Growing Up Half-Black & Korean vs Half-White & Korean | Interracial Couple Talks 국제커플

[@skycedi]

Hope you enjoyed this one! Can you guys relate to how me and Becky grew up!? Let us know below 😎👇🏽

[@ivyd5485]

Fried okra -eewwhhh but better than boiled okra which is slimy. Chitterlings. Fried chicken. Military dad. Fayetteville NC. No allowance. Chores were mandatory! Michael Jackson. Urkel from Family Matters 😂.

[@kanagharta9783]

Ohh yeah! It was the 90's. Loved Steeve urkle and TMNT! I still call my mom sniper because she Never missed when she would throw shoes at me and my brothers! Being the oldest one, I had to be responsible for my brothers actions. thus I Always had double the punishment! It made me the man I'm today! And I'm proud of it!

[@rstuff1605]

Hey they did it. I always thought about the differences being black or white whether you're part asian or not. Oh and yeah, disclaimer alert just incase ...sensitive af people or a karen who is .. bless all people with manners & patience

[@rstuff1605]

I tried okra in the microwave oven on a whim for the 1st time last year i think. It was slimy but iam thankful to have a roof over my head no lol there

[@originalxbox9924]

I liked and enjoyed the video you did a little while ago when you did a narration of yourself growing up half Black and half Korean in the USA. It was a very powerful and heartwarming video. I myself am half Chinese half Korean

[@babelove45]

I can definitely relate to being "beat" as a child and also receiving no allowance growing up. I'm so glad I'm grown now 😆

[@skycedi]

lol I guess I dodged most of the beatings growing up, but I had a few scary moments myself. It's nice being grown for sure!

[@estherday8206]

Being born to Nigerian parents, I vibe w so much of what you both shared concerning upbring. Africans and Koreans are so similar and I always find myself easily bonding with Koreans for this reason. Even an international (Korean) student from my alma mater has said the same thing 😂

[@skycedi]

It's awesome that you can relate to our upbringing. It's a beautiful thing when different cultures can relate to each other in how we grew up!

[@dehjavoo]

Ello no that’s not true, honorifics is a big thing in the Nigerian culture Yoruba specifically, they have to prostrate for elders and the way that they speak to elders differs vs age mates so yes that’s probably the similarity. Not all tribes in Nigeria are like this but the Yoruba is a huge tribe and respect is a big thing in their culture

[@MrRamonLuiis]

You don't know Teen Titans?? Or Suite Life of Zach & Cody?? 🤯 Get it together Ced! LOL The rest of your TV slaps tho 👌🏼

[@skycedi]

haha! Yeah man, I blame my age. But I got ALL the 90s shows down for sure 😬

[@monicalee1374]

You guys are cute. Loved this comparison! Btw the shows you watched my kids watched, too.

[@skycedi]

Aw thanks Monica! Your kids definitely had some good taste in shows :)

[@lisaflores8801]

Love watching you guys!!!

[@skycedi]

So glad you do! Thank you for watching Lisa!

[@hitrabbit4519]

Your kids will also be half-Korean because each of your halfs and idk I think that's really cool

[@roroyb9695]

This was a great topic and I’m glad you posted this video. My friends & I always have conversations like this where we talk about how our parents/family life was growing up. Some of us get surprised by the similarities and differences. Looking forward to more content like this.

[@skycedi]

Great to hear that you could relate to this content and we definitely have more coming. Thanks for watching.

[@BlackNYellow]

DAMMMMM, At least I know how my future son might look like 😂. Black and Vietnamese over here. Just found this channel, keep the content coming guys!

[@MrRed-tf7bv]

Im Caribbean-American my girl Filipina, our son looks....Filipino, his mom has STRONG genes.

[@ScarlettKriss]

Cedi and I are a similar age I think. Being out in the middle of nowhere East Texas, we watched what the antenna could catch lol. I listened to my mom's music so country, then rock, hip hop and pop that was on the radio. Now I am very eclectic like Becky, from Sinatra, Franklin, to Bowie, to EDM, to Maroon 5 and BTS. Food was Native food or typical southern foods from the dad I was raised with. My dad had a belt he looped and made it crack, that made me straighten up, my mom it was words and I was healthy scared of her, dang her looks scared my teachers and principle. Money whatever I found in the couch, LOL, or I went worked at her job bts. We lived in the middle no where ville with a Native mom, ppl didnt come over.

[@skycedi]

You have quite the taste in music! And man, I remember those antenna days (these youngins these days have no clue what we had to go through back then haha). It's cool to see we have a lot in common :)

[@ScarlettKriss]

@@skycedi 🤣 I hear, I moved away, you still can only use antenna out there, no one even brings dish networks.

[@CAMCAM413]

This was definitely fun... I now have a craving for grits at the moments, perhaps try it with sugar 🤪

[@skycedi]

let me know how the grits and sugar turns out hahaha

[@ivyd5485]

Never had sugar in my grits! Butter, cheese, salt and ketchup but never sugar.

