Hayley Williams gets honest about vulnerability, mental health, and writing as therapy

[@tempest597]

The only person whose lyrics I could relate to as a teenager and now as an adult.

[@eleonoradasovic4167]

Omg same. I've been listening to Paramore for about 11-12 years now and it's like every song speaks to me. I just relate to the lyrics so much and I've never felt that way about any artist or band.

[@tempest597]

@@eleonoradasovic4167 E 'de si komsika, reci koje su sanse :D da ti odgovorim na maternjem, bukvalno sam odrasla uz Paramore, posto imaju pesmu za svaku prigodu.

[@eleonoradasovic4167]

@@tempest597 ajmeeee 😄😄 stv koje su sanse. 💛 Joj i ja sam isto i vidis koliko je godina proslo, uvijek imaju neko posebno misto u srcu. To je valjda tako kad odrastes s bendom. I ovi njeni novi solo projekti su mi supeeer

[@Reywuzhere]

Tempest very true same here!

[@WweFan93x]

Tempest preach!

[@Sydney-fp3nn]

Don’t know what we’d do without Hayley.

[@Juan-dm6ps]

The world would be the same, just with less in it.

[@alextint5987]

I don't know why I saw you wrote Halsey 😂😂😂😅

[@jarrygarry5316]

She and Chester Bennington(Linkin park) are my childhood.Rock genre is my childhood.Hayley is like my older sister.Too bad Chester committed suicide because of depression

[@loveisthefing]

I literally grew up with Paramore and always looked up to her so much and now I do even more. Mental health is so important and we need to be more vocal

[@crisisbeloved]

Oh god, same. I didn’t really want to rant on about it but what you said is exactly IT.

[@Allsinwonderland]

Daria K literally same I’ve been listening since 05 I was 4 thought Hayley was the coolest person ever

[@claudia.9885]

So did I, I have always loved Paramore old and New and I think she think she explained that perfectly been a depression sufferer myself I know how she feels. 👍🏼

[@coni4980]

shes so well spoken, so much wisdom just flows out of her, i really admire her and paramore is the love of my life like it is to her, and hayley has become my role model

[@coni4980]

@Wise Man agree 100%

[@ghost_fazbear]

Ah, you are indeed a Wise Man.

[@laurengilbo1304]

honestly it warms my heart that such a huge role model like Hayley has openly admitted that she takes medication despite there being such a huge stigma around it. It makes us feel less alone, and it normalises it in a way, so thank you

[@AudacyMusic]

Lauren Gilbo 🧡

[@FLdancer00]

Ummmm, where?? I never seen a stigma put in anyone who goes to therapy or takes medication. Is that still shocking in small towns or something??

[@laurengilbo1304]

FLdancer00 yep there are many celebrities who have been transparent about MH, but not many have openly spoke about taking medication to help them. There are many stigmas that comes along with taking medication; saying it’s an easy fix, that taking meds means ur “weak” or that you’ve failed or it will turn u zombie-like. Only felt obliged to comment on her courage since she’s the first celebrity that i know of to talk about taking medication to give her that extra boost in the right direction, that’s all.

[@fayevibar7560]

@@FLdancer00 in third world countries this is still treated with so much stigma around it. Some people can't wrap around their heads on such illness.

[@x-xdedmanjo6906]

​@@FLdancer00 not everything focuses around Hollywood like sure celebs talk about their issues and that's so cool and good for them but in POC communities and 3rd world countries you're either a freak who takes meds or/and it's expensive

[@trtlduv07]

“Notice what that feeling wants to show you about yourself. Sometimes discomfort is a way to grow.” Wow so wise. 💚

[@craftistic82]

It's just a spark But it's enough To keep me going 💜

[@DeathBySlushPuppy]

I've had depression since 13, I am 28 now. I have no idea what I am doing. I have been a mess for a long time. I find it hard to feel anything. I am trying my best though. I won't give up.

[@AudacyMusic]

DeathBySlushPuppy Listen to our podcasts and check out resources you can use at: ImListening.org You are not alone. 🧡

[@DeathBySlushPuppy]

@@AudacyMusic Unfortunately I am an EU pleb lol. Don't worry I'll find help somewhere.

