YOU are my SUNSHINE - Secret to Enlightenment

Loving yourself is one of the hardest things for an individual to do.
We’ve been taught, from an early age, that there are good parts and bad parts of who we are. We begin to see those 'bad' parts of ourselves as something to be avoided at all costs. And yet, our shadow selves wouldn’t be as insidious if we accepted them instead of burying them away. If we can look at all parts of ourselves and say, “I accept you just the way you are” then in a stroke of irony, those parts of ourselves that we labeled as negative wouldn't have that much sway over our behaviour patterns.
That is what enlightenment is - lightening up on yourself and bringing the shadow to the light - learning to love and accept yourself unconditionally - being one and being complete with the totality of who you are. That is the secret.
Filmed in Singapore.
Featuring Zee (zeecornelius.com; Instagram: zeecrnls)
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Who is Reflections of Life? We are Justine and Michael (previously known as Green Renaissance). We use our passion for filmmaking and our love of storytelling, to remind our audience of one simple truth - that we are all human. The more that we understand and believe in this interconnectedness, the more we will treat ourselves, one another, and planet earth with a greater sense of compassion.
Filming - by Michael Raimondo
Editing - by Amy Cupido and Justine du Toit
Sound mix - by Tamryn Breakey
This video was produced in collaboration with The Everyday People, an online publication that shares inspiring stories of those living in Singapore. It is part of their ongoing video series "A Singapore Story".
Music sourced from ArtList - bit.ly/2KfrAt2
Understanding a Loss - by Marshall Usinger
Telephones - by mee
Depart - by Kyle Preston
I See You in Light - by We Dream of Eden
Ballerina - by Yehezkel Raz
I'll Understand - by Roza
A huge thank you to these guys, who gave so generously of their to time to help with translations, enabling us to provide subtitles in the following languages:
Bangla / Bengali - by Najneen Hossain
Bulgarian - by Polina Stoyanova
Chinese (Traditional and Simplified) - by Shun-Ying Lu
Croatian - by Davor Bobanac
Dutch - by Karla Greven
English - by Justine du Toit
French - by Amélie Macoin
German - by Tanja Pütz
Greek - by Vicky Polychroni
Hungarian - by Zorka Evetovics
Italian - by Grazia Gironella
Malay - by Zee Khamal
Polish - by Anna Konieczna
Portuguese - by Sibylle Steinpass and Lucivani Valvassori
Romanian - by Anca Zaharia
Russian - by Assiya Marzhanova
Slovak - by Zuzana Beratsova
Slovenian - by Jasmina Kovačič
Vietnamese - by Thi Le

[@ReflectionsofLife]

A huge thank you to these guys, who gave so generously of their to time to help with translations, enabling us to provide subtitles in the following languages: Bulgarian - by Polina Stoyanova Chinese (Traditional and Simplified) - by Shun-Ying Lu Croatian - by Davor Bobanac Dutch - by Karla Greven English - by Justine du Toit French - by Amélie Macoin German - by Tanja Pütz Greek - by Vicky Polychroni Hungarian - by Zorka Evetovics Italian - by Grazia Gironella Malay - by Zee Khamal Polish - by Anna Konieczna Portuguese - by Sibylle Steinpass and Lucivani Valvassori Romanian - by Anca Zaharia Slovak - by Zuzana Beratsova Vietnamese - by Thi Le

[@dax9369]

Hi, i can help you with translation into czech language :) i lvoe your channel

[@espritlibre366]

Merci 🙏

[@parry3231]

❤ Many thanks for your time in helping people to get the messages from these magnificent videos ❤❤❤

[@graziagiro130]

It's an honour and a pleasure to help you. It's therapy for me, too! A big hug to Justine and Michael, Zee and the channel's kind followers. 🌿

[@abhinpornkittipeerapat3244]

This is also lovely video. Beautiful story. Thanks for good words...

[@ZeeCrnls]

I am so overwhelmed with all of the kind words left by everyone here 🥰 Thank you everyone 🌻

[@ReflectionsofLife]

And we thank you dearest Zee, for your courage and your open and honest sharing of your experiences. You have touched the hearts of so many who needed to hear your story, and give hope to those who find themselves working through a difficult relationship with a loved one. We truly adore you! Sending all of our love, to you and Wan. Justine and Michael x

[@Cassieroll]

Thank you for sharing your beautiful outlook on life.

[@ruhijain980]

You are such a strong person! Inspired by your ability to always look on the bright side.

[@mariannerivoalen9141]

Your are beautiful, inside and out. You are a ray of sunshine. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@_nelson_1958]

🇧🇷Hi dear, thank you very much for opening your heart! I hope you are doing well! Best regards from Brazil!

