the sarcasm and attitude of that kid was too real xF
@JoeKaye-hn5dt7 жыл бұрын
The way he gulped that food I bet he was one big fart ass. Swallowing air is what causes that you know.
@behindthen0thing6 жыл бұрын
Joe Kaye uh no
@baronsorgi15 жыл бұрын
Nadi NAM doesn’t matter fourteen years from then. Chuck was tortured in Vietnam and then shot thank God he had his table manners down to a fine art
@johndevault5 жыл бұрын
Chuck’s like WTF
@baronsorgi15 жыл бұрын
reverse thrust So I missed it by a few months miss perfect by the way get your elbows off the table...oh, I almost forgot...GO FUCK YOURSELF ! .HARUMPH
@GEhotpants10110 жыл бұрын
"Oh boy, HAM!"
@snufkin15923 жыл бұрын
this boy is ponyo in disguise
@Noonecares32033 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@ciara3132453 жыл бұрын
Sam Puckett wrote the script 😂😂😂
@altobonifacio89363 жыл бұрын
The fact that i said it out loud and now im dyin OH BUOY HANMM
@SkyBlue-qn8me2 жыл бұрын
Hay-um!!
@Captmushy8 жыл бұрын
The father's voice is the single most greatest thing I've ever heard.
@DoctorX175 жыл бұрын
Gee golly, his voice sure was swell.
@dariowiter30785 жыл бұрын
He sounded too much like a 1940s radio announcer. 🎙️🎙️🎙️🎙️🎙️ 📻📻📻📻📻 😁😁😁😁😁
@baronsorgi15 жыл бұрын
Capt.Mushy yes he got a lot better once he pulled his head straight out of his arse hole 🕳
@baronsorgi15 жыл бұрын
Capt.Mushy I keep waiting for him to break in with the weather report
@Queen_Sakura4 жыл бұрын
@@DoctorX17 Dang, you stole my joke XD
@radthadd7 жыл бұрын
Chuck will never again eat without table manners. Thanks to his visit, to the Twilight Zone
@HomeLifewithRebecca5 жыл бұрын
Rad Thadd lol 😆
@baronsorgi15 жыл бұрын
Blow my GOOD LONG MANHOOD
@MrLeary735 жыл бұрын
Kid just accepts time travel like it’s an everyday thing
@CrossingTheStreetArt4 жыл бұрын
Back then, it was.
@wil72282 жыл бұрын
Back then it was
@E.C.O.escrivadelacalle Жыл бұрын
a magic of tv
@pickneydem408710 жыл бұрын
i would hate to see my future self and i'm wearing the same sweater
@kubovicrachel9 жыл бұрын
Ha ha!! 😂😂
@JoeKaye-hn5dt7 жыл бұрын
But your "future" eyebrows are now like 10X as big. Egad. I'd hang myself.
@behindthen0thing6 жыл бұрын
Joe Kaye egads my roast is ruined
@bunnymanmoe88195 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooo
@baronsorgi15 жыл бұрын
Joe Kaye didn’t have to hang himself they did that for him in Vietnam .,.💀hung him by his neck and then shot him to death
@MBACCR12 жыл бұрын
Fashion goes out of style but style never goes out of fashion.
@practicalpen19902 жыл бұрын
My parents taught me these things as a kid in the 90s. I'm impressed how most people my age don't know them, like I was the only person who was purposefully taught at home, and they weren't at all. These videos need a comeback.
@cici25622 жыл бұрын
I taught my children to put their napkins in their laps while eating (especially at a restaurant) and now they won’t do it because they don’t believe me that it’s a real thing! So apparently NO ONE is learning table manners now and that is just depressing.
@catherineannelockman3805 Жыл бұрын
My children were taught proper table manners...and to be quite honest, my husband has TERRIBLE table manners...it is embarrassing, to say the least...I have to remind him if we are going out to use his manners...the thing is, when wr were first dating, he used proper manners and didn't eat like a barn animal, or I wouldn't have gone out with him again...mealtime isn't fun for me, as his way of eating disgusts me...eats a meal in 5 minutes flat, eats with his mouth open, sucks his fingers loudly instead of using a napkin, and holds his fork like a 1 year old...I do love him though...
