Harsh Realities of Toxic Femininity | EPIC Masjid | Ustadha Fatima Barkatulla

[@salihas7702]

I wish she talked more about how women treat each other. There is so much toxicity among women - jealousy, backstabbing/backbiting, slander, etc. Some of the worst things done to women are carried out by other women

[@wuw385]

Subhaana Allah, EXACTLY why I tuned in. So so so true what you've said. We've all come across such women and I even wonder if it's not our BIGGEST problem. Well, if she didn't discuss this then I may as well go back to my listening to Surat Al Baqarah. I was hoping for some concrete solutions in dealing with the subjects you mentioned. Jazakee Allahu khairan dear sister ❤️❤️❤️

[@salihas7702]

@@wuw385 Wa iyiaki dear sister, jazak Allah khayir to you as well for your comment. I was also hoping for some practical solutions, especially when it happens in Muslim communities. I think that’s a greater threat to our youngsters than feminist ideology. It pushes them away from the community which sadly makes them more susceptible to contemporary feminism and the like

[@wuw385]

@@salihas7702 yes, the irony... Sounds like they neglected to hit the nail on the head.

[@earthly4444]

There is no instant solution for this, as I understand it. But I have noticed impressive amazing transformation among women who end up in circles of knowledge..It takes time . ​@@wuw385

[@salihas7702]

@@GuessWho-i5o I don’t think you understand where I’m coming from. We don’t have the basics down as Muslims and frankly I’m fed up with idealistic descriptions of how we’re supposed to be. The truth is a lot of people don’t adhere to those standards. If I knew Islam only from Muslims I would have never stayed a Muslim. Alhamdulillah it’s the Quran and Sunnah that kept me here

[@syayayayaya]

Strong faithed Muslim women help build strong societies

[@IbnKahwaji]

May Allah bless the sheikha and reward her for saying it like it is

[@dr.junaid_arif]

Jazakallah sister Fatima .. Allah may bless you here and hereafter

[@deedeee6271]

Done with the talk. As an American Muslim women, I've heard talks like this before. I'm not sure how it relates to me as a practicing Muslim woman. Most of the grievances Muslim women have are legitimate imo. They are oppressed and suppressed in our community, although improvements are occurring, albeit slowly, at least within our physical institutions. I agree that resorting to feminism is not correct, but we have issues even when we try to exercise our rights in an Islamic context. The problem is that cultural preoccupation seems overcast Islamic considerations, therefore creating the denial of rights. Thus I feel like the toxic femininity argument is a distraction from the real issue of women reacting/challenging and attempting to change to the denial of rights, usually by men.

[@abdulbarikhan2049]

The talk is still beneficial regardless for women, take whats good from the talk InshāʾAllāh.

[@deedeee6271]

@@abdulbarikhan2049 No doubt there is true info. that is helpful to know, but there were no action steps given on how women are supposed to act on the info. A distinction needs to be drawn between the realities of Muslim women and the realities of non-Muslim women in the West. Our concerns and issues are different. We also need to ask ourselves if this is really a priority for Muslim women right now. I personally don't think so. I can think of 5 or 6 issues off the top of my head that Muslim women care about and need to be addressed, not only for themselves but for the sake of their families.

[@tanveer5655]

I believe it was much needed. Just go over the internet, and you'll find muslim women falling for feminism, ultimitaely destroying theor families and eventually themselves in that process. I agree muslim women hv issues, but men too hv issues. It's dishonest & ignorant of you to label this lecture as a "distraction".

[@naseemkad]

No other people are randomly dragged off the streets shackled like this by an army except the Israeli army under Nathanyahu and gang. This needs to be stopped

[@themysteriousdunno1]

wallah, that true but the world leaders are the slaves of them

[@Saa42808]

It is apparent in Quran that don’t be like Jews we need to change our ways in order to remove this fitna.

