Living in the moment and then reality hits you like a ton of bricks.
@RobM16064 жыл бұрын
Better than never living in the moment
@el-kiote4 жыл бұрын
@@RobM1606 is it really?
@andycross98404 жыл бұрын
@@el-kiote Yes! A good and happy life should have plenty of 'living in the moment' moments, so to speak. It is what keeps you sane. Structure has it place of course but it is not the be all and end all - spontaneity needs to be liberally sprinkled into the mix too. The characters here just wanted to escape the monotony and rigidity of being told what to do and how to live their lives. The imagination can decide if it worked out for them or not. I was always told that regrets, if you have them, should only be about things you haven't done in life - not the things that you have.
@gabrielgdg86294 жыл бұрын
@@el-kiote this man is asking the real questions. I doubt it it is. pro's and con's like everything in life, don't let anyone tell you differently. It's easy to play it off as " live the moment" / " tread carefully" when you're wired that way, that is why when people say " live the moment" it means fuck all for me
@itsMe_TheHerpes4 жыл бұрын
@@RobM1606 we are always living the moment, just that some are selfish pricks who never think ahead, never think of the consequences, never think of others, etc. it's a feature especially encountered in the generation that were teens in the 70' and 80' and 90' . worse generation ever, and totally responsible for the mess that my generation has to endure. now ALL OF YOU, get the hell out of my face, you make me sick.
@zeldazetz425412 жыл бұрын
I love how the scene goes on long enough for us to see the realization set in of what they had just done. Too many movies end while the main characters are still on their 'high', I think this adds a touch of reality to the whole scene.
@blackberry86152 жыл бұрын
ikr
@josecarranza75552 жыл бұрын
It can be a reality either way though.
@RockSmithStudio2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Too many stories have their protagonist/hero riding into the sunset, living "Happily Ever After". In reality, that's not how it works. Even if you get everything you want at the end of a certain chapter in your life, you still have to keep on living and moving on to the "next chapter".
@josecarranza75552 жыл бұрын
@@RockSmithStudio It doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen though.
@773SleepyHollow2 жыл бұрын
@@RockSmithStudio Yep... it seems to me that too many people (especially nowadays) are bothered by ambiguity in the ending of a film or a TV show. Their definition of a "great ending" is one where everything is spelled out to the nth degree.
@jradetzky13 жыл бұрын
i love how they dont kiss at the end and just look so confused, like two children who had done mischief
@saintleoraunt23414 жыл бұрын
jradetzky 💯
@bernadettebockis41202 жыл бұрын
She knew the guy at the altar was wrong. Not sure about her future!
@dwayne601 Жыл бұрын
They're not acting here. The director forgot to yell cut so they're genuinely confused lol
@BogusLion Жыл бұрын
They're not confused, they love each other, they're just tired and accepting the choice they made which is the most difficult one and now they're thinking in the consequences and the responsability they have to accept for it, but they know they did the right choice, it's ridiculous what people think about this ending. It doesn't matter if the director didn't said cut, in the editing room they saw the scene and saw it was better that way, cinema is made with such scenes, improvisational scenes or "mistakes" that are better than the actual direction they wanted for the scene.
@JoshFreilich11 ай бұрын
@@BogusLionit’s like the last shot is giving looks that say “Now what?”
@oscarsucre90593 жыл бұрын
The ending is so brilliant. She looks at him searching for confirmation and he ignores her, as he were about to say: "Don't blame me for what you have done. You made your choice!" That is what is life is really about. To make a choice and to stand for it.
@lexkanyima21952 жыл бұрын
But was it a happy end ?
@ClaviHaze2 жыл бұрын
Not really, the director intentionally left the cameras rolling for too long, it was the actors wondering why there was no "cut" for a while
@memyselfi95762 жыл бұрын
@@ClaviHaze duh, he did it for their energy to naturally dissipate. I swear you types who look at the world through a literal fact only lense are insufferable.
@ClaviHaze2 жыл бұрын
@@memyselfi9576 I mean, of course? But the thing is that the comment I'm responding to says he purposefully ignores her and it's not like that. Talk about taking words literally
@lexkanyima21952 жыл бұрын
@@ClaviHaze ?
@strider11911 жыл бұрын
He's as confused and aimless in the last scene as he is in the first.
@ahheck68008 жыл бұрын
But one difference is: he is free. He can make his own life choices now.
@johnnypastrana67276 жыл бұрын
Bravo...good catch, he is flashing the same confused look in the final scene as when he was when he was landing at LAX in the opening scene. Then she gives him a good hard stare and wonders...what will come of them now.
