hating isn’t a personality…

[@evanyla]

my bf wanted me to leave the room while he was playing Zelda cause he felt uncomfortable with me just sitting there and nitpicking at the game, criticising every little detail. I didn't think much of it until he explained to me that it would ruin his experience with my unnecessary hating. This was my point where I realised "hey I am going out of my way to nitpick on shit that I don't care about, when I could just shut my mouth and not get someone else upset who does care" - now I try to see the better in things and point out (even if less) the points that I do like whenever I'm there. Maybe I was sad I did not have a game I could play by myself, or maybe my neurodivergency

[@doothi]

this! like i said, hating is just a satisfying habit to fall into… but taking a moment of self-awareness and realizing that the stuff we feel the need to verbalize oftentimes isn’t even worth addressing is major. i feel like unpacking my hater tendencies (while still accepting hate as a valid emotion) has made me enjoy things so much more and made me a less annoying person to be around? 😭

[@marnenotmarnie259]

woooo character development!!! it's cool you were able to talk about that and realize that you were accidentally hurting someone

[@heyfella5217]

Hey I used to be this be this way too. I used to complain about everything, and its because I have anxiety and I tend to let those negative thoughts rule my mind. Not an excuse, just a reason. Ever since I've focused on loving, my anxiety has decreased and my enjoyment has increased. My room is now full of things I've loved since I was a kid. I'm full on "cringe" and it feels awesome! And I love others showing their unique cringey sides!

[@michaeledwards6683]

i feel this is oftentimes a way to mask insecurity over not knowing enough about a certain thing to judge it by its own merits and wanting to maintain the image of being smart. i’ve noticed this behavior most in people who have no suspension of disbelief when watching a movie (including myself back in the day). it’s the most annoying thing in the world to be watching a movie with someone who is going “that’s not how that works in real life, this movie is so stupid” every five seconds, but i recognize that it’s just insecurity and ignorance speaking

[@DavidJones-ot8qu]

Have a feeling it wasn’t just “neurodivergency” if you noticed and just didn’t do it anymore. If it were, surely that would be an impulsive act not so easily stopped

[@mxrdersimulator]

once somebody commented that they didn't like my tiktok. i replied that they didn't have to watch it, then, and that i made it because *i* liked it. they then replied insulting my physical appearance - which was wild bc my face wasn't in the video at all, and the last time it HAD been in a video was a year prior, so they'd physically scrolled back to the bottom of my profile just to find something to make fun of me about... and for what lmao? all that effort when they could've just scrolled to a video they actually enjoyed. some things are worth your time and energy fighting against, but Other People Having Fun is not one of them lol.

[@sand_eater101]

THIS. It says SO MUCH about a person when they're like "I don't like what you do" and you ask them to leave or to just stop interacting if they don't want to see your content, and they suddenly go on a completely unrelated tangent. This is like one of my worst fears because I really struggle with criticism, but I also feel like it's one of the easier situations to deal with because when this happens, it's immediately clear that it's not your fault, it's theirs. Sorry this happened to you, hope you're having a good day :3❤️

[@PaperLoser-gv4wb]

If people put as much effort as they do in hating they’d get so much more done. Hope you don’t have to deal with more rude people like that

[@DavidJones-ot8qu]

Your comment to them was super justified, but everything anyone posts online ever is for other people. Otherwise, why post it so anyone else can see it? It’s the same with fashion, etc.; presentation is so very obviously for others

[@suoutubez19]

@@DavidJones-ot8quNot every single thing that you see on the internet will be catered to you and your specific interests. I think that’s moreso what OP is getting at.

[@DavidJones-ot8qu]

@@suoutubez19 I’m more so referencing the part where they said they just made the video because they liked the video, which is almost certainly not the reason they made the video

[@FelixWheatfield]

People always pull the card when they're being a hater, "it's just my opinion, it doesn't matter and it shouldn't stop you from having fun" Welllll it's a bit hard to have fun when people are breathing down your neck telling you that you should feel shame for liking something earnestly. And haters are not happier, as they might want you to think.

[@Apollo_Justice-is_fine]

It’s literally “you’re a HORRIBLE person if you like this” “don’t let me ruin your fun tho ☺️💕”

[@catsareexcellent]

At some point you need to work on that sensitivity though

[@cherryjasper1728]

@@catsareexcellent it's not really being "sensitive" if you're upset that someone, or even multiple people, without fail always mock you and make claims about your moral or social standing for just liking something that's not harmful. Not to mention that, yknow, we should probably be more upset at the people doing the bullying and not the bullied for feeling hurt.

[@catsareexcellent]

@ You have to have reasonably thick skin to live in the real world. It’s just how it is.

[@0verpricedcoffee553]

​@@catsareexcellent is it really a sensitivity problem if people are constantly shitting on your for something tht brings you joy and it just pisses you off at a certain point?

