Good Manners in Children

[@rubinashaik1908]

Mashallah your tips help me to understand how to teach my children good manner in polite way

[@kalpanaganesan8489]

Superb Mam, on top of your message I would like to add a few points with your permission in advance. 1.teach them difference between public and private life. Meaning once they step out from thier house then it’s become public. So washing thier cycle on the road or flat entrance, shouting in public. 2.they should learn to do everything on their own.so that while they grow no need depend on anyone also they can learn the skills 3.maintain queues system 4.learn and follow their own family culture being Indian he or she should know the difference of cultures and should learnt to respect. 5.teach them bad and good touch difference 6. They should judge the people only by thier knowledge, culture, and talent rather than status. Hope I have covered all, of anything missed pls share so that I will also remember.

[@GitasKitchen]

Very well said Kalpana. Thank you for your detailed suggestions

[@geetathakkar3767]

GEETA YPU AEW GREATT

[@monikahmankar6983]

I agree to this completely Madam....thank you and keep up with these sharing. Always 🙏

[@jessieabraham1359]

Yes. I am 57 now. Still I say thank you even to the people who help me; may be conductor who issue ticket, rickshaw driver who drop me home, everyone I come in contact. Yes I would like to teach my grandchildren also. They are too small now.

[@GitasKitchen]

So heartening to hear that. It is a very kind gesture which people forget nowadays

[@teenaidoo8569]

Thank u Dear Mother. U remind me of my mother..she thought us all this in South Africa as well, as Indians we have the same Values here. I tried to teach my son all this. N I must say people always comment on his behavior and character GOD bless you dear Mother.. 🙏 ❤

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you dear

[@VK-yf2fn]

Compassion and kindness to animals and other living beings , being quiet and respectful of other peoples space are equally important values a lot of Indian parents need to teach their kids

[@khappu1]

Ma'am I am watching all ur videos since thz covid. I really like ur positive and very humble attitude. Thank you for the valuable lessons.

[@GitasKitchen]

So nice of you

[@maitreetiwari6233]

Thank you for sharing such lovely rhyme which is very meaningful 👌👌👌

[@GitasKitchen]

My pleasure 😊

[@SriRaamajayam]

this should be the important points that is taught in all schools ...all families must follow...I have been to several relatives house, even adults do not follow basic manners...as simple as burping,farting, picking nose....I wonder what the kids of those families would be ...manners first, money later...we send kids to school and tell them, they need to get jobs,but basic manners not seen anywhere...you covered lovely points...a great teacher:)

[@rohinisartdrawingschool8592]

Amma.... The way you are planning your videos and concepts is incredible... I find Culture and tradition is the main ingredient of your videos.. You are using the platform 'KZbin' the best perfect way...I just wanted to take the blessings of you couple..🙏🙏

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you so much 🙂 May you reach greater heights through your channel

[@reenachandwani563]

You are great Gita ma...you don't just stick to teaching us recipes but a variety of subjects is addressed by you....hats off...

[@GitasKitchen]

My pleasure 😊

[@anishaarangil1612]

Mami... Lotz of respect.. And thank u so much... 🙏

[@SuPerWave348]

Namaste Gitaji, You are simply superb human.. Tq for your good guidance in all respects.

[@GitasKitchen]

Namaste. thanks a lot for your feedback

[@reenachandwani563]

Please n thank you are part of my vocabulary even today

[@swethacm15]

I have learnt so many things from you madam,very practical n illustrated way ....thank u

[@GitasKitchen]

It's my pleasure

[@maryanncooke3601]

Very good advice especially for the young parents.

[@girijasankarmohapatra8403]

Thank you mam, u are really wonderful person in our society. I like u very much. ♥♥♥

[@jayasree9786]

Very useful and valuable information that every parent should follow in their life. It's true aunty , children grow only by seeing us.

[@GitasKitchen]

thank you Jaya

[@gracerajah8972]

Thank you very much for this. Love, grace.😊

[@reeja7712]

Gita ma'am you are truly a gem💎.. Thankyou for sharing this information which is much reqd in today's world.. I have a 3yr old kid and will surely incorporate all the things you discussed here..lots of love💕💕💕 Looking forward to more of such videos related to good upbringing..

[@GitasKitchen]

Lots of love to your little one,Reeja!

