Harold Henthorn The Black Widower: The Chilling Murders Of Toni Bertolet & Lynn Henthorn - Ep

[@annakatebertolet2703]

Wow! Thanks for covering this! It means a lot to our family to get these messages out. My grandmother (Toni's mom) wants this story publicized so other women aren't taken advantage of and know what to look for.

[@terryramsey1484]

Your family has been through so much. We're so sorry for your loss.

[@Courtenay-Dawn]

I see myself so much in Toni and what she went through. My ex husband was so abusive that I woke up one night to standing over me with a sledgehammer, laughing, saying how easy it would have been to kill me and my youngest son. I had the same extent of mind games played. Made me think I was crazy. I doubted my ability to do anything. I cried so much with Toni’s story. Please have your family know that we, those of us that are trying so hard to climb out of our own personal hell, we see Toni when we look in the mirror. She was such a beautiful woman. Radiant and kind. Im so sorry for what your family has gone through and continues to go through. This is breaking my heart.

[@Magsrvt]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you guys find peace now that you finally have justice 🥺❤

[@maximumeffort78]

@Anna Kate Bertolet I’m so sorry for your family’s senseless loss to a likely pathological, narcissistic man with ASPD (IMO as a clinician, though I do not diagnose online, just a guess based on long term behaviors). I do not want to be trite…so my words and true sentiments: I am sending you all love, light, and strength through focused meditation (based on my beliefs, I hope this is okay, I feel all good thoughts sent out are helpful). I wish I could alleviate your pain. Grieving is not linear, allow yourselves kindness and care, lean into the love you have for each other ♥️♥️♥️

[@jade2927]

We’re sorry

[@victorialaws6906]

Toni Bertolet was my childhood eye doctor. She was always so warm and kind, RIP 💛

[@emilymcmullen9871]

thats so sad

[@sashafierce9879]

Oh im sorry.

[@Olivia-Ev]

That's crazy

[@mrspurdie2439]

@@Olivia-Ev 😂

[@tammynelson7459]

The FBI and Rangers and the families are heroes♥️🙏🇺🇸

[@Mgmorris98]

I am so happy his daughter is free from him. I couldn't even imagine what he would've done to her if he hadn't been convicted... she would've had a hellish life with no freedom and who knows what kind of abuse she would've gone through. His conviction truly saved her life in my opinion.

[@lesliechabot3360]

Agree 100%. He was already so controlling he was making her physically ill. Had she grown up with her sicko bio dad controlling her and not allowing her to grieve she would likely have rebelled in some (probably unhealthy) way when she hit her teens. God help a rebellious girl who is under Henthorn's control.

[@annakatebertolet2703]

She is doing very well and is extremely happy! (my cousin)

[@lesliechabot3360]

@@annakatebertolet2703- thank you for letting us know. I'm so glad she has you and the rest of your family to surround her with love and raise her in a happy, healthy family.

[@justsaying8]

@@annakatebertolet2703 is she going to therapy? This girl needs attention even if from the outside she seems happy

[@jac4YouTube]

Agreed, he would have brainwashed her for sure

[@janinemarie333]

Statistically domestic violence victims are in MUCH MORE danger of being killed when they leave. As a survivor myself, it was when I set boundaries and said no when I got severe beatings.

[@emilyfuentes5208]

I’m so sorry you went through that, you didn’t deserve it 💛✨ I hope you’re safe and happy now!

[@ELEMENTARYWATSON52]

🙏

[@April007-23]

I'm glad you survived 🙏❤

[@ASAMB12]

so true. That might be another reason as to why Toni stayed with him, even after the first attempted murder. I'm sure she was scared for her life and was afraid of confronting him directly because he might lose his temper and attack her or even hurt her daughter. So she might have needed some time to come up with a plan on how to get away from him. I'm sorry you had to go through something so horrible. I wish you all the best.

[@cozycasasmr4510]

My heart goes out to you, I hope your abuser suffers

[@artieche9]

My grandma was a social worker that worked with Lynn. Everyone is so glad this creep is finally behind bars.

[@Ipleadthefifth]

💯💯💯❤❤

[@rondadoolin7084]

And whats sad is that Toni's brother Barry is a cardiologist and he was showing Toni & Harold a new piece of diagnostic equipment that shows narrowing of arteries that can cause a heart attack...Barry put Harold thru the scanner and found Harold was on the verge of having a MASSIVE HEART ATTACK...so he got Harold into open heart surgery and saved Harolds life only for Harold to live and kill his sister...Poor Barry

[@carlaamanda86]

Whaaaatttt?! I never heard that part!!! Omg.