@ehmincorrect36039 ай бұрын
@@cici2562I will never forget being taught these manners then going out to eat with friends for the first time. Everyone laughed when I put my napkin in my lap lol. I had to unlearn manners to fit in, and I’m sure many other people have too unfortunately
@ChrisStargazer5 жыл бұрын
“People judge many things about you, just by how you eat,” Future Chuck says as I sit, cross-legged on my sofa, eating brown sugar-cinnamon Pop Tarts while using a throw pillow as a plate to catch the crumbs.
@cveis56784 жыл бұрын
This, can I say thank you for making me feel better about my own personal shame. I'm laying across my bed sideways eating cookies from Whole Foods for dinner well using a pillow as a crumb catcher ... I'm 30. Glad to know I'm not alone in my choices.
@candied.crabapples4 жыл бұрын
C veis lol 😂
@krystalrussell88314 жыл бұрын
Cross-legged means different things especially in my families.
@HobbyOrganist2 жыл бұрын
And we here in computer land saw every bit of that and all the crumbs you swept underneath things so nobody would see them, but WE did :)
@mhmorris20182 жыл бұрын
@@HobbyOrganist true! 😂
@lukeporras12885 жыл бұрын
I can't help but laugh everytime the dad says "Chuck" at the beginning
@tiannalipscomb40188 жыл бұрын
Why do I enjoy watching these
@CanadianFan5 жыл бұрын
me too
@debnelson81275 жыл бұрын
I love watching them because I should have been born in the 40’s. They had awesome clothes and taught this stuff. Basic manners makes a difference in society.
@airnoiphongsavath85095 жыл бұрын
M2
@IAmNoeyes4 жыл бұрын
They are awesome
@Emanonerewhon4 жыл бұрын
Because it’s a window into a time when we were better.
@rojman1238 жыл бұрын
Future Chuck should have warned him he'd be drafted in to the army to fight in 'nam.
@lordbarnabas-foodandetique33138 жыл бұрын
rojman123 oh my!
@DizzLexic7 жыл бұрын
Oh boy!! Nam!!! :D
@ingriddubbel84686 жыл бұрын
This is 1951 he's about 15. He probably could have not gone to Nam.
@SimirJohnson5 жыл бұрын
He’d be going to Korea. Just as fun as ‘Nam!!
@baronsorgi15 жыл бұрын
Ingrid Dubbel He’s like about 11years old here give your head a shake you moron He in fact did go to Vietnam and he in fact was killed
@carolinesantos11656 жыл бұрын
Proper etiquette was taught to me at home and I went to public school that everyone was required to take a etiquette class, how to eat properly, speak in public, speak properly on the phone and to conduct yourself at a interview at a job.
@pennypay13 жыл бұрын
It certainly does. In these modern times, a lot of people spurn etiquette courses because they're 'old-fashioned' and say that using the 'wrong' fork is inconsequential. Others argue that they're 'classist' or 'elitist' because everything from clothing to addressing others is supposed to be totally egalitarian now. I disagree. Table etiquette makes interaction more organized and it adds to ambiance. And job interviews give a person one chance to make a favorable impression.
@thomaslandcaster9638 Жыл бұрын
Love the part where future Chuck snap his finger and all the dishes disappeared, present Chuck said mother's should see that. Future Chuck is a smooth cool dude with hip manner attitude.
@shadownaki11 жыл бұрын
Chuck's sweater probably allows him to time travel and materalize random foods out of thin air every friday. As atrocious as it may be, i would rock that shit
@pennypay14 жыл бұрын
Unless Chuck's family is Catholic. No meat on Fridays- especially not ham and especially not before 1965.
@tjmarx Жыл бұрын
Chuck is schizophrenic. That's why no one else can see any of those things but chuck. It's all the hallucinations of a lonely and isolated child.
@callieford2228 Жыл бұрын
Please can we bring these values into 2023? Families would be so much happier😃
@cottoncandiez88728 ай бұрын
Bring them back then, don't rely on others
@valeriaa54967 жыл бұрын
0:44 that kid was already living in 2017
@MarkMeadows9010 жыл бұрын
I'm so hungry, I could eat a Hayyummm!
@sharpythegoat5 жыл бұрын
It's only Kurt Cobain :p
@navazhandlez5 жыл бұрын
Is it this Friday?
