Giving Bae a Key - Part 1

When do you think is the right time in a relationship to give your significant other a key to your place?

[@quitecontrary23]

Now I get it. Lenny didn't treat Adrienne like the love of his life. Good job to her for not settling.

[@tianamiller6820]

quitecontrary23 exactly she was with him for 6 years so it took alot of courage and strength to leave. Most ppl in a relationship that long wouldnt hesitate to stay and 'make it work' but im glad she went with her heart. Its never too late to leave a bad relationship!

[@rogers5622]

She settled for a LONG time (6 plus years)

[@intrinsicallyme8404]

quitecontrary23 it was rob

[@illy1581]

Intrinsically Me it was Lenny you idiot, not Rob

[@tychris9719]

@@intrinsicallyme8404 she lived with Rob so obviously not him

[@pearlsglimmers]

I love that Adrienne is opening up about her former relationship. Clearly a lot of things happened I’m glad she found love... true love

[@daniellelatouche9534]

SOglam101 THIS!!!!

[@tianamiller6820]

Its also helpful because those of us who have less experience with relationships can learn and look out for those red flags!

[@summerlyric506]

I appreciate her input too.

[@dontwatchthat1448]

Adrienne deserved better and she got it 💁

[@nyahlascelles9250]

Dick Taste Like Lamp army

[@TENDAI_MAKERI]

amen

[@javiruiz4405]

I agree a man that cheated on her wife and has children with different women all over the place! She did choose a better man.

[@santriciajones2579]

Javi Ruiz Go on now with that shade.

[@rolandajean7032]

Don’t Watch That either you loose your danm mind Adrienne pay you to say that lie because she did not get the best.

[@dovanevada]

I feel sorry for Adrienne, i thought she was gonna cry. U can still see the hurt in her eyes.

[@omphilemoerane2569]

Its no wonder she broke off the engagement. At least Israel seems to be crazy about her

[@crazyanimeloveable]

dovanevada I know right her eyes seemed a bit watered glad she's at a better place

[@neverever8264]

I do think Adrienne wanted to cry also, I really could see how hurt she was. And she is right. She shouldn't have to ask for things in the relationship and the man shouldn't make her feel like she had to ask for things. I felt bad for her. Lenny clearly didn't treat her right.

[@javiruiz4405]

It seems that she has very low self steam and that's why she dates and marries bad men. That sucks

[@youngbluntandmizguided]

Javi Ruiz thats kinda messed up, everyone has insecurities and ppl who love themselves to the upmost can still pick the wrong partner

[@daylonwright3635]

I loved Adrienne in this scene and how she shows that she learned from that experience. Sometimes you have to go through things like that to get to what God has waiting for you.

[@britbritnicole]

Daylon Wright preach!!!!

[@javiruiz4405]

She still married a serial cheater so she still has so much to learn

[@britbritnicole]

Javi Ruiz a serial cheater? Wow I didn’t know hi past mattered 🤔

[@javiruiz4405]

BritBrit Nicole it really does! Would you date or marry a serial killer? Would you marry a man that has cheated on his wife multiple times and has children with different baby mamas yet he is so religious! Nope

[@britbritnicole]

Javi Ruiz what someone did in their previous marriage has nothing to do with me. If you did that would you want someone to not marry you? Probably not!

[@AmmaMama]

Adrienne looks and sounds like she’s about to cry. I think Lenny really hurt her but at the time, she was tryna front for the world. Glad she ain’t settle. It’s never to late to get the hell out.

[@javiruiz4405]

Amma Appiah I agree she settled for the cheater

[@skylrdiva]

Shes 😋🙂

[@skylrdiva]

She's dating Israel now she settle

[@maplelu9514]

Javi Ruiz no she didn’t 🙄

[@person8520]

@@shakurioguhebe8533 true but that’s a huge red flag and clearly ade knows bc she always says is real has 3 kids that’s won’t him the marked age but he has like 6 other kids outside of it to hide the fact that he cheated so clearly she knows it too lol

[@lilmakori]

I think Adrienne is right. He didn't think it was a big deal but you did and that's why he never gave you a key. People will treat you exactly how you allow them to treat you.

