Guy Talk: answering ALL your questions | Matt and Abby

[@Abby-ht3bw]

I just love how honest and respectful he is

[@MattandAbby]

That means so much. Thank you!

[@MVPBanachi]

And I liked your first name. hahahaha

[@danielclawson2143]

Thank you Matt. As a teenager with no friends or mentors to talk about this stuff, this video was helpful to say the least. And to know that we all have some communication problem ;)

[@miah2289]

hey!! i have no friends either and im 17. it sucks now ik im a girl and it’s not the same as a boy but if you ever need to talk or need advice im here:)

[@landyncb8751]

@@miah2289 awww you are so pure 🥰🥰🥰

[@danielclawson2143]

@@miah2289 Hey I am 17 too.

[@miah2289]

@@landyncb8751 thank you so much

[@MattandAbby]

I'm so sorry that you're struggling to find friends or mentors to talk to this stuff about. But I am so glad that the video was helpful. Don't forget that you are innately valuable! Love you dude!

[@nataliewiebe7545]

“You just have to know that you as a human are innately valuable”. Our world would 💯 be a better place if more people thought this way. Thanks for this golden nugget Matt ☺️

[@lesley2757]

who is a girl that’s watching this bc it’s matt and abby? just me? oh ok

[@MattandAbby]

Haha like most of the people watching this are female

[@oliviac1457]

Me too lol

[@the0ghost069]

@@MattandAbby Not all of us are females. 🤙🤙🤙

[@zoeighhaskell5546]

Me

[@jessicamiller4653]

Meeeee

[@emmacrabtree1554]

Matt is so respectful and honest! Get yourself a guy like this!

[@MattandAbby]

Thank you for the compliment!

[@Nyt78]

Here I'm! Like him. But there will be an auditions, continent wise. 😂

[@sophiej1987]

You both are some of the most respectful and genuine/kind hearted people I’ve seen online/in general. I love it 💗💗

[@ganjamama3086]

Its refreshing to see a young man love and respect his wife.... Your parents gotta be so proud of you... Good job Matt's mom, he turned out amazing🥰

[@dane-pq3vq]

omg this video help me feel comfortable with myself bc i’m an insecure teen boy and it made me realize i should be proud of who i am physically and morally. have a great day matt and ofc abby❤️💕

[@allif6213]

As a girl watching this, it’s very insightful to hear your answers and explanations! And I’m glad to hear a man talking about confidence, body positivity, etc. because I think there’s so much unnecessary pressure about what “being a man” entails. Kudos to you for giving some great answers to those questions & it’s even helpful as a girl watching this! “You, as a human, are innately valuable” will stick with me for a while ♥️

[@Aerialdancer]

Matt every 10 seconds: “VERY good question!” 😂

[@sophieghaffari9006]

Omg yay! I was hoping you’d do a guy talk one! I’m a girl but I’m curious! 😂

[@izzybaumgartner4537]

Same! I think we all need to be aware of the things that everyone goes through of any gender!

[@MattandAbby]

Hope you enjoyed it!

[@raynemichelle2996]

I think these questions seem more from women anyway.

[@mrhale4971]

POV you saw a Matt and Abby video and instantly clicked on and like the video

[@MattandAbby]

WOOHOO! Thank you for liking the video :)

[@cassidyjohnson8285]

Thoroughly love this couple. True couple goals 💜 He respects women, especially HIS WOMAN. God bless both of you. I hope He blesses your marriage!

[@amanda8834]

I love how respectful you are Matt and how kind and sweet you are ☺

[@taigepaylor]

I hope that abby’s grandpa is doing better! still continuing to pray❤️

[@MattandAbby]

You're so kind!

[@A158s]

Omg what happened to him?

[@lakameronbuchanan6217]

Thanks so much it’s great to hear another guy talk about guy topics that aren’t talked about a lot!

[@MattandAbby]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@MrNiceGuy.]

This guy exudes positivity and optimism. Cool to see someone from the STL representing on this level. Great content brother!

[@kennab8580]

I mean I don’t think you could find two more genuine people than Matt and Abby! Love how real you guys keep it! Thank you 💕💕

[@annaeliseu]

I’m so proud of you guys for being so open and honest!!

[@temalungelomalaza3832]

this was so considerate, something for the guys as well !! keep it up!! love you guys so much😪💖

[@MattandAbby]

Thank you! Will do!

[@katiemc4587]

I think it is so cool that you are doing one of these for guys, its often just for girls and I feel like guys feel weird talking about this stuff

[@MattandAbby]

I'm so glad you think it's cool too. Most of our viewers are women, but I thought it would be fun to do a video for the boys.