[@bambismomkelly7423]

Thank you for this. There are many of us who survived childhood abuse, neglect, abandonment.. I am now 59 and still trying to recover. It can be hard to talk about because those that did not go through it, understand very little. Thank you for reminding me that self love is the key and not to feel guilty about it. Thank you for reminding me that I am not alone in this challenge.

[@juliavanrun-kilic1744]

You’re not alone🤗. Many of us……..We’re the same age!☺️. I was looking for a long time outside myself for love and happiness. Until I discovered that I have everything INside! (I started meditating, learned to self soothe(calming my nervous system from feeling very unsafe and unaccepted) and self parent, I had to learn to look at the very negative self talk that resulted from childhood patterns…and understanding I can choose to change this…..I confused being strong with being hard on myself. And therefore on others. My fears made me controlling, which hurt myself and others. And I began to see that it IS possible to change! So important the message this lady gives: compassion for others can only happen if we can be loving and compassionate with and within ourselves. Because everything, EVERYTHING!…starts from within……Big hug!🤗

[@ReflectionsofLife]

So good to read that Zee's message encouraged you, thank you for sharing with us that you also had traumatic experiences. May her words help you to heal and love yourself more and more. Sending you warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@m.mercedesalonsosevilla2090]

Good video,soothing and positive message, thanks

[@stevenprice776]

Thank you so much for this ; it gives me comfort & joy ; at least for the moment .

[@karinuytterhoeven2878]

Same here, you are not alone ❤🫂

[@cathywyman8103]

Learning to love yourself is the greatest gift you can give yourself.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Yes, and so many people struggle with it. We hope her message encourage and inspire many. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@sandrablom4600]

Emphasis on "learning", coz loving ourselves doesn't come naturally. I have to remind myself of that. ❤️

[@Lifeinthewyldewest]

When I’m struggling. I watch this channel. It always pulls me back to a place of gratitude. I once commented that this channel hands down was my favorite. I still feel the same. I’m also a content creator and follow a good amount of channels. Everyone would benefit from watching this story along with the many others I’ve seen.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Your words touch us greatly, it's really wonderful to know that the videos on our channel are so valuable to you. We hope to share many more uplifting stories with you. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Poemeloentje3310]

This touched my heart. The moment Zee told her story and said the hurtful words of her mother out loud her emotions were so profound and deep. Despite therapy. Such wounds, you can learn to handle the feelings but the wounds become a part of you. A token of grief and soulsearching and a token of courage and vulnarability. A part of you keeps thinking you are not enough. By telling her story and by sharing this beautiful video with the world Zee transforms the pain into helping others and spreading love to those of us still struggeling. Only a very special person with a big heart can do that. To forgive and honour the hardship of the one who did this to you is very beautiful. I can relate to the story. Both my parents told me ‘I did not want you’ in my early years. So I cried a river too. My husband and child have healed so much of the pain, by accepting my love and by loving me. I am 59 years old. Still learning, it is going to be ok though. This was transformed in this generation, that is what I am gratefull for. Much love brave Zee.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Your message is so touching, encouraging and helpful. Thank you for sharing these wonderful thoughts with us. So wonderful to read that you were able to heal to some extent. We wish you all the best and much love for your journey through life that's ahead. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@moonlighteternal8024]

Im glad she found a beautiful soul to be her husband. You can literally see how happy he makes her. She deserves all the happiness her heart can hold!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for your touching and kind message. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@moonlighteternal8024]

@@ReflectionsofLifeWelcome!

[@wooden_branches]

What a lovely lady with a beautiful heart and smile. I’m so glad you have a wonderful husband who loves you so much. Wishing you every happiness and thank you Green Renaissance for bringing, yet another, beautiful and heart warming story. Your channel has changed my outlook on life dealing with childhood trauma.

[@katherineraven6381]

wooden_ branches Perfectly said....

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We thank you for your touching message for Zee and also regarding our work, we truly appreciate it. So glad the different videos are meaningful. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@wooden_branches]

@@katherineraven6381Thank you

[@mandie3049]

"You'll never know dear how much I love you so please don't take your sunshine away" . My mother used to sing this to me when I was a child. Thank you.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

You are welcome Mandie. Lovely that we could share this song with you. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@douxchats2868]

I could feel Zee's ache. In 57 years of memories, one of my first and repeating ones is of my Mom saying she wished I had never been born. It is painful beyond words to know that yet another has had to nurture themselves in an arid desert through life...and I rejoice in the love and safe space she has found. May we all find our place. Peace and light always 💜

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Sorry that you also had a traumatic experience, very sad. We hope you were able to heal to some extent. May her message give you strength and inspire you. Sending you much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Wewillbeokay8]

