Grounding Techniques in Trauma Therapy

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[@CarlybutreallyBATMANBraverman]

There should be a t-shirt somewhere that says something like, "Currently rewiring my nervous system." That's so badass.

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BatmanNOS ❤️👌🏼

[@ManjuKannan23]

Love that idea !!

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[@angelarhodes9948]

The thought of being safe, makes my whole head fill with tears. I'm 62 and have never felt safe in my life. However, after watching this video and the PTSD/Anxiety video's, I will try to see if anything or anyone makes me feel safe that I didn't notice. Thank you for addressing these topics.

[@raisingthemayboys4739]

This breaks my heart. I hope you find what makes you feel safe ❤

[@kg8046]

Hi Angela, I am the same. I’m here today recovering from another trauma. Are you better now?

[@AlejandraSegura1]

I hope that you are feeling better now. Sending you love ⭐⭐

[@laurencolles2656]

Angelar I wonder if safe isn’t safe- so the thoughts are trying to keep your mind busy. TIPP skill from dbt might also be helpful, to just lower the intensity.

[@samanthamoore7209]

Here is my summary of what Kati talked about. I hope this helps someone! Grounding Techniques High zone: Feeling your body’s sensations in contact with surfaces Use a longer exhale Low zone Increase sensations: movement, yoga, hot showers, etc General Make a list of what makes you feel safe and write as much as you can about those things (people, a house, spiritual figures). Use sensory info (taste, scents, visuals, sounds, etc) Notice what you feel about those things (warmth in the belly, longer exhales, awareness of the face, the eyes get softer etc). Signs you’re moving in the right direction Social engagement system When the mom is feeding baby and is sucking, swallowing, and connecting with mom. Happens through eye contact, through voices, sucking and swallowing, smell, working with the muscles in the throat and neck Tools: Music or soothing voices, sucky candies/lollipops/gum, video of a safe person(even KZbinrs), looking at eyes that are warm(our eyes can get frozen in the low zone), hand on heart and belly with long exhale, singing etc Reminders Keep trying even when they don’t work immediately. They are needed to do trauma therapy. The goal is to remain in the resiliency zone.

[@DerAua]

Thank you!

[@sunnysideup2297]

this is so helpful thank you

[@aylamalcolm9035]

Thank you so much!

[@syira2732]

Tq sister

[@felicityclark7070]

Thanks. I appreciated a summary

[@kellibabb6141]

Rocking your body back and forth is a soothing technique that I just "discovered" that I feel may have to do with the socal engagement system. I let go of the shaming thought of "crazy people rock" and thought of it as soothing. And it was!

[@mlw__1986]

Babies get rocked to be soothed too so it's ingrained in our bodies for that to feel good. It''s a beautiful way to self calm and if it works use it. Thanks for the tip 💛

[@BeccaMarie39]

Honestly, when I get to the "I cant breathe" and the uncontrollable sobbimg phase of my pa if attacks, I automatically find myself rocking to calm myself down. It really does help

[@oliviagirgis3923]

@@BeccaMarie39 same! Naturally when I get to that point I find that I sit down usually with my back to a door to almost ensure I'm "safe" and alone and I would rock back and forth to regulate 💗💗

[@BeccaMarie39]

@@oliviagirgis3923 Honestly, the next time I have a panic attack, I need to try sitting with my back against the door, I think that would make me feel even safer. Im finally getting put on Anxiety meds, so hopefully those will help too. But Ive been having so many panoc attacks lately.

[@geckotime7552]

One thing my psychologist taught me to trigger that part of the nervous system is to keep your head straight and look to the side with your eyes for 1 minute. Then repeat but on the other side. I also focus on taking deep slow breaths at the same time. I always yawn afterwards so it definitely triggers that system. It's not easy at first your head my turn with you and you might forget your breathing but the more you do it the easier and better it becomes. Just an helpful trick I use incase it's helpful to anyone else. I suffer from ptsd and insomnia and it helps me just a tiny bit with sleep.

[@SweetStrawberryShell]

If you own a cat, don't have a staring contest, they see that as threatening lol

[@Katimorton]

haha! Great advice ;)

[@mostly_minerals]

If you do slow blinking they relax :)

[@monolithicshore]

Do slow blinking. It's what they love to do when they feel safe with you. You can mimic them or you can just do it when you want to say your cat you love them. It's so soothing as well.

[@tanyasobsessions2131]

It's the same way with dogs. Don't stare at a dog.