[@madsys_mum9561]

Wow! That’s unbelievable. My goodness that poor poor woman and her poor family. And her poor darling daughter to now have to live without her mum. 😭

[@chrissylekas]

regarding the “accidental” log throw- pretty sure he was attempting to throw it at her and she ducked last minute which saved her life *temporarily* 😭

[@levcath13]

If only she would’ve left after that happened :(

[@katiem9923]

I thought maybe he threw right before she went down to pick up the lightbulb!

[@heybeautiful9360]

@@levcath13 and her mom told her to never be alone with him in secluded areas. 😳😳 i wish she just left.

[@cindylang7402]

I agree! He did not expect her to bend over. That poor woman waisted so many years with him. It puts a lump in my throat and I want to hurl because he is so sickening idk how anyone could stand to be with him for even a year! I'm so glad their daughter is living her best life and ignoring her pathetic sperm donor. He only loves himself .... If she had to live with him for any longer poor girl! It was already way too long and he would have controlled everything forever and made her life miserable.

[@sharonm.t.2492]

That's what I thought, too.

[@samanthamountain9764]

Bless Josh for trying to explain tire changing to those of us who are clueless 😹

[@meganlandsperger2695]

It's gonna suck when you're on the side of the road and have to wait on some man ;) learn how it's simple!!

[@Emivibes96]

@@meganlandsperger2695 that sounds dangerous for a woman To be outside changing a tire at night alone

[@catstickler]

I'm one of those clueless people and appreciate the walkthrough. I may or may not have taken notes. 😂

[@janetmacrae1662]

I was grateful for that too lol 😂 I’m so glad it wasn’t just me!!!

[@hashtagwha222]

@@Emivibes96 safer than having some strange man approach you, alone, on the side of the road. Sometimes you have to pick your battles. Always carry a weapon!

[@wompwomp9946]

In my experience, people who “brag” about never hitting women have been the most abusive..

[@granddaddymaddy1031]

As a person born into abuse and then transferred to more abuse, yes

[@cozycasasmr4510]

Yep!! The men who brag about not hurting women somehow are usually the biggest assholes.....

[@shooglechic]

It's what is left unsaid that is done.

[@stacyq7656]

💯

[@jenee2395]

Yeah my ex told me that “he would never lay his hands on a woman” because his dad was abusive to his mom and then eventually pushed me to the point of me falling down. And I know that it would only be the beginning. I stayed after that which I regret but Im glad that I’m not with him anymore

[@theIaurenshow]

Every time I’m reminded that Kendall and Josh are expecting a baby I do a little happy dance. Very excited for you two; you will be great parents! xo

[@JaimieAnne]

If he received a text from the babysitter he had cell reception - he’s not even a good liar

[@kadeelacayo4806]

Not true. There’s been lots of times I’ve been able to text and not at all been made a call

[@Simone79126]

@@kadeelacayo4806 how about texting to get help then?

[@grandcatsmama3421]

My friend and I were supposed to have a Christmas dinner together, but her phone wasn't accepting calls, and I didn't think of texting her because I didn't know they would go through if her phone was off, and I'm not much on texting unless it's important. I just used Messanger because both my phone and my nephew's were turned off. And my texts weren't going through.

[@mandeabrown7389]

You've never tried to call/text in a rural area. It can be hit or miss now--I was meeting up with my parents in Dale Hollow and after I got close to the lake, I was able to get one text from them before every call/text I tried failed. Fortunately, I found them without too much trouble. And that was in this summer (2022).

[@KING_A.MineTv]

Exactly what I said

[@FarmhouseFelts]

Poor Toni.. just looking at those photos of her, she looked miserable. You can only imagine how horrible things were in private if that’s the vibe you can pick up from an old photo

[@MysticHannah]

I was thinking the same. Her eyes look scared and sad.

[@rosiesymington4253]

@@MysticHannah definitely. Very empty

[@anima6035]

I'm literally sat here on my own just crying my eyes out over those photos 😭

[@quinnmingo]

came here to comment this. the contrast between photos before and after her marriage is shocking. i hope she is finally at peace :(

[@carlaamanda86]

Omg I swear that’s all I could think. You could see the life fade from her eyes. The joy. The love. The security. It was all gone. I just wanted to hug her in those photos. Broke my heart. He’s a cold POS.

