Happy Married Life 💕Part 1 !!!

[@rubinamomin2325]

Beautiful video of what marriage is actually and explained so well. I hope every parent could explain it to their children with meaning as you did.

[@SheetalVadali]

Namaste Anti..I am a telugu student studying medicine in U.S. I grew up in a traditional Hindu home in a joint family, in Visakhapatnam before I came to U.S. Even i am a vegetarian. I cook 2wice a day, sometimes without onion and garlic, here in my college dorm. I love all your videos. You have the grace, confidence and inner kaanthi (radiance) of that of my grandmother. I request you to make more videos on Hindu rituals, their meaning and significance. I say please make a series on it so that we youngsters can understand and follow them. I will forward it to my ignorant, modern friends also. Thanks a lot for all your sincere effort. You have inspired me just by being yourself. Thank you. Namaskar!

[@remyanambiar4533]

I don't usually comment on any video and I would say this is my first. It was very very informative and I will definitely recommend this to my 16 year old son. Thank you for spreading your very valuable knowledge to all of us 🙏.

[@GitasKitchen]

Awesome! Thank you!

[@chrisralte]

Thank you for the beautiful explanation of a Hindu marriage! As a Christian, I used to wonder the rounds around the sacred fire. I wish you & your husband all the happiness and fulfilment of life. Love from North East :)

[@gracerajah8972]

Well explained ! Thank you. I can see friendship and love in your own marriage with Uncle. Much Love, Prayer and Thought from grace.

[@GitasKitchen]

Yes, thank you

[@madhuridivekar9851]

I wish that all the bramhanas performing the marriage rites have the same insite and patience like you to explain the concept of marriage so beautifully to couples getting married.

[@vs3975]

Couples dont wanna listen they feel bored.

[@chitrathakur889]

Time constraints. However, if we ask, they tell. Or some people make them say saptpadee or other mantra in mother young. But in the scenario of marriage ceremonies today, it's better to learn it beforehand.. Finally it's our mind!

[@shivagangahosamath7882]

I am married since 13 years.i am a ayurvedic doctor. my husband and me both are really friends.ours is arranged marriage.it was arranged by our elders.

[@AS-xj9yw]

That’s very interesting. May God continue to bless and protect your union,

[@phanipriya7195]

Lucky you

[@nirmalakumar3546]

Thank u for this. Each and every newly wed should listen to this

[@GitasKitchen]

Please do

[@lakshmisworld9513]

@@GitasKitchen gita mam please do a video on tamil brahmin seemantham procedures and also about Pooja's and motivation to perform those who are not blessed with a child ....

[@vijayalakshmisanaka928]

Geetha mam ur opinion for successful marriage are 100percent correct. Confidence and commitment is a must for successful marriage.

[@IngeeEng]

Indeed marriage is not only a physical union , it is also an union of two minds..A marriage never works without adjustments and accepting the other with all his or her good and bad points...You have explained the true definition of marriage in your own beautiful style.. Wonderful..

[@AL-wg6kv]

आप श्रेष्ठ महिला हैं , आपके ज्ञान और विचार को नमन🙏 सनातनी समाज ज्ञानहीन हो कर चमक दमक में डूबा है, विशेष कर उत्तर भारत में।

[@sandeepy3328]

Very well explained ma'am and in very simple words. Thankyou very much

[@bhanupadhmajamaddula9761]

Superb and clear explanation madam. U r a very knowledgeable person. Loved ur explanation of saptapadi. For me its an eye opener.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you so much 🙂

[@jayashreek2048]

Immense knowledge in all aspects.Good co ordination between thoughts and speech. You have told in a video that you have lost yr mother at the age of 14 Your mother would be much more happy to see you in having indepth knowledge in modern thoughts and puranas as well. Everything is beautiful Gita Ma'am

[@amrithabaliga9643]

Hello ma'am, Can you make an introduction video about yourself, we would like to know more about you..

