Grief, Heartbreak & Red Flags

[@shikomuhuri]

It’s her voice for me. I could listen to her all day. Love it. Love her story telling too

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Yup! Listen to her on Soundcity radio in Kenya!

[@carolinemwazi5583]

That is powerful. 'Would you want this for your daughter?' Helps to clarify things. Never ignore the red flags - no matter how tiny.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Absolutely!

[@raycheezey]

Definitely a lesson learned 🙏 Thank you Caroline 🤗

[@survivingmillenials4631]

I love her energy she made this episode so funny yet it is supposed to be sad😂 I literally can’t stop laughing 😂😃

[@raycheezey]

So glad you feel that way :-)

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

True she's everything!

[@janettole3442]

So bubbly😊

[@hoolioibutu3224]

It's the reggae vibe...

[@feinussayid2938]

Dark humor. It’s a coping mechanism from trauma. I do that too. Laugh at painful memories.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

So true! Thanks for watching!

[@amazingme4718]

My dad was hospitalized, and I had a feeling like a heavy log on my chest all day. I called my sister to ask after my dad. She said, "Don't shout!" It didn't register then. She repeated herself, "Don't shout!" I flung my phone and fell on the floor. I would never forget that moment. It felt like my life came to an end. It's been almost a year and I'm still hurting. In all of my pains, I give thanks.

[@gracewaithira7000]

Hugs my love❤

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

So so sorry!

[@amazingme4718]

@@LegallyCluelessAfrica Thank you so much.

[@amazingme4718]

@@gracewaithira7000 Thank you, sis.

[@naomimuthoni2473]

That point of losing someone and doing everything else to fill in the void touched me, relates to me . Thankyou for this

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Thanks for watching!

[@JayDwayneShow]

She Kept introducing me as a friend and not the Man, made me feel insecure and awful yet I got a lot of appreciation from other people. Im glad it ended. I totally relate to this 💯💯💯 Boldness Not settling for less 😍😍😍🔥

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Glad you connected with Rae's story!

[@jaccylaughter]

Wow could listen to her all day, she's bubbly. I love her. Thanks for having her Adele.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Thank YOU for watching Jacinter!

[@misspriscilla953]

I lost my mum last year December and buried her on Christmas Eve.. your story has made me have bitter sweet memories of the ordeal we had to go through. Grief is not an easy journey but we somehow find a way to stay a float. I like your sense of humour and calmness as you tell your story. I hope to share mine with such grace someday.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

So sorry about our mum! Grief is quite tricky to navigate for sure. Sending you peace and grace!

[@raycheezey]

Hey Priscilla 👋 It's definitely a journey that I think we'll be on for all our lives and you might not know this but you already doing the best you can ❤️❤️❤️ And I know your mom is your forever guardian angel👼

[@annenjoki3006]

She's so bubbly.. I could listen to her for a whole day 😄

[@raycheezey]

Awww Anne!!!

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Absolutely! You should check out her radio show on Soundcity :)

[@suesjournalmedia7634]

She's told her story in a beautiful way even the sad parts are very well put across. Waiting for the next video

[@raycheezey]

Thank you Sue 😊

[@peninahwamuyu3349]

Woooo..... Loss loss loss.... this takes me back to 1999. I lost my mum when I was 11yrs old. 22yrs later I'm still in the process of healing. Coincidencidetally today is her birthday. "Happy 59th birthday mum!" 🎂🎉🎊.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Sending you tons of love Peninah!

[@melissagitts]

I loved her humour in the conversation..also the vulnerability and authenticity is just something else. As well her appreciating her wrongs and going ahead to correct them. Amazing!

[@raycheezey]

Thank you Melissa ❤️ The life journey continues 💪

[@laurencewesonga9418]

Her energy is outrageous...Rae you are nothing but a queen.❤️

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

She really is a queen!

[@matildaasha4148]

Rae it was a joy listening to you. Great storytelling skills.

[@raycheezey]

Happy you watched it :-)

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Thanks for watching Matilda and yes Rae is amazing!

