Asking My Husband What Men REALLY think.. PART 1| Men's Tea on Dating & the Male Brain

[@LuxeByLo]

“That pursuit is supposed to come naturally in the beginning and then after it’s a choice.” Loved that! It’s so true.

[@miabeauty-tt1rq]

Accepting the "he is just not that into you" is extremely hard... I am going through it and it hurts, but it is true if he is not interested is quite obvious

[@KatarinaNolte]

You're obviously young. Don't waste precious time. There's plenty of fish in the sea.

[@lisaariottiart]

then they should leave us alone period and go to brothels

[@Larisuh]

With the whole “he’s not confused, he’s just not interested” reminds me of the story of how Stephen Colbert met his wife. It’s so great, I’d def recommend to watch!

[@hermelademissie2477]

Kaleb has tooo much wisdom on this topic 😭🙌🏽

[@JeanineAmapola]

For real 😂

[@Larisuh]

Also with the “you deserve better”, means you deserve a better connection, because I’m not feeling a true connection with you.

[@gracereidy1811]

What if he says it after you breakup with him ?

[@christianhunt8788]

​@@gracereidy1811 One of two things usually. Either 1) He is trying to be nice and doesn't think there is a connection or 2) He doesn't believe he is in the position in his life that he can care for you the way he thinks you should be.

[@TrthBHld]

"Bad company corrupts good character." (Bible) Company is people, media, music, anything we surround ourselves with and listen and look at. Again, great show!!

[@emilymorgan3364]

“You are romantic, but you’re just prideful” PREACHHH

[@paulamorales7079]

I’m married but I thoroughly enjoyed this episode! Jeanine chose great questions & Kaleb communicated SO well & gave clear, elaborate answers for every question. Anyone who listens will surely gain some wisdom here 🔥

[@camf7886]

This is one of the best episodes! I just love love hearing Kalebs perspective on dating from the guys mindset. It’s SO helpful! Thank you so much to you both ❤

[@jasminealexia]

I’ve had so many of these same questions so refreshing to hear the straight answers from a guy’s perspective. Gleaned a lot from this! Thank you!

[@Lizaecotravel]

"If you're not romantic, you're putting your energy in other things." Yes! A man will be romantic if he wants to pursue you. I only want a romantic husband who shows me his love through dinner dates, long phone calls, hand holding, flowers, trips, and acts of service. ❤🙏

[@Kritikanbringer]

What were last three romantic things you did for your man (and not because you liked them)? Do you even know what men like?

[@kingadatoma]

Why long phone calls when you live together? You meet and talk.

[@skylarggarner]

"I made an error" had me rolling 🤣🤣

[@lee-annvanstaden3899]

Yes for part 2! And that wifey topic, Caleb slayed that one, was so needed to hear! LOVED this episode👏🏼👏🏼

[@darryls4532]

Sound like me...I have been single almost eight years after my husband passed. My single life is so perfect but in some point I want to have someone be my good friend in life. Not so sure what I want, just let my life in way I want to be. Will see any guy in this earth fit in my energy , generous and kindness. what you give to me I will give back to you.

[@austinmalayil]

Love to hear from Kaleb's pov always a treat to see both of y'all

[@carmachavez2354]

Oh my gosh! This was absolutely so good! This was the first podcast I have ever listened to by you guys, and it was definitely worth the listen! And I will be listening more often! God is so amazing and good 💗

[@lisar8631]

Hey i really loved this episode! You guys really helped me seeing how men think, and i grew up with a father who was emotionally absent and abusive, so seeing you guys being so in love and supportive really gave me hope i might one day find true partnership as well. Thank you xxx

[@vkdeen7570]

depends on age, how much u work on yourself and where u are looking... but chances are u can find someone. just remember that partnership does not mean the same... that's huge mistake that women make too often. men and women are not the same. u bring the feminine energy and let them bring the masculine

[@imactuallynotaman]

the way they talk about and to each other just makes me smile

[@DaughterOfAStarBreather]

I love the transparency and authenticity of you two!

[@rc9334]

The gym clothes segment was spot on. Even as a woman, sometimes i'm shocked looking at what other women wear, and have to do a double take. No judgement, but it is hard not to stare or an occasional glance if you're bouncing on a treadmill with a sport bra and shorts. Ppl will naturally look. Some girls like that external validation tho. Some don't. To each of their own, i guess.

