Girlfriends can wait, career can’t!

[@mohanapriya9581]

You're the only one who can give practical words sir, like a good true friend who cares for us .

[@Sharma143ss]

Listen Shwetabh Gangwar also 😍❤️😊

[@sikandarrinwala3121]

True love karogi good

[@priyanshupatel02]

"In relationship there are always two types of person : one weaker and the other stronger one. It's never easier to live being as weaker one!

[@s.g.753]

My girlfriend recommended your channel and now we are not talking anymore. This video made it happen. Hope she would wait for me.❤️

[@thechange7401]

I'm a Neet aspirant 3 months for exam... Yesterday I killed all my emotions. Emotions can wait career can't.And today this video...... I'm jst high on studies now

[@jhon8934]

Haha.

[@kumarmadhan5942]

You'll definitely reach your goals

[@abhinabachakraborty7207]

Bhai 1st Aug me hai 3 mnts bhi nhi hai 😒

[@begoidb720]

@@abhinabachakraborty7207 wahi😂

[@akashdey6913]

@@abhinabachakraborty7207 postpone hga shayad .. abhi tak form nhi aaya .. by the way I'm also a NEET aspirant 😃🤍🩺

[@shortsstatus1116]

Focus on your goal , girlfriend are coming backs to u ❤️

[@palakrathore5061]

yepp. So true said. We can have patience for relationships but career will not wait for us. So choose career first. If the person really loves you. He or she will not go anywhere. They will definitely stay for you.

[@victordutta798]

I am turning 26 this year, and last I dated was in high school back in 2014 when I was 18, my childhood sweetheart, so it's been 8 years. I never really felt the need of someone though tbh, bas silsila chalta gaya. I hardly had time for myself, how could I give and devote a large chunk of it just on 1 person. And it wasn't a conscious decision, it just happened to be. I've seen people, I mean it's everyone's story, the trauma that they have to face after a breakup, and specially guys. I am telling you, a lot of them have been completely destroyed. Where the girls left them and settled for better and the guy was left at a cliffhanger. No doubt, relationships are important, we need love, validation, support, all those good things, but you got to know what will earn you bread and butter and what matters more in the long run.

[@parulprarthana5413]

The trauma of breakup makes everyone like this, even girls too .(sometimes)I got friendzoned by my childhood sweetheart 😂😂🙂

[@victordutta798]

@@parulprarthana5413 it wasn't a trauma per se, but an eye opener. And that's not the reason. It has just become my way of life.

[@bhanupriyathakur3742]

Oh my god ! Thankfully i found your video today . I m so happy . I was stuck between choosing boyfriend or career .......i was not able to decide what would be the right decision in the long run . I m only 21 and yes i have enough time to achieve what i want to achieve and I will ! Past few years which are gone will not come back in which i could have made my career but its not too late to get things right.....and i will . It was my mistake i thought i could manage both the things . Today when i m not in a well settled career , even my boyfriend taunts me. But not anymore , i will prioritise my career first now . Thanks a lot sir❤

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Happy to help! You got this!

[@manishagupta4803]

Since last 3 months I was stucked with my love life, but now I have bounced back again to focus on my career and this video of yours re-energized me like anything 😊😊Thank you Sir ☺

[@ChetanBhagat1]

You got this!

[@shivammahajan9051]

Boyfriend bnaane ka dum nhi hai tumhare andar..a bad time manager you are

[@ad1tyathakur]

Knowledge and skills will not leave you ,it will give you more strength other than any thing in this world. Remember the word impermanence!!!

[@TheSoundofTanay]

Chetan sir, definitely agree with you. I’m 23 and had almost 5 years ka relationship experience. As much as I have learned about love growth, I HAVE to emphasise when I say these things are best done when you are otherwise settled. Guys - apne mental health pe focus karo. Develop friendships, hobbies and be a positive force in people’s lives. You’ll thank yourself for that.

