No finance, No Romance; The reality of dating in the 21st century Ft Phyna | The Honest Bunch - S3E6

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[@revinaleonard2374]

Phyna is making so much sense, not every garl is dating for money. Some are genuine dating a guy and want to grow with them

[@agwunchaagustine9435]

If I genuinely like and love u and I don't have shishi but I have a skill I am continuously working on for it to pay one day... Will u genuinely be in a relationship with me?

[@ukachukwukevinnzube2384]

@@blessingtakim5684 not every relationship ends with marriage They path ways not dump You’re obviously the one dumped

[@damtech38]

A big lie, most girls are dating for money

[@NmaRose357]

@@ukachukwukevinnzube2384 The truth is that Groovy dumped her. He got tired of all her lousy drama on the internet. But you her die hard fans don't like saying the simple truth. Groovy dumped her but she is not dead she's still managing her life. Don't get angry when you already know the truth. The Phyna we know, that fought & betrayed all her friends in BB house because of Groovy..that was flaunting him up and down as if he's her god will not just walk away from groovy. She already said she doesn't mind if he doesn't love her. And everyone knows the truth about that relationship and how it started..so let's stop all this pretence. We all know that groovy will eventually dump her & it happened. Case Closed. I just hoped she learnt something tangible from that experience.

[@ukachukwukevinnzube2384]

Shey ur previous boos dumped you Yes or No?

[@igbologeeloho8427]

Phyna is a full of vibes and she’s intelligent too. Love how she changed the narrative from all “women date for money” to “some women actually love working for their money”. Thank you Phyna for being a mouth piece for us who genuinely work for every dime we spend.

[@favourisaac4575]

Exactly. Phyna's really making so much sense. She's intelligent. Kisses girl. Thank you for speaking well of the honest ladies out there.

[@KingSolo_of_ourtime]

I never thought phyna is this sensible wow she got my respect today 🔥🔥🔥

[@opeyemiolusegun3393]

Aswear and pple won’t see d full video ooo dem go just Dey cap nonsense 😏everybody would be alright las las 😊

[@emmanuelugodike2009]

Phyna should be a role model for the 21st Century ladies..I don't really know her, but she was very inspirational and has a good mindset.

[@didamkazachat5117]

Nigerian men should also not forget to follow woman of their own class. You guys are doing amazing ❤️

[@granitndexzy1556]

@@didamkazachat5117 But Nigerian woman should follow men of higher class right?

[@didamkazachat5117]

@@granitndexzy1556 higher class is relative

[@femistiflha7312]

@@didamkazachat5117 lmao... Relative how please? I'm curious

[@abelbukunmi8044]

Ok, since it's Phyna I never expected anything less than honesty and vibes. Mama is just mama

[@eseosasereomokaro431]

Dem suppose name Phyna "WISDOM AND UNDERSTANDING"👏👏👏

[@amakalucia]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@eberefavour5475]

😂😂 yeah right

[@princesssaratu1314]

She is really fearless, bold, intelligent, beautiful, and also the hype priestess of Nigeria

[@yunuscoker6553]

Phyna literally changed the narrative. My wife dated me when I had nothing and the reason why she stayed was because I'm being sincere and caring in my own little way it definitely ended in marriage after wedding we started growing financially by sharing ideas together I don't hide anything from my wife. A gud partner is someone you can rub minds with and share ideas about how to grow not selfish interested of you must buy me this and that. I provide for her without asking coz I know her needs... feeling entitled and mandating unnecessary bills should be negated. However, both of you can grow together without jeopardizing with selfish interest

[@wisdomwayo784]

Phyna is THE true definition of a woman of CLASS. So intelligent, virtuous, principled, energetic, confident, and beautiful. She truly understands how the game should be played, both from a woman's perspective and that of men too. Her closing advice to women is top notch. I watched that part three times and had to download the episode because of it. See how she countered Ezinne's "two blind people cannot walk" narrative? Phyna much love..

[@maryannfavour9359]

Phyna was just been honest in this podcast.... Like this is one of my best podcast so far. Love you Phyna 😍

[@liqwidstudios6156]

Don't really follow Phyna but I just fell in love with her personality abeg. She dey real. Very smart and logical. She has my respect 100 percent

[@gracesunday4875]

I love the way phyna made dem understand that other women work hard for their money

[@leticiaemefa2457]

Phyna is a phenomenal woman👏👏👏👏👏👏I Stan, Re-Stan and Pakistan💃💃💃💃💃💃💃

[@amakasuccess722]

Oga thank u sir for introducing my Queen Phyna in that manner ❤️❤️

[@sylvialawrence4326]

Just became a Phyna's fan..she spoke my mind

[@kenprisca5496]

Nice one

[@addyfam1454]

The way Nedu talks about women sha, it shows the kind of money-hungry women he relates with. Lol, as if no be this Naija we de. If Nedu thinks Nigerian ladies go for rich men, who are the Nigerian ladies marrying broke men then? Nedu needs to relate with responsible ladies and not these ashawos he de go for.