[@Alyssaa948]

I wear sports bra and shorts because I’m dripping in sweat at the end of my workout lol I have to hang them up to dry afterwards

[@RitaP41]

Amazingly insightful episode, truly! And let's be Honest: 1. Lies are Hurtful and confusing. Man up and tell the Truth. 2. You CAN go back and Apologize to the people you did wrong. And it DOES matter. 3. Men don't like to share weaknesses they Know are Harmful, but don't want to change. 4. Shame is an effective but Harmful control tactic. 5. Looks DO matter! And so does Attraction.

[@msliltrinity]

Even though I know you were joking a bit sometimes or maybe didn’t feel like you had the perfect words to describe something, I get what you’re saying about loving God first, being confident but not arrogant, being passionate/having a hobby, and basically being a wife before you are a wife. I think this is a mature outlook for a newly married couple to have. Thank you for sharing your honest thoughts!

[@SarahAnnJohnson]

Y’all have no idea how much I needed this!!

[@MrsDJLitman]

My fiancé said tone of voice can change how men interpret what women are saying to them

[@AJP-GF99]

I feel like that applies to most people in general tho in relation to voice tone wen speaking

[@baeconater8]

Sounds like a dog 🤣

[@HaoyuTao]

This is very important, its can determine whether you argue or not.

[@DanielaCabrona]

How he related confidence to cup holders… I kind of love it 😂

[@healthybalance5748]

I am a stay at home mom happily married for 12 years. Not sure how I came across this podcast but I actually enjoyed it. Great solid advices from this guy. You guys are an adorable strong couple. May God continue to bless your marriage and your ministry. 🙏 Ps:If you're dating someone you're not attracted to, do both of you a favor and walk away. Attraction is really important in a long term relationship. Attraction goes beyond looks 🤍

[@ashleyeapen4353]

I love you all so much! Y'all have helped me so much with these podcasts. I have watched you for a long time Jeanine and you have helped me so much you have no idea. Also Kaleb you are very wise and I always love hearing your advice!

[@torianichole831]

I love this and I feel like his answers were spot on with other research I’ve done and what I’ve spoken to my husband about as well. New subscriber here!

[@seacoast4950]

I loved this video. You guys are great together. I like how Kaleb is a good leader and not afraid to speak up for what is right and righteous. Everything you both talked about was very helpful. Thank you. Can't wait to hear more!

[@taliacape3554]

BEST EPISODE 🔥🔥 I love you both so much and it’s incredible to see how God uses you guys together for His kingdom ❤️

[@maranathatesfaye1717]

Genuinely love you both! But I'll be honest, i can't miss a podcast where Kaleb is on it!!! He needs his own podcast! So much love from Canada, May God continue to bless you both :) also thank you for all this insight! hahah

[@HaoyuTao]

As a man, men and women think so differently. A lot of women just need to learn how men function. Everytime I give a women game about men they are always suprised. It's almost engrained in men culture to learn about women.But, It doesn't seem the same vice versa. Nothing more amazing than a woman who understands men.

[@zolinach]

I relate so much to the 'ick' feeling haha Sometimes I feel like I'm ending things too quickly but I just know deep down it ain't gunna work xD

[@Jeannettedelacruz11]

Incredible the way Kaled answered every question, this episode was so incredible that I was watching it while I was training 🙏🔥 Pt 2 please 🙏

[@KAyLA_K]

Really appreciate the straight forwardness!!😊❤️

[@nicolettaterzi9704]

this was such a nice video, you just gained a follower. thank you for your wisdom, have a blessed journey in your marriage ❤🎉

[@stonelord100]

Found you guys from the GGB episode. Interesting episode of good "Chad" tips with a religious tilt. This advice assumes attraction & is only useful for maybe 30% of men. So happy you two found each other and are married. Wish you all the best!!

[@aliyahsaha]

I’m so glad I stumbled across this channel today ❤ new subscriber :)

[@suzanlinda4387]

Same

[@nqobile_Lempetje]

“For you..yeah” 😭😂😂

[@HappyandHealthyPodcast]

Ahahahhaha he’s the best

[@beautylicioussllc]

This might be the first podcast where I don’t mind that she brings her husband on . I truly enjoy their episodes together ❤

[@summerwright9365]

I appreciate his vulnerability and yours y’all are a powerhouse couple ❤ so enjoyed this it helped me understand my husband more ❤

[@jaydamonique]

Loved the depth in explaining

[@michelleculbert2983]

Woww Kaleb has a lot of wisdom!!

[@Xmlfelicity]

And another great podcast 🩷🩷🩷🙏🏼thankful for y’all!

