I think that some marriages are not put together by GOD or even blessed, but our desire. If we do not have the blessing of Almighty GOD, the marriage is doomed to failure.
@bellaroccisano4156 Жыл бұрын
I 💯 agree
@kristafloral Жыл бұрын
💯Agree! Personally I think most marriages, including Christian marriages, nowadays are outside of GOD’s will. Too many want to rush in and not seeking GOD’s will or timing or discernment and the marriage turns out to be plagued with problems. Many are the result of a wolf in sheep’s clothing taking grotesque advantage of an unsuspecting sheep and heavily manipulating them into rushing into marriage or eloping with them… only for the sheep to realize they were conned by an abuser and forced to leave for their own safety.
@philipbuckley75911 ай бұрын
any marriage, under any culture, or religion, or lack of.....the marriage is sanctioned....otherwise, on conversion one would have to remarry or leave that relationship, and it never happens...ergo....the marriages are put together, by God...
@christoprighteous819910 ай бұрын
Did you take a vow? To death do us part?
@staceyannmills49199 ай бұрын
True
@lancegoodall59113 ай бұрын
The reference to being ‘bound’is NOT a condition for remarriage, but rather provides the option of leaving the spouse, that’s all.
@DouglasNicholson-ff6ep2 ай бұрын
The scripture you just quoted word for word. What chapter and verse is that in the KJV Bible? I can't find it.
@philipbuckley75928 күн бұрын
@@DouglasNicholson-ff6ep not under bondage....1 Cor 7.15
@scotchbudmeister90187 ай бұрын
The enemy got our marriage of 25 years. Both believers, wife filed, irreconcilable differences. We're divorced by the state but still married in God's eyes.
@hamilton9651 Жыл бұрын
I sinned against God and my wife. She asked for a separation. I accepted that because I hurt her. I will not date no matter what. If we reconcile great, but if not we will remain separated, and I will remain single and celibate forever.
@dwightwilliams311 Жыл бұрын
May God be with you. I am in the same boat. I don't know what will happen to me now.
@4VRFIERCE10 ай бұрын
@@dwightwilliams311wait so you go to hell since you’re divorced ? Can you get married again
@4VRFIERCE10 ай бұрын
@@alexhamilton624 being remarried will exclude you from Gods kingdom?
@stever5076 ай бұрын
Never been married here . I started dating a divorced woman and realized that God takes marriage very seriously. I originally wanted to marry her so we could be together intimately. Later realized that marriage is so much more than that. I don’t think I would be a good husband anyway. So I will just remain single and celibate. This is good discipline
@josephmuszik93754 ай бұрын
@@4VRFIERCEapparently religion says you go to hell if you remarry. But I have not ripped John chapter out of my Bible. May I suggest you get a new Bible that has not removed John chapter 4.
@stevehicks39921 күн бұрын
This still leads to confusion. People accept and interpret what they want to believe
@reneebanks616411 ай бұрын
Thank you, thank you thank you so much for opening up more of my understanding to marriage, remarriage and adultery and what’s covered in the Bible if you remarry in cases from the word of God, that would allow you too. You really broke it down my brother and I got a better understanding. Thank you so much I appreciate you allowing God to use you.
@philipbuckley7595 ай бұрын
there does not seem to be any exceptions....many use fornication, to be sexual immorality, where as sex, out of the covenant relation has its own term....adultery....and the other is to assume that not under bondage means not bound.....it is a delicate issue, and I, for one, dont want to get caught up, on the wrong side of this teaching.....
@24guitarkid2411 ай бұрын
Where do you get your interpretations from? I don't find any of that in the Bible at all. I've been studying divorce and remarriage for over two and a half years, and the Bible for 30. Nowhere does it say you are allowed to remarry if you're the innocent party it just doesn't. Man assumes that because it sounds fair and right to them. God's ways are not our ways. A covenant is for life until death do you part. Like they say you cannot unscramble eggs. You are correct that fornication is a type of sexual immorality ,and that is what the earliest manuscripts used fornication. Fornication is sex between unmarried people therefore married people cannot commit fornication. The fornication exception clause was written for the Jews because of the the betrothal period . If a man found out the next morning after they consummated the marriage that his wife was not a virgin he was allowed to divorce her and remarry. You really need to go back and study and not follow man. If a man divorces his wife and she marries another he causes her to commit adultery. No mention of whether she is the innocent party or not. We cannot add scripture or assume anything. I rather play it safe and honor my covenant then satisfy my flesh to be in another romantic relationship. The reason these different Bible translations use words like sexual immorality or unchasty or unfaithfulness is because of copyright laws. It's really sad because when you change those words it changes the meaning of what the original intent was for. We need to be very careful who we follow for our spiritual knowledge. Stick to the Bible. Go back and read what the earliest church fathers wrote about marriage. It is completely different from what we teach today, and that is a sad truth.
@Thomas116-m2n11 ай бұрын
Porneia/Fornication/Sexual Immorality are situations where the participants are married and single. Married people commit fornication by having sex with someone with whom they are not married. For Matthew being about the betrothal period, why did the Pharisees ask Jesus about marriage and he answered them about the betrothal period. Pharisees: Can you divorce your wife for any reason? Jesus: You can't separate from your fiance for any reason except her cheating on you....or it is adultery. As far as remarriage goes, it had been happening for centuries, sometimes for the accepted reasons and sometimes for the wrong reasons. Jesus never talked directly about homosexuality, either, but he didn't need to as the topic was assumed. Why didn't Jesus and Paul tell everyone....."Some of you have been married to other people besides your current spouses and the former spouses are still alive....you need to leave your current spouse....have your former spouse leave theirs and then the two of you rejoin....That or just stay single....(though it's going to be a lot harder for the women). Question-have you given away all of your possessions to the poor? Why not? Jesus said to.
@jasonmckay87935 ай бұрын
so if I'm a believer and she's defiantly not shes all new age well crap, I can remarry? cause I dont really want to be alone for the rest of my life :(. can u plz clarify for me.
@aquatalliahbouchon50054 ай бұрын
Read 1 Corinthians 7:15. Paul was very careful to say I, not the Lord . He insinuated that if the unbeliever leaves the marriage, the, the believer is not bound in such circumstances.
@josefjking3082 ай бұрын
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never! Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No! Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not! Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't! So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible). But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication. Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint.
@wingamwila411328 күн бұрын
I'm a lawyer and i find the arguments for and against remarriage in the video compelling. The texts can reasonably be construed using various principles and the language itself makes it plain when you read the verses at least twice. It doesn't even seem unreasonable that God in his mercy would allow for the innocent party to remarry in the highlighted circumstances. He remembers that we are dust and i understand that he is even more gracious than our own justice systems regarding these matters... whatever the case God bless and may he speak to our hearts seeing as his law has been written on our hearts also.
@jayb7870Ай бұрын
Thanks for the video it was very insightful, and I will be reading more of the full verses that were mentioned. I'm in the middle of divorcing a believer who has chosen for years to not give up adultery so even though I'm already in the midst of divorcing him, I am still trying to educate myself on what God has said about the matter. Again, great content on info 👍🏾
@jiwakumusic10 ай бұрын
1 Corinthians 13:4-7' is what we all need. Save your relationship, save your marriage right now by learning and living these words by heart.
@sleric3 Жыл бұрын
Ephisian 5: 31 > For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. 32 > This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. I think we should not overlook the next verse [32], which clearly states that “I speak concerning Christ and the church”. The author is applying or extrapolating the concept of Christ being the groom and the Church is his faithful bride to husbands and wives. This is the context, i think. Genesis 2: 24 > Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. This verse explains that men should couple with women. Matthew 19: 5 > and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? 9 > I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery. The context of this account has to be considered. Some Pharisees wanted to pick on Jesus and test his knowledge and he answered in the context of the Torah. He knew their intentions to smear him. Jesus did not acknowledge Moses “certificate of divorce” as Law. Matthew 5: 32 > But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the grounds of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery. The whole context of the Book of Matthew has to be considered. The Book combines the Law (old testament) and the new covenant (testament). 18 > For truly, I say to you, until heaven and earth pass away (end of times), not an iota, not a dot, will pass from the Law until all is accomplished. Basically Jesus is telling us the door is closed under the Law. Which is similar to Genesis 3:24 - So he drove out the man; and he placed at the east of the garden of Eden Cherubims, and a flaming sword which turned every way, to keep the way of the tree of life. Matthew 11: 28 > Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29 > Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 > For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light. Matthew 6: 12 > and forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. (Lord’s prayer extract) Malachi 2 And now, O ye priests, this commandment is for you. This is out of scope since it is addressed to the priests. It deals with Israel breach of its covenant with God. Divorce and remarriage is a forgivable sin. Source: ESV
@wildfornature_ Жыл бұрын
I've never understood how this is applied to abusive marriages. Was I not allowed to leave my abusive spouse and have to suffer until he kills me or until I commit suicide? After 15 years, I HAD to get out. So how does this apply to abusive marriages?
@grant2149 Жыл бұрын
Seperation NOT Divorce. Even if you remained seperated to safety. No biblical grounds
@kristafloral Жыл бұрын
*Speaking as someone who endured 13 years of covert narcissistic abuse from my husband (only because all I heard from other Christians (ignorant of and soft on the issue of abuse) is “GOD doesn’t like divorce so just be a good wife and pray for him.* *Friends, that is one of the most Biblically ignorant, loveless, Un-Christlike and dangerous things you can say to anyone who is being abused! Abuse is an extremely serious matter which can escalate to irreparable harm and sadly even death of the victim(s) and should NEVER be taken lightly!* *I can confidently say that I speak from the LORD that although Scripture may not mention the issue of “abuse” regarding marriage and divorce…*. *GOD MAY NOT LIKE DIVORCE, BUT GOD VEHEMENTLY HATES ABUSE AND DEEPLY LOVES AND CARES FOR THE VICTIM AND DOES NOT WANT THE VICTIM TO STAY IN THAT SOUL-DESTROYING NIGHTMARE , BUT TO HELP THE VICTIM TO LEAVE THE ABUSER! FOR THE SAKE OF THE VICTIM’S SAFETY, THEIR VERY LIFE AND SOUL AND RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD AND THAT OF THEIR CHILDREN, IF CHILDREN ARE INVOLVED!* *PRAY FOR THE ABUSER TO REPENT AND GET RIGHT WITH GOD. ASK THE LORD TO HELP YOU TO GET OUT OF THAT SITUATION, TO HELP YOU TO FORGIVE, BUT STAY FAR AWAY FROM THE ABUSER AND LET GOD HANDLE THEM HOWEVER THE LORD WILLS, WHILE THE LORD HELPS AND PROTECTS YOU, THE VICTIM!* *Abuse is a blatant violation of the marriage covenant. Abuse is demonic and vehemently against GOD. It is hate, not love. Hate is m*rder in CHRIST’s sight. Unless the victim gets help and leaves the abuser, it can destroy the victim from the inside out or physically, or drive the victim to suicidal depression, or into sin and bitterness and be destructive to their relationship with GOD! NOT ANYTHING OR ANYONE IS WORTH THE DESTRUCTION OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD!* *It is IMPERATIVE the victim IMMEDIATELY leaves the abuser and stays far away from the abuser to save their own life and soul and that of their children if children are involved! INCLUDING DIVORCE!* *The Scriptures say if one spouse divorces the other let them remain unmarried or reconcile… CONSIDER WISDOM HERE- and heed the very serious warning to NEVER reconcile with an abuser no matter how much they “promise to change”, don’t fall for it! It is wisdom to remain unmarried, far away from the abuser and be very thankful to the LORD!* *And if you as the victim feel there has been any damage to your relationship with GOD (perhaps any bitterness, or unforgiveness, anger or anything else it may be) then ask the LORD for forgiveness and healing, and to help you to walk in love (coupled with wisdom and establishing/maintaining healthy boundaries) and help you in restoring right relationship with Him!* *Psalm 23:* *”“The LORD is my Shepherd; I shall not want. He makes me to lie down in green pastures; He leads me beside the still waters. He restores my soul; He leads me in the paths of righteousness For His name’s sake. Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil; For You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; You anoint my head with oil; My cup runs over. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me All the days of my life; And I will dwell in the house of the LORD Forever.”* _______ *Psalm 23 AMPC:* *”The LORD is my Shepherd [to feed, guide, and shield me], I shall not lack. He makes me lie down in [fresh, tender] green pastures; He leads me beside the still and restful waters. [Rev. 7:17.] He refreshes and restores my life (my self); He leads me in the paths of righteousness [uprightness and right standing with Him-not for my earning it, but] for His name's sake. Yes, though I walk through the [deep, sunless] valley of the shadow of death, I will fear or dread no evil, for You are with me; Your rod [to protect] and Your staff [to guide], they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my [brimming] cup runs over. Surely or only goodness, mercy, and unfailing love shall follow me all the days of my life, and through the length of my days the house of the Lord [and His presence] shall be my dwelling place.”* *Also PSALMS 91 & 103 ….* *Grace and Peace!*
@wildfornature_ Жыл бұрын
@@kristafloral This is exactly how I've always felt in my heart and mind about it!! THANK YOU 🙏🙏
@kristafloral Жыл бұрын
@@wildfornature_ I am so sorry you went through that! Praise the LORD that He brought you out of it! I hope all is well with you now! I pray the LORD will restore to you many-fold the good for all the trouble you endured! ❤️ Please share my comments on social media if you like. I believe victims of abuse, especially Christians, need to know that they have rights and that GOD loves them and is on their side and wants to help rescue them! No one deserves to be abused and should never be made to feel that GOD is so against divorce that He is actually against the victim’s well-being and leaving a life threatening situation. In many cases divorce has proven the only recourse the victim has to truly protect them and any children involved, and be free to heal and go forward with their life. Love and blessings in CHRIST! ✝️🙏❤️
@tam1729 Жыл бұрын
Divorce and remain single.
@juke1225 Жыл бұрын
The scripture seems to be directed towards those instigating the divorce not the receiver who doesn’t have control over it. Is anyone else seeing this?
@MoonMoon-fx1op Жыл бұрын
Especially for a man
@philipbuckley75911 ай бұрын
er....no.....there is no innocent party, in a divorce...
@escalus845 ай бұрын
(except in Luke 16:18 (or Matt 5:32) when it forbids a man to married a divorced woman, whether she instigated the divorce or not.
@daguroswaldson2573 ай бұрын
Thank you. This really cleared up a question I had. But I still don't want my wife to divorce me, even if I have the biblical right. I love her dearly. 😢
@Susieq267547 ай бұрын
Women, if your spouse is cheating or beating you. Make a plan and leave. God would not have you being abused.
@jenisebrooks4308Ай бұрын
Leave but not remarry
@davefreeman93475 ай бұрын
I only found God with my second wife my first wife committed adultery and had an affair and our marriage fell apart but as I said I found God with my first wife but feel sometimes I’m committing adultry and therefore need to leave my second wife which would break her heart and my kids hearts or hope that my first wife dies before me what a situation to be in may Hod have mercy on my soul in Jesus’s name 😢 AMEN
@aquatalliahbouchon50054 ай бұрын
You're exempt from this, you were not a believer when you got a divorce. You are not committing adultery.
@mfrihet82947 күн бұрын
My dear brother, read the book Divorce, God’s gift of love
@davefreeman93477 күн бұрын
@@mfrihet8294 thank you 🙏 I will look into this I have spoken to God many times about this now and feel a lot better about my situation
@davefreeman93477 күн бұрын
@@aquatalliahbouchon5005 Thankyou I have spoken to God many times about my situation and feel a lot better about it now 🙏
@duhg605911 ай бұрын
Hmmm he reads from many translations so far removed from kjv.. you can divorce but never remarry.. as long as your covent spouse lives you may not remarry luke 16:18 mark 10:11-12 romans 7 2-3 .. your 2 choices are remain unmarried or be reconciled.. no 3rd choice because all remarriage while your covenant spouse lives is adultery.. people look for loopholes to appease their flesh.. die to you flesh ... but be doers of the word not hearing only deceiving yourselves..
@Bigherm1965 ай бұрын
I agree with you on this but this guy on the video is misinterpreting the scripture. This guy is a LIAR
@bellgrand4 ай бұрын
Matthew 19:9 is the same in KJV. The presence of the exception in this verse cannot be ignored. 1 Cor 7:15 is actually even clearer in KJV than in other translations because it uses "bondage" rather than "enslaved." You speak of loopholes, but you blind yourself to his words as well as that of his Apostle. And Romans 7:2-3 is descriptive, not prescriptive. The passage is not a teaching about divorce, but the nature of the Law.
@isaacramos80524 ай бұрын
KJV is not the absolute standard. There are translations that are more pure than the KJV.
@doglover19601Ай бұрын
@@isaacramos8052which ones?
@gentlemenssmoke10 ай бұрын
If you in your right mind are depressed, not happy, and have done everything in your power to fix the marriage and yet there is resolve on ether end. Leave you can repent and move forward with forgiveness. No person deserves to live in hell and not have the opportunity to have a healthy marriage just because of an old estimated rule either
@philipbuckley75910 ай бұрын
there is a way, that seems right, to man, that leads, to death, and this topic is the most common way to forfeit your salvation..
@mightyfineanderson4 ай бұрын
If a spouse commits adultery then the innocent party is not bound to them. Because God allows divorce due to adultery. So he doesn't hold the innocent party accountable. It's like the marriage is null and void
@r.o.b.480Ай бұрын
James 3:1 - Not many of you should become teachers, my fellow believers, because you know that we who teach will be judged more strictly.
@chrissysvideos Жыл бұрын
This can be a tricky subject.....God loves us all and we do sin. I know He is just to forgive if we made mistakes concerning this topic. I'm divorce and so was my new husband, and we got married and we are saved and will stay together......I know the Lord understands and loves us and honors our new commitment.
@truthseekermd593 Жыл бұрын
No He doesn't. He only honors the the commitment and covenant with your first husband. If your first husband is still alive and you are remarried, you are living in sin and commiting adultery.
@truthseekermd593 Жыл бұрын
That's why you say till death do us part, you and your spouse are making a covenant before the most high to remain together until death. Getting a divorce isn't a sin, but if you divorce for whatever reason, Jesus said you are to remain unmarried or be reconciled to you first spouse. It's one man and one woman for life. God doesn't honor second or third marriages, only the first. Hope this provides clarity. God bless you 🙏🏾.
@janelleallen1081 Жыл бұрын
@messengeroftruth3811👍
@janelleallen1081 Жыл бұрын
@@truthseekermd593👍
@philipbuckley75910 ай бұрын
emotion, the foundation of false teachings...
@jaywalker5269 Жыл бұрын
My parents 😢 divorced long ago when I was just a kid Later on my dad remarried but my mum is still single i don't know how I can share this message 😢 with them since they have never been in good terms
@JoinUsInVR Жыл бұрын
I'm in a similar boat. Is it possible the message is for you? To give you clarity regarding their marriage? Or to help others in a similar situation? Either way, sure to both love and honor them when they do honorable things. Remain focused on Christ, and share Christ. And all things will come together for good, and for His glory.
@jaywalker5269 Жыл бұрын
@@JoinUsInVR Amen 🙏🙏
@autumn_o-2225 ай бұрын
Sounds like your dad is living in adultery, while your mum is ok. I'm sorry you had to go through this.. no one wins in divorce 😥
@jaywalker52695 ай бұрын
@@autumn_o-222 yes it's not a good experience for me
@Steph-qz2ll4 ай бұрын
What you can do is pray to God to forgive any iniquities, unknown or known between all parties. You can pray that He brings your parents to a point of repentence and convicts them. Keep praying. Maybe you could even pray for the opportunity to address it all with them. 🙏 ❤
@israelpierre4002 Жыл бұрын
My divorce was finalized yesterday I love my wife so much I really don’t know what to do I begged her to stay and fix the problem but she said no.
@philipbuckley75910 ай бұрын
sadly there is not much that you can do....
@BibleBasedAdviceFromAndre7 ай бұрын
Pray pray pray and stay single by faith knowing God has the power to perform heart surgery on her and bring her back to you. Just remember that if God does convict her heart and she repents and comes back to be reconciled unto you, how can she if you are in another relationship?
@moss5348 ай бұрын
I had to look at these scriptures again as the years have gone by and I forgot them. I wondered if I am in the clear to one day date again. Apparently I am. I think my circumstance would be confusing for people to understand. I was thinking how some Christians feel like they need to go up to every divorced or remarried person and tell them to repent. I think they should be very careful with that. If they are just like having a chat and the person mentions hey my hubby and I just were not a good fit so we divorced and now I am engaged that might be a good time to let them know but just asuming every divorced person or remarrying person is in sin and confronting them is crazy and a bit nosy.
@marcellofunhouse1234 Жыл бұрын
My dad wont get remarried probably since he just lost his wife to cancer randomly this year and i lost my mom
@Lauren-vd4qe Жыл бұрын
dont underestimate the power of wanting/needing someone; its not unheard of for suddenly singled people to promptly take up another relationship within a couple months, and get remarried within a year. everyone needs someone.
@deanfry879 Жыл бұрын
There is a time for grief, and only One who truly knows that grief to whom we can pour out everything we think and feel, just as He invites us to (Psalm 62:8).
@richardbarry04553 Жыл бұрын
@@Lauren-vd4qeI really need someone but I’m unclear on what God wants me to do. My wife divorced me over three years ago while we were both unbelieving atheists. Then I was saved a year later. I’ve been desperately lonely and in need of companionship but I’ve been all alone all this time now. I’ve been praying for my ex-wife to be saved and for reconciliation but she is now seeing a new man and they go on trips all over and spend lots of time together while I’m alone and suffering terribly. I’m only 46 years old so unless the Lord returns soon I have a lot of years probably left to keep going on like this. I don’t know what to do except keep asking the Lord for guidance and trusting in Him.
@joshuakarr-BibleMan Жыл бұрын
Less than a year is way, way to fast to hope for something like that. A sound relationship, strong enough to survive marriage, takes a long time to form, months or years. That comes after the time needed to heal from the loss of a spouse, which could be months or years. I think, if a widower married in less than a couple years after the event, it would become the hardest relationship he ever experienced.
@Lauren-vd4qe Жыл бұрын
a couple years? i doubt most people wait that long. I wouldnt. I lost a spouse to divorce, now im married almost 50 yrs. and i met n married him in 9 months, its going well. @@joshuakarr-BibleMan
@garvinsmith455513 сағат бұрын
THINGS THAT MAKE NO SENCE AT ALL... Because divorce is a sin, it is very difficult for me to believe that the Lord would die for our sins and then allow us to sin by allowing us to divorce... And how can the new covernant be a new covernant when something of the old, something that the Lord really hates, namely divorce, is allowed in the new?
@Lauren-vd4qe Жыл бұрын
I divorced my abusive ex bc he was immoral. BUT, if YOU are stuck in a verbally/physically abusive marriage, go live elsewhere where he cannot find you, get a different job, move far away from him. go no contact. eventually he WILL COMMIT THAT sin of immorality, then u can divorce him. worked for me! only took him a couple months to realize i was NEVER coming back, so he found other willing partners. easy peasy!
@Lauren-vd4qe Жыл бұрын
@nathanaeldavid6238 verbally n physically abusive then took up with other females.
@deanfry879 Жыл бұрын
From what you said, I would judge your former husband as a sucker, too (Proverbs 22:14; Romans 1:21,24). "The two shall become one." If they separate, do they separate as the same, or does a piece of each go with the other. If the second, it is obvious why God hates divorce. If the second, what upsets you the most now, the piece of him that remained in you, or the piece of you now missing, or both. May the Lord complete your healing and may the Lord bring your former husband to his senses.
@Lauren-vd4qe Жыл бұрын
@@deanfry879 when i left, trust me, there was NONE of him left with me, except a very bitter taste for men and marriage altogether. i dont think he will come to his senses, hes deceased very likely.
@Lauren-vd4qe Жыл бұрын
@messengeroftruth3811 oh so i should have just stayed as a punching bag; got it. Im NOT going to do that. HE was the one that screwed up not me.
@jamesgeorge65 Жыл бұрын
@@Lauren-vd4qeNobody is saying you should have stayed in that sort of situation. I would have told you to leave. However, I would not tell you to divorce in that situation. And, I agree that if he commits adultery during that separation, you have biblical right to divorce.
@leonseva49804 күн бұрын
This video shows how confusing this topic is, especially in the Church. I am coming to the conclusion that God hates divorce, but is merciful. IMO, Jesus plainly says that anyone who marries a divorced woman commits adultery. I believe this is what shocked His disciples to say then that no one should get married.
@MCR19725 ай бұрын
How can it be an exception clause But then God says you are bound as long as your spouse lives
@zanycarnivore3036 Жыл бұрын
Love this channel. Thank you for this knowledgeable video ❤
@chasehedges6775 Жыл бұрын
💯💯👍
@jackcoleman59557 ай бұрын
Incredible clarity here, thank you.
@jms855 Жыл бұрын
Well, if we were all perfect then Christianity is a dead fish in the water. Jesus said that our sin are forgiven when we accept him. This isn't a license to sin but it definitely does not mean that you are unforgiven if you have divorced.
@philipbuckley75911 ай бұрын
divorce is not a sin, as the options are to reconcile or remain unmarried...
@philipbuckley75910 ай бұрын
divorce is not the issue, it is the remarriage...
@Gloriagal78 Жыл бұрын
Does pornography, addiction count as adultery?
@Keithlovejenny Жыл бұрын
Sin
@kristafloral Жыл бұрын
Matthew 5:28-29 - JESUS said: “But I say, anyone who even looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart. So if your eye-even your good eye-causes you to lust, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell.” So to answer your question, YES, the practice of or addiction to viewing pornography is also adultery and a violation of the marriage covenant.
@philipbuckley75910 ай бұрын
no....
@matthewbrown9027 Жыл бұрын
The bible is clearly about remarriage after divorce. The bible does allowed separation or a divorce but NEVER get remarried. Jesus and Paul says the same thing about remarriage. 1 Corinthians 7:39 Paul says only way to remarry is death of a spouse. People like to change Jesus words to make themselves feel better. Only death can one get remarry. Jesus said remarriage after divorce that person shall be called a adulterous. You can't get around Jesus teaching. Paul gave more details about separation but still said like Jesus only death on a spouse to remarry. This is a hard teaching to grasp but the bible is clear about remarriage after divorce.
@darthjedi99 Жыл бұрын
100 %
@MoonMoon-fx1op Жыл бұрын
Naw. People are adding way too much. The rules are different for men and women. Marriage was made for man. There is no Scripture against a man remarrying whose wife divorced him.
@matthewbrown9027 Жыл бұрын
@@MoonMoon-fx1op Paul is clear on this issue. 1 Corinthians 7:39 Paul said death of a spouse then can one remarry.
@MoonMoon-fx1op Жыл бұрын
@@matthewbrown9027 Paul says that about a WOMAN. Now find me the Scripture that charges a MAN with adultery if his WIFE LEAVES HIM and HE remarries (a woman that is eligible obviously). I'll wait.
@matthewbrown9027 Жыл бұрын
@@MoonMoon-fx1op Matthew 19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery; and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery: Whosoever is the man and marry another commieth adultery.
@aquatalliahbouchon50054 ай бұрын
I'm not passing judgment on anyone but why are people so obsessed with getting remarried. What about focusing on your relationship with God and making Him a priority.
@giftedtheos3 ай бұрын
Are you married?
@aquatalliahbouchon50053 ай бұрын
@@giftedtheos No. My relationship with God is more important than finding a husband.
@wingamwila411328 күн бұрын
Where do you say the desire for companionship and marriage come from in the first place??@@aquatalliahbouchon5005
@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj9 ай бұрын
I have broken that bond before and l knew better l hope the lord forgave me
@samuelzulu97316 ай бұрын
reconcile
@aquatalliahbouchon50054 ай бұрын
There's no where God said He won't forgive. Don't be too hard on yourself. Satan will use the situation to accuse you, don't allow him.
@uniquelyblu35 ай бұрын
I am ready after 17 years…. I forgive my spouse but I truly believe this was us NOT GOD! Eight years ago I began the process and didn’t go through with it but it’s been a struggle these past 8 years. Both are miserable together when trying to make it work. We work better separately! Pray for us!!!
@jaydraper2929 Жыл бұрын
You didn't even mention the first three verses of Romans chapter 7
@AndersonChao-vs3zfКүн бұрын
what do you think that if your wife cheat on you and run away from you to marries with other ?
@kerstenukatz86723 ай бұрын
Thank you for this interesting video. I had to think about the last words you said "....even if the divorce or remarriage is not covered under the exception clause of...." The logical consequence of your words are that a person can remarry, although not being "allowed" to but still be under God's love (????). Thrrefore, when analysing your statement, fact is that a remarried person, in the case of God not agreeing, really continues living in sin. And that is deliberate sinning (Hebrews 10,26) with fatal consequences.
@Thomas116-m2n2 ай бұрын
All sin is deliberate. By your rationale, a believer who is a former heroin addict, ends up relapsing and dying from that relapse. He's going to Hell, correct? It was his last sin, so....
@kerstenukatz86722 ай бұрын
@@Thomas116-m2nyes, in my understanding he would go to hell because if he had really asked Jesus for help, if he had put his soul at the feet of Jesus, Jesus would have healed him. When Jesus heals, you are healed. Also, if God saw a chance of turning to him, I am sure he would give the addict a chance once more. Looking at divorce again: When 2 Christians get divorced and one gets married again, hence breaking the marriage, he can ask for forgiveness but has to get divorced from his second spouse and live by himself to obey God's will. Otherwise it would be equivalent to a bank robber coming to belief in prison. One would then think that he was saved. But if he does not return the stolen money to the bank, he is not saved.
@MakeRoomForGod Жыл бұрын
Either one is under His grace or they aren't. Either ALL sins (past, present and future) are forgiven or NONE are. If one wants to straddle grace with the law, then good luck with that. As for me, I'll trust and put my faith in Christ's shed blood for ALL my sins. Just remember folks, if you're relying on even 1% of your salvation on YOUR own work and deeds, that's a recipe for disaster. If you believe you must follow one law, then all the rest must be followed as well. PERFECTLY. 🙏✝️🙏
@MakeRoomForGod Жыл бұрын
@@alexhamilton624 and so are these... Jesus said to him, “‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ And the second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ (Matthew 22:37, 39) Are you doing these? Both of them each and "every" day? With all your heart (including your mind as He states)? Is your home filled with those less fortunate than yourself my friend? Serious question. 🤔✝️🤔
@MakeRoomForGod Жыл бұрын
@@alexhamilton624 Really...so if a person gets saved while they are married to a woman that was divorced before, he should divorce her? 🤔✝️🤔 Btw, you never did answer my question about your following the two commandments that Jesus said all the others wrap into. 🤷♂️✝️🤷♂️
@MakeRoomForGod Жыл бұрын
@@alexhamilton624 so let me make sure I understand, you acknowledge, everyday you aren't loving God with all your heart, mind and soul, and you aren't filling your house with those less fortunate than you, "yet" the very next day, nothing changes? I thought you said we should repent of that sin and do different the next. Is one sin different than another? 🤔🤷♂️🤔
@Thomas116-m2n11 ай бұрын
@@MakeRoomForGod That's what marriage idolators believe, yes, that you should divorce your current spouse. Even if the two of you were saved AFTER your divorce and marriage to her. And that if you do not, you are going to Hell and have forfeited your salvation as you are an adulterer (never mind the sexual thoughts they were thinking about the woman they saw at the beach last summer....that's different, haha).
@Thomas116-m2n11 ай бұрын
@@MakeRoomForGod Yes. David was justified with Bathsheba as he had Uriah killed. So if you just kill her ex-husband, all is good and it's not an adulterous relationship. Just ask forgiveness for the murder and you're good to go. That's truly how many of them see it. Another tactic is running straight to the Greek and giving a slanted definition of what a word meant in those days.
@darryltognarelli6769 Жыл бұрын
A first time marriage is marriage a divorce is a divorce if one has remarried and tried to get back with the first it’s called condemnation and against Gods will!! Adultery is adultery no matter what
@philipbuckley75910 ай бұрын
so you remain unmarried....
@pattiholliday6407 Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@deanfry879 Жыл бұрын
So why is the divorce rate so high among alledged believers. If God is so prepared to deal with two sinners coming together, why are the people who claim to believe in Him not so ready. We make more rules about marriage than God did. Jesus quoted Isaiah 29:13 about people who knew the words of the law very well, yet somehow used it as though it was their own law. Could it be there is so much divorce among believers because, just as we do not measure up to God's law and need a Savior, so we do not measure up to each other's laws and need to be saved from them by a Savior.
@samuelzulu97316 ай бұрын
No those who divorce are fake Christians and have never known the Lord in the first place
@giftedtheos3 ай бұрын
Western culture. Christians in non-Western cultures don't divorce as much
@deanfry8793 ай бұрын
@@giftedtheos Too bad the world is getting so westernized. Maybe there will be some holdouts.
@tracer00173 ай бұрын
I got married and we did divorce. I cannot stand her and she felt the same way. About 15 years later I did remarry and feel its to the right person. I watched other videos on this topic and what I came away with is some sins cannot be forgiven. So honestly I am not worrying anymore about it. I am trying to live the happiest life possible until I die, then I know I am going to hell. And sadly will pay for my sin then. I stopped going to church and threw out all my bibles and stopped praying. And a weight was lifted off me, I no longer feel guilty or bad. Just focusing on being a good person and dont need the church to look down on me because I am human and made a mistake in my early 20's. For those that keep the faith and dont remarry I respect that too. Thank you for this video it did help me reassure myself I made the right choice to leave religion and just try to be a good person. We each walk down our own paths. Sadly mine is the wide one. Peace everyone
@nathaniela.nacionalnaciona88862 ай бұрын
Go to church that will accept amd love you
@jennamarielovesjesus1210 ай бұрын
What if a pastor is married and his wife cheats on him numerous times, and he keeps forgiving her because he wants to save and keep the marriage desperately, but then she files for a divorce, is he able to continue to pastor a church? Any thoughts and if so , would love scripture to back it up and if ur gonna use the “must be the husband of one wife” I feel like I need more
@christoprighteous819910 ай бұрын
You can divorce but cannot remarry.
@lifeofaninteriordesigner13059 ай бұрын
If the wife, who committed adultery was not a believer, the other party is not bound to them and us free from that marriage.
@ntembemwanza13027 ай бұрын
If they are free can the pastor remarry? I really need to understand 🥺🥺🙆
@jennamarielovesjesus127 ай бұрын
@@christoprighteous8199 where in scripture does it say that? Especially being divorce in the Bible is allowed ONLY for adultery and obviously if someone passes away unfortunately , so yes, if you can back that up with scripture, I would appreciate it, have a blessed day and night
@Glory2Abba6 ай бұрын
@jennamarielovesjesus12 common sense tells us that. Not bound is no longer bound. Also a personal relationship with the Savior. ASK Him He will answer.
@joellkrosendijk7892 Жыл бұрын
There are more verses in the gospels that do talk about marriage and divorce. Besides the only unforgivable sin is the blaspheme of the Holy Spirit. Not Divorce. In any case it is not a degrading sin different then any other sin. What I am against is using divorce as a weapon to 'control' the flock which to many shepherds, wrongly, seem all to happy to use. The reference 'sexual immorality' in the verse mention is explicitly, when the bride is found to be Not a Virgin. In which case the marriage would be undone after that first marriage night! Moslims(some) accept child brides(before puberty) which I am totally against! There is a divide among Muslim Scholars on this. The Prophet Mohammed seemed to have married and consumed the marriage with a nine year old girl. I am not in a position to know if this is true or not. But there is a letterlijk divide among their Thinkers on this issue. Which I am strongly against.
@philipbuckley75911 ай бұрын
this is not a Muslim site....
@andreasrademacher57158 ай бұрын
Sometime it is just not very pleasant, to do the right thing. Our flesh and our desires want something different. Mine, too. That's when all of the liberal interpretations come in. And born again virgins.
@Alexander44665 Жыл бұрын
What if you marry a person who agrees that they want children but-conveniently after marriage-they "change their mind"? It seems like if they lied about something that they knew was a deal-breaker for you than there should be freedom to divorce and marry someone else? Is that the case or does God want you to stay miserable?
@jenisebrooks430811 ай бұрын
Divorce but remain single
@Alexander4466511 ай бұрын
@jenisebrooks4308 So, basically as long as you (not you personally) can trick someone into marriage then you are stuck. So God rewards dishonesty.
@jenisebrooks430811 ай бұрын
@@Alexander44665 no I said divorce but remain single.
@Alexander4466511 ай бұрын
@jenisebrooks4308 I understand. Basically you are saying that biblically if a person tricks you into marrying them by hiding a deal-breaker you can leave them-but you have to be alone forever. Under those circumstances most people will stay in their miserable marriage. This means that-more or less-God is rewarding the deceitful person. It gets me how pastors can say (with a straight face) that marriage is a "blessing." Oh boy, how "lucky" we are that God gave us this "blessing"! If this is God's idea of a blessing, I hate to see what his idea of a curse would be. So really, I am further ahead to technically stay single, have a baby with a woman, then repent and then marry her. At least that way I know I will have a child.
@jenisebrooks430811 ай бұрын
@@Alexander44665 and this why God is the judge. Honestly he knows our hearts he knows if we really want to please him. There are many situations that don't fit what it's supposed to be EXACTLY!! That's why he did what he did. There's a difference in divorcing because of personality conflicts vs divorcing due to abuse. Perhaps a surrogate mother to get your child and stay Marr how the lady feel about that??
@lynbob18724 ай бұрын
What if you’re both unbelievers and separate. Then meet someone and both of them become believers. Is this rule for just believers?
@darthjedi99 Жыл бұрын
Wishy washy teaching here. Scripture is clear, only death breaks the marriage covenant (Romans 7:2-3). Remarriage after divorce is adultery ( Mark 10:10-11, Luke 16:18) and fornication or sexual immorality is taking about the engagement period, Jesus said what God joins together let no man separate( Matt5:32, 19:9). You even say it in your vows "to death do us part". You can divorce but cannot remarry while your spouse is alive (1 Cor 7:10-11).
@MoonMoon-fx1op Жыл бұрын
Remarriage for a man is not always adultery. Stop adding to Scripture
@Thomas116-m2n11 ай бұрын
The Romans 7:3 and 1 Cor 7:39 are talking about someone who is married, not biblically divorced. Jesus was talking about marriage because that's what the Pharisees asked him about. In that case, people now couldn't even break an engagement. If you initiate a divorce, you shouldn't remarry. If an unbeliever does, you are no longer under bondage to that relationship. If you aren't enslaved, you are free. 1 Cor 7:15.
@philipbuckley75910 ай бұрын
not under bondage is not akin to not bound a term that the writer had just used....@@Thomas116-m2n
@PB-qy8zy8 ай бұрын
Vows to love honor and cherish as long as you both shall live. For good times and bad times. Those things are said too. Take the entire not the selected.
@0Itsjustme010 ай бұрын
My husband is a false prophet and used his vision as an excuse to leave the marriage. Do I still wait for him or can I divorce and remarry, since his vows were a lie? Will going back to a false prophet condem me to hell for his wrongs?
@christoprighteous819910 ай бұрын
You can divorce but cannot remarry as long as he is alive. Romans 7:2-3, 1 Corinthians 10:11-12, Luke 16:18, Mark 10:11-12.
@ryanlocklear146 ай бұрын
So i remarried but my first wife was not a believer in Christianity, i encouraged her, but she was pursuing other religions, the relationship was very unstable and we both agreed on divorce, and im trying to find answers
@samuelzulu97316 ай бұрын
You are still married remember marriage is till death do you part and nothing less. God bless.
@aquatalliahbouchon50054 ай бұрын
Paul insinuated in 1 Corinthians 7:15 that if the unbelieving spouse leaves, the Christian is not bound in such circumstances. But, he clearly stated that those were his words and not the Lord's. Ask God to show you what to do.
@Thomas116-m2n2 ай бұрын
@@samuelzulu9731 It depends on the situation. Abandonment by an unbelieving spouse and sexual immorality by the other spouse. (Matthew 19:9 and 1 Cor 7:15).
@cindylawrence9628 Жыл бұрын
My boyfriend of almost 20 years days he won’t marry me because he cheated on his first wife and she divorced him. She has remarried. Can’t the offender remarry if the ex has? He also won’t have relations with me and hasn’t for 12 years. I’m not willing to spend the rest of my life like this.
@philipbuckley75911 ай бұрын
the Bible does not make a provision, for this....if one separates or divorces the options are to reconcile or remain unmarried.....not reconcile, if possible...
@mygodismighty5 ай бұрын
if you've been together sexually then you're pretty much already married
@aquatalliahbouchon50054 ай бұрын
@@mygodismightyIs this supposed to be some kind of a joke? She's living in sin. Lord help me.
@aquatalliahbouchon50054 ай бұрын
Oh boy. Are you a believer? If so, you have been living in sin. I need to quit reading these comments.
@mygodismighty4 ай бұрын
@@aquatalliahbouchon5005 Chill dude. She's obviously living in sin and a Christian shouldn't be sleeping with some dude who doesn't marry her first. But my point was that if she's living like she's married then in the eyes of the Lord why would it not be a marriage? In the eyes of the law its a common law marriage.
@Dessme4 ай бұрын
A balanced view.🙏
@aaronhaskins97823 ай бұрын
you are incorrect on the remarriage. It's clear in scripture remarriage IS adultery. You are lying to other believers here.
@Thomas116-m2n2 ай бұрын
It depends on the situation. Abandonment and sexual immorality are exceptions.
@aaronhaskins97822 ай бұрын
@@Thomas116-m2n no they are not. There is no verse to say they are exceptions.
@coryrhymer1852 Жыл бұрын
What about when a believing spouse abandons their believing spouse? Is the one who gets abandoned up a creek without a paddle ?
@joshuakarr-BibleMan Жыл бұрын
Yup. Believers are required to maintain a marriage, once they create it. The "better or worse," and the "till death" vows aren't mere tradition. They are solemn vows, sworn before God and He takes vows seriously. If a believer walks out of a marriage, then it us a sin against God and against the other spouse, and against any children, and against the church, and against society. Still, we can't repay the sin of abandonment with the sin of divorce. Now, after all that, if she starts a sexual relationship with somebody else, then that is adultery, and grounds for a divorce. No, Scripture says a married couple must not separate, but if they do, then they should be reconciled to one another.
@Thomas116-m2n11 ай бұрын
@@joshuakarr-BibleMan Marriage shouldn't be a form of idolatry. Though important, it isn't perfect. The Bible offers two reasons for divorce and if divorce is Biblical, the implication is remarriage. Sexual immorality (Matthew 19:9) and abandonment by an unbeliever (1 Cor 7:15). Critics cry out "but it doesn't SAY you can get remarried!" It didn't need to as it was assumed that this would happen as it had gone on for centuries. Jesus pointed out the importance of marriage and how it wasn't to be taken lightly. There is no "no fault" divorce.
@philipbuckley75911 ай бұрын
@@Thomas116-m2n it is fornication, and not enslaved is not akin to not bound...
@Seafarer628 ай бұрын
@@Thomas116-m2n Well said. These divorced/remarried You Tube videos are full of vicious legalist Catholics or ex-Catholics full of vitriol like they are something right out of the Spanish Inquisition. If the bible commanded divorced believers not to remarry, then I could understand their viewpoint. As is, the implication is that divorced people are once again single, and free to remarry (or remain single).
@lml4458 ай бұрын
Let God lead and guide you in the right path. People have their own opinions about what it means rather they quote scriptures biblical or not. I'm not saying the scriptures are wrong or ignore scriptures, because we cannot change the word of God. Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not to your own understanding. If you follow Christ more openly he will direct your path. Let God be true and every man to be a liar.
@DenshaOtoko2 Жыл бұрын
What about Leviticus saying that If a wife has been unfaithful to her husband for her husband to present a certificate of divorce and a monthly stipend for her to live on?
@philipbuckley75910 ай бұрын
Jesus said....but I say, unto you.....
@Thomas116-m2n2 ай бұрын
@@philipbuckley759 Yes. HE said that you shouldn't divorce unless your spouse commits sexual immorality against you (Even the Pre-Erasmus definition was sexual immorality between two people who weren't married to one another). If they do, you may divorce. By Law, remarriage was permitted and expected as that is what the divorce certificate says which is why the word 'remarriage' isn't mentioned. 1 Cor 7:15 mentioned that one is not enslaved to another an unbelieving spouse who has departed. The word "enslaved" is used as there as a woman who was abandoned and not divorced was known as an "agunah," or one who is "chained" or "anchored." Paul is stating that she shouldn't be in that situation. Again, a legal divorce by law (and yes, they existed), meant that a person could marry again, so there was no need to mention it. Question for you, Phil. I've seen you on just about every one of these types of videos for, literally, years. Do you ever try to lead someone to Christ, by talking about salvation and grace or do you just enjoy pointing fingers? Your answer will likely tell you where you stand with your own salvation.
@MichaelMichaelJrАй бұрын
It is true that God hates divorce. It is one man and one woman for life. However in the context of Matthew 19:9, adultery is the act of remarriage, not the sex act which is fornication. Meaning if a person is divorced for a reason besides fornication, they are labeled an adulterer at the point of remarriage. However, the blood of Jesus cleanses all sin, except for blasphemy of the Holy Spirit, which is an unrepentant sin. Therefore you can remarry but simply repent and ask God for forgiveness. At that point you go and make the second marriage work and strive to not depart. Adultery is defined by context and is a forgivable sin. As seen in 1 Corinthians 6. It is better for an unmarried person (which can be a person that was never married, widow , or divorced person) to marry than to burn with lust as seen in 1 Corinthians 7
@wendymtzcАй бұрын
I’m not sure I’m understanding you correctly, are you saying one can remarry knowing they are sinning and then ask for forgiveness? Also according to scriptures, fornication is having sex when you’re not married, while adultery is when at least one of the parts is married, which could potentially lead to divorce and remarriage and when scripture say it is better to marry than to burn in lust, it’s obviously saying that to the unmarried (people who’ve never been married and to the widow), that message is not for the divorced, else it would contradict itself.
@MichaelMichaelJrАй бұрын
@@wendymtzc "Now the Spirit [a]expressly says that in latter times some will depart from the faith, giving heed to deceiving spirits and doctrines of demons, 2 speaking lies in hypocrisy, having their own conscience seared with a hot iron, 3 forbidding to marry, and commanding to abstain from foods which God created to be received with thanksgiving by those who believe and know the truth."- 1 Timothy 4:1-3 NKJV This verse highlights that Christians would depart from the faith and forbid marriage. This is not referring to the Roman Catholic Church, since Catholics are not Christians and the Catholic denomination doesn't come around until centuries after Christianity began (33ad). To tell an unmarried man(whether it be never married, widow, or divorced) that they cannot get married to an unmarried woman(whether never married, widow, or divorced) is forbidding marriage. You can't be married and unmarried at the same time. The law of marriage is understood through the Law of Morality, which is one of the three types of laws within the Law of Moses. Other types are ceremonial laws (i.e. tithing, offerings, keeping the Sabbath, etc.) and civil laws (I.e. murder, stealing, etc.). Though the Law of Moses was nailed to the cross(Colossians 2:14), the Law of Morality still applies to us today. For example, the world was populated through siblings marrying, such as Seth in Genesis 5 and Abraham marrying Sarah, his half-sister. Incest wasn't outlawed until the Law of Moses(see Leviticus 20). However, the Law of Christ does not actually specifically mention that siblings are not allowed to marry. That is because we learn that incest between siblings is immoral from the Law of Moses. That's why it is mentioned that it written for our learning(Romans 15:4). "9 And I tell you this, whoever divorces his wife and marries someone else commits adultery-unless his wife has been unfaithful.[d]” 10 Jesus’ disciples then said to him, “If this is the case, it is better not to marry!” 11 “Not everyone can accept this statement,”Jesus said. “Only those whom God helps.12 Some are born as eunuchs, some have been made eunuchs by others, and some choose not to marry[e] for the sake of the Kingdom of Heaven. Let anyone accept this who can.”"- Matthew 19:9-12 NKJV Verse 9 directly refers to "adultery" as the marriage act. The context defines the word, not the commentary. Adultery can mean sex with a person outside of marriage, along with lusting after someone in your heart, and practicing idolatry. In this context, "fornication is the sex act, which addresses the physical act of infidelity". The act of remarriage is what is called "adultery". When Jesus makes this statement, it is before his death, meaning that the Law of Moses, which came from God, was still in effect. Jesus did not contradict the Old Law. "“When a man takes a wife and marries her, and it happens that she finds no favor in his eyes because he has found some [a]uncleanness in her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce, puts it in her hand, and sends her out of his house, 2 when she has departed from his house, and goes and becomes another man’s wife, 3 if the latter husband detests her and writes her a certificate of divorce, puts it in her hand, and sends her out of his house, or if the latter husband dies who took her as his wife,"- Deuteronomy 24:1-3 NKJV When Jesus makes his statement in Matthew 19, he is referring to Deuteronomy 24, which gives an example of a woman being divorced for uncleanness and getting remarried. The second man is acknowledged by God as her husband. You can't be married to two people at the same time in the eyes of God. "10 Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from herhusband. 11 But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to herhusband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife."- 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 NKJV Departing means the same thing as divorce. When you divorce, you become unmarried. The first priority for a divorced person is to be reconciled to their original spouse. However, if they choose to marry someone else, it is labeled adultery. However, it is impossible to commit "adultery" if the remarriage is acknowledged as a marriage in God's eyes. Meaning if a homosexual marriage is not considered a marriage. Adultery is a sin that can be cleansed by the blood of Jesus. " Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor [b]homosexuals, nor [c]sodomites, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. 11 And such were some of you. But you were washed, but you were [d]sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the Spirit of our God."- 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 NKJV The Bible does not teach that having sex with your spouse is sin. The sin was getting remarried, but that person is still your spouse. A good example is John 4:16-18 "16 Jesus said to her, “Go, call your husband, and come here.” 17 The woman answered and said, “I have no husband.” Jesus said to her, “You have well said, ‘I have no husband,’ 18 for you have had five husbands, and the one whom you now have is not your husband; in that you spoke truly.”"- John 4:16-18 NKJV To put this in simple terms, the woman could very well have been married and divorced four times and separated from the fifth husband, before dating another man. Another scenario could be that she was married and divorced five times and was with a sixth man that she would likely marry. Either way, all five of the woman's marriages were acknowledged in the eyes of God. My question to you is who does 1 Timothy 4:1-3 allude to as forbidding marriage? Where is the direct command, approved example, or necessary inference that God doesn't acknowledge when a person that was divorced for a reason besides fornication gets remarried? Why don't you believe that the blood of Jesus cleanses all unrighteousness as taught in 1 John " But if we walk in the light as He is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus Christ His Son cleanses us from all sin. 8 If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. 9 If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."- 1 John 1:7-9 NKJV Where is the command for a person put away for fornication to remain single until they die? Jesus suggests that though they commit adultery, mercy is given for them to remarry. It is a choice. Not all people have the give to become eunuchs and remain celibate. "10 His disciples said to Him, “If such is the case of the man with his wife, it is better not to marry.” Jesus Teaches on Celibacy 11 But He said to them, “All cannot accept this saying, but only those to whom it has been given: 12 For there are [c]eunuchs who were born thus from their mother’s womb, andthere are eunuchs who were made eunuchs by men, and there are eunuchs who have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven’s sake. He who is able to accept it, let him accept it.”"- Matthew 19:10-12 NKJV
@wendymtzcАй бұрын
@@MichaelMichaelJr 32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of FORNICATION, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery… the exception has never been adultery or immorality, that garbage is coming from newer Bible translations, we can agree to disagree
@MichaelMichaelJrАй бұрын
@@wendymtzc”And whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery”. This verse that you just quoted clearly identifies adultery as the act of remarriage. How are you drawing a different conclusion, when the text you used affirms my stance? Agreeing to disagree is the problem, because you will leave here teaching error on this subject, after I’ve shown you to be wrong. That is blasphemy of the Holy Spirit, which is the ONLY unforgivable sin. You must keep scripture in context. “Adultery” in the context of Matthew 19:9 is the act of remarriage not sex. The sin is remarriage after the first marriage ended not for fornication. Remarriage is a one time act, not an ongoing act. Just as when you steal or murder you are labeled a thief or murderer. However, if you are not a Christian you become one by hearing the gospel, believing that Jesus is the Son of God, repenting from you sins, confessing that Jesus is the Son of God, and water baptism for the forgiveness of sins. And at that point you become a Christian and receive the indwelling of the Holy Spirit(Acts 2:38). If a person commits adultery as a Christian, they simply repent and ask God for forgiveness (1 John 1:8-10). From that point you go and sin no more, making your second marriage work. Once you are forgiven of the sin of adultery, you are no longer labeled an adulterer. Having sex with your wife is never called adultery or fornication. God acknowledges a marriage that was formed through adultery, as I have proven in Deuteronomy 24:1-4. Jesus’ statement in Matthew 19 does not change the Law of Moses. He was better explaining adultery. The subject of Matthew 19 is “divorce”. Jesus acknowledges that not everyone divorced will remain single after divorce. In verse 10, his disciples suggested that it is better to remain single after marriage, but Jesus stated that not all people can accept that saying. Some could be made eunuchs and remain celibate, while others did not have that gift of celibacy. That’s why it is stated in 1 Corinthians 7 that it is better for an unmarried person to marry than to burn with lust. Context matters “10 His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry. 11 But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given. 12 For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.”- Matthew 19:10-12 KJV
@wendymtzcАй бұрын
@@MichaelMichaelJr adultery is having sex with someone other than your spouse and that does not always involve getting a divorce and remarrying, so you’ve shown me to be wrong at all, but if that makes you feel better go at it, you also clearly don’t understand what blasphemy of the Holy Ghost mean but whatever, have a good day
@TwanaHanson-dv2ypАй бұрын
thank you
@680089110 ай бұрын
So it sounds like you can just do whatever you want, then repent, and all is fine.
@christoprighteous819910 ай бұрын
Totally ignored Romans 7:2-3, Mark 10:11-12, Luke 16:18 and even said 1Cor 7:10-11 say you cannot remarry.
@680089110 ай бұрын
@christoprighteous8199 my point is that all of these videos giving divorce remarriage instruction always end up saying that whatever crazy situation you have created, just repent and keep going. God doesn’t seem to be visibly punishing punishing couples who are in unbiblical remarriages.
@GiveHimGlory897 ай бұрын
I think I know the answer here but just to check; Is a believer bound a believer who left? Or is unboundness only permissible if the guilty party was an unbeliever?
@TheRealBarrettWood6 ай бұрын
I have heard a pastor named Mike Winger argue that if Matthew 18 is carried out to the extent it's possible, trying to win back the brother or sister from their unrepentant sin and they still will not listen, we are to regard them as an unbeliever. In the case that they profess Christ but divorce their spouse willfully without grounds (sexual imorality, for example) and will not repent of it and be reconciled, the abandoned believer is not bound per 1 Corinthians 7, regarding them as an unbeliever. It'll take working with other Christians to try and win them back first, but if they cannot be won, Mike argues we are free to remarry and are not expected to keep the marriage covenant alone without them.
@stephenmercy73817 ай бұрын
If I divorce my husband who is an unbeliever and he tells me he’s too young to change and not just in a quiet way but roars like a lion towards me when it’s a case of encouraging him to be a good Christian. Can I divorce him and then remarry? Cos I’m tired.
@samuelzulu97316 ай бұрын
Hell no, dear, but separation fir reconciliation purposes is allowed.
@bellgrand4 ай бұрын
Malachi 2:16 does not say that. You're citing a mistranslation. And Jewish divorce always permits remarriage. The purpose of the certificate of divorce (called a get) is to allow remarriage without it being adultery, and the bridal payment is to be used as a dowry for another marriage as well. The problem is that Jews in the 1st century were trivializing the grounds for divorce.
@DouglasNicholson-ff6ep4 ай бұрын
VERY GOOD POINT.. I wonder how the naysayers are gonna get around this truth? They'll figure out a way, I'm sure of it. I'm SURE of it. !
@davidfriesen95122 ай бұрын
Is it considered unfaithful in marriage if my wife never has sex with me? Is her refusal to have sex the same as fornication? What does the Bible mean when it says "causes her to commit adultery?" IT'S
@maryalbritten37022 ай бұрын
If the person has been abused, disrespected and robbed,then you need a divorce!
@DouglasNicholson-ff6ep2 ай бұрын
Sister.... I see kjv scripturally both men and women can be abused, especially spiritually. ..... And both men and women can lie, and SAY they've been abused when they have not. My recommendation to you as a woman and being very well studied in the one true Bible.... I do understand that "God is not willing that any should perish" including a wicked abusive spouse. I recommend you have males such as the church, elders or Born. Again, friends go to your husband and share the TRUE gospel with him...AND WARNING him of his abuses of you....if he truly has. God says (he will not bring judgment unless he first sends a messenger).... But according to spiritual hierarchy, you as his wife, or as a woman are not qualified to be that messenger. But another man is. I have been used by God to warn men including pastors of their rebellion to his word.... ....and abuse of women, or the sheep, and I've watched God either kill that man literally, cause him to abandon her, In which case she is not under bondage... .... or tear down his church. 0:06
@DouglasNicholson-ff6ep2 ай бұрын
Hello
@chaycontiga70685 ай бұрын
My husband has several children with different women during our marriage. He left me and my daughter 10 years ago. He did make an attempt to fix our marriage however he still committed adultery with several women - We are unable to file for annulment due to monetary concerns. At the moment he has opted to build a new family with his current partner, they have a daughter. Is this not grounds for me to pursue separation and be open to remarriage with someone else ?
@aquatalliahbouchon50054 ай бұрын
Oh boy. What Bible aren't people reading? Jesus said if you love me keep my commands. He said no divorce. I've been single for 7 years because God is my priority, if I can do it anyone can.
@TheTif1293 ай бұрын
Sis, you are FREE to divorce AND remarry if you so desire! This man broke the scripture down so plainly, so I'm not sure why others on here keep saying the opposite. When a scripture says a person is free or except for, those are exceptions Jesus and the apostle gave so that a person doesn't have to live in misery while their spouses constantly cheat on them or abandons them. You are free according to Scripture. Why else would Paul have said, a brother or a sister is not bound(marriage covenant) in such cases! When a man or woman constantly is cheating on their spouse, they broke the covenant of marriage, which is why Jesus mentions, except for the cause of fornication.
@aquatalliahbouchon50053 ай бұрын
@@TheTif129 Lord have mercy, you're telling this woman to go live in sin because her husband is. And people wonder why Satan is devouring them.
@chaycontiga70683 ай бұрын
@@TheTif129 - Thank you
@user-py7hg1eb5m3 ай бұрын
@@aquatalliahbouchon5005Bible says except for sec immorality and his husband clearly did that
@jeffbrandenburg86728 ай бұрын
So, If a man commits adultery against his wife and divorces her, Years later recommits his life to Christ and repent of his adultery is he still allowed to remarry another who is a strong Christian? Yes or no? Any advice would be appreciated
@grant21498 ай бұрын
NO
@jeffbrandenburg86728 ай бұрын
Thank you for your honesty
@ntembemwanza13027 ай бұрын
So in short we believers should not remarry or get married to anyone who has been divorced?
@pegc9889 Жыл бұрын
❤ When a remarried couple asks God for forgiveness, He FORGIVES. The couple do NOT live in a perpetual state of adultery. God has brought many new spouses into divorced people's lives. Many have been happily married for decades.
@darthjedi9911 ай бұрын
if they repent and leave the 2nd marriage than yes God will forgive them, you have to stop sinning or your still in adultery.
@pegc988911 ай бұрын
@@darthjedi99 god hates divorce that would make 2 divorces
@jenisebrooks430811 ай бұрын
Remain married but no sex
@Thomas116-m2n11 ай бұрын
@@darthjedi99 Incorrect. No where in scripture does it say that. Then David should never have been able to marry Bathsheba...What? It's cool because Uriah was dead? THAT'S your theology? Also, in your "theology," a mother who had a child out of wedlock shouldn't be able to enjoy that blessing because the child came from a sinful act. Or.....you can look to God's grace.
@Thomas116-m2n11 ай бұрын
@@jenisebrooks4308 Then they aren't married. Is salvation a checklist to you?
@MaryTongx Жыл бұрын
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
@MaryTongx Жыл бұрын
@JosephGreen7 Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@MaryTongx Жыл бұрын
@JosephGreen7 Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@philipbuckley75911 ай бұрын
@JosephGreen7 sounds demonic, to me...
@hightide15008 ай бұрын
If your marriage is abusive, leave now. Get help when safe to do so…
@violetnantayiro23273 ай бұрын
Thanks and God bless you for that ( I respect & appreciate you Got questions team) but are you sure you are not reading things into the scriptures? Because only adultery on the part of the woman seems to be addressed in all of them, just as remarriage for a man (not innocent party) whose wife has committed adultery seems to be lawful; I dont want to assume that just because it feels just, its what the bible actually says.
@user-ds8fq8cp2f6 ай бұрын
If they cheat,then I do not know why he would not want you to find a more suitable person My husband,said he is a better friend than husband
@jayjaydiamond49248 ай бұрын
Although, Christ said we have no grounds for divorce except for sexual immorality, which I agree with. Only the death of a divorced or current spouse can grant us the right to remarry. I would even go as far to say reconciliation between two separated couples, apply only if a divorce hasn't been finalised. It appears that the tradition was a men being unsatisfied with the marriage, would depart from his wife without divorcing her and go on to remarry themselves. Also, Christ declared it's forbidden to marry a divorced woman because it's considered adultery. Matthew 5:31 Also 1 Corthians 7.
@johnx1405 ай бұрын
So i have to endure a marriage i dont wanna stay in even if she isnt abusing me or cheating on me? Does god want to force me into unhappiness?
@mousemilk47432 ай бұрын
I think the question should be, "Were you forced into the marriage in the first place?". Lots of marriages are unhappy, but there are those who would take God at his word and stay committed, especially if there is no abuse or sexual immorality. The concept of dying to yourself is found in Luke 9:23, in which Jesus said, "Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross DAILY and follow me." Your unhappy, non-abusive marriage is your cross in this context; you are then called to take it up and follow after Christ, because in Him is no abuse or unhappiness.
@mlwilson2956Ай бұрын
There is no biblical grounds for divorce and remarriage is always adultery unless the other spouse is dead. The bible is very clear on this
@trishedwards91208 ай бұрын
John 3:16 “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal . God forgives divorce when you repent asking for His forgiveness. Depend on God not man. How can so many doubt Gods forgiveness, Gods grace and Gods mercy. False teachings. God forgives.
@_Snafu_9 ай бұрын
What happens if the couples are believers and one of them passes away early from cancer or something of that nature?
@lifeofaninteriordesigner13059 ай бұрын
If the spouse passes away, the other is free to remarry.
@_Snafu_8 ай бұрын
@@lifeofaninteriordesigner1305 That’s what I figured. Thanks for the reply.
@aquatalliahbouchon50054 ай бұрын
You're free to remarry.
@24guitarkid2411 ай бұрын
The correct translation for Corinthians chapter 7 verse 15 is that you are not under bondage. It doesn't mean you are not bound to the marriage covenant. It means you are not enslaved to keep this spouse happy, and content if he is restricting your worship to Christ .you are loosed from the responsibilities of a wife but you are still married under the covenant. Again translating it the way you have makes the other scriptures confusing and contradictory.
@Thomas116-m2n11 ай бұрын
Then you're still enslaved to that spouse. You just contradicted yourself in that statement. If you are not under bondage, you are ....yep! You guessed it, free from that person in your life. They have left you and aren't coming back. No, you're no longer married to them if they divorce you as that is what divorce means.
@jenniferalshouse825411 ай бұрын
I am not enslaved to my husband . I am free to worship God in peace. Marriage is not enslavement. I will honor my marriage covenant I made with God and my spouse whether he comes back or not. Our marriage and vows are a threefold covenant we both made with God. Only death ends it. I only follow what Gods word says not mans. I'm not going to risk my relationship with God just because I might get lonely for a partner. Or use the same excuse everyone else uses that God wants me to be happy. Our life here is but a vapor ,and then were gone. I don't want to be called an adulterous women. God commands us to pick up our cross if we want to follow him. That means we have to give up our worldly, and fleshly desires. Sometimes that can be very difficult, but through the power of the Holy Spirt we can run away from any ungodly temptation that crosses our path. You need to be born again for the Holy Spirt to do a good work in you. That means full surrender to Jesus Christ. That means not only believing in him, but also obeying his commands. You have to do both. .@@Thomas116-m2n
@grant214911 ай бұрын
@@jenniferalshouse8254Correct
@philipbuckley75910 ай бұрын
hee hee....married until he departs....quite the marriage vow...@@Thomas116-m2n
@philipbuckley75910 ай бұрын
@@Thomas116-m2n not under bondage is not akin to not bound, as this may be a result of the reformation....
@DouglasNicholson-ff6ep2 ай бұрын
THE QUESTION IS.... "What does (THE BIBLE) say about divorce and remarriage". THAT BEGS THE QUESTION..... Which Bible? MEN..go to God the father DIRECTLY, asking HIM DIRECTLY, If HE has preserved his word from generation to generation? WHEN He answers you directly after you have sought him with your whole heart.... .. Begin the studying it from Genesis to Revelation..... And you will find, as I have every word every jot every tittle from Genesis 1 to Revelation 22 ...points to the answer to this question.
@jasonmckay87935 ай бұрын
oo i didn't know that so if I'm a believer and she's defiantly not shes all new age well crap, I can remarry? cause I dont really want to be alone for the rest of my life :(.
@mak8811911 ай бұрын
So what do you do in an unbiblical marriage? Are to couple supposed to divorce and sin again?
@philipbuckley75910 ай бұрын
since when is it a sin to remove oneself, from sin....
@mak8811910 ай бұрын
@@philipbuckley759 read the scriptures. So was David, Abraham, Moses (Moses was divorced), and Jacob committing adultery when they married and had multiple wives? The word Adulty Jesus in Mark 10 is using is μοιχάω moicháō is singular in form. What about Math 19 or Corth 15? There is NO verse in the bible that tells you once you messed up and got divorced that you must break up a family and most likely children, this would be sinning again by divorcing. This important issue would have been clearly spelled out. You are not looking at the bible in context, you have to look at ALL scripture and have context. Actually in Det once you are divorced and if she marries another you can NOT go back to the first husband.
@mak8811910 ай бұрын
@@philipbuckley759 Your perspective from a Christian church standpoint is extremely radical and is not endorsed by 99.99% of churches or scripture. According to your viewpoint, a significant portion (50%) of the Church would face division, resulting in the detriment of family and children's lives. It would transform into a harmful environment, leading to the abandonment of faith by children influenced by this false teaching at unprecedented levels. No theologian who reveres God would advocate for this stance. I recommend examining Dr. John MacArthur's teachings or other conservative pastors and theologians like Dr James White on this matter.
@josephmuszik93754 ай бұрын
May I suggest you read John 4:16-26. The Samaritan woman who had 5 husbands on the end believed on Jesus. Redeemed ones do not go to hell, but religion and the traditions of men put them there. SO… stand on your soapbox and pound your chest, tell God how righteous you are, and not like the publican who sins. I the publican will humbly beat my chest asking God to forgive me of my sins and rely on His mercy and love toward me. It’s about the condition of the heart, a truly repentant heart God touches by His mercy, and causes hope to arise again. May you, or no one in your religious circle get touched by divorce and remarry.
@clydeholiday59075 ай бұрын
They saw against the scriptures people wake up says make the book up and read the four Gospels
@joellkrosendijk7892 Жыл бұрын
Women should also be able to enjoy the sexual intercourse not just the man. When initiating intercourse as a child has the opposite effect...!
@josefjking3082 ай бұрын
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never! Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No! Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not! Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't! So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible). But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication. Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint.
@whitechicacooks57804 ай бұрын
Abuse is emotional, mental, (almost always) financial, and sexual abandonment, even if no physical abandonment occurs. Abusers are OFTEN serial cheaters. For those reasons, domestic abuse IS Biblical grounds for divorce. ✌🏼
@CristianoRonaldo-li9gu2 ай бұрын
Cope as much as you want. Bible in no way allows divorce except sexual immorality. Abuse is no grounds of divorce
@whitechicacooks57802 ай бұрын
@@CristianoRonaldo-li9gu ok
@DMills-un1tl2 ай бұрын
Maybe not “less loved by God” but not eligible to enter the kingdom of heaven, so… 🤷🏻♀️
@DouglasNicholson-ff6ep4 ай бұрын
HEADS UP.... Some who comment on these channels, have themselves committed adultery, and refuse to acknowledge THEY Resolved the marutal covenant...... So they twist scripture to make it seem like their FAITH-ful spouse commits adultery, if they remarry.
@lukasjacobi6277 ай бұрын
Now what about abuse instead of sexual immorality? Is abuse the same like sexual immorality? Imagine a woman being abused verbally she will get completely destroyed in soul if she would not get separated. How on earth could she THEN have to stay married with a person that is constantly (!) abusing her verbally? To then say she must stay unmarried until her husband gets normal might be a prayer request but is it a must for her to wait until he gets normal again after lets say ten years of abuse? I am not talkong of some months of bad behavior but of a constant abusive treatment where she gave her husband let us say several clear opportunities to repent and make a decision for a change.
@samuelzulu97316 ай бұрын
But she made a vow and none forced her to do so. Sorry
@samuelzulu97316 ай бұрын
Also God allows separation is such cases
@lukasjacobi6276 ай бұрын
Not only separation for sure. You need to see the whole context Jeszs speaks in. @@samuelzulu9731
@RichieSama11910 ай бұрын
What if you love talking about Jesus all the time what your spouse doesn’t wanna hear it all the time. you are a fasting and praying reading a Bible every single day, but your spouse doesn’t show any interest. I pray for her every day.
@TheTif1293 ай бұрын
Please read the whole chapter of 1 Corinthians 7. That should give some clarity regarding your questions
@antheabrouwer32582 ай бұрын
King David, Abraham and Jacob had more than one wife. Are they going to hell???
@Kblog777 Жыл бұрын
My old pastor used to say that divorce was God’s idea not His ideal.
@jenniferalshouse825411 ай бұрын
Your pastor lied.
@williamquintero338710 ай бұрын
What is an unbelieving partner ?
@Rmiller488 Жыл бұрын
You never mention mark or luke why? Mark was the first gospel written. 1 Corinthians 7:39 says when you can get remarried. Why don't bring this up? Its in the same chapter. So sad.
@grant214911 ай бұрын
Excatly
@escalus845 ай бұрын
remarriage is allowed in widowhood
@Rmiller4885 ай бұрын
@@escalus84 agreed.
@when9435 ай бұрын
This is not true. The the fornication view is the correct view. Just take the example of Joseph and Mary if Mary had been guilty of fornication then Joseph could have divorced her and remarried and it would not have been adultery. The one flesh Covenant Union adultery view is wrong because had this been true then Philip would no longer have been married to Herodias. Herodias divorced Philip and Herod divorced his wife and the sin of adultery an incest was committed but yet John the Baptist says that it's unlawful for you to have your brother Phillips wife. So it seems if sexual immorality also means adultery which sexual immorality is never in place of the word adultery in Scriputer, it's only in place of the word fornication then definitely he would have been "rid" Herodias. Scripture is the best commentary of the Scriptures! Well 1 Corinthians 7:10 - 11 states in verse 11 that for no reason the husband is to divorce his wife even if she was the unbeliever and left so verse 15 is not giving the the believer away out of the one flesh Covenant Union because the unbeliever left. Let's say the unbeliever in 1 Corinthians 7:10 left the believer it's not giving the believer in verse 11 a way out because that's a command you cannot break the one flesh Covenant Union. What God has done no man can separate because no man is stronger than God Almighty. In the book of Jude it plainly states that we are not to go beyond what is written. Use the examples of the two different types of marriages that the Scriptures use as the example to explain what the text means in Matthew 5 and in Matthew 19. To me that's going beyond what is written if the two examples doesn't explain what Jesus truly meant. Using those two examples clearly the one that Jesus was referring to when it comes to fornication it dissolves engagement period in Jewish culture.
@escalus845 ай бұрын
Everyone gets this wrong. It's not the sexual unfaithfulness during the betrothal. The betrothal is seen as marriage with its consequences. If one was sexually unfaithful during betrothal it was looked at like adultery and they would be put to death. It is the act of going into a betrothal after a fornication had taken place. It is also important to know that the law wasn't given because their hearts were hard, but that Moses allowed them to divorce their wives based on this law because their hearts were hard. Not one jot or tittle. The law has a purpose. The question is "Does this law apply to consummated marriages?"
@camillemitchell3012 ай бұрын
So you're saying that unfaithfulness before a betrothal is the only exception to divorce and remarriage. What translation or commentary am I missing? Links please. Because I feel like if this were true, it would have been more clear in scripture.
@camillemitchell3012 ай бұрын
If a betrothal is the same as a marriage, and consequences are the same, wouldn't adultery be the same in both as well?
@escalus842 ай бұрын
@@camillemitchell301 if sexual activity happens in a betrothal (not before it) and the girl doesn't scream r*pe (Deut 22:23,24) the girl dies, just like if she was caught cheating in a consummated marriage. The only time a sexual indescripancy wouldn't cause death is by leaving a betrothed (if she has one) to marry by God's law the guy who got her pregnant beforehand.
@escalus842 ай бұрын
@@camillemitchell301 I could give you a long lecture with this, but let's begin here. The exception to divorce and remarriage. "Because of fornication (porneia)..." Do you believe that refers to a specific type of porneia, or is it an umbrella term that covers many things referred as porneia?
@kennethmcdonald97368 ай бұрын
I am an expert on this subject, having made it a specialist subject of study for about 45 years. The KJV renders porneia in Matt 5:32 and 19:9 as "fornication" as adultery has already been discounted and excluded by Jesus as the meaning, by saying with all the official paperwork a man continually commits adultery in a remarriage, proving adultery is not dissolving the marriage. An example of porneia or "fornication" is a woman claiming to be a virgin, but on the marriage bed her anatomy betrays she has already had a baby, and is covered in VD sores. Obviously this man can divorce her. If you teach people to divorce for adultery you will turn their churches into sex cults. Christian marriage is for life.
@TheMrGorman6 ай бұрын
There is no exception clause, at all!
@i-primeproductions15177 ай бұрын
Divorce and marriage is the Same thing as same-sex marriage.
@greghughes6314 Жыл бұрын
THE LORD DIVIOCE IISRAL.
@willisbyler8118 ай бұрын
Nowhere in the Bible does it give us the okay to get remarried while your spouse is still living 1st Corinthians 7:15 does not give us the reason or a okay to get only thing it's telling us is we are no longer responsibility for our spouse not we can get married again you guys are deceiving people out there all you got to do is read Jesus words in Mark 9 it is a sin to remarry anyone if your spouse living