[@damilolaayobolanle4125]

Ladies, your criteria should be financial responsibility….not wealth. I don’t care how much money a man has, as long as they make good decisions about how to use it. Like I said earlier, generosity has nothing to do with money, it's a personal trait💯

[@tutsypie]

Spot on!

[@dorcasbawa3420]

I love how Phyna can stand on her words till the end

[@mirax_vibez]

Very interesting. Phyna is a gem. A Model African Woman. Highly principled and hardworking lady. Guys una well done.

[@dashuwarabujadestiny1564]

This toun na babe wey go give u heart ache low key.. I just dey observe am.. She appreas clam but omooooooo Phyna na the only babe wey high intellectual IQ for here

[@moeshaj.6637]

This is why I like Phyna, she’s TOO REAL ❤

[@abiolaraji1624]

Very well said....my cupcake phyna been making me proud all the time... Hard work pays o

[@cynthiaerhisere4198]

Phyna I don’t know you but thank you for this input! Let people know there are honest women who just want to grow with their partners and support the family…Money is not romance and it’s crazy the narrative/mentality of the 21st century we dealing with today

[@Iphie2019]

Phyna thank you for speaking up for us that have genuinely been in the dating game looking for a compatible mate without looking at money. Some of us actually get offended when men flash money thinking that everyone is there for money. If I am honest, most men that do that feel like they can only be liked because of their money and nothing else. Most men make these money hungry assumptions about women due to their past experiences. Unfortunately, when they see genuine ladies, they by-pass them for more physically appealing ladies that may be there for only the money. Just for them to turn around and categorize all ladies as the same. I don’t see how as a physician I will be looking at money as the most important attribute for a potential mate/spouse. The group kept it real as always.

[@chris_celebrity]

This phyna is the only sensible person here, others are saying trash

[@tutuemeji7058]

Phyna spitting facts,my dear,follow person wey u go grow with oooo

[@duzzyspiritual1443]

This podcast came into my life as a therapy .. it came into my life when I needed it the most . December 2021 .. I remember I was depressed cos of my relationship then . But the entertainment it has brought to my life is priceless. Thank you 😩😩🤗🤗

[@elisabeth6086]

Nedu is definitely those type of guys that didn’t get girls until they made money, hence the mentality

[@ritachibuzor1404]

Exactly 💯.

[@lawalpreciouso.7778]

Fr... Even as a guy I agree

[@angelbonita3710]

Possibly because I don’t understand. He talk too much as a man. Short and ugly tin

[@carolynololade4126]

Yeah….

[@sandrageorgewill]

100% spoken my mind ❤

[@akinlagunadeleye6146]

I now love phyna. One classic, outstanding girl

[@yaaanimwah9896]

My Phyna is always consistent with her ideals nd values! That's a strong and fearless woman right there!

[@o.g_mekus5213]

I’ve always said it that phyna is very underrated, criminally underrated infact!! She’s extremely intelligent and has a lot of life experiences that people can learn from. Amazing amazing addition to this episode!!

[@ulomaapugo6370]

Thank you Phyna for speaking up for lady like us, we don't date for money but just genuinely wants to date for a guy that cares about us, I will be the last person on earth to pick a yahoo guy over a 9 to 5 man. This show just shed soo many light and I'm happy I watched it because it has clarified some things for me

[@kazeemolabisi6116]

Phyna look so beautiful and she speak very well weldone babe❤

[@dermiey.]

Phyna is so smart😍😍

[@johnsonseyianthony9862]

I see you here 😂

[@Kefmoles]

I love listening to you guys. This episode made me realize phyna is very intelligent, didn't really know much about her.

[@ofeoshigabrielo7265]

Yes she is very intelligent

[@Josephevwierhom]

already in love with Phyna. She's lowkey the one with BDE to me😂😂😂😂

[@michaelgodswill6332]

PHYNA dey always turn up 😂

[@StarbaeFestus]

So proud of Phyna. Unusual beautiful and smart. Challenger of all Gender. She no dey see u she no go fear u. Love you Queen!!! ❤️

[@aishamichael5098]

For the fact you keep saying the truth, you are forever in my heart, love you phyna

[@darababalola2158]

This is really educating and I 💯 go with phyna, most woman didn't even realise how powerful they're if we focus on ourselves, develop yourself not waiting around for anyone to give you not just man I mean anyone because everybody in our life have expiration date

[@skylove1390]

Wow am more than impressed Phyna u are indeed so smart❤️❤️❤️

[@lydiiamobi7715]