[@francom6230]

Hey.. I'm not sure what a "pleb" is. Is it a nice, gentle, good person surrounded by narcists.? By seeking a solution to ""myself"" I found a "36yr old myself" was very inter-dependent to rotten people. My answer was to run away, but I found the same shit w/lesser smell. No one can help because, as I NOW kno at 56, nearly ALL of us have the same yucky feelings, most all just keep them private. I do Kno about being painfully alone, it a good skill to develope, but it's not healthy to stay in aloneness. Using your own form of "Meditation" which just means 'deep thought' helps a lot. I try to remember my life year by year. It's mostly fun! Eyes open tho! U'll see that u r always alone: Even in a room full familiar folks, I am alone... I know I've found moments of "clarity" thru the clouds of doubt.. Those are driven by yourself too but "clarity" comes from being w/others that are good, if not nice. --- U can only find ur solution IN yourself. AND YOU WILL always find it again; & again... Don't stop seeking your future, THAT will make you feel good.

[@taysieks219]

DeathBySlushPuppy I know that feeling . And it sucks..... all of these melancholy feelings 😔

[@juliendesousa9803]

You have the determination not to give up, that's the most important thing you need to get out of this mess so I trust you'll manage. And all those years wont be vain, you're building a lot of strenght and being able to go though what you went already demands a lot of strenght so you have all of the weapons (or at least most of them), and need to understand how to use them. Spirituality can help, if you havent already, try to learn more about it, and not necessaraly religion. Remember that there are a lot of ways of living and that one of them suits you, you will find it, don't lose hope. Sorry, that was a long reply, good luck for your journey, it's only a matter of time and effort.

[@davidgpeterson]

Their song Last Hope got me through a lot of really hard years. Will always be thankful to them for that.

[@AudacyMusic]

Dave P 🧡

[@erinslade3051]

Yes. Whenever I'm going through a particularly rough patch, this is my go-to.

[@cheyennenoel]

I started crying about 30 seconds in. It’s scary how relevant this new record is to my life and how I’ve been feeling. As if she could read my mind and see into my dreams. I think her writing has always resonated with me so deeply, she is an incredible artist and human.

[@AudacyMusic]

Cheyenne Noel 🧡

[@nfgatorgal]

Me too

[@mullcrumthesage6303]

Don't cry Cheyenne..okay if you must.

[@ginasethi5160]

Same all of paramore songs relate to me xx

[@jojodunn835]

This!! Every Paramore album came when I needed it emotionally in my life, mirroring my own circumstances and my progress to get better all the way up to Hayley's solo album. She's one of those artists who I'm emotionally synched with.

[@Lauren_182]

Again Hayley has left me speechless...I honestly could not be prouder of her and paramore :) I said it before and i will say it again, paramore is also the love of my life and i can't thank them enough for everything, they've been with me through my darkest times and i will be here for them too :) thank you for these videos!

[@franvillaman6732]

thank u Alf, for being the reason Hayley is here💕

[@randomchannel6479]

She’s just a true icon ❤️

[@_fa_]

I'm one of those who thinks she's perfect, but I feel even more respect for her and how transparent she being with this solo project. After knowing about some of her tragedies like what happened to her grandma, her divorce and wanting to suicide it's very very humbling. She's a true inspiration, I love her so much.

[@brightestlight9462]

she herself said she isn't perfect and doesn't like to be called perfect

[@rickhoward1516]

She is Human, not a Mortal. She is saying one thing and you're still going against what she is trying to get at. Lmfao. She is a Normal Human being thats wrotes amazing music and has issues likr we all do. Fans sometimes see only one side and she said that but you're still like omg blah blah blah. 🤣😂🤣😂

[@TheMoreTheMary_]

"I needed all the records that Paramore has ever made" me too

[@riot.heart0532]

Hayley is such a great role model I love her so much I can relate to her alot especially when she started talking about her depression and to always appreciate every moment in your life. She is such a hero I love her so much!