[@zzoiemoreno9873]

I found your guys’ channel recently and watched so many videos!! Love you guys! Genuinely so fun to watch and your relationship is inspirational.❤️❤️

[@sharko3211]

I love how most questions that are probably asked by girls (I’m assuming sorry if I’m wrong) can be answered with “Depends on the guy”

[@MattandAbby]

😂😂😂

[@rosinemoustapha1283]

we all need a guy like Matt in our lives

[@erinplace6696]

This was great Matt! As far as "why do some guys have a hard time expressing their feelings?" I want to make a couple points. 1. Matt you mentioned that Abby is much more aware of her feelings; which I would say is probably truer for more women than men. However, it has been made very clear to me, that this is likely bc of the way men are raised when they are boys & what society & culture expects out of men. Men are taught that sharing feelings is weak or makes them "too sensitive" & that being a sensitive man is a bad thing & they are literally not provided the tools to successfully to communicate their feelings & be aware of them. Men at a young age are literally shamed into this & usually grow up believing it to be true. I'm seeing this stigma already be placed on my 3 yr old nephew by his grandfather. Does this mean only men feel this way? No. There are women who were taught the same things that become closed off emotionally. Everyone should be aware of their feelings so they know how to communicate their needs in the relationships they have--not just talking romantic relationships. 2. It has been statistically proven that women speak more words in a day than men do. With this information it would be easy to say, "so women talk more than men!" But that's not the case; women use many more adjectives/descriptive words than men, making their count higher. So anyway, if you got this far, thanks for coming to my Ted Talk ✌🏼

[@aNNa-qh6ho]

I think it’s important that men talk about how they’re feeling. My partner is like you and doesn’t easily cry, but he does have a sensitive side. It’s not a weakness in men at all to express how they’re feeling.

[@BostonAmy]

I loved how you reacted to Abby's "Dance with me while you were busy." Even though it was a Tick Tock trend/challenge, there was something so honest between you. I could honestly feel your love.

[@maggiegodwin9482]

Abby’s got a good one. Don’t ever let him go, girl!

[@shannybootube]

i clicked the like button before I even started watching the video. I always do that on every one of their videos that I watch :) I love your respect towards women and I can see that you love Abby very much. That is nice to see in today’s world

[@gabriellechapman7762]

Matt you should tell other men all of these things. More than one needs to hear about how girls bodies are amazing no matter the size. So kudos to you!🗣

[@ananyakanagal]

Just started watching you guys recently, and you guys already are making my day and making me so happy. ❤️❤️ also I’m not a guy but I’m still watchin 🤣

[@MattandAbby]

That is awesome!

[@RaZoR7i7]

90% of their audience are women so you are nothing new these questions were also asked by women

[@RobbieBaldphotography2]

Matt we all so appreciate you being so honest with us as a guy myself I find it hard to express my feelings to my family and friends and sometimes I close myself off

[@oliviawilcox8387]

Love this! I'm a girl but glad you guys could have these questions answered by another guy. These questions even helped me! Thank you ❤️

[@brimae4646]

Y"ALL I love the individual videos! You should do separate morning routines! From each other's perspectives! Love you both! God bless!!

[@katelynsparks3863]

I love you so much!!! You make me realize that there are good guys out there with respect for women

[@itskellyyb]

This should be the bar ladies 👏🏻 I love how respectful matt is ✨

[@rbaby_official]

thank you so much guys for both these talks...love you guys so much

[@anakinskywalker2560]

Oml you guys are like the coolest nicest people ever and I love the kind of content you post❤️

[@moriahhart2117]

Thank you both for being so open and honest!! I'm praying for Abby's grandpa ❤❤

[@mikkel066h]

9:41 “You as a human are just innately valuable.” Me: *Looks up organ prices on the black market*

[@gailellis1921]

I’m a girl but I love Matt so much I still had to watch this Edit: well apparently everyone else did the same thing too

[@nicholejohnson1173]

I love that you started playing cards together. We just started last year and we have been married 13 years! 💕

[@ReactXtV09]

Loved this Matt! I hope you and your wife are happy in Hawaii! Thanks for always making content, we appreciate you!

[@anaclaraalves6316]

Loving these advices from just abby and then just matt.🤍 U guys are amazing🤍

[@lg9895]

amazing video!! love you guys!💕

[@leannereilly]

I love being a fly on the wall during boy talk

[@simonaelhaddad6527]

So respectful and great insights! Loves both of your vudeos!

