Grave of KATE SPADE | What HAPPENED? | Kansas City

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[@eshim3961]

My friend's sister interned with her, and said she was the kindest, most down to earth person she had ever worked for. Long after her internship was over, she would still get little gifts like stationary and handwritten cards from Kate. In fact, Patty was my introduction to her, and now I have a lot of her stuff in my closet. I was heartbroken when I found out that she passed away.

[@sandysouthward3635]

Thank you for sharing such a beautiful story.

[@jddSton]

@@sandysouthward3635 I seen an interview with David spade and he was crying about 5 months after she passed. He said she would always give him an outpouring of her heart 💜 full of the truest advice. When he would ask a lady friend over they would always ask was she going to be there . She would tell them we are just being casual and they would dress up in all her clothes . She always felt shy in that regard But they had great love and laughs. It was so nice to see him so emotional.

[@spookyvegan1402]

😢

[@Linda-in9ns]

Lucky her to have met her! 😞🌻

[@originalgoldengoddess]

Wow she sounds like such an amazing kind hearted person that anyone would love to be working for. I love those types of bosses... understanding, patient, kind and just beautiful and genuine on the inside. Rip to the beautiful soul that she is 🕊🙏🏽❤️

[@staceymaring2710]

What a beautiful tribute to Kate. I live in KC and never knew anything about her nor that she was from here. I exclusively carry Kate Spade handbags so she has always been special to me in that regard. Thank you for the landmarks to look for as I will go pay respects at her grave site. My heart goes out to her daughter.

[@DazewithJordantheLion]

Mine too... nobody knows what bipolar people go through. I've seen it first hand, and it can be crippling to someone's life.. especially if they are a perfectionist, with anxiety... so sad..

[@ImNotaRussianBot]

Take pride in that this beautiful human being coming from your hometown.

[@isthisreallife18]

I also am a KC girl, raised and never left. This video just happened through my feed and now I must check out Kate's handbags. ❤ Thank you for sharing!

[@nitaloganbill2969]

💝 I live in KC and adore her work. This is a beautiful tribute to her -she would have named one of her bags after you I’m sure!

[@mangopilar]

I remember when Kate died, my heart broke for her daughter and her family. I worked part time, at Stein Mart the following day I noticed a bright yellow small Kate Spade purse, we never sold her brand in her store. It had a calming effect, on me and it was a sign from her that everything was going to be okay and thanked me for my thoughts of love. I know, it sounds crazy, but I believe in signs and a higher power.

[@truelight3210]

Not strange at all, He’s called God.

[@krissykimono]

A friend of mine’s father was on a flight and was sitting next to a woman who seemed troubled. He talked to her at length, and at some point during the conversation, she just leaned over on his shoulder and cried. So he tried to console her for the remainder of the trip and she thanked him for his kindness. You can only imagine his shock when the news came on about her death. He told my friend that she was the woman on the plane. It made him uneasy, but he was happy to provide her the emotional support she needed in that time. I’m not sure how much time passed between that encounter and her death, but it’s just so sad. Imagine crying on the shoulder of a stranger because you’re so depressed and worn out. My heart goes out to her family and her poor soul, especially.

[@Oystermato]

😢

[@andrereynolds5018]

I will never forget getting my first Kate Spade bag. As a mom of 4 little kids, it made be so happy to carry it. There will never be anyone like her unless of course her daughter decides to pick up the brand Francis Valentine which would be amazing. I always thought she was destined to be our own American version of Channel. She was timeless.

[@LouiseLadie]

Love Mt Kate Spade handbag also, RIP to a wonderful lady

[@mariaday712]

Thank you, Jordan, for telling Kate's story. I hope she rests in peace. I hope Katy makes it home safely. Take care.

[@katesleuth1156]

Beautiful tribute to Kate. Have had her purses for many yrs. now. Loved her style. Thank you Jordan.