[@manikambike1298]

गीताजी मैं आपके vdos बहुत दिनोंसे देख रही हूँ ।आप बहुत ही अच्छी तरहसे समझाती हो ।आपकी बात करनेंका तरीका बहुत अच्छा है ।आप जो भी बात करते हो वो सच्ची लगनसे होती हैं । आप बहुत, "डिगनिफाइड " हो ।और आपकी साड़ियां भी बहोत ही सुन्दर होती हैं ।

[@sagareeka4946]

You hv just made the exact video that i always wanted to see/have been counseling ppl about. Well done! Thanks for sharing the age old wisdom with today's generation. Hope this brings insight to the new crop. I hv even shared it on my fb wall@ Sagareeka Verma

[@GitasKitchen]

I'm so glad!

[@sumathi58]

Very nicely n simply explained to understand by young generation 👋👋🌹

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you so much 🙂

[@bindunair5460]

Gita ma you are a gem whichever subject to decide to explain. You have put in simple language. Rituals have to be understood and read to know the relationship of two beings. I am a Malyali and married to a Maharashtrian. 25yrs have gone by in our marriage.

[@babysmommy]

This is so valuable.People like me miss out on learning all this at home from elders. I feel you would be able to offer valuable advice on budgeting and saving as well. If you would, please consider doing a video about this. Its amazing how Indian women used to know how to manage expenses, save and spend and make it work even with a limited income. Every festival we would feel rich because the ladies of the house had planned expenses in advance. . But now with huge income also we are unable to save, invest, spend wisely.

[@GitasKitchen]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z2XdaKFmhcaIsLs pls watch this

[@amitaprabhakar2152]

Gita ji you are exceptional and that people seek your advice and treat you like a family member, or a wise consul goes to show you are a person of such high integrity and your character comes through even through your cooking videos.Which mind you is rare.That you are so learned and erudite is self evident and hence your words have value and depth.I am single person with no need to see a video on marriage, I am nearly 58 and about to retire from my teaching job ,yet I was intrigued enough to watch.And you did not disappoint. Will wait for part 2 and recommend it to younger people I know who are married and benefit. Thanks for being so versatile. 🙏🙏

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you for your kind words Amita, I'm not an expert , only sharing whatever Life has taught me. Thanks once again

[@apsingh1792]

Dear Gita this topic is absolutely amazing very well explained you have made a lot of people think about marriage once again thank you so much for your knowledge kind words and helping the nation get through this difficult time especially talking about marriage this is a big shot up from London once again thank you God bless 😇🌺🙏🌻👍🥰❤

[@geethav1693]

I have noticed that your husband is your complete strength,including making videos😊😊

[@GitasKitchen]

Yes 😊

[@vijaya8068]

I really like the way you explain anything. Your organised and clarity of thought makes it really easy for a listener. Just one point that I want to add is that in the current generation we will also have to consider the bride and groom's responsibility of taking care of both sets of parents equally. It after all a companionship of two people and sharing responsibilities towards both families is a minimum ask in today's life. Request you to also consider this aspect. My heartfelt gratitude for all your sessions. Thank you and Namaskarams to you.

[@manoharamexpert9513]

Namaste mam and Sir, Mam, onnu solatuma? Ever since I have started watching your videos, (say 1yearaa), whenever some misunderstanding erupts between us(enakum, ivarukum), immediately I watch your video and try to emulate your softness, respect for uncle and you have really blessed me mam on such occasions . Neenga 2 paerum, enna solradhu, very dignified, very fine couples, respecting and comple(i)menting each other. I have sooooooo much of respect for you both as a couple. I look up to both of you as my mentor, soul mates. Romba sandhosham enaku ungalalam therinjadhu, my puniyam. Pranaams.

[@GitasKitchen]

I think thats how we all learn .. emulating elders and those around us.. I have learnt many things by observing those around me adu ennana chinna vayasula neraya vishaya puriearadu illa or rather take for granted in retrospect it seems quite silly too at times to have felt upset about small issues !

[@anonymousnowhere]

Aunty thanks so much for explaining. I had no idea about the significance of the 7 pheras. I shall always keep it in mind especially when I’m angry or upset with my hubby 😁😆😉. He truly is my best friend.

[@GitasKitchen]

Glad it was helpful!