[@OLUWAFAYOKEMI]

I agree with that hints stuff 😅😂 what's your hint. Smiling at him 😊

[@jadabrown6697]

This is so good, you guys got a new listener!!♥️

[@daniellekramer93]

You should interview the one girl that used to be a model and is now doing movies and is dealing with cancer. Her name is Nicole Weider. She created Project Inspired. She’d be so good!

[@sleepylilbecca]

Thank you so much for this episode 💕I really appreciated the conversation and the honesty with all the topics. I’m not personally a Christian myself, but I respect how well you offer your side of the conversation without shaming others. Much love ❤️ have added this to my favourites for future Becca 🥰

[@andrewkimfike9516]

Gotta also have date nights or days even when u get married. Me and my husband have 2 days a week to just us. I learned that from my parents even if it's just a coffee date. It's still just you two.

[@basmamazouz4364]

Gyms in muslim countries are often not mixed, which is wonderful because you can wear whatever you want around other women and workout in peace.

[@SwagPapi768]

Hints can easily be misinterpreted and many men nowadays don’t just assume even if they are interested.

[@danaking9676]

Thank you for this episode! 🔥

[@debbyalbert5777]

This was bombbbbbbb

[@HappyandHealthyPodcast]

❤

[@timinri]

42:10 Men dont share feelings because there are more consequences for men sharing them. It is a sign of weakness socially. Women can be emotional without great judgment socially speaking

[@annajoy2306]

i know men that share feelings but you are right its not everyone they are more careful and need to feel comfterble. but if you not vunnerble and have a good communication you cant have a long term relationship. maybe its an attachment people need to break. same as over sharing can also be an attachment from child hood that make people avioders, anxious and so on

[@marielramirez2024]

I'd like to know about biblical finances in marriage :)

[@timinri]

46:05 I would open up, but I am afraid of judgment not necessarily from my Future spouse but from her friends after being told about my Emotional IQ

[@brittanyeorr]

Loved this! Thanks Kaleb for the honestly 💯

[@kitantinker398]

Yesss, this is so good!

[@ryann.wallace]

I love this episode. Can’t wait for part 2

[@markietaylor3411]

Needed!! Love it!

[@vanessaeshou1514]

So much wisdom was shared here. I loved this. Thankyou

[@Tatifigxo]

Stumbled upon this podcast and within the first 5 minutes I subscribed! Love your energy as a couple ! ♥️

[@bronziegrl]

I loved this episode so much. Thank you Kaleb for the honest answers! Very much appreciated for us women who are wired so different from men! 😅

[@laurenmartinez6708]

So needed and wisdom

[@InfinitePawsShop]

Great podcast…. Thank you for your knowledge

[@plawton35]

Right up there with RC Blake’s. Bravo!

[@mikgonzales]

Wow I’ve never been so early🤪 can’t wait to listen!

[@Mushroom321-]

My heart 💓 hearing " you didnt say your last name" . 😄🤭😃

[@LaurenTuong]

❤❤❤ Loving this podcast

[@kalebward3135]

31 minutes it gets REAL

[@erinnsequeira6776]

This was one of my favorite podcasts. Thank you Jeanine and Kaleb. You guys are so wise and have such a good and healthy relationship with Jesus. You have heloed me get to spend time and have a deeoer relationship with Jesus. 🤗🤗🤗

[@lovertassia]

Oh my goodness, the romantic part makes sense😮😅😂

[@ShortGirlsClimbCounters]

Sadly 😢

[@kingadatoma]

Very good answers.

[@odeetteplascencia]

OMG! Y’all just talked to me with the whole question if guys notice when we are interested, I’m am going through something like this. I’m just going to reach out to him I guess lol

[@tylerdurden3722]

How did it go?

[@randyg22152]

The video doesn’t start until after the 6 minute mark, so if you want to skip ahead to the Q&A, you’re welcome. In response to the question, do men really feel attracted to a woman’s bare shoulders? The short answer is that I have never, ever, heard a guy say that, “Wow! She’s got great shoulders! She’s hot!” No one looks at your shoulders. Having said that, the more bare skin that a woman shows makes guys think about seeing her bare naked, as in, he wonders what the rest of your body looks like without clothes. Showing large amounts of skin makes a guy think about seeing the rest of you without your clothes on.