[@hannaalamo3859]

Paramedic here! When you’re in hypovolemic shock, there’s two stages: compensated and decompensated. In the compensated stage, your body is making up for the blood loss by peripheral vasoconstriction and raising your heart rate and respiratory rate, however once your blood pressure drops, your body is in decompensated shock and stops trying to make up for the blood loss, leading to brady cardia (slow heart rate) and agonal respiration’s, which are the slow and shallow breathing right before someone dies! Hope this helped explain the hypovolemic shock process :)

[@samione4397]

The “just leave” thing is such a cop out. Personally I could see why Toni didn’t leave because the thought of her daughter being alone with him is terrifying. She stayed to protect herself and her daughter bc abusers get violent when you leave.

[@jet2460]

But for over 20 years? Cmon now

[@AmandaLeigh1004]

Hearing about Haley living with her mother's family and changing her last name made me want to cry, because I was so happy for her and so sad for her at the same time. It takes a real monster to rob their own child of a parent. He really just did not care about anyone but himself. It's just...it's truly awful to sit and think about it. No matter how many cases you hear where it happens, it's always so shocking to realize when people just don't care. Of course, it should be shocking. People should always be horrified when it happens. God forbid we ever stop caring.

[@annakatebertolet2703]

yup! she lives within a short drive of all of us!

[@steviasativa9803]

My friend with rheumatoid arthritis can rarely open juice bottles. I could never imagine her crawling on the ground or if so she would be in a lot of pain already :(

[@PromisedJubilee]

😭

[@gemainestrachan5626]

I have rheumatoid arthritis and getting down on to my knees resting them on a pillow is painful! I very much doubt that she was under the vehicle by choice.

[@steviasativa9803]

@@gemainestrachan5626 Oh I bet :( my friend has to leave doors open or else she gets “locked in” and can’t get out on her own. I’m so sorry the pain you go through on the daily. I hope you find ways to cope 💕

[@NattieD911]

Yup I have rheumatoid arthritis and lupus and I can’t even open bottles or ziploc bags or anything really . I can’t imagine her the pain she must’ve felt .

[@gemainestrachan5626]

@@NattieD911 Oh my word! I do not want to know what kind of pain you must have to contend with! May you find some painfree moments. I use CBD, which helps a lot!

[@Alison-og4xz]

If Toni was trying to take a photo when she fell, wouldn’t the camera be found with her at the bottom?

[@AshlynM850]

Yes!!!!! 😳

[@moiramarriott4403]

You never move a person having fallen unless fire or something to endanger, rescue or their life...on a motorway .etc spinal injury etc can be treated but not after patient being moved !!!

[@TheRoshaunda]

👀‼️💯

[@michievans27]

Or what about face trauma? Wouldn’t she have fell face first??? Crazy

[@lindaziu5533]

He is not a good liar.

[@SitDownAndChill]

When I was in an abusive relationship I didn't care what he did to me, when he realised that threats of death against me were not working he then went into great detail on how and when he would kill my father if I ever left him. They always find your weak spot :/

[@rosewilliams5830]

Exactly

[@nowyouknowrealestate5703]

Yep.

[@justsaying8]

So what did u do

[@SitDownAndChill]

@@justsaying8 Nothing, I stayed with him until he allowed me to leave (2 years of abuse) He lifted his hand to scratch his head one day and I dropped to the floor in the fetal position (instinct thought a punch was coming) He was shocked and asked if I wanted to leave, I didnt answer (trick question?) he then said if I did then I should run now and not look back cos if he caught me he would kill me. I ran and hid, he caught me, beat me up and left me in the middle of a field. Looking back I was lucky, I got away, not everyone does

[@justsaying8]

@@SitDownAndChill wow thank God u r safe and got away. I hope the rest of Ur life will be filled with love and happiness 💖

[@kaitlynbarham3268]

Barry Bertolet, the brother who adopted their daughter, is a coworker of mine. Truly one of the sweetest, down to earth men.

[@MsHollyhood303]

My mom was friends with one of Toni's employees, she felt so much guilt about helping Harold get Toni out of the office for that trip as a "surprise"... but so relieved when she finally received justice.

[@ashleyrichards5194]

Nothing better than a long Mile Higher! (Except maybe a long Kendall Rae)

[@artandminisbyvilma8116]

Long Kendall Rae hands down.