[@Goldmanvision]

Yup, slow blink, slow head nod, occasional light, happy vocalizations. Cats love that.

[@natsblogs]

I LOVE how affirming Alexa is. I'm lucky enough to live in a safe environment/feel safe, but her enthusiastic and heartfelt yeses made me feel so safe and warm and cuddled. She's not even directing them at me and I feel connected with and seen. Thank you so much!

[@sarahcisco3233]

I find the grounding technique incredibly useful when I’m in the “high zone” many times through my high school days I would just gently run my hand along the wall if I was close to it. Feeling the texture of the brick, maybe there’s a paint coating on top or it’s bare. This helped me immensely when I felt out of control ❤️💕

[@alexinatree2564]

I forget how important feeling safe is and this video just really impacted me.

[@anjiluhfortnite]

You do have a soothing voice Kati. My service dog helps me feel safe. I know, if I’m with him I’m not in the past. My therapist also seems to care, but my trauma brain isn’t convinced. This does explain why it feels soothing to sing 🎤. Singing like no ones listening I have to close my eyes and focus on the music. This video was helpful.

[@aubeyroa]

I feel grounded after just watching this video.

[@natashavernon9828]

Haha same!!!

[@catnotmylastname1545]

I've never felt more triggered.

[@xephini]

I find drinking strawberry milkshakes extremely soothing. I figured it was because of me finding the sweet taste safe, and that the cold worked as a grounding technique. But now I know drinking it from the straw might be why it's so soothing as well!

[@Katimorton]

Great idea! Thank you so much for sharing what helps you :) xoxo

[@ronathebear]

A 22-minutes video? THANKS you saved my day 😍☺️❤️

[@Katimorton]

So glad you liked it and the length wasn't too much!! xoxo

[@nikkir1664]

Hahaha, that's exactly what I thought: Wow, when Kati makes a vid, it's about 5-6 minutes. Then I heard the other lady speak and was like: oh, now I know why this one's over 20 :D :D Nice vid, tho!! (as always lol)

[@tempa04]

I needed this sooo much!! Sometimes I feel unsafe and it takes a lot to get me out . (To be present in each moment ) but love the length of the video and has given me hope. X

[@laylaschaeffer7701]

Do more videos with Alexa. She is great. I really liked the video and I am going to try some of those techniques. I like all of your videos😊 thanks for doing what you do.

[@margrietvanbaal7984]

This is only the third video I’ve watched on your channel and all I can say is THANK YOU for providing a safe zone for us all to find comfort and advice on things I can now see a lot of us struggle with. This is coming from someone who has gone to therapy and wasn’t comfortable enough confiding in someone I didn’t know personally.

[@TheAMELIOO58]

Alexa is so charismatic!

[@Katimorton]

I know right?!?! xox

[@rayoneforall]

4:17 "I love to dance!" Split second pop up text lol I was paying attention!! 😂

[@maddiesullivan588]

I was wondering what it said.

[@skylarclark9025]

This is a great series! Super validating and helpful. Can't wait to see more. Thanks for having her on here and doing this amazing project :)

[@RobinFae6772]

My safe place/things are 1. My stuffed animal puppy that I got for my fith birthday. 2. The stars. I always feel safe looking up at them. 3. (Safe people) my director at work when she is relaxed. 4. Two other people at work when they are relaxed. Something that I would put in my safe box is something to chew like chewy sweet tarts, a picture of outer space, celtic music, and my stuffed dog.

[@stinajacobs7866]

Thank you for the video. I am a graduate student and I share these videos both with my peers and my professors. I love sharing these with our clients.

[@TempRelease]

Thank you Kati for all your videos. I've finally after years of trying to help myself, have reached out and made my first doctor's appointment. I am terrified but know it's the right thing to do. Thank you for all the help x

[@AliciaStyleAndGrace]

This is excellent! Absolutely love Alexa!! She is so knowledgeable! Thank you for having her. You compliment each other beautifully. Looking forward to more videos.

[@truthlivingetc88]

this is genius level compassion. thanks.

[@tonycompton4313]

I'm currently working a DBT program and I love watching your videos they're definitely an extra resource and your voice is very soothing

[@francoislatreille6068]

Kati, thank you for doing these videos on trauma!!!