@Mini-Toast_5 жыл бұрын
Ah Heck Is he though? It seems that instead o carving out a path he wanted, he simply rebelled against what he didn’t want. But the path that the rebellion did carve out was not a path he wanted either. I don’t think the film was ever about the struggle of the protagonist overcoming adversity to gain freedom or happiness. Due to how we aren’t really shown his wants and desires other than wanting to escape a life he does not desire. But his desires are never framed because we don’t know what they are. All we know is that he fought to escape all those people and finally did. But it’s left in the air whether the road he’s going down now is even the one he wants. How can he, he doesn’t know where he’s going just that Elaine will be there the whole time. The story seems to be framed as a cautionary tale. That when young individuals are forced to conform to the desires and expectations of others, they will naturally want to rebel. But where that rebellion brings them might not be a place they want to be either.
@maximumoccupancy5 жыл бұрын
"I'm a little worried about my future."
@rcain52915 жыл бұрын
Yeah. Same twist as the heartbreak kid
@RobertDavis-qt2ve5 жыл бұрын
The cross locking the people in the church ..awesome symbolism
@UnderBridge4 жыл бұрын
yeah, like if he was fighting against vampires
@IndyDefense4 жыл бұрын
And Dustin Hoffman is Jewish lol
@mysoncrumphaseveryinjury38534 жыл бұрын
@@IndyDefense imagine him doing something like this kzbin.info/www/bejne/o3-pdplmh5hoY8U at 3:17
@MissNamaSlay4 жыл бұрын
@@IndyDefense so it should resonate even more! 🤔
@godstomper4 жыл бұрын
Fighting off demons
@katep337611 жыл бұрын
I find myself relating to this movie more and more. I feel that the ending is subjective to individual people. For me, it's the realization of how scary the real world is once you don't have someone making decisions for you.
@BartSimpson-jd2vs4 жыл бұрын
You've got to kick asses
@leafyishereisdumbnameakath42592 жыл бұрын
Kate P wow
@Pfth Жыл бұрын
You need someone to make decisions for you?
@thatanimepfpguy Жыл бұрын
If you think you can relate to this movie now just wait till you become Mrs Robinson with only Jesus left to love you.
@jannathompson2262 Жыл бұрын
@@thatanimepfpguy ❤❤❤ Great comment!
@Cvwavy4083 жыл бұрын
The last scene is the definition of *“I’ve won, but at what cost”*
@MelancoliaI Жыл бұрын
I like to think there was difficulty and struggle, but they built a life together.
@12classics3910 ай бұрын
Yeah, I don’t think it’s about their feelings for each other evaporating, necessarily. Their actions in the church essentially bound them together, like their own version of marriage vows. They know how they feel about each other and that’s the ONLY thing they’re certain of. Everything else is unknown. Where will they live now? Where can they go? They have no home, no money, no more connections, no car, no clothes other than those they’re wearing. Of course their smiles fade. They have a lot to figure out. But they’ll figure it out together.
@misteraxl110 жыл бұрын
I like the very ending so much. Their transition from overly happy enthusiastic couple, thinking ''yeah, we made it, its a wonderful romantic ending just like in movies'', to confused and maybe even scared faces thinking ''well ok, but what now? we screwed up...''
@peppermintcookie55315 жыл бұрын
misteraxl1 what does this ending mean?
@james_fisch5 жыл бұрын
My interpretation is that it puts a realization on a lot of cliche dreams, particularly the marriage. One of the best things I heard about the trope is that when everyone lives happily ever after, that's usually the end of the story. Instead, The Graduate recognizes the inner fear of a minority of people in a wedding: what comes during the day after? There is always the day after a huge event like that, and leaving it open by facial expression reveals similar thoughts.
@piteusx84405 жыл бұрын
Hope is excitement. Hope is also scary. Hope is unpredictable. That's the beauty of the ending. It's real life.
@exceltraining5 жыл бұрын
there's shades of the ending from "long good friday" there
@erwinc.91175 жыл бұрын
@@peppermintcookie5531 the director didn't call cut after all the acting was done, which left the actors confused since they have done all their instructions. This exact expression is what the director wanted to capture, as it reflects how the characters feel.
@rebeccadonaldson620712 жыл бұрын
The way Elaine calls out "BEN!" always made my heart stop. It was full of such passion!! Ah I love it.
@12classics392 жыл бұрын
Katharine Ross is such an underrated actress. She managed to pour so much emotion into her voice while yelling at the top of her lungs, which is not easy to do.