[@mariahbeaty6541]

I love them all I love the lights out though I fall asleep to those 😂

[@LumiSisuSusi]

On the topic of Harrold listening to phone calls, my ex husband was similar. When we got married he was so angry that my friends didn't bring wedding gifts that were to his liking, prosecco wasn't sufficient and the gift my friend ordered specially from Etsy hadn't arrived. So, he screamed at me for hours and then demanded that I call them all to have a go at them. He wanted to listen to me. So, i went into the garden to make the calls. I turned around and he was in the upstairs back bedroom with the window open watching and listening. Fortunately, my friends instantly knew I was doing it under duress and all said "we know this isn't you and it's him making you do this. Are you ok? Is he listening?" It was awful. For months he would berate me about my friends who are all so lovely. I must mention that the only friends he had at the wedding (2 + there few month old baby) were heroin addicts, and they didn't give us a wedding gift.... Yet my lovely hard working and we'll educated friends were the bad people... Btw, we didn't even ask for wedding gifts. He just desperately wanted absolute control over me so wanted to isolate me from my friends. Fortunately, when I left him there were still there for me as they're truly marvelous friends. I'm so glad I left him, but it was scary as he was an addict and was so angry he was foaming at the mouth when I told him I was leaving.

[@jenniferbueller6761]

So brave of you to leave! I hope your life is extraordinary and that you are happy now!

[@fabiwilliams4644]

You dodged a bullet

[@tohaovershell]

Bless you I’m so glad you’re free! I’ve dated an abusive addict too.

[@LumiSisuSusi]

@@tohaovershell So glad to hear that you're free and hopefully thriving. 💕

[@KristinaMoonchild7]

I’m so glad you found your freedom🤍

[@lilydaniluna135]

I appreciate how understanding you both are about women in abusive or controlling relationships and the choices they make. You are right, it is never just a simple solution and the fact that you both take the time to put yourself in those shoes and understand the reasons why someone doesn’t “just leave” , is so amazing. Big fan of all your pages! Keep it up!

[@lkelley5708]

It’s so heartbreaking when a woman dies at the hands of her partner after SO many red flags, for years. Her friends and family saw red flags and heard red flags for years. This man is a monster. He was allowed to destroy so many lives. His abuse was not subtle. Everyone knew about it. For years. Makes me livid that nobody took action. So sad.

[@YasmineB2468]

What were they supposed to do? They voiced their concerns to her numerous times. They can’t kidnap her. They can call for welfare checks but that often backfires severely. Being the family member of an abuse victim is tricky.

[@unpopped]

Her family cared especially her brothers but they couldn’t do anything she was a grown woman

[@TheRoshaunda]

I understand exactly what you saying. Because yes she’s a grown women, but we have to stop using that as an excuse or reasoning if you ain’t did all you can do yet‼️ Definitely agree! I get both sides definitely but I’m sorry not sorry, once I feel control or any type of abuse I’m that friend, sister, daughter, cousin that will speak on the elephant in the room. I rather live with stepping out of line, then losing someone and knowing I didn’t speak up for a VISIBLE victim🤨‼️

[@AsiaRi-]

@@TheRoshaunda I respect your opinion but none of that matters when the person won’t leave, more times than not they will cut you off before the abuser. You seen to not have experienced this yet. Don’t be so judge mental.

[@thesebone5]

I think he ambushed her with a birthday trip so that she couldn’t say no. The videotape as well… forced her “not to make a scene” horrible.

[@Darbae7]

I was in an abusive relationship for almost a year and let me tell you it’s so hard to “walk away”. He made me think that what he was doing was love and it was for my good. He made sure I didn’t have an identity anymore. He told me I would fail without him and that he needed me. I didn’t even think about breaking up with him. I just thought “I guess this is my life now”. It wasn’t until he broke up with me and then stalked me for a year after that I really did realize that he was a monster. Everyone saw it but me.

[@nbee777]

Many who haven't experienced can't imagine why people stay. My abusive ex flipped a heavy solid wood nightstand which stopped inches away from landing on my small dog. That's what it took for me to leave. She saved my life in that way & many others. He convinced me nobody else would ever love me. Holes in the walls, manipulated me with being "suicidal" when I tried to kick him out of my house, physical assault, isolated me from friends...but my dog was my baby and the last straw. I'm glad to be gone, and I'm glad you are too.

[@Ipleadthefifth]

7 years here

[@nbee777]

@@Ipleadthefifth i hope you're safe now ❤

[@Ipleadthefifth]

@@nbee777 o yes definitely thanks for asking

[@itswickedsweet4409]

Glad you got out 💜

[@sueoliver3165]

Great story guys! Love the idea of him having NO control of Anything in his life! Not when he eats or what he eats, no leisurely showers, ect. , the thought makes me smile!!! what a CREEP!!! So happy for both families& espeacially the child!! Ty for ur hard work!!!

[@b.5795]

I didn’t think of this but this makes me feel amused

[@shaunnicolewheeler872]

also anyone who’s changed a tire knows you don’t have to jack it up more than a few inches?? you’re not getting under the body or anything literally just lifting the car high enough so you can pull the old tire off and place the new one on.