[@Mh-xe1zh]

lilian makori yup!!!

[@lesliemiranda3371]

5

[@DBrokeMillenial]

Wtf its his apartment unless we're gana live together then no key

[@mollyshaj.3888]

@@DBrokeMillenial she was living there, that's the point

[@TheMadea85]

I understand Adrienne completely!! Not the part about keys but just the thing about feeling like you had to push every step.

[@Mrsqueen876]

TheMadea85 I didnt get it. What did she mean by push every step? Like telling him his role in the relationship & how to grow together?

[@summerlyric506]

beautedereine Right probably had to push a relationship, push engagement, push building together etc.

[@TheMadea85]

beautedereine She meant that she felt like she had to initiate every important step in the relationship by asking/bringing the issue at hand up. Like instead of him just offering/giving her the key she had to ask, when it was well overdue. If he truly cared that should’ve been a natural thing for him to do in their situation.

[@YPM498]

I knew the Lenny tea would one day be spilled. She didn’t talk about why she broke off the engagement but now little by little she gives clues why it didn’t work.

[@Sumi2379]

ypm 123 and I respect her even more for breaking up with him. Because clearly he wasn’t right for her

[@DBrokeMillenial]

Lenny dodged a bullet

[@karlanava1492]

I totally understand Adrienne

[@rolandajean7032]

karla nava good for you

[@jjtt850]

Lol oh Lenny you sneaky sneak

[@amiraandco]

reading some of yall's comments got my head hurting she was with him for 4 years wtf they was tryna build she said she basically lived with him cause she let go of her place and she cant get a key cause he needs "space" lony bye A i totally agree

[@patriciabrkic3518]

Melanin Poppin Loni realized after that they were living together.. she thought A was just dropping by

[@amiraandco]

lmao i know i just watched part 2

[@arabian8873]

No, do not spin this around. He never gave her a key because he didn't know. You can't expect a man to read your thoughts. But I do believe that it's a man's fault for not offering in the first time. It shows that he doesn't think of her needs as much as she does.

[@Dior3llaxoxo]

Babyyyyyyy Loni's response had me deadddddd 🤣 cause she's lowkey right. He should have given you the key the moment you gave him yours. You shouldn't be worried bout no key four years into the relationship, you should be looking to get a ring and a place for the both of you to own. But hindsight is 20/20. Lenny just wasn't the one. I also agree with the part about feeling weird about asking your partner for certain things. Or feeling embarrassed to do certain things. That's how you know they're not the one. I dated a guy like that. I would feel weird about calling him. Or asking him to do anything. Lorddd I'm so glad those days are over. You should feel 100 % comfortable with your partner.

[@deannadaniels2682]

SaraWithoutTheH ... EVERYTHING you said 🙌🏾

[@tasheenrobinson6602]

Wow!

[@sweetytweety0011]

Sometimes it’s about enjoying your own space. I never had space growing up so I know once I live on my own, I’m going to be like that. I think I want a relationship where I have my own place, in fact.

[@quitecontrary23]

Chloe Don't live with a boyfriend. It makes breaking up more complicated than it needs to be. Wait until you're married before moving in together.

[@veronicaivanova]

quitecontrary23, that's the worst advice I have ever heard/read. You miss the point that people are completely different when you actually live with them. I would always recommend firstly move in together and see how it is before getting married.

[@bennysmiley]

I'm with you, people don't get it when you grow up with no space.

[@sweetytweety0011]

quitecontrary23 sorry if I wasn’t clear. I meant I don’t ever want to live in the same residence as a significant other.

[@goodtimes5097]

Veronica Ivanova well if marriage is a goal for you, couples that co-habitate before getting married are more likely to get divorced.

[@Sassybesos]

Do Loni be listening? She sitting right there& still don't hear the girl lol. Based off of the stories I've heard her tell thus far Adrienne wanted to be the "cool chick", "my girl be cooling," the "Down azz chick" type. I feel like he took advantage of that in her.

[@patriciabrkic3518]

Sassy Besos well she turned out a door mat and a naive girlfriend lol

[@missjackson3953]

Loni is rude and not funny

[@UrbanDecayLova247]

That’s exactly what Adrienne was doing..it sounded like a one sided relationship tbh...I remember Adrienne saying she wanted to take pics and stuff on social media but Lenny didn’t so she didn’t. She definitely was trying to act like the “cool girl” described in Gone Girl during that whole relationship.

