Guests : Kim Jongmin, Kang June, Star, Song Sohe, Lee Sangjun[Hello Counselor/ENG,THA/2018.09.03]

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Hello Counselor EP.378
Guests : Kim Jongmin, Kang June, Star, Song Sohe, Lee Sangjun
#HelloCouselor #Hello_full #Hello378
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[@-deathkidx-3613]

the first concern made me cry my eyes out...

[@AmethystKaianna]

Dongyeop is speaking truth, if you don't want a baby or you're not ready use freaking protection! Like... *sigh* On the other hand I'm glad they came on the show. They really got help from the guests.

[@rayna5561]

The first concerns really boils me I feel so bad for that daughter I know how she feels not having anyone their for her when you need them it’s going become worse depression and anxiety disorder is what I got through the years just for the lack of a mother I hope her mother changes before separates the family

[@meryelbak8599]

I am sorry for what you have experienced and all the pain that you had to go through, but I think that you should consider that parenting is not the mom’s only job, there is also the dad that should be equally present in his children’s life.. So the mom is not the only one to blame..

[@lavoshakern]

Exactly @Mery El Bak. I didn't like how the father was only brought up for like 2 seconds and then they moved past it. What is he doing exactly? Why is it all on the mother being expected to be the one fulfilling all her children's needs. I understood the mother's need to make income and do the thing she enjoys - singing - as well.

[@rueexxi]

​@@lavoshakern I'm pretty sure it was mentioned that their dad comes back at around 5-6 pm and eats with them.

[@bandisrushti1660]

@@meryelbak8599 well, but her mom is not at all aware of the situation..And a girl needs her mom in several situations where father is not needed...even the son is missing his mother i think u should notice this

[@sophieblee]

Thank God she doesn't have sisters like Cinderella on top of that. I think at some point I was jealous that at least they were Cinderella's step sisters because what kind of real sisters could make their younger sister feel so awful.

[@raywghwgh3410]

The common thing between all concerns is THERE IS NO BALANCE. it’s also sad to see that the last concern have turned into an ego game rather a marriage !

[@defiantaichi]

Lil meow meow that’s why it’s important to be friends. Romance only lasts so long. Understanding can last a lifetime

[@raywghwgh3410]

Sincerely Defiant that’s true!!

[@ji-look6142]

The amount of people who get pregnant by accident and rush into crappy marriages on this show is shocking

[@hskksh2147]

리지 ᄌ it's because korean society work like that... It's shitty but it's like that... 😥

[@hskksh2147]

yummiwatch Korea isnt your country you know? They dont use condoms because they're are not confronted at this in school. There is not ed sex. Or just a few schools do it. So, as an adult who didnt receive proper educacion about sex in childhood, how can you have safe sex?

[@nadia2883]

@@hskksh2147 it isint yours neither so stop having ideas and stop bullshitting based on your name your not anywhere near s korea more like s africa or mosambique

[@hskksh2147]

@@nadia2883 are you insane? My name doesn't define what I know you should know it too. Mozambique? Wtf? Are you that racist who only knows a little about others ethnicity and use it to be racist? Where do you see that I live or was born near South Africa? First of all, it's wrong and doesn't have any revelance in this conversation. You should be ashamed to use ethnicity as base of your argument.

[@hskksh2147]

@yummiwatch btw, since I'm here again, S Korea is a country very conservative and misogynistic. Even outside S Korea, when a country has this type of politics, the people (in majority men) don't want to use condoms. For women, to please the men that say they'll take responsibility because they don't want to have 5% less of pleasure. Even in Europe there are a lot of cases like that and it's supposed to be "open minded". What's more, abortion is illegal in S Korea and being a solo mom is viewed as something bad too. Marrying save the social face of the couple, but put women in danger. If you only dates for a few months how can you be sure that the man isn't some rapist or something? But it is not the only country to do this and the young women are fighting for their rights there. We can hope for amelioration in some near time.