@Zavvorov2 жыл бұрын
I find it very funny :D First we hear Ben screaming repeatedly like an animal during mating season. And then female answers!
@MaltiPoo236 ай бұрын
The movie's climax.
@pac40110 жыл бұрын
3:55 Look at what we did! By 4:18 it was "Look at what we did". Two different emotions. Just brilliant acting and with no words. Great great movie.
@fitchmate232112 жыл бұрын
That level of uncertainty at the end has been haunting us for years....decades.
@goldieboylover98613 жыл бұрын
i love how the ending is kinda like: "so... what now?"
@jerrygil19653 жыл бұрын
Same with The Florida Project
@JD1710a4 жыл бұрын
"It's too late!" "Not for me!" That line has always stuck with me, I love it.
@jerrygil19653 жыл бұрын
Then she slapped her
@sunkintree2 жыл бұрын
crab mentality
@motherbrain862 жыл бұрын
@@jerrygil1965 probably not the first time that happened
@rmsdimples85332 жыл бұрын
"NOT FOR ME" She said in the deadest face ever.😂
@motherbrain862 жыл бұрын
i can only imagine elaine has been abused by her and mr robinson plenty a time
@hcronos9 жыл бұрын
The ending is just insane. Full of youth and romanticism. I love it
@Jhann929 жыл бұрын
I think you didn't get it :/
@Monroe-is1sz9 жыл бұрын
harry cronos You watched the ending, right? yeah, I don't think you got the point.
@sitting_nut9 жыл бұрын
harry cronos ending is "full of youth and romanticism"? not! did you stop watching before the getting to end? or were you blind? or is your comment ironic?
@johnnypastrana67276 жыл бұрын
Those two made a brash move but the question is...when they no longer have their parents to pay their bills, what will they do and how will they feel then? Ben's parents might be a bit upset at him for banging Mrs. Robinson too.
@Talisguy4 ай бұрын
@@sitting_nut No, it absolutely is full of youth and romanticism. The film just subverts the idea that this kind of thinking, this kind of ending, is always a good thing. Something can be full of youth and romance while also being _stupid._
@davemack19464 жыл бұрын
The changing in the characters' expressions is key. It starts out with all smiles and laughs, as if to say "haha, we sure stuck it to them. We're independent adults, not kids anymore. No one can tell us what to do. We followed our heart, not the whims of our repressive society." And then the staring off shows that uncertainty. She looks at him as if to say "OK, you got me now, I'm yours. What are you going to do with me" and he stares straight ahead as if to say "I don't know." And that's very much what it means to grow up. You eventually have to have an answer to "what are you going to do now" or else you're never going to do anything
@leafyishereisdumbnameakath42592 жыл бұрын
Dave Mack wow
@diviner_baltasar6 ай бұрын
Actually most of the time you dont have that answer and thats the beauty of it! That uncertainty is hard to embrace and takes a lot of maturity/humility to but it's well worth ❤
@Happyduderawr2 ай бұрын
Yeah, they are gona end up dealing crack in some ghetto neighborhood to support themselves if that guy doesn't come up with a fully baked plan.
@flubbycat17249 жыл бұрын
I love how the ending leaves you with the thought "Well now what??". Ben and Elaine finally broke away from their families and society and have made their own major life choice and rules. It looked like they (especially Elaine) was either questioning if their choice was too impulsive and foolish or were perhaps nervous about what the future holds now that they were on their own and have finally done something that wasn't decided from their families, but from their hearts. There's so much internal dialogue going on in that scene; a very golden ending to one of the most amazing films ever made in cinema history!
@RenegadeSalmon12 жыл бұрын
This final scene is the reason this is my favorite movie. The story begins with the completion of a great accomplishment, and its conflict is the great question of "What's next?" Their expressions on the bus show that it ends the same way. They're initially elated with their achievement, but you can see it fades quickly now that they need a new direction. They grow solemn, but there are still flickers of happiness. It's like you see a time-elapsed version of the rest of their lives together.
@Potential9410 жыл бұрын
I'd like to believe they ended up staying together, mainly because I'm a sucker for happy endings. I'd like to think that it was a hard fought battle, and they overcame every obstacle that got in their way. The ending is just brilliant. Amazing film!
@PartialKredit10 жыл бұрын
Part of the point of this ending is that they have no other choice BUT to stay together. They effectively cut everyone else out of their lives and only have each other now, like it or not, love each other or no they're stuck with each other because of what they've done.
