Taking Care of Parents

[@prachisaraswat5779]

I wish my parents were still alive.. those who get to take care of their parents are the blessed ones 😊

[@chandramaity1011]

😭😭

[@prachisaraswat5779]

@CC 🙏🏻

[@bhavanihr7365]

Amma I am now 35 and I definitely want make my son watch this video in his tender age itself so that he could cultivate the culture of taking care of his parents well..... Once again thank u amma

[@shobhanasudhakaran950]

Tears rolling down. You are blessed. Not all parents are lucky I am seeing it around in front of my own eyes. Heard it many times.

[@GitasKitchen]

You are so kind

[@raniparveen6682]

Dear Geeta ma'm you really think out of the box while selecting topics for your videos. This is the most important issue of today's world .It was a very touching video, it made me emotional and my eyes were misty by the end of the video. Very true and well said ma'm. 👏👏👏

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you so much. as i said it is a topic very close to my heart and i wanted to share my views.Thanks once again

[@shobhanasudhakaran950]

Correct

[@shobhanasudhakaran950]

Really . I cried too much after listening. Not all parents are lucky. I am now 67

[@sukanya_ln]

Such a thoughtful topic Gita madam. I got tears when I heard "a single mom will take care of ten children, but ten children cannot take care of one mom". My mom always wants us to talk to her daily. Initially, I did as a duty bound task. Later on, I understood her expectation, love and anxiety.. I started doing it with all love. Around two years back, I got an opportunity to serve my mom when she was affected by sciatica (a nervous problem) as my girl was in pre school only. She still works and thinks for us always.. her working experience is in the 40th year now. Still one year and above to go.. She is certainly an inspiration to us!! As you say , my girl shares such a wonderful bond with my parents.. in fact, I get overwhelmed by the love they have for my daughter. Thanks for making me feel all these all over again Gita madam. Stay blessed!!

[@KalaneethyChristopher]

Wonderful Mm. Geeta. We took care of our parents and in laws yester years. Lived with them. Now worried about our future years. Relying on God’s grace. How I wish all children see this. Hats off to you.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you Kala. I wanted to share my feelings with all I do hope it creates awareness

[@KalaneethyChristopher]

+Gita's Kitchen It's a joy to listen to you always.

[@pranavmeh1r111]

God should give you a long and healthy life, Love you AMMA ❤😭😄

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you Pranavji

[@bhavanihr7365]

Amma a very emotional impact we will have by watching this video... And also my mom is also 73 now and she is suffering from some health issues...... But we all love her a lot and my brother and my father looks after her like a small baby... We are very much blessed to have such a father and brother... U made me remember my mom and our duties once again... Thank u amma

[@GitasKitchen]

Thats so good to hear about such a loving family Bhavani. God bless you all

[@bhavanihr7365]

Thank you amma

[@jhiranmayidjhiranmayid]

Hi Maam .Really d one who takes care of parents r Inlaws r d lucky people to b blessed. Bcoz I feel it personally n proud tht v r supposed to take tht care. N with tht care their span increases .

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks a lot

[@maheshparashuram7654]

Thank you for making this valuable video. I see how blessed ur children's are to get so much of moral values right from thr mother 🙏🙏

[@GitasKitchen]

You are so kind

[@ninjasteel123progamer]

You are also like my mother... I heartly pray to Allah paak ,give you looooooooooong healthy life.... Love you aunty....I feel very happy to watch you ..

[@GitasKitchen]

I feel truly blessed to receive such affection, Thank you Rehana

[@patsyserrao7330]

@@GitasKitchen my

[@kimubhutia]

Love you so much ma’m , u touched my heart talking abt taking care of old parents . U know so much in detail . God bless you .

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks a lot dear....Glad you liked it

[@ayisham3307]

that was an emotional video 😞...gentle reminder to all of us with aged parents...

[@GitasKitchen]

Yes Ayisha...I wanted to share my feelings..

[@toastytopics2614]

Thank you for your wonderful information. May God bless you! This topic is overlooked and disregarded. We MUST honor and love our parents.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you so much

[@gangamurali1647]

Divine words coming from you.lovely speech and blessed were your in laws.only if you had taken care of your parents in law, you can really advise and help others in doing so.🙏🙏🙏

[@maryanncooke3601]

I really wish that all children can see this video n hear your advice. God bless your beautiful heart.🙏🤗

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you so much!

[@shanthasathyanarayana1113]

You are very good and kind in your heart madam.that what we call Tejas is reflecting in your face.