[@ytdiana1809]

yall are so beautiful

[@cynthiaa508]

You guys are awesome, thank you for being an amazin role model couple

[@RealAgent316]

Modesty isn’t “in” and that’s why you get backlash… lukewarm people and many of us are guilty of it… I don’t like to wear revealing clothing and have been mindful of the booty showing bc guys do look, and I don’t want it to be an issue, I don’t always wear a jacket around my waist lately but also I’m not gonna wear the wedgie scrunchy thong looking leggings I’ve seen trending, that’s just awful and vulgar in my humble opinion, I know not everyone will agree but that’s gonna be something the Lord will have to work on those hearts that think there’s nothing wrong with it, or nothing wrong with showing too much skin, being immodest in general… may God help them, Christians and non alike. Gym pet peeve and glad y’all mentioned it bc I thought it was just me for a while thinking about how rude it is to both genders really. As women we need to set a higher standard but I get 2024 is just different now

[@RealAgent316]

Confidence also shouldn’t come out outer appearance…🤍✨

[@Iknow_xo]

You are so cute together!!😍 I can't wait to meet my person too❣️

[@MuzikAficionado]

Most need to face their truths to be able to open up and be genuinely vulnerable, instead of being manipulative through their emotions to get what they want! It's refreshing to see young men developing self-reflection, while growing up, to become responsible men with self-accountability! It's also pleasant to see young girls realizing the value in modesty, which is a highly underrated attribute, and much needed for having a family-friendly society, no matter which faith one belongs to. Afterall, God knows how His Creation functions, and therefore, sent a manual of life to operate our lives, despite all the attractions laid out by Satan as challenges that we either fall for or overcome for our individual and collective wellbeing.

[@all4one271]

I loved your intro 😊

[@MSkp4wo]

when he said he wants a woman with confidence but then goes on to describe a mom 🤨

[@Lagartijajaja]

yeah i thought that too ...

[@Xnovality]

Women when Men have standards: 😡🤬

[@itsdeborahcolon]

Kaleb spit fire on every question 🔥🔥🔥 loved this male perspective!

[@emicav]

This was so good, y'all!

[@vishakabasnayake2806]

Love timestamp 10:20 !

[@candicecastro7]

That was so good!! I like how real it was! Please do another one!! Thank you!! And GOD bless!!

[@Someuserx81]

I think modesty does come with intention, but even if it’s not your intention, something such as yoga pants outside of gym and things can cause a man to be tempted so if a man tells you. I don’t want you wearing that or you wearing it causes me to stumble then don’t wear it. There is plenty of alternatives.

[@ericacarmen91]

I need to go home and wash my feet 😂 relatable

[@timinri]

25:40 I know exactly what you're talking about. I am confused why chicks at the gymnasium wear the tightest fitting clothing when they don't want guys to look. I mean what is the rationale

[@angelainbloom]

its possible that they want to spot check their progress, that’s just my assumption though

[@tranquilbakergentletraveller]

Female, former gym goer here. Many ladies who are fit, toned, in good shape like to dress in figure hugging clothing at the gym. If you're confident and proud of your body, then you'd want to wear clothing that showcases that. There are bound to be some ladies that wear what they wear to attract the male gaze too. Me, on the other hand, I'm petite but have always had a solid build. When I used to go to the gym (in my early 30s), I would wear a long, usually baggy t-shirt and loose tracksuit pants. It's just what I felt comfortable wearing. Even if I had a six pack and super toned arms and legs, I would probably still exercise in a t-shirt and loose tracksuit pants as my style (and personality) is comfort and modesty.

[@saraab67856]

PART 2 please!

[@EuniceGraceShoplinks]

I like your topics.

[@Keepsmilingboo]

Fire. 🔥

[@ev_green_]

49:00 I think it's also cause we are SWORMED with sexy media or even just romantic media....when we gwt older NOW we can watch the pg 13 movies with the kisses or make out so now our brain knows what it's like to see these things and crave it ....I wonder how our hormones would be if we lived during a time when there WERENT romance books or TV...I think we would all chill out and MUSIC is the worst ....the videos

[@blackblue6747]

26:00 in a Muslim religion too we had to lower our gaze to not to look at other gender except our spouse 👍🏼

[@ReyesRP]

43:36 If I am vulnerable with my wife 100% chance it will be weaponized and used against me in the future. Sad.

[@carloscaride9878]

Friends happy nigth for you very lucky. I am argentino

[@MoveInChrist]

You guys are so cute. Absolutely loved hearing a man’s point of view. Congratulations on the marriage !

[@tanyacollier9878]

😂😂 iv been happily married for 12 years and my husband says the same thing 33:06

[@jessica_young09]

I go to the gym frequently and when I walk in I am modest, keep to myself, don't talk a lot and now I am known as the "mean" one because I don't entertain the guy .... it is such a stupid double edged sword because if I talk then I'm a flirt 😑

[@keishrs8]

Hey Kaleb, what's your thoughts ghosting?.