[@suzanwahlquist3258]

That is really sad I didn't know her that well. I didn't know her designs until you showed a couple of pictures of them. And I realize how cute they are. I wish I had known more about her. Thank you, Jordan for it. I only knew about that she died. And that she was a designer. So I'm so glad that Jordan was able to show where she buried, Talking about stories of her life. I didn't know she was married to David Spade's brother, even so, this was very Enlightening thank you jordan😢❤

[@stephaniepapaleo9001]

Thank you for doing a very detailed and accurate bio of Kate Spade. My first designer bag was Kate Spade (which I still have today) and I only knew from limited news outlets just a bizarre statement her husband gave but felt that something was off, yes, being menopausal and or bipolar is such a bad combo (I’m a member of that club) but she was so lively when interviewed but then to see how the end of her life played out is/was such a tragic loss for this talented woman. I’m still having doubts about her husband and that separation but we can’t bring her back. It’s so sad. rest in peace, Kate

[@jess5135]

Here’s what i read from a news article about her. Her husband had asked for divorce a few days prior after 24 years of marriage and moved into a nearby apartment that’s why she did this. Her note said to her daughter : I love you , this is not your fault , ask DADDY !!! She had sold her company for 2.4 BILLION dollars. And he husband is the brother of actor David spade.

[@keondracrump4275]

Wow!!!!

[@maripeti4036]

Ty for sharing. I never knew the entire story either, or the names and what they were. May she have the peace she didn't have in her own life. RIP Kate.

[@carolm3055]

Thanks for her in-depth fashion story! You put lots of sincere effort, when you do these videos! Happy travels to you and Katie!! 😊

[@Chrysalis52]

Thanks for shedding light on her. When she passed away, I had no idea who she was even though she was in the headlines, so sorry to see that she doesn't have a nicer headstone considering all the things she accomplished in life. In end, we are all "dust in the wind"....

[@ImNotaRussianBot]

I've noticed that, too. Like, super big and rich celebrities who have that tablet inlay. I wonder why? Is it a dispute with the deceased's estate over cost?

[@themanifester1807]

No, it matches that of her relatives. And is modest, like she was in her life.

[@karentarr8930]

Loved her work, such a sad loss. You never really know what people are going through so sad😿💔RIP Kate 🐾😎

[@debraday5682]

Very sensitively done Jordan.

[@amara1954]

Such a flat unassuming stone for such a bright spirit ❤❤❤❤

[@LisaLoo212]

Thanks for sharing such a sad and huge lost to the industry love her bags etc so stylish

[@russellsmith1971]

There are many graves of fascinating notables in the Kansas City area (Walter Cronkite, Ed Asner, Charley “Bird” Parker, etc. ). There is also the original Disney studio. Have you done any other KC sites? I really enjoy your videos.

[@marysalmon2367]

I hope everyone around her is doing ok, suicide is such a shock and leaves behind so many questions. I was not familiar with her or her fashion, but she seems like a lovely soul who lost her way.

[@Jinger17]

She was the most well known hand bag designer in the world.

[@thrillcker68]

Bipolar is a lifelong battle it’s very difficult

[@kathrynwitte3398]

Andy Spade was the brain behind my favorite preppy brand in Philadelphia, Eagle’s Eye, I believe. It was affordable and high quality. I couldn’t afford Kate Spade but I had tons of Eagle’s Eye.

[@mariajones9102]

Shame on the person who allegedly told Kate that she shouldn’t take her medication. Those meds aren’t something to be taken lightly. Kate should have spoken to her doctor about an adjustment or change to her treatment.

[@DazewithJordantheLion]

Apparently it was said it was her father

[@mariajones9102]

@@DazewithJordantheLion I can only imagine how bad he feels.

[@SASSYPINKY38]

great video loved it and as u know another singer has passed away he was Dj Casper he died yesterday of cancer R.I.P.

[@casssmith2610]

I have had a few of her purses. Then got a wallet I loved but my daughter took it and won’t give it back lol. Her style is so classic and pure.

[@yvettejones3439]

My daughter works for Kate Spade she's been with them for 8 years now we have many many of her bags, clothes and decor was sadden about her death when it came on the news and my daughter contacting me at work it was a somber day I thought of her precious daughter may she SIP 🙏 Depressing is real God Bless her daughter and her entire family 🙏💔

[@karenflanagan1961]

Love Kate Spade so sorry about her daughter and she didn't get buried with her married name.