[@Maya-dw5jz]

First concern actually annoyed me . She is lucky to have her as a daughter because she is nice, she cleans the house she cooks does dishes goes to school basically doesn't cause trouble. Most teenagers at that age would most likely to cause trouble to get attention but she didn't. I'm glad she came onto this show so that she can finally speak of it and get the he lo she needs. She's only 15(probably 14 in international age if 15 is actually her krw age) which means she's basically a child ! I understand the mother has to work etc but she's basically paying money to perform ????? If she's working for money to make sure her kids don't grow up poor but isn't she using her money to basically perform in front of elderly ? My mum used to work 2 jobs as well but she would always make sure to have the time to come to parents evening or any events taking place in school. The mother is too into her job and she honestly needs to stop before it's too late. The daughter already shows signs of depression, she's unhappy, unable to talk to her friends about things keeps things to herself cries all the time locks herself up in the room. Tbh when the brother was saying how she did the chores and locked herself up in the room I thought he was gonna say something like he thought she'd commit suicide thankfully he didn't and she didn't do no such thing. I hope after appearing her mother pays more attention to her and her brother having family dinner etc. Also it's always the one who's parents are hardly at home they wish to have their parents at home and those who do have their parents at home wish their parents would go out so they could be home alone. It's because neither would be able to know how it feels. Like I would wish my mum stayed at home whereas my mate wished her parents stayed out working so she could be home alone but we both wouldn't know how it feels for each other

[@anhithikoley5095]

EXACTLY !!! this is what I was going to say

[@dophoria4609]

That first mom says she's doing all of these things for her children but seems like children are not her priority.she prefers to do anything else but spending time with them.I feel bad for her daughter

[@malsyolo]

My father is also like that and said 'money gives happiness '

[@plusminus7297]

The mother is making me so angry

[@Nikhiyang]

the first concern made me cry my eyes out. I didn't realize all the "simple" things my mom does for me. i am so blessed (not trying to brag, just realizing life wasn't extremely hard because of these simple things). A mother's love is so important because, generally, that is the first connection any human being makes. Fathers are important as well but after meeting the person who guides us out of our mother's womb, we, usually, meet our mothers. Her touch is what comforts us until we are passed around to others. That connection is extremely important which is why, sometimes, surrogate mothers are not allowed to touch the children they give birth to.

[@kritikasharma00]

Here for Kim jongmin 😍😍

[@agata7888]

me too

[@basmajaheen9435]

He was so funny, especially in the last concern. 🚼🐥🐤🐤

[@SeanKimStyle]

"Since you said "here", do I take that as there you are here?" -something Kim JongMin would say, with a funny face and with hesitation

[@afnaanareef196]

Me too kritika sharma...

[@nurulizzah3173]

Me too

[@claudia_b8]

I think that it's good that people come on this show cause when they speak at home the person who is the concern normally doesn't listen or gets angry, but when whey are there they are to embarrassed to say anything therefore are able to listen to what the other person has to say. The man in the second concern in my opinion is still immature, I feel bad saying this about someone who is a lot older than me but that is the only explanation, he can't drink anymore so he found something else to occupy his time ... It's sad that he has a wife and 2 girls and he is not giving them enough attention, and it's even worse that everything revolves around football so he can't see what his family is doing for him. I hope that listening to his wife helped him understand that cause the only way for him to moderate his football obsession is by listening to his wife's concerns

[@giss23]

The last concern have an immature couple who's like you did that so I'll do this. Their friend who opposed to the marriage was right as their personality clash so much.

[@waterbolt873yl]

Its also sad that they went on national tv to say the dad asked for an abortion, imagine if their son sees that when hes older...

[@giss23]

@@waterbolt873yl they didn't think it through before marriage or even before going for the show. There it's like either shotgun marriage or drinking that always cause problems.

[@malsyolo]

First concern is totally related to me, l cried until the part of concern finish.😭😭

[@chhunkuukyab5119]

Kim jongmin comments are hilarious. He is so funny. Love you man❤❤

[@rajilami1389]

The fst concern is very sad it made me cry 😢

[@malsyolo]

As dong hyub says adult -adult-marriage win Child -child-marriage win Adult -child- marriage lose Its true

[@defiantaichi]

Malathi Mani hementioned it several times earlier too. Mature plus immature doesn’t work out. Nor does immature and immature

[@nurthalithahramli4291]

They actually translate Byul into Star . Whatttt

[@jsshdyg1301]

Isn't it the same? I think Byul means star in korean.. (correct me if I'm wrong)

[@nurthalithahramli4291]

yes true. Usually people dont translate the name and this is the first time I am seeing it so I was kinda "whatt" but nothing's wrong there ^^

[@jsshdyg1301]

@@nurthalithahramli4291 oh ok.. I thought you didn't know what it meant

[@mikaveniceliis1362]

They do it for Rain too tho

[@rueexxi]

@@mikaveniceliis1362 But Rain is his offical English public name. I don't think Byul uses the name Star. Or does she?