[@Cowgutz]

Ok but video suggestion, can you do a vid on the stupidity of “NPC” videos and how narcissistic the culture is of believing that random people don’t have sentience. I may try to make a vid on it one day but rn I cant

[@inihilisme1511]

Mixed with Main character syndrome would make it more interesting.

[@doothi]

omg i’ve been wanting to talk about hyper individuation for a while now that would be such a good video ✍🏽😭

[@lulianjuliuswassbach]

Exactly I've always hated those videos about "do dumb shit the people on the street will forget about it in ten minutes" NO THEY WON'T they will get home and be like "guess what happened today" to their family

[@thatphatk4t14]

@@lulianjuliuswassbachwell then they have a story tell and a memory that might make them laugh. Its better then no spontaneous experiences.. if the actions of a person arents harmful to anyone then who cares? I get people hating on ppl screaming in stores and stuff but otherwise idk

[@The_yippee_queen]

Were all NPCs ....

[@Heliosthus]

I've heard people saying 'hating is just as free as being kind' but i find it very exhausting. being so hateful and spiteful and something leaves me mentally tired and angry all the time, it leaves little room for joy to come in. I personally dislike people who brag about being haters, its not a thing to flaunt. Why is being a bad person to people such a flex for them? Hating doesn't make you quirky, and it really puts more of a strain on you mentally then just being neutral or kind, its much more refreshing to just ignore those you don't like rather then going out of your way to use time and energy to be hateful to them.

[@doothi]

ahh yes i do agree with you in that hating can be exhausting to engage in, receive, and witness. at the end of the video i didn’t want to assume a moralist standpoint and outright tell people to fully unlearn hate because i recognize that it’s kind of a privileged viewpoint to have a more sunny and compassionate worldview. that being said, i did try making a huge nod toward unlearning unnecessary/excessive hatefulness while still being empathetic toward haters because, like i said, hating can be both addicting and a coping mechanism. but i fully agree that, if capable of doing so, being neutral or kind is much less exhausting and more liberated way of living 😭💕

[@FelixWheatfield]

I believe everyone has a touch of sadism in them, which is why we like to hate, but I'm convinced that people who derive pleasure from being a hater haven't done the proper "shadow work" as they say to face that inner sadism and realize just because their opinion is valid doesn't mean it should stop other people from being themselves.

[@whatteamwildcats4033]

"Hating is just as free as being kind" They're forgetting about the 'reputation' tax. If you're a negative hateful person - then you're always gonna be known as one, and they won't take you seriously.

[@CosmicGardener]

Its essentially holding a grudge

[@donyori]

I'm in the Sonic fandom, which was one of the most hated fandom of all time. Realizing how many people thought my enjoyment was cringe, I'm a lot more accepting to other people's interests.

[@quit3118]

As a Sonic fan who wants to do that type of content for the fandom and the community I agree

[@doothi]

thiss! being part of a socially “unacceptable” fandom or subculture really forces you to breed empathy for others with “cringe” interests. as a former weaboo/theatre kid/kpop stan/potterhead i stand with the sonic fandom frfr💕

[@doothi]

also do you guys think blaze the cat is indian

[@donyori]

@@doothi I don't do race canons... BUTー Blaze is most definitely asian and Knuckles is african.

[@YeetProductions]

I was once part of a fandom which was/is considered “cringe” or whatever because it was my hyperfixation, and all of the hate that I saw was so extreme that it brought back memories of being misunderstood as a child for being neurodivergent, and I don’t know how, but it resulted in complex trauma from it and being unable to have hyperfixations anymore. I’m only just getting over it now. These people’s “opinions” and how they acted on them destroyed my source of dopamine for years. They did, in fact, stop me from enjoying things. Hating can have actual consequences.

[@PaperLoser-gv4wb]

I hope you can overcome your trauma and find something to enjoy again! As something who hasn’t had a hyper fixation in almost three years, I do hope you can find a better community and fandom :)

[@turntechFreakhead]

this is actually so real. i haven't had hyperfixations for so long because i was shamed and isolated for just liking things...

[@Mx.muffin]

I feel like people confuse "Spreading hate and ruining the fun" with "allowing yourself to dislike some things". Because, like, you can dislike things, but there's a point where constantly hating on something becomes quite annoying

[@scootaloosweetieaj5461]

i feel like hate has a time and place, and is in a sense, still necessary. if we block out those mad frustrated thoughts and try to always see everything in a positive light, then its just gonna make those feelings worse. we're bound to get upset about stupid things and be rude at times, but being able to reflect and see if they have any merit, to see if it falls more under critique, will help personal happiness so much . if it turns out to you just being an asshole, learning how to process why you want to hate on it so hard and how to see how it can be loved is SO IMPORTANT. i hope people who flaunt their hate will one day learn how to do this.