[@jameshonore1072]

She’s so powerful to me. That voice will have you in 10,000 different emotions in a matter of minutes. When we look back at paramore 20+ years from now we’ll remember how legendary they really were and how hayley is as powerful as she is. I truly can say I really love her

[@Nystagmuses]

She's great, it's good that she can speak about all that stuff. As a musician too, I know that music is really a therapy

[@jonathanball8237]

It's Great she's talking about living with, rather than suffering from mental illness..... Too often people are promised or looking for a magic cure when simply there isn't one, but that doesn't mean life is vacant meaning or happiness. I survived my suicide three years ago, I now use my experience to help people in self-help meetings, in that way even the darkness period of my life may have a meaning... even if it's to help just one other person, it's enough. Speaking out she is reaching so many more than one...

[@paul2466]

Love u Hayley, depression is overwhelming and so over stigmatized, you open discussion helps many therefore, you rock

[@thesilentcartographer5575]

The lyrics from Paramore's debut album "All We Know is Falling" still holds up 15 years later. My 13 year old self from 2005 is feelin it.

[@2010COBHC]

got a lot of respect for this sort of expression and hayley in general. Like or hate what she makes, she's trying to be as honest as possible in what she does

[@bivis8]

"I've needed all the records that paramore's ever made" same, grew up with them and still am

[@omgwayhaught2584]

It’s scary to think that hayley would even think about taking her own life because of how depressed she was feeling. I grew up with Hayley so I would hurt so so much if she was gone. I’m so glad she isn’t and that Taylor and Zac have been there for her 🥺❤️

[@duewhit310]

"all i wanted was you" if you are sensitive enough and listen to that song on repeat, you may find that the kind of love she is speaking of is not permitted in this world. its a heartbreaking song because its a reminder of how empty our world is. when she belts out "ALL I WANTED WAS YOOOOUUUUUU" my jaw usually hits the ground. its ART at its finest level.

[@Sapphire901]

She has no idea how much her artistry inspired and still inspires me! After Laughter is my favourite Paramore album and the EP is soooo good as well! Thank you Hayley you are an amazing person ❤️

[@jessegarcia4599]

Shes such a strong and beautiful soul I hope she finds happiness.

[@discardmyfriends]

I don't know how to put this. But the honesty from her is really refreshing. Like, the fact that a big famous rockstar can feel the same way I've felt at times brings a comfort. We're all just human and we're a lot more connected than we think we are

[@mic9891]

hayley and paramore have been my life since i was 12. now 23, about to be 24. the only reason why i haven’t left this world is because of paramore’s and hayley’s music. i know once i leave, i would never be able to listen to them.

[@AudacyMusic]

mic 🧡

[@rebeccapeace]

this is so true and raw. she has seriously influenced my music writing and my life for the better. sending loads of love to hayley

[@alonsowiener4227]

the band is literally her entire life and she embraces it, that's hard to do. I truly respect the hell out of Haley.

[@fayevibar7560]

Thank you for speaking up Hayley. I loved you ever since I was young. Your music and strength helped me through a lot. If you were that brave to go to therapy yourself,. I'm pretty sure this would give strength to some of us who needs some push to go for it too. Edit: I was struggling with depression for more than a decade and I was struggling to bring myself to the doctor. Hayley being open about her illness gave a boost for me to see a doctor myself. I'm getting the help that I needed. I hope that if someone is struggling to see a therapist/doctor themselves will give them a boost as well to go see one. Much love!

[@user-ln7yl5mk7k]

there's power in just being human - and showing it

[@Reyes911]

Why am I crying? 😞 I’m so proud of her, I grew up listening to paramore and now watching her go solo is just so surreal...

[@ChicagoJ351]

I like how most of this video was a dark place for Haley to talk about, but in the last few seconds she smiles and it’s like a light shines on her in that moment of positivity.

[@hhuy100]

I feel this way currently. It's hard learning how to be vulnerable and I'm so grateful for the way she articulated everything. I feel a lot more hopeful for the future. Like it's okay to have days of just feeling like absolute shit and feeling like you can't give much to anybody.

[@AudacyMusic]

Nandi Mainer 💕

[@ScaredDonut]

It's great someone like her is speaking out about mental health and depression. I've had dark thoughts and I was in that place couple days ago.

[@SpeedScape]

I already loved Hayley a lot for the music she makes, but with her new stuff she is making makes me really respect her

[@mauricelopez794]

So much love and admiration. I envy your strength and admire your courage. In fact, this has helped my own dark places. thank you!