[@j.graham8201]

Tanya B Yeah, it took 5 years before Adrienne could post pictures of him on Instagram. That's crazy.

[@laurencameron3150]

Maybe shes asking those questions for the sake of the people in the audience given they cant ask for themselves

[@DaniielaVergara]

I feel like A is talking about Lenny ...she said that she left NY to come to LA

[@ilonasautron546]

Daniela G she is, is definitely him. The years and stuff match up. I feel like the more time goes the more she opens up about the "bad" she experienced in this relationship with Lenny

[@DaniielaVergara]

yeah omg that's soo true!!

[@theelolicious9302]

Ilona SAUTRON i noticed that too and if i’m being honest i don’t think that’s fair towards him at all :/

[@daisymkhabela2703]

how is it not fair? is it because you think its bad for his rep or because hes not around to defend himself?

[@omphilemoerane2569]

Its definitely Lenny cause he is the dude in NY she was dating while working on The Real in LA. Damn he did her dirty though. No planned and well thought out engagement, he never posted her on social media and now no key? I bet she regrets having been with him for so long now that she is with someone who seems to be crazy in love with her.

[@lexymartin6841]

I totally get where Ade is coming from especially where you feel like you always have to ask, or plan or do everything in the relationship. That is my problem in my current relationship that I've been working on. If you think about it, it's not just a key or it wouldn't be a problem for you to give it up. That kind of thing brings you down emotionally.....idk if anyone has ever felt that way.

[@omphilemoerane2569]

Lexy Martin Girl, get out of that relationship. Who knows, there could be an Israel waiting for you around the corner waiting to propose to you after only a few months of dating and buy you a house (forget a key). Just look at Adrienne. She had the courage to let go of Lenny and now she is blessed with a husband who is crazy about her.

[@nildarivera2403]

Lexy, you do you

[@Mh-xe1zh]

I have

[@tianamiller6820]

Wasnt in a relationship but i was in a similar situation(ship) with a guy and i realised i was the only one making most of the effort, wanting to do things with one another and planning to do stuff and it was exhausting and left me feeling miserable. Looking back deep down i knee what it was and the other person clearly wasnt as invested as i was. I no longer give guys the benefit of the doubt anymore, the way you treat me and us shows how you really feel. This could be a sign to reconsider your relationship and think about what it is you want and deserve. Its 2018 we dont have to settle for anything less than what we are worthy of x

[@neverever8264]

Everyone has. Make the person your ex and move on.,

[@Autiana]

He can get a key to my place when he’s paying for my place

[@MsMdip]

Tea Preach

[@ingridayarza]

Preach

[@nxdiuh]

Speak on it!

[@vwb1152]

Amen sis

[@scrutinizethis]

Tea and vice versa 😂😂

[@annarose8913]

What the Carrie Bradshaw and Mr Big is going on ? 😩 I'm so glad she find a man who knows her worth ! Man the things that women tolerate from men ! 😥

[@jaejae5782]

ANNA ROSE 😂😂😂😂😂

[@raquelchin4744]

ANNA ROSE right!! Lmaooo that’s exactly the kind of relationship it sounds like they had though!

[@annarose8913]

Raquel O'neal Right 😁! Even Mr Big would have given her the key at this point! I mean 4 years of relationship and she was living there !Come on !😲

[@tonia2483]

ANNA ROSE I almost spit my drank lol

[@annarose8913]

Tonia's Reviews 😁😉

[@Dilenga23]

I’m glad Adrienne learned that you get treated how you allow it. She seems like the type to go beyond for the guy.

[@jotamj6752]

Wow! I would of never known Adrienne and Lenny had a “bad” relationship. I know Instagram is not real 100% of the time but now I’m questioning every Hollywood couple

[@erronellan]

You should. All that glitters ain't gold

[@mt3388]

You never know what goes on behind closed doors

[@jotamj6752]

NyleRiver lol you psycho bitch relax. It’s not that serious

[@kirky3051]

Loni’s situation is totally different from what Adrienne was talking about. It’s not someone Adrienne had been dating for a few weeks but 4 years and she said she practically lived with him at the time.