[@katiewingler6512]

the reason guys have a hard time expressing their feelings is because our society raised them to think it isn’t masculine to have feelings. but it is! if you guys ever have a son, make sure he feels comfortable with it from a young age and it won’t be so hard for him growing up!

[@kellynonicr856]

Purrrr

[@kathycarter8167]

It’s great to get perspectives on burning questions from the male and female points of view. I think you and Abbey both gave wonderful answers to the questions asked of you both. Thanks for your transparency..👍🏾💕👍🏾💕👍🏾💕👍🏾💕👍🏾💕👍🏾💕👍🏾

[@mackenziefah7801]

I love how his shirt matches his phone case.

[@cristinamerlini]

That's not the girls problem!!! yessssssss!!! Get in their heads. Thank you Matt!!

[@linzileverenz4737]

Abby got herself a good one. I truly hope every woman finds their Matt

[@kellynonicr856]

Purrrr not many men are like him they’re like disgusted by periods and many don’t respect women who ever raised him did a good job

[@alexisphillips2940]

This video is so sweet, when he talks about how Abby loves when he does ______ that’s so cute!

[@ceciliaeivers7289]

I asked out my boyfriend, and we have been together for a year now! For him he said it was a huge turn on to have a girl ask him out

[@skyehess818]

I LOVE your guys channel so much! I've been watching ur vids a lot lately!

[@megancarpenter9023]

I am so happy that I get to end my day watching you. I am going through a hard time right now and you 2 are so happy in your video so I get happy.

[@oliviawilcox8387]

Same, I would love to talk with you if you'd like. I'm going through a really hard time as well

[@brookerichardson3566]

Yay!! I knew a guy y’all would be coming after Abbys girl talk!!

[@ALISHAJPOOLE]

Who Else Loves Their Videos!!

[@kenzknippa2247]

THANK YOU FOR BEING SO RESPECTFUL TOWARDS WOMEN!!! That means so much, just so you know❤️ btw, hi, Matt! Hi, Abby!

[@gracehenry9688]

You guys always brighten my day!!!

[@dorian1656]

this video gave me confidence somehow thanks man

[@yadidhyak4080]

The way you respect the opposite gender and answering honestly for such interesting questions is REALLY COOL. Waiting to see more such cool videos.

[@tetrickhenry5850]

Love your videos matt and abby how could anyone ever dislike these videos

[@keeganmckristlly3234]

this is random but matt i love your phone case, very aesthetic

[@fienlinthout7821]

Matt: I think periods are amazing Me: lol dude try it sometime, I'm sure it will change your mind But!! Thanks for the respect!! 😘

[@theforgottenpeanutbuttercu5046]

Y’all Matt is too wholesome 🥺

[@themach5586]

Yaayy road to 300k... big love from India dude❣️

[@MattandAbby]

Thanks a ton!

[@themach5586]

@@MattandAbby no bro thank you i should have seen you guys before. Because i love watching your videos ❣️

[@caroline1620]

I’m happy they posted a guy part!!!!!

[@abdielemartinez1918]

MY QUESTION WAS IN THE VID!!! I love you lots dudessssss

[@jeaninejohnson9069]

I have to say that I have the exact same “always kiss me good night” sign!! You guys are amazing!!

[@aniqatabassum8276]

Oh Damn,! I finally woke up early and yes it is so worth it! It's like 5 am and I'm watching your guys video! It feels damn nice! 😍😍😍😍

[@jnd4of479]

Whew I got here in 8 seconds never clicked so fast in my life😂. I love your content. Keep up the good work

[@ryleeevans1146]

Love you guys

[@komalchaturvedi8696]

Matt is so respectful❤️

[@alexanderson2490]

hey matt and abby I’m a huge fan of you guys y’all make my day so much

[@bethany_lynn]

I love Matt and Abby so much! They always post the best content! 💗😘 I watch all your videos! They’re like the best older siblings and couple model!

[@claubit32]

I thought you had some really great answers! I hope you and Abby are enjoying this new adventure.:)

[@sophieghaffari9006]

Ok Matt you’re such a great guy! Hope l can find a guy like you! ❤️

[@oliviawilcox8387]

Same I would love to end up with a guy like Matt, every girl deserves it ❤️

[@the0ghost069]

@sweetlikegrande You'll find him. Just keep your eyes open and your heart receptive. We are out there looking as well. Good luck and God bless.