@JoeyLamontagne4 жыл бұрын
*hyyyaaammm!*
@fermiLiquidDrinker3 жыл бұрын
@@navazhandlez is it _this_ Friday? Is it not Friday?
@Nerubize3 жыл бұрын
repeat my mantra hammmm
@zepps8813 жыл бұрын
lol Chuck still wears the same sweater when he's 21
@TigerOscar783 ай бұрын
I wish they had more shows like this for today's kids
@AnxietyAddict8 жыл бұрын
Wait a minute If Chuck from the future is telling Chuck from the past how to have good table manners then surely at some point Chuck learns how to have good table manners, and he learns a good deal about it as he's aware of both the American and European methods. Older Chuck wouldn't need to worry about younger Chuck not knowing these things right now because he knows that he will eventually learn them. Is there some kind of paradox going on here. Chuck only knows about these things because he himself told him them. I don't know it's really confusing.
@memphis38007 жыл бұрын
ASMRWhisperLight. I commented this same thing
@miekekuppen92756 жыл бұрын
Since younger Chuck in the example of how it SHOULD go is elbowing both his potential neighbors into the ear nothing really matters anyway.
@janecollette95046 жыл бұрын
MJ Music Only one explanation, aliens.
@lucassouza53706 жыл бұрын
That's a paradox right there, which means that when future Chuck was younger anothet future Chuck came to teach him good manners too, you're right, they should learn not to mess with time 😂😂😂, another Chuck will come to tell them that.
@FillingtheVoidRevues6 жыл бұрын
Why did he go back in time to teach about table manners when he could have gone back a little farther and killed Hitler?
@Sharon-pb7so6 жыл бұрын
So funny, I'm eating ice cream in bed and sharing a little with my cat.
@elishavelez8746 Жыл бұрын
Fun fact: Cat's can't taste anything sweet, so it probably just tastes like plain milk to them.
@stupidmangoz Жыл бұрын
Another fun fact, that will hurt their stomach and digestive system, even a little. P.s. I learned somewhere else raisins are deadly to animals like cats and dogs
@Mike-pj1kv3 жыл бұрын
A few years later and Chuck still hasn't changed his shirt.
@unyb9 жыл бұрын
OH BOY, HAM
@baronsorgi15 жыл бұрын
u6ny564b why the fuck are they always eating Maggoty ham ?
@dovrose51554 жыл бұрын
Back then, it wasn't maggoty
@icedice63935 жыл бұрын
My dad would kick me in the shin under the table if I didn't follow table manners. Once at a restaurant he made me do pushups outside because I cursed in front of my grandma.
@thatsme97874 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@patriciamackey9239 Жыл бұрын
If I did something wrong at the table my Mom and/or Dad would poke me in the arm with a fork. And it frigging hurt! They did it to my sisters as well.
@stupidmangoz Жыл бұрын
Sounds like an asshole who should have his mouth ripped out of his head. I don't give a single care for someone dying if they hate cursing, it's literally a "bad word" because the people who invented the exclamations were poor. And Christians hated on poor people. Fuck him
@calvinjackson8110 Жыл бұрын
Why would you use obscenity in front of your grandmother? Don't you love and respect her??
@SPKRMN Жыл бұрын
If I done something like that, my dad would spank my butt. Sounds funny but it was painful.
@marcopolo91464 жыл бұрын
Every bit of this advice is true and valuable.
@theanphiban71602 жыл бұрын
Not really
@brettgiddings97752 жыл бұрын
Next time you see a boomer thank him for this instructional video and the state of the economy lol
@icecreamforcrowhurst Жыл бұрын
@@brettgiddings9775not a Baby Boomer, dummy. This this kid is born at the start of WW2, Boomers were the generation born after the war.
@the_CreativeGenius Жыл бұрын
I agree mr
@NorthKoreaUncovered Жыл бұрын
@@brettgiddings9775 The oldest boomer was 6 in 1951 you idiot. This is the era of the Silent Generation. It was their dumbass kids that ruined the economy.
@nameless70474 жыл бұрын
0:44 I do this with my own parents all the time. Never gets old.