[@dr.dermixgirlmd7479]

I’ve been dating my bae for 6 weeks. He gave me a key 3 weeks in, I never asked for it but I was pleasantly surprised. I agree with Ade, it’s not “just a key”, it’s a proxy for how open a man is to letting you into his life. When it’s right, you won’t have to ask for any of these milestones, he’ll volunteer.

[@babaybluerocks]

I feel like Adrienne's situation is very different because she was actually living there. I agree with Lonnie that it's his space and I have my own so there's no need for me to have a key to his place and for him to have a key to mine. If I give a key to him, it's because I want to give it to him and I would want him to give me a key only because he wants to, not because he feels obligated to. For Adrienne I think he should have given her key just for logistical purposes so that she's not calling you every time she has to go to the house, but in general I feel like a key is not that necessary to me.

[@nimomudalle]

Lenny you lost a real one

[@MajesticMyronn]

When I saw the title I was like : a key to what ? My home ? You ain't moving in with me until we married... forget all that ain't nobody got time for that.... I'm a guy and to me a key is not just a key... it shows security in your relationship & a sense of progression

[@margarethaamoah1087]

Adrienne tolerates so much in a relationship. I dont

[@odileact]

There’s so many women going through that rn Adrienne

[@flutterby8462]

Odile Tejeda you’re so right. And I know I’ll sound old fashioned but I honestly Believe it’s because women in general tend to give their all in a relationship and then the man has no need to officially commit because he’s already getting what he wants out of the relationship. For example if people waited until they were married before they had sex and lived together and had children etc... then men and women would just work at getting to know if the person that they like is someone they want to be committed to and do all those things with. Nowadays it’s all backwards.

[@sisid2289]

Flutterby 84 I disagree. A men who have a bad character, will still acting like that after marriage. More, the women will be stuck A good men, even if you have sex, cook for him and all that’s, will still marry you for yourself Not for because he want “taking” your hymen, not for you to finally cook and having sex. I view marriage as vows to do all those things you were doing before marriage, forever

[@zora99ny]

sisi d men = plural man = singular

[@sisid2289]

NYCzora I am French sorry

[@debrakimberly5279]

Love Adrienne's honesty...that was probably hard to say...

[@alexiswest2307]

4:09 Adrienne: "I was living there" 😂😂😂

[@kerrywhite5253]

Alexis West 😂😂😂😂😂

[@rebuiltgirl3263]

this is my favorite clip of Adrienne Bailon.... it gave such insight to her as a person and growth in understanding her own self worth

[@Allybaba55]

I live Adrienne's growth. I feel like she is finally in a healthy relationship and knows her worth. So happy for her!

[@xoh9384]

I totally feel Adrienne

[@dj_here]

Loni didnt make any sense.

[@veronicaivanova]

I agree with you. She just doesn't want to be involved with anyone or just doesn't want to let anyone really in...

[@regalbarbie]

she never does

[@loveleeeventplanningl.l.c.7539]

Only if you can't relate. I totally agree

[@sashal7812]

If I'm living with you. I need a key to get in and out the place. 🙄 That's just me being practical!

[@Gigilovehugs]

I agree with Loni I I want to be married

[@Palcaraa]

Lenny never took that relationship seriously. She wasted all her time.

[@MADEbySOUL]

For me, wanting to get married is not about getting the ring. It is wanting a person to build a life with you. To share in each other’s journey. Ladies, if you feel like you are one who keeps progressing the relationship then please reconsider it because he should also want to progress it.

[@ddlyify]

I immensely respect Adrienne for her vulnerability on this topic. This ministers to me and a lot of people and their broken parts. Thank you for the message.

[@alanamaria1273]

Adrienne was like "I lived there" like how do you live somewhere and they never give you a key. That's shady

[@CosmetiChiQ]

Tamera is sooo stunning! Just when you think the last outfit was everything! The wardrobe literally gets better and better everyday

[@joannaherodotou1491]

Adrienne seems to have a good soul, very kind-hearted and giving person.