[@terryfriend16]

So confusing....success is right there for her. Who knows what goes on in the mind of people.

[@kimbattles2399]

I Love her fragrance, called Live Color Fully. BEAUTIFUL.

[@animula6908]

You always hear these stories in the news but never get any follow up once more is known.

[@mikem3789]

Rest In Peace Kate.

[@ArizonaY2K]

She was my first designer purchase at 21 ❤

[@esliet]

I remember how shocking this death was when it happened. RIP Kate Spade

[@deirdreyearwood3383]

She seemed such a beautiful soul. It would appear that she should have kept her business as this is what kept her grounded and gave her purpose. Sadly, her daughter will get to see her Mum's brand flourish for the rest of her life, what a shame that it is not her legacy after all of her Mum's hardwood. Rest in peace Kate, you have made a significant contribution ❤

[@justinekessner2645]

I AM A WALTER DISNEY FAN, SHE DEDIGNED A MINI MOUSE PURSE 👛, THEN I LOOKED HER UP. I WAS AT THAT PURSE COACH, AND I WAS LIKE WOW, FELL IN LOVE WITH HER!!! WOW, THE REST OF HER PURSES WERE AMAZING!!! I GOOGLED HER WHEN I GOT HOME, AND WOW, I LOVE FLOWER 🌼 TOO, LIKE F ING ALOT!!!! WHEN SHE DIED IT WAS LIKE IT WILTED ME!!!! I REALLY LOVED HER LOVE OF FLOWER, AND HIGH STYLE TOO!!!!!!! 😢 RIP WONDERFUL U!!!!

[@enjoyingmyvodka1013]

You can see the sadness in her eyes from a while back before her death. I hope she’s at peace now. I feel for her daughter.

[@eagleman1542]

Sorry that you always have car problems in the Joplin/Miami area; it's lucky though as you can enjoy the beautiful area. R.I.P. to Kate, something is a little suspicious about her death.

[@blackthornsloe8049]

Didn't she leave a note to her poor daughter basically saying to ask her father why she committed suicide ? That seems like a hateful thing to do .

[@merrymeditation]

I was amazed her alleged alcoholism wasn't mentioned in this piece. Massive self pity and delusion are strong features of the illness, so it wouldn't surprise me all too much if she did something along these lines. Sad stuff.

[@ctgctg1]

Her hand bags are timeless. I am sorry she has such an understated resting place. I am assuming it’s what she wanted. She seemed like a very nice person. Menopause is really, really hard. ❤

[@gjh9299]

I doubt she chose it unless she planned it ahead, its about as basic as you can get, no mention of her being a mother

[@Ουρανία-ψ7σ]

At 7:28 states she had a child they decided she would stay home and was out of the fashion world for 10 yrs. Perhaps you gave up on the video prematurely mate

[@Julie-bq6iz]

​@user-kp7gb4hs8q They are referring to the grave marker not mentioning that Kate was a mom.

[@karr1111]

How did she die?? She was young when she died. That is sad. May she RIP. I hope she was saved.

[@KT34462]

She was branded a New Yorker. The brand maybe overwhelmed who she actually was. I used to think the brand was a fictional person.

[@carolerichard5250]

Thank you for explaining “Kate Spade” the human side of the famous name.

[@margaretadami6358]

I don’t care what anyone says or thinks, this was another suspicious death. I don’t believe she took herself out. What about her husband later walking around with some silly mask etc

[@rhondadean5455]

Sorry deeply. I have her black log purse. Carried on my right arm years. My mini ginger dachshund rested on my right arm atop Kate's purse. Her nail marks are on the leather. She had to go to her peace 12/29/2018. Broke my heart. 13 yrs 4 mo. BTW the purse is lime green inside. It was expensive.

[@marionweigel3542]

Rest in peace!

[@vickiemeyer1409]

I don’t believe she killed herself. Good information and interesting.

[@wineymomshar9222]

I'm just wondering why her grave stone is small being such an iconic person of fashion? (may be the investigative part of me)

[@dianecelento4974]

I was thinking her family didn't want strangers coming around and wanted to keep it private.