@stupidmangoz Жыл бұрын
Cute
@VaclavKosar Жыл бұрын
Actionable Summary: 🙂 - When sitting down to dinner and faced with multiple utensils, then always use the silverware from the outside in. - When dealing with clean dry foods like bread, then it is acceptable to eat them with your fingers. - When dealing with messy or sticky foods, then use a fork. - When holding a fork, then do so by placing the end of the handle in the palm of your hand. - When placing food on your fork, then only put onto your fork one mouthful of food at a time. - When talking during a meal, then lay your fork down until you're ready to eat again. - When eating with a fork and knife, then hold the meat down with the fork and cut and not tear the meat with the knife. - When eating soup, then don't tip the bowl, take the soup away from you, not fill the spoon too much and eat from the side of the spoon. - When offered food you don't like, then politely decline by saying "no thank you". - When you have finished eating, then indicate it by placing your knife and fork this way. - When entering the dining room, then allow ladies to go first. - When finding your place at the table, then remain standing until everyone is seated. - When dining at a social event, then remember the purpose is to have a good time, not to see how much or how fast you can eat. - Always when at a table, remember that good manners involve consideration for others, common sense and courtesy.
@zoewilkins28965 жыл бұрын
Loving that knitwear! 🦌🦌🌲🌲
@JenPurple2022 Жыл бұрын
The best manner is to make ppl around you comfortable and be considerate of others not just focus on you. From Kate Spade
@eolobrontolo9117 Жыл бұрын
Here in Italy, films like this were called "Pubblicità Progresso" or "Dipartimento Scuola Educazione "🙂
@rexoliver7780 Жыл бұрын
Like the scene where Chuck used has “clamshell excavator” to grab some food from across the table!
@mikepeterson7649 жыл бұрын
The father a man who became an internet sensation for say the line "Is it this Friday?"
@liverpool4ever5524 жыл бұрын
I just Love the warmth and coziness in these "reels"
@sonicfan20049 жыл бұрын
"That's the way most of the people in America handle the knife and fork. We don't have to worry with the European method."
@sonicfan20049 жыл бұрын
Oh right, this was filmed just a few years after WWII ...
@nightwing-scp42687 жыл бұрын
no they arent
@ingriddubbel84686 жыл бұрын
Yes, badly.
@lindam.5626 жыл бұрын
I prefere the European one 😋
@Snapepet5 жыл бұрын
Eating tines down. I hate it. @@acecadet8812
@Nina52117 Жыл бұрын
These videos should be featured in todays schools.
@mannalawson432 Жыл бұрын
I was today year's old when I learned the REASON families sit together to eat around the table. 😭
@jodielprynce5 жыл бұрын
I’m addicted to these films
@priscille15772 жыл бұрын
This is so good lol. it's so on point and quite timeless.
@oldblackstock2499 Жыл бұрын
If I could now go back in time and give my young self some advice! No kidding, now I'm in my future. What I mean is, I was young now I'm not. So, I'm in the future that I thought about 45 years ago. Lol.
@anniegoldenberg98487 ай бұрын
Thank you for posting, I use these videos in my third grade classroom. They like them very much, I wish there was a modern version video teaching basic table manners.
@TheGamingMackV2 жыл бұрын
Young chuck several years after this interaction is gonna go back in time to this day and teach his young self some table manners. Chuck is stuck in a paradox.
@skwalka6372 Жыл бұрын
In time travel you travel back to one of the infinitely many parallel worlds and then you grow up in that world, there is no paradox.
@Chernochegger Жыл бұрын
Well not really, considering he goes back after. There are now infinite realities being created after each subsequent Chuck gets visited.
@thomaslucas64033 жыл бұрын
Chuck is in his early 80's if he is still alive. Kind of a sad thought how time screws everyone.
@SuV33358 Жыл бұрын
Father and son matching sweaters ,🤣🤣
@megaslayer92794 жыл бұрын
I don’t understand why I find these hilariously entertaining but I do.
@InternetSavage9 жыл бұрын
God damn nice fucking sweater.
@proud2bpagan5 жыл бұрын
Daymn, evidently parents were real ball busters back in the day.
@pianomaly98593 жыл бұрын
I would love to find sweaters like they are wearing.
@kevincaudle5732 Жыл бұрын
Great Clip
@gracellathanggara55785 жыл бұрын
im learning from all these instructional videos
@bsl919 жыл бұрын
chuck grows up to sound like ricky from i love lucy
@barbaracrickley61915 жыл бұрын
The future Chuck sounds like a boring git.