My mom abandoned us when I was only 12 years old. I’m healing now at 40 years old but I realize all my life I’ve looked for my mother’s love in every person. And I know that isn’t fair. I’m able to move forward now knowing she’ll never be who I needed her to be but I forgive her and release her. But when I was little, before she left, she would sing You Are My Sunshine to me, and I would sing it for people for a quarter. 😊 That song feels bittersweet for me. May the universe continue blessing everyone with love on their healing journeys. ❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Wow, your words go deep, thank you for sharing. So sorry to read about your experiences as a child. We can see why that song is bittersweet for you. Thank you for your kind and and encouraging words for everyone that needs healing. Wishing you all the best for your own healing journey, strength and warmth for every new day. Sending much love and kindness to you. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Wewillbeokay8]

@@ReflectionsofLife thank you 💕

[@SimpleModernWoman]

Love yourself, forgive others, speak with gratitude, be kind, be open to share love. Thank you 🌞

[@ReflectionsofLife]

It's a pleasure, so happy you enjoyed the message the shared. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@dkxlzk]

There's so much we can learn from one another. I absolutely love the documenting of 'normal people' and their stories because through this I feel like we're less likely to otherize those who live in situations and places we're unfamiliar with. Perhaps through this we can also realise that we're more similar than we think. Brilliant. 💚

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Lovely message. It's such a privilege to share these stories with everyone. Yes, we can all learn from one another no matter where we live. Good to have you with us on our journey. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@nyanazulu8756]

I was crying like a whale... you are so kind and caring! You have the heart and smile of a child like your husband, I love when he's hugging you, I hope your sunshine always stay with you, be both happy, blessed and safe 😇🙏

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Such a touching and kind message, beautiful to read. Nice that her message could touch you so deeply. Sending you much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@lovinaa1000]

Hi Zee, my experience was similar to yours, including physical abuse, so I would like to thank you for sharing your experiences. I agree with your statement that you forgive and understand your parents. You are a wonderful soul, and may God guide you and your family through this life journey. My mother did all sorts, but that's how she was raised, and once I understood, I was able to let go and forgive.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We are saddened to read about your experiences Maria Rosa but it is wonderful that you eventually were able to understand your mother and forgive. We wish you all the best and much love as you walk this path of life. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@lovinaa1000]

@@ReflectionsofLife Nothing is too sad in this life ☺they are all experiences we endure but thank you for the kind words, my friend and much love too💞.

[@iamaktewari]

If one who is not inside me, can love me so much, then I can also love myself - Profound

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Nice that these words were so striking for you. Thank you for watching this video. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@LCLW63]

Zee's smile at the very end says it all. She has come through the darkness to find herself💜

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Lovely message, so happy you enjoyed the video. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@TadejPasar]

This channel instantly became one of my favorite ones on KZbin! I am so happy to share these stories with people and pay it Forward. Thank you Justine and Michael for bringing people's stories to a wider audience 🙏❤️ Zee, you are beautiful and so right! Gratitude and self Love 🤗❤️

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We appreciate your kind and encouraging message Tadej, wonderful to know that the various stories mean so much to you. And we thank you for sharing the videos with others. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@loribislin2592]

Thank you so much for introducing us to Zee. What a precious, beautiful, inspiring human being. She warms my heart.❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

You are welcome Lori, we are so happy that you enjoyed 'meeting' her. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@patriciamoffitt9543]

More anxiety this week than I could handle. Went online to look for meditation and found this. No one is alone in their suffering. Love yourself, be thankful and think of the person who is your sunshine. A very touching offering of yourself, a blessing and love to you.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Sorry that you had a difficult week Patricia. We hope her message can help you and give you a bit of a peaceful mind and heart. Sending you warm hugs, may next week be better. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@kasondaleigh]

Sending my loving thoughts your way. ❤️

[@fearthehoneybadger]

Bless those with kindness in their hearts.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Beautifully said. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@fairelaine]

"Grateful for what I have instead of asking for what I do not have."

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Nice that these words stood out for you. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@blairbrujita]

So beautiful Zee! And thank you lovely people at Green Renaissance for giving us content full of wisdom, hope and healing ♥

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Glad this story spoke to you Blair. It's a pleasure to share these stories with you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@fs5368]

I believe that she herself is sunshine for many people around her and also for the viewers of her story all over the world including me. Her tears are my own tears. I pray for her, her family, and the people who are still struggling.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for your kind words, so lovely to read all that you shared. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@luannedimaggio7025]

I got the biggest smile when she started to sing. What a great way to wake up. Wonderful!!!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Lovely message Luanne. Glad her singing made you smile. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@elainearchibald9020]

My Grandmother used to sing "You are my Sunshine" to me as a very small child! It is a beautiful memory for me. I grew up in a family of 7 children, I was the second oldest. My mother used to lash out at us when she was going through menopause, I saw her very angry. She had a lot of guilt afterward. She used to say that there was no birth control during those times and life was difficult. Thank you again for the beautiful and touching videos that you share. Humanity needs these, many are lost within their turmoil inside.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