[@doremefasolateeda]

Wow. After all that hard work and ingenuity and effort..her family took all that money and splurged for a tiny headstone. She felt so small by everyone..no wonder..she decided to unalive.

[@Andypandieful]

I hate it when great talent passes away🥲. Wish she realized how loved she was. The loss of one love will heal over time. The burden of it gets easier over time. Becoming a faint memory as the years pile on. Then finding new love becomes the light inside. Be it a pet, a child, a great friend, a great neighbor. Rip.

[@carminecupani2315]

Very suspicious circumstances. A lot of similar casualties.

[@lauriejones4507]

You know things are really bad when leaving your daughter behind feels like the least painful option. I hope she is in peace now. I hope her daughter is doing well. What a sad story 😢.

[@DazewithJordantheLion]

I agree.. If she did decide to go off of her meds like someone had told her to that could have been very catastrophic. I had a friend the ended his life this same way and he ended up doing it at a time where he had switched his meds and it made him more depressed than normal. He mentioned it in a live video the day before he died... he didn't give himself the time to adjust, read a bad review about himself online, and ended up deciding to end it.

[@TonyandSusie-MillersontheMove]

@@DazewithJordantheLionI’m so sorry about your friend and Kate Spade . That is heartbreaking 💔. I have had a couple of her hand bags over the years and have loved them. 💗

[@mollyb4541]

@@DazewithJordantheLion💔😔

[@vella4897]

@@TonyandSusie-MillersontheMoveso sad God bless your family with peace and love.❤❤❤❤

[@baddie1shoe]

That’s so sad. I’m so sorry to hear about your friend.

[@tearose3763]

Awww sweet Katy, we were besties when we were maybe 7-8 we went to school together and dance lost touch when my family moved out to Overland Park, Kansas. She was delightful and we shared so many great memories.

[@paleobc65]

Oh god to hear a childhood passed away like this so publicly must feel so awful, I hope you are okay

[@tearose3763]

@@paleobc65 yes, when I come across things about Katie, it’s invokes happy memories but sad sad none the less

[@mavisroberts1038]

Can I be a friend? Like ur politeness 😊 Enough love from Ghana 🇬🇭

[@michaelsix9684]

so nice to hear this

[@joninature]

thank you for blessing us with this beautiful memory ❤

[@mynameisvna]

I never knew her full story. Thank you for this lovely tribute to her. We never know what someone can be going through. RIP Kate.

[@heyday179]

the full story is that her husband had her killed for her money. he was so greedy half a billion wasn't enuf for that greedy mentally ill drunk. and he thought nothing of robbing his small child of a mother.

[@Purplenpinkk]

One thing no one talks about is how menopause affects older woman. She was around the age, and especially if she suffered from mental health issues during her life, menopause could have made it worse. It’s such a gigantic change for women, it feels like second puberty , yet it doesn’t get much attention.

[@DazewithJordantheLion]

Yes, I mentioned that in here because if she was suffering for years with anxiety and depression, then her husband moves out, her business isn't quite as successful as before, then monepause on top of it.. I can imagine how rough she must have been on herself.. very sad that she couldn't get balanced

[@newenglandcoast7121]

Good point. Perhaps it was an emotional "perfect storm". Such a sad ending for a lovely human being.

[@irenegriffin3050]

@@newenglandcoast7121 I agree, emotional perfect storm was the best way to explain it. All of those things built upon each other, finally hit a tipping point. So sad. 😞

[@OriginalQueenBee]

I was recently talking with my husband about Kate's death and menopause. It does horrible things to many women's psyches. May she rest in peace. 🌹

[@lizsim]

So sad. She must have been so depressed. She had such a beautiful smile

[@dazzlingchick]

Kate Spade was a brilliant designer! I absolutely love for handbags and shoes personally. This was a beautiful tribute to a great woman. Thank you Jordan. Money sure doesn’t solve all problems. I think most people who take their lives don’t really want to die they just want the pain to stop. Rest in Peace Kate. ~Love&Light♥️C.

[@kellyharper8072]

Yes her shoes! Do not get enough respect. ❤️

[@loco7357]

Exactly. They just want the pain to stop.