[@antrikshachatterjee368]

At 23 did u complete ur education ❓

[@TheSoundofTanay]

@@antrikshachatterjee368 Not quite. I completed college (Bachelor's) in 2020, then worked and explored for a year. Now I am doing my Master's as well as working as a freelancer.

[@getofftheinternet6344]

it took me more than three years to bounce back from break up i feel the vibe of rejuvenation n refueling of energy comparsion of career wit seed sowing blown me indeed carrer cant wait n gf can wait tnk u sir... i m looking forward to see grown mature tree in all areas of life.

[@cia1894]

It's true for women also..wasted last year to get over the result of the other's indecisiveness. But I'll definitely rise from the ashes

[@anonymous_channel]

All the best to you.

[@meghanamurali2362]

This man is a boon to the mankind !! Hats off sir

[@Amansingh-nu1qk]

In short everything will be great if your career is great. So guys first focus on building your career.😊😊

[@DeepakTiwari-pv6kj]

112 likes and 0 dislike audiance are so intelligent man ❤️❤️

[@MasterSatya_Kvs]

Bhai Chetan ko intelligent hin samajh paenge

[@modellocomotiveworks2215]

When it's to help others think with heart But when it's to help yourself think with Brain - my own thought

[@AbhishekTiwari-we4vh]

Very well sad.

[@abhishekthechoudhary]

I liked it when u said "Duniya ne banaya hai ye rule, maine nahi " and until we r in this world, let's respect that rule and stick our heads in bulding a shining career first!!

[@resilientbloke]

I turned 24 a week ago, girlfriend to bahot rahi av tk, career ni bana achha. Ab master's kr k baitha hu. Trying to create a career now, and this man is speaking the brutal truth.

[@wbb566]

Bro I'm earning somewhat ok(4lpa) as of my age (23) I'm hitting the gym for last 3 years and have decent muscle mass, but I'm single many of my friends those who are earning half as me having 2-3 affairs, not getting why this is happening with me.

[@wbb566]

Please provide me some idea🙏

[@mythbuster8910]

@@wbb566 aaapko jaake aage se baat krnee hogi .....u have to put efforts on making these types of assestss

[@AbhishekTiwari-we4vh]

​@@wbb566 first of all, built an interesting personality. Go for trekking buy an interesting bike, jab aap apni life me enjoy karne lagenge bhul jayenge ki ladkiya bhi honi chahiye life me, aap single rehna enjoy karne lagenge tab itni saari ladkiya attention dengi ki aap soch bhi mai sakte

[@ayushheda1]

Thank You Sir For Guiding Youth... Its core in my heart, if Everyone in India 🇮🇳 will be on right track ,then How much Our Country Can Flourish.... Keep Enlightening..... You Are Doing Incredible Work....

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Thank you so much!

[@dicaprio5350]

This video's title is unique like the titles of your books sir

[@user-ft3zw6gj3h]

Agreed sir, even I'm a carrier- oriented person who believes life is much more than girls even I'm not saying that girls are worthless so don't be offended, and once you have made a good carrier then you can do whatever you want that's it. Even though I have read the book (half girlfriend) really sir that was amazing even when I was reading that I couldn't go somewhere!

[@anindian6557]

A independent boy must marry to a independent girl not unemployed girl

[@AbhishekTiwari-we4vh]

​@@anindian6557 i would marry someone who can take care of my parents as long as they are here and then do whatever shit she want.

[@vijaykaloni370]

Money is everything 🔥 😏

[@meharoofi]

Its eternal🙌❤️

[@amrit5679]

Money is power 😎

[@rishiraaj.580]

Money Is Second Oxygen of life 👍

[@WandererBrother]

It's more like everything Money talks

[@WandererBrother]

@@rishiraaj.580 How to earn money online?

[@logicalmind473]

Girls tend to find successful guys not just for money, but the actual psychology behind this fact is; if a guy can use his mind and body to become a successful man, then he can solve other problems of life too. So whenever after being in relationship or marriage, that guy would be able to protect her in every situation and would be able to solve difficult problems of life. I'm not talking about being a millionaire, but just imagine, if a guy can't even have a well settled career, even after he turns 25, how would he be able to solve difficult situations in her life ? Will he be compassionate enough to be humble and love her and her family and also the society?