[@MissSheri]

I love how well spoken she is.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

She's awesome! Thanks for watching Stacy

[@nilahm]

Rae has such an amazing voice and her laugh is everything

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

I agreeee!

[@hanifasalim5822]

Everything about your story was just amazing! You spoke so gracefully through every feeling, such an eye opener

[@raycheezey]

That means so much 💕 Thank you

[@antonettewambani805]

My condolences on your loss even if it's years later. You shall heal from your break up , your positivity is on another level

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Such kind words!

[@raycheezey]

Thank you Antonette 🙏

[@tokyococo6996]

Rae you're very charming, lovely and your energy is contagious 🥰🥰🥰. I'm glad you realized your worth and left the situation. Must have been hard.

[@raycheezey]

It was ...I think it always is where love is/was involved. I'm so glad you watched this and thank you so much for your kind words 💕

[@yb6559]

HER ACCENT YOU GUYS....OMG, and her laughing at it while narrating is hilarious

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Rae's energy is everything!

[@raycheezey]

😂 Being able to laugh at these things now is one major thing I'm grateful for

[@_Sharon_J]

She is such an excellent bubbly speaker!! What a Rae of sunshine.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

She really is! Thanks for watching Sharon!

[@Lucynduku327]

I just love her personality, she is such a beautiful lady and a great story teller❤

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

She really is!

[@cebilendwandwe6857]

came across your channel. im hooked. love from South Africa.

[@maurynmbote3605]

Love, love this video. She's making it soo interesting in a good way even if it's a sad story.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Thanks for watching Mauryn! Yes Rae is amazing!

[@raycheezey]

Aww I'm just so glad that you watched 😊🤗🤗

[@christinekawira5113]

This sooo far is my best. Humour in the delivery of such serious life lessons.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Thanks for watching Christine! So glad you enjoyed it!

[@raycheezey]

Heart is so full ❤️ Thank you Christine

[@alisonlyezire9951]

I am sorry for your loss. May God continue to comfort you and your family.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

We will pass this on to Rae

[@raycheezey]

Thank you Alison ❤️

[@water_guy692]

I didn't know how much i needed this♥️

[@raycheezey]

*hugs*

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Glad you've connected with this!

[@fu_raha]

The ' I was just here on trust' aaah the character development associated with this sentence😂😂😂😂😂😂😅

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

And we can all relate! haha

[@raycheezey]

Facts 😂😂

[@sandiekiggz1237]

Yaani

[@tokyococo6996]

I ugly cried when you spoke about your dad 😓🥺🥺

[@raycheezey]

Miss him every day ❤️

[@riikoriawacu162]

Her little jokes making me smile amidst sobs of her sad story. You are a gem rae❤️

[@raycheezey]

Thank you Jackie!

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

She really is a gem!

[@Zambarau20]

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ You're so much stronger than you think 🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸 I'm really proud of you babe!

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Absolutely Mary-Magdalene! We're so proud of Rae as well!

[@raycheezey]

Thanks big sis ❤️

[@michaelzuberi3000]

I really love Rae's enthusiasm and how she tells her story!! Such a beautiful soul to be around. 💯🥰

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

So true she's amazing! Thanks for watching!

[@anitakarimi_kenya]

I like her and she is great at story telling.

[@raycheezey]

💕 Thank you Anita

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Rae is everything!

[@gathonz]

she's such a brilliant story teller . I loved this episode

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Absolutely!

[@martinamireri3719]

Amazing story telling!! Glad that the video series is back

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Yes we're glad to be back!

[@kristelmackrine5890]

She's such a vibe😂 plus the great voice...this story's really inspiring

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Rae's energy is everything!

[@blessedmweru2486]

Wise girl - you walked put of toxicity and have a money management structure that you follow to safeguard debt and brokenness. Well done!!

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Thanks for watching!

[@Chumomarion]

This was so beautiful. I’ve always loved Rae and knew she loved her father but I didn’t the whole heartbreaking story behind it. Hugs to you Rae. You’re such a beautiful person with such a beautiful voice, and yes we hear you ❤️

[@raycheezey]

Thank you so much Chumo!! ❤️

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Absolutely! Rae is everything!