[@Andypandieful]

All about not being able to handle another moment of sheer mental agony. Yes. 🥲. Feeling trapped and no way around it.

[@patfrank6481]

Interesting fact: In 2017, Coach bought out Kate Spade. Also, actress Rachel Brosnahan, of "The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel" is the niece of Kate Spade! Thanks, Jordan, for the great video. Kate was an amazing designer and I hope she rests in eternal peace!

[@kellyharper8072]

Lots of talent in that family.

[@kln58cub]

Neimann Marcus bought Kate Spade who in turn sold out to Coach

[@inaschultz1431]

My Kate Spade Sunglasses I purchased in 2000s lasted me 10 years. Ones I bought in 2020 after She was bought out were garbage. Her designs and colors made me smile. Just goes to show that some sad and anxious people try and spread joy to overcompensate for what's really going on inside. RIP Kate.

[@stunner672]

And both Kate Spade and Coach are owned by the American Luxury Brand Tapestry who is a competitor to Louis Vuitton. Kate Spade has always been one of my favorite designers, her spirit and style lives on.

[@georgia976]

Who?

[@maryclark1049]

I remember that Anthony Bordain died around the same time. I always suspected foul play in both cases.

[@GROOVYJOJO]

Agree

[@kristinepark214]

I believe they were both murdered!

[@Thatsbannanas-d8c]

And Robin Williams.😥

[@edema.3418]

What evidence are you basing your opinion on ? And who do you suspect? Just curious...

[@klargusa]

Yes

[@nancyhillard6456]

People who suffer from depression are good at hiding it, but it's truly exhausting to do so.

[@gjh9299]

yes, they didnt even mention her being a mother on that cheap head stone

[@loco7357]

It really is exhausting. ♥️

[@karenbaker1430]

All that money and cheap stone??

[@pamelacremeans2993]

Upon a visit to a UPCI conference 15 years ago, I purchased a KATE SPADE black leather handbag at a vendor booth. I still own it today and love it. I was sadden & grieved to hear of her passing. RIP Kate, Your mark hasn’t been lost to us who loved your work 💕

[@kellie5476]

In a lot of the photos of her, you can see a sad emptiness in her eyes. I hope she's at peace but my heart really goes out to her daughter.

[@Crystal_1992]

Can’t believe she’s 18 now 😢

[@Dana-fn5zt]

The husband doesn't look like he's a nice man.

[@BrokeDadProductions]

@@Dana-fn5ztI could never understand him wearing a plastic Rat mask the days after his wife’s death.

[@poorthing]

I see joy & happiness in her photos...?! Her brand really was successful, she & Spade made a great partnership. Her inner demons, depression, anxiety got the best of her.

[@taniabk28]

​@@poorthing"her depression and anxiety got the best of her" did you know her personally? You have no idea what she had and didn't have as health conditions. You didn't treat her or no anything about her personal life.

[@montanagirl4530]

always a stark reminder that no matter how glamorous you think someone's life is, at the end we all end up small little plots. So sad, such a talent.

[@arielsea9087]

Ashes to ashes. Money makes no difference.

[@gunillabergmark3091]

She reminds me of my mothers taste! 🌸🧡🥿 Just beautiful!

[@tammythompson5233]

So sad

[@juliedurden9479]

That’s why legacy is the most important thing we leave behind…what we create, how we interact with others and what kind of memories we leave behind. Because in the end, that’s all that’s left of us on this earth.

[@marleneg7794]

It's true.

[@DVA579]

If there is ever a movie about her life, I believe actress Téa Leoni would be such a great fit! She looks so much like her!

[@denisenoles3159]

Yep. They have the same face.

[@prettybrwneyez7757]

Yes!

[@marybethfriel9768]

You’re right!! Such a resemblance!

[@marydroppa5415]

Her grave marker is so understated and humble

[@edema.3418]

I think that’s what she would want.

[@RamblingVlogger]

Being from NY I remember when they removed her body from Park Ave. It’s sad that depression and mental health can effect any type of person even the rich and famous. I always thought my depression would go away if I had the fame and fortune, unfortunately the reality is it wouldn’t.