[@paulsink5287]

That couldn't have been easy for Hayley to be so open about her issues, thank you for that and maybe it will help others to see they're not alone in how they feel.

[@speakingintothevoid8319]

Her and her music has been there more than she will ever know. Thank you Hayley, you are everything!

[@EggOnLegs]

True character and bravery to speak about these issues, mental health is such a hard topic to talk about but so important to discuss. Huge Well done to Hayley Williams, she’s using her ‘celebrity’ and ‘role model’ podium to talk about real life important issues that effect so many while actually trying to help and make a positive difference in the world. What an absolute legend! Anyone who reads this that needs to hear it Keep going, work on improving yourself by small increments each day and keep track of your achievements no matter how small. Things do get better, I know that seems like standard words you hear and read but never give up. Help others and add to the world in a positive way and you will see how valuable, determined and brilliant you truly are when you put your mind into it. As a great movie quote goes ‘It doesn’t matter how hard you can hit, it’s about how hard you can get hit and Keep. Moving. Forward. Because that’s how winning is done! You’ve got this.

[@patrickgaribay6135]

Her new stuff isn’t really my taste but love how happy Hayley is with her new music and herself. She’s a definition of an artist 👌🏽.

[@myspaceuser]

this is one of the reasons why a lot of teenagers related a lot to the first works of Paramore, this is the reason. I just hope that Hayley has helped a lot of people more than she thought

[@romierome]

We love you Hayley, then, now, and forever you have our support! We all connect with everything that pours out of your projects. Keep living and loving!

[@Allsinwonderland]

Man hearing about Hayleys struggles made me love and relate to her more

[@joepaul1814]

I love her. Here writing has always been on point

[@edenalemayehu1003]

This is relatable... when I dealt with depression the Bible gave me hope. I wish that for everyone.

[@firstsurname1284]

I know you will most likely not see this, but I gotta say, Just stumbled across this and completely blown away by you exposing your most inner thoughts and feelings. Do you realize that you are definitely an old soul? You appear so grounded with yourself now and seems truly happy and your outlook is so positive. . . Thank you for showing the real personal side of you, and letting people know its okay to not be okay, once you admit your not okay, and life and mental health challenges are not always balloons and pony rides... ..Many people facing the same challenges as you NEED to see this segment. I too have been there, and sometimes still it does rear its ugly head, but I'm prepared.. and because of conversations like this, I am still here...and am thankful for it every single day. It makes sense to me now. Thanks for sharing and Cheers.

[@vanessaa1640]

I thought I was the only one that wasnt enjoying being an adult.Sometimes I cant belive I am 27 how fast my life has gone , how I dont know what Im dong with my life and how I wish I had my parents support.I suffered of depression for a long time but we are depressed because we don't have any hope.What the devil tried to use for sometging bad God used it for good because I realized that only by doing God's will and loving him and my neighbor will I be truly happy and heaven is our true destiny until we have knowledge of this and the will to change our lives to give glory to God then I truly tell you my friend you will never be happy and at peace.The rosary is our weapon in these hard times.Remember"Thy world is our ship but not thy home".

[@xSlsox]

Hayley is such a role model in every aspect. ❤ I love that she is opening up about topics that many are scared to talk about.

[@dougowens1215]

Ma'am please stay strong! You live once and you inspire millions, please never give up! No pressure, but you and your music inspire millions! Stay strong please, we need you!

[@bryanjustin147]

i'm happy to see her own her depression and mental health issues. it's not easy for the average person but to be a celebrity of a big band I can imagine it's super overwhelming. I'm just happy she's getting the help she needs in whatever form that is as long as she's safe. Keep on tuning into yourself and always being yourself and don't change for anyone!!!!

[@vr_x7364]

This makes me feel not so alone 😔 thanks Hayley also want to wish everyone well on here

[@trekkienzl2862]

It's very brave of Hayley to speak up about mental health and discuss what she's been going through. She's a very beautiful person not only physically but also as a person. God Bless her and I pray she gets better.

[@yajramosra4522]

We're still here Hayley. We still here waiting for you. We still here loving you and the paramore.