Phyna I love you aswear,I didn't Stan rubbish

[@anzchibaby8]

I fully enjoyed this episode... Phynas energy is unmatched the girls showed up and showed out and I love etttt😌💯💪

[@gibszololo3937]

Omg the first girl outta big brother that actually has sense. Thank you Ijeoma for speaking the truth. Girls keep hustling the 10% of nigerian men 🤣

[@amakasuccess722]

Pls why won't I be so proud of my Phyna? This girl is giving me bragging rights everyday. @unusualphyna I love ur smartness, you're a full package 💯✅

[@cynthiachinonyelum7127]

Super proud of PYHNA the WINNER

[@olamideawoyemi6510]

Aswear I like phyna so much, girl just spilled the fact ❤️✅

[@gracygiftagboola8605]

The best.

[@johnsonseyianthony9862]

I never really understood why people are bashing and trolling phyna for this masterpiece of a video People are just crazy men

[@sphiwelndlovue8993]

My fearless, intelligent queen Phyna spitting facts,my babe is too real ❤️so proud of her ❤️

[@obimary987]

This is interesting. Good to have phyna on this one❤️

[@princesssaratu1314]

The hype alone make me happy, phyna our winner

[@Thesweethannah]

Phyna the winner making a mindset shift..nice delivery Queen

[@edehesther5338]

Aswear, physically is a clown 🤡 🤣 😂

[@bascondavid]

Phyna tha high priestess... Very nice having her on the show, her perspective was beautiful.

[@giftudoh2999]

Nedu you meet your mate in Phyna on this one 🤣🤣🤣

[@IVEE17]

I swear

[@ifebuchecatherina9197]

Alpha phyna for a reason 🤣

[@Pharmsam]

Wahalurrrrrrrrrrrr, elephant enter somewhere,e must shake

[@ossaivictor4907]

Nedu your level thinking is experiencial..love u so much.. Phyna na woman of strength and ability, love ur level of experience in life..love u so much.. Husband I love ur show and your way of speaking..God bless your hustle AMEN

[@peacerepublicans.4999]

First time listening to phyna though Loves HM's calmness and everything about him.... love's Nedu's honesty in all he says. Have never missed an episode of this podcast cox one way or the other you'll grab something meaningful and this podcast have away of curing depression. Thanks boss dem for all you do

[@olatoyekayode3940]

I love the way husband material da do the introduction The guy is so smart ❤️

[@toviaelefoh8316]

It was vibes and lessons through out this episode,you no fit tire of phyna energy.Nice one guy.

[@bigbills_2683]

Husband material is the funniest cast member 🤣🤣 he is low key funny.. I am enjoying Phyna's vibe by the way

[@superstarritway]

Phyna is so special, the other girls for there Omo, na wahala oh. Rare women like her are hard to find, God abeg give me a phyna in my life.

[@tranquilitysongforthesoul4382]

Alpha queen phyna, I troway cap for you. You're beautiful with brain,I salute your judgement. If all 9ja girls has same mentality like you,guys wey dey Yankee no go marry white women. I wish to see you again on this show,I enjoyed your part my dear.

[@damilolaayobolanle4125]

I'm sure y'all know that there are a lot of rich stingy guys and a lot of poor generous guys. Generosity has nothing to do with money, it's a personal trait. Deductive reasoning if you know what I mean😊

[@wills5293]

Well said.

[@victornwosu7823]

Shoutout to the gang for this episode, special respect to phyna 👐 #phynation

[@bodeprime]

Nedu you are almost becoming a bad influence. IJEAOMA made so much sense @ 24:00 and you said not in Nigeria. dont judge Nigeria by your small circle of friends. she made a great point and what she said is one of the best ways to build a decent and successful relationship.

[@georginachinagoromeze1454]

Phyna is very intelligent. I am proud of you.

[@kutemitife8876]

I love how Toun changed her points in this episode and later ended up saying the right thing. We all can see what she’s doing 😂. I like how everyone went off and came back to agree to everything. Keep it up guys

[@sophisticated7405]

Really didn't want the podcast to end.. phyna u made we d reasonable woman proud 🥰🥰 TAKE THE TITLE.. UR A QUEEN 👑

[@Nnekaokpalefe]

You see this Intro they should leave it for Husband Material🙌🏾🙌🏾 it is the highlight of my day❤love it

[@techhub1059]

Ijeoma, should be invited again 🤣🤣🤣

[@IVEE17]

Phyna is too funny 😂😂😂which is collobate 😂😂

[@hopeemu7910]

This babe putting on black shouldn’t even be there in the first place because she’s not being honest,she’s against those saying not all girls date for love yet she’s claiming she’s dating her rich boyfriend for love and we all know that’s a big lie,anyways,phyna is 💯 correct.