[@jennifertoth221]

Kate was a member/sister of Kappa Kappa Gamma. After her death Kappa changed their philanthropy to mental health because of her death their motto was also changed to Dream boldly, live fully. A Kate quote and tag line on all her perfumes.

[@VladaldTrumptin]

What’s that?

[@Huckfintress]

Well, that’s redeeming and refreshing to hear about a silly society of very, judgemental entitled pretend to be philanthropic college girls who are overtly self serving and self righteous. Mental Health is a serious problem and so stigmatized - hopefully they honored her and not just coat tailing on her fame. Though I think the latter is probably true.

[@yvonnevijgen9278]

What a sad place to end up, a simple headstone, no flowers hardly.. like people forgot about her?! She had so much going for her, so young… so rich and famous and successful yet depressed .. how sad!!

[@maryannegalindo1292]

Nicely done Jordan! You presented her story with compassion. I agree A lovely tribute ❤️💐

[@angelamoran1479]

It’s hard to believe that such a very well known icon in the fashion industry has such a tiny insignificant burial plot. You would think that her husband / family would have sprung for at least a headstone.

[@theworldisavampire3346]

It may have been her wish.

[@JohnMcGovern-s5c]

Some cemeteries want flat stones to make maintenance/grass cutting, etc, easier...

[@hazelnut0127]

It looks cheap

[@yayinternets]

We have a much bigger headstone on order for my late dad on order, and he was a farmer in a small rural town. Something is very odd about such a small headstone using her maiden name, especially since her name is so well known. Even if her wishes were something modest, this still doesn't seem quite right.

[@Astarshine1]

@@yayinternetsthe suicide note the maid found said something like to her child go ask yo our dad

[@afrodite9801]

Such a simple grave marker for an incredibly talented and amazing woman. So so so sad.

[@deannawitt9376]

Its very questionable she was murdered.

[@beautymaven3952]

Yes, agree

[@9Tailsfan]

I feel for her daughter. It's hard to loose a parent at such a young age. Her daughter was only 13 when she died. I can relate. I lost my dad to lung cancer in 1994 and I was 14 at the time.

[@flmlvr]

Same thing happened to me. I was 14 when I lost my dad to lung cancer - he was only 45 years old. Oh, yes, it affects you for the rest of your life.

[@cindygish9064]

So glad you did this vlog!!She was very talented and had very little confidence in her talent!!,,Still saving money so I can buy a purse of hers!! Dear Kate we do miss you!! God's blessings 🙏

[@heavenawilson7271]

Like the Simple Elegance of her Designs...Many People do.. Condolences to her Family..

[@gjh9299]

yes, but its pretty harsh that theres no mention of her being a mother depression doesnt change that

[@jddSton]

@@cindygish9064 I go on e bay and look for vintage Kate spade . I have a lovely pair of aqua marine gem earrings I got for 15 still on the little Kate spade plastic thing and I had of yet to wear them. Cause they are like 1999.

[@clairescott568]

You treated this tribute with respect and sensitivity. It was a nice way to learn more about her life. Thank you.

[@joycemawak2649]

Thank you for sharing her story. I never knew anything about Kate Spade and I have been using a wallet with her name on it. So sad she passed away at 55 years young. She had so much to still share with the world.

[@pannamal5182]

Just remember the husband wearing the mouse mask after her death, so weird and uncalled for

[@janeenharrison1953]

This was such a lovely honorable tribute to Kate Spade, well done and Thank you! I always admired her quirky bags and dresses and finally was able to afford a dress one day! I always respected her class and uniqueness and bought a black phone cover in respect to her passing. R.I. Heaven, Kate!

[@carolannpacificadam1944]

She reminds me to not do suicide. It broke my heart she did that but I understand depression. I have 3 Kate Spade pieces ..a carry on too

[@dropbear4973]

She looks a lot like actress Tea Leoni.

[@DVA579]

OMG I just commented that!