@Mini-Toast_5 жыл бұрын
It seems that instead of carving out a path he wanted, he simply rebelled against what he didn’t want. But the path that the rebellion did carve out was not a path he wanted either. I don’t think the film was ever about the struggle of the protagonist overcoming adversity to gain freedom or happiness. Due to how we aren’t really shown his wants and desires other than wanting to escape a life he does not desire. But his desires are never framed because we don’t know what they are. All we know is that he fought to escape all those people and finally did. But it’s left in the air whether the road he’s going down now is even the one he wants. How can he, he doesn’t know where he’s going just that Elaine will be there the whole time. The story seems to be framed as a cautionary tale. That when young individuals are forced to conform to the desires and expectations of others, they will naturally want to rebel. But where that rebellion brings them might not be a place they want to be either.
@mrHoppedupford5 жыл бұрын
They got married had a couple kids and then got a divorce 12 years later.
5 жыл бұрын
Potential94: It did turn out good for them- in the sequel novel to the graduate theyve been married +10yrs. the book itself wasnt that good but anyways the plot involved them trying to get help from mrs robinson who's still mad
@oksharks3584 жыл бұрын
Don’t watch la la land then
@zzyyxxo10 жыл бұрын
just one of the best movie endings ever.
@AdhamOhm5 жыл бұрын
"She is yours. After a time, you may find that ‘having’ is not so pleasing a thing after all as ‘wanting.’ It is not logical, but it is often true.” - Mister Spock
@daviddraiman42374 жыл бұрын
Correct. Quite a fact actually
@silasmarner75864 жыл бұрын
I dunno dude. Katherine Ross? Pretty super fine. And hey look. She's been married to Sam Elliott for decades. She'd be the one. Verrrry easily. I wouldn't look back.
@999Patriots11 жыл бұрын
One of the best movies ever, great cinematography and a movie that launched the career of of the one of the best actors ever, Dustin Hoffman.
@yahstino4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@MrRodsby11 жыл бұрын
Love the scene where he traps everyone in the church by using the cross.
@edmundmichel74895 жыл бұрын
christ the defender of love
@tinkerbri12125 жыл бұрын
Edmund Michel literally.
@BartSimpson-jd2vs4 жыл бұрын
The Cross , a weapon against the evil
@lvjoe61644 жыл бұрын
He stole it from Wayne’s World 2
@ravegandalf644 жыл бұрын
when he swung the cross like a madman was funny too
@fancy0face12 жыл бұрын
To me, their faces have always said, "It's not gonna be easy...we'll make it work"
@WannabeWryter4 жыл бұрын
I think there is more uncertainty to it, "I don't think this is going to be easily ... I hope it works." It has the joy of spontaneous rebellion but also the terror of chaotic unpredictability.
@WaffleAssasinX33 жыл бұрын
More like..."it finally happen...I hope it'll work cause if not, fuck "😂
@crazycookie46452 жыл бұрын
I like how this ending rips away the “we’re gonna run away together and be perfectly happy” fantasy. This is the very definition of being caught up in the moment and making irrational decisions. They just hopped on a random bus, heading to God-knows-where, they have no money, no plan, no car, no place to go, and no one to support them while they figure things out. The phrase “love is all you need” sounds all well and good, but once you remember that you need a way to actually survive, it becomes obvious just how shallow that statement is and how terrible this split-second decision was.
@integralsun2 жыл бұрын
He saved her from a marriage to someone her parents approved of not one that she could embrace. That’s justification enough to run and hop on a bus and not look back.
@solvemproblerstudios5889 Жыл бұрын
@@integralsun Exactly. They’re certainly in for some hardship- but she was in for misery either way. Would’ve ended up just like Mrs. Robinson.
@SamuelBlack84 Жыл бұрын
Life is all about not having a clue what to do next
@flukislucas Жыл бұрын
@@SamuelBlack84 Maybe for a dog. Sure, its good to be spontaneous time to time, but planning for the future, for a family and its future, for the random hardships of nature, illness, etc is also life.... a responsible one, anyway
@SamuelBlack84 Жыл бұрын
@@flukislucas Raising a family isn't always a requirement
@honeypeaches77363 жыл бұрын
Gosh I remembered this differently! When I saw the ending as a kid I thought it was the cutest thing ever. Now there's so much I didn't notice 😅😅
@LLFTAIPmetalman11 жыл бұрын
They don't love each other, they just love being rebellious. BRILLIANT :D
@johnnypastrana67276 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I think so too...it felt good to say eff you...but now they will live in the real world...and then go on bended knee back to their parents.
@delete--55634 жыл бұрын
.🤔😑🖕.
@delete--55634 жыл бұрын
@Xeino .🤔😑🖕 .