[@bentallard3546]

Thank you Kati! the four years of high school for me gave me a tone of trauma and 2 years later i'm still trying to find ways to cope with the worst 4 years of my life. To this day I feel like my life won't get better. I'm still getting help from all the drama and it's very difficult to move on. I love all your videos and I'm so glade I found your youtube channel. Love you kati

[@jessiethrelkeld3628]

I love love love this video!!! I've been in trauma therapy for 18 mo with ifs, EMDR and eft and this has been my experience!! Working on keeping myself in the resilience zone! Thank you for the encouragement ! We can heal!!!!!

[@mandamandrell758]

Jessie Threlkeld I do emdr, ifs, and Cbt right now

[@Katimorton]

Yay!! So glad you enjoyed this video and are getting the help you deserve!! And YES, we can heal!!! xoxo

[@MissxKissmyassx]

Thank you this is so helpful! Dissociation definitely is hard for me, now I have grounding techniques 💜

[@dawntudusk5266]

Thank you so much! This is all amazing and such good information. I appreciate it so much!! Sending you my love! xx

[@Katimorton]

Yay! So glad you liked it and found it helpful :) xox

[@64maxpower]

I love Katis' smile

[@misstallant]

After watching this I made an album in my phone of photos that make me feel happy, including family, pets and places I've been. It really helped and I'll definitely go look at it when I'm having a rough time. Thanks so much for your advice!

[@zarazeitlow7215]

That’s a great idea! I’m gonna try this.

[@free2beme107]

I Love your idea!💜

[@davidbrown6056]

I’m in EMDR therapy for CPTSD. I just can’t express in words how much this team approach video has and is helping me stay in the “resilience zone “. The straight forward approach using the white board along with the two of u giving explanations really helps me picture how to put what I am learning into action. Tks and love to you both. Dave

[@thehighpriestess8431]

Thank you for making this video. Blessed be!

[@CloudedIdeas24]

I feel so calm after watching this video. I'd love to see more videos of Alexa and you again!

[@Steffy2122]

I'm struggling bad with PTSD and BPD and this video has been an eye opener. I painfully been grinding my teeth since as early as I can remember. Apparently my older brother says since I was a baby. TMJ problems for sure.. just downloaded one of your books 📚 🙏🙏 Thank you

[@untappedinkwell]

I tend to do a jaw/chin/cheek massage from time to time, because a theater professor once taught us that we hold way more tension in our jaws than we realize. They're kind of difficult to do well, so they require some focus and they're very tactile. I don't know that it engages that sensation exactly in the way described, but it works pretty well.

[@vaiciciaku]

untappedinkwell thank you so much for the idea. I almost ruined my jaw because of chewing a gum constantly. This might be a healthier alternative!

[@untappedinkwell]

Vida CK You're welcome!! I hope it's helpful!! I tend to start right at my chin and work my way up the jaw until I hit the base (which is where the jaw bone connects to the skull--usually right around the bottom of the ears.) I think it's most effective when you focus on the face and neck parts of the jaw simultaneously but you do you!!

[@Katimorton]

Thank you SO much for sharing what helps you!!! You are amazing :) xoxo

[@untappedinkwell]

***** Thanks! Best wishes!!

[@lahdeedah3584]

Yay! I've been on the look out for this video. It's awesome and I can't wait to start using these techniques!! Thank you so much!!

[@Katimorton]

You are so welcome!! I am glad you are finding them helpful :) xox

[@meleromelero1]

LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS!!! THANK YOU!!!

[@MsTaraVlogs]

I call grounding skills "ammunition" anytime I learn something new. This series is incredible! Thanks so much Kati! Something that soothes me is baking bread because it reminds me of my Nana. She baked bread everyday. So finding things that are comfortable in our individual lives is very helpful. Hot Epsom Salt baths are amazing too as the salt helps with my anxiety and the warm water helps my depression.

[@aliakriel2551]

Love these videos. Thanks Kati!

[@doralburnett9886]

Well put. Never thought of these healing techniques of safety healing. Very appreciative of you two. Great breakdown. Helpful

[@MZFiVETW000H]

I’m in the low zone! Gonna practice these things! I’ve gone through so much trauma and I have no idea how to heal. And on a waiting list for a therapist. I like the box idea gonna fill it with stuff that comforts me.

[@alex.strongstrong2951]

Thank you so much this video helped me in so many ways

[@amybonner6486]

Thank you this was Very helpful. Have a blessed day xx

[@linasayshush]

I don't really like human interaction, so the things I do to calm down are usually very impersonal. I'm not into vocalizing or talking to someone or anything, I usually listen to some no talking ASMR and drink water and moisturize, hug my dogs, take a shower, light a candle, stuff like that.