[@BrendaRodriguez-ei3yf]

We are all going through similar things and it’s such a blessing to have music get us through it and connect us together

[@renanissler6081]

Paramore is fucking awesome. early days, and present time. Hayley is queen.

[@gonzalosaavedraalban]

I admire her clarity.

[@jameshonore1072]

Hayley Williams is a legend HANDS DOWN. She is PARAMORE

[@patrickzajic]

yeah, I was also born in 1988 as Hayley, and since I've disovered Paramore in 2007, I am listening to these songs basically every single day... I really appreciate that she's is still in the music business.

[@alexrush4140]

I relate so much. I can't imagine what I'd be like if I never found writing. I know so much more about myself due to just writing down my stream of thoughts into poetry. Art in general is so therapeutic

[@yesterdayssjamm]

Hayley is a beautiful person inside and out

[@cjames1322]

I’ve listened to “petals for armor” a few times to really understand and comprehend this new sound from Hayley. I didn’t like it at first, but the more I listened, the more I appreciated the artistry. You can tell from the sound, lyrics, and visuals that the new tracks are completely real and from a deep place. It’s dark, but it speaks truth about how we really feel sometimes, and the person that we are when nobody is around. I’ve been in love with Hayley, and her music for a long time now. I have to say that this is definitely the realest thing I’ve ever heard from her. Although I know it’s coming from a dark place. I am liking the new sound.

[@alvarc3675]

Beautiful human being

[@pedroulrich2465]

I cried… I just love her, and missing her would be just SO SAD…

[@milicavukelicfit]

I grew up with Paramore and I lovee Hayley since than. Good to hear something like that cuz we all feel empty sometimes and music stars are also just humans, they feel like us too. Thanks a lot Hayley. LOve youu sooo muuch ! 💕💕 Like she said in a song : Just let me cry a little bit longer, I ain't gonna smile if I don't want to 💕

[@rebelpanther1784]

Which Song is that?

[@scottcobbs4749]

Your not alone sweetheart ❤

[@philly_sports1558]

The amount of respect and admiration that I have for this woman both as an artist and as a person knows no bounds.

[@aarondrumm3100]

Wow. So haley is a real person. That's nice to hear.

[@jeraldschoudt2155]

It's awesome that you're talking about this in the context of #ImListening. Thanks for sharing your story and struggles and letting people see that real part of you and understand that we all have our shining moments and our crappy ones, even stars. I've struggled for years with self-doubt, being hyper-critical of myself. I'm struggling to love myself every day, whether it's a high day or a low day. For me, that's the simplest truth. You have to love yourself, be in a loving and honest relationship with yourself. Just like you want from your partner if you manage to find them. And it's a struggle every day. For everyone. Don't judge people by their outward success or outward confidence. Know that everyone struggles. And everyone's struggles are unique. Thank you for coming back from your dark days and sharing your art with all of us. Take hope in the fact that you help so many of us in our struggles because we enjoy your art, or are touched by the parts of you that show through it.

[@AudacyMusic]

Jerald Schoudt 🧡

[@kathleensalamat9538]

I hope you will find the happiness that you really deserved , youre such an inspiration to us especially people have depression as well, You and your music help us through everything. :)

[@adamturner5005]

i love hayley, i got to meet her back in 09 and all the fans pushed me to the front cause they were too nervous but she actually welcomes me with open arms cause it was cold and that showed she was a real person. however i think depression comes to us all who have to face things. singers actors dancers people who are trying to get something in life. if your doing nothing with your life except a normal job an have depression then im sorry but you dont have it, your just miserable and refuse to push yourself, ppl who have depression are ppl who are trying to giv something an bleed it . hayley is one of them

[@christiank.7505]

Thanks for the great vocals. You are always remembered as a support in my life.

[@danusetiawan5045]

Your music career in Paramore is ART Hayley !

[@MijoShrek]

Oh wow I wasn't a Paramore can but this woman just revealed such insight I feel and shared a piece of her soul. It's human to be all aspects of emotional states within moments, I've always struggled with depression and she was dead on how she says she can go from wanting to die to still knowing she loves life at the same time..

[@karolquequezana1011]

I juts wanna say, that i loved that woman since the very first time I listen to her, she is amazing. Hayley, as many will say, I love you being alive.