[@malathih5151]

Wonderful video need of the hour ma'am in every house nowadays.when we see them fragile in their old age we get reminded how they were brisk in their young and their middle age doing things independently.Thank you for the video 🙏

[@monajaswal]

Much needed vlog for the present generation....becoz at the end of the day nothing is above parents...!

[@GitasKitchen]

Absolutely right Mona

[@monajaswal]

ma'am i request u to put a vlog on depression and how to deal with it...i think its the most common problem being found in today's time.my mom personally suffered ptsd and see out of 100 75 percent suffering from it at any stage of age.!!!!

[@sangeetasengupta3586]

Thank you so much mam for coming up with such a beautiful video...I had tears in my eyes after watching it....Thanks once again for reminding us of our duties towards our parents before it is too late.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks Sangeeta, I'm happy if it creates awareness .

[@annapoornanayak2305]

One of the most beautiful videos... You have taken care to include all the aspects and finer points. Thanks a lot for sharing this video. This shows that you are a loving, caring and a compassionate person...I can feel it in your voice and body language 😍

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you dear

[@rekhasuryakula8645]

Really very nice.

[@rajeshd4454]

I love my mother of 88 years old and I'm her care taker .A few points you mentioned have motivated me more to take good care Thank you so much

[@GitasKitchen]

That's great.. Proud f you Rajeshji

[@chadguindon6909]

This was a very beautiful video. It truly touched my heart because I love my parents so much.

[@GitasKitchen]

God bless you

[@ramyaprabakaran13]

Thank you fr the valuable video Mam.. the word "Adult Children" and "will know the value seeing the empty chairs" are really heart touching... True words...

[@heavenlymomentsbln6035]

I love the quote u said aunty. Thank you sooo much

[@mshaik435]

Thank you sooo very much for this video. May the lord bless you with many many many more happy, healthy and prosperous to come. We all love you so much. ❤️😘.... This video reminds me about my mother whotook care of her grandmother mother which is my great grandmother till her very last day. We loved my great granny so much we cared for her with the day she left us. Not a day goes by without thinking about her. May all youngsters and adults learn from this video ❤️🙏🏻❤️.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you so much

[@prabhabalaji8896]

Amazing video. You have spoken about such an important topic. Such an emotional video. We have to be grateful to those who brought us and made us what we are today. Every point is so valuable and thank you so much for your wonderful points. God bless you.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you !

[@veenasingh513]

Thank you for lovely post 🙏🌹

[@meetatrivedi4687]

I couldn’t have said better myself. Thank you for sharing and encouraging others to be kind to their parents. God bless you.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks Meeta

[@HazeleyesCat]

Amazing video ! You are a VERY special person, God bless you always !

[@aegipanmusings2037]

Thank you for this Beautiful video. Yes ... trying to teach them to use a smartphone.🙏🏻💚🌺🌻💐🌹

[@GitasKitchen]

That's so sweet of you

[@mayanksharma8710]

Thank you so much mam, you have summed it up so well, covering all aspects. I can see you have lived up to these lessons in your expressions. God bless you a lot. 🙏

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks a ton mayankji

[@sanjay.bhatnagar]

Wonderful! Thoughtful. Thank you very much.❤

[@GitasKitchen]

You are so welcome!

[@SumaHomes]

you are beautiful inside and out side. God bless you!

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you! You too!

[@helensathana4649]

Ma'm you are a blessing for us. Thank you so much for all your videos which are very useful.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you very much Helen

[@madhumitav9811]

Wow. Wonderful words. I don’t know what to say. I am amazed

[@r4jjin]

Simply beautiful 🤗 thanks for the valuable knowledge 😇 you just made me 😢

[@GitasKitchen]

So nice of you

[@lakshminatarajan1742]

Oh such a informative speech, teras are rooling in my eyes, iam also in the same situation

[@subhav527]

Excellent beyond words🙏god bless you and your family,🤗

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you Subha

[@aartiraval3235]

A beautiful message from a beautiful Aunty. Love you more Aunty. ❤

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you so much Aarti. Wonderful to connect with you

[@ashoogrover]

Quite emotional, Gita maam. You are simply a gem

[@ranigb9682]

Thank you! It’s important to be reminded of these things.

[@GitasKitchen]

Glad you liked it

[@viduramdeworrastogi8471]

The emotion just shines through your words and face. Very beautifully worded and delivered. Thank you. May God bless you. We have recently lost both our maternal and paternal grandmothers. Nothing can replace them . The house is now so cold n empty at times. There is no one to answer to .. no one to enquire about our whereabouts, meals , ...

[@GitasKitchen]

Your comment has brought tears to my eyes Vidu. God bless you .Yes, this is exactly what one misses.I'm sure you have the blessings of your grandparents in abundance.