So lovely that the song brings back good memories Elaine. Thank you for sharing your experiences openly too, we hope it can help others as well. We appreciate your kind and encouraging words about our work. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@LifewithAlegria]

How beautiful. Her husband’s love transformed her pain into self-love. Love changes everything. Thank you for sharing her journey and this beautiful message. 🌸

[@ReflectionsofLife]

It's a pleasure. So happy her story spoke to you. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@cheryldingley4546]

Zee is the perfect example of how to overcome pain and trauma and still have the most beautiful smile and a beautiful loving heart. Thank you 🙏

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Lovely message, thank you Cheryl. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@susanpetersen5851]

'You Are My Sunshine' was my mom's favorite song to her children. I wish Zee had never heard those horrible words from her mother's mouth. I am glad she was able to forgive her. I'm glad that found her legacy; finding self worth, being kind, experiencing joy and moving far away from any past darkness in her life. " I've seen the sun shine through...through and through." ~Zee Cornelius~

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Lovely and touching message Susan, thank you for writing to us. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@oregonmagoo57]

Zee, I was the first born son of a couple who tried for 7 years to conceive a child in the 50's. Despite the love that was lavished upon me, it was never my intention to have children. When I was 36 years old, my partner became unexpectedly pregnant and I was at a loss as to how to proceed. An elderly woman at my work helped me reframe the situation into a 'gift' that eventually lead to a very loving and nourishing relationship with my daughter. I can never thank her enough.......

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for sharing this experience with Zee and all of us, what a touching story. How wonderful that the lady was able to help you to get a different perspective, and that you were able to build a special relationship with your daughter. Beautiful! Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@user-uw7yj2vk8e]

Salaams 🌹I cried when you said what your mother said to you when you were 10. My mother was very difficult too. I am 56 now. I have been through therapy too. I am so much better now too. I am so glad you are now getting the love you deserve my sister. "Be kind" like you said Simple as that. Peace & blessings to you always!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for your encouraging and caring message. Sorry that you also had difficult experiences as a child, so good to hear that you are doing better as well after receiving therapy. Sending you many warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@user-uw7yj2vk8e]

Very kind of you! Hugs & blessings!

[@peremahsreebalan2543]

I totally agree with you my dear soul.. To Love others is to Love yourself, to forgive others is to forgive yourself and the highest mantra is to be humble, kind , grateful n thankful to the Creator..I Love you and let's spread our Sunshine energy to every living being on this planet. ❤ Stay blessed.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

So wonderful to read that her message resonated with you so much Peremah. Thank you for sharing these thoughts with us. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@peremahsreebalan2543]

@@ReflectionsofLife stay blessed always 🙏

[@ReflectionsofLife]

And you too dear one!

[@GrandmotherWindsoftheEarth]

Thank you again. What a lovely couple. I am so happy and grateful for my life which includes my own 'Wan'. xxx

[@ReflectionsofLife]

You are welcome. So nice to read that you also have a loving partner. Wishing you happy times. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@YoungerOlderElder]

Thoughts: Togetherness in the rain... reflection for self, with others... words, wording matters... learn-know-share your narrative about living - loving life... gratitude of what I be-have-do... kindness... wonderfulllllllllll, YU!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We love your thoughts, thank you so much for sharing them with us. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@darkangelkate3950]

What a lovely young woman! She deserves to be loved and happy. Hugs from Canada 🇨🇦

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for your kind and caring words Kate. Sending you warm hugs all the way from South Africa, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@GrandmaEllen]

I grew up with that song. It still comes to me, so I was immediately drawn into this story. She has landed in the best place after working through her pain. "Love others as you love yourself." How can one love others if you don't love yourself? Love is, in a sense, a practice, a set of actions.Love yourself and kindness (or compassion) toward others, especially your children. So much gratitude and happiness after this video. Many thanks. Grandma Ellen, with sunshine in between rain showers.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Oh what a wonderful message Grandma Ellen. And so special that you knew the song too. Glad we could share Zee's story with you. Sending you much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@christinevoge5071]

I also grew up with the “Sunshine” song. My mother once had my two younger sisters and I perform it on stage when I was about 11 or 12. I haven’t sung it for a long time and that’s a shame because it’s so uplifting. I will sing it today and every day until I die now, thanks to this inspiring young lady above and the capturing of her beautiful soul. I’ll be 75 on Halloween! That’s a spiritual work song to keep me going. Thank you so, so much Green Renaissance!

[@GrandmaEllen]

@@christinevoge5071 Sing it now.

[@christinevoge5071]

@@GrandmaEllen I’m singing it now! Thank you.