[@rachelmarie9612]

Clients just walked in, time to tattoo and get some more people hooked on you two! Hope your Wednesday is absolutely phenomenal yall!

[@nataliekenny7490]

Amazing. I'd fucking love to watch h fhis while getting tattooed 👌🙏

[@ashleyharris5409]

You got a business iinsta? I love looking at tattoo art and styles!

[@MusicLeeSarah]

same! Except I don't do Instagram. I'm old LOL you have a business page on Facebook?

[@rachelmarie9612]

@@MusicLeeSarah I don’t have a Facebook, I try to avoid that place! Haha

[@smartiepants42]

@@rachelmarie9612 Wow. Badass tattoo artist, Mile Higher fan AND stays away from FB?? Um sign me tf up queen!

[@charleythemush]

The fact he's such a crap liar but the police still didn't investigate really says a lot about how seriously the police take the experiences of domestic abuse victims. Heartbroken for Hayley. How someone can kill the mother of a child they claim to love is beyond me.

[@trashchannel2456]

Police in these True Crime stories are so a**. It makes me wanna become a police officer or detective just so I can do a better job and actually HELP THESE PEOPLE

[@charleythemush]

@@trashchannel2456 I suggest being a lawyer or a politician instead. The police should really be abolished

[@mike04574]

@@charleythemushhell no

[@justtriss2893]

I actually really love when you guys do the super long ones and really getting deep into them I listen to them a lot at work n it passes the time

[@heatherborle7377]

I grew up on a farm and we had a party phone. It’s where one line for 4-5 neighbours and you can listen to neighbours conversations but you also had to wait for them to get off phone or make a call. Each neighbour has their own ring. My grandma listened all day to peoples conversations 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@Hala-vd2yl]

Omg haha 😂

[@jessicavangenderen6540]

This would be my grandmother's actual dream 😂😂 she's a raging gossip.

[@Samwisegam]

I'd listen too lol the tea

[@nowyouknowrealestate5703]

Yes! My grandmother too!

[@andrianussey5515]

😂

[@s.j.867]

What. A. Creep. I have no words. He treated Lynn and Toni horribly. That is NOT how a husband should be. You should feel safe with your partner. 🥺 My heart breaks for them and their families. I cannot stand when folks think the world revolve around them and are just soooo selfish.

[@elizabethw7024]

I'm so happy Haley now has a happy life with her true family. The part about her getting made fun of in school after her mother died, Jesus that absolutely broke my heart

[@Ipleadthefifth]

❤❤❤💯

[@Grammichal]

Breaks Jesus’ heart, too, dear.

[@jade-wr9pn]

Josh: "now he'll spend the second half of his life controlling nothing in prison" Kendall: "that is so satisfying" 😂😂😂

[@cynthiacolumbus1094]

Yesss

[@ChastenLoveland]

My mom is 92 and she still gets around really well for her age but she was in a car accident thee years ago where a disk in her neck got smashed and the nerve damage in her neck has really affected her hand where she can hold things and she was too old for surgery. My daughter bought some of your CBD product for her for her pain and mobility and she started crying, we all got worried that she was still and pain but she was srying because she could finally stand up right and she did a little dance and moved her hands we were all a but a sobs watching how happy she was so thank you so much for what you do.

[@Rebecca19x]

Toni looks so sad in all the pictures of her. Ugh. My heart breaks for these women and their families.

[@kristy4619]

I did CPR on my mother for 30 min til EMS arrived and omgoodness I've never been so relieved to have someone else more qualified to take over even if tho it didn't work. Been 10 years ago today 3/3

[@2300VirgoAvenue]

the fact that she didn’t die immediately from the fall is truly horrifying given the impact her body went through when she fell, and then literally just watched her pass. truly horrific.

[@katherinerinck3722]

Man, when you explained how he was already setting up his ex sister-in-law as his next potential victim....that was so chilling. It's all awful, but I think that really highlights how calculated and evil this guy is.

[@Amberlp1]

What a freaking controlling narcissist! He has left a child without a mother, a family without a daughter, sister, aunt, niece etc. May she rest in peace. Please if anyone is in a controlling relationship please get out! Reach out to anyone and get away, it may he hard but doable!

[@sidology1.0]

These insurance companies should have a new policy for if someone raises the stakes in a drastic manner, they need a witness from outside the party or maybe even a subtle update to the cops or something. At this point it's getting ridiculous the amount of true crime cases where some *mysteriously dies* after a sudden policy increase!