[@oraycabral]

Hope to u get well soon and fast! Love Hayley 💕

[@loveisthefing]

I love her with this "no make up" look. Babe

[@trtlduv07]

Daria K Right?? She looks so gorgeous.

[@ladyfibonaccii]

She definitely has makeup on lol it's just very neutral.

[@hershe.4716]

@@ladyfibonaccii thats why they put it in quotes darling. No one said hayley did not wear make up when her lips are literally in peach colour.

[@ladyfibonaccii]

@@hershe.4716 and nobody asked you 🙃😘

[@hershe.4716]

@@ladyfibonaccii neither do you lol

[@kylejasonvillegas3000]

Truest sides of Hayley 💕 We always be the real version For 10 years now, still ilysm Hayley 💕 you can get through it 🙏🙏🙏

[@wayneferreira9041]

Very brave of you Hayley, this will help more people than then you'll ever know. Got my respect.

[@AStarsLightsFires300]

I love her alot

[@helloshinee141]

i try not to get too emotionally attached to celebrities but i dont think i could ever handle it if i ever hear news about her passing away IM SORRY THAT GOT DARK just a thought that's crossed my mind a handful of times before.. :( to the people reading this i hope u find strength and hope to continue living when times are rough

[@jesuschristpose896]

Such a beautiful and talented soul

[@princeoffriendship]

My favorite artist has always been Emily Haines of Metric. She expresses her thoughts and worries through her writing and music and I see a lot of similarities with Hayley! Hayley had stated many times in the past that she looks up to Emily, they toured together and praised each other through the years and I feel like she sees her as a role model! I love both Paramore and Metric and I'm so glad that there is this universality of feelings and thoughts among great front women who are open to share their thoughts and tell us all that we are not alone..

[@teamscali9038]

That's awesome to hear

[@nadia9377]

i literally feel the same way every day.. but it's indeed very good to embrace all emotions you have!

[@diegopolanco4438]

I admire hayley a lot ♡

[@briant40]

Life is a rollercoaster ride....i as a musician have come with my own times of being depressed and loneliness in my life but music is a healing tool. Everybody....whether you're poor, rich or famous. You are just like everyone else. We are human we go through tough times in our lives. We are not immune to hiding behind a screen pretending to be happy. Whats wrong with the world today is expectations, being judgemental and lack of respect. Too many people are lonely and depressed. We need good loving people in our lives...from friends, family and partners. Maybe the world wouldn't be such grim place.

[@Satan97458]

I love Hayley Williams she's awesome and a huge inspiration to those suffering from depression. I will say depression does suck and something most of us deal with but we gotta be stronger and fight it.

[@darkt2136]

She always was honest and she is true inspiration for eternal spirit.. So young and so wise,walking sun person with endless heart.. She's one of a kind! Once the girl of fire with the flames red hair,always the flame!! She created generation! ❤️🔥

[@deebzeal8204]

I love her even more now for being so open :)

[@nikacoleenbogz9164]

Sometimes discomfort is a way to grow. ❤️ I felt that.

[@Marlon1861]

Thank you Hayley!!! ❤️ You will always be a true inspiration!

[@jeffreymercado2082]

Hayley. Thank you for being real.

[@Nevernow721]

Sounds real to me. Her music helps people including me but in this world right now, we all need to be a little more Hayley.

[@pharaohrameses6061]

I love you Hayley! Thanks for sharing your personal struggles. I go through. something similar. I need help too. Life is worth living. 💜

[@aleycathhh]

I hope she is doing ok

[@elysia3294]

shes so amazing. as an artist and human.... could have not said better words about having depression/a death wish myself

[@masamune2984]

The timing of this video, as an upbeat and seemingly confident but actually anxious, depressive and terrified game designer...I can’t thank the timing of this video more. Between this, “Get Your Wish” from Porter Robinson, and the amazing group of human beings I’m working with on our game, I just feel thankful for the timing of things like this to help me push through it and make something hopefully you all might check out and enjoy someday. Thank you for that, all involved, and thank you if you read this far :)

[@AudacyMusic]

Benjamin Flagg 🧡 #ImListening

[@scottcobbs4749]

I love you hayley