[@leonie_aka_leonie]

The couple from the second concern was so cute!🙈🥰 I hope they're doing well now

[@sleepines]

first concern made me tear up :

[@DefineMorena]

Haha 34:47 Man, I think I'll make the same mistakes when I get that advanced in Korean 😂

[@emilyyeng9021]

The first concern is like a sad drama. I'm always putting myself in their shoes and emotions of "what if" wells up and makes me cry.

[@defiantaichi]

The last couple is extremely immature. The one thing they can do now is learn together and grow up a little. It’s legit two kids who are in charge of another kid now. Instead they should ask their parents for advice and try and grow together . They’re not youngsters anymore. No one is after they have a kid

[@user-rr7ih8pi4f]

KBS please upload 2 days and 1 night I'm waiting since yesterday😑😑😑😑

[@83dvl]

there is none it didn't air 2 weeks ago because of asia games

[@nunikalefa6699]

the episode is available with subs on dramacool

[@arijitbharali1]

Star and Kang June gave such good advice in the final concern.......the couple really need to work things out- both are still very immature!

[@anisatajy9445]

The two married guests gave amazing advice to the last couple. Along with SDY they dealt with the issue quite nicely.

[@tiffanie8000]

First little girl has a Yoona feel

[@loveballetmuch]

Missing open meetings in school is fine by me (btw my mom was present in all 😁) but if my parents weren't there for my graduation I'd probably have a grudge about that forever especially if the situation continues till I'm older. Thank God for my mom. 🖒

[@laraasskalany2574]

1st concern made me cry so much for the daughter, poor girl

[@thegreenarrow8286]

This mom has missed so many one time event I feel when she’s older she will remember all those times and feel regret

[@claudia_b8]

For the last concern I think that they were not ready to get married, but now that they are they will just have to learn step by step how to support each other. Yes they were really immature when they were dating and didn't think ahead, but the baby is not the problem now, because they decided to keep it, which I am very happy about, I don't understand why some people are so mean to kill a soul that did nothing wrong It's not even been a year since they got married so she jumped to saying that she wants a divorce to fast, it seems like they still don't really talk to each other about personal things, they don't trust each other enough, even if they are married they are still acting as if they are just dating, they both need to learn how to trust each other, and discuss about serious things together as wife and husband, only then they will understand each other more

[@zahrazezo5957]

Omg Got7 is coming 😍 I waited so long ❤️

[@for.tax.reasons]

The third concern is honestly so frustrating for so many reasons 1. It sounds like they just didn't use any birth control. If y'all don't want babies and diseases use a condom jesus 2. It sounds like the guy was not really interested in marriage and a long term relationship. Which makes it even more ridiculous that they didn't use birth control. 3. This whole shaming the idea of abortion thing. It is up to the woman to decide whether to keep the baby or not yes but it is also really gross that just the idea of abortion is treated with such horror and revulsion. If he didn't want the baby there is nothing wrong with discussing abortion. If she wanted to keep the baby that should have been a huge red flag that he's not into it. 4. The idea that young couples are too litigious and get divorced easily. People get divorced because they don't want to be unhappy. Let them. Hello Counselor isn't that great a source of counseling. 5. The friends point out that the couple didn't have much in common and fought a lot before getting married. Frankly at this point I feel like they were both trapped in the marriage. She doesn't trust him and abuses his privacy and he slut shames her and abuses her verbally.

[@piggyfeelsslay]

OMG KIM JONGMIN HE WAS IS THE NETFLIX SERIES BUSTED 💞

[@loveballetmuch]

Mom from the first story, time goes by so fast and your son and daughter is now in their mid teens. Someday they'll get married, move out of the house, and have kids. You'll rarely get to see them when that happens because they'll have their own family to worry about. When you grow old and I really hope you won't get sick the only person you can turn to is your children.