[@doothi]

viewing hate as a simple emotion necessary for the human experience rather than a flex or lifestyle is something i hope becomes more normalized 😭

[@scootaloosweetieaj5461]

@@doothi literally!! a lot of the time, it's just a defense mechanism, as you said in the video, because something scares us, leading us to feel threatened and try to make whatever freaked us out feel small and laughable. it's nice to see someone's opinion on stuff like this who is actively trying to understand their own hate, it's really refreshing and important to hear that it's alright to talk about how that growth goes, even down to the times where we regress a bit and mess up. i'm going through that right now, and im SO tired of being told that i just have to let go of all my grudges and frustrations just because society sees those qualities as strictly negative. wonderful video, doothi!!

[@alexhilliard151]

This!!! I was looking for a comment like this, because I feel some people I have encountered have taken this to the absolute opposite end of the spectrum where they just refuse to express anything even remotely negative, and then if you have a valid criticism about something that’s not coming from a place of hate, they treat you as if you are just being mean and hateful

[@DavidJones-ot8qu]

@@doothiIt’s not really a simple emotion, though. It seems, to me, like hate is a complex reaction to underlying emotions, not an emotion itself. It’s typically a reaction to anxiety, in my opinion

[@OzCroc]

I guess you should hate on things worth hating on, like problematic things. But people enjoying fandoms in a healthy manner is not something you should hate on. That's my opinion anyway.

[@Jaynolastnameee]

I remember i told some people online that bully someone for their own fashion is cringe. And they went on to make fun of my disability that only someone would know if they dug through my account, Which was even more cringe.

[@mz9500]

Your self awareness is something more influencers should have fr

[@AoiUsagiOtoko]

i'm gonna be honest i...never saw why being A Hater™️ was such a coveted position lately lmao. like, it just does not sound fun at all emotional catharsis and being mad at something can be beneficial sometimes but making it into an entire identity just sounds wholly unhealthy, sounds pretty miserable actually also only tangentially related but the vibes at a good anime con are unmatched, it makes me so happy seeing so many people having fun together yk?

[@equally.marketable]

being a hater can be fun, but what’s more fun is being a lover. a liker. loving and liking things. perchance.

[@wolfynerd14]

Hey, new viewer here. I'm very glad you managed to reflect on the mindset of being hateful in the very internetizen sense. It's hard to get out of the habit of doing these things, especially if you're more or less suffering yourself. A little note: sometimes, depressed people like me get to get angry in the ways you describe, like it's a coping mechanism. I know, I've had my angry depression moments, and more often than not, it has come out as being hateful, vindictive, and just downright selfish for reasons that turn out to be founded in only the things others say to argue why a thing is bad. It's been compounded with ADHD and a heavy case of RSD, so it did become recursive for quite a long while at some point in my short life, and sometimes, still crops up. I also find that allowing myself to feel things and have fun despite a "cringe" aspect (unless ofc said aspect is genuinely harmful to either yourself or others) often gets rid of the hatred altogether. It allows one to build empathy for something you otherwise wouldn't have it for. Hell, that's how I grew to respect and even like furries despite hating them at first. I realized that I was obsessed with wolves to the point where basically all my creative creations just morphed into Furry Central(TM) due to the fact that I could not let go of a race of werecreatures, mostly werewolves, that I was brewing long-term. I let myself have fun, then learned about the furry subculture, and bam. Suddenly, I lost the hating phase. Understanding bred empathy, then empathy bred self-reflection. I began using "cringe" as something to look upon as a sign of growing up and/or humanity rather than the worst thing in the world. I also grew from the furry stuff to learn that I viewed wolves in a more spiritual way than most people, and when I became a Norse pagan, it clicked that I was drawn to Fenrir and his pups, Skoll and Hati, all my life. It's human to be at least a little cringe, because that breeds self-reflection like what I had. I hope as you reflect and grow, you eventually come to understand and be at peace with yourself. Everyone deserves to be happy, but not at the cost of others.

[@xMeme52x]

the "liking cringe thing but making fun of fellow cringe thing fans because you are the socially acceptable one" was sadly something I went trough during my gacha life phase. Im so glad I grew out of it but now I just have this black hole of guilt that I am stuck in some weird limbo

[@jessiewuzhere123]

You're definitely right about Hate and Love being similar to the Yin and Yang. There has to be a balance for one to evolve as a person both mentally and physically. It's only when you start indulging to much does it start to harm others, and eventually yourself. Really cute rug btw 💚

[@doothi]

yess i didn’t even get to touch on how overindulgence in hate can be harmful to oneself >>> also tysm jessie i’m glad you liked the rug 💕

[@TheAbigailDee]

I thought I was a hater, it turns out I just enjoy things that are so bad they're good. Like I am just really obsessive, so finding media that is terrible that I can pick apart forever but in a fun and funny way instead of a boring/cash grab/bitter way is what I live for!