[@1SeanBond]

A very nice tribute Jordan. Ty, now we know her full story. It's much appreciated. RIP Kate🙏⚘

[@kellyharper8072]

Her wicker bags and clutches are amazing! Her shoes do not get enough respect. Yes, you can tell she loved Audrey Hepburn. She was a cute little pixie sprite. Safe travels Kate. ❤️

[@kaymad143]

I was so sad when she passed away. I wear glasses and whenever I get new ones, they are always Kate Spade. I never mind spending the extra cost for them, they are the best frames! RIP Kate, you are missed! I lost my father to suicide in 1990 and I remember talking with him the night before and he seemed happy too. I believe they feel good after they made their decisions. My dad was involved in our town and my parents had a store that was successful, he was in Rotary and nobody could believe that he took his own life.

[@MyPupRosie]

Oh no, so sad but thank you for sharing with us. Hugs to you

[@jddSton]

@kaymad143 I am so sorry. But you’re right my nephew and my brother knew.

[@themanifester1807]

I had a period a couple of years ago of “getting ready for it”. I was deeply disappointed in people in general, and there was nothing that interested me “in life” at that point.

[@kaymad143]

@@MyPupRosie Thank you.

[@kaymad143]

@@themanifester1807 I am glad you are still here!

[@rosemaryedwards7239]

Anxiety & depression is a scurge to women! It takes so much out of you! Wastes so much time and life!

[@augustperidot4486]

I wear Kate Spade in honor of her. Mental Health is often overlooked because it's not obvious to everyone.

[@Gamer-ade]

She looks like she could be Tea Leoni's sister.

[@michellenainkristinabusch1221]

She does. Just with darker hair.

[@katharineatkins1347]

The love for her daughter, I would think, would have been a major deterrent to taking her own life. I understand depression and the effects of menopause, but her death still seems suspicious. The mention of a friend questioning specific pills is interesting. One doesn’t know anyone’s internal life, even close. But still…..still suspicious in my mind.

[@estherlongmore9443]

When a person’s mind is in that state, they often feel like a burden to those around them. They think they are doing what’s best for their loved ones. It’s not accurate, but depression lies. Also, Kate had bipolar disorder. Psychiatric medications often come with a black box warning, meaning they can cause or increase suicidal ideation or behavior. And then both her personal and professional life were in tough places. There are so many potential factors involved.

[@Hillr2249]

Agreed!!!! Very odd way to hang oneself!

[@katharineatkins1347]

@@estherlongmore9443 Thank you. Valuable information. The information on the psychiatric medication was illuminating. Never got to the point of being prescribed those medications. No one knows the inner thoughts or feelings, truly INNER thoughts; I feel for her and all suicide victims. Thinking of Anthony Bourdain now. Both are great losses to their family, friends and fans. Thank you for your reply.

[@theyclosechannelsthatspeak428]

I didn't trust that ex husband of hers. Something was not right about him.

[@Hillr2249]

@@theyclosechannelsthatspeak428 that would be correct. Who hangs themselves on a door know 🤔

[@annaak7849]

I thought she was murdered (hanged on a door knob) for speaking up about child trafficking.

[@lynnboyd33]

She sounds like an amazing, creative human being! My heart goes out to Kate and her family. A lot of creative minds are super sensitive, (I know of what I speak) and just take constructive or even mean criticism too personally. It can be hard not to. Such a bitter sweet story of her. Thanks for sharing her life with us!

[@birdiebanks]

Thank you for covering this story. Sad that Kate Spade couldn’t get the help she needed. Rest in peace

[@expansefloating4096]

This is why it is important to check in with people and ask how they are feeling. Someone can seem entirely at peace on the surface, functioning at a high level, but be suffering on the inside. You would never know.

[@Sunflower-Lover]

You can call and check in, but if they don't want you to know, they're not going to tell you.

[@alc4080]

She did not un-alive herself. I notice u didn't mention the circumstances they found her in, or that her husband left the apartment the next day in a mouse mask. Anthony Boudine died the same way, the same day.

[@resqfreedom9308]

The story I heard involves Hillary Clinton! Would this be the same one you heard!? Just wondering!

[@michellenainkristinabusch1221]

Not the same day?