[@ericaokta6019]

Omg i relate with the first concern so much. But thank god i have my sister and brother to talk to 😢

[@RACHATV8004]

This is the first time that I'm early here

[@icygrice7577]

First concern: the children doesn't need attention or wealthy but they just want love from their parents and they need someone who they can talk with,someone who can they shared they problem. .. I hope the situation got better now because I used to know the feeling, how hurt and alone. This could also lead to depression that could lead to suicide so it should be treat early....🙇🙇

[@annayowww41]

I wantched this ep bcs of Jongmin 😊😊😂

[@differentyahnnie2858]

Kim Jongmin oppa ♥

[@MichelleOfoegbu]

So early... let’s go!!!

[@n.h.b.y4806]

22:03 I just feel pity for her... And my tears keep rolling down.... 😭😭

[@ildc6474]

The first one like damn.... THEIR SUMMER VACATION IS ONLY 28 DAYS!!!

[@AmethystKaianna]

The mom in the first concern annoyed me. It was hurtful to listen to. Neglect is a form of abuse and she isn't doing it with that in mind but in the end she's neglecting them. Sometimes I wonder why did they have kids if they weren't going to connect with them or spend time with them?

[@TheKay830]

having child in 20's and 30's is a trend. they just follow trends without considering that much.

[@justinseagull9367]

i really curious of what the real definition of a good mother?

[@withloveshirin]

it looks like the first mom doesn't understand that her children don't want her to do things for them, they want her to do things WITH them.

[@jhazzmamadra9498]

Pls upload 2D1N... I've been waiting since yesterday' ☹

[@83dvl]

there is none it didn't air 2 weeks ago because of asia games

[@nj6590]

Kshowonline there is the episode available

[@jhazzmamadra9498]

@@nj6590 where in google or KZbin channel?

[@Jenavee26]

2nd concern: husband's love language is Quality Time while wife's love language is Acts of Service. They clash partly because they don't understand how to speak the other's love language

[@TheKay830]

the first concern, that woman just afraid to take reponsibility as a mom. she filled her time with all her work and hobby just to avoid anxiety and depression of herself. she only cares about herself. The most ironic thing is this type of selfish person always pretend they are the one who sacrifized most. and others should appreciate what they've done. they morally abuse others, that trully disgusting.

[@waterbolt873yl]

When the elderly man spoke to his wife at the end I cried a bit knowing that he's currently unwell but managed to smile at her during all this. He is a bit reckless but maybe it was his way of getting over his illness. PS: When the guy at the end said that the girl said it was ok for them on the trip, but she still got pregnant...im a bit confused, did she lie or was it an accident?

[@nirvanas.723]

the last couple make me so angry, I feel like he was right in thinking they weren't ready for the big responsibilities. Yes they're both wrong but boy she's so immature -.-

[@sone2028]

Nirvana Stojanovic what about him !? Isn’t did he even have sex with her from the first place!? Then asking her to get rid off the baby do you know how hard it is for a Mum to lose her baby ?

[@nirvanas.723]

@@sone2028 and she didnt have sex with him? Im sorry but to get pregnant you need two, also he clearly said if it was safe to have sex? And SHE lied ? I dont knoe in what kind of fantasy worlf you love in but yes my sister went thru it so yes I know it's not an easy choice.

[@adllydlly]

When i look at Kim Jongmim..I always thought about Jessi..im reaaly cutious also to my self.wahahaha... Anw the 1st story and 2nd story for me is concern...hinaeseyo..

[@Truecrimeresearcher224]

I wanna know why some of these episodes are not available to watch on the United States

[@aniste9707]

I have never been so early before xD

[@springflower1336]

i cried at the first concern,it seems like a few scenarios as to kids without parents would turn out, like in this concern she over compensates by being a good daughter, to do house chores n etc, or if they have parents who compensate absence with buying materialistic things, so the kid would be like a person with no purpose in life, no motivation, or the daughter could even hang out with wrong crowd and do things she shouldnt be doing. good thing the daughter is like this despite absence of parents. i hope the mother starts her role as a parent before her child lose her way in life,or worse. she wont need her mum anymore. GEEZZ FOR THE 3rd CONCERN!!!! if you dont want a kid before marriage, then keep it in your pants !!! and seriously the gal at fault also, keep your legs close!!