[@alexhilliard151]

Literally!

[@heyfella5217]

Same. I'm genuinely inspired by bad art, cringey middleschoolers, etc....! It doesn't stroke my ego but it kind of fills me with a sense of hope, if that makes any sense. A hope that I don't have to be perfect in order to make something. That I have the choice to not hold back. That, as long as nobody is hurt, it's okay to express myself and do what I want.

[@gummy-worms]

Omg I recommend the llamageddon movie then, it's amazinggg

[@vitadasgupta5336]

Hating is a lot like a smart phone addiction- cool in moderation but pathetic in large doses. Banger video (per usual)

[@davebob4973]

Why is it cool to use your smartphone

[@DudeGuyPrez]

I’m not a stalker i just happened to see the video seconds after it uploaded 😅

[@yeeyeeuni]

When I was a kid, I would hate to be different or to blend in, but never because I hated it. It was hard growing up in those "cringy" groups and being an outcast, so it was my way to blend in while also being different from who I was and those I loved. Now I stopped caring about what people like, cause if they're having fun and it's not hurting anyone I dont see a problem. I'm doing all the cringy things I missed out on growing up and its been so fun it almost makes me feel sad.

[@doothi]

yess this is why i say hater culture and cringe culture go hand in hand. be cringe be free 😭💕

[@tr.ns_overlord3798]

This is actually a really good conversation that i dont see being talked about enough. Hat3r behavior is so needless...

[@swagtoddler]

it was a very sweet video. i feel like the whole hating it until you understand is a big thing in the world, which is why i atleast try to understand why people like things and that as long as they arent hurting anyone its fine. great video again, doothi.

[@doothi]

tysm! and yes, trying to at least understand where people are coming from has been huge for me. all these discussions on hating and cringe circulate around the idea of empathy, something we’re starting to normalize lacking in…

[@january.16.05]

okay but celebrating mark's birthday is so valid lol

[@doothi]

pull up to the picnic next year 😤💕

[@georgieporgie6103]

Please, stop buying Colleen Hoover books if you don’t even like them. She’s not a good person, and you’re still supporting her work whether advertently or inadvertently. To paraphrase the wise words of Jay from The Critic, if you don’t like it, JUST DONT WATCH (or read, in your case) AND THEY’LL STOP.

[@sunshines4898]

She tried to justify her son’s sa action

[@orborb2644]

the rug, the party, the stop motion, the amount of things going on in the video is so cool

[@doothi]

tysmmmm 🥹🫶🏼

[@ProjectFates]

4:41 one thing I also notice is that, even if he was hating, he isn’t allowed to hate without repercussions, meanwhile you, at the time, could. It’s the one sided “I can hate on you but you can’t hate on me” that gets me going everytime :/ Love your vids btw! New sub!

[@flyingferret5070]

When you have the viewer reconsidering their own habits and views on being a hater (which is still a very cool thing in the right context), you know you’ve made a banger video. Good shit

[@doothi]

hating is incredibly cool in the right context tyty 😤💕

[@em-nd2rj]

I love your style of content, there’s something so chill and comforting about watching you make the rug while you talk

[@doothi]

ahhh tysm it’s the vibe i strive for 😭💕💕

[@CoopertheButter]

As soon as the “hater” song came out i knew people were going to be so… annoying about it, using it as their theme song. “I love being a hater” lifestyle is so sad. The songs so catchy though

[@mgj71377]

I dont usually make comments on youtube ever but I agree and i like your video!!! I deleted tiktok earlier this year and came to realize how much the hate and trends on the app influenced me- also I genuinely think its kind of insane that it became a trend to just brag about hating others. of course it doesnt surprise me that people took a good message like that song and completely misunderstood it lmao. anyways eventually I just kinda stopped and thought "do I actually care?" and now try to I catch myself whenever Im beginning to go back to the habit and somehow hate on someone/thing that really doesnt matter to me, because personally it actually doesnt make me feel good to hate. I just used to think I had to be either the one hating or the one being hated on

[@doothi]

yes!! the correlation between deleting tiktok and being a less pessimistic spiteful person was so real for me… also the original title of my last video was gonna be “to cringe or be cringe” so i very much understand what you’re saying with feeling obligated to hate to avoid being socially outcast

[@SuperHappyNotMerry]

