Why is he walking all over me? What to do when he takes you for granted?

[@simplymarilyn5295]

The truth hurts.....but I need it. Thank-you, Greta....it's time to change, for myself first!

[@Prodrig817]

When we know better, we do better. Stay encouraged

[@chrisnapoli8386]

She needs to STOP!! This is too easy and men don't like anything too easy. Women love your men, but understand you can't be a doormat!

[@8361eileen]

You''re advice is so on point!! where have you been all my life. Thank you.

[@GretaBereisaite]

thanks love xx

[@yuanliu2949]

Thank u so much, I used to be a that kind of girl too, now I am trying to change

[@GretaBereisaite]

You are welcome love x

[@wephotogal]

Oh gosh, that was painful. This is going totally against the rules.

[@jinna0512]

Excellent. I’m on the right track by backing up on my actions… cool down, cool off, back off!!! If he pursues yay… if not.., clearly answering honestly and truth sets us free!

[@ImCheesedOut]

I’m so glad you gave her advice... her messages were cringe

[@CRpatriot]

I appreciate the tough love please keep it honest I don’t want to be pathetic or a Doormat 🙏

[@missma2092]

brilliant so spot on always brings me back to earth and makes me realise when im going wrong xxxxxxxxx

[@Ivy-ym8zg]

I’m so glad I came across this video, at the time I needed it the most. Thank you so much.

[@GretaBereisaite]

Zephirah Ivy so glad to hear it love

[@gracelewis6071]

A guy asking you if you miss him is just asking for attention. I wouldn't even respond to a text like that.

[@evka24]

wanting attention is not a crime...he may had hard day and want some love:) I would say...do you miss me...if he says yes...I would say what will you do about it...hopefully fix a date

[@jagpreetkaur6375]

Greta it was really helpful. Can u make some more videos like that to just keep us reminded that we r the princess not a doormat.

[@miakayuki1068]

I'm like that on the early stages I'm not easy but after 2 years I'm tired of being hard to get and playing mind games. He started changing. We broke up on the 3rd year. I wonder how pong this mind games should last, should it last forever. I realized relationship is so energy draining I want love that will appreciate my love to him and I want to express my love too. But if you loose these games you will loose a man. I dont want a man that will turn off to me being expressive of love.

[@babitaa2481]

Unfortunately, most men are like that. But try if you can find somebody like you wish. I am sure there are humble and more grounded men. You might have to compromise with some of the points on your check lists in case you have one.

[@tekatt1]

Greta .. I love the hair,, I’ve wanted to do extensions so I’m lovin’ the look 💜

[@The_Azrah_Shah]

Thank you so much Greta I needed to hear I'm pathetic... That is really gonna help me. I need to change.... Thank you

[@membering]

Love your advice! Thank you 💖

[@luiza1103]

HAHAHAHHAAH greta was almost laughing while reading the text, cuz she was desperate!

[@snappyshotsnelson2566]

Makeup is beautiful! Very soft and

[@betanialacoste7945]

My man fights too hard for me; as though, he were fighting me. He wants me by brutal force in a panic, and is angry with me when I pace myself with my housing attorney. He wants me packed up, yesterday to move in now. Making him wait is wearing him out. I am undermining his heroism for the rescue.

[@evka24]

sounds scary

[@he5583]

Thank you 👍🏻Greta your marriage must be fantastic 👏👏👏

[@wyldawong4362]

In love with ur hair btw 😍😍😍😍😍

[@shammikamath]

Really u help a lot .ur genius.lets follow ur footsteps. Ty Greta ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

[@loopsienpeaches6661]

But it's so true tho like one time my friend was being crushed on heavily by a guy. He kept pursuing her for years. When she thought it's time for her to be sweet, she responded that by being sweet to him even sent him pic of her wearing eyeliner and asked him if she looked beautiful with it. The guy just said yes you are but when the ss of the chat was send in group chat, a girl said that his respond was too cold and that he should respond more sweet. We girls really think that if we respond men who are chasing us by returning the same level of sweetness and attention that the guys have given to us, they gonna be grateful, feeling appreciated, and think that we are nice. But actually they just got turned off and we girls think that that's also cuz they already get the thing easily and just dump that. Meanwhile we should just give proportionate care tho cuz again that's what makes these guys happy, not become bored to us and we too don't need to perform such extra attention. Thanks so much Greta!

[@TheKruelka]

What to do when you feel that his friend is making effort towards him and you feel like you should too, cause he says "will you make me this and that" and never mentions his friend did exact things (e.g. fruit salad or anything) but she did? Should I give him away in my mind and don't care? How to kill the love and the passion and wanting him to be yours? It is like a sabotage.