[@nbagirl3055]

This is one of the very FEW times where I actually feel like Adrienne is being honest and not being fake

[@avafreeman336]

Few is correct

[@karelhicks1605]

Literally going through almost the same thing Adrienne had mentioned. Feel like I’m constantly pushing and asking for things to happen when they should just happen.

[@ebonythomas9675]

Ade and the article are talking about two different things. If y’all are living together like Ade was then yes, you should have a key but if y’all aren’t then there is no reason for you to have a key to their place, it’s not like you’re gonna be there without them.

[@marinakeza5141]

💔I can feel the hurt. 🙌I'm glad Adrienne dumped him! I usually don't get the "giving your key thing" but in her case, that relationship wasn't gonna last💁

[@amiyraramrup3625]

This is an American thing “it is just a KEY”

[@RoyallyPrincess]

I'm so sorry Adrienne was hurt by this relationship but her sharing this experience is helping us ladies see these warning signs and not make the same mistake. I'm glad she found someone that treats her right.

[@jeminkim5146]

Jennie is Sooo shady in the last two videos, I am here for it!! The ghost of tamar has taken her body

[@busimatyalana8844]

June Hass 😂😂😂 "the ghost of Tamar"

[@needamichael9119]

Can we just appreciate how Loni love is shining, you go girl.

[@snowyung9516]

Ahh thank you Adrienne for sharing honestly im so happy for you ♥️

[@nikkipowell5667]

well if i have the key to his heart i should have a key to his place lol......but i think it depends in the relationship between the person

[@vsg5549]

Lol jeannie we all know who that person is 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@brokgrl85]

As much as A talks about her past relationships and loves her alone time, you can tell she is still very naive about what defines/makes a true relationship (not just the physical, not matter how much you can give that man/woman), is the type to fall in love quickly and set her relationship standards based on Glamour/Allure articles/movies, and is in love with love. I had a friend like that. It was the same thing bs over again and again with these facade "serious" relationships + obligations she kept placing on these dudes who just wanted to kick it. No talks of a future. Lenny was married at a young age I believe, and divorced with 2+ kids. Given his recognition in the music industry (he's an A+R), she should've peeped homie was not ready to be married again nor did he want someone to have access to assets he owns. Especially if he was married for a longtime, and probably gave up more than half of his assets. But I sense he probably told her, but she avoided the signals or buried her feelings because A wanted to be in a relationship. And judging by the panel's face, hints Tamar/Loni used to give her, and that even her family told her to let him go when she talked about her first proposal had no "thought", you can tell they weren't shocked by this 'revelation'.

[@honh4859]

I love this clip. Adrienne really shines here with her raw honesty, which to be honest I have really missed. This makes us understand her so much more and appreciate the happiness she has found now.

[@marshacreary2442]

So, from what I understand, Adrienne gave him her key and he had the ability to use it throughout most of the relationship. Conversely, he never gave her a key which would have granted her access to his place. It wasn't until she gave up her own space that she was given a key which she had to ask for. Until then, she had to busy herself until he got home so that she could have access to his place. Did he think that was normal? Fair? Why? Why does Loni continue to emphasize her need for control throughout this segment?

[@Moegotti88]

Seems like Adrienne was more "in love" with Lenny then he was with her. Sad she waisted 6 years

[@MO-ty3he]

I applaud Adrienne for being real in this segment.

[@nathydior1547]

Adrienne seems like a lovely, don’t worry girl that was his lost. God is good he gave you a wonderful man...

[@sio815]

I wish Tamar was here to give her own opinion. I know it would have been good.

[@allsmilez13]

Sometimes it is just a key. Nobody owes you a key to their place. If you dont live with that person full time or if you dont pay their bills then stop worrying about their key.

[@camvin575]

Rachel Rae True.

[@hannaakinso6345]

Hallelujah someone with common sense preaching good things out here

[@daylonwright3635]

Right but Adrienne was LIVING THERE.

[@camvin575]

Daylon Wright He obviously didnt see her as living there and thought of her ad a guest.

[@theelolicious9302]

Daylon Wright i think she said she was only staying there during the times where she would visit new york

[@yenitaylor84]

Oooo she spilt dirt on Lenny...