9:26 here's the thing about "good taste" that I've learned. having it? is absolutely unnecessary. I used to really look down on people who liked marvel movies. I thought they were soulless corporate cash grabs and I thought people who liked them were "sheep." but then I realized, looking down on marvel fans was hurting _me_ more than it hurt them. just like you at the anime convention, I was being unkind to people who were expressing passion, except I was doing it in the name of "good taste." my hate didn't stop these fans, some even people in my own life who I care for dearly, from enthusiastically enjoying these movies. it just took away their joy of doing it publicly and made me bitter and mean. I realized, I was the problem. and then I started looking at my own taste in movies and books and realized I like things others would find "bad" too. I love she's all that, supernatural, taylor swift. and I don't just love these things, I think they're _good._ I used to always explain my love of things I thought left me open to criticism with the caveat of, "it's objectively bad but I love it." but who is this objective third person who is allowed to make these value judgments about the art I love? I realized that I have just as much authority to stand firm in my beliefs. I think there's a lot more value in saying, "I love this thing and think it's good" in the face of haterism, rather than bending over backwards to justify your love for something that might get you labeled as having "bad taste." do I think colleen hoover books are good? mostly, no. do I think it's productive to buy her books just to hate on them? no! you have so little time on this earth to spend it hating something someone did out of love and passion! yes, even if it is bad. I used to have a lot of fun doing just that. I used to watch hour long videos of people tearing colleen hoover books to shreds. then one day, for the sake of nostalgia, I clicked on one of those videos again and I realized something horrifying: the videos that had made me laugh so much before? now just seemed…mean. making fun of colleen hoover's prose or wording wasn't funny anymore. it was just mean. we're not all meant to be critics and even those who are, very few are good ones on my opinion. a lot of people like to hatewatch things and I can't stop them. but I live by two rules when taking in art of any kind: with respect to things made with love and passion I will critique but never demean them, and things made for the sake of money do not even deserve my attention long enough for me to hate them.

[@LilsyCat]

I’ve never talked about this and I don’t know why I decided that now I’m sharing it on the internet, but I feel like I need to in order to process and overcome this hurdle. I’m someone who struggles with extreme jealousy, and it brings out a side of me that I really don’t like. Whenever I see someone who I perceive to be prettier, smarter, or more capable than me, my automatic response is to hate. Honestly it’s so exhausting and I’m tired of it. I’d so much rather be a positive light to others than someone who brings others down. Anyways, if anyone reading has any advice on how to overcome hateful thinking I’d love to hear it 💕

[@DiscoDashco]

New here, and on the front end of the generation ahead of Doothi here. Pointing this out only to convey the amount of time to make or witness the amount of mistakes I’ve seen. To grow from past mistakes takes a desire for improvement and a whole lot of embracing pain and discomfort. Most can’t or won’t do that because the costs are bittersweet. Keep on truckin with the valuable self awareness, perspective and WISDOM that most grown ass adults never learn in their whole lives.

[@lyms1]

AH another video that made me reflect deeply, laugh, and cry at the memory of the industry plant I can still hear to this day.. Also! always gotta admire your editing and the cute ass rug 😭♥♥

[@lyms1]

and without hate how else would we have discovered the joy (pain) of the Death Note live action 😔

[@doothi]

some battles are worth fighting fr 😤

[@leahpeachie]

I really love how introspective your videos are. Especially how you recognize your own behaviors contributing to a movement you don’t like versus just commenting on/calling out others. It’s really made me think tbh!!

[@vvitch-mist20]

Idk man. I don't bother with things I hate. It's weird to me to do that lol. I do wish people would stop conflating hating with criticism. I've been called a hater too many times, even though my criticisms are very valid.

[@AHHHHHHHRRRRRGGGGGG]

I think being critical is good but being a hater can be kinda slippery, like it always makes me sad to see people say they hate a character or piece of media and totally ignore the good and nuanced pieces of that character/media, although obviously that’s not that bad compared to what was shown in the video lol. Great video btw

[@autumncoldswiftie]

genuinely love your videos, theyre so interesting and the editing is amazing just aaahhhhh

[@doothi]

this means so much to me truly 😭💕

[@audeng8485]

hating is also, unfortunately, a very social experience. the enemy of my enemy is my friend, so to speak -- and it's true. i've made some of my closest friends through being haters in private, where we'd vent our frustrations to each other instead of either vacating a space to avoid someone or blowing up in their face instead. at a certain point, being a "hater" starts becoming hyperbole. you don't always truly /hate/ these things, you just find them annoying or off-putting, and expressing those emotions to someone, be it in public or in private, can be extremely cathartic and at times, feel necessary. i think there's a difference between spreading hate as a personality or a content creator and connecting with your friends in private over something inconsequential you'll never bring up to someone else -- but i fear for how thin the line can be between the psychological rewards of both. you CAN derive the same sense of self-assurance and peace from getting a large, positive reaction from strangers online as you can airing your grievances out with your friends. it's a difficult balance to strike consistently, and i constantly remind myself and others of compassion and understanding. just because i find something bad, or i don't like it, or whatever, doesn't mean someone else can't derive enjoyment from it or act a certain way. my feelings are no less deserving of being felt in moderation and sincerity, too. for me, it's making sure that my actions and words lack outward malice, at least, in the way that would ever reach or harm someone they pertain to. it's impossible to expect everyone to keep everything bottled up, but it's an easy and gentle kindness to be considerate about where you express any intensely negative and unfiltered emotions. i really enjoyed this video and how it got me thinking!