[@erwinestruwig2288]

Zee, I can see you are happy. That is wonderful. Thanks for sharing your beautiful message with the world. I am going to love myself more after listening to you, Zee!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Lovely that her story had such a positive effect on you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Ericaf0708]

This one touched my heart , what a beautiful sister all the best to both of u❤ May you jave many blessings to count on!!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Such a kind message, thank you Erica. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@lck21]

You are a beautiful soul that shines.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Lovely message, thank you. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Jennian_3]

I wish her all the love and healing that her heart can hold. "You are my sunshine my only sunshine You make me happy When skies are grey You'll never know dear How much I love you Please don't take my sunshine away"

[@ReflectionsofLife]

So, so kind, thank you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@farooquekhawaja5465]

Prayers for you and the team of green renaissance that you always be happy Ameen

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you Farooque, we appreciate that. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@EdDiaz]

Her pain runs so deep that I felt it BIG TIME through my phone as I am watching this video. I'm so sorry you went through that. The good news is that what matters most is how you finish this race called life, not how you start. God bless you and shower you with GREAT love. You deserve it❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for your kind and caring message, for being so open to what she shared. Sending you warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@kmbrco]

The harsh, reactive words thrown at us as children embed in our souls. It takes a lot of work to understand that they weren't really about us at all. I'm so glad that Zee has been able to recognize that, even if the pain of those moments can still hurt. I wish her continued happiness and sunshine.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for sharing these thoughts with us and for your kind and caring words. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@charlesmiddleton3247]

If each and everyone of us could spread and give kindness, unconditional LOVE and a genuine smile of peace to one another each and everyday ... our world would not be in this chaotic state, it is in! Love your "inner being" so you have Love for others. From a Vietnam Era Marine Corps veteran.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We appreciate your message Charles. So true, love, kindness and smiles make a huge difference. May messages like Zee's create hope and positivity. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@charlesmiddleton3247]

@@ReflectionsofLife The work ethic, effort and messages You reflect to showcase human experiences is truly a life lifting experience in itself.:-). Thank you for all you do.

[@maripons8217]

You touched my soul and my heart,you are. A. Beautiful woman,keep always your sunshine,and show It yo the world trough your eyes,like you do now,thanks,thanks,thank you so mucho yo share.❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@longlost8424]

in my life the greatest lesson I've learned is the ability to let go of the things that haunted (drama/trauma) me from my past. with consciousness also comes the reality of the past since we're all products of our growth as individuals. sometimes we can be influenced by shared experiences, though in the end they all come down to our individual reactions to these experiences. the act of "letting go" allows us to escape that lingering jolt of realization that the experience isn't the sole definition of what it means to identify me as a person. its just an experience.... no different, no better or worse than any other has gone through as they've walked the path of life here.... every one of us will eventually face of finality, our demise from this consciousness. I've chosen to face mine without bearing the weights of the negative past experiences of a fully conscious being..... which is why I have no fears..... not of the past, and not of what the future holds of my experiences.......

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Interesting thoughts, thank you for sharing your experiences. Wonderful that you can say that you have no fears. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@katnip198]

This is a beautiful loving woman. She knows enlightenment, experiences it. It was a hard road getting there but she did it. Thank you. Bless her.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

A deeply touching message, thank you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@donmcallister3745]

So glad you found your sunshine… wishing you both… continued peace… 🌜🌞🌛

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Such a touching message Don. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@elletuppen4844]

You have cultivated a beautiful lens on life through understanding your suffering. Such innate wisdom but refined by your painful and joyful experiences. Bless you…sending you a huge hug from a stranger✨✨✨

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Beautiful and encouraging words, thank you for sharing. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@debrapastfield183]

What a beautiful woman, I felt I wanted to give her a hug 😊

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for wanting to give her a hug Debra. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@MiaLens]

My grandma used to sing me that song. I wish I could send her that video so that she knows I know she's with me.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Such a special and touching message Mia. Sending you warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@groundedunorthodoxy8000]

I had recently spoken to my mom and she shared how she is regretful she wasn't as supportive financially to her mom befire her mother passed away. i know this is besides the point but when she shared this i think what she is sharing is that she is also wounded and unable to give what motherhood is for right for me, she also admitted that she has favoritism. It only took about 32 years to hear her about this. Im trying to figure out now how i can be ok and self parent myself so that inner child can be free again. That conversation with my mom despite of that nature, has already broken the glass of despair and the unknown for why we had to go through some difficulty at a very young age.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

So special that you were able able to have this conversation with your mom, thank you for sharing this info with us. That is surely so helpful for your further walk through life. We wish you all the best, may that inner child heal and be free again soon. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@sunshinecreativity01]

So glad you found that human being that brought the best out of you ❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for sharing her happiness. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@HeatherValentineMsFoodie]

You’ll never know dear how much I love you please don’t take my sunshine away❤ LOVE THIS as most but really loved this!!!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Beautiful message Heather, thank you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@bodhi9464]