[@JessikaTPQ]

It's not "just a key," it's truly intimate access to one's personal space, which requires a level of trust given by, AND trustworthiness of, the giver of the key. I don't think we should ever ask for a key, though; either they offer it or they don't - but it's not our place to ask for it. And really, no one should have a key to your home except the people who live there, your kids (grown/out of the home) and maybe a parent in case of emergencies. Your place should be your sanctuary, especially if you're single. No one deserves that kind of free access, unless you're engaged - and even then, it's a big maybe for me LOL!

[@ChellesShell]

The truth comes out...Adrienne kept making it sound like she left Lenny for no reason but it sounds like he was a cheater. She couldn't post him on social media, have his passwords, or the key to his apartment (they shared) something wasn't right.

[@glitterLove95]

Living for Jeannie's winged liner!! She looks amazing

[@brittneystewart723]

If you seen the Movie The Loft .... you know we don’t give keys 🔑 out never !!!!! Never lol 😂

[@BaileeMaleknights]

I really don't think they should have a key, especially if they don't usually go to your house in the first place. Emergencies? Maybe, but what are the chances? The only time you should be worried that the key is not "just" a key anymore is when he has a key your apartment BUT you don't have a key to his. Now that's shady 👀

[@lianet777]

I died at Jeannie’s face in the thumbnail 😂

[@pluckyspector]

This show should be way ahead of that other show...This show rocks! These women are hilarious, smart and beautiful inside and out!!!!

[@blessedandredeemed8529]

Bye Lenny! Call him by his name.

[@ysabehm4426]

«You are only treated the way you allow someone to treat you» yes Adrienne 👏👏👏

[@kjdnyhmghfvb]

So he had a key to all of A's Apartments, but she didn't have a key to his, and even when they moved in together she didn't have a key? Yep, That's why they are no longer together, trust issues. I would have broken up with him too.

[@charlotte6717]

Adrienne has alot of respect for herself, she knows her worth. Some people may think shes stuck up but I think its very attractive.

[@kevinenaturelle1]

i agree with Adrienne, a key is a process to a trustworthy relationship that might turn into a ring. Loni should care now that she is an a relationship!

[@emacwakeup]

When you truly accept a person and want a proper lifelong relationship, you would want to share everything. Giving a person your key is the same as saying, I accept you to be 100% part of my life.

[@CR38ion]

I appreciated what Adrienne said in this conversation and her openness about her previous relationship (that we all obviously know who it is but I won’t mention out of respect) bc it’s real and these are the conversation I come to the real to see.

[@loveleeeventplanningl.l.c.7539]

Totally agree with Loni. If you are a private person or you are dating a private person you get this

[@lesleycastro4562]

First comment I love you guys and it’s the best thing to watch y’all ♥️

[@beigelover95]

wise words Adrienne!!!!

[@neeka307]

If you ain't paying no bills then you won't be getting a key sorry

[@Dilenga23]

Knowing Adrienne’s 50/50 syndrome she probably was.

[@bookbag6432]

If someone is living with you then they obviously need to key. God for bid you accidentally lock yourself out have to wait eight hours for someone to get back from work

[@OrangeMilkBlossom]

Nayneeka she was living there! Is she supposed to wait around all the time just to get into her what was then essentially her home everyday? It's inconvenient for everyone.

[@JennHayden]

Book Bag and........why would that person be at work and the other is living there not paying any bills? the original post say not paying any bills/ contributing. that is a problem only weak people have to allow that to happen. 😑 if she is living there yes she needs a key, yes but imma need a bitch to pay this light bill.

[@lionelluva]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@user-FBA-1]

That hair on Loni 🔥

[@itsjaybabes]

Bye Lenny ✋🏼

[@misscharmingbeauty]

I know exactly what Adrienne is talking about! Been there before, could have wrote a book, and put up with so much from someone who would not and could not do the same for me! I felt like I had nothing to hide and in the end the person ended up being deceitful and selfish. The person TO THIS DAY begs me to be with him NOW that I'm happy and moved on with my life, but I know my worth now. Prior to me knowing and OWNING my worth I went through the same exact thing Adrienne did for the similar reason Adrienne did. Thank God we both dodged those bullets!