[@turntechFreakhead]

your videos are demolishing my insecure hater side thank you for reminding me i don't have to be miserable just because some people think expressing yourself is cringe 💚

[@goddangit429]

ayy congrats on a 1000 subs you’re gonna reach 10-100k in no time with these videos. also that editing style is really unique to me

[@doothi]

your belief in me ahhH thank you!! 😭💕

[@Kiw4s]

I was a professional hater, I would watch cringe compilations on KZbin just to laugh at people having fun and expressing themselves or just sharing their interests on social media, at some point I posted my first video which was basically making fun of people's interests I didn't agree with. Basically what I'm saying is this video has really changed my view on how I look at other people's interests and every time I catch myself saying "that's cringe" or judging them, this video pops into my head and I think "it's what they like doing, why do I care so much, just because I don't agree with it doesn't mean I should react negatively to it ". I watched this video a few days ago and I came back here to leave this comment because I just saw a video on TikTok calling a duet of two people cosplaying stranger things characters cringe and usually I would've agreed but instead this video popped into my head and I realized it was just two people being creative in a way that interests them. I'm sorry for leaving such a long comment😅 but I just wanted express that your video changed me for the better and I really like that I've learned to stop judging and laughing because I wouldn't like that either.

[@AlexFrancesP]

haven't really liked a video properly in a while but really really loved your commentary, your video style and your redemption arc birthday picnic. Look forward to your next video!

[@doothi]

thank you so much???? stuff like this makes me so happy to hear i hope you stick around!! 😭💕

[@AlexFrancesP]

@@doothi keeeeep going!! you're great

[@terrestrialTerror]

hate reminds me that i do, in fact, have personal preferences. i like a lot of things, especially stuff thats traditionally low quality / low effort. there's been a researgence in 2010 era shitty art that looks all colorful and drawn by middle school children and i eat that shit *up*. they're fucking awesome with immaculate vibes. whenever i watch stuff with friends i usually like it and i worry im just being nice so i don't make them uncomfortable rather than an actual enjoyment of the media but whenever theres shit i don't like and can safely vent those feelings it makes me feel better because the nice things i say feel truer if that makes sense. there are also things i hate where i'm 100% in the right for hating, specifically windows and it's whole ecosystem, copyright and patent law where they cause demonstrable harm to the world and nobody seems to give a shit enough about it or even think they're a good thing. there's other stuff more serious than that that i hate even more but that gets into some super depressing things and you need to be able to pace yourself because as useful as hate can be for learning it can also burn you out when nobody around you minus your closest friends can understand and echo those feelings, especially when queerphobia & racism enter the picture and how little people are tackling those problems and how nobody wants to confront that shit even in spaces where things don't matter.

[@terrestrialTerror]

i also firmly believe toxic positivity is a thing. if you're seen as a hater but you point out valid flaws in something you can get a ton of people harassing you for having the wrong tone especially if said thing is popular. the source community struggles a lot from this issue and it can get *real toxic.* it makes it hard to determine a quality of a work from the outside and when you are talking about how you were feeling you are made to feel invalid and just a hater when you aren't enjoying a work you thought you would. it's the absolute worst feeling in the world in my opinion.

[@terrestrialTerror]

i also believe toxic positivity is a thing that can be real fucking shit. where people give something blanket praise when the thing itself isn't even that good and when you give your honest feelings while playing the thing people will call you just a hater and say none of your feelings are valid. it feels real fuckin bad when you're being gaslit into thinking your frustrations with a thing is just, not real. the source community has a huge issue with this where there's some amazing works out there but also a lot of shit ones made by inexperienced devs but if you try to provide criticisms you are belittled and ignored. reminds me a bit of the crypto space though i don't know what their incentives could be.

[@Mellodreama]

Great message and love the piece created!