[@seemasinha9996]

So true

[@Karthik_Rallabandi_]

Lol 😂..Stupid logic

[@montumondal8186]

Absolutely false

[@AshishPanthee62]

Stupid logic. Who are u to say boys should already be established before 25?? Utter nonsense

[@sikandarrinwala3121]

Ye sachaai he hona bhi chahiye

[@ujjawalkantsharma]

People will come and go. Some will love you, Some will test you, Some will leave you, And some will bless you, Be patient, Everything Happens for a Reason. Thank you sir❤

[@singhnikhil504]

Exactly what the most of the youth, seriously need to know.. Ek dm nabz pata h aapko sir.. What you are talking about is exactly what we need to listen right now. Not only this video, but this whole playlist..🙌🏻🙌🏻💯❤️ Ghar k bade bhaiyo ka bada Bhai🔥🙏 Thank you and please don't stop making this treasure..

[@krishnaagrawal8695]

You are truly our virtual mentor. Thank you 🙏

[@harshitshrivastava19]

My story Got dumped by a girl then join Gate entrance coaching help me alot to learn my electrical engineering branch in deep but didn't qualify for entrance exam but doing preparation I got job in top MNC company (TCS) Only suggestion to all 4 saal jo college m time mila ache se use krlo maze bhi kro 1st aur 2nd year fir 3rd and 4th year ache se padhai kro✌🏻

[@sankethkp9896]

If we have good career and money automatically we will get good and careing girl,we should focus on our own dreams..thank you sir for your such a wonderful advice.

[@aryansinghtiwari]

That's why this channel will be in my subscription list for forever❤️🤞🏻

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Glad to hear that 😊

[@ujwalbyraiah2441]

Right advice at Right time 👍❤️

[@kitchenkorner7658]

This applies to both boys and girls, self care and financial stability should be the priority, in life and once both health and finances are healthy, you attract healthy relationship.

[@saptorshimukherjee4304]

Girlfriend who comes before Career are real love.....after great career to Katrina Kaif bhi girlfriend baan jaegi

[@Aman-nk5uq]

Fair enough

[@jkshallinheritearth3883]

Acha? Kya ek 5'5" ft jaise chetan ko katrina mil gayi?

[@abhishekkumar-ky5nv]

For which reason I don’t know, I don’t like you too much but you’re changing my thoughts. I can’t tell openly on any social media platform my problems which I am facing but before the completion of this video I paused it and now I’m writing the comment. I can now say that you are a good person and changing my life.

[@shaikhalmas1001]

2:57 Sir Ye Baat Dil Ko Chir ke Dimag tak Pohonch Gai !!!💖💖💖💖💖💖

[@ray007sun4]

Right advice at right time 🙏

[@trisitganguly1896]

you know how the world works that line summarize everything

[@amarshrivastava2753]

Truth as it is..grateful to you Sir

[@aarshranka]

Sir, thanks for this video and Honestly at 21 I am no longer desperate behind girls like how I was earlier and I get that feeling that I will enjoy entering the dating world only and only when I set my career.

[@shivampotter766]

Wow... really u have changed my life.... I'm watching u from last 10months

[@Guruprasad_Bhat]

Thanks for being realistic, candid and giving people right perspective rather than just motivating 😎

[@Rkcool123]

Best motivator on this planet ever... for relationship, breakup..

[@digismartstudy2894]

100% true sir, it happened with me. I ruined my 19-25 years.

[@vinceisgod1547]

Kya hua tha bro😍😍😍

[@Whitecat2304]

Bhai she is toxic and troubling me and i blocked her , am I right?

[@harshdeepsingh5650]

Such a great advice it is thanks a lot for expressing these career tips powerfully.