[@janetday5431]

I grew up on blues I love country music, Christian, hip hop,some rap,r&b, jazz, classical, BTS,Big Bang,but I just love good music, I enjoy beautiful voices .I love sugar and butter on my grits. Growing up on a farm, my mom would toast white bread with sugar and butter, so good!I love you guys so much!thanks for sharing!

[@btsblackpinkforevereternit6231]

Same. I love all types of music

[@darrenroberts637]

The best looking half Korean couples.... Love from California

[@commenterperson4481]

The lighting is awesome.

[@lisah8438]

The 90s were the nickelodean era and the 2000s was the Disney Channel era

[@pebbles987]

So true... 90s all the way!

[@CarlosElChacalo]

Omg I know that feeling, standing up close to the tv, staring it with the volume down, so you can hear the car engine and switch it off before parents get into the house.

[@kanagharta9783]

Hi there!!! love your hair becky! and the sky's Cédrix always very enegetic !!!

[@skycedi]

haha thanks Kan!

[@carolinepoll643]

You guys are so cool.

[@skycedi]

Aww thank you Caroline :) You are awesome

[@AfroAngola]

I also grew up on the exact same cartoons and TV shows as Skycedi #Proud90sKid 💪🏽😎

[@skycedi]

Yassss! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 The 90s was a special time 👌🏽

[@remuspierre]

I love your stories

[@heartdonations2532]

I have to say that you two are looking better and better together 🙂

[@Keliiyamashita]

Come to Hawaii! Literally everyone here is in a interracial relationship.

[@um_from_umbridge7285]

I lived in Hawaii I'm half white and half black and korean I think I experienced the most awkward racism there 😅 I wish people would stop harassing mixed people over race and just treat us like normal humans based off of character 😣

[@um_from_umbridge7285]

Weird things like a local caucasian girl telling me "u should try talk local" which was just awkward cuz I'm not gonna fake an accent.... Lol an Asian local girl with a group of guys coming up to me saying "omg u look like a little snow bunny from Utah!!!" When I know I look different but definitely not like a snow bunny my skin is brown without sun so wtf lol and a man telling me "as long as ur not black" and a local island girl telling me "if ur black why don't u have big lips" (my lips aren't huge or small.... Just average for my face) the list goes on but wtf I really expected people to harass me less because I hear things about Hawaii being accepting of mixed ethnicities.. and I never say anything but people ask and then harass me for being mixed it's very annoying and feels like they don't want me to be let into a group cuz I'm not enough of a certain ethnicity or just culture.

[@드밴플짱]

영어 듣기는 잘하는데 글쓰는거는 잘 못해서.. 항상 한국어로만 댓글쓰네용 ㅋㅋㅋ 베키언니너무 예뻐요~ 잘보구 갑니당 ㅎㅎ

[@remuspierre]

Awesome advice

[@hitrabbit4519]

My mother's Korean but grounding always actually worked on me better than hitting me, so one time she grounded me for 6 months- like really grounded. I wasn't allowed to use any like technology obviously, but I also wasn't even allowed to read😂

[@jacquelinerufer9742]

Its to very intressting to know how other mixes persons grow up in other country or culture.

[@douglasthompson1988]

You guys are adorable

[@estherday8206]

Also, Becky you look super cute

[@valourine]

I had to google grits to keep up with the convo 😂😂

[@jacquelinerufer9742]

You two are a nice coupel,i am half with and half chinese.grow up in witzerland with scoobi do and ninja turtles to.i know to michael jackson and diffrent stars from usa.in switzerland we have diffrent mixes of china-switzerland,thai-switzeland,philipines-switzerland,and other diffrent mixes of country.greeting from switzerland.

[@skycedi]

Wow, greetings back to Switzerland! So glad that you can relate to our stories of being mixed. It's awesome that you enjoyed some of the same cartoons and entertainers as I did growing up :)

[@jacquelinerufer9742]

@@skycedi thanks alot for your greetings and answer.yes i find a relate to your storys.to be mixed is something special.but in life it is not always easy to be like this.yes we had some same stars and cartoons.i also like so much movies from walt disney if a was small.like cindarella and snowwith.your movie will help person over the world to stay positiv in life.take care.

[@commenterperson4481]

I'm liking your channel more and more; and liking "your girlfriend" Becky more and more. Good content -- interesting topics.