[@youkai888]

same

[@ManjuKannan23]

Same

[@Sara-ef7mv]

She is great! Love these videos. Very informative. I learned some of these skills in the hospital, and it's really helped.

[@Katimorton]

Yay!!! I am so glad it was helpful :) xox

[@SvenskaXSuomi]

This is so cool! I am enjoying learning from you two - you both make such a great team!

[@Katimorton]

Yay!! So glad you are finding them educational :) xox

[@parentwithpurpose93]

Just wanted to say I appreciate your channel and I really like this video. I am an LMFT in Texas and I specialize in postpartum depression and infertility so I use many of these techniques with my clients and they are highly effective. Love the idea of putting them together in a resilience box. I admire your channel as I know how hard it can be to grow a big platform. I hope to do something similar one day. Thanks!

[@FUED221]

Great video! Thanks Kati😊. I'm doing an intensive DBT program now but struggling with mindfulness, so some of these techniques I will def try. If I'm really in distress the most helpful thing for me thus far is walking fairly quick, esp in the cold. It tends to ground me. However, it's not always pleasant b/c of the cold. You are the best😊

[@worldofsoumya]

Fantastic! I am a vocalist by profession, but I never thought it could be of this much help. Thank you so much for sharing this video!🙏😊

[@lkaw55]

Thank you so much for making this video! I'm in my first semester of my School Counseling program and this video helped me understand some grounding techniques for my mock counseling sessions far better than the textbook!

[@chummymummy]

I find brushing my teeth really relaxing and soothing!!

[@domg.1011]

I'm doing research for writing and I'm honestly so glad for subtitles! My adhd is blessed rn

[@hopefranklin7037]

Same here, adhd as well and hard of hearing too

[@autismaunt4075]

thanks so much for this kati, came at perfect timing, went though a freezing point last night when sibling was over, and working on trauma in therapy thanks 4 all ur videos n live ones there very helpful

[@Katimorton]

I am so glad it was helpful and came at just the right time :) xoxo

[@ryanliberty]

Great information! This series is going to help a lot of people. :)

[@lozza0810]

Watching this again years later and Alexa's voice is still one of the most calming I've ever heard!

[@jojothegreatest1]

Alexa is so awesome! Thanks Kati. I'm going to make my box. That's a fantastic idea!

[@jennyhughes1281]

This was one of the most helpful videos yet Thank you so much

[@Katimorton]

Yay!! I am so glad :) xoxo

[@korijowhitesides]

Omg I needed this more than anything.!!! Thank you Thank you Thank you

[@lookingforbooks]

Im currently in trauma therapy and this video series with Alexa is very helpful. Thanks for this!

[@DavidRoun]

I am a therapist in prison and really appreciate all the insight you have provided around trauma

[@Jo-lp1px]

Wow God bless you. I’m sure therapy is sorely needed there. Some people have horrifically abusive/neglectful childhoods and are set up to fail 😢 and the traumas just pile up

[@mandicorbett3950]

I've found that using a water bottle with a plastic straw is very calming to drink from throughout the day. This actually encourages me to drink more water and it helps ease the fight or flight response when needed. I prefer the Bubba brand from Walmart.

[@hairyfrankfurt]

I find chewing gum kinda relaxing, I feel like that would engage all the neck/jaw/throat muscles. And there are studies that show gum to be relaxing

[@LeonidSpartanKing]

Hairyfrankfurt i cant do now, got lpr for of gerd in abusive relationship :(

[@tempa04]

Bubble gum is nice too 😊🤩

[@kuselwaleona6483]

I will buy gum for myself.

[@lalithamurthy986]

Thank you kati .. as usual it was really helpful. Keep up the good work

[@millje7]

Hey Kati!! Love you so much!!! Could you maybe do a video about narcissistic parents and the abuse they can cause?

[@millje7]

Sorry, that wasn't worded as well as it could've, but I'm pretty sure you know what I mean! But you've been such an amazing help, I've been watching you for a long time now! Your videos are very important to me and the times I can't have my therapist here to help me, I just watch your videos and they help bring so much sense into everything

[@Katimorton]

I definitely can.. I will start looking into it and add it to my list :) xoxo

[@theliftexpert]

Excellent video ,,, I’m working on trauma recovery and this is a helpful visual 💕

[@jasminebensinger2868]

These are excellent videos. Thank you both

[@sarahansdell4976]

Great video, thanks ladies.

