The Lexi Show - Debra Winans Interview - Part 2

Lexi interview's Debra Winans, the ex-wife of gospel singer BeBe Winans

[@sasilver1]

This interview teaches people in the church to stop being so "spiritual" and learn to deal with the issues you face. There is a time to take things to God in prayer and there are just some things you have to confront!!

[@debrathompson8048]

Truth

[@annat4208]

His ego grew, out grew his duty as a husband. Husband, means nurture and protect and everything skill required to grow marriages, and protect your wife's emotional needs, be that covering. God commanded men to love their wives.

[@tammarmccullum7096]

Amen Anna T

[@giacomomassop]

Again, Debra owed her mistakes in the interview. That's her side. As far as I'm concerned, BeBe doesn't HAVE to say anything. It's really none of my business. I'm targeting people who, judging from some of these comments, seem to want to crucify Debra for speaking her perspective on what went wrong. Seems to me that some here have picked sides when they know about as much as you or I, which is nothing.

[@719kai719]

Stop putting all these gospel singers and pastors on pedestals like they are GOD! They aren't!

[@azariahdenver3450]

i know it's pretty off topic but do anybody know of a good site to watch newly released tv shows online?

[@legendwestin6470]

@Azariah Denver Lately I have been using FlixZone. You can find it on google :)

[@waylonyahir2151]

@Legend Westin Definitely, have been watching on Instaflixxer for since april myself =)

[@deborahking674]

God knows our heart and he ALWAYS gives SECOND CHANCES! Thank God for his endless grace and mercy

[@roshellelewis5902]

Amen

[@lzpinky55]

She Is telling the truth.. Just cuz he have the Winans name do not mean you can treat someone like that...Church people you need to get It together!!!!!!!!!!

[@BlessStargazer2010]

she sure is.......I believe her. Cause men are like that, and we, especially Christian women, are told to serve, and be quiet. We take up for them, we cover for them and their "reputations", and we keep up the image.

[@fredajohnson506]

That's why now's day's you can't put hope in.even man.of God because its seems like they are letting the devil use them I quess you better off being single

[@kiasky1]

She's telling the truth.

[@fredajohnson506]

We only hope so only God knows

[@giacomomassop]

IF you were paying any attention at all you would have heard her own up to her part in all of this. What about the other part? Why is it so easy to assume she's a wicked witch & BeBe is candy sweet? Oh I forgot, church folk have a bias in favour of their favourite preacher, teacher, pastor, singer, etc. This inhibits them from being neutral & just plain vicious toward anyone who dare criticise their demi-gods.

[@fredajohnson506]

You are right it don't matter because if you wrong still go

[@PreciousGem682]

This is the real truth, but it will be ignored for the sake of his image.

[@VickyVue]

I so can relate to her, even being single for years we sometimes get lost in 'living' that we forget what God truely chooses for our lives what's best for our entire being. Life has a way of making us soooo busy that we forget the basics of what God wants for us. I love her courage, even in the midst of a huge family that wants and wanted her to keep her mouth shut and not be vocal about what she'd endured and what they knew she was enduring.

[@OhYeahTheNightNurse]

They spoke two different love languages.

[@Marsena]

What is wrong with us? The woman is trying to be balanced in talking about why her marriage failed, which I truly admire. Secondly, she and the children have to eat too, so why not write a book that can help other women cope with their issues? I can understand loving the Winans' music (which I do), but they are human like anybody else, and they have faults like everyone else. They are not God! Besides, she is talking also about HER spiritual journey.

[@diva4tv]

Yes! Write that!

[@dedrachambers8722]

People are COMING for her and Defending Bebe..... THIS Is HER TRUTH 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 She's Not being Negative about him

[@fredajohnson506]

Amen i agree we be shocked when hear about thing like this its kinda hard for me believe also but the flesh take over still man frist irs ashame

[@MsMinisterS]

Thank you for the continuation of the post. No other comment.

[@1205snaby]

Beautiful woman of God despite the issues beautiful spirit

[@fredajohnson506]

Amen she not bitter she just glad ahe free

[@lindamccuff676]

I enjoyed this interview, she was with a famous man, but this problem is a very common one with couples in the body of Christ. I thank God for Debbie sharing her life and marriage. Lexi thanks..

[@FreeBird_6791]

I would disagree. I think it may be more common in the relationships of famous people but for true Christians, divorce is not common.

[@Trueworship1]

@baby287girl - I think you need to listen to this again sweetheart. Her openness and honesty about self examination is edifying and biblical. Thank God for women who are willing to be real.

[@giacomomassop]

Agreed. I'm not pointing an accusatory finger at either party. It just disgusts me that "christians" seem to have a blind spot when it comes to their celebrities. We've seen instances where it's it's just obvious that someone is caught in wrong doing & the first thing that falls from their supporters lips is "touch not" or "no one is perfect". Duh! What about right & wrong? What about Godly standards? All of that seems goes the way of the crapper, no objectivity. That was really my point.

[@fredajohnson506]

Amen wouldn't care who you are if you not doing right by your wife but so sad because over year's all been hearing and looking on utube about pastor's all being caught up something dealing with abusive relationship and committing affairs people need get admit they have problem get delivered

[@godschildyes]

You are soooo CORRECT!

[@johnhenryowens7000]

Debra Winans isn't tearing down NO-one. BeBe Winans her ex-husband is a man. BeBe Winans know he was WRONG for trying to steal those children from her.. STOP WORSHIPPING THESE GOSPEL SINGERS.

[@prazup49]

That was good, life is not over, just altered.

[@BlessStargazer2010]

uh, scuse me........U must be a man, because my Bible says a man is supposed to love his wife like Christ loved the church. did you really suggest a Christian wife is not to expect love and devotion in return from her husband? yikes

[@nancygardner7032]

There's NO Success if the family is lost.

