Growing apart from friends, comparing yourself to others, long distance friendships & social media..

[@hannah._.kendall]

I'm a girl in engineering so have ended up with many guy friends but only one like you and Jahvis. I often get comments from ppl like "Oh you must have a crush" and such but struggle to put into words what it's like to have someone you completely gel with but don't at all see like that. I guess it's almost like a sibling but not quite. All I know is it's a special relationship to have. It allows you to gather perspective on so many different things in such a pure way knowing there's nothing more intended behind it. It's so refreshing to see examples of it on the internet. Glad to hear you're both doing well and great to get another catch-up vid!

[@maisorour4354]

You both somehow giving me hope in pure friendships between a girl and guy. Watching you both talking and sharing your thoughts makes my day. Whenever you make a video with Jahvis I know that it will be full of honest emotions and fun at the same time. I love your loyalty with your friends and how you cherish every moment with them 💜

[@hillclimbracer5413]

um, i think its contribute! hope that helps!!

[@lottevree]

wow, that was pretty shocking that that video you showed of the two of you in 2022 is almost 2 years agoooo. It feels like 2 seconds ago since i watched that video, but at the same time like such a long time ago. still a real fan of your art joy, watching every video and feeling very proud of what you've also done since that last video with Jahvis

[@UnJadedJade]

the vibes are delicious

[@mayaengel6931]

Jade!!!! Yoy and Joy are my favorite KZbinrs 😝😝😝😝😝🤯🤯🤯🤯

[@Joyish]

I love you

[@zahraadessaye]

Omggg I missed u guys

[@osoreo3697]

I’m still in love with Jahvis

[@alicja217]

Love this video, so wholesome, I really feel like maturing with you both, I'm turning 22 this year and I've been watching you for 3 or 4 years.. Joy, you're really a comfort creator and it's soooo good to see you grow and still be creative 🤍 wish u all the best from Poland

[@charlizebouchard1718]

I thought about so many of these things today! I waited for a to-go order and to be able to use tap-pay with my low battery phone I just sat and looked around, funny to hear Jahvis specifically mention fish and chips. You’re both a couple years older than me, and I see you in a really great kind and courageous light, it’s calming to hear you both talk about learning to do one thing at a time as that’s something I’m really focused on these days. To anyone else in a similar boat: it’s so worth slowing down in some moments, sometimes in moments where you feel you absolutely have to do 100 things in the next 12 minutes, pause. One of my most laid back friends who is always dreaming up ideas really lives in the present and his actions are very based on how he feels in the moment, being driven by loving what he does though he somehow gets more work done in a week than me stressing myself out may do in a month. There’s all sorts of factors, and there’s no need to compare. But to me it’s a reminder that there isn’t only one way to approach or live, and it’s important to figure out what works for you because that just might be the key to what you’re trying to have more of in your life! ✴️

[@LamoreLane]

I had a friend where we met on goodreads. We both loved to read. Started with emails on good reads , then went to regular emails, and eventually letters and then texting and face timing. After 20 years she texted me saying she felt the friendship had grown distant and decided that it was best to go our separate ways . I shocked by it but i said i understood and we went separate ways. I’m not gonna lie it hurt . I thought she knew that i was going through a rough time and had experienced some stuff that made me depressed and stressed. After some time we check in on each other but that’s in. She seems to want to reignite our friendship but i have no interest to be honest. She cut off our friendship without asking me what the hell was going on with me.

[@clairekenny3129]

ugh I just love your videos so much !!! they always feel so warm and cozy and wholesome. I've been watching your videos for soolong, since I was a junior in high school and now I am a junior in college studying abroad in florence italy for the year! its so cool to watch someone who is at a similar point in life. Keep doing what you're doing, i always love your conversations with Jahvis :)))

[@Lea-ov8vq]

Aww I'm glad you two are still good friends.. friendships like that are hard to find, treasure it 💛

[@paulavanvliet4127]

You two both create such a cozy safe space, I love this little corner of the internet

[@Jenny2.0]

Favourite duo

[@Vickyt32]

I’ve watched you guys forever !! And you taught me that it’s okay to have guy friends… I feel like girls judge so hard sometimes

[@carrie4636]

No! I'm English and your accents cracked me up in the best way! Me and my friends also always do Australian accents when we talk sometimes haha, I love hearing people try accents, no-one will kill you for it 🤣 Also I've been watching your videos for around 4 years now and they are still my absolute favourite ❤️❤️❤️

[@verenadejori5671]

love the vibes of this video! so cozy and vinatage and classy😍

[@lena41]

Ohh it's been a while! So happy to see you again :)

[@xainabhaider6986]

Cute vid w the best duo. Side note, love your outfit Joy!

[@lillyl.9614]

Aww this made me so happy🥰 I'm also turning 24 this year and the fact that that could be labeled "mid-twenties" is the weirdest thing somehow but I'm really glad I got to grow up with the last few years!

[@Clara-zg6ys]

I love this and you both. You’re two beautiful humans. 🤎

[@ellakelly612]

CONtribute 🤭 love this video, as always. It's super encouraging to see your friendship grow and flourish over the years xx thank you for taking the time to give some much needed advice!

[@Marie-lp2tl]

I love your connection and friendship 🥹

[@Mercynehema_]

love you guys, didnt know how much i missed this! Pure ,authentic content

[@carylannebeltran]

Really enjoyed this one. Thank you, Joy and Jahvis!!

[@squigglz97]

As an American, it's conTRIBute :P The iconic duo is back wooooo I'm turning 24 in less than two weeks. So fun to grow up with you!

[@JahvisLoveday]

Hahah love it! Hope everyone enjoyed listening to our problems..

[@rinskeoevermans2678]

joy ur hair is so nice in this video ;)

[@charlizebouchard1718]

Thanks you guys (: for inviting us to listen to this chat 🦔❤️

[@tonaruch8623]

You two are today’s version of 7up. Looking forward to seeing your annual updates forever.

[@BambouTaurelle]

best duo !!!

[@haleybenz3779]

Ahhhh i have been waiting for this video!!!!!!

[@hconf]

Feels like 13 Going on 30 before she wakes up at 30

[@chloelalor1757]

You said square breath and I automatically started doing it😂

[@unpersemprefa]

6:50 It took me one year to really understand him, but yeah, I'm sure now it's not that he doesn't love who I am or he doesn't feel me as THE person... It's just I'm THE person, but of a life he didn't choose. In this life he choose all the rest, in this life it's all about things I'm not. He habits a life where he's a version of himself which doesn't fits the person he is with me. It's okay. We can not live us, but this doesn't mean we can not feel us.

[@Oliviasamse424]

‘Cun’tribute LOL

[@BambouTaurelle]

so inspiring

[@clearrr4284]

what camera do you use??? also i love the vibes in this video so much

[@Fantabbydozy2608]

Definitely contribute. Hope this explains it 😂😂😂

[@merbindiu]

hey!! thank you for making this video💛 what camera did you use to record it?

[@juniorchavesopicassodeyahu988]

Hi Joyish. Is he your bf?

[@zahraadessaye]

They’ve been friends since they were in school

[@gaz.7770]

Yes it is her BF. They say they just friends but it’s clear they more than friends. They definitely banged after filming this. They will be having kids together within the next 2 years

[@shamsyk3]

its contribute. u pronounce is like cuh-n-tribute

[@lavinia5309]

Contrib‘ute

[@gaz.7770]

These two definitely did the dirty with each other after filming this

[@ellakelly612]

Nah they're just friends, I'm pretty sure they went to school together