[@akanshadwivedi7257]

I saw your video and thought its an old video as you were looking very young... But then saw today you applied little makeup as you dont have to cook in the video . Your look and beauty tells that you have lived a healthy traditional life...and video is so informative and beautiful too... Thank you

[@sarojavenkataraman4422]

Very nice Gita Mam you explained the meaning of marriage

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you so much 🙂

[@SriHarshaChilakapati]

Today's recipe is great. The recipe for a successful marriage.

[@GitasKitchen]

Yes, you are right

[@bhavanapatelabsolutelytrue2625]

Very very NICE 👌 👍 explanation....thanks,💅 Namaste, Pranam 💅.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks for liking

[@Nemodog]

This is so beautiful and interesting! I love to listen to you teach. Thank you for your insights!

[@GitasKitchen]

I'm so glad!

[@ramakrishnans5557]

U hv spoken v.nicely....well said ....admire u a lot....u r highly talented simple n high thinking.....god bless u both in each n every step of yr life

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you so much 😀

[@rpaafourever7908]

I got divorced some years ago when young, and thankfully was able to start over again. I'm happily remarried now with a family of my own. It happened because I realized that while everyone should know these things including me, no one really follows it in the true spirit. I felt awkward going to functions or temples, because of religious dogma. Then I realized it's not God who judges but the person in me who judges others to be judgmental. Then I was able to make peace with it. Appreciate your efforts :)

[@mayakhonde9615]

Hello Ma'am,Well explained.I like your videos.keep it going.😊

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks a lot 😊

[@leemajohn5629]

Ma'am I accidentally came upon your video but now I'm your great fan love you ❤️

[@sonalirnahar_rohan]

Wonderfully explained mam !!! Absolutely wonderful!

[@GitasKitchen]

Keep watching

[@varshadixit5330]

Very nice and useful too.

[@GitasKitchen]

Glad you think so!

[@divyankar9678]

Thanks Amma for posting such a beautiful vdo. Very well explained the importance of marriage. God bless you amma. 😇🤗🙏

[@GitasKitchen]

So nice of you

[@sailajar9609]

Fantastic Gitamma. So well u hv explained about each line of Saptapadi. Very useful for younger generation. I m following ur videos since 4 days. Now I hv started seeing from the first epispde. Worth watching & love them all.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks a lot

[@subramanianramachandran3929]

Superb! What an inspiration you will be ,to the present day youngsters!(As a 72 year old grand mother, i would love my daughter,DIL, and grand children to listen to u)....God bless you!Bless your mother for having brought you up so calm and sweetly...Lalitha Subramanian

[@yogeetaramchandani6379]

I think one should make their sons and sons in law to listen as well. Its such a shame that in our Indian society all the hard work in marriage and listening is left to the female counterparts.

[@millenialmotherindia]

@@yogeetaramchandani6379 absolutely agree..it is the need of the hour that boys and men also understand this knowledge..

[@GitasKitchen]

Wow, thank you!

[@sumathibalaji9166]

Namaste Mam. You have beautifully explained the intricacies of marriage through Saptapati

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks for liking

[@vijayalaxmi4168]

கீதா,. நீங்கள் சொல்வது எல்லாம் சரிதான். ஆனால், யார் இதை பின்பற்றுகிறார்கள்? I got married in 1986. Almost, 35 years yet to complete. Till now, I am struggling. Not everyone gets good married life Gita. I think, you are my elder sister. That's why, I am telling you like this.

[@GitasKitchen]

I understand dear.. life is not always smooth but one has to find happiness within which is not dependent on another person

[@monumeeshka3577]

Yeah, rendu kai serndhu thattina dhan oosai varum, sagikka mudiyadha konjam kooda attachment illadha oru purushan amanija oru pennukku vazhkai kadaisi varai naragam dhan. Nan parthirukkiren. Neenga solradhu thappu nu nan sollala mami. Ana ellarukkume vidhi nandraga amavadhillai. Apdi yaravadhu sila per happy ah irundha pengal kulam sarba avargalukku vazhthukkal,

[@ranbirdodd268]

Thank you Gita ji for very costructive parvachan the fogotten values of our sanatan dharma.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks for liking

[@10rinzler]

Beautiful Aunty! such wonderful words of wisdom!