[@wuraluyi]

Phyna is so right, not everyone dates cos of money. When I started dating my husband, he had no job

[@lasheun]

Nice discussion all... Phyna I'm on you on this.. you be Odogwu👍

[@brightdaniel6881]

20:13, I'm enjoying the podcast, but then I had to stop to type this. I enjoy Nedu talking, but he should slow down on cutting people off, and when he does by saying "hold on", he should remember to give room to that same person when he's done expressing, rather than keep the conversation going like nothing happened, it makes us miss out on certain takes that might have made the discuss more interesting. Take the Toun interruption for instance, she kept signalling to talk... Just an observation. Great podcast still.

[@oscaralasa8236]

This was a very amazing watch and very hilarious too. Husband material is lowkey a clown sha lol. Absolutely loved this episode. It's Phyna's rounding up statement for me 1:10:19 - 1:10:34. If women actually know what being just a "woman" in a workforce can get you in today's world, we won't be having some conversations at all. In most cases you are already the "favorite" without even saying a word, and if when you speak you are making sense, damn the sky is not even close to your limit.

[@TemiTeeO]

Chai! I so much love Phyna’s POV. All Nigerian girls don’t date cos of money now💁🏽‍♀️💁🏽‍♀️. I’ve always heard this stuff and we need to understand that everyone is NOT the same. Haba!!

[@tijanimariam8081]

Proud of phyna 🥰

[@Ann.Beauty.]

Seriously i love phyna so much,she inspire me alot ,she is a perfect example of an Alpha woman

[@bluntgist3321]

Is the introduction of Phyna for me 😂😂. I’m loving it.

[@jumokeadetunji91jumoke8]

I’m in love with phyna already ❤️ and that you for speaking for us that genuinely love without money interest and we still get hurt but then we continue to work hard,make our own money and wait for that loving and responsible guy .my fav episode well done guys

[@giftewere8534]

Thank you all for this episode, phyna well done and more of God blessing

[@ukemichael7099]

This is a total bunch of honest opinion from y'all, great job guys.

[@Henric_jay]

Really appreciate this podcast particularly, I will say there have to be more of this real talks,we Africans must appreciate something like this!!! We are in a world where everyone lie and everything is just for clout on social media, this podcast will be very enormous, keep it up 100% always love this a lot!!! ❤❤❤❤❤

[@AliMohamed-ls9dt]

Am a Cameroonian and I have friends that’s date Nigerian girls and they are doing well. I use to think Nigeria girls love money but it’s untrue. If a Nigeria girl love you genuinely, she will work with you and even to an extend of giving up her career to make sure his man succeeds.

[@aniduaisha6620]

😂😂 u funny.

[@scarlowisetv]

Am super proud of you phy phy 💕💕💕💕

[@naziraadams5053]

Phyna u too much. Thanks for the advice

[@keechiO]

They suppose spray husband material money for his introduction of guests bcos he sabi the work jor!! 👏🏾👏🏾

[@anyekunoella]

Phyna made a lot of sense on this episode, thanks for visiting

[@Darerah]

Always sad that each episode has to end and then we’ll wait till a week’s time for another. Love you bunch!…you guys make my Mondays end well.

[@khairsadiq7448]

I love the intro as it should be ❤

[@jennifervictor4274]

Nedu, HM , Toun and Phyna are all intelligent and super funny people. I laughed so hard 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ifeanyimatthew6855]

Please what's the IG name of that lady on black?

[@yaaanimwah9896]

Proud of you Phyna, gradually you are helping to change the narrative!

[@waleajibola3105]

Omo! I'm a man and i do not subscribe to allowing a woman "suffer" with me. Make money first so you can care for your woman and your kids

[@giftudoh2999]

Phyna well said, a guy that work hard can still make it tomorrow

[@opaajesingwa4475]

It just the Phyna's energy for am not a fan of any BBN mate but she gave a different overview, the girl don jamma wella for street not those ajebo dat do buy awards. God bless you guys always and pray you shall succeed in all you do, way up always guy. Pls encourage 30 seconds viewers to come to youtube, am always doing that tho. LOVE & LIGHT ✌

[@ebukajohnogar450]

Wow..ijeoma AKA phyna AKA queen mama.. AKA who dey..!!! Omo girl you finish work.. Well done and kudos to you 👏👍👍

[@officialsheddywills8061]

Phyna A Queen And More 👑👑

[@mr_benaro6554]

Make Dem nor beat nedu for this show one day 🤣🤣🤣, still my favorite ooooo

[@ichipisammy9791]

I am loving phyna already... my kinda girl, a girl with her kinda mindset are the ones getting the real treasures from men

[@Elizabethhenry46]

This was really interesting to watch,I laughed all through 😂.Phyna the winner u are doing well👏🏾👏🏾

[@Queen-yd2rl]

Soo proud of phyna