[@gabbiefulton8604]

Thank you Kati for this video it has help me understand trauma in more than one way. Thank you for giving me some tools to use.

[@gabriellehumphreys9943]

Useful info! Thank you

[@Seeyatellite]

Thanks for the video! One of my greatest coping mechanisms in childhood was just getting outside! Eventually, I picked up a camera and started carrying one around with me. Whether it was a disposable camera, mini Polaroid, manual advance, auto-advance or digital camera, I always had one with me from about 11-12 years old. I also picked up rollerblading and cycling around the age of 5-6 an skateboarding around 12-13 years old. These are all linked very strongly with simply getting outside and seeking new experiences and environments. I focused on escapism and avoidance during the rougher parts of disagreement between parents after their divorce. I still skate, bike and actually shifted toward legitimately professional photography along with mindfully intentional photo searches in my daily life. I expect I'll always carry a decent camera with me and I'm currently working on a compact, cropped sensor interchangeable lens camera for pocketing instead of lugging a sling or backpack!

[@uswauu4876]

Thank you for this video ❤️

[@kristavera3319]

Kati you're so helpful, thank you 💟

[@Katimorton]

Awe you are very welcome :) glad I can be a resource :) xox

[@jessicathomas9405]

Thank you for this video I needed it!

[@Katimorton]

You are so welcome :) glad it was helpful!! xoox

[@Zelig_G]

Your voices are beautiful. Maybe I’ll listen to you two when I’m in my trauma.

[@kimberlymccracken747]

Beautiful ladies. Thank you.

[@estellefranklin4730]

Thankyou for this, Chewing gum could also help, hugging the safe person when around, taking a hot shower-relaxes my muscles and really calms me down infact gets me in a better mood and I feel lighter :)

[@rachelpowell2338]

So interesting,! The hand on the chest and stomach is a good grounding technique that works for me :) great collab xox

[@Katimorton]

Oh yay! SO glad you liked it :) xoxo

[@laviniaturtle]

I've never experienced clinical dissociation, but I do have a couple anxiety disorders so I'm very familiar with the "high zone". Something I find incredibly helpful when trying to ground myself during a panic attack or just before one, is I use something called the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding technique. It's basically looking around your immediate area/room and identifying 5 things you can see, 4 things you can touch, 3 things you can hear, 2 things you can smell, and 1 thing you can taste. I do that over and over in my head or if I can I say them out loud to myself until I feel calm, grounded, and in control of my surrounding. A forensic psychologist who teaches on my psychology of trauma course at university said this is also a helpful technique for dissociation, however if one of those senses is a trigger of your traumatic disorder then leave it out. I also find that sitting and inhaling my favorite un-lit candle for a couple minutes or a roller ball scent I have that's herbal and meant to be de-stressing also helps in calming my nervous system. I would really recommend the 5-4-3-2-1 technique though, it brings you back into the present and allows you to focus and feel in control. :)

[@vishalkasture8492]

This technique sounds wonderful I would love to try it out thanx for sharing it

[@AdrianHiggins83]

Good video thank you so much 😊

[@quercusdream9291]

so so good. beautiful presentation and easy to understand. angels. namaste.

[@adriand.8399]

Thx for doing this I have always felt after a therapy session I am really hypervigilant like my eyes will be darting back and forth and taking in lots of sounds and becomes really overwhelming and then at that point I have racing thoughts which keeps me from concentrating in class and sometimes I feel like i am not even in the room so thank you for this I am gonna try this and see what works

[@littlelulu4107]

you know what I like about online therapy is that ppl can learn so much and fix themselves without giving away their power to some stranger in a room, under a microscope

[@teresaphillips9416]

This video is fantastic! Thank you so much! It also made me wonder if I go into freeze mode when I'm public speaking (because my breathing gets super shallow). This is so full of actionable take aways for me! :)

[@iris__and_rhizomes]

I watch this video over and over.

[@ClassPunkOnRumbleAndSubstack]

I've been reading Waking The Tiger: Healing Trauma and then I'm going to read The Body Keeps Score: Brain, Mind, And Body in the Healing of Trauma. Right now what I think what the trauma therapies of Somatic Experiencing and EMDR might have in common is: to relax, to some degree look at the memory bothering you, feel the fear and any other emotion associated with that memory, and see who or where the fear is coming from, and how that fear is based on a fragmented, absolutist view of reality, by seeing and feeling a positive memory connected to that fear, that argues against the validity of it enough to release the fear. I've done this a little bit, and had some shaking from practicing one form of Somatic Experiencing which is a little too weird for me to keep trying out, but both seem to have reduced social anxiety for me.