You are my sunshine ☀️ 🎶 LOVE that song ~ Peace and Love M & J ~ omg ~ I just want to hug this lady ~ sending her so much love . Beautiful ending ~ watching them holding hands . 🇿🇦🇦🇺✌🏽😎❤️

[@ReflectionsofLife]

So happy that the video touched you deeply, thank you for your kind message. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@melneu7278]

What a beautiful soul with wise words ❤️🙏🏻.... Thanks to her and Green Renaissance for this inspiring and touching portrait

[@ReflectionsofLife]

You are welcome Mel, glad her message spoke to you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@kailashbedi3404]

God bless you and your “sunshine” … may the sun forever shine in your life Zee. ❤ 🌷🙏🏼🌷❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

So, so beautiful, thank you Kailash. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@maripons8217]

You touched my soul and heart,beatiful woman,keep your sunshine inside all your Life,thanks,thanks,thank you for sharing,and for your smile,so warming❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Beautiful comment, glad the story touched your soul and heart. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@rebeccajourney3183]

Oh my, my heart hurts for her❤ I cannot imagine being told that. I send my love and hope her heart will heal.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We appreciate your caring words. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@alvaroherrera3842]

Thank you, I didn't know morning coffee tastes better with tears.

[@katherineraven6381]

alvaro...... 😔 ♡

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for sharing so honestly how you felt watching the video Alvaro, your words say a lot. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@sandradavis33]

WOW! When the video started, I just wanted to give her a hug. It brought back so many memories, I wasn't sure I could watch the whole thing, but I did. No matter what we must keep moving forward and it looks like this young lady has done that. I'm glad she found a good husband who is there for her 100 percent.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for watching the video, we are glad you were able to despite all the memories it brought back. Your encouraging and kind words are beautiful. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@parry3231]

We all deserve love and kindness with respect and compassion. We are worthy of a place of peace and joy in life. Blessings to all of us in the world. Thanks for your brave and heart breaking truth about your life. I am very saddened for the treatment that you endured. You are absolutely incredible and very inspiring by your gift of understanding that brings you to a good outlook on your new perspective. The information about your life is certainly important for others to understand the process of healing and creating a healthy relationship with understanding and care of themselves. Love yourself and then you can expand the love to others too. This is a very important part of our relationships with our own healing process and living with dignity and joy. Yes, gratitude is a great blessing for the daily reminder of all of our blessings And I am very grateful for your comment on the power of being kind ❤❤❤ Much love to you Zee and blessings to you and your family ❤And to all of us equally in this process of learning to be kind and thoughtful with respect and nurturing. ❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for sharing this caring message, your thoughts, views and good wishes Parry. We hope that Zee's message can help others, give hope and encourage those that have experienced the same or something similar. Sending you warm hugs, Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Couleurintuitive]

What a profound wisdom. Yes to love ourselve is the hardest thing to do. Light and dark aspects, because dark is the hidden part of us, not in the sens of evil but in the sens of what we don't know about ourselve.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Glad her message spoke to you. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@debbiewalker273]

What a beautiful soul she is. I don’t even know what it feels like to have self love, even at 62. I do have love for other’s. I think what I went through as a child prevents me from loving myself. She inspires me that there is hope. Whenever I see people that are genuinely happy, it makes me happy.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Such a touching message. May her story encourage and help you on your journey through life to be kind and more loving to yourself, may you overcome whatever happened to you as a child. Yes, there is hope. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Bearcub599]

So true, what we have or do not have is always relative, in comparison with others. It’s far better to focus on ourselves and what we actually do possess right now and cherish it. Because you never know it may not be there tomorrow. Wishing you all the happiness xxx

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and kind wishes. Really glad her message meant much to you. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@eddytheman1384]

Thank you Zee , Justine and Michael ! All of us are vessels in the see of humanity waiting for departure.Why we came to this realm and why we had to went thorough what we went its unknown but everybody can look for their own meaning/sense of this journey. HPL to ALL !

[@ReflectionsofLife]

You are welcome. Thank you for sharing these thoughts with us. Sending you warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@jenniferlouise4538]

Zee, you are a beautiful soul. The most beautiful people experience some of the darkest moments. Your mistreatment by your mother never had anything to do with you. Hurt people...hurt people because of the unresolved pain they carry. But you didn't perpetuate the cycle. Keep shining your light 💕

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Such kind and encouraging words, thank you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@alicedent8864]

I’m so glad to hear Zee share story, and happy that she found love and learned to love herself! It’s hard work to understand why people take their own anger out on innocent children. Thank you GR💚

[@ReflectionsofLife]

So glad her story spoke to you Alice. We thank you for your caring and kind message. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@citizenenak]

Sometimes someone else can light our candle and tend it until we are able to ourselves.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Beautiful and touching words, thank you for sharing. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@citizenenak]

@@ReflectionsofLife what is awakening to you?