[@oliviawilcox8387]

@sweetlikegrande I'm so sorry, I haven't been in a relationship yet but have had boys fake liking me or being friends and it's really hurts

[@oliviawilcox8387]

@sweetlikegrande I agree with every word you said, I want all of that too. I have a little bit of trust issues as well with my self and others because of things that have happened in the last few years. I want to find that person who will see the real me, help me become better and treat me good

[@oliviawilcox8387]

@sweetlikegrande I want that with all my heart too, just a guy and friends who love me for me, accepts my flaws, and pushes me to become a better person. I only have two friends currently that I talk to anymore, and I feel genuinely care and love me. Almost three years ago I graduation from high school and I lost two friends, both of them I always felt I wasn't at the top of their list. One I still loved so much and wanted to be her friend so badly and had lots of things in common with her and just had tons of fun when together. She knew I saw her that way but she had more friends than I did and I guess just moved on to just them. I still think about it today and miss her even though it hurts so much. I have trust issues in myself for not being as mature and not finding the best friends. I also have trust issues a bit with others and am still super scared to open up again to more people. I want those type of people in my life desperately and really just ling for it, you know? Love you and you are never alone trust me

[@facu_dica1146]

yesss!!! guy talk thax matt for everything

[@royconway8701]

yall need to have a podcast for girl/guy talk. who agrees with me?

[@jennie_gossi04]

Matt you’re awesome 🙌😂 more guy talk vids

[@amberrose9647]

I love you guys so much

[@Theanakkcfjjkd48]

“getting goofier” 💀

[@maggiegadd4570]

THATS NOT THE GIRLS PROBLEM YES MATT!!👏🏼👏🏼 we love you 🥺

[@morganmurphy8700]

Me and my boyfriend always split paying for dates or just things we share in general I would never expect my bf to pay for everything that’s just toxic

[@VIZOP]

You are so right

[@nakitabrooks2273]

It’s nice to see Matt just talking casually

[@ryleeevans1146]

Thank you for everything you do for me. You guys inspire me so much.

[@Helena-jy1pr]

wow, your channel is growing fast!

[@kinakina7784]

Having a period is a cool thing, yah that is what I thought until I got it and started to feel the pain :)))))

[@user-gh9kx2xk7u]

True

[@madisonmcclure1439]

Aww he’s so sweet!!❤️

[@katieposey404]

We need a Q& A Video !! Are you guys seriously looking to buy in Hawaii? Are you guys really ready to start trying for a baby?

[@angeliqueheaton319]

A little helpful constructive criticism, the sound effect you put when putting a question on the screen than removing really isn’t needed, in fact it is distracting from what you’re saying and not very easy on the ears especially when wearing earphones. Maybe try a softer sound and only using it when displaying the question, not when removing it. Love the vid and you guys!

[@emmabemma1184]

yooo im early! love u guys so much😍😍

[@dariarotaru6998]

About the sharing of feelings.. Me and my boyfriend are very weird, I don't usually know how to express my feelings in words but he does. That's because he's more emotional than me, and that's very rare to meet.

[@gracebleekman2557]

I’m a girl but I still want to see this because I have a brother.

[@oliviawilcox8387]

Same, I love how a lot of guys have so much respect for girls on their period and other aspects of our lives especially when they've grown up with moms and sisters, so I want to show the same respect to guys and my brothers

[@gracebleekman2557]

@@oliviawilcox8387 me too because my brother is helpful with periods. Even though he doesn’t know the basics it’s still helpful.

[@oliviawilcox8387]

@@gracebleekman2557 I love that. My brothers and I never have really talked about periods and when I have mentioned it, I can tell they don't want to talk about it. For me, especially because of that, I'm even more grateful for males that want to ask questions, want to know how they can help, and just be respectful about it. In my family, I've grown up always thinking that it's a "secret" and I've just been afraid to talk about it, maybe because I have four younger brothers and young siblings but I wish I was in more of a situation where it was a little more open.

[@gracebleekman2557]

@@oliviawilcox8387 yeah I get. My mom did not tell me anything before I started. So I thought I was dying. But still my brother is a little open about it. And I can tell he doesn’t want to talk about it either.

[@emilyjohnson2544]

MATT AND ABBY PLEASE COMMENT ON THIS I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!! I just found out about your channel and cannot believe the number of growing subs you have!!! Since 3 days ago you gained 8k!!!! YOU ARE AMAZING!!!!

[@allybarker1110]

aww i love you guys

[@nombrenombre3700]

Subscribing was the best thing i did

[@natashapoole4452]

I love you guys Matt you are so Handsome, sweet, and amazing in general

[@j_rankin_lettering]

Loved this video... even as a girl. Love you guys! ❤️