to hear this.

[@taliahmoring4693]

“I don’t take advice from people who I wouldn’t trade lives with” , girl you are SPEAKING. Please continue this series, I am 24 and you’ve done nothing but increase my mindset for the past year. It’s been super helpful to navigating my 20s so far 😭👏🏾🫶🏾

[@dancecentralism]

24:15 Basically I inferred this as “You’re not a tree, you can move” and I love it!

[@kbandrion]

Please continue this series! Its such a big reminder too so many things i already know and need to hear again to be honest with myself about what is best for me. God bless you!! Please continue doing what your doing. Extremely empowering for women. 🙏🏻

[@ninner5255]

this is the first time I've seen your video and I wanted to say thank you. I'm 19 years old and you gave pretty solid advices that I had to learn the hard way. sometimes we forget how powerful we are as women and that we are in control of our lives. ❤

[@shandell1008]

I had to go thru SO much shit in life to realize all of this! I’m now 31 and I understand things better! Thank you for sharing this to the younger crowd Hailey💚

[@LevelingUpMyLife]

This is honestly such good advice. I'm in my early 30s now but the mistakes I couldve avoided if I heard this in my 20s! I hope this helps other ladies.

[@morgan8688]

Love how you always keep it all the way REALL girl👏🏾!! Keep winning sis🫶🏾.

[@YvenaVilbrun]

Honestly Hailey , this is the best advice you ever gave! I'm definitely going to watch it multiple times whenever I need a reality check to know who I am and what I deserve. All the girls need to listen to this!

[@jalissamoore22]

I love it, i’m 31 and i still can relate to, i still have a tendency to be a nice girl and my current husband has narcissistic behavior so i understand fully. I’m letting everything go and getting back to me. I’m ready for that Reset Button. Thanks Hailey for all you do for us girlies out here. We appreciate you

[@jazbrehaut]

Whew “it could just not feel good to you & that’s enough” YES YES YES. I am 29 turning 30 & all of this is so relevant to women PERIOD. Despite the age. Even my mom is relating to so much this!

[@WendzM7427]

Hey you gave facts. I really appreciate you for keeping it real. I one hundred percent agree with everything you said because I'm on a self- improvement journey. What you said about the narcissist is very very accurate. Whatever I had with that guy took like 3 weeks and I could no longer take it because I was suffocated and I started hating myself, that's when I knew he had to go. I don't negotiate with my mental health ever. Ive cut all toxic friends, striving for financial goals, cleaned up my life real good. Keep it up gurl

[@tykimaalston1537]

My grandma always said “nothing is open passed 9 but legs” 😅

[@annakyler19]

Im 19 and im constantly changing. I remember i thought i wasnt going to change anymore when I was 14. Thank you for the advices ❤

[@kwationa]

I loved this! I felt so mature listening

[@aliceandappetizers]

4:45 amen! This is so important. Intimacy takes more than just physical attraction. It’s a very mental thing for women.

[@aliceandappetizers]

6:20 yes, I love being mean to men. It’s important and it helps especially in this day and age. Not everyone has good intentions

[@aliceandappetizers]

12:22 attention doesn’t always mean intention!!! Some of the more communicative men with me sometimes have zero intentions to start a relationship I desire

[@aliceandappetizers]

16:52 yes! Girls’ girls only!! It’s in their language, the way they spend time with others, who they choose to spend time with

[@betterdanu1000]

This video is real AF! Hailey is speaking nothing but absolute facts about every topic. Live for yourself, don’t rush intimacy with men, build learn and grow, and give yourself the life that you desire first!

[@raquel4677]

SHE KEPT IT REAL!!! I ALREADY KNOW IM GOIN TO BE COMMENTING AGAIN BUT WHEN SHE SAID I COULD LIKE YOU BUT MY BODY DONT..

[@ana-maria6443]

This is the first time I've ever heard a woman say to another woman to practice being mean. I love your videos and your mindset! Thank you for inspiring me to keep putting myself first!!!

[@PrettyPerfect-oc6ji]

I’m focusing on watching only quality content that adds value to my life. Social media should be a tool to better ourselves! Thanks Hailey for making life changing content!!❤❤❤❤

[@alisonbrown1216]

You changed my whole view on men with the “everyone likes nice things “ imma remember that forever ❤

[@precioussimonee333]

thank you for this. i’m 25, and i just couldn’t see what i was “doing wrong” when dating, and i was thinking these things but hearing them from you makes a difference!!

[@XO_1294]

Gurl yes that’s why I keep to myself I’ve seen too many girls do sooo many things and it’s really sad! But thank god I learned from some of my mistakes

[@meleika8274]

Hailey?? Holy Guacamole. Everyone in the comments know that you slayed the living life out of this. Everyone who watched this video was blessed beyond years. Blessed BEYOND! Bro, that’s insane- There is so much that came out of you. The information came out of you God sent from your toes. Whheewww! I’m so grateful so full, so aligned. I love it. Never stop being you sister sister 💖You help everyone. I adore you forever. This came to me as a refresher and it taught me what I needed to know RIGHT NOW. Beautiful. Amazing. Stunning. (24 in November and I know I’m doing well but I do need to keep my mind STRAIGHT- keep my personal morals up)

[@haileygamba]

🫶🏽😍

[@kailastephens2556]

Yes yes please continue this series!!! I’m in my early twenties and this is definitely helping me along my journey. Honestly all of your videos are !! Love you Hailey ❤️❤️❤️

[@arat5388]

I'm going to rewatch fr and take notes This is so important This series >>>>

[@TomiTomato]

I loveeee the passion exuded throughout this video. You’re like guys you NEED to learn from me, you don’t need to learn the hard way when you have me! You really want the bus for us huh? Thanks for sharing Hailey💕

[@allyharvey8074]

You are a selfcare star!!! I dont know you, but im so proud of you. I admire your wisdom. These dont change as we get older. 🎉 i am ally nice to meet you. Ive caught on to your videos in the last few months. I look forward to them.