[@lulufinlay]

wow i am early

[@bunnyhop7393]

Same here

[@rodiexe]

I'm the opposite

[@plusminus7297]

I’m boiling with anger !!!!

[@jiameiii8741]

The first girl is kinda like me I will tell all my stuff to my dogs when I couldn’t tell my parents

[@lele-vl9cz]

There are tons of parents who are both working hard day and night to make ends meet. That is understandable. But it's really not the amount of time you spend with your children. It's how you spend the little time you have with them. The daughter and her brother would not have felt so neglected if the mum just showed them more concern especially during crucial times like when the brother's in hospital and when she sprained her leg. I can't fathom why she'd spend all that time volunteering to make others happy at the expense of her own children's happiness. It definitely seems her children are not her priority, seeing how she expects them to 'understand' her choices.

[@B0Shmlan]

Third concern: I’m just curious about what will the baby think of his father when he grow-up.

[@plusminus7297]

The last concern- /- the guy got unlucky ㅠㅠ he could have enjoyed more in life . And same goes to the girl

[@adriennex_x]

36:32 how kdramas have plot twists

[@dinakang3876]

Why don't have English subtitles?

[@tseringlama139]

Why is two days one night not airing?

[@AnaFerreira-jo3ng]

Wtf the first concern is just heartbreaking, the mother never knows how tomorrow will be she should just love her children to the fullest and also that women who said it's not a concern cause they have a lot of 'talents' other kids don't have, so what? Just because they HAD to mature earlier then other kids because of their family situation then it's not a concern? I've seen many talented people get depressed and get anxiety over not being able to talk to anyone or not having the love they deserve! So by this theory talented people nobody should care cause you know, they have their talent they are apparently perfect. I'm sorry but that's exactly the type of retrograde thoughts that make our society and mental health problems so silent... This kids are going through the period in their lives where they need understanding and their mother there for them, so yes it IS a concern.

[@alexanderh6206]

I scrolled through many comments to see if anyone was thinking the same as me. I can never understand the reasoning of people like her, she completely missed the whole point! No wonder she had problems in her own marriage, the idiocy of the guests on this show is infuriating. I don't know if you'll see this, just glad to know there's someone who actually has good sense and reasoning.

[@wenaframil3489]

Eng sub please .. 🙏

[@pattypat1266]

Is really no one talking about how the man in the second concern was just outed as a cheater?? Like oh yeah he did that too a year ago? O.O

[@farhanaifnt9670]

I'm annoyed with the last concern. She came and told viewers what she feel dissatisfied, but she also the same. Both of them so immature and egoistic. When they already married but fighting about their ex, building distrust, and so on. I hope they go to meet marriage counselor because I really want their marriage saved.

[@inase.6482]

The last concern was just so dumb at first I thought it was all the fault of her husband but slowly I started thinking that it isn't just the husband's fault but both for being so immature Sorry for my English

[@brightiris]

Where is Kang June from? She has a weird accent, no offense though, very curious right now.

[@elicelfeliciano9386]

Shes originally from Canada

[@ericsetiady4928]

Haha running man had a great wife

[@lucylionlover0539]

🤪🤩안녕하세요

[@iparken]

하 1번 엄마들 문제가 자기는 잘하고있는줄 암. 가족들 위해서 저런다고하는데 정작 가족은 저런걸 원하지 않는데...

[@chamichhangte9212]

👍👍

[@claudia_b8]

For the first concern, the mother doesn't know how to be a mother, she didn't spend time with her children to learn what they like what they don't ... And for the girl, what her brother said about her getting depression, there are many types of depressions, I actually had depression for quite a while without me knowing I had it because I didn't know what depression really is, I realized later that I actually was depressed, I would cry every night for hours thinking only about bad things and I think if nothing changes with the girl she will soon go there as well, but hopefully she doesn't ...