@delete--55634 жыл бұрын
@@johnnypastrana6727 .🤔😑🖕 .
@davejohnson-yi2rk4 жыл бұрын
I disagree. If you look at their earlier scene, where he apologizes to her for his behavior (before it all hits the fan) and she accepts it, you see that they're happy, and enjoy each other's company, at least there's some sort of connection between them which neither of them have with anyone else.
@brandonhubbard3 жыл бұрын
Elaine looks like an angel in her wedding dress.
@12classics396 ай бұрын
Especially at 3:24, she literally GLIDES past the camera. So graceful.
@Tomy-98785 жыл бұрын
3:00 notice when the mother tells her “it’s too late” she’s referring to being with Ben and she has to marry the groom. And when Elaine says “Not for me!” She’s referring to her mom being in an unhappy marriage and wasting her life with her father. in a way, She’s Vowing she won’t make the same mistake her mother made.
@jerrygil19654 жыл бұрын
Then she slaps her
@thomaslong84019 ай бұрын
Yes indeed.
@jeffreyworthen70335 ай бұрын
That's the part that got me ...her defiance of her mother when she said "not for me" in which her mother proceeded to slap the shit out of her....🤣🤣🤣
@jamesdas212 жыл бұрын
amazing acting. I love the way she looks at him like she wants someone to depend on. But he has no idea what he'd done and she realises it. Incredible acting with no dialogue.
@Timothy_Pitt Жыл бұрын
She realises she could have chosen better
@wwb208110 жыл бұрын
What a great director, and I'm glad that he was able to create all that he did in his prosperous life. Rest in Peace, Mike Nichols. Thank You for the great accomplishments.
@secondstring5 жыл бұрын
One of the greatest scenes in cinematic history.
@sexonvendingmachines13 жыл бұрын
Best four minutes of any movie that ever existed ever. Ever.
@jishnuvijayan975 жыл бұрын
I read somewhere that they forgot yell 'cut' so the actors were sitting in the bus seat just staring
@vuiwong79004 жыл бұрын
That’s how this became the most classic scene in the movie.
@Beeevaaa4 жыл бұрын
Lol that's such bullshit
@thegamedudeguy4 жыл бұрын
I've heard that too, but there's no way this wasn't intentional.
@jt33604 жыл бұрын
It's true that it was improvised. But Nichols, the director, didn't call cut on purpose. Then while editing, he decided to keep the vague expressions as a more interpretative ending.
@flingymingy3 жыл бұрын
@@Beeevaaa The editor, director and actors, admitted it was unintentional 😂
@vladimirtikhomirov17514 ай бұрын
Great movie! Great scene! Great songs! The triumph of Love! Enjoying this film endless times..
@critter705210 жыл бұрын
RIP, Mike Nichols, brilliant artist! Thanks for posting!
@LStarFish6510 жыл бұрын
this movie holds a special place in my heart since the passing of my Dad on January 5, 2014...I miss you Dad forever.
@reneaangenaam55154 жыл бұрын
may his soul rest in peace
@ryantres853 күн бұрын
I watch this and I can't stop think about Grandpa Simpson breaking the window and falling down when attempting to do the same lol
@mikeberry233211 ай бұрын
The music makes the scene even more haunting. This marked the beginning of ambiguous, not happy, endings in the movies that would continue for the next five or six years until Jaws and Star Wars ushered in the blockbuster era.
@leemh383810 жыл бұрын
This is a good and impressive film,making me,the man of mid 60s,absorbed in the memory of the past youth days.
@jroysims44 Жыл бұрын
Dustin is one of THE actors in movie history. He's done so many great roles well.
@delrey874 Жыл бұрын
The Graduate, Midnight Cowboy, Straw Dogs, Papillon, Lenny, All the President's Men, Kramer vs. Kramer, Tootsie, Rain Man, Sleepers, etc... He's in a lot of great movies and his acting is always great.
@amiblueful3 жыл бұрын
Katharine Ross is wonderful. And the Simon and Garfunkle songs added so much to this movie.
@GarethWonfor12 жыл бұрын
I never watched their faces in those last few moments on the bus so closely before... beautifully acted, you can 'see' the thoughts going through their minds... beautiful cinematography.
@pan0ptica11 жыл бұрын
Always thought that ending scene suggests their relationship won't last, but they had a blast. Fits into the time.
@TightMoneyGripp8135 жыл бұрын
Wow, looks like I found another gem to watch for the first time. Much obliged.
@plumlogan5 жыл бұрын
Did you watch it?