[@AnjaliRajadhyaksha]

Very well explained Gita ji ! Like good food, well manners go a long way in developing a child's personality. I applaud your efforts. I hope you take up more of such subjects and continue the series. Also you have good command over subjects and language too. One such subject which comes to my mind is "wastage" ...in terms of resources, money, food, .... .You may invite viewers ideas too. Best wishes.🙏🙏

[@GitasKitchen]

Very true Anjali. Thanks for the suggestion.In fact very often I have expressed strong views against wastage of food specially at weddings.The mindset of the people has to change

[@kirankeswani5115]

Mam Just Rembering my Mom Liatening to ur Video my Mom Use to be poliet loving &strict with me Which i passed to my Children Also Today my Grand child 2&1/2 he greets me by saying Hari Om Daddi on video call They R in U S Superb Mam U R

[@GitasKitchen]

Congrats for passing on such good values!

[@mallelasoubhagya3500]

Nice and best way and poem is good thank you amma

[@lalithasureshsistla8726]

A very nice useful and much needed information for the present generation. As you told I have been telling my child most of the points covered in the video. I studied in a missionary school & I follow them till date. But the family also should co-operate I feel as they have their own way of talking /behaving which reflects the kids behavior and I am facing one such situation. My kid is a teenager and he apes his Grandpa or father in certain things which are not right in general maybe for the family it was ok then. How could I correct him. Of course I am telling him in their absence but still an experts advice means a lot to me.. pls mam

[@GitasKitchen]

I understand that it can be a little difficult situation, show him examples from people he knows either within the family or outside, who are appreciated and looked up to for their behaviour and tell him that today there is something called Sq also apart from Iq which is Social intelligence and it matters a lot. Dont worry he will learn to appreciate your inputs although he may not express it

[@lalithasureshsistla8726]

@@GitasKitchen thank you very much Mam.

[@ayinavillidurgabhavani5082]

Nice mam. My mother in law also taught these words to children like u. Thank you so much

[@geethasundaram8217]

Thanks for your guidance Aunty... Ur so humble and polite.. 🙏

[@GitasKitchen]

So nice of you

[@mshaik435]

Gita ji you are simply the best. A phenomenal woman indeed 💯👍🏻👌🏻❤️👑💖💐 Please make a video on skin colour and how we as people should love and respect all our fellow Indians and also people of different races with various skin colours. Also how we should teach our children from a young age that no matter what there skin colour we still love and value them. Often we find people comment on young innocent children's skin colour saying: " Hey you are so fair but your daughter/son is dark but still he/ she has good features." Also some elders compare colour of children this is not good. This is not the way to talk or behave. Also we subconscious are telling the children for them to be ultimately beautiful they need to be lighter in complexion. So when these children come to an older age they start to become very self conscious and start using toxic chemicals and skin whitening products to bleach their skin. This effects the health and psychology of the person to think that they will be beautiful, loved, respected and held in high esteems by friends, families and strangers only when they are lighter skinned. Plus some creams have bad chemical that can effect health. We need to slowly get rid of this thinking.

[@GitasKitchen]

Very true, this should definitely be taught to children.many adults sometimes make insensitive remarks specially while comparing , which is not good

[@smitavarrier1136]

Thank you so much ma’am for your valuable advice 🙏 God bless 🙌

[@GitasKitchen]

Welcome dear

[@beenaramkumar1171]

Very good video Thank you Mam, Very informative

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you Beena

[@vidyavenugopal2742]

Aunty your English vocabulary is awesome r u an engineering graduate or any master degree

[@UmaRani-mr5bk]

Superb. It's a must nowadays. Well explained.

[@GitasKitchen]

thanks

[@jayantakumarjena7260]

I appreciate your valuable tips Mam

[@elviracarvozo8383]

Wonderful!! Bless you.....

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you so much

[@gayathrivarrier6226]

Hi aunty...Hope you are fine... Just few days ago;I came to know about your channel.. You have inspired to make me watch more videos and now I dedicate my ME TIME in watching your old videos which you have uploaded.. Keep going ..You are superb...May god bless you...Stay healthy.. Kindly request you to upload video about developing reading habits in children at younger age.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you so much 🙂

[@ashwinibr9848]

Kalpana Ganesan very good points.

[@kavitamaneshshekar1065]

Very nice information thanks gitamam may God bless you.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks kavitha

[@bijugeorge6540]

Well done Mam. Thanks for this valuable video

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks Biju

[@FinOpYt3364]

Mam you are so kind ❤️

[@geethas1661]

Very very nice mam very wonderful Amma i learning many things from u more and more videos amma

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks a lot geetha

[@halgudijangam4656]

Your recent videos are helping me to strengthen the bond with my child. Thank you. My kid is 5 years old please guide me how I can make her understand the importance of our National Flag.