[@Maya-dw5jz]

I feel the same to. My mum worked two jobs as well and would come home at 10-11pm but when it's event days etc she would make sure to have that free and come. The mother just doesn't care and she knows that she can't make or keep promises but still does and will use work as an excuse. I feel that the daughter has depression but she just doesn't know it. Because I was exactly like her I would cry, be unhappy, not talk and basically stay in my room and I too didn't know I had depression until I went doctors. I hope the mother stops and shows cade and attention to them before it's too late. The brother has already given up

[@dhukhiathakur4232]

Aajse mera kam end ho gaya hai bas ak mang hai mere phon se apna chainal hatale bahut meharbani hogi humpe bas ok

[@dhukhiathakur4232]

Enahe to maine bolahi nshiaap bhi mat rona ak din to faisla lena tha aaj leliya ok

[@sophieblee]

Many parents out there are amazing people, but sometimes you have to remind yourself that some are just people who had sex. Don't expect much of them, you won't get so hurt that way.

[@goose010386]

The first mum is so frustrating! Her lack of concern and understanding of her kids is beyond my comprehension! 😡😡😡

[@straykidsmala]

The last man. He was showing some slight signs of panic disorder. But they're an interesting couple. They should never have gotten married

[@ericsetiady4928]

They should use contraceptive

[@dhukhiathakur4232]

Ak bat bolumujhe bhul jaw

[@dhukhiathakur4232]

Abhitak jawab nahi mila chainlke bare kiya cut band gayab nahi hoga jab unko jarurat nahi to mujhe kiya padi hai jai ram jee chainal bhai ok

[@dhukhiathakur4232]

Mera it ban chuka hai sirf khana baki hai sow ke bad it ok

[@lucisventusnoctis]

It's sad that they don't talk about wanting to be with the father like at all, totally lost cause

[@dhukhiathakur4232]

Abhi turant hata liya jaye ok

[@Izumi70V3Naruto]

The second concern.. Be grateful to your wife.. she can leave and abandon you to death.. Appreciate her still by your side And dont forget you even cheating Disgusting

[@raniamari8045]

Hhhhhhh 😂😂😂

[@dhukhiathakur4232]

Mere pas na rahehumsabgalat kahte hai mera kahani end hochuka hai ok

[@dhukhiathakur4232]

Mainkisi se yari nahi hai na hume jarurat nahikisika dosti bhi nahi chahiye jhuthbki bste na kare samjhena aaj se chhod diya sab free ho ok

[@dhukhiathakur4232]

Mere sambe muh latka baith jate ho lagta hai mai higayab ho jau to sab thik hoga

[@dhukhiathakur4232]

Jab no dekhat hoo mera khun kholta hai thrki kshinka jabse mile ho mera jina haram ho gaya hai bat mano to khush na mano tofir dekho unka tsmasa ok

[@dhukhiathakur4232]

Rat bhar jag ke kiya ladai mera bat bhi nahi manoge suor humkobhi chiye akhi ksm hosakta hai ok

[@dhukhiathakur4232]

Aap ko maine kuchh bolanahi fir rona kiyoaapsab ab meri kamjorivan rahi ho esi ka faida uthayga jochaha maine kiya na bolokab sath nahi diya sunomujhe ladai karne de faisala kar ke rAhunga samjhe aapsab mere hath bandh dete homaine juniyar konahi bola aapke liye hi bole hai kiya chshti ho mai chuha ban jau

[@plusminus7297]

I don’t like the mom

[@lavoshakern]

I don't see a problem with the first concern.

[@user-cj2yh3nx9k]

싼티는난다....ㅠㅠ

[@jellycopter007]

최악의 엄마!

[@arboreea1312]

Ah...KJM is so heart warming - he just only wants to see around ppl who armonise and "find solution to live together loving each other"

[@user-cj2yh3nx9k]

당신들은 헤어져라!! 당신들 부부!! 어린나이도 아니고!! 둘다 인성이 썩었다!!🤬

[@merlinalexander1698]

The female in the last concern looks like she got a bad eye job done.

[@nashaothman6832]

I think its her nose not done well 😂

[@chachacha8862]

Nah Dongyup’s timing was off this episode. He made the guests feel uncomfortable and ruined the mood for laughs

[@defiantaichi]

Fujoshi Chan he wasn’t well.

[@ericsetiady4928]

He still profesional, if he dont come this episode will delay