[@shahmoinulhasan]

6:00 Hey! listen, Chetan Bhagat is behind you.........😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

[@yourbestversion3056]

Sirf you and shwetabh have the same mentality ❤️ and i love listening both of you so much❤️

[@neeraj80798]

Dekho aap ..this is gonna be most viewed vdo of this week. Bcz it's very relatable one🔥

[@mohammedmusthafa1293]

Trust me I thought I can have both.. 😂 tht never works.. when. U realise Ur parents are more important..u will succeed...u preach sir.. preach.. this is the truth 🔥🔥

[@360_KnowledgeLab]

Thank you so much sir, you're great..! What you said in this video is 💯% correct. It will help immensely for all of us.

[@ChetanBhagat1]

You are most welcome!

[@Rajeshnimbole]

Girls go with mind ,boys go with heart ,Don't get in love before marriage ,I fell in love at 28 but still in lot of pain at age 30 .Only focus on career before marriage ,u would get good girl after getting good job , everything is money based !!

[@gagans7180]

Thank you so much for this sir... as a 20year old was in a dilemma of these both choices .This video gave me much needed clarity

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Glad it helped!

[@harshtripathi5242]

This is the age where we have to do the most and we have most of the distractions too .

[@anonymous_channel]

I can tell you with my experience he is right. I hope you are wise enough to implement what he is saying.

[@dr.ratnakarj1936]

One of the most realistic videos I have seen. Keep it up . 👍🏻 💯

[@saintfiora]

True,vise versa also, boyfriend can wait but career can't

[@deep0966]

True

[@Mystery-wi5dw]

No a good successful man can marry just 10th pass girls but women's cnt.. Although never possible... Then how vice versa is true????

[@saintfiora]

@@Mystery-wi5dw I don't know about others but I focus on my career more than anything

[@Mystery-wi5dw]

@@saintfiora all the best👍

[@saintfiora]

@@Mystery-wi5dw 😎

[@rangdolnurbu7428]

Thank you sir , whenever feeling low somehow i manage to lift up myself by watching your videos and every videos seem pop up whenever i need some sort of answer and could seek out through your videos .....

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Glad I can help 😄

[@santoshbhosale2916]

when chetan sir said "me un ladko ko janta hu jo 1-1 saal' that is chetan sir

[@amitryder5498]

Epic line Sirji @ 5:04 "Sacchi me........." hardest truth of life but 99% fall under this category.

[@diwasbhuyan351]

Instead of working on timelines like by 22 this by 30 that, focus should be on discovering your interest and then working on it. Remove timelines from your life to reduce the worthless stress in your life.

[@mukundathakur5097]

Exactly

[@____9174]

Boyfriends can wait, career can't 🙂

[@deep0966]

Agreed

[@laralum3703]

It's not the same dear... Girls can have a bf whenever they want.. Guys can't.. Anyways it's very difficult to find a girl who would risk her career for someone...

[@chintanpatel4471]

Boyfriends can wait and will support a girl for carrer but in case of boys , girls will not wait for a single second to support him for carrer Thats why , girls can wait , but career can't......

[@simrankumari2854]

@@chintanpatel4471 not always..some girls are supportive but boys ain't.

[@chintanpatel4471]

@@simrankumari2854 ok simran you are the 3% from that girl who gives support wat about other 97% of girls they do same , just look at your friend circle group , have you found any girl who is supportive .....

[@anandmohan9208]

Kas apke video phle se dekhate to aj kuch or hote...mera 20s me breakup hua or aj 25 ka hu fir bhi breakup se ubre ni the..😭pr apke video dekhkar relax mila🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@akhandtrivedi270]

Chetan sir is a perfect solution, to all my probes! 😇🥰

[@vanshikasethi7556]

This video comes at right time for me. Thank you Chetan sir ❤️

[@rishiraaj.580]

U Are The Most Practical Motivational Speaker . Not Like Many Who Just Read Some Book And Start Giving Lecture On Life. 🙏

[@anshyadav2680]

I am focusing only on my career And I got some confidence from you....