[@viduramdeworrastogi8471]

Thank you ma'am . I always hope they are with me. I also hope that this video encourages more people to take care of their elders. Thank you again for making this video

[@essvecan73]

Your anologies, examples, stories in your videos are touchy, apt, truly Indian, teaches life values and also how to make a good filter coffee...,

[@baskarramamoorthy7138]

Thank you mam for a wonderful advise. You were talking all the true scenarios which every one facing while giving back the care to there parents.God bless you.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks and welcome

[@supriyagadkari4465]

Geeta Madam, I like your videos. But this one simply touched my heart. Thank you 🙏🙏🙏

[@GitasKitchen]

Glad to hear that

[@shanthiganesan2202]

Wow super.the words are truly coming from the heart.this is most needed video tq very much madam

[@aartishah7988]

Thank you,thank you. God bless you 🙏.

[@GitasKitchen]

You are so welcome

[@vilasininair3534]

Wow, this was such touching one for me. You made me cry Gita akka. I love you so much. Thank you. 🙏 👍

[@GitasKitchen]

🤗

[@ccsnd77]

Thank you so very much for the very excellent tips!

[@rashmiskitchen7467]

Nice thought ma'am....very important for all in this hyper busy world...👌👌👌🙏

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks a lot

[@srinivasannanoo6787]

I am sure atleast some old people will get better times with your advice God bless you too

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you

[@remalaksh]

Very nice mam just loved listening to it.. Can relate very much to it..... U inspire us mam

[@bhavanihr7365]

When I went through the end of the video I felt that one thumbs up is not equivalent to your way of conveying the matter...... These are words which we need to carry over generation to generation and you did it amma... So millions of thumbs up by my side for this video.....

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you so much Bhavani

[@milibaranwal]

Thank u for the video... I am looking for more info how to take care of old parents to guide me futher.

[@jyothinair6361]

Madam this vedio is so wonderfully explained that each and every person who feel that their old parents are burden should see this vedio ..my eyes filled with tears though I am in touch with them still very far away ... This is the best vedio hats off to you mam..good bless you at least thid vedio must have opened the eyes of ungrateful children.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you so much Jyothi

[@arthiram1189]

Maami nice . U r so sweet . I can feel ur very good character n soft heart . U are 100 percent right . Awesome advice. God bless u

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you so much for your kind words Arthi

[@maysunday5077]

Good morning, Gita ji, lovely video as always. This video is packed with very valuable pointers. Your kind and heartfelt pleas to treat the elders with respect and love is so on target. Thank you for sharing. One suggestion you touched on and I would like to expand is always keep a complete list of their current medications, name, dosage, including schedule handy so it can be shared at the hospital or doctors office as needed. As you mentioned they may forget so we have to support them in these small ways. Thank you again.

[@GitasKitchen]

Yes. a very important point . In fact i always tell people to upload it on their phones for easy access anywhere

[@subhadivakar9325]

All you said are very much true Gitaji. Hat's off to you.

[@nehameher2040]

So touching. What an awesome topic. You have touched so many deep aspects of the soul. Loved this video. Must watch for all children

[@GitasKitchen]

Glad you lied it Neha

[@GitasKitchen]

liked it!

[@anjumorani5545]

lovely video thanks for sharing is topic 🙏👍👌

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks for visiting

[@sarojavenkataraman4422]

So nicely said Mam Geeta. Truly one should take great care of paeents. I am lucky I had the opportuniry to take care of my Paralysed mother. Also I could take care of my MIL till her last days and as said by you we vibed like friends. My husband would spend atleast half an hour aftee coming from Office with her chatting with her. We used to discuss so many topics. We used to have dinner together and during holidays both lunch and dinner. I am so happy and grateful to Almighty for giving me an opportunity. Also I like your tips in Gita's kitchen soo much. Thank you

[@GitasKitchen]

You are truly blessed Saroja. It was so heartening to read your comment. I'm sure her blessings are with you always.Very proud of you!

[@parimalagn9714]

My mother fell down in the kitchen and is bedridden. Now me and my sister are taking care of her on alternative week basis. I can relate each and every word of yours to my present situation. Thanks for the meaningful video.

[@GitasKitchen]

God bless you both Parimala. You are doing a great service. I know it can be stressful at times. Take care of yourself too.