[@lesliealan6600]

Love you work! I'm a social worker in NYC and completed 200 hour yoga teacher training in 2014. What recommendations do you have for practicing yoga for ptsd /obtaining training to support wellness/grounding for ptsd? Thank you! Leslie

[@everythingabuseandmentalhe9943]

Feeling SOOO Grounded

[@jazlynbell8202]

Yoga helps me a lot with my dissociation! I gotta do more :) Thank you

[@jimbean9054]

Thank You For Sharing. 🤔

[@Rach113]

What about ASMR video for soothing? I find it helps me a lot when I'm anxious or can't sleep.

[@alysonw0nderland]

I really like the phrase "sleek & deep" for some reason. Lol. I thoroughly enjoyed his video. It was informative and educational. Thanks to you both for making it!

[@Katimorton]

hahah!! It does sound nice.. lol I am so glad you found it helpful :) xoxo

[@reggieparker9010]

Boom!!! Awesome!

[@mckayahpugh6554]

This conversation about the sucking reflex is SO interesting to me because I've noticed that when I'm in the "low zone" as you describe it, I tend to suck on my tongue and cheeks a lot, and it's always seemed odd to me. Now it makes sense!

[@aj32384]

Is it possible for someone to be in the low zone and high zone at the same time? A lot of the time I feel both extreme agitation and disconnection.

[@vaiciciaku]

AJ PharmD I have the same experience. As my trauma response is freeze I am not moving. But inside of me my head feels like exploding and my heart is pounding and inside my head I am fighting to death. So exhausting! And also if someone triggers me like asking about weather I can explode and almost eat an innocent person to death!

[@courtneylovesreading4116]

AJ PharmD I totally know what you mean.

[@Katimorton]

Yes!! At least with my clients.. especially those with C-PTSD. It's like it's too much and we have to check out (ie. freeze) but we are still hypervigilant on the inside.. heart pounding, head racing, etc. My advice would be to try the different techniques Alexa offers and see which ones help with both sides of it. xoxo

[@luticia]

*hahaha* I just has the same thought w/out seeing your post!

[@teresaphillips9416]

Good to hear... I feel like that describes me too so very much of the time. I feel more empowered to have some ideas on how to ground myself in every day situations.

[@TheOtlc56]

Hey Kati I was just watching your video when I was talking to a responder who works at the destress center I was trying to tell her about a trump traumatic experience I had at 25 and i had a panic attack the responder got me through it and I was able to tell her about it good thing I subscribed to you or I wouldn’t have talked about it after 7 years plus to top it off I was formed as a 5150 or a form 1 in Canada I’m part of the Facebook group she called me resilient.

[@thisaccountisdead9060]

The weather is pretty dreary most of the time where I live. The room I am in was originally very bland with cream walls; I brightened it up with an earthy green and brown (like trees) on one side with a random bubble pattern that stretches across a whole wall, while on the other side I have a brick orange against a sky blue wall with another random pattern of squares - so it's like I am outside in a bright space no matter what the weather is even though I am inside... All I have to do is be in this room and it chills me out. Took me f*cking ages to do though. Edit; I haven't let my neices and nephews in though as I'd never get them out again and it would probably encourage them to draw all over their walls back home.

[@IdaBrun]

Hey I just wanted you to know that after having a breakdown last night at my job, after having to talk to my abusive ex boyfriend who kidnapped me while we were together and stalked me for years after we broke up, I watched your videos, and today, while still keyed up about last night (this man is still under the same roof as me right now), I came into contact with an aggressive drunk guy and felt like I was going to have a full blown panic attack in the Midst of work, so I did the grounding techniques you were teaching in this video while breathing in and out as slowly as possible and I calmed down enough to continue working. I really appreciate your help and wanted you to know you are making a difference.

[@yourstrulyiman2152]

I have Derealization disorder and i will start focusing on grounding techniques everyday until i feel more connected to the world around me and no longer feel numb when i touch my arm etc. Also, it's really bad at night I feel the most out of body

[@hairyfrankfurt]

Can you make a video about anxious/ambivalent attachment?

[@corduroykumquat]

Hairyfrankfurt I second this