[@GitasKitchen]

Very happy to hear that.you can tell your child stories of our freedom struggle. Also even at home make it a point to stand up when the national anthem is played on tv. This will help the child get the right values

[@halgudijangam4656]

Gita's Kitchen Thank you Mam

[@shree5482]

Thank you so much for your valuable information madam! I'm new to mother responsibility..i have 7 months old baby girl. She is starting to speak ta..ta...ta....i am wondering how and what to teach my kid...ur video helped me alot madam...thank you so much. Small request please make a video on small kids (below 1 year)diet plan.

[@GitasKitchen]

I have already uploaded a video on Baby food . Please check my channel playlist. You can give your daughter porridge,Khichdi,laddus(ragi),fruits, roti,rice,vegetables,soups and milkshake

[@saritamistry8751]

love watching you please use ‘she' also as the girl child feels neglected ,that the video about manners is only for the boy to learn . Not only ‘he' but also ‘she'.my child and i sit back to watch your videos and learn great food and values.thankyou geetaji. lots of love and respect to you.

[@GitasKitchen]

Sure. Thanks a lot.

[@divyaharikrishnan2050]

As you rightly said my daughter says please, sorry, with everyone except parents. Is it that she is being liberal with us mam. Excellent speech mam.

[@GitasKitchen]

Love to your daughter Dharshini

[@roopalikulkarmi2316]

Thank u mam . I like all your videos I request u to pl make video on teenager, clg going children, as this age is dangerous

[@Kali_Divine_Blessings]

Nice video ma'am . I'm a teacher but my husband often speak rudely to the children now if I say anything there is a big quarrels.how can improve my children in this case

[@GitasKitchen]

It is important that any difference of opinion among parents should not be seen in front of children. You continue to teach them what it is to be polite and also show by example ,they will learn.

[@StoriesSlokasSanskar]

Superb. Simple but very effective advice.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks

[@prabakarm5025]

Hi geetha hi Surely will implement to my generation whatever you said

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you

[@sruthinithin1755]

Ur really an inspiration for my children’s mam...

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks Sruthi

[@sundia03]

It's mind blowing message for up bringing future generations. Thank you. . 🤗 One more request, can make a video or advice, how important is to have 2nd child and based on minimum or lack of financially, family relatives, friends support. Thanks ma'am -Sandhya 🙏

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you Sandhya.

[@lakshmipria6671]

Thanks a lot . Need of the hour.

[@GitasKitchen]

You"re welcome

[@sirishanaidu8138]

very nice & useful video aunty. Thank you.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you Sirisha

[@bavanimahendran1978]

Very useful tips ma thank u🙏

[@GitasKitchen]

Welcome 😊

[@sushanthgovindan88]

Very useful video mam

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks a lot

[@ajithajimmy2681]

Thank u mam i will apply all these in my home for my kids

[@GitasKitchen]

Thats nice ajitha

[@vasantasrinivas1247]

My.name is vasantasena . I teach classical dance to children. I saw your video and whatever you conveyed is what i keep telling my students.video really good. The word please has gone out of the dictionary. I request pl add1 thing more. To sit properly . Theres a dignity attatched to proper sitting with decency and decorum . I dont blame the children .Its teachers and parents whose duty it is to take care. Thk s mam

[@GitasKitchen]

Very true Vasantaji

[@pragyapurohit5746]

Very nice . Our children wake up very late and sleep late at night. How can we change them

[@GitasKitchen]

You have to set a routine by example. If possible enrol them for some tennis or other outdoor games classes in the mornings on holidays or weekends .

[@Positivequotes2724]

Very useful suggestions Amma... thank u somuch....

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you Swetha

[@gomathihariharan9464]

Amma, can you please share a video for new first time parents on how to start with the children growth right from 3 months to 4 -5 years

[@GitasKitchen]

Noted

[@gomathihariharan9464]

@@GitasKitchen thank you amma

[@jananikowshik5105]

Very useful mam. I request you to discuss the topic about, anger management with kids. Thank you.

[@GitasKitchen]

ok Janani. thanks

[@subashsen4785]

Very useful video I like it very much

[@GitasKitchen]

Glad you like it

[@jignatrivedi688]

Very Nice .... Thanks Mam

[@GitasKitchen]

You"re welcome Jigna

[@ashwinibr9848]

Dear Geeta aunty very good points.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks Ashwini

[@krishnapravin2983]

Thank you ma’am for sharing such valuable information Could you please post some videos for working women As we find difficulty in managing home and work along with children 🙏🙏

[@GitasKitchen]

Sure I will pls see my breakfast and lunch combos on my channel playlist

[@krishnapravin2983]

Gita's Kitchen sure ma’am thank you 🙏

[@jayasree9786]

Awesome aunty. 👏👏👏

[@thyallapalliashwini5769]

Very nice of you geetha unty may be my parents taught me but not tis much perfect now I going to get engaged in next month wht u have taugt me it vill be useful in my future to my kids I vill learn all these and I vill teach thm tq so unty these days I am very besy in surgeries me working as nurse in Gandhihospital I.e government hpt as temporaryemployee .

