girls!!! 5 terrible habits we MUST stop in 2022

[@Jennifer_Ade]

✨Summary✨: 1) 0:56 Stop saying sorry - Stop invalidating what you believe in 2) 2:25 Stop dimming your light - You don't need to make others comfortable, you're amazing, own it. 3) 4:39 Stop making excuses for people that hurt you - If they show you their true colours believe them 4) 6:37 PLAN! - Helps you visualise and stratergise 5) 8:40 Demand what you want - Be clear about what you need from people around you. You don't have to be rude just learn to be assertive Thank you for this video! 🤗❤

[@user-qx4zc3nx8z]

Thank you!!

[@Psych2go]

Hey Vee, thanks for always sharing relatable, wise content. You're so inspirational and I wonder if you'd be interested in sharing your thoughts on mental health, empowerment, and well-being on our channel? Love what you stand for x -Monica

[@khalilahd.]

YES SAYING SORRY is one of the main things I want to change in 2022!! I’m so here for the self care and self improvement! You always have say the right thing to get me back on track, happy new year and good luck in 2022! 🥳👏🏽

[@jiayisong5909]

jus got hurt by somebody today. but i shouldn't make up excuses to victimize myself. thanks Vee for #3

[@nicholasKMAmusic]

Not a girl but this one definitely spoke to me either way (though I respect still that this was for a specific audience!). You inspire me so much to go for everything I want and deserve, thank you as always❤️

[@lalita9833]

As a Canadian, saying sorry is a part of my being 😅

[@shogb5999]

Habit everyone needs to stop: Procrastinating essays so you have essay crisis all the time

[@lunasailormoon]

lmfao right

[@rhens8088]

True.😂 but sometimes it’s not even procrastination life just gets in the way.

[@shogb5999]

@@rhens8088 I know. I commented this cuz vee’s made so many videos about essay crisis.

[@viki3758]

wow not nice

[@mpilwenhlengobese3495]

"the world won't know what you need unless you ask of it" 👏👏👏Thanks Vee great video! 😁

[@lifeastoldbymai]

I somehow went on a Vee Spree today. Listened to your podcast with Ali Abdaal while cleaning and smiling along the way, watching the video with Jade and you, and now this video. I can't help it, but smile. You are my inspiration and to many PoC too. I admire your work ethic, charisma, and drive and I aspire to do similar things, for example the KZbin channel, to create a platform where everyone is welcomed and represented. These last hours of Vee inspo has been incredible. I didn't get to read your book yet, as the list is so full. However, I will soon and one last thing that I noticed immediately in the opening: YOU ARE GLOWING GIRL AND YOUR FIT IS FIRE

[@megbennett8169]

YES! 2022 is the year I let my light SHINE! No more dimming my light to make others feel comfortable 💛

[@empoweredwithfee]

Ahhh Vee! I needed to hear that first point. I keep saying sorry to everyone because I’ve been brought up to respect and make everyone else around me comfortable. Thank you. I’m learning

[@TeaLeafNeeka]

I’d like to think I never have the sorry problem but I totally do, especially in situations where I don’t feel like I’m qualified to be in (even though I am). I think it’s mainly a confidence thing for me

[@arden3600]

We need more videos like this ✨

[@IdleheadOluchi]

Yes. This year I’m going to try out making a plan like proper people do.

[@BibleJourneyMinistries]

Girl, you are preaching!

[@uomida]

Keep glowing giiirrrrllll🥰❤️

[@silvialogan9226]

These are good points which you are giving for the New Year of 2022.

[@VanessainSTEM]

Wow, these are super different habits that no one talks about! Thanks for sharing!!!

[@deeva213]

Your eyeshadow looks so cute!

[@becomingdoctorkal]

where

[@MyArnette]

well one may be honestly sorry! feeling like what they say may hurt someone they may be very sorry

[@MyArnette]

Must unlearn sorry (this may hurt you, but it is true)

[@z.njomba2226]

We define success differently, my idea of being successful is different from your idea of wht success is. I don't think it's a matter of not wanting to be successful.

[@naomiamakpavboya2962]

I can listen to Vee talk forever!❤️

[@maonagadaga.x]

I love you siss ! ❤❤❤❤❤

[@karigilmartin5915]

Thank you this video really needed someone to get this advice from someone

[@deinfakio3775]

Thanks Vee, I would love to connect with you.

[@erindaly7751]

This is great! You are so inspiring ❤️

[@helmsmanpacker3456]

The numbers at the bottom left of the screen at each point help 👍🏼

[@Yennie97]

Agreed!

[@s.taonameso2248]

Thanks Vee for your advice, happy new year

[@caishaloyaan258]

Thank u so much for this, i happen to have this problem of dimming my light, making excuses for people and saying sorry in situation i dnt even have to, i realy related with this vedio, n now i wanna tackle this problem, this year by being myself around people n not worry abt if i presented myself in bad ways, thanks alot🌼🌻🥰

[@elenarowe3642]

Love this Vee!!👏👏

[@MyArnette]

My 3rd time watching this I need this!

[@JolaMozyrska]

Please, start a podcast ❣️

[@yellowblue9052]

Umm I did something I never done before. I personally willingly cut a friendship . It was the first time in my life doing so. When I say friend is like a close friend cuz I have a very very small circle. So cutting someone from a small circle is casi impossible but I did it for the first time in my life. I literally changed who I am when I was with that person played the idiot in that friendship intellectually ect... I was always changing myself in its presence. So immediately that person just belittled me and did some horrible actions it was pure mental psychological abuse. Literally I was just a small plus that can be dismissed from its life. So I cut it first while letting that person know that I was better than her the whooooooole time and that I was tolerating a lot .

[@yosdani6216]

i am all here for this self love, you deserve to shin too

[@evazy5106]

I say sorry even when I am the one that got hurt and I really wanna change that in 2022

[@liyamurai5235]

Thanks Vee and Happy New Year!!!!🎆Wishing you all the happiness and success❤

[@blessingadeleye8527]

Vee.... I love you so much. Watching your videos for 2 years plus has been so inspiring. Thanks for helping me out in so many ways. However, I want to get your book. I didn't see the link below. Is there a way I could download it? Thanks in advance 💖

[@reginag6202]

you are very empowering!! thank you for your advice :))

[@medsaayan5934]

Thanks sis i realy need this😍🥰

[@agla7460]

LOVE this!! You’re such an inspiration Vee

[@xxazxx6539]

Veeeee, you are such an inspiration, honestly!!! Thank you so much for your videos 💌

[@pakistanifoodslover]

Nice 👌

[@Mika___1811]

I love your energy!!! ❤

[@frostykays263]

On the demanding part i always do that and my parents are always going like why do you that its rude 😂😂 be polite but the process becomes slow then 😉😉

[@myriamtouil3347]

thank you

[@LailaKhayra]

I loved this video Vee ❤❤❤! I need to work on no.4. Sending you so much love. Happy new year 🎉. This is year is all about growth and so much blessings ❤

[@donttagmetocomment]

yes girl!! woohoo ❤

[@PhineBee]

Tnx Vee

[@NessaViolet]

I LOVE YOU ❤️

[@yellowblue9052]

Oh yeah vee .all you said is true. I was always the first in my class and I never competed with anyone , I was tracing my own road but my “classmates” always talked so at some point I deliberately made mistakes or did not put all the energy in the work just to make them stop talking .

[@tb_elen9259]

Giiiiiirl, I love u❤️❤️

[@namutulamukelabai9245]

Notification gang ❤️🔔

[@gizemozturk5196]

YES YES YEEESSSSS VEEEEEE

[@MyArnette]

ok Oprah lol good job I agree😊😊

[@ewurabenatrisha6510]

Hey♥️

[@dorcasluyeye2887]

@Vee Kativhu 2022 In America!!!!!!!!!!!

[@oliwia7304]

wait where is your book? XD

[@ayeshamehkan6501]

plz sister help me plz

[@euphoricxdynamic763]

Where's Malala...I want to see her

[@izaw2331]

Lol

[@abbieg3908]

One habit we, as women, must stop is calling women 'girls'...

[@user-gn5gb9pn1n]

thank you!! fucking finally someone agrees with me. it honestly makes me so uncomfortable. like when people say “a man with his girl” or “a girl with her man” like no 🥴 no man should ever be with a GIRL

[@yunogasai5985]

Pin me

[@pseudopuppy160]

1) stop referring to women as children ("gilrs"). (unless your target demographic is the under-12's?)