[@bj.reo87]

I think you need to be there and sign it with a notified stamp. They also need to me in contact with each other

[@stefani.m.1987]

This case(s) seems to not be covered much and I’m super stoked you guys are covering it! It’s insanity!!!

[@skatergirl8019]

I think he was waiting for Toni to die before calling 911, but when he got the text from the babysitter he realized he couldn’t use the no cell service excuse and just called 911. I’m so glad he’s behind bars. Him being locked up is saving so many lives!

[@happyvanni2127]

Kendall, you are glowing. Thank you for working so hard through our your pregnancy to give us this content, same goes to you josh. You’re going to be amazing parents❤️

[@ameiless]

I feel so bad for toni. It’s obvious that her parents loved her so much and would’ve done anything to help her. She didn’t deserve any of this

[@squid3946]

I watched the Hulu docuseries about this case when it was airing and realized that I was a patient at the clinic Toni worked at while she was still alive. I was too young to remember if I met her but I probably did. I'm so glad the park rangers and federal agents worked so hard on this case and got some justice for Harold's wives.

[@NanetteStein]

One more really rotten thing about it is that, all those insurance policies he took out, she was paying for with her money…

[@varenyachikkerur3504]

Just when I was looking for something to watch before falling asleep, this pops up! Yay! This might sound weird but you two talking about murders is so soothing to fall asleep to. Y'all should totally do voiceovers for meditation apps. Also, CONGRATULATIONS on getting pregnant! Sending lots of love and light form Bangalore, India.

[@kandiigoon680]

If your looking for something far more relaxing and peaceful to sleep to, I recommend you try out planet sleep by our homie papa josh.

[@ashleygray4034]

@@kandiigoon680 yessss!! I LOVE planet sleep ❤️ So bummed he isn’t making any more of them. Although I totally understand his schedule is too packed for it, still sucks 😖

[@michelewallace3628]

Lol me to ! I thought I was crazy for this

[@lesliepresby9168]

Holy crap that 911 call was creepy af. He’s telling them how to do the rescue when he isn’t certified as a medic.

[@veronicatiffany777]

Enthralled is a word and it was the perfect one to describe it Kendall!

[@chit-chat007]

FOR EVERYONE WHO IS IN A WEIRD OR UNEASY RELATIONSHIP… NEVER EVER GO AWAY WITH YOUR PARTNER ESPECIALLY NEVER EVER GO HIKING!!!! THIS HAPPENS MORE OFTEN THAN YOU THINK! PLEASE PLEASE DO NOT AND ALWAYS GO WITH YOUR INSTINCT!

[@mollynava4322]

Just went through the McDonald’s drive through and my baby is sleeping in the back time to relax and listen to this for a couple mins.

[@mazdabazda2267]

The best 👌

[@PP-tp1kl]

Love this for you

[@toriandersen6840]

This is amazing

[@rachaela2889]

I just find the whole car situation so odd. They said she didn't have any dirt under her nails so was she unconscious before he kicked the car? How did she get under there? Not only would it be incredibly painful for her to crawl under there which she probably wouldn't have done but I'd assume she'd move very slowly because of the pain. It's not a lot of time to walk around to the trunk so she probably wouldn't have moved fast enough to be completely under the car by the time he "threw the tire in the trunk." I hope they do more investigating to bring Lynn justice.

[@SKI532]

I think he whacked he first, put her under the car then kicked it.

[@biancavautier1495]

You guys seriously explain the case so well, I love how you bounce off one another and just the overall vibe. Love from Australia!

[@quills6978]

i began to cry when i heard about what happened to hailey. that man is the worse for what he put her through for her entire life and im glad that man is in jail. i hope he rots in hell for what he did to his wives and his daughter.

[@traceyg2703]

The work of the NPS investigators in this case was beyond impressive and gives me so much more faith in justice than I tend to feel when hearing about so many of the True Crime cases out there.

[@Trini-T14]

He is so controlling he even tried to control the 911 call.

[@LexiKey]

Really liked how you guys just went straight into the story and not a long intro! 💖

[@miaelizabeth8122]

So you’re telling me that her fall was so bad that a $30,000 diamond out of a ring came out? But he’s not going to mention how bad the fall was on the phone?

[@graceseifert9157]

He might’ve removed it somehow so he had the money lowkey that’s what I thought 👀

[@Ipleadthefifth]

@@graceseifert9157 o for sure

[@MillennialMagic]

@@graceseifert9157 thissss

[@willwetherington]

He knew he was lying about the distance of the fall and the severity of her injuries. Also, he sold diamonds and now she's missing a $30,000 diamond from her wedding band...