[@parimalagn9714]

Gita's Kitchen Thank you so much for your wishes. We siblings treat our mother like our daughter now. Thanks once again for your concern. I love to watch all your videos. And learning to speak good English through your videos. Keep up the good job . Stay blessed always.🙏💕☺️

[@srikalanagaraja2096]

My FIL could catch up with a running bus at 68yrs whereas I couldn't even run a short distance at 30yrs. He ran and reserved seats in the bus for us in Mysore. He didn't have any health issues till 84.

[@srimayurdasari6492]

Omg your video made me emotional 😭 and touched my heart 💖 thanks mam for a amazing video !!

[@manapalan8368]

👃👃👃 thanks a lot for this touchy video Mam have a very good soul May God Bless U Live Long Life

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you!

[@abhishekdave1182]

Thank you so much mam. For all your ideas. I'm already doing some of them and will do it all. 🙏

[@GitasKitchen]

Most welcome 😊

[@jayalakshmi5482]

A lovely video. just loved it. Very relevant today .I wish more people follow it. keep up serving society by creating more such videos.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you Jaya

[@dashingsoul6278]

Very Good Video. In todays world theŕe is no one to tell you such things. Thanks for the info you have shared. This will really help many children in their lives to take care of their parents in old age. Thank you Akka.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks and welcome

[@maneeshachaturvedi608]

Hats off to you mam for this wonderful video! Thank you so much!

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks Vanya

[@rampurwalavikas3399]

Thank you wishing for true good words......

[@meenamanaktala4389]

Im so glad I found you! you are my angel!😊🤗

[@GitasKitchen]

I'm so glad!

[@RYRY955]

You are such an inspiration mam..great content and very nicely presented.. Am watching most of your videos and wish to cultivate your patience love calmness and ofcourse that super energy as always.. Loved this video 👌👌

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks a lot

[@parvathyramanathan8256]

You are too good Gita. You have chosen a very important topic and explained it very well. I too feel there is nothing like taking care of our parents / elders.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you so much Parvathy. Glad you liked it and share the sentiments.

[@amarnadhk]

I hope this video would get 1 billion views

[@archanamurmu3572]

Thank you for making this video 🥰

[@GitasKitchen]

My pleasure 😊

[@DrTariqulIslam2535]

I appreciate this video. very nice.

[@GitasKitchen]

Glad you liked it!

[@susheelasunder3386]

Thanks for your video now days generation they don't bothering. Now days old age homes their madam. Recently I had bad Experience about my old age. Thanks after earing ur video literally I am crying.

[@GitasKitchen]

Don't worry Susheela. Please don't cry. Take care of your health. It is unfortunate that you have had a bad experience. Believe in the power of prayer. Hoping that things will change for the better soon.

[@khanjanzala5956]

Very nice and motivational video. After watching this video I started missing my parents as well as in laws. As I am not in India they are alone . Waiting to come back soon

[@satyarthi141]

When you have self sufficient, independent old-age parents life is good. But, the moment life becomes hard for every small activity and that's when care takers life becomes miserable. Not that they don't love them, but managing things and expenses becomes a challenge. That too, in certain cases life is simply dragged on and on, for years. As our philosophy says getting Moksha at right time is also a blessing. It's sad to see many old age homes coming up. Don't know,how painful it could be to live in a unknown place, leaving their own comfy dwelling. Being human is very important and giving all support system too.

[@jyothimcminn431]

Thanks for sharing your concern and nice pep talk...but reality is striking us at the door of independence...anxiety of growing old...the inability to do simple tasks..and most of all living alone in the home. The gap of different health issues. It is up to the children of a family on how to care...jointly and providing all the care...comfort and expenses for the last part of journey on life. It is a dear topic for many children across the globe...some countries provide a variety of options of living so each parent lives his or her life to the fullest...unfortunately India is way down the ladder...very few are visible...and more to the mercy of the children...than a caring environment for them to live in Peace.

[@GitasKitchen]

I think it is not so much about which part of the world, but more about the values a nd culture one has grown up with. Yes, this topic has to be addressed and we do see a number of Senior citizen communities coming up in India too.

[@loganathanm5165]

Mam what you say is Really in life Thank you for this video All the best

[@gillweber7930]

Dear Gita, beautifully expressed on a very touchy subject. You are doing a heart-fiilled job.....

[@GitasKitchen]

I felt it was the need of the hour Gill.Thank you

[@veenasubbarao7658]

You are simply wonderful. I appreciated your dishes and liked the instant idly dosha mix u introduced. Even the tradition of 80th birthday celebration and the unending variations in cooking. The list interesting and unending. With all the cooking information today I am touched with the advice to take care of elderly. The humane factor you have in depth is very touching. Life does not make sense if we do not give love and care to our parents. Todar my application for you is beyond all lovely receipies.