@JohnDoe-bz3ci5 жыл бұрын
When she screamed "BEN" it was one of my favorite moments in movie history. After this movie, as a teenager, I had a crush on Katharine Ross for a couple years.
@antoniboleslawowicz80954 жыл бұрын
A comic masterpiece for the ages! Note that, once seated in the back of the bus, Ben lets out a yelp of exuberant laughter. After awhile, he reverts to the vacant, apathetic stare he had at the beginning of the film, as he stares into a fish tank. Superb acting - superb direction.
@brianmulem1559 Жыл бұрын
"Don't let anyone ever make you feel like you don't deserve what you want" - Heath Ledger as Patrick Verona.
@collettewoodbourne66711 жыл бұрын
This film will never die. A true classic.....
@patchproductions56195 жыл бұрын
Jesus that ending shot says so much with zero dialogue. Arguably encapsulates the whole nature of being young and growing up. The fun, exhilaration and laughs but also the uncertainty and fear and the future.
@hkr00655 жыл бұрын
There's something oddly powerful about the way that the people just glare at Ben & Elaine on the bus. They give them these blank, emotionless stares. It's bone-chilling, actually.
@sansbudget3 жыл бұрын
Maybe because they're old and they've been there. They know the mistake that just happened
@12classics392 жыл бұрын
Or maybe it’s the opposite. Perhaps they’re looking at them with a sense of jealousy, as they wish they had the courage to rebel like this young pair just did.
@singelo1000 Жыл бұрын
She is so beautiful. Really gorgeous. And the music just strenghtens her beauty
@mthivier Жыл бұрын
I'm just realizing, on Dustan Hoffman's first two films ("The Graduate" and "Midnight Cowboy") the final scenes of both films take place on a bus.
@equilibrium_692 жыл бұрын
I had a moment like this and chose the same path. Never regretted it, but it's not for everyone.
@melvinruth53354 жыл бұрын
In the very end of the movie, it's the first time that we see Ben laughing. Love this.
@awalkerman12 жыл бұрын
This was filmed in my home town, in the church across the street from my high school
@itsMe_TheHerpes4 жыл бұрын
dude, that's cool. but i wonder if you are still alive after 8 years
@gabbygabs82713 жыл бұрын
Nice.
@Robbo19663 ай бұрын
Cool
@puff22200112 жыл бұрын
"Well, fuck, we just ruined our lives, didn't we?" "Yeah, pretty much."
@hopper60943 жыл бұрын
In a nutshell
@12classics392 жыл бұрын
More like “I just realized…we don’t have a home, money, contacts, anything … and we don’t really know how to survive as adults yet, do we?”
@6oclocknewsat83 жыл бұрын
When he closes his eyes after realizing he's too late, it's almost like his whole body shut down. But then he suddenly turns backs on and starts malfunctioning by repeatedly shouting Elaine's name. I love that scene so much. His love for her never died.
@12classics392 жыл бұрын
Perfect description of that moment … it seems as though he’s finally reached an insurmountable obstacle, yet looking down at her, he still can’t give up on her. The fact he got there too late isn’t enough to kill his love for her.
@cathyerwin572111 жыл бұрын
Everytime l see this movie l see something new. Such a good movie on so many levels...l really believe that Ben & Elaine have a long relationship having learned from their parents mistakes. Love it.
@johnnypastrana67276 жыл бұрын
Nah Cathy, we all learn from our OWN experiences, not from others. There was an old quote posted on my college auditorium wall that read: 'No-one is born wise, wisdom comes from experience'. No truer words were ever written.
@emmabennett7699 Жыл бұрын
@johnnypastrana6727 I mean we learn from both. A lot of us grow up with people that we don't want to be like, so in our adulthood, we try to negate what we felt the adults in our lives did wrong.
@jgonascar10 жыл бұрын
3:04 THE POWER OF CHRIST COMPELS YOU
@peppermintcookie55315 жыл бұрын
jgonascar 😂😂😂😂
@edpor685 жыл бұрын
jgonascar he he
@Tempusverum5 жыл бұрын
AND BINDS YOU 3:13
@joellezima35065 жыл бұрын
I know this is 5 years old but I cant stop laughing
@TigerBonez4 жыл бұрын
With the holy words of "OoOoOhHhGg!"
@NormAppleton12 жыл бұрын
That's it. Incredible work by Katharine Ross. She has the let down "now what" feel done perfectly. Elaine still made the right choice.
@12classics392 жыл бұрын
Indeed. Whether she stayed with Ben or not is irrelevant. She ditched a guy who would never make her happy and she had the courage to do what her mother could never do: defy society’s expectations and live life on her own terms.