[@wildrosecece]

Oh sweet woman, you are loved, that’s all I can say. Some of us, never have our feelings validated with our parents, but I truly believe, there I’ll. Time, when we pass on, that all will be healed with those from our past.😊. I am glad you are in this world with us.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

What a touching and caring message, thank you for sharing it with us. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@gustavhands7227]

The fact that this lovely woman is crying so painfully after all these years for the wounds her mother caused her.. means that her mother has not done her job yet. You can see this from Zee's facial features when she mentions her parents in the list. The vast majority of the tragedies of patients in hospitals, prisoners in prisons, broken families, drug addicts, prostitutes and suicides are created by parents through their terrible behavior. We call these tragedies and traumas time bombs in our society. The story of this lovely woman belongs to the category of miracles. The success of a nation is not shown by GDP, but by how many happy people are released into society by parents. This is true values ​​and national wealth.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts/information. Something to ponder on. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@jaquiobear]

Incredibly beautiful ❤❤❤❤❤ This touched to my soul. I love Green Renaissance videos.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you very much for your kind message. So happy you liked this video. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@papabear2515]

Beautiful, moving video - as only GR can do! This woman is so brave, so aware, so lovely and so incredibly wise. The most important relationship any of us have or will ever have is with ourselves. Loving ourselves is the foundation on which all relationships will be built - to withstand, to flourish or to collapse. We must be in a relationship with ourselves that is loving, compassionate and forgiving. What healing work she has done! It’s so brave. She is parenting herself - something we all need to do, especially when our original parents were unable to do so. Thank you to her and to all at GR for another beautiful video story. Hugs from Kathleen and Justin, Idaho, USA

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for your kind message. Yes, it's so important to love and respect ourselves. We hope that her story can inspire and and give hope to others. Sending you warm hugs to Idaho, USA. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Billyboicos]

Such a kind and beautiful soul. She deserves all the love in the world!!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

So lovely of you to write these words Billy. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@kathleennelson158]

This came at a perfect time for me. My biggest challenge is to love myself, and I so often forget. I get wrapped up in thoughts and feelings of what is wrong with me, rather than loving myself exactly as I am. Thank you so much for sharing your heart and your beauty with us. I feel moved by your wisdom and love. My good wishes go with you always.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Such a touching message, glad the video reached you at the right time. We hope Zee's story can help and inspire you on your walk through life. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@anastasiafilimonova9136]

I understand this girl very much...And indeed, we must cry, and shed tears, and talk as possible, to cure our inner children, our injured souls... I'm very grateful to you for your work.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

It's a pleasure. We appreciate your touching and encouraging message. Glad her story spoke to you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@merhawitamaniel3136]

What a lovely and heart-melting story 😢❤😊... Keep shining my Malay Lady 🌞

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for your kind and touching message. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@spmoran4703]

Nice voice sister . I sung it with you. My mother did not appreciate me either . She always thought thought her Nora my so called sister was better than me. Always I could do nothing right and Nora could do nothing wrong . My mother used to say , not to kill me. But she often asked me why was I was born . She should have aborted me . So I know what you have gone through . Finding the right man is like finding a gold bar in a pile of poo. I am glad you have found love you deserve it . You are a lovely lady . I think i have found the right man. But, you are right sister loving yourselves is the foundation to loving others . And size; looks all that does not matter . The right person will love you faults and all . We both know there is no perfection . I am grateful too for what I have . And BE KIND .

[@ReflectionsofLife]

It's very touching to read your comment. Just so glad you got through these times and also found someone that loves you. May you heal more day by day, and be happy on your journey through life. Sending you warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@spmoran4703]

@@ReflectionsofLife Thanks I am truly on my way to healing .

[@jramsingh3895]

My grandma used to sing that song for us...she passed a few months ago...😢😢..tank you for a beautiful memory❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We are sorry to read about the passing of your grandmother. So thankful we could bring back lovely memories for you with this video. Much love and strength, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@ameermark877]

A lovely young lady, well articulated ,how she express her self & pt of her journey, oddly enough i relate strongly wit wat she's saying , I pray the gud lord keeps shining a bright path in front her ,soo she can continue 2 find her way 🙌.ps luv ur channel, u ppl create som stirring content.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

So happy you enjoyed this story and also other videos. Thank you for all the encouraging and kind words. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@cr3684]

Thank you for your beautiful stories. I often find myself wondering why I'm not strong enough, or peaceful enough, or full of unconditional joy or love, and then I realise that these things can only come from the very source of good, and my job is to stay connected by trust and faith to the Creator, through His Son Yeshua/Jesus...when I'm close to Him I have everything I need, He is MY Sunshine ❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We are very happy that you enjoy these videos. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@cr3684]

@@ReflectionsofLife Thank you for all the beauty you bring to the world, it is much appreciated. I can't help noticing the various religions being represented; Muslim, new age, Buddhist etc, yet I haven't come across anyone on your films who identified as Christian, is there a reason for this selection? Maybe I haven't found it yet, would be lovely if you could point me in that direction! Thank you Justine and Michael

[@annekellner1060]

Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability. Sending you love and blessings.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We are glad we are able to share her story with you Anne. Thank you for your kind wishes Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@christinebarone2151]

Very wise words from a beautiful young lady.. love yourself. You are a blessing..