@pennypay14 жыл бұрын
He did cultivate a rather 'Ricky'- sounding voice. Too bad he didn't develop a mature dress sense. Those reindeer...
@cherylcampbell74955 жыл бұрын
Good gosh my mother must of watched this video..I literally had a teacher write on my report card how good my manners were. Good grief.
@laurag729510 ай бұрын
I hope you let your mom know!
@kevinriley63205 жыл бұрын
This is how the dialogue should be Older Chuck: it's too bad you've already eaten Younger Chuck: that's okay, I can go to the bathroom & make room for more.
@ChuckD792 жыл бұрын
On behalf of Chucks everywhere, let me assure you that not all of us are this ill-mannered! LOL
@maryallison05094 жыл бұрын
It is pretty funny. I swear the writing on the invitation looks exactly like my Mom and Grandma's hand writing. I think that must just be the way they taught girls who were born in the 1910's up to the 1940's to write. It seems like boys weren't taught the same style. Each man in that age range seem to write differently. Grandpa to father in law to father. All wrote differently.Even my mother in law and Grandma in law write that same way. I still like how neat and clear it is to read.
@argonwheatbelly6374 жыл бұрын
My dad writes Palmer, but my mother wrote a very tame, almost Spencerian. I'm Z-B, like my siblings.
@clevelandphil12 жыл бұрын
Shouldn't he more interested in where and when he gets these powers.
@MaybeAnthony6 жыл бұрын
When young Chuck said, "Yeah, like a cream puff?", I knew he was one. I know my people! :)
@sarahmoviereviewer41092 жыл бұрын
I love theses old videos
@aarondowler58511 жыл бұрын
"I'm so hungry I could a HAAAAM"
@axiomist10766 жыл бұрын
Very good video. Makes it all seem logical (which it is.)
@catlady77735 жыл бұрын
No smacking your lips, and elbows off the table, is some of the lessons I learned. If I were to smart off like Chuck did, I would of been automatically excused from the table, and sent to bed with no supper!
@laurag729510 ай бұрын
Yep😊
@keplerscat282 жыл бұрын
The face of the boss at 4:40 is sending me for some reason.
@themuffinbadger11 жыл бұрын
"OH BOY, HAYAM!"
@riggs205 жыл бұрын
Did anyone catch Barbara's last name at 1:50? It looks like "Miljević." Which I think is pretty cool given it's an Eastern European name. Most of these old video characters are very Anglo with names like Smith, Wilson, & Roberts.
@colleen63415 жыл бұрын
okay this actually helped me eat miso soup without dribbling it all over myself like a goof
@FavoretFox11 жыл бұрын
It's only a Kurt Cobain
@kickking5660 Жыл бұрын
Chuck is a rebel thanks to the jazz music 😅
@saminicole44384 жыл бұрын
Me listening to the way he talked to his parents without a punishment: 👁👄👁
@Ash_926 Жыл бұрын
I would have been beaten so badly 😂
@GDO663524 жыл бұрын
Thought this would be funny and dumb, but I’m sad to say I actually learned a few things
@aclown365 жыл бұрын
Him 15 years Later: Oh Boy,NAM!
@cveis56784 жыл бұрын
I don't know how he doesn't recognize the older boy as himself, just look at the matching sweater. Oh boy I can barely tell them apart LOL
@NitroDubzzz11 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed learning about good long manhood today
@toastmaster30209 жыл бұрын
This is why I hate the 1950s. You could be telling your parents about a murder you saw while eating dinner and the parents first remark would be to yell at you about speaking with your mouth full.
@inkey29 жыл бұрын
+Toast Master People who were alive back then know these films are not accurate. These films just served as a "suggestion" on how to act in public or at the dinner table etc. Just as dental hygiene films are a suggestion for optimal dental health....it doesn't mean people actually do it. There are generations of people who have formed their entire impressions of the 1950s based on these "public service" films. Kids in the 50s used to laugh at these films when shown in school.
@toastmaster30209 жыл бұрын
+inkey2 Good to hear that, although my comment wasn't meant to be serious.
@michaelmcbride50128 жыл бұрын
I grew up in the 50s and you're right; we did laugh at these films. But people looking back at them from today are sure going to get the wrong idea of the 1950s. lol
@natebit81305 жыл бұрын
@@michaelmcbride5012 is it ok to try learning from these films?