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you so much

[@varshabhonsle312]

U r full of wisdom not only in cooking but also in other topics also. From where did u acquire all these things. I salute u

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks a lot Varshaji just sharing what life has taught me

[@rajanisingh1774]

Excellent...ma'am.....u explained seven steps of bond......very nicely.... uncle aunty ❤️ made for each other ❤️....💐🙏

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks for liking

[@sneharaghuraman629]

Ma'am you are looking very pretty in this saree, thank you for the fabulous video... People have lost tolerance and understanding today which is the root cause of all destruction. Thank you once again🙏

[@GitasKitchen]

My pleasure 😊

[@saracasaraca7104]

I'm so glad I chanced upon your channel when looking for a milagai podia recipe. You are one elegant, knowledgeable lady. Thank you for sharing this invaluable information. Take care & stay safe.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you so much 🙂

[@asharoshini4666]

Dear Aunty, am awestruck with this entire video; in today's time parents or grandparents guide us to this extent but madam you have taken time & atmost sincerity expressed your faith in marriage to reach out to a larger society. This guidance and understanding is atmost necessary in every individual. I truly wish both your videos & the cooking videos as well, reaches to everyone. Simplicity, honesty, commitment,trust prevails in your videos💖. I experience reflection of my family in you. 😍 thank you madam🙏🏻💐😍

[@ambikakumari530]

Yes indeed pearls of wisdom n not mere meaningless stories as u said mam.Due to ego clashes most of the families suffer a lot n their innocent children become the victims.When they grow up their past events haunt them n they are prone to do wrong deeds in future.So parents should always be real model to their children.

[@bharatmittal9937]

Very true illumination of our age old pious tradition and values....great effort from your side. Thanks a lot...Pranaam.

[@GitasKitchen]

My pleasure

[@jayshreekh5728]

Super mam . Only plbm in our rituals is that all mantras r in Sanskrit or poem form which we can’t understand. I feel it’s a big drawback , if they were as u speak couples will understand better n live life accordingly . Gud topic.

[@srinivasannarayanan1113]

Namaste mam.Thanks for posting this video as it is the need of hour of the present generation couples .You have beautifully explained the meaning of sapthapadhi of the hindu marriage.I would like to dedicate the song of naan pesa ninaipadhellam...from the old movie "paalum pazhamum" to the lovely blessed and real couple .Eagerly waiting for the part-2 series of the great video.

[@srinivasannarayanan1113]

The song is specially for you both mam.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks a lot. ..Uncle loves to listen to old songs!

[@manaspant6083]

Thankyou amma for those kind words. They truly were illuminating.

[@savyashree4217]

Mind blowing mam 💕as I am unmarried , this video will be useful once I am married 🥰 Kindly bless me 🙏🏻

[@GitasKitchen]

All the best .. may bless you with happiness always dear

[@anitaganeriwala6740]

Fantastic explanation Gita ji. I as a mother and mother in law , can very well understand the importance of this. This is my observation that theses days divorce rate is increasing because young generation doesn't take marriage as a serioys commitment.

[@simonparmar1581]

Excellent .. hw well u explained all the promises of marriage 👍thanks Gita ma’am

[@GitasKitchen]

So nice of you

[@srividyachiniwar2244]

Amma if possible please post ur wedding photos. Very keen to see. 🙏

[@romasworld1748]

How priviledged we are aunty to have you in our lives. Our relation with you has grown into something more than a mere subscriber which i think all will agree. You have become a part of our everyday lives. This is such a beautiful video that youngsters can learn from. Thank you so much. We will be more than happy if you could regularly share stories of hindu wisdom, vedic stories and mythological stories. Take care aunty.

[@superoldways]

A gem of a video. these are very important points to understand for those about to marry, and for those already enjoying married life. Young people vitally need training in these matters, and to understand the undertaking. Aunty, you are doing a great service by these videos, sharing your knowledge and wisdom. thank you.