[@GitasKitchen]

Congratulations Ashwini. Which city are you working in?

[@thyallapalliashwini5769]

Aunty secrabad (hyderabad) staying near ramoji film city. Daily up and down

[@Shiningstar_2727]

Useful info... Thanks

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you

[@busyTalkingmom]

Superb always Amma

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks Mamta

[@jyothisubramanya4828]

Thanks a lot for this wonderful video Amma. How are you? How's your health? All these manners are simple ones yet annoys when not followed. You have covered all most every point. Loved the video. Take care amma.. 🙂

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks a lot for your concern Jyothi. I'm fine.You take care too

[@sadhana130864]

Beautifully explained ma’am

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you

[@gayatri707]

Love your videos Mam 😀

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks gayatri

[@reenaj201]

Thank you for this beautiful video ma'am! Though we are aware of these things, your video is like a guide to refer and follow!! Thanks a lot, keep doing such videos👍

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks Reena

[@advocatejeevadevakottai1201]

wonderful....

[@shailabhat7405]

Thanks for this video..I m literally struggling to teach good manners for my daughter..

[@GitasKitchen]

Not a problem.. she will soon learn

[@shamilit1612]

Aunty super........ Really useful aunty...

[@GitasKitchen]

thanks Shamili

[@sunandasingh3446]

Very well explained mam.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks

[@sukruthasl977]

Thank u mam, that is very useful

[@GitasKitchen]

Glad to be of help Sukrutha

[@mithunmridun5669]

vanakkam amma.... very useful video....

[@GitasKitchen]

Vanakkam Kalaivani Thanks a lot

[@ashakumar6626]

Mam how can I contact with you

[@sreeraaga9854]

Very nice ma'am thank you

[@GitasKitchen]

You"re welcome Sreedevi

[@nandinichavan9355]

Useful information thanks mam

[@GitasKitchen]

welcome Nandini

[@jyothikaruti3827]

Thank you madam

[@tindway8906]

not forgetting young kids not to open the door to strangers.

[@GitasKitchen]

You"re right

[@arthiram1189]

Maami super guidance for new parents like me 👍👍👍

[@GitasKitchen]

glad to be of help Arthi

[@arthiram1189]

Gita's Kitchen 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😍🙏

[@SharmiSamayal]

superb mam

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you Sharmi

[@yaminivijay4224]

Superb madam

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks a lot Yamini

[@aparnas5823]

very very important vdo i think you covered all points , explained in easy simple way, ,,,,, plz make vdo on children in age gr 14-20 or 17 -22 as now a days their are ,small family having only one child (only 3 members at home) and both the parents are working ,,,,,at this age children have their board exams and and the imp years of their academics

[@GitasKitchen]

Glad you liked it Aparna.Yes that age group is important too. ..

[@shirishasiri330]

I have 15 months old baby boy, he is slapping and biting me and my husband, i told him so many times very pleasantly this is not good if u do like this no one will play with u but recently he bites one of my neighbors daughter and that onwards that baby is not coming to play with my son, from that onwards i am shouting and slapping my son if he slap or byte me, i don't know whether it is correct or not, but really i dont know how to tell my child

[@GitasKitchen]

Shirisha, please don't slap your child. The reason for his behaviour is because he is afraid about something. The best way is to give him more love and affection. Reassure him that mamma or papa is always next to him. Keep physical contact with him.Children at this age like to explore a lot. They bite toys, slippers., handbags, whatever they can get their hands on. Dont leave him with a caretaker, as he might be missing you and start this behaviour. Also remember children learn by imitation, and if you do the same thing, he will continue the same.

[@shirishasiri330]

I am an employee, we won't leave our child with care taker, whenever my parents are there they will see him, and if they went their village my husband will take care about (as he is a dentist when the patients will come he took our son to hospital with him), after I came from office i will take care about my son.

[@snehachandran1988]

Aunty. Upload your family too

[@ashakumar6626]

Mam are you tamil, can I speak with you in phone

[@GitasKitchen]

Yes

[@mallelasoubhagya3500]

Amma

[@rameshbabugorla3452]

wow

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you

[@poojitha3094]

1st comment

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks

[@shirishasiri330]

Hi madam

[@GitasKitchen]

Hi Shirisha

[@advocatejeevadevakottai1201]

wonderful....

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks