Why You Should Be Taking More Risks For Love With Estée Lalonde

[@tomatofeind2019]

I married my husband based off an ultimatium. It was horrific. Hated the wedding, resented it. I now realise I didn't just want to be married, I wanted someone to WANT to marry me and ultimatums don't give you that. You never get over the fact that he did not want you in the way that was important to you and that it was forced - it will always hurt. I hope Estee doesnt go through what i'm going through, but it seems likely - a lot of my friends who did similar to me say the same. It breeds resentment and doesn't fill the void of wanting to be proposed to and desired. If I could go back in time I would have left him the first time he said no.

[@swmrgirl9979]

I was thinking the same thing while listening to how she went about it... it would crush me to have twist someone's arm to propose.

[@marietumini8773]

I know I understand what you are saying I hear you and see you my dear better to do what you want in your life better than to have that resentment and loss of respect Sending love to you

[@ranayaz101]

She just posted a video that they broke up

[@juliat1526]

well, they broke up

[@tomatofeind2019]

@@juliat1526 oh wow! called it! i wish her best and to find someone who really wants her

[@dancer7513]

I know everyone’s relationship is different and I wish estee and her fiancé all of the best, but gosh. I NEVER had to experience this with my fiancé. He pursued me with intentionality. He was clear and kind with his communication and intentions with me. Never left me confused with how he felt or what he wanted our future to look like. We both communicated and agreed we were ready for an engagement and I remember how exciting that moment was the first time he brought that conversation up. It was so so special and not only that it feels even more special as a woman to feel seen and chosen because he can’t imagine being with anyone else. Basically…don’t settle. ever. There are wonderful men out there that will never have you choosing an ultimatum as a last resort.

[@Emily-dc1wq]

Good for you.

[@fluffyclouds555]

Good for you. I see it from Estee’s perspective too. She’s of an age where it is time to think about children and family planning. How many more almost perfect men can you date until the clock runs out? Perhaps not ideal but it’s what is working for her.

[@dancer7513]

@@fluffyclouds555 i totally feel for her too and can empathize with her decision. I appreciate your perspective, her fiancé I am sure is a wonderful partner and I don’t fault estee at all for wanting to lock it down - ideally her fiance would have understood estee’s desires/needs more fully or even better… both coming to a mutual agreement it was the right time to avoid the ultimatum all together :(

[@blabberpad]

Well... They broke up

[@annt2070]

A good male friend once told me one of the best advices about men :D So far it has been 1000% true - "If a man really is into you, you will never have to doubt it!" Meaning - if you question if he is into you or if he appreciates you enough - he does not (but don't be overanalyzing tho :D) If he likes you - he will go out of his way to show you. It has beeeen soooo true, I have stuck out so many times just waiting when the guy will take the next step and it never happened.. I never give ultimatums tho, but if he wanted - he would ask for a hand, point blank. If he really is into you - he will propose as fast as he can..

[@ndrimova]

Estée is just so real. I love her openness and vulnerability, it’s so admirable

[@guillianademetrez9675]

“It’s a privilege to have people who support you taking risks” omg this resonated with me so so much. I’ve never had that kind of support from my family but thankfully found it through friendships. It is so important!

[@xchunoex]

I could be wrong but I feel like grace would be a better interviewer if she let go a little bit, the questions are clunky & unclear, it seems like she’s daydreaming a few times & also a lot of glancing at notes :( Estee is so real & warm & lovely!! Happy for her xx

[@rororoisin]

I think it takes balls for Estee to admit the ultimatum proposal and knowing so clearly what she wants. So many couples do break up after years of not growing and that narrative of 'if a man wanted to - he would' is kinda bull. So many men ..and woman need support to make life long decisions like this. Decision by indecision is horrid to go through after so many years. So happy to see her happy after this many years of sharing her life with us.

[@Freya-uv3sk]

And just as many break up because they were told to propose or else.

[@Light-tc8xc]

@@Freya-uv3skI’m hearing her wedding is off

[@Blue-xk8vq]

@@Light-tc8xc That is correct, she had to notify attendees since it was a destination wedding so confirmations were send.

[@Freya-uv3sk]

@@Light-tc8xc yes correct

[@inthiskingdombythesea7683]

Incredibly confused as to why people think ultimatums are ever a good idea. Hope this works out for her...

[@candy2325]

It didn’t work out. The wedding is called off and she deleted wedding related videos from her socials

[@thesdfable]

well it didnt lol

[@catarixpto]

I think she posted about engement ultimatums in one of her socials and so many people said this was a terrible idea. It obviously was and it will always be. 😂

[@catarixpto]

At the time she posted about engement ultimatums in one of her socials and so many people said this was a terrible idea. It obviously was and it will always be. 😂

[@lattespice_andcoffee]

I absolutely love this conversation. Estée is an OG KZbinr I have followed since the beginning. These conversations need to be had in relationships. I gave my ex an ultimatum we broke up a year ago and now I am a journey to have a baby on my own 🥰💛

[@superjules21]

I hope it works out for Estee but people pls NEVER EVER FORCE OR PRESSURE someone to marry you or having kids! Thats 100% the wrong way for a healthy relationship.

[@ranayaz101]

They broke up, she posted a video about it

[@superjules21]

@@ranayaz101 No, what??

[@ranayaz101]

@@superjules21 yeah it’s the video on her KZbin recently uploaded title life update

[@superjules21]

@@ranayaz101 Just saw it 😶

[@allidavies3711]

The way she has talked about getting engaged and married is very sad. Nothing to do with him or them as a couple. It seems like getting engaged was the only goal, didn’t matter to whom

[@Taylormayde14]

That’s exactly what I’ve been saying. To her, marriage is an accessory to flaunt. She doesn’t give a F who she marries, as long as they make her look good and do exactly what she demands. She’s a classic narcissist. It’s just harder to identify in women because we are so conditioned to identify narcissism in men.

[@SBOK41]

​@@Taylormayde14Sadly you are right. People can't see beyond the superficial charm & recognise a narc. Just count the amounts of 'me' & 'I'.

[@bobbyomens]

Because for a lot of these youtubers, marriage and weddings are HUGE in terms of content (i.e. money). Most of them don't even have a quiet period to enjoy their engagement, they go straight to planning and creating content/vlogs about it :/ Both Estee and Grace will get a lot of freebies from companies now they're engaged.

[@eleo_b]

People, this is why you shouldn’t take life advice from influencers. Instead, ask someone who’s further along in life and has actually been through it all.

Eek! Thank you for having me on the show Grace!

[@larissaloren23]

You honestly changed the KZbin game back then. You were probably the first english speaking KZbinr I followed. Your way of filming was unique back then with so much effort put into the quality of your videos. It felt like watching a movie. You were bubbly funny and had really good taste! And you always kept that authenticity even though KZbin isn’t your main job anymore. It’s just a pleasure to follow you into your new ventures where you put so much thought into ❤️ lots of love Estee ❤

[@karpar384]

Thanks for this interview Estee! Sending you love ❤️

[@jennifer6833]

You were my very first KZbinr, Instagram, & TikTok person to follow. You’re such a gem 💎. 💖

[@LouiseFlynn95]

I bought plumful by Mac because of you in the beginning and I’ve been watching ever since. Cheering you on from the sidelines 🎉❤.

[@clo_beanery]

Could not have loved this chat more. Love love love you Estee. Super inspiring to someone approaching her 30s, there is so much power in not being “chill” haha and being absolutely sure of what you want and not settling for less. As a recovering people pleaser.

[@Taylormayde14]

I find it very interesting that Estee approaches marriage as something happening to and for HER, rather than something two people get together and decide as a couple. She doesn’t see it as an equal partnership, two people wanting to be together because they love each other. No, she sees marriage as something she is entitled to be given. “If you don’t propose exactly when I want you to, I’m leaving.” She never once had a loving conversation with her partner about what they want and what their timeline might be. Everything is on her timeline, and if someone’s timeline looks slightly different, she runs away and leaves them in the dust. That’s honestly so sad for her. She’s never going to be truly happy. She’s always going to view marriage as transactional. She’s completely lost in the influencer sauce. She had a wonderful relationship, home, and family with someone and she threw it all in the trash because she didn’t get a ring. That’s capitalistic brainwashing successfully making her think a relationship is worth nothing if a ring isn’t involved. Her engagement was the least romantic and loving event I’ve ever witnessed. The way she spoke about it in her engagement vlog made me feel queasy. She had absolutely zero emotion about the person she was marrying, she was just happy to finally show off a ring. This is going to end very badly, because she is going into this with the wrong intentions. Big yikes.

[@SBOK41]

Absolutely!!!!! She lost any depth she once had. She's so used to the Estee Show she can't recognise anyone's needs. Influencing breeds narcissism.

[@Light-tc8xc]

I’m hearing the wedding may be off

[@lmt16]

Starting off a marriage and being proposed to based off an ultimatum or basically bullying the other person to propose is so sad and not a great way to start a marriage

[@GB-ws1sc]

Right! I get second hand embarrassment when people freely admit they had to give their partner an ultimatum in order to get proposed to. It’s just a bit sad. no grown man should essentially need to be threatened before he realises he wants to be with you. I want someone that’s excited to marry me off their own back. Saying he’s so “chill” he’d never ask is just excusing and infantilising him imo

[@mrl_44]

I understand where this is coming from, but also... it feels fair, for women, to approach a conversation about marriage with "We have to get married now, or we need to break up now", the man then has the OPTION to break it off if he's not ready, or accept and get married. He's making an adult decision. If he agrees to marriage instead of breaking up the relationship, why are we treating them as victims of bullying or as if they had no say in the matter? I swear the world insists in making everything about men being "treated fairly", while women can feel on the edge for DECADES not knowing if someone will marry them or not. Everyone's relationship is different, so we should be respectful and just wish them the best, not come with cautionary tales of horror that further this idea that women should just sit quietly and patiently wait, dream, and hope that their life plans with a partner *could* eventually happen.

[@Freya-uv3sk]

@@mrl_44 She could have proposed to him if she loves him this much and wanted to marry him :)

[@melanieemertaylor]

hmmm i think you if you look at it like she set her boundaries as this is what she wants ... he didn't have to.. he chose to ..

[@GB-ws1sc]

@@melanieemertaylor I just find it interesting you never hear men giving ultimatums to women. Why can’t men care about marriage enough to ask without being prompted? Women don’t have a special marriage gene that makes them think about it. Idk each to their own, but I personally would never push or guide a grown adult man to marry me

[@bambicharl]

I have loved Estee from the beginning. She is so relatable and honest. A breath of fresh air! So happy for her ❤

[@thetrailwalkers]

I am one of the OG followers with Reggie and Aslan. Thanks so much for sharing and being vulnerable Estee!!❤❤❤

[@thebandaid3435]

Essie Button times!

[@EarthWinz]

Girl it does not sound like you love him.

[@candy2325]

The wedding is called off too, which is wild.

[@Light-tc8xc]

@@candy2325wait, since when?

[@Light-tc8xc]

I totally get Estee wanting to get married, and I even get her demanding to know if her man is going to propose, but sharing all of this with the world is a huuuge mistake and an absolute embarrassment to him. Embarrassing your husband in front of the world makes me wonder if she even knows about men. She won’t share his name or info bc it’s a sacred relationship, but then she totally dumps on him. Makes zero sense.

[@eleo_b]

She embarrassed both of them. It’s not nice to look like your man doesn’t want to intrinsically get married to you. But for him, to be put on blast as the man who was forced to propose. Not ideal.

[@jennyhergniot6783]

@@eleo_b she did not forced him. she said what she was going to do if the relation was not serious. she might not be good at see if the man was truly ready, but a lot of women tell their men about marriage and it works well for a lot of them. she did not shame him or her, she has been honest with her journey. if you have nothing nice to say better not say anything because you know it is a real life we are talking aout here.

[@eleo_b]

@@jennyhergniot6783 she should have kept it to herself

[@eleo_b]

@@jennyhergniot6783 she should have kept it to herself (between the two of them, I mean).

[@jennyhergniot6783]

@@eleo_b in a way I agree, and in another way I am like "it is cool to share" and it is ok to fail, we can learn from her experience. me I believe that a lot of women to not realise that men have a very big window to marry and have kids. one of my friend is 40 and he just marry is 28years old girlfriend. a man that does not want to be engaged with you within the next 2/3years is not looking for the love of his life. even the one claiming they are. because it is very unconscious but man can always start a family. I blame men a lot for their immaturity. women are often tricked. you know the kind of men that want to wait and then one day you cannot have kids no more and they look for younger.

[@00Kristyna00]

I don't watch much youtube these days (us old youtube fangirlies, now corporate girlies with responsibilities and no time)...i put this on on the metro back from work and found myself listening to the whole thing. Loved the energy, the insights, the messages were speaking to me... I remember watching Estee and you like ... 10 years ago. Wow

[@NN-zk4uz]

And there she is with another failed relationship. What do you see in her?!

[@adriennekelly2681]

It’s not backwards to want to get married before having children.

[@Blue-xk8vq]

Well discrimination still exists and not everyone in this world can get married everywhere, yet those ppl still want to be a family and to be parents.

[@mrssperanzaa]

Ultimatums don‘t sound healthy to me. If my partner would talk about me this way publicly I‘d be sad

[@SamarkandChan]

Yeah me too, but seems like it works for her. Hope they've had conversations about it.

[@Kae-wo7go]

I don’t think there is anything wrong with telling someone that you want to get married and have a family. If they don’t share that, you now know where you stand and you can move on and find someone that shares those same goals

[@Freya-uv3sk]

@@Kae-wo7go But do you have to go on every podcast and YT channel and talk about it? She won't say who he is to "protect" him but she says soo much candid and personal stuff, it's embarrassing, If I was his brother or sister or family remember I'd be pissed seeing this. It's private, she uses it to push her beauty brand.

[@AnnieSmith103]

The worst part is that she KEEPS talking about the ultimatum in a very public way like some kind of achievement she accomplished, it’s so sad

[@Nubianette]

@@AnnieSmith103it’s power, and knowing yourself. It’s realistic.

[@__carrielee]

I've watched Estee since the very beginning and have watched her grow into this incredible woman, her vulnerability and honesty is so refreshing. I have nothing but respect for her ♥

[@zaprude]

The thing is. You don't always get exactly what you want, when you want it. If you have a devoted, supportive partner - that is good enough, hey that's more than most people even get in the first place! Just be happy where you are without forcing things. I know a lot of men (no matter how much they love someone) are scared of committing or are critical of marrying in general. Work on your reasons first, your inner dealbreakers, what is the motivation for being engaged or married. When you have all of your own answers, then proceed to find a path with your partner. Estée isn't even questioning her own motivations, just stating "I want this for some reason". If I was her fiancé I would hate being talked about in this manner.

[@jennyhergniot6783]

are you advising girls to settle for not so good man because they cannot get better anyway? I think men have it easy, they can pick a girl spend year with her and then dump her, because at 45years old you can always find a girl young enough to have kid. that is why I think marriage is good, to make sure the man is serious. and see, the man would have probably spend years with her if she did not ask to get married, at least with marriage you know if the man is serious or not. I have a daughter and I will always tell her that men that cannot commit to marriage are not serious with her, and that is fine, she can always find a serious with her man. Estee was so right by asking him that. at least now she knows that he does not want to be with her and she can go to. the next one and get more experience from what she just went through. the girl just went through hell and still you are on the man side lol. crazy how some women do not have other women backs. SAD!

[@OyindaAkinyanju]

I just love Estée! One of the few KZbin OG’s that I’ll still sit and watch. I loved this episode! I knew I had to watch as I go between just listening and watching on here.

[@AbenaAnima]

Estee is definitely worth my precious time. That’s my investment in her. Thanks for being u at all times girl. ❤❤❤❤

[@Freya-uv3sk]

Since her fiancé already proposed, why talk about him publicly in this manner? His friends and family can easily see this.

[@Taylormayde14]

Because she’s a selfish narcissist who has never once considered that another human might have a different timeline than her. She sees her partners as an annoyance unless they are giving her something that makes her feel like a superior being. Aka: marriage. She’s one of those women who thinks marriage is an accessory to flaunt rather than a decision between two people who want to make a life together.

[@Kae-wo7go]

@@Taylormayde14 someone needs a hug 🤗

[@chasingpunctuation]

this has not aged well, and I say that with 0 smugness as I feel genuinely bad for her. I think some people in these comments called it sadly

[@jennyhergniot6783]

I would say that it aged so well, at least she did not spend years with him. by asking about the marriage she managed to see if he was truly serious. the guy is clearly not well, asking someone to get married and then cancel is a clear sign that he was not ready when he proposed. but again, at least they both benefits from it ! because they would have stay together for ever anyway, so better have the breakup sooner then later - + now she knows that she should tell the men from very early stage what she is after in a man. so the man do not stay if he is not interested in the same type of relation

[@mimixko]

Well.. ultimatums don’t work 😅

[@HannahAhimsa]

need Estee to watch gilmore girls

[@jennyhergniot6783]

I did tell my now 11 years husband that I was not moving with him unless we are married. and he proposed in the first year of our relationship and since we are together and we don t plan on breaking up. ultimatum is not a great idea, but just be honest from beginning is a good thing. be like I am like this and that and looking for this and that and you? and see how it goes. it is not because it did not work out for her this time that it will not work out next time. very sad that you have to come on the internet to shame a woman going through that.

[@Misssredrose]

@@HannahAhimsa😊😊😊😊

[@galwaygirl8131]

Sad but it’s trueb

[@karolinak566]

I keep thinking 'PLEASE, LET HER TALK!!!'

[@ratatat]

I think what Estee means about the "ultimatum" (which honestly could just be poor word choice), is that she's always known that marriage and a life partner is her goal when it comes to dating. It's not to date casually here and there and "seeing if it turns into something else". No, it's always been marriage. To me, it's only an ultimatum if it's one sided which I don't think her relationship is. To me, what she's saying is, "hey, i love you and i know you love me too and if we agree that marriage is where this is heading, then what's holding you back from proposing? Because if it's not marriage (i.e. life partner), then please let me have my peace so I can spend my energy finding someone else who also wants the same thing I want." And I respect Estee for setting that boundary for herself. Everyone's relationship goals are so different. Even if a woman who is with her partner of 5, 10, 20 years and they never married, as long as it's what she wants, then that's ok. But so many women are in the opposite scenario. We are the ones that stay in relationships (be it 10 years or 10 weeks) waiting for the man to "wake up" and realize "you're the one" when in reality, they just wake up and move onto someone else and we are the ones left to pick up the pieces.

[@MariamSRE]

I love Estee!! I’ve been following her for years. Can’t wait to dive into this episode.

[@juliamissgoolia2030]

It's interesting the "life stage" of "getting engaged". Why was that so key in it? I wonder if that statement is the big step of commitment she really wanted. Just curious of why that specifically was the important thing as opposed to "I want to be married"

[@SBOK41]

It's just for content. Her whole life is centered around content.

[@candy2325]

Her relationship with him is superficial and she just wanted to tell the world she’s engaged and getting married and go off that high of being a bride to be. Unfortunately, the relationship is now over, so I hope she grows from this and keep her relationship private.

[@cphcardslinger6871]

Im so glad Estee is happy. Doesnt matter if it happen the way I or anyone else would have liked it to happen

[@llehsir]

Why does she keep repeating this ultimatum story, girl it is not a good look...

[@sierrarowe5135]

It’s not going to end well.

[@Blue-xk8vq]

@@sierrarowe5135 And it didn't it's already over!

[@candy2325]

And the wedding is definitely canceled as she’s spending tons of time away from home and deleted all her wedding content from her socials. It’s wild

[@Light-tc8xc]

@@candy2325oh man

[@phoebelanghans2287]

Loved loved loved this talk. It felt so comforting and inspiring to hear someone talk this openly about dating someone in their 30s. I'm the same age as Estée and have been following her ever since her OG days and it's so nice to see someone public address the issues I can relate to so well!

[@mariaeugeniamartins]

People are saying about “marriage/proposal ultimatums” from the woman (whoever it might be), but ALSO, the guy (whoever might be) is a grown man that can simply not propose because he doesn’t want to get married at that time and/or that person …

[@Freya-uv3sk]

He didn't want his relationship to end, to avoid a breakup he proposed. Saying "no" wouldn't be that simple.

[@mariaeugeniamartins]

@@Freya-uv3sk I mean in this case (Estee and her fiancé) we don’t know the specifics lol but it’s a valid point. Selfish behavior, but it’s the nature of us …

[@SBOK41]

​​@@mariaeugeniamartinsNo it's not!! We are not all naturally selfish. I try everyday to put my time & energy into helping animals & insects. I refuse to become another self-serving human.

[@catarixpto]

They broke off the wedding weeks ago. Great advice here. 😂

[@jennyhergniot6783]

very sad that you have to come to say that. it is still a good advice. just did not work out this time! and what about supporting people?

[@Noraxleo]

What a great in depth interview❤ i have followed Estee for so long. This interview made me feel nostalgic about what the internet and KZbin were like 12 years ago so i went on her channel to look at some old videos - sadly anything older than 5 years was deleted 😢😢 but i respect that decision. Also, a lot of comments on here speak about her Engagement ultimatum as if she forced her bf to do it. She said he wanted to do it anyway, he was just slow about it. From experience i can tell how frustrating that is. Especially for a woman that wants to have children and a family. So what is actually wrong about bring intentional and clear about what you want and communicating that? Why are we always just following along for years. That breeds even more resentment and unhappiness imo.

[@cathbiancacampanelli]

This was a lovely chat! Been watching Estee since her very first video and grew up watching her throughout my 20’s so it really feels full circle now at 29 going into my 30’s

[@JustLikeLiz24]

Loved this conversation! Estée is so insightful and in touch with her feelings.

[@francescabull7944]

Loved this episode , I've followed estee for years so its lovely have this to listen to as I get ready !

[@daniellekorneliussen4244]

What I appreciated so much about this interview was the flow of the questions, answers and the general “getting each other’s” personal experiences. Grace, I could be you grandmother telling you this… I think you could interview the likes of King Charles or Camilla and people would say that they got so much more out of the the content of their answers & experiences than ever before. You are just superb and Graces’ openness is communicated in such a refreshing way. ❤️

[@marietumini8773]

I was dating someone for 14years I met him in college at 23 years old we were so in love we lived in different cities so we visited each other on weekends when college ended I went back home and it went like that for years after 5yeard of dating I started to get frustrated because I wanted to move on with my life he kept saying he wanted to marry eventually.Long story short I told him I wanted to get engaged in hindsight I don’t think he really wanted too but he proposed but it didn’t feel right to me I said yes anyway ,9 more years passed I lost total respect for him and for myself to have waited so long for him I left him I didn’t even cry I wanted it all to be over he took the best years of my life and at 36 it was hard to find someone so I never got married or had children so I understand how it is .Wishing you the best Estee

[@fluffyclouds555]

It’s not over for you.

[@MChristina]

I wish you the best! I hope you find love ❤

[@lokallifestyle93]

Thank you for adopting a dog & speaking on that. ❤they are the best.

[@thebutterfly7788]

Thank you Grace for making this episode!!!! I’ve been following Estée since the very beginning and I was delighted to hear you both chat!! ❤ cannot wait to be able to buy Mirror Water products directly in store in France 😉

[@oskarcaruso8506]

I’m sorry but I truly don’t believe this women and wow how passive aggressive I find her………..

[@77cns]

same. I watched her years ago and I am really surprised at what I am seeing/hearing here. She's so unlikable now! ICK!

[@RafaARA093]

Estee needs her own podcast ugh I love her sm! Her voice is so gentle but firm and as a Leo myself I get everything she’s saying haha. So excited for her lil babies and wedding. I think effy will love having her lil siblings. Many blessings 🤍

[@rachelbreck7766]

amazing love her too much the honesty and ownership of her life is admirable 👏

[@Freya-uv3sk]

Honesty? Ah yes, same honesty when she rebranded her other channel Everyday Estee into Mirror Water and started spamming 300k subs with 46 commercials for her line, gotcha!

[@user-iv4mj8hc9b]

After watching this it made me think, if a man wanted to, he would off his own back. Also i think a lot of women give so much of themselves and then want a proposal. Maybe if you didn't live together or held back some milestones until after you were married, it would make it more special and men would be inclined to commit for good

[@Lucy-ue6zq]

I love Estee!! You navigated these questions so well - very personal but never intrusive. Great seeing you two coming together and having a genuine conversation about real life

[@aju5868]

Sorry but host talking too much. It's about the guest.

[@SBOK41]

They are both competing for the attention.

[@Genie519]

Ultimatums are not a good thing☹️. I don’t think many healthy marriages start that way.

[@Blue-xk8vq]

But a lot of relationships that weren't meant to be surely end that way.

[@jeeuneee]

This was such a good episode, i loved Estée’s honesty about everything ❤

[@annmariemerlino3102]

Oh Estee --- I've been with you since the very beginning and to see how you have grown, your life has unfolded, your brand was created -- I'm so so happy for you!!!! Thank you for your honesty. xo

[@floriemaya]

Been watching since the Essie Button days 🤩 look how far you’ve come ❤

[@r2H9cnniR3]

This is the most boring podcast episode I’ve ever heard. I think estee has a lot more to say, but grace’s interview skills are really not it… no depth at all.. blend..

[@fluffyclouds555]

She could definitely relax into it more & let the guest have a longer runway to expand on their ideas without interjecting with a personal anecdote. The personal anecdotes don’t add too much in interview format.

[@jasminegirn1336]

Love Estee! She’s so real with her thoughts and opinions. 👏🏽

[@thesdfable]

and now she is experiencing the real result of the ultimatum lol

[@The.EditedRose]

I absolutely LOVE Estee and I'm so glad that I found her on YT that many years ago. This has been a great interview to listen to.

[@philemon2802]

Yiiiks. My everything, My life,My passion,My world and My sunshine. Your Dog! Not your husband to be! Another heartbreak in the making. Typical career first woman gona crash and burn..

[@NN-zk4uz]

That's sexist bullshit.

[@corinaodin]

Ohh this made me as a listener feel good too!

[@jenn_in_atl]

I love Estee!!!! She's my favorite youtuber since 2011

[@PascallePointing]

Loved this so much!! You both are incredible! ❤ fav one!

[@AnastasiyaValiushka]

Omg love this! Please have Amelia Liana next 🥰

[@jessicamoonharris]

Saving this to watch properly! Love estee ❤

[@ambitiousbutrubbish1992]

Love her, I hope she is and will be happy! ❤

[@lisamariemalle]

Honestly I loved this so much especially the Engagement talk, because it was so real ❤

[@caralum]

We love Estee! 🥰

[@katharinabischoff4381]

I just love Estee! You guys are the perfect combo❤

[@aju5868]

The host please calm down pause...

[@leilachristie1861]

"I can't believe he wasn't ready to lock it down" oh my gosh the ego. I don't see any happy married people around me..

[@leanabein6878]

omg my two faves !!!

[@Esh486]

If my child wanted to move across the world for a guy they met online, I'd make them binge watch all the true crime YT videos I could find

[@jennyhergniot6783]

ahahah true (but I moved to London for my now 11 years old husband and it is great)

[@Esh486]

@@jennyhergniot6783 I know it can definitely work out, and I'm so happy it did for you! I'm just so paranoid lol Watching true crime YT videos made me have even less faith in humanity than I did before. I know the world is not all doom and gloom, but I'd be so over protective of my children... I don't know how parents do it! I amire you all

[@jennyhergniot6783]

@@Esh486 I forgot to mention that we had friends in commun actually. and I remember asking one friend in commun a lot of questions. honestly I would not have go if I did not have anyone in commun. valid for all my boyfriends, I never ever dated from apps or out of nowhere.

[@Esh486]

@@jennyhergniot6783 oh ok, that sounds way safer... I don't think it was the case with Estee though

[@silkbuttons]

No offence but she is just not interesting enough.

[@KelUK46]

Each to their own but I cannot help but think there will definitely be some resentment felt in the future, either by her or him. I have been with my "hubby" 28 years and we are not married. We have 2 adult sons, a mortgage and that's always been enough for me. Rushing someone up the aisle just feels so desperate/needy and not exactly romantic. She can dress it up as some kind of empowerment move but you gave him an ultimatum, either marriage or go. Sorry Estee but no one should be dealing in absolutes.

[@Blue-xk8vq]

She wanted a wedding and not a marriage. Your life sounds great btw :)

[@emily_young]

Loved this so much!

[@Aisha-zg8ti]

Great learning more about Estee but the interviewer looks bored and uninterested most of the time which was really off putting.

[@asimplemix]

This was great! Thanks for sharing!

[@Kforaesthetik]

Love Estee and love her honesty ❤✨

[@fluffyclouds555]

Love Estee. Host is talking too much. It’s not about you, it’s about the guest.

[@Ltunu]

Great interview, made me wonder if Estee has a Pisces moon.

[@mmon1070]

Love this! Xx

[@Emily-gr4nw]

Love Estee!!!

[@Sabinalucky]

She is just THE BEST ❤❤❤

[@janelleelizabeth]

Great interview! I love Estee

[@r.m.1986]

I always loved and followed Estee. The interview however could have been much better if the interviewer would have asked opened questions and more investigative rather than giving her feelings and opinions into the questions. Everyone has different feelings and perspectives especially if you going through something. Just a suggestion for an improvement.❤

[@94mandarina]

What a gift to all of us!

[@ashleyrain9]

“Congratulations to him, he gets to marry me” 😂🎉

[@belindaasante8064]

Love this!

[@cerynlawless2418]

Love listening to this but the humming in the back of the audio makes it really hard to listen to. Just a heads up!

[@conniehill4961]

This sounds a little bit like Model Recomends in that she never shows her husband in her videos

[@lifeiswonderful2023]

Don't share your relationship, Estee.

[@eleo_b]

…but it’s such an easy way to earn money

[@Hellenen]

Uff estee..

[@callmemarthh]

I'm down with no longer being chill, chill is SO 2008

[@RoseMary-vs3io]

OMG! The Western woman, "being engaged, getting married, not important" and "having children inside of marriage, backward" backward???? The lack of morals, dignity, self-respect, and self-preservation is seriously worrying and backward.

[@NN-zk4uz]

Lady you are stuck in the past and very entitled. We do what we want to not end up bitter like you bitching about other women's choices

[@misswerpa]

And thank you for being my therapy session! Love you girls! 🏩🤟❤‍🔥

[@annie6515]

Esteé is giving Paulette “I’m taking the dog, dumbass!” energy From Legally Blonde 😂 🩷

[@WiwinWinona26]

So happy for Estee been following her ever since 🥹🩷

[@saharnabi4899]

Obsessed with everything Estee!!! Been watching since essiebutton 🤍

[@26gazelle]

Gosh Ive been watching Estee since the beginning and she's still someone I consistently watch on YT. I'm so so happy for her. I just am so thrilled that she's built the life she wants. 🩷