[@jermane2501]

basically a white korean is a korean not mixed with black and a black korean is a korean but half black

[@bettycaswell6773]

You two are so culturally different, it is hard to see how you connect. I remember seeing your video of how you met, but other than the good vibe soul mate connection, tell us at some point how you have maintained that connection? Looking from the outside it seems like those other cultural differences would make a relationship much harder to maintain. You both are good communicators, but at one point the discussion seemed a bit awkward. Like it was out of your comfort zone, one or both of you, maybe? Anyway, these were my thoughts as I watched! Keep sharing these tidbits as you have opportunities, as they provide a good amount of insight. One more thing: How has the Korean culture impacted your relationship as a couple? I have heard some good and bad things from other KZbin video, but how does it affect you two? Peace! ✌🏾

[@MoejiiOsmanTV]

I'm from the generation that getting beat was normal I'm 35 so basically if ur 32 and older u got "beat" my dad preferred audio wires and his belt of course and my mom preferred the wooden spoons or shoe throwing. I was a bad kid so I deserved alot of it.... I had adhd and if I had only a little bit of sugar I was off the walls so I would do dumb shit like call my teachers n prank call them I got the belt for that one...another time I "drowned" our goldfish on accident I got the audio wires hard for that one... Another time I painted on the walls when I was like 7 the wooden spoon came out for that one... Funny how u never forget those beatings. But it taught me how to behave as I got older... Beatings should come back... But the snowflakes took it away and now kids are just spoiled rotten and are glued to there phones. I can't count how many times I've seen kids cussin there parents out in grocery stores or w/e Ida got a back hand quick for that shit, if kids today got a quick backhand they'de never do that shit again. #bringbackbeatings 😂😂😅😂😅

[@blasianjh]

Which church did your mom go to in Fayetteville? I feel like I’ve seen you around before way back when.

[@remuspierre]

Very interesting

[@remuspierre]

Childhood testimony

[@RayCraft1]

Great to see Blasian & Wasian

[@harrye9105]

My dad used to give me money... like penny for pulling out his gray hair on his head? I really wanted to earn a lot of money cuz I wanted to borrow Japanese anime video at the rental shop XD. I sometimes even pulled out the perfectly dark and healthy hairs from his head and he just count them too.

[@skycedi]

Haha that’s hilarious. I hope your dad never found out about the dark hairs 😅

[@jacquelinerufer9742]

😁😁😁

[@NeangMey]

I made five cents per white hair. 😂

[@booklover555]

Most people I know prefer to be called white over Caucasian. Is there a reason you used this term in your intro? I only ask because your title refers to you being half white. I have four young adult children that are biracial, black and white.

[@taticalypso-halls2261]

I love Teen Titans!!!

[@marshmallowpuff4899]

Reeeeen and Steeeeeeeeeempy eeeez hilarious 😂

[@lisah8438]

don't ever be ashamed into listening to the Spice Girls and Boybands. Be an unapologetic pop fan.

[@skycedi]

You know what...you're right haha

[@jaykay5086]

Wait how old are you guys?

[@skycedi]

Haha ....well, I will only answer for myself ....I was born in 1985, so I grew up in the 90s/early 2000s. Being a smart boyfriend, I will not disclose Becky's age without her consent 😅😂

[@jaykay5086]

skycedi wow you look very young

[@G1Transformed]

Didn't get an allowance? f(0_o;) Isn't that what chores are for? Sounds like your father had you do chores to get that money Skycedi...wouldn't you call that an allowance?

[@skycedi]

I guess it depends on the family because I had friends who got a weekly allowance whether they did chores or not lol. I think my dad just low-key hired me as his landscaper hahaha

[@G1Transformed]

skycedi, my father, who’s from Georgia, would have me wash the car and various yard care to get an allowance-it was never anything regular with him, but my mother, however, always had a list of chores for my brothers and me to do. If we did them we got a flat $20 a month, which was often separate from what my dad asked since he’d ask us every now and again. I’m not sure why they did things that way, I never asked, but possibly because my mother already had a set of things for us to do and he didn’t want to add too much on top of that. When I think back on my childhood, I probably didn’t need an allowance, as my parents often helped me with my purchases. I never really asked for much, save for Christmas time, lol. My allowances were never enough to buy much, but they did allow me to buy a few G.I. Joes, Transformers or comics at the time. The lack of money taught me to save, and I think that was the lesson my parents wanted to low key teach my brothers and me.

[@commenterperson4481]

An idea. Can you guys do nine episode: - Asian man dating asian woman - Asian man dating exotic woman - Asian man dating white woman - Black man dating asian woman - Black man dating exotic woman - Black man dating white woman - Exotic man dating asian woman - Exotic man dating white woman - Exotic man dating exotic woman NOTE: 1. There's no order to the list above, just sorted alphabetically. 2. I intentionally chose "exotic" to highlight how you might be seen by any dominant culture at each moment. Please replace with the a more appropriate word. No offense intended. In each episode, only focus on what you'd consider cultures of the group you are representing -- your own perceptions. Be as honest and transparent as much as you are comfortable being.

[@Leotique]

funny, your kids are also gonna be half korean

[@kimper_ayqpa]

Ella no es corea de verdad

[@remuspierre]

Awesome advice