[@keriking1000]

Watching from South Africa 🇿🇦 Love how you two collaborate together ❤️ Congratulations again on the pregnancy! 🎊👏❤

[@PromisedJubilee]

Omg, Kendall, when you were telling about Haley, I bawled. Good for you, being able to get through that without losing it, even as a pregnant lady.

[@laurenadebanjo5902]

I immediately started sobbing when I saw the most recent picture of Haley and that she is thriving. Such a strong person❤

[@andreacollins3204]

Honestly I’m being spoiled with all the content from my fav KZbin true crime channels. Nearly bedtime here in Ireland ❤️🇮🇪🥃

[@mizzLopez]

When someone NEEDS to have control over you it is NEVER good. Run, don't walk, away from them.

[@taylorkiley2212]

I love how Toni's daughter honors her mother ❤️

[@annapomelo3818]

This reminds me of Malcolm John Webster (born 18 April 1959). He had also 2 wives and never made a cent in his life. He staged car accidents to kill the women in his life. It took a long time to catch him because he moved from Scotland to Australia and the police haven't been suspicious for a long time.

[@annapnut]

This story is just heart wrenching): bless Toni and her daughter. Toni was a beautiful woman. 🌹

[@jill9405]

I'm glad he's in prison, I hate that two families/ friends had to lose someone for him to be caught.

[@annakatebertolet2703]

and all of Toni's patients who loved her immensely!

[@MS-42]

One of the weirdest things, to me, about the story he told about Toni is that he said "when I looked there was a blur and Toni was gone," which to me implies that it was just when he happened to look back and not that something drew his attention back toward her, but generally speaking, it seems to me that most people falling off of a cliff would scream or make some amount of noise.

[@MS-42]

@@elizabethf4167 Oh, yeah, I didn't think of that. i thought the blur was her going over the cliff.

[@carrieinez706]

The thing that scares me the most is the thought of Hailey living with him if he had gotten away with it. I wonder if he would have hurt her too for a life insurance pay out.

[@joanodom2104]

He'd take out several life insurance policies and...accident!!

[@joycefronczak526]

I had the same idea.

[@DianaMayeDesigns]

When I called 911 on the night my dad died, I was calm. It wasn't until much later that I panicked and broke down. I think we were in shock and unsure what was happening. This happened on Feb 12, 2022...But this guy didn't do CPR or anything so that's weird and his calling out her vitals was creepy.

[@missashleyy3246]

I think it’s awesome ya’ll have a cbd company called mile higher as well as the name of the show, and have 420k subscribers 😂💨 Thanks for the episode today and always love all of your shows!

[@shanealafriel7146]

Hahahaha I never even noticed the 420 🤣🤣🤣

[@kirby9991]

Hahaha weed

[@flxwercxrpse1871]

Higher love wellness actually but yeah similar

[@llJeshooinessll]

its called higher love wellness

[@lenacastaneda4896]

So happy to see that beautiful little girl smiling with her Mom's family and away from that horrible person.

[@Brookerulezz]

I was a travel tech & got a contract in Modesto California where the Scott Peterson house is. As soon as I realized it was a mile away I totally went and took pictures. They had a sort of mural to lacy at the entrance to their neighborhood it was SO surreal.

[@PurpleReign1401]

I lived there when that whole thing went down. So sad. They moved his trial to the Bay Area and it just so happened where they held the trial my brother was working in that city at the time of the trial. He said traffic was horrible because of the trial, worse than normal for the Bay Area.

[@jordantomkins9362]

OK BOTH JOSH AND KENDALL BE GLOWING IN PRE PARENTHOOD, ugh those smiles :') sincerely...congrats you two

[@rachelg1122]

i think it’s interesting how he needed to go find cell service yet he had just received a text message?

[@allornothing1537]

What an absolute monster. My heart goes out to the families of these beautiful ladies.

[@saramorales6294]

This was eye opening for me. I go through the same things. Finances, phone records, everything……. It’s not that easy to leave.

[@wompwomp9946]

It’s not easy to leave…it’s scary, sad, and can be extremely dangerous. Maybe you’ve been isolated so you feel helpless…maybe your self-worth has been chipped away…but, please, you owe it to yourself to live your best, happiest life. You deserve peace, even if you’ve been made to feel you somehow don’t. I wish you the best. Sincerely, an internet stranger who was once in a similar situation…

[@rosewilliams5830]

Me too. Hope you’d find the strength to leave when you can. You deserve a better life

[@hartleyb8356]

Yay! I needed a break from my hectic day and I can’t think of anything better to do than watch a new Mile Higher episode! Time to kickback and chillax!