[@doothi]

thank you so much!! 😭💕

[@pied3949]

REALLL, hating can sometimes be excessive and make people feel self-conscious for no reason. Amazing video otra ves! Love the watermelon :D Congratulations on 1k subscribers 😈😈😈😈

[@doothi]

AH i’m glad you liked it and thank you so much!! 1k is crazy ahhh 😭💕

[@Helbr3cht]

good lord the rug-making is hypnotizing I love it

[@corvidamevods5056]

I cannot thank the youtube algorithm enough for getting this video on my explore page, you are such a chill, fun person to watch and your rug art is sick as fuck! I'm proud to say i was here before 1k and got to give the 69th like to this video, can't wait for future uploads

[@doothi]

this is the sweetest comment ever? thank you so so much i could not have asked for a better 69th like 😤💕

[@kkalliemint8882]

I remember when i was younger i dealt with a REALLY controlling friend who i followed this and that opinion on until like one day i snapped and it ended up getting me into anime and after that I kind of gave up caring what people thought as much because I enjoy it and it makes me happy. (This also happened with the same person and gacha, but literally i used that shit to vent and everything and i enjoyed making those videos. It was what i enjoyed doing even if it feels cringe looking back on some of that)

[@leavemealone802]

I never saw myself as a hater I believe to be a critic, that takes writing more seriously than anything But yeah... i can be a hater sometimes, and it sucks We get nothing in hating, and we sure dont like when people hate on the things we like Which is why i always try to see the good side of a midia too... or just not say anything

[@quinn_white]

your videos are always so well done

[@doothi]

ahhh tysm 🥹🫶🏽

[@ccaippi]

how are you just at 1k subs? the quality of this video is sooo good

[@doothi]

stop i’m getting bashful tysm 😭💕💕

[@ccaippi]

@@doothi you’re welcome^^ i’m looking forward to see you grow your yt channel more!

[@clione99]

hating can be suuuuper fun, but i don't hate on individual people (like, obviously i might clown on epstein but that's different ykwim)

[@MISSMADISONMEDIA]

Thank you like can we be fr 💀 We all need to talk a lil shit SOME TIMESSSS, not all the time…

[@maureenkelly7771]

“Hating isnt a personality” tell that to AM

[@elijonestv]

Ohh… (in a positive way) btw i appreciate the work and creativity you put in your videos and they are always an entertaining and insightful watch

[@doothi]

thank you so much that really does mean a lot 🥺🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@MontserratGonzalez-ty9dt]

i high key wanna quote you on my next academic essay 👀

[@doothi]

do you want me to draft an apa citation for you bestie 😔

[@DihnnoLive]

Another amazing video! Congrats on 1k! 🎊

[@doothi]

thank you so much!!! 😭💕🎉

[@cassiesamuel8785]

i really like how the picnic shot looks very pretty nice colour grading

[@Cass213]

I just discovered your channel today, and I honestly love it. It gives me the same vibe as a comforting talk with a close friend. :) ❤

[@HayesMcCracken]

doothi remember me when you're famous please your videos are awesome

[@doothi]

kicking my feet rn i’ll never forget 😭💕

[@sofire8866]

I've just discovered your content and I can't feel more related to your beliefs and experiences ❤ you definitely won a subscriber🫶 greetings from Arg🇦🇷

[@flwrsofbffnry]

hello i'm a new viewer :3 i really really like the way you commentate!!! i love the transparency and how smooth your transitions are and the different sections are genius tbh. excited to watch this channel grow!!!

[@doothi]

AHHH comments like this make my whole existence thank you so so much and welcome to the channel 😭💕💕💕

[@flwrsofbffnry]

@@doothi hahaha of course omg thank u as well!!! ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

[@Miffness]

hey, you said you dont think anyone is going to come away from this video opting out of the hater lifestyle, and while I know I'm not going to stop hating everything, I also dont think thats possible but, I want to start noticing when I do think that, why those thoughts come up, I dont want it to be my first thought. And I think a lot of my fear of posting is rooted in well what id someone hates it. but like, what if someone likes it? what if that someone is me? i really enjoy your content and your, not so much critiques but, awareness of the negativity. its refreshing and helping me be a bit more self aware :3

[@VoidbornYordle]

This is the first time watching you and your videos are so well edited, wow-

[@doothi]

ahhh thank you thank you i hope you stick around 🥺🫶🏽

[@VoidbornYordle]

@@doothi I subscribed!! Can't wait to see more 🫶

[@ixypsc]

heya just wanted to say i love your content and that i really appreciate you for putting stuff like this out there. i never woulda thought someone else thinks the same way i do. self reflection all the way

[@doothi]

i’m so glad you like it!! tysmm 🥹💕

[@1mercurygirl]

This was so well made I was shocked to see the views and sub count! Love love love

[@1mercurygirl]

Totally deserve more

[@doothi]

ahhh tysm i’m blushing 😭🫶🏼

[@IInferno]

Fym Doothi, hating is like, top 9 personality traits, right? Right?! Edit: The MarioMotion took over 5 hours.

[@doothi]

hating is my mbti 🤩

[@slaygaba]

Another banger by Doothi, very well made video, slay!

[@doothi]

thank you so much girlie 😭💕💕💕

[@monokuma-d8u]

oh... (in the wow, what a cool video and such an interesting take! way)

[@doothi]

thank you for making that distinction 😔💕

[@GumbyAwooga]

Bro!! Love Mark Lee!!