[@arizakram6517]

Thank you so much sir, I watched your all videos, I'm also preparing for NEET. I fell in love with my neighbour bhabhi, but I never dared to say this to her. Eventually, I end up focusing merely on the entrance exam rather than falling in shitty love.😊

[@someshkumar3289]

Wtf that's Immoral man

[@monicanalawade3106]

And it is not always the thing that if you have great career you will find best spouse.....If it is like this then this is not real love. ... I am girl and I am Married to my bf when he had minimal salary....we are living happily

[@Prashansaa]

boyfriend can wait.. career cannot..!! focus on yourself girl.. :)

[@jaidipvalvi4403]

Really it's not for girls . boys available for girls 24/7 think about it

[@akashchowdhury8922]

@@jaidipvalvi4403 correct bro...inko kya pata hoga hamare dil or feeling ke bare me

[@aarohitripathi8949]

Can you please make a video on: 1.Boyfriends and friends can wait but career cannot. 2. What kind of girls do boys like.

[@unstoppablerunner1836]

I myself like a simple girl , no attitude , intellectual and supportive .

[@AshishPanthee62]

Me as a man of marriageable age would love to have ambitious, jyada mature thoda childish bhi , motivating, average looks totally fine but she should be understanding that is main thing.

[@unstoppablerunner1836]

@@AshishPanthee62 that means personality matter for u more than looks nice

[@its__RB]

True ... 100% relatable sir !!

[@Rkcool123]

Right now I was very frustrated with no career, no money and no gf. Mai jab Road pe chalta hu to apni aankhe niche karke chalta hu ki koi unmarried couple dikh na jaye maze karte. Maze ki baat h ki jitni career and money ki prblm h usse jyada prblm gf na hone ki h... immediately apki video dikhi... thanx sir u r rays of hope for thousands of 'chaman laaal' like me....

[@MasterSatya_Kvs]

Right sir ..I am 28 now and have a handsome salary .As you suggest I will find soon someone now for best gf

[@viratagnihotri1840]

how much salary

[@MasterSatya_Kvs]

@@viratagnihotri1840 Just can make her happy with the amount ..shopping in a week ,cinema in a month ,visit to her father's twice a year and can take her to a tour in a year ...

[@MasterSatya_Kvs]

@@viratagnihotri1840 Bro koi ladki itna mein teyar hai to batadije GA ...I would be owe to u

[@viratagnihotri1840]

master ji aap chinta mat kijiye aap apne paise le ke nikaliye hum ladki leke atei hei jaha apke offers koi ladki se match kregi aapko mil jayegi but yaad rakhiye paise life time nahi rehti jis din khtm hui oss din kya kijiyega aap samajh lijiye

[@MasterSatya_Kvs]

@@viratagnihotri1840 Yes Bhai saheb ...app ne Pura Sahi Kaha ...paisa sabh Kuch nehi hai ...it's just something ..anyway nice to talk you buddy

[@ritikrawat7514]

Sir I just love the way you say the things bluntly those are realistic and pratical. No one wants to talk and make videos about it cause they just want the views. They dont care about the content and the things they are giving to people and the youths what all matters to them is their fame and view Hats off and love you sir ❤️❤️❤️🔥

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Thank you so much 😄

[@India123-v9h]

Sir aap bahot realistic bate krte ho!

[@shikhatomar3251]

This is true for women also boyfriend wait but career can't ❤️

[@RF_AnishBarua]

This channel is like Daily Dose of Life for me!!❤️❤️👍

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Glad you enjoy it!

[@nikitafernandes461]

Very true 💯💯this applies to girls girls should always focus on their career

[@babybull749]

Sir, everyone can wait, career is must it's an indentity of person .

[@shivamtyagi9263]

Chetan sir, when I comes to know about any of your your video, there is some Goosebumps coming in my heart like waves, expecting that today I will find some precious lesson from your videos. Your videos are true mirror of my ups and downs of my life, I feel connected to me as if your words meants to me. My soul found an inspiration from you. I am blessed to have you in this generation. Love you chetan sir❤️

[@rafidislam1]

Wish I could send this video to my 18-year-old self. But I can take responsibility from now on. I luckily got into one of the top business schools in my country so I will utilize the next 4 years of my life so that I can create the greatest life for me.

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Keep it up!

[@NiOk-hy6vh]

Same bro i got addmission in iim rohtak the best business school for bba now i am confused that shouldni focus on my live life or should i expand more in financial markets which is my interest.

[@aartiyadav7967]

You are a gem

[@takeit12]

Sir, you are always boosting us towards goal... Thank you very much for your efforts...

[@ChetanBhagat1]

It's my pleasure!

[@GK-lk2hm]

100% true. Please guys listen to this and build your career first.

[@rishiraaj.580]

Well Said 👉 Great Career To Great Girl Friend Journey. ❤️👍

[@rashmikumari8774]

''Your work defines you'' so its better to focus on our goals.Everything can wait but career will never. Amazing video sir 😊

[@PANKAJSINGH-id5qz]

Thank you very much sir

[@pihu4123]

I am 20 and I never had a boyfriend coz I have this in mind that I will secure my career first and then only I will be in relationship with someone.....but the thing was everyone around me of my age has been into a relationship once a while so I was a getting a bit fomo that whatever I an thinking is it ohk like literally searched "is it ohk to not a boyfriend in ur whole Teenage" and I found this vedio....I share everything with my mom and she had always adviced me that - "we don't have a problem if you have a boyfriend but u never know what's going inside a person atleast get financially independent first build ur career so that if u fail in a relationship na u won't regret ki maine career pe focus nhi kiya".

[@priyamathur9439]

Great Advice in a simple words , thanks sir 😁

[@satyanweshi_byomkesh]

Each and every words are so true. Thank you so much sir. ❤️🙏✨

[@vasudevyadav9439]

बचचा लाे, विधायक जी 🕊🕳🕊🕳🕊🕳🕊🕳🕊💔🕊💔🕊💔🕊💔🕊🥜🕊🥜🕊🥜🕊🥜🕊🙈🙈🙈🙈

[@anshitajharia3608]

Sir thanks for your efforts to help youth ...You are literally a boon to youth...These topics are essential in life management...

[@sikandarrinwala3121]

Karlo tum bhi

[@drmusicclub1784]

Same applies to the girls as well, boyfriends can wait, career can't. so dear girls, focus on your career. and dear Chetan sir, you also don't only advice boys, give your important advice to girls as well.

[@dibbyendukarmakar8351]

28 year old unemployed girl can get 10,000 proposals with the help of just one instgram story. Same thing won't be applicable for boys. Pyaar pane ke liye bhi ladka ko paisa kamana padta hai. Otherwise no one will give 2 sh@ts about men.

[@dibbyendukarmakar8351]

Thanks sir for the 💓. Means a lot to me.

[@detailedanalysis940]

Sir mai toh stud type n hu par aapke ye motivation se mera carrier jarur stud ho jayega thanku u so much sir

[@pritoshsarkar9433]

🛑You said 100% true sir. Respect to you sir from Agartala Tripura. 🛑

[@ijustankit]

Thank you sir.. Good morning!

[@Pratheekshaaaaa]

U speak the truth !Highly appreciate that :)

[@4ambuddy]

Mostly important Fundamental point today, Most fantastic one, on Career. Mostly zyaadaatar Bachho ko pata hota hai, yeh age Group mostly Important hai magar lack of Guidance wala case ho jata hai Haath mai Torch hokar bhi andhere mai walk karte hai Target pata hai magar kab andhere mai route divert hojayega pata hai nahi chalega, But Tourch on nahi karna cahate Mostly important age mai productive Activities miss kar jate hai. Haar age Group mai Teacher Guide nahi karne aa sakta hai. Risk for Reward. Yeh comment Career walo ke liye hai.

[@rajkunwar4]

Damn sir, this video is so fun as well as informative.

[@marjanadarvesh298]

“Take Care” very beautiful & passionate