[@GitasKitchen]

Glad it was helpful!

[@meghaarora1051]

Much needed video🥰 you are so sweet aunty and beautiful!!! God bless you.. keep guiding us. Also, guide us important rituals to be followed, good habits, Mantra to chant etc 😊

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you, I will

[@anjanabochiwal9241]

Very good topic🙏 PLZZ more on this kind of video

[@shravya8772]

Very touching

[@brindaj1176]

Hi gita ji, Really it is very very nice I showed to my son to listen your video Thank you so much gita ji

[@GitasKitchen]

So nice

[@vrindhavrao1359]

Namaste akka....In Simple words you had explained the 7 wows....yes i too did....but ..it was limitedto ..just as the rituals of marriage.... And i like to share a character abt my personal marriage . Unlike others the first few years were not romantic or smooth as seen in others life....we had to keep toourselves of course even though it didn't go out of way....but its now after 18 to 19 years of living together we are enjoying our marriage.....but God's grace ....we are happy with each other inspite of all the small rows n failures..... Thank you so much for this worthy talk....

[@GitasKitchen]

So nice to know that you are happy now, pls see part 2 .. you can relate ..

[@gayatribalaji6879]

Great Gita Ji..... very true

[@shirleygeorge6351]

As always glowing when you passionately talk on some topics dear Gita.

[@GitasKitchen]

So nice

[@nathanrp2513]

You are super cook. But also a fantastic person !!!

[@premilapereira3636]

Really nice to know the Hindu way) meaning of marriage

[@madhuchandrikakareer7423]

Beautiful understanding and also explanation of hindu marriage

[@chitrathakur889]

You are nourishing person, to body and soul. Thanks Geeta di

[@GitasKitchen]

My pleasure 😊

[@shubhakapoor5542]

Gitaji heard your talk just now.Simply wonderful.You have explained so beautifully the initial base of marriage ,encompassing all aspects such as the responsibilities and joys that go with it .The episode of the Mahabharata has been very appropriately connected ,which explains the true relationship of a wife.Thanks a lot.Looking fwd.to part 2 of this talk.

[@GitasKitchen]

My pleasure 😊

[@drsuniti1122]

Lovely

[@jocyleenfernandes578]

Good Evening Mrs.Geeta Your videos r very informative. Understanding plays a important roll for successful married life. Every line u beautifully explained. Youngsters who r going to get married must watch your video.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks a lot

[@valsalanair3357]

Thankyou man.This was a wonderful video and I respect you so much.I am lucky to have a husband in all ways as you said.May God bless you both.

[@GitasKitchen]

So nice of you

[@gunnasuchita8400]

Above all,every husband and wife needs lots of patience to lead a happy family life ,with no ego,s.

[@rajkumaris9574]

Indeed great message for new couples. Waiting to c the next part, what it has in store. Pranaam maa

[@padmagovindaswamy9058]

Tku Gita madam. You are the right person to explain this.

[@krishnamurthysangeetha1972]

Namaste aunty very nice speech given by you very useful for our generation

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks a lot

[@SHRUTHI4U]

You have such a nice way of communicating such complex things. During my wedding pandit annoyed me by telling women should wear toe ring so that she doesn’t step out of house without husband’s consent. Nose ring and bangles so that she feels always bound to marriage so on and so forth... now I have gained new perspective on Hindu marriage all thanks to you. Love u

[@premakumar6822]

So beautifully explained mami.

[@GitasKitchen]

Glad you liked it

[@vankat4271]

Even to save our culture share your wisdom through these great epics amma pls

[@aartisarma92]

Beautifully explained..😍 thank you so much...

[@GitasKitchen]

My pleasure 😊

[@nirupamamunshi8703]

I have no words to express my gratitude. You have put things so beautifully. Can you talk about the importance of matching horoscopes in our Hindu/vedic vedic as astrology plays an important part in our lives?

[@omnamahshivaaay]

Good question. Hope she responds😊😊

[@GitasKitchen]

Noted

[@rahuljoshi3965]

Good Pravachana. You can become a spiritual guru.