[@SAVEMETHESUN]

I heard this story elsewhere, but I never even knew the back story of Harold’s first wife! You guys really do your thing on Mile Higher!

[@meetrasurik8433]

Congrats being at 420k 👀 subs. I’m happy you guys are covering this case as well. This is the first time I’ve heard of this guy and he did all the classic actions of a narcissistic abuser. Absolutely terrifying.

[@peggystoutemorin4529]

That syrupy smile of his and his dead eyes! You guys did an amazing job with this one. This BS religious obedience to husband has to stop. An educated, accomplished woman should never tolerate this!

[@madilynn9989]

Why am I just now finding out ur expecting!!!! My heart is so happy for you guys!! This kid is gonna be surrounded by so much love!! Congratulations guys 😢🥺🤍

[@Jewels4wcd]

Great podcast as always. Love seeing the glow and happiness that radiates from both of you since the news of your baby girl blessing 💕

[@aimeeelizabeth3927]

Is anyone else anticipating the 200th episode !!!!! I’ve been here for every single one ! So excited to see how far you have came and even more excited to see how far you guys will go !!

[@rocio4evr8]

I’m so glad yall covered this. I first heard about this case on Generation Why and I always hoped more people would cover it too. Such a sad, sad case for those women. 😞

[@Mercado99]

I love that they chose such a classy statement "goodbye Harold" when he was being taken away

[@juliejo6571]

Not related to the video but I just got my CBD order from Higher love wellness. I’ve been a fan for years now, on all of your channels! I’m not sure why I didn’t try your products sooner but I’m so glad I did! I’ve been struggling with my anxiety hand depression the last several months more than usual. I always do in the winter but never this bad… I took two gummies the night I got them and now one in the morning and one in the evening. I haven’t been this productive and calm in months. I cried happy tears today because I was able to get out of bed and function. Not only that, I got every errand done that I needed to today. I’ve never been able to do that even with my anxiety and depression meds. If you haven’t tried their products you need to! I will forever be regular customer. I’ve tried different brands but nothing has compared to Higher love wellness oils and gummies Thank you guys for getting me out of my rut! ❤️ also congrats on the little one I’ve been hoping you guys would have a little one for years now and I’m so overjoyed you guys are finally gonna be parents.

[@CoreyHart13]

Been loving the rotation of true crime to the more fantastical phenomenon potluck or whatever the hell Kendall used to call those ponder sessions episodes 😂 y'all bring such a beautiful spirit and energy to my week. Content aside I just find your spirit and achievements super inspiring. I've been at a very low point to varying degrees the last 3years and you guys are always a light in my tunnel. Sending the best if luck and energy from a Friday the 13th full moon born Taurus ♉️ 😂🤘💯✌️🌿❤

[@PromisedJubilee]

Same!

[@taylorfromhold]

I never miss an episode/pod. I just found this one today. I’m so surprised I never seen this one. Y’all did a great job, just sad I’m late to this episode.

[@jocelynnajera3663]

I’m glad both women got justice. Many other people don’t get any justice. It gives me hope to hear ppl cared enough to fight for these women

[@bethannomiyosiw]

When you talked about Harold getting caught stealing undies, I happened to say “hell yeah,” in unison with you! You killed me at “why can’t it be called man panties” 😂 my bf was shocked and laughed

[@katrinahendrickson8527]

Very informative story. Very sad for their loss. Very happy the family got the answers they needed and wanted. I hope answers come for Lynn's family also.

[@morganemilyg]

I haven’t heard a case in awhile where all i could say the entire time was omg what an absolute monster. And it just kept getting worse. Im so glad Haley is free from him and some justice has been served.

[@katpig1]

Hayley looks so happy in the last few photos, what a relief she could have a loving family 💛💛💛

[@mishaela6581]

Got so choked up hearing about Hailey’s new found freedom and life after the sentencing - I’m so happy to hear that monster is out of her life, and that he was unsuccessful in brainwashing her to believe a false narrative!

[@kimdelorme6314]

Kudos to you both, for highlighting this tragic story. So happy for Hayley. You two are amazing, at what you do!❤❤❤❤❤

[@jessicarossman3858]

My heart goes out to that little girl. I’m so happy she got out of that toxic relationship with her father and is safe and happy!

[@skyrimsiceprincess9664]

Can I just say how glowy Kendall is?? Pregnancy is so beautiful on her 😁 absolutely love her n Josh! Love the Mile Higher Crew! 💖