[@michellenainkristinabusch1221]

Anthony Bourdain died 3 days after her. Don't post false information

[@joiedevivre2005]

I love Kate Spade's designs & own several of her bags. It's heartbreaking that a woman who made such joyful, exuberant designs that made so many people happy would have such sadness & be made to feel "less than" by the industry she contributed so much to.

[@arielsea9087]

If anyone is depressed, get help she had the means for her daughter’s sake.

[@lucindabrydon8970]

Thank you so much for doing this well done tribute. Kate’s loss was a blow to millions who loved her designs. I have looked at her resting place before and find it sad no mention of the mark she made in the fashion world on her gravestone. Her married surname or the ♠️ symbol would have conveyed her legacy Regardless, her unique colorful spirit lives on in her designs and no doubt in her beautiful daughter. RIP Miss you Kate Spade, fan from day 1.

[@soStephO84]

Very informative & interesting video! I've wanted a Kate Spade glitter bag for YEARS. In college I liked to collect handbags mostly during the era of hip hop apparel lines like Baby Phat, Rocawear, Applebottoms, G-Unit, Dereon, etc that weren't super expensive but still a bit pricey. I had a few more expensive 1s from Guess & Coach but then I became a mom & as usual my luxuries were put aside & my child got everything. But I recently saved up all my credit card rewards & got a GORGEOUS lilac glitter Kate Spade bag & matching wallet for a great price on Mercari & Im totally in love with it! RIP Kate Spade

[@michelehood8837]

I received a beautiful Kate Spade handbag - my one and only designer handbag - as a gift years ago. Her designs are timeless. Rest in peace, sweet lady - you’re missed and remembered ❤

[@melissam.5612]

Thank you so much for this, Jordan. Kate was one of my idols, and it breaks my heart that we lost her in this way. ❤

[@teledoink]

I’m new to your channel, and I gotta admit that when I saw you I didn’t think that you’d be able do justice to a female fashion designer, but you did. That was very interesting and moving. Thank you for giving me more information on her than I’ve heard elsewhere ❤

[@Maggie-tq1du]

My ex husband gaslighted me for quite some time I almost committed suicide. I got help and left him for good. I no longer suffer from depression.😁

[@lbreithart]

I love her work.. I have been an avid collector for years. When she died I was seriously devastated

[@soonerbmama6727]

My daughter gave me a Kate Spade for Christmas 5-6 years ago. I’ve used it ever since as my everyday handbag. It still looks like new. Only the underside of the handle has a little bit of wear, but you can’t see it. I did not know she had sold the company. I still think of her when I see her business name with the little spade on it. I had never had a designer bag until this one. Never would think of buying one . When my daughter ordered it, she just asked me to pick from some colors and I choose blue. It’s a beautiful color of blue, a little different. Not a royal blue and not a navy blue but like a mix. Thank you for telling us about her. RIP 💐 Katherine Brosnahan

[@donnastedham9822]

What a sad story. Unfortunately a lot of people present a happy countenance as a shield for their depression. Thank you Jordan for Kate's story.

[@jflan8536]

Ever noticed the majority of cemeteries are named Forrest Hill or Forest Lawn. What is the story behind that?

[@sylviaeli322]

A company

[@beautymaven3952]

Actually, a lot of famous or rich people happen to be buried in a cemetery with those same names…

[@michellenainkristinabusch1221]

​@@beautymaven3952 not always

[@marleiseturner4689]

Great commentary and tribute to Kate Spade. She was genius in her venture. In fact I still have my KS bags from 20 years ago in my closet. I bring them out to admire and proudly wear on my left arm. I hope her daughter and family are doing well. My grandfather also took his life. It’s not a club any of us want to be in. Nonetheless I send love to all whom have lived through it or have been affected by this. There is pain in others and in ourselves that no one else can see😢

[@sandybatton1391]

Kate Spades designs are timeless pieces. They are not a fad that shows up for brief amount of time and then disappears. I so admired her clean line and the designs of everything she’s done. Long after she’s left we will still treasure her bags and her designs. She is timeless like Audrey Hepburn.I wish she was still here but sometimes sadness grabs a hold of you that you can’t shake off. I hope she found the peace she seemed to be seeking. RIP