[@sriyasrinivas9920]

🙏Thank you so much for your valuable words, madam..I never comment to any video,but your words made me to do this. Thank you so much once again 🌹🙏

[@GitasKitchen]

All the best

[@subathrac7557]

Aunty, It's a timely advice for me. Thank you so much.

[@GitasKitchen]

Glad to be of help Subathra

[@ankitajk2421]

Thank you to post taking care of parents.

[@GitasKitchen]

Our pleasure!

[@nikhilmukundaphotographymu5315]

very nice madam, socially relevent in these days where the children think of putting parents in old age home is the only responsiblity of them

[@parvathygopal1819]

Hello Gita aunty, superb video. I live with my in-laws only. As you said, they are just like kids and I try and treat them like how I treat my daughter taking care of their mood swings and understanding their needs as much as I can. If each family has an elderly and intelligent person like you to show a right path, it would be really great. Take care of your health aunty. You think from the perspective of younger generation as well which is a great quality of yours. You are so genuine. Lots love and pranams to you and uncle.Kavitha Gopal

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you so much. It is very heartening to see that you are taking such good care of your in laws. There is nothing greater than love. Your affection shown will also set a good example to your children . God bless you.uncle sends his best wishes too.

[@chandrasekharkumar9022]

Truly said, mam, they r the living god for their children, if we don't respect them today our tomorrow will not respect us, hat's off to u mam for creating a video on such a important issue

[@GitasKitchen]

Yes. It is the vey essence of our culture

[@debo1234ification]

Wonderful. Thank you for the reminder

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks Sharon.

[@Familychannel.123]

This is the best lesson, I am really shook seeing someone has disliked this video.

[@akilaswaminathan5032]

Wonderful gita mam 👍 much much needed for today’s society..Tears rolling down thinking of my amma who passed away last year ..God gave me the chance to take care of her till her last breathe 🙏

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks Akila. sadly we have to live with memories. God bless you for taking good care of your amma. Your mother must have been very proud of you.

[@akilaswaminathan5032]

Gita's Kitchen 🙏🙏

[@siddappahalli1262]

Hats of you mam, your speaking was awsome and its changing so many lifes with listening your words

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks a lot Siddappa

[@shailapeddamatam2834]

Sairam Geetha is so true. My father did property so my mother lives safely. Today my mom is 89 and in death bed. My brother and his wife send her out to my sister. Even taking every penny. Only one son. One who does not care for parents sure to be going through hell here not after death. Your mother in law may not be here but her blessings are with you she is watching . Who we are today is their sacrifice not ours. I have decided since I don't have kids but coming back to my country and help parents whom people have abandoned because I did not getting chance now. Hats of to you.

[@GitasKitchen]

A very sad situation it seems. I hope this video will make people more aware of gratitude towards their parents

[@charitashetty3905]

Very nice video for the present "busy" generation kids.

[@GitasKitchen]

Something close to my heart..

[@zainabkhatun2045]

So emotional aunty ji u r u love ur life n surrounding n make us feel lively everything.....

[@zainabkhatun2045]

Point out Is der any error in english

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you Zainab

[@GitasKitchen]

I appreciate your feedback. please use the word lively, after everything.It should read feel everything lively.

[@essvecan73]

You are motherly, majestic and magnetic - your videos could fall into many categories - Culinary, Home Management, Personal Management, Relationship Management - from a cooking Maami now you have transitioned to become a Counsellor....

[@maheswariramraj]

I'm impressed with your content and the way of speech mam.. You are awesome..

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks

[@writeintent3936]

Thanks for uploading this relevant video!

[@GitasKitchen]

Welcome

[@sulossolokitchen6192]

Your speech is very nice and God bless you 🙏🙏

[@bindumahesh2737]

Mam I don't have parents so I thought I will treat my in-laws as parents, but I found that they are more interested in money than care from children. They like son who can take them to 5 star hotel but behave rudely with them, but they will insult their children who are not very rich. Mam the story is same as that of the book ”Dollar Bahu" by Sudha Murthy.

[@GitasKitchen]

It is not easy to understand or change the attitude of certain people Bindu. What is important is that you should not give up your positive and kind nature. Surely, one day they will understand reality. I appreciate your sincere efforts.

[@vandanasalvi6083]

Feels so bad i value parents a lot but it is unfortunate that both my parents and in laws give priority only to the son or daughter who has financial security they will bear insult from them and accept their rudeness just because of money and people look down upon us as we r bad son or daughter to our parents of in laws.

[@sattaluripadmavati5498]

Thank you for posting this video mam

[@GitasKitchen]

😊