[@shondo2010]

As long as we are clear on the difference between church folk and real Christians. I've only heard one side of the issue and the BIBLE says that it is foolish to judge a thing before the whole matter is heard. As bad as this smells I'd want to hear Bebe's account before I picked a side.

[@NeeNeeAnn]

My point exactly IS she is phony and is really trying to expose Bebe in every way possible. I mean your private life doesn't need to be put out there. It doesn't matter if she is talking about her book or not. She had the option of keeping her OWN PRIVATE BUSINESS to herself. She didn't have to say everything or anything at all. She wanted to. If exposing him is what she is trying to do, why did she wait this long to do it after her divorce at least 11 years ago? What is your point... exactly?

[@godschildyes]

I guess you were there when it happened! PLEASE TELL ME MORE!

[@johnhenryowens7000]

Everyone knows including BeBe Winans what happened. This her former Real-Marriage that has been destroyed. Not the fans that may go and come at anytime. Be Adult YALL!

[@kevseb66]

It sounds like she is doing the Lexi show to talk about her life/ marriage while promoting her book. So your point is.....what exactly?

[@johnhenryowens7000]

Whoever told him to try and take her children from her is a Lier. AND A MIGHTY GOD INTERVENED AND STOPPED BeBe.

[@godschildyes]

THANK YOU!

[@musiqtube1]

wow, it sure is a lot of people on her who REALLY know what happened. Hmmm. Interesting.

[@OKandNOWwhat]

"Your desire shall be for your husband, & he shall rule over you." (Gen 3:16) But I speak of Messiah and His Bride. Women, seek attention from your Bridegroom, and you will not miss the man of flesh. "Set your mind on things above, not on things on the Earth." (Col 3:2) No, this may not be easy. But IT IS THE SOLUTION for this problem, and the solvent of your flesh. You can cry all you wish, but until & unless you take the Cure everyday, you will still have this problem. Let Jesus be your Lover.

[@LA.4.LIFE.76]

Wow 😮 just wow 😮

[@blessingsarah1842]

well, all I know the both will answer to the Lord for their part.

[@promodel11]

@babyworm44 i think alot of women dont change their name after divorce, not all but some, my mom and dad been divorced for over 10 years, she still has his last name, so it probaly has nothing to do with fame.

[@NeeNeeAnn]

I understand what our are saying but it sounds Debra is adding more and more fuel to that fire you are talking about. The media "has already" exposed Bebe and what she is doing is trying to add more and more to that. I'm not saying she is a bad person but I'm saying why is she publicizing all her personal business. I know she needs to talk about this to someone but why on t.v. That's all I'm saying.

[@fredajohnson506]

We can't judge her only God knows truth but no man is a saint all have some kinda demon need be delivered from

[@BlessStargazer2010]

You are exactly correct, I do believe~cause once they started selling platinum, he was OFF to the races, honey.....enjoying the fruits of fame, fortune and celebrity

[@rickynaidoo1876]

It may be too late but to let everyone know that marriage is the first institution by God himself. No matter how many Grammy awards u achieve in life.if you failed your marriage you failed it all.

[@lisaholmes6408]

She look like Berths Williams in Atlanta Austell if this is her. I am going send some one to BeBe Winans studio to talk The boy Jessie brother is at my daughter house right now he told me Tyscott record sold him someone else beat. than ask me can he work in my studio to record his beats .they was my next door neighbor his mom name Tracey she has 3 son and one daughter. I told him I do not know about that studio . I found out that studio belong to the Winans boy or sons. I lived at 3137 Bayhan Street in Inkster. I have been writing to their sister CeCe Winans since 2003 when in a wheelchair in nursing home. they knew of my lyrics writing since than and my poems that I have written through the years.

[@fredajohnson506]

She beautiful lady but i find it hard to believe that bee bee would do that but old saying go like this you never know what's going on behind close doors only God knows the truth. But glad she move on

[@Ladylss78]

so in 2001 i was going through a nasty break up and i religiously listened to bebe’s cd love and freedom 🧐 i was like dude what did you do!??? now i know he was going through a separation 😞 and was trying to fight for his marriage 🤷🏽‍♀️😞

[@zhirlsjames1219]

This is all in the name of helping other women - by tearing down the father of your children who you said you love/ed? The more spiritual one has chosen to not slander or speak or has he got nothing to say at all? I THINK THAT'S CHRISTLIKE. Perharps she was such a saint! Debra you can't love God without loving BB and this isn't the friut of Agape.

[@revosmith6395]

u need to stop shirley udueni because u know nothing so i would stop right their

[@doucey1000]

I'm not saying this bro was correct ...he wasn't but how does this help the church body ...Americans it's all about glamour ,tv, etc etc

[@EvaAnika]

lol @ Shaniqua. in other words, loud-wrong-stereotypical

[@NeeNeeAnn]

Is she talking about her life and marriage or is she promoting her book? I mean I need to know. All I'm hearing is bull from her book.

[@MrSwaggonten]

God ain't got nothing to do with you putting your business in the streets...... bashing that man because you mad...... typical hurt woman.

[@fredajohnson506]

Why do people think its impossible believe some one can do this because well known artists well all have issues.we need be delivered from

[@buddingfigtree]

I think that the reason he was neglectful is because he is a closeted gay man.

[@pamelarobinson802]

Michelle Lee ,I hear you.

[@robynbrown3057]

Michelle Lee this is a foolish statement! wow

[@FreeBird_6791]

No truth to the speculation that the guy is gay.

[@shamekaallen8139]

Please don’t judge children of God. God’s is the judge not you!

[@simbaking6338]

???????

[@clsareply]

what's wrong with Shaniqua