[@AllisonPaigexo]

This one had me in tears. I just got out of something where I felt like what Adrienne was describing, feeling like I was having to ask for each step in the relationship. We were together for 5 years. I feel like he didn’t want to move forward with me but he didn’t want to see me with anyone else so we were together.

[@jordynyearick2968]

Adrienne you think and talk just like I do! I agree with you completely, always!

[@promiseu2006]

I see why she broke her engagement, i'm glad she not with him anymore.

[@abdoumlanaolaini5709]

One of those moments when Tamera laugh sound just like tia 😍😍😍 havean

[@katiebug4512]

I feel for her to be honest with u and Lenny got a point there

[@ashleyr984]

Lennys so wack for that smh

[@nildarivera2403]

I love how real Adrienne is in this clip. I bet a lot of people can relate to the situation

[@SparklingJuice247]

SPILL THE TEA ADRIENNE! Glad ur wiser now. I hope you give a speech about your experience. So many of us can learn from you.

[@jesscook]

I agree with Loni. There's some people that are super private and don't feel safe giving anyone a key unless their name is also on the lease. You wouldn't understand unless you've met someone like she's describing; they exist. I still get Adrienne's perspective though, the key situation is just one of the milestones that she had to ask for in her previous relationship. That's probably why she got married so quickly to Israel. He was a stark contrast to her previous experiences

[@2436golden]

You are right Loni, Until you put a ring on it, what's mine is mine and what's yours is yours, including the key to my house.

[@RyanJCreations]

Unpopular opinion: should’ve asked for it on move in day and he would’ve just given it to you. Waiting years and not saying anything is ridiculous. And Lenny must be slow because even when a friend or family member moves in you’re supposed to give them a key to the place. But at the same time when you first move in to a place isn’t a KEY and the alarm code the first things you ask for? You check in to a hotel and the concierge forgets to give you a key to your room, so you be like “Hey, where’s my key?” Then they be like “oh ma’am I’m sorry here you go.” Women we save ourselves a world of hurt if we have the strength enough to ASK for what we want and REQUIRE/ DEMAND a certain level of respect. Obviously Adrienne didn’t do that, lesson learned I guess.

[@tashawilliams8093]

💯

[@zulyreyes01]

Moving into my own space in a few weeks, and I absolutely agree with Adrienne! However I’m the type that needs my own space and don’t like to feel suffocated! You can have your space and I’ll have mine! I’ll love you with every cell in my body, whole-heartedly BUT I won’t chase you!!!

[@jacariecampbell3486]

It’s so funny when they get cut off in their sentences and how they make a face😆

[@EmperatrizNyhnaLaw]

Adrienne, I’m just glad you figured it out. I’m glad you got out and figured it out. You got a good one!

[@RyanJCreations]

Unpopular opinion: Closed mouths don’t get fed. She should’ve asked for that key on move in day. And he would’ve gave it to her too, because he didn’t think it was that big of a deal anyway.🤷🏾‍♀️

[@muna48r]

Hi Lonnie!!!! Baayybbaaayy!! I stopped watching the real as consistently I I should, but girrrlll!!! You are looking snatched my lovely! Hair and makeup is a whole litty situation! You look so good mama!!!

[@JackGeezy]

Adrienne shading the hell out of Lenny 😂😂😂😂😂

[@conniechoward]

Thank you Adrienne for your honesty because a lot of women go through this and are too ashamed to admit it so I expect your honesty and pray that your marriage is blessed #whatgracelookslikefam

[@amethystwolf24572]

I get the frustration where you feel like you're always pushing for the next step. But sometimes, you just have to know yourself (and your partner). I am a full force kind of person, and once I know what I want, I KNOW. My SO is a much more laid back person, and suffers from anxiety issues. It means that I'm often ready for the next step before he is. But I've never doubted his love for me or that he would get there. And so far, he hasn't let me down. It can be so difficult to wait though. But we have to make sure that we recognize the difference between "red flags" and just being different people taking the same road at different speeds. What matters to me is that he's on the same road I am and walking next to me. I have to go a little slower, and he has to speed things up so we can stay on the same track, but we're still going the same places.