[@doothi]

YES REAL 💕

[@y-tiplex]

remember sometimes you just need to start a gratitude journal

[@AvitheTiger]

I wanna throw a birthday picnic for a parasocial relationship too 😭 the most I can do is pretend feed a sock plushie I made of one of my favorite characters ever (my comfort character) a bunch of cookies

[@doothi]

do it!! it’s just an excuse to throw a fun picnic to recognize something you care about- life is SHORT 😤

[@olinpaivarinta-skands6676]

awesome video 😄 u are gonna blow up if u keep at it!!

[@doothi]

ahhh tysm! 😭💕

[@thesyclemonte6571]

Loving your channel l seeing you work reminds me of the intro credits of coraline

[@mangoface]

Wait why are these videos sick as hell

[@doothi]

do you mean it ilysm 🤺💕

[@jillian1013]

i wanna join for mark lee’s 26th birthday party PLEASE

[@doothi]

be there or be square 😤💚

[@jillian1013]

@ and no one wants to be a square 🙏

[@allyallyaIly]

girl happy birthday to mark like he deserves it

[@doothi]

had to get the watermelon out 😌

[@shandywarhol4444]

Just subbed. Great video. Kx

[@doothi]

thank you so much!!! 😭💕

[@cantdobasicmath0]

imagine your whole personality and existence being solely about tearing other people down and dedicating all your time to other people. embarrassing really

[@okplain]

Maybe i did hate on the major too much. The saga ends here

[@doothi]

🫡💕

[@hyobro8392]

I think "hating" can be done with a balance. For example I can be excessively tolerant of people and work quality, so sometimes it feels nice to balance things out, remembering I don't *have* to find good in everything. But that's tied to opinions, not hating for the sake of it all the time to the point where it becomes your literal identity. And also just hate on your own don't dogpile innocent people

[@Hellokittylovessanriogirls]

I love this video

[@doothi]

tysmmm 😭💕

[@christiancadet8845]

awesome vid

[@doothi]

tysm!!

[@queso5804]

Wowzers👍🏿 this actually got me thinking tho god damn💀

[@doothi]

yes only critical thinkers allowed in my comments 😤💕

[@bazz_is_the_best1]

can you link their channel?

[@doothi]

youtube.com/@superjumpbros64?si=uexcoBGDlawgSlvc

[@unrezonable]

2:22 none of those are weaboos

[@ladygrey4113]

Yeah like weeb is folks who go full on orientalist and “thing 😶 thing Japan 🤗😍” The older word for it wapanese I think captures the essence of those kinds of fans much better than weeb. Also unseen japans article on white poodles hits at a brand of weeb that tries to “protect Japan” from “western corruption”

[@DudeGuyPrez]

Wheyyyyy new video

[@doothi]

🥳🥳🥳

[@sergioruizsolier1962]

DID SHE JUST SAY NIGGACADO AVOCADO?¿¿¿¿ 2:43

[@Zer01Magg0t]

LOL

[@thatphatk4t14]

I think My friend is starting to genuinely believe shes dating izuku from mha.. she made a birthday cake for his birthday… she had a freak out and balled her eyes out when the manga ended and it seems like she feels closer to the fictional character then me. Cause she recently said she lost interest in me (her friend that always comforted her whenever she needed) We’ve been friends since 2018. im never a hater but in this case i kind of am cause she shouldn’t be encouraged imo

[@ordangur9300]

another banger video

[@doothi]

tysm 😤💕💕

[@glorianicole7242]

This was real as hell🫡

[@doothi]

tyty 😤

[@izzythefreak]

august 2nd is my birthday :)

[@doothi]

next year i’ll throw you a picnic 😌💕

[@izzythefreak]

@@doothi 🫣😭🥹

[@staeriix]

happy late birthday ‼️

[@vapor404]

My dad is a bully and hater i dont get along well with him bad look for him too but fuck it his life

[@awoum]

7:15 NOOOOO

[@HamiltonIsLife]

I’m a hater for sure. But I’m not a bully (I try not to be) And I love the song lol

[@Congratulations_778]

Allied master computer mindset

[@facthunt2facthunt245]

Oh

[@Undertaker93]

Is it okay to hate on other haters? Some of us like the high that being a hater gives it might be my fragile ego lol

[@crybaby6845]

Caring what other people do is exhausting please please get a hobby.

[@AthenaPOfficial]

Surely you realize how hypocritical your comments are, right?? IF YOU ARE ADDRESSING HER THAT IS WAIT A MINUTE… (if this is directed at who she is addressing in the video I agree. I’m TERRIBLE at reading comments)

[@asapcarrie]

WHY DID I JUST SEE THIS