@dancochrane6176 ай бұрын
I saw this movie at a drive in. I think I was about 15. I’ll never forget it. Later I was a runaway in NYC when Midnight Cowboy was filming.
@singfire10182 жыл бұрын
1:50 the way Hoffman’s voice sounds when he screams out “Elaine!” What a great actor
@mufasa2012 жыл бұрын
I brought myself here, because I saw this classic when I was 14 and not a day goes by that I don't think about it.
@happy54321010 жыл бұрын
today's Hollywood does not make movies like this any more!
@georgeguja61555 жыл бұрын
1967-1979 and a little bit of 1980 the beat era for American movies they haven't been made this good before or since with some exceptions
@jerrygil19654 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't say anymore
@colmhearne12 жыл бұрын
Young Dustin Hoffman looks like one of The Beatles!
@Allmax894 жыл бұрын
Like john ringo and paul mixed together
@MasonKLutz4 жыл бұрын
I guess he does a little.
@Goblin94944 жыл бұрын
Well that was just kinda the look back then lol it was the popular haircut. You’ve seen multiple kids today with same haircut usually based off whatever the popular musicians or actors are doing with their hair. It was trendy back then because of the Beatles, and the beach boys.
@ghostlyarranger4 жыл бұрын
I like how they ended this movie without a happy or a sad ending, it gives the audience perspective on how the characters don't end happily all the time.
@MelancoliaI Жыл бұрын
Such visual storytelling. You could know nothing about this movie or its plot, but know exactly what this scene is telling you.
@MemestiffGaming10 жыл бұрын
I hope Ben gets his car back
@12classics392 жыл бұрын
Considering that his parents bought it for him, I doubt he wants to see it again.
@grindsmore9 ай бұрын
@@12classics39 Hey, if it was an expensive gift from a severed contact, I'd still keep it (or flip it).
@Rob-g3j9 ай бұрын
That chord slowing down as the car slows down.... I love it ❤
@ricardomonteiro294310 жыл бұрын
R.I.P, Mike Nichols! Thanks for all the great movies!
@yahsworld29405 жыл бұрын
One of the highlights of 60s cinema right here
@danielc.887510 жыл бұрын
Katherine Ross was so beautiful, I always had a quiver for her, in all her pictures. The Stepford Wives, Butch Cassidy, and the Graduate, plus so many others. Those big brown eyes just made you crazy with desire.
@nathanmillette40472 жыл бұрын
I love this particular recording of sounds of silence, it just fits so well, it seems so melancholy and sad, I absolutely love it!
@yahstino4 жыл бұрын
This is one of the best films I've ever seen. The ending just proved that.
@susiespillikins608012 жыл бұрын
best simon and garfunkel song ever. perhaps one of the best songs ever.
@-ReynardFox5 жыл бұрын
How you interperate the end really shows what kind of person you are internally.
@nadeemafzal8984 Жыл бұрын
Total magic
@ericanthony79524 жыл бұрын
What I think is beautiful about this ending is that whatever happens for the rest of their lives, they'll always have this moment of bliss.
@12classics392 жыл бұрын
Exactly. And even if they don’t stay together, they will still remember each other as “the one who saved me from following the wrong path.”
@k.b.97164 жыл бұрын
I watched this movie when I was in Junior High in China. Can not believe that to watch it again as a single mom when my daughter is in Junior High now in the US. What a sweet timeless production.
@ryeosborne11 жыл бұрын
How could 20 people have downvoted this?! It's literally one of the best scenes in film history! (shrug)
@BigK1337210 жыл бұрын
It's probably because they fully understand the depressing context of that ending. Can't blame them, the overall movie is just one huge shit take on the ideas of legacies and coming of age; especially for people who are about to actually graduate from college with no clear plans for the future.
@denisesoares7818 Жыл бұрын
What a cool movie
@TigerBonez4 жыл бұрын
2:43 - 2:54 That was awesome! Especially at 2:53, I was dying of laughter. That was the most funny, epic, action packed sequence out any 60's drama movie I have ever scene in my life!
@SelGomezlvr12310 жыл бұрын
She's so beautiful /.\
@johnnypastrana67276 жыл бұрын
In the eye of the beholder...she doesn't do it for me...
@parkerjones65985 жыл бұрын
Both are beautifulll with three L’s... wish we had more actresses like Anne Bancroft and Katharine Ross
@deathlarsen75025 жыл бұрын
@@johnnypastrana6727 Awe johnny pastrami you really are a bitter self loathing angry depressed person. Are you gay? I bet when women look at you they not only say he doesn't do it for me but he's plain ugly.