[@chepkemoimaurine6534]

Amazing story, takes alot of courage..been there before. Sorry about your dad and I hope you heal.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Thanks for watching Maurine!

[@raychellewairimu2199]

Glad that you left early enough...some of us are still stuck in such relationships full of financial infidelity and unaccountability...😡

[@Prosperity23846]

Leave girl❤!!!!! Even if you have kids together you'll manage!!! Ignore what family members and the society will say! You can't be toiling for money from morning to evening then someone misuses and doesn't take accountability😠

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Hope you left!

[@vaatinyamai9888]

Her voooooice 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰. How she's turned her dissapointment into humor is just magical.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

True!

[@torikalekye3003]

I love her storytelling so much. It was a sad story but I had quite a few laughs....

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Yeah her energy is everything!

[@dicieokaya3434]

This is probably the realest episode I have heard... It's crazy how I am able to relate to it...

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Rae is so real!

[@beckyphala5436]

Her humor is out of this world 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

It really is Becky!

[@geraldgichuhi9573]

Amazing to listen to one of the best voices on the radio that I love listening to since back in the days #HRB

[@raycheezey]

Gerald!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@singlesmeetinternational]

, she is very whitty and loving. I love her voice and command of the English language. More grace and many blessings. ❤

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

She's amazing

[@elinamwikali1884]

Loved listening to this episode, mostly because it's an experience i totally relate with and also coz we share a therapist big up - Daisy form Convocare, she really helped me deal with my nasty experiences in life and now I'm a living testimony that therapy works 🎉😊

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Therapy works!

[@kaharalilian9065]

I had missed the video series ❤️

[@raycheezey]

You and me both!

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

We had missed y'all!!!

[@njeri.wa.solo18]

That man didn't deserve you and thank you for setting the standard for your daughter,it takes a lot of courage. I'm sorry about your dad.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Facts!

[@lindagatwiri869]

I didn't even notice time passing by,I love her personality.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

She's everything!

[@yusufbamulanga7865]

Awesomeness at it's best. Stumbled on this page following Lynn Ngugi but it's super super nice. Am a Ugandan domiciled in cold and deep NewHampshire but I only interact with Kenyans as in Mungaano yya Africa Mashariki and that's how I get good content from Jamhuri yya Harambee instead of chaotic Matooke land and M7's stranglehold on the Nation.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Welcome to the fam Yusuf!

[@carol5368]

Wow....sorry for the loss .Thanks for being authentic. I relate with the hospital scene...really heart breaking.even in the sadness, you made me laugh.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

True! Thanks for watching Carol!

[@EvalyneNyambura]

Our Ray of Sunshine

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

She really is!

[@wangechiwangareassociatead4345]

oooh wow. great lessons, well told lovely personality. I love how you laugh at yourself. same things I can relate. Eye Candy too

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Thanks for watching!

[@kindoreen7887]

I was really waiting for this episode. Notification gang

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Ay ay appreciate you!

[@nyokafikamau]

Such beautiful energy. Thanks for sharing Rae ♥️

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

We agree Esther!

[@raycheezey]

Happy you watched it 💕

[@FaridaKaru]

We went to Uni together... the most bubbly person. Sad to think she went through so much ♥️

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

She's amazing! Thanks for watching Farida!

[@beautyinalens1720]

It's so interesting listening to her Talk.... LOVELY lady and the laughter 😊...

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

So true!

[@survivingmillenials4631]

This episode was so beautiful 😭

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Thanks for watching!

[@annechawe8363]

I looooove her 😍😍😍 Thank you for these stories Adelle

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Thanks for watching Anne!

[@survivingmillenials4631]

Finally season 2👯‍♀️👯‍♀️👯‍♀️👯‍♀️👯‍♀️👯‍♀️

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Yup it's here!

[@SteveWachira]

RaeRae!!! Wow.. Thank you 😊

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Thanks for watching!

[@georginaloise8477]

My favorite episode 🤩

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Thanks for watching Georgina!

[@neens8109]

Her story telling is so engaging. That Timbuktu comment though, we as a people, need to realise that place holds so much wisdom and shouldn't taint it, in the same tongue and gaze as the coloniser. Visit it and learn about our history

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Ok!