[@iamjadennicole]

Loved this video 🙌🏽 It’s a YES from me on the discernment series!!! There are no women in my life right now that I would trade lives with so it’s nice to hear advice & storytimes from you, a woman with great energy who I respect and admire! Keep doing you Hailey, we’re here for it 🤍🤍

[@ravellemoore]

I be liking your videos before they even start properly because ik it finna be littt🔥... your words of wisdom are top tierrrrrr (10/10)❤

[@SoundMind3]

It is never too late to elevate. We need to trust ourselves.

[@trashcan8343]

I’d watch your videos when I was in high school , now that I’m 20 and watching this specific video is such a game changer. I definitely needed to see this. Thank you for being real and cutting through the bs.

[@teshiaMonique]

This is so helpful, Hailey!! I am not in my 20s anymore but still able to apply this info to my life! You rock, Girl!! ❤❤❤

[@katrina639]

you’re simply amazing. thank you for doing what you do. out here cultivating powerful AND loving women.

[@aqua_medax7229]

I LOVE the point you made about advice and not having to take them when you don’t like the outcome you see from the person you’re getting it from. I view advice like opinions. And as such-opinions are like assholes, everyone has one. (Unless you don’t, then i feel sorry for you not being able to take a shit.. it feels amazing)

[@mightyseashell]

especially the drinking one. I have met people who wait on getting drunk just to fight physically or verbally. Or people who just turn into the most out of pocket person after a few sips. Like drinking should be fun not overdone. I usually advice people not to drink when stressed or just wait the stress to go down so as to drink.

[@Itsmarissworld]

Girl I haven’t even finished watching and you’re going to make me cry I really needed to hear this fr you feel like an older sister to me❤

[@girlishhost6405]

I'm truly glad I watched this..some people come into your life with bad intentions, gotta be discerning

[@Jmarie0134]

I love this for you & us.! I’m 32 now but I’ve always done a lot of self reflecting but I had this same revolution about myself & dating around 28 & it’s been nothing but up for me since.! ❤

[@ammahofori6102]

Wow felt this video through my bones. Been watching you for about 2 years now and this is my favorite videos thus far! This really spoke to to me and reaffirmed the things I may have know but haven’t put action towards yet. Thank you for an amazing video!

[@dr.gray4k]

As a man, I fully support these claims. Peace and love

[@paigeblack7344]

I never miss a video from you!!!! I love this, thank you❤️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@kelsimburns]

Found your channel literally YESTERDAY and I’m already so excited for more. Love your wisdom, your energy, and your advice. Thank you for being so authentic and empowering 🤍

[@chalanttv4312]

Ugh, I get happy everytime you post ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

[@teshiaMonique]

Same!!😊❤❤❤

[@Mikalacoyle]

I'm 26 too but I feel so stuck in life and broke a little depressed and I'm working on changing my mindset and Meditating affirmations and all that all tips and help I can get are helpful but I don't want to waste anymore time

[@lilyrose9075]

Wow Hailey, I started watching your video while I was at the gym getting my steps in and I think this video is so helpful. After going through a break up these past few months I have really had to take time to heal and I am I thinking of all the ways in which I can be my best self for me. I think I relate to your advice so much because we are both cancerians. You really go above to be giving us women such amazing advice. Thank you. You have reminded me of so many points I want to study further for myself and things I will choose not to do in a future relationship with a man. You are truly a gift and inspire me! We are lucky to have you gorgeous

[@SADEKELLY_]

This was one of your best videos I’ve seen!! Loved the honest & transparent advice. Excited for this series 🔥Can totally relate & agree with everything you said

[@LK12ful]

i just made my iced coffee, perfect timing 🥰

[@Imluhvin]

21:23 wow thanks for this understanding, it’s the perception

[@Amandamarie476]

Not only am I rewatching Hailmas. But I also rewatch all your other ones!! ☺️ 🤍

[@sazkee]

holy shit Hailey that was so powerful and empowering! can’t wait for the continuation of the series ❤

[@breebrowder]

"If you really are something, you're not gonna have to always try to convince people of who you are." 🔥🔥🔥 I have felt that on so many levels for a LONG TIME. Especially on the topic of women who boast "Women support women" and "I'm a girl's girl". Those are normally the main ones that are the complete opposite.

[@hopesamaria7184]

Gamba ATE this up!!! Looking forward to the next video

[@banoh_m]

The fact that I've been watching your channel since I was 18 and now that I'm 22, I just want to give your flowers sis❤...You have no idea how your tips have stuck into my life and I'm always that girl because of you❤ That fact that I live in South Africa didn't stop me from taking the advice (hygiene, smell good,etc) but I always just substituted to the next best thing, that is in my budget range.😊

[@Itsbeyaa]

Ran across this video and this is exactly where I am in life, I’m 25 and I’ve literally been asking myself what am I gaining from this before I give my body away.

[@torikundrat8186]

Same here. 25 and not proud of the decisions I’ve made. Trying to change and value myself more 🥺