[@wynej8808]

If I am disappointed at my boyfriend, should I tell him this? (I recently feel sad because he didn’t regard my feeling as an important thing.)

[@monicalevyt]

Hahaha I laughed *so hard* hearing her reply to his question

[@mizzelectroamz]

I'm a bit confused I sort of gave a response simlar like that. It was a 9 year relationship and he walked out after an argument. But then he texts saying negative things "I can't feel the same way". But yet it's all via message and he cant say anything to my face. He says it's hard to see me but then on occasion he purposely bumped into me. I do want him back in trying but it's all this push and pull

[@ajay8521]

If he has showing less interest do you just not answer him for a couple of days and act like you’re not that interested? Think he is taking me for granted so I wonder if I should just act not interested back

[@iulioana]

Hi Greta, what happens if he, in the casual talks with a girl, brings up in the discussion another woman, as if he would be interested in her, even knowing that the girl he’s discussing with, likes him? What lies beyond this rude behaviour? Thanks!

[@srkb001]

This always confuse me. Women are advised not to depend on men. Men love women who are independant and not clingy..then we are told that men are conquerer they want to save. We shld let them save us or be independant?

[@shebacynn1320]

😂😂😂😂 am just as confused

[@LisaNEdwards]

hahaha I love you, and yes pathetic

[@howint1578]

How to tell a man/ warn him that I will never want to have children? I wouldn't like to put it out too late and men told me already they want to have kids with me. It seems that it's difficult for men to believe me. I have an impression they often think I say it to seem like something else or they think that I will change my mind one day. Last eventuality would be for me to adopt but also... I really don't think so. It's actually difficult to find a man that doesn't want children.

[@shammikamath]

Really appreciate and enjoy ed.thanks a lot

[@bernesemuir8022]

Thankyou for this

[@anettenorway8890]

Will it be too late to start giving less if you have been showing lot of attention for a few months etc? Is it too late to turn the tables back?

[@GretaBereisaite]

Anette m not to late at all

[@darkietallest6473]

Anette m no its not to late to stick it to the man

[@TinhaRolfsdotter]

Greta have you done a video on turning things around? I have watched many of your videos but didn't really see one?

[@Miko-yw5xt]

this is true, cut it out ladies...x

[@GretaBereisaite]

Christine Mikolajczyk 😍💖

[@nachitachoi]

Hello, how do I know if it is too late to turn things around?. Or there's always a Chance?.

[@GretaBereisaite]

Nachi Park what do u have to loose by giving it a try?

[@nachitachoi]

@@GretaBereisaite thank you for replying me!!!. This advice works on committed relationships too or just on dating ones?.

[@GretaBereisaite]

Nachi Park this advice is for a life time... so dating , relationships marriage etc

[@nachitachoi]

@@GretaBereisaite is there a time frame where I should expect some results? Or it depends on the case?. You look so much like an actress from a Netflix's spanish series named "cable girls" hahaha.

[@luxcess07]

Relatable. It makes so much sense as to why when you break it down 🌻

[@GretaBereisaite]

THANK YOU

[@phoenixrae7960]

I have sent a request to the fb group and havent been accepted.

[@lorrainebeauty]

Phoenix rae you need to contact Greta by message on her WhatsApp

[@Hellle89]

9 guys wanting their egos to keep being stroken clearly watched this video

[@ayukmarie5639]

you are the best

[@Great-Bharat-1]

U r an angel

[@jane-ew2jh]

Wat if their married it cant be she shows high value.just a question

[@MissxNemisis]

Be unpredictable and have your own hobbies amd life

[@BeingRashmi43]

Greta this styles suites on you🥰🥰🥰

[@Rasheens-Story]

She sounded annoying and clingy. I felt smothered for the guy😬

[@wyldawong4362]

Can't WA you. I'm from indonesia. 😍 dying to text you

[@GretaBereisaite]

wylda wong awww that sweet 💖

[@dmiri0921]

Humans are animals, actually.

[@richasharma9489]

What happens when the same behaviour comes from your committed boyfriend? When your boyfriend of two years take you for granted.

[@GretaBereisaite]

WhatsApp me with your question hun x

[@richasharma9489]

Dating Coach okay

[@nahidochka954]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@late921]

Hunters and gatherers

[@jsjs2347]

Best advice…don’t be pathetic!!!

[@ssgss4024]

Just to remind you all girls, an alpha male never chase

[@naomigates30]

Wrongggg

[@evka24]

alpha chase ..he got guts to get what he wants....

[@TinhaRolfsdotter]

Alphas always chase because he goes after what he wants. Alpha wannabes never chase though.