[@petercarolynemunini2737]

Loved her from HBR

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Absolutely! Still loving her on soundcity!

[@shishi.p]

Beautiful in and out

[@raycheezey]

Sheila 🤗🤗❤️

[@gracenzivo6790]

I hope my hugs are needed.Hugs dear

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Hugs are always welcomed here!

[@tlotlisosekete7396]

Notification gaaanggg!!!!!🥳🥳🥳

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Absolutely appreciate you!!

[@Msapere]

My take: 1. There was a lot of good fucking in this relationship 2. They both grew as humans 3. She's is/was a freak (I support that) 4. Life is interesting Peace

[@munenenesh2295]

I have always loved Ray kiragu on radio

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Yup she's amazing!

[@angiewamuchomba8106]

It's the Humor for me..... Wow wow

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Haha thanks for watching Angie!

[@ruthcleopatra]

🥰 your style of telling your story eases the viewers mind. Time to move and humor about it too 🤭😍

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

So true!

[@risperwambui8369]

❤❤❤she's beautiful in and out

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

True!

[@dashb9053]

She is such a vibe😊😊

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Agreed!

[@beloncekamz2821]

Love #Rae, listened to her then on #HBR, she is just a ray of sunshine 🌞😆✨. Thanks for sharing💕🤗, hii Kanairo jo😂😂. Kazi safi👏🏾😘 #Adele this is a beautiful concept🇰🇪.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Rae is everything! Thanks for watching!

[@dotibernis]

You've got a great voice Rae

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

She's amazing!

[@carolynegatwiri7076]

I liked before listening 😁

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Hahaha lots of love Carolyne!

[@Kenyan28]

You are very strong 💝

[@raycheezey]

🥰 Not all the time which I've also realized is okay 🙂 Thank you Zipporah! ❤️

[@jjkui4535]

The VOICE WOOOW

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Facts!

[@nancy4106-9]

Happy you are back and I am loving it🙏

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Thanks Nancy!

[@nancy4106-9]

@@LegallyCluelessAfrica 👍👍

[@wangarindiritu7643]

Who can hurt such a soul? 🥺🥺

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

She's amazing!

[@beautyinalens1720]

Fantastic podcast...

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Thank you for watching!

[@nataliewangeci4007]

If I could like this video twice I totally would

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Thanks for watching Natalie!

[@RebeccabeckyMwangi]

New Set 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Yes Adhiambo the plant has joined us :)

[@RebeccabeckyMwangi]

@@LegallyCluelessAfrica yaaAay🥳🥳🥳

[@DjNiche254]

Rae ❤️❤️❤️

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

She's amazeballs!

[@omendaalice9905]

I was fast asleep. Then I just remember yesterday was Friday... It's 1:04am and I woke up to watch this . I couldn't wait to wake up.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Hahahaha we appreciate you Alice!

[@catherinenjau5615]

This is interesting! How does one make it to the cut.....to share their story? I honestly feel like I have a novel to share :)

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Fill out our storyteller form: linktr.ee/LegallyClueless

[@danielrerimoi7632]

"solid things"??

[@thicker94]

😊

[@Missguided28]

She's Soo fun... I followed all the way easily! 🤗🤗🤗🤗

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Facts! Thanks for watching!

[@mwatumusili7703]

Sleeping on the floor when you're the bereaved is really ghetto behaviour for sure. 😂

[@groomedbymuthoni7534]

New subbie😊

[@aluha]

❤

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Thanks for watching Tina!

[@_risingphoenix]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Thank you!

[@sakaform]

😂😂😂😂this is not supposed to be funny …its really nice laughing at your pain once you’re past it.

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

Thats true!

[@girl_woman]

14:35

[@gladwellmuchere1687]

You are so interesting...

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

She really is!

[@florencekamau4366]

I have learnt alot...I need your insta handle..I really need to talk to you

[@LegallyCluelessAfrica]

You can connect with Rae here: instagram.com/iamthe_rae/

[@thicker94]

😊