@thebasedgodmax11635 жыл бұрын
Death Larsen lmao i think you’re the bitter self loathing person. he literally just said that he doesn’t find her attractive. grow up. she’s in an actress from a 50+ year old movie. get a grip on yourself man
@silasmarner75864 жыл бұрын
They said during the filming they didn't have wardrobe work on her. She walked on the set absolutely perfect, clothing and all.
@megan248410 жыл бұрын
Holy shit. Waynes world 2 just took a whole new meaning. I had no clue they were spoofing an actual movie
@Arl6625 жыл бұрын
Lol same here
@karoooso4 жыл бұрын
@@Arl662 "Sorry! Wrong Wedding!"
@algriffin610411 жыл бұрын
EXCELLENT MOVIE
@luisbarrera10995 жыл бұрын
Hey the heart knows what the heart wants. To be young again and run and jump with ease like these too.
@sanseiryu6 ай бұрын
Katherine Ross was an extraordinary beauty, and Sam Elliot to have been married to her for all of these years, a very fortunate man. Iconic film with an unbelievable soundtrack by Simon and Garfunkel.
@karenpotter35623 жыл бұрын
I like how she never lets go of her bouquet of flowers
@12classics392 жыл бұрын
Me too! That isn’t talked about enough. She had no reason to hold onto it but she did. That probably helped them when they got off the bus and needed money for shelter and food; she could’ve pawned her bouquet and gown.
@Gexon1000Ай бұрын
So much for tossing bouquet flower behind at the bridesmaid
@gavinreid83519 жыл бұрын
I an interview with the film makers apparently they left the camera rolling after the film was supposed to have ended for a couple more minutes. And said" wow! Look at their expressions. Leave it like that. " The ending therefore,according to them,became serious. A slap in the face after all the preceding comedy
@wataronelsonogawa72612 жыл бұрын
From millions of views and tens of thousands of comments, all I can say is this: The director/writer got the message right.
@Highwayman75492 жыл бұрын
Reality is set in stone.. living in the moment can be a missed opportunity... always chase the moment for we only got one life
@Danfunnyman12343 жыл бұрын
Legend says the director still hasn't said "cut" to this day
@prestuvius Жыл бұрын
This must have been so radical for moviegoers in 1967. Ruining a wedding, punching middle-aged Dad in a church, swinging a CROSS as a weapon, and using it to lock the doors. Genius.
@willrothfuss84704 ай бұрын
I saw it in 1967 as a teenager, and yes it was radical and wonderful, and then there was the music. One of the iconic movies of our generation.
@rumblingprune15255 жыл бұрын
I love when Elaine yells “Ben” and Ben just pauses than runs down the stairs.
@12classics392 жыл бұрын
He needs a moment to collect himself before gathering the energy to push himself away from the window and get back to running. He’s literally been running for miles and spent so much more energy yelling at the top of his lungs, all while dealing with heartbreak.
@superjay4212 жыл бұрын
I think you nailed it. They don't kiss, they don't celebrate their newfound love, there's just that moment of realization that their actions may have unfortunate consequences.
@usulnet138610 жыл бұрын
They don't make movies like this anymore sadly
@blindey9 жыл бұрын
Sure they do. They just all miss the point so hard. ;D
@sagewaterdragon9 жыл бұрын
Stephan Krause If you enjoyed this movie, I'd recommend watching 500 Days Of Summer.
@Logan-tt3fg9 жыл бұрын
You must not watch many movies then
@DaveDexterMusic5 жыл бұрын
No, because every movie can only be made once. Then it's made. But if you mean, They - whoever the fuck they are - aren't making movies that are funny and thought-provoking and sweet and sad, then you should watch more movies.
@franciscobenitez9055 жыл бұрын
Watch the Before trilogy
@edwardcricchio6106Ай бұрын
There had always been talk of a sequel, but it never got past the discussion stage. I would have loved to see what happened to Ben and Elaine after they got off that bus.
@Kelaiah01 Жыл бұрын
I always got the impression that at 4:12 they're both looking down at the same thing: their held hands. From that little detail, I believe that, while Ben and Elaine are nervous, scared and solemn about the future, they're going to face it together.
@12classics39 Жыл бұрын
You are correct. Still photographs of the scene reveal that they are in fact holding hands, which can’t be seen in the film’s closeups on their faces.
@mscottveach12 жыл бұрын
it's interesting.. haven't seen this for years... maybe 10... and the deadpan expressions at the end were so much more extreme in my head than in actuality...