[@ThomasEdison-dd8ms]

@nassemkad in Pakistan people disappear all the time because of this too. Keep complaining but things are same way in Pakistan. Go to Baluchistan, Gilgit baltistan same problems there. You just keep hating Jews that’s all can’t think of anything else.

[@naeem6722]

Good lecture. Jzk

[@faisalchoudhry196]

I agree with the legitimate arguments that Muslim girls make. For example, why are Muslim teenage boys allowed to stay out as long as they want with no accountability of where they’ve been. The parents would never let their Muslim daughters do that. The boys would never let their sisters leave the house yet they are out all evening up to no good.

[@pearleunjoo5439]

I believe boys shouldn’t stay out after night as well

[@s.bk.655]

Jazakallah khair sister❤

[@maimounadiew3976]

Who is benefiting from the system? Good question! MACHALLAH beautiful lecture

[@HiEveryBhatti]

Amazing and just video

[@Antara-x6z]

So we women should cater everything so men can be like men. I agree a lot of it. But men who don't work will never work whether women earn or not. I have seen it in rural villages in our country. Men gamble and lost all that he earn and women with children left with nothing. So women for survival they have to work whether they like it or not. I am not criticising the scholar. But we immigrant muslims who live in western world , live in those country because of their better economy and they didn't achieve it without women not working or contributing. Islam never prohibited women working. Just ask your grand mother about her era, how women were treated back then. Live in a third world misogynist country then you will understand what is a woman's worth. I agree what feminism preach is not all perfect but toxic feminism is the result of toxic masculinity.

[@themysteriousdunno1]

the musim world was far advanced than the secular christo west, but due to the latter ones colonising us they became wealthy

[@deedeee6271]

Agreed, not sure exactly what is the ask of Muslim women? Still watching the video and there were a lot of stats about abortion, single parent hood, among other topics given about non-Muslims, but as Muslims, we are not engaging in those activities (en masse, at least), so how exactly is it a problem, or an epidemic of toxic femininity in the Muslim community? Also how are the choices of men my fault as a woman? Where is the "toxicity" I as a Muslim women am engaging in? I think this talk would have been better titled, "The Pitfalls of Western Society", not toxic femininity.

[@Main-event_Muhammad024]

Jazak'Allah khair, Ustadha among other organizers! I wish a million young sisters bought your ideas and gems! Thanks, a ton!

[@MrAbugaarith]

I'd like to know the resource where Makkah was mapped out, which she refers to in her talk.

[@mohamedaydarus7418]

A must watch

[@RayOfHope8]

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[@asyed1995]

Halal Legal credit unions can helpful .

[@mohamedaydarus7418]

Can I use this video?

[@mdlu1094]

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[@DM-wk7yr]

My biggest fear is an angry hijabi shouting at me.

[@kameliabrown3984]

Aisha radia Allah anha not responsible for quarter of shariah sister maybe quarter of the Hadith

[@deedeee6271]

There is actually an officla definition of toxic femininity: "Toxic femininity can describe any instance when women are either explicitly told to conform to traditional stereotypes or attempt to align with those stereotypes themselves, according to licensed therapist Meaghan Rice, PsyD, LPC.

[@K-balance28]

2400 years ago Socrates Plato Era : Ancient Greek Democratic white women were the lower caste. they were above nonwhite Persian children women men Ancient Persia. White women in Ancient Greece were chased by men with higher castes status if the women showed then they were labelled as prostitutes or bad names for their families etc. in public. Paedophilia was existent as it was democratic value to dehumanise children in public. Pedagoges were bodyguards of children to protect from harassment sexual abuse in public. Dark Ages Medieval Feudalism white Christianity Crusades Renaissance imperialism industrialization WW1 WW2 Cold War Afghan War 1 & 2, Iraq War 1&2, Vietnam War, Korea War, Somalia War, War against Terror, 9-11 in 2001, cartoons of Prophet Muhammad SAWS PBUH, Quran burnings, westernization, Anglo Saxonization and Re-Anglo Saxonization. Same pattern existent 2400 years later. Nothing has changed. Nothing new. No surprise.