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Glad you liked the message she shared Christine. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@sarahjones8608]

Wonderful message, thanks for sharing lovely lady xxx

[@ReflectionsofLife]

You are welcome Sarah, so happy her message spoke to you. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@amandasymon4363]

Full of gratitude for what you have - I also believe this is the key to happiness. Also small acts of kindness 👊😊

[@ReflectionsofLife]

So wonderful her message resonated so much with you Amanda. Warm hugs to you, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@lilianasousa5401]

So beautiful ❤️ thank you. Thank you

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Pleasure Liliana. Glad you enjoyed it. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@hope-vx3rc]

Such a beautiful lovely soul and her husband thankyou for sharing your wisdom and love with us ❤️

[@ReflectionsofLife]

It's a pleasure, thank you for your touching message. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@dheema811]

Thank you for sharing your pain and joy with us. It made my heart swell with happiness for you knowing that you have someone to love and you are loved in return. The greatest gift in life! Sadly, that gift has yet to arrive at my doorstep, but my life of loving kindness goes on, regardless.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for taking the time to watch this video, glad it spoke to you. We wish for you that you find that special someone in your life. Sending you warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Crisjovi1]

A big, big hug to Zee, thank you for sharing. 💓May we all be as graceful as you. 🙌 And Green Renaissance, well you're just the best online content there is!! 💚

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We thank you for your encouraging and touching message. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Cill441]

Yes I've turned my difficult times grieving times into gratitude. It is the only way I may move forward. Thank you😊💛

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Glad her message resonated with you deeply. It's wonderful that difficult times and grief brought positive. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@mjm7131]

You are so transparent in your reflections of childhood. I stand with you, we had the same moma! Your smile is from your soul. I cried and smiled when I felt your inner beauty beaming out at me. Thank you for your loving, kind, forgiving Heart. From one gentle, reflective soul to another. Much love and gratitude.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

So beautifully written. We are glad her message resonated with you, touched you so deeply. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@thaconqueror777]

7:04 Ase 💜 She is so adorable. You can tell her inner child is so proud of her. You can see it 😊

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Beautiful message, thank you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@monaaby369]

She's really kind and loveable! God bless her heart 🙏🏽

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Beautiful message, glad you enjoyed the video. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@international1125]

Úžasné, že sa dokázala vžiť do matkinej role a odpustiť jej, aj napriek tomu že jej verbálne ubližovala

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Yes, it is wonderful that she arrived at that point/healed so much to be able to do that. A real example of forgiveness. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@user-sf3ek7zh2m]

Oh I just want to hug her and tell her she is beautiful. I was so happy to hear that she has a husband that loves her and that she has that love in her life❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for your caring message. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@LeighJames-dk6vp]

You are such a beautiful soul, from inside out. You are brave. You are strong. You are an encouragement. Thank you for the wisdom of your words, "Love others, but love yourself more. Be kind to others, but be kind to yourself more." It is indeed quite a journey from the pains of childhood to the truth of those words. Thank you for sharing your story. Keep singing!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

So touching, glad her message spoke to you so deeply. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@ALifeJourneyWithGod]

What a lovely lady! ❤ Thank you for sharing your story with us. Sending you a big hug from Chicago. Love conquers all!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for taking the time to listen to Zee's story, Ruth. Warm hugs to you in Chicago. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@mountainman4859]

I especially liked Wan. He clearly loves her. Not a word from him but it was clear.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Beautiful observation. Thank you for sharing this thought. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@TOGAB]

🎵 ......You'll never know dear how much I love you, please don't take my sunshine awaaay.🎵 Written by Louisiana Governor Jimmie Davis back in 1939, contrary to what others claim. As long as the message is gotten and shared, who wrote it matters not. We ARE each others sunshine, no matter what appearances. I love you kids, you fractals of the Creator, you beautiful aspects of a loving Universe, you reflections of God. Wake up and remember what you are, you'll be as amazed as I am.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for sharing the information and your thoughts. Something each one of us can ponder on. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@truthseeker000000]

Thank you for sharing your story with us. I cried with you. You are so courageous to speak your truth. you are a very loveable and generous human being. Thank you for being the beautiful and wise person that you are.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Such a touching message, glad we were able to share here story with you. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