@charliewilliamson83605 жыл бұрын
Yes because that's a good reason to hate an entire decade
@DaThings11 жыл бұрын
NO! WON!
@antster19835 жыл бұрын
*GOOD LONG MANHOOD* "Oh Boi, HAAAM!"
@PurpleDog254 жыл бұрын
Is it this Friday?
@tonichappell75966 жыл бұрын
1:50 Party is on ELM street...it's going to be a NIGHTMARE i tells ya!!
@thomasgrove27246 жыл бұрын
Let's imagine the family at dinner with nobody at dinner.
@rusevdai58102 жыл бұрын
No.... one!!!
@richardpodnar5039 Жыл бұрын
I'm sure that the 14-year-old kid is encouraged that he'll be so good-looking when he turns 21!😛
@deepideepi10175 жыл бұрын
Very useful video even in 2019!!!
@kathrynstephenson55538 жыл бұрын
chuck is a fucking savage
@flanplan59033 жыл бұрын
I honestly laughed quite a bit during this video...just how nonchalant everyone is to the craziness around them (well except for table manners, duh) is just comic gold.
@StBarts-hn1qw8 жыл бұрын
Back when people had class, morals, pride and respect. Traits that are lost on about 80% of this society.
@behindthen0thing6 жыл бұрын
St. Barts I guess
@Default1586 жыл бұрын
St. Barts Your an idiot
@SyonisMacias6 жыл бұрын
They also beat their wives, had affairs, yelled racial slurs. So not really a back when
@behindthen0thing6 жыл бұрын
Syonis Macias-Johnson sounds the same as today
@systemcm69786 жыл бұрын
r/lewronggeneration
@HittenRun112 жыл бұрын
"You don't have to worry about eating the European method!" hahaha!
@heatherrussell82553 жыл бұрын
Nice reindeer sweater, Chuck and Future Chuck.
@pgh45rpms4 ай бұрын
Probably a Christmas present from Nanna.
@djtoona5 жыл бұрын
Thanks, FutureSelf for giving me useless tips on silverware etiquette! But couldn't you have dropped some future tips on future winning racehorses or stocks that will soar in the future?
@jimmeven11202 жыл бұрын
That sort of information sharing is against the Time Travel Code of Conduct.
@timothygwong31517 жыл бұрын
Good table manners is important.
@CountingHouse11 жыл бұрын
Fucking Hell, did he keep that t shirt on through his entire puberty?
@baronsorgi15 жыл бұрын
Graham Paterson It’s saved on buying any condoms whatsoever
@riggs205 жыл бұрын
Sadly, future Chuck is quite a bit larger than young Chuck. Which means he actually went out and bought that sweater *again,* in a bigger size!
@sharikulislam62327 жыл бұрын
Anyone else think that Dad sounds like Hank Hill??
@Kelle02844 жыл бұрын
That boy ain't right.
@MsChicomarx4 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@clyde42969 ай бұрын
This is what the youth needs to be watching these days !!! PS instead of Tik Tok !!!
@PurpleDog25 Жыл бұрын
“Chuck! No dessert until you’ve had your cigarette!”
@thegreatcarraway10 жыл бұрын
GOOD LONG MANHOOD
@linmendoza4478 Жыл бұрын
What an interesting movie
@Velvettyy_5 жыл бұрын
why does his future self sound like desi arnaz without the accent lol
@germanicusfink23505 жыл бұрын
2:03 So Chuck is going to wear the exact same clothes for the next ten years? How do they still fit?
@drewconway71354 жыл бұрын
germanicus fink If you never take them off, they stretch very slowly.
@edgarpoinsot55025 жыл бұрын
Chuck visualized wearing the same nice style of clothing at his twenties, because for him that was perfect. And perfect worlds MUST NO change never.
@TheCRAZYCAT684 жыл бұрын
What was Chuck`s name again?
@weissbrot-rg9hd11 ай бұрын
"But sir I am on a heavy bulk." xD
@CTComixProductions11 жыл бұрын
Oh boy Ham!
@JamesPlaysGames9511 жыл бұрын
i was expecting him to say "is it this friday" at 1:43
@ruxrox Жыл бұрын
If only I appeared to myself! I'm a cesspool of manners, now!