[@vinodsudan3506]

I have been following your channel since last three months while locked at home and really enjoyed every bit of it but this is my most favourite one.very meticulously explained,as far as south indian food is concerned, I just love it though I am from Jammu.Regards.

[@GitasKitchen]

Awesome! Thank you!

[@amirbhika2927]

The best advice and guidance around the explanation of our ceremony. The true essence is simple yet profound. Thank you and God bless you Amma. Withe love from Urvashi

[@GitasKitchen]

Our pleasure!

[@vb566]

Very well intricately explained. Thank Ma'am. Eagerly waiting for your next blog Ma'am.

[@GitasKitchen]

So nice of you

[@smilewithpoonam9275]

Very lovely video....although most of us know all these things but it is very nice to refresh all these things...thanks

[@GitasKitchen]

My pleasure 😊 Hope you are fine Poonamji

[@MrSrikanthraja]

14 June 2006 i got married. Yesterday 14 june 2016 my wife made thiratipal using Jaggery. It was great. Iam 45 years old. Luckily i have very good parents, wife, sister& her family, good in-laws.

[@GitasKitchen]

Wish you both many more years of happiness together !!

[@nayanachati896]

Gitaji......you are amazing 😘👍🙏 I feel Gitaji, you can be a very good life coach , per-wedding councillor . This video of yours is too good 👍👍🙏

[@GitasKitchen]

My pleasure 😊

[@padmajap8418]

Wow such a great video treasure🙏🏼

[@GitasKitchen]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@subhak8894]

Hi, mami.. Thanks for sharing this great valuable information..🤗🙏🙏🤗 I hope it will be useful for me in future...👍👍💕😉🤗🤗😉💕👍👍

[@GitasKitchen]

Sure 😊

[@subhak8894]

@@GitasKitchen 👍🤗🙏🙏🤗👍

[@aahanadavesharma3610]

Pranam Amma !! beutiful video as usual!! I always learn something new from you !!! Thanks you so much for sharing your valued knowledge with the people !! Stay Blessed and helthy Amma !

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks a lot

[@Ramya519]

I love these kind of videos madam. You used to do lot of these in earlier days of this channel. Not as many now. I kind of stopped seeing recipe videos but quickly clicked on this video.

[@GitasKitchen]

Glad you like them!

[@Ramya519]

@@GitasKitchen Thank you so much for responding. I know you already did a video on raising kids right, can you please share more on that topic. We as parents hold kids to higher standards than we were able to achieve at that age and I am one of them.I get angry and lash out at my son only to feel sorry and guilty afterwards. Please do a video on this. Also a video on single child pros and cons . What are your ideas/opinions on this ? I save all your life lessons to a playlist and listen to them now and then. Appreciate sharing your knowledge very much. You are very well spoken, compassionate human. I wish I knew you personally :)

[@rupaliambre4552]

As always a wonderful and a informative video mam. It always gives me a soothing experience listening to you. Thank you.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks a lot

[@AS-xj9yw]

🙏, Namaste. You are a blessing. I genuinely appreciate your willingness to share your truths, from your heart . I listen to what you have to say, and take it to heart . I also practice cooking nearly all your recipes. May God continue to bless you and your husband with many more years together. Have a great day!

[@GitasKitchen]

Wow, thank you

[@ramlallbhoobun4195]

25 yrs of married life and that's one of the best thing happened to me, thanks for this video, the young couples should watch this

[@preethikeloth3504]

Thanks mam for such a good explanation, which is required in todays world

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks and welcome

[@pranitavidwans7548]

Very well explained as usual🙏💐😊

[@GitasKitchen]

So nice of you

[@vimimaliakel3112]

This is Sooo very beautiful and even so how beautifully and in simplicity you've explained it!

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you! Cheers!

[@aishwaryalashmi9454]

Thank you so much for a lovely video on marriage.. the explanation in the end on marriage as relishing freindship is awesome.. never knew the meaning of seven steps before. Mikka Nandri Amma. 🥰

[@GitasKitchen]

Our pleasure!