He Cheated, Do I Leave?

[@happybrasato]

you leave, that's what you do

[@DevonnaChristopher]

EXACTLY!!

[@ozzycortes]

Leave. He’s not over his ex

[@Somerandomuser98]

THE TITLE SCARED ME😭😭😭😭

[@ivyrose1692]

As someone who has stayed with a cheater before my advice is to get an annulment ASAP. Trust me please. You will resent him no matter how much you think you're over it and things like whether she was a better fuck than you will also pop in your head at random times. It's one of my few regrets.

[@blondiez1981]

If you hadn’t snooped, you might have wasted years or never known at all!!!!! That is not okay. You deserve so much more from a partner for life!!

[@darkgalaxy5548]

Or she she may have had 60 years of marriage being blissfully unaware.

[@AS-ri1mb]

@@darkgalaxy5548 even worse

[@annlatham]

I shopped and my husband was texting his female coworker. She literally asked him if he made his eye appointment and shit like that. Not her business. He made it her business. Emotional cheating is just as bad !

[@joanna7677]

Leaving is easier when there are no kids. Get out before that happens. Or, if you stay, expect it to be very hard and intense to make it work. Don’t stay out of guilt. A lot of people have cancer. Cheating is not a cure as far as they’ve researched I’m fairly certain.

[@michaelserns1516]

GTFO immediately, trust is gone forever

[@dmvdom2310]

The title got me

[@Anne-MarieJ]

Sammmeeeeee I shit myself

[@AS-ri1mb]

SO many people have been through similar situations and the number one piece of advice is to LEAVE. Run for the hills. Life is not worth wasting on someone like that. It's easier said than done, and it may take a few months to get over it, but the alternative is a life of never being fully fulfilled by that person, and never having 100% trust again.

[@whatmadelinesays]

Oh my god I’m so glad this podcast exists

[@whackywheels5920]

Lets adress going into someones phone. You feel guilty and looking for validation for cheating. You find out he was cheating. You confront him and forgive him. Then you ask the world if you did the right thing without explaining your side of why you went into his phone in the first place.

[@causarumcognitio]

I heard of a Protestant priest once who either overheard or was informed by someone who worked at the church that a bridesmaid was talking to the bride and asked if she was sure she wanted to marry the guy and she said “well if it doesn’t work out in a few months, so what. We’ll just get divorced and I’ll move on to the next one.” So the priest cancelled the wedding. Refused to marry them.

[@EgorZA82]

He didn't worship the ground you walked on he pretended to if he really cared/loved you the last thing he would do is hurt you and to cheat is the worst pain you can give someone

[@melineeray8042]

If he’s not trying to put the work in to build that trust again leave you’re human and you’ll have multiple soul mates experience

[@susiek454]

WHY ARENT THE FULL EPISODES ON HERE? I was going to subscribe but not for 7 min videos! I wanna see the whole thing. Please upload full episodes 😊

[@kendalgammarano6208]

It’s because of her contract with Spotify. You have to go there to get the full episodes. I love it bc I already have Spotify but Apple Music listeners get the short end of the stick

[@Diametricallyopposed00]

They are trying to drive you to Spotify…it’s just a teaser

[@tofo2]

Advice to Snoops: If you think secretly snooping through someone else’s diary, notes, or phone is acceptable, here’s something to consider. In the moments before you sneak a look, you may think you're just being a detective, but in reality, you're also betraying trust. What if you find nothing? Would you confess that you suspected them and accessed their phone without permission? Probably not-because it would reveal your lack of honesty and integrity. The advice is simple: be the person you claim to be. Don’t put yourself in a position where you have to lie about your suspicions or insecurities. Let people be who they say they are, and don’t secretly gather information outside of your direct conversations. If you feel insecure or suspicious about someone, the honest thing to do is to admit it to them. However, doing so will likely strain the relationship. So, before you act on your suspicions, you need to acknowledge the responsibility that comes with them. Be open about your insecurities, what you plan to do about them, and how you’re working to address them. Snooping and secretly holding onto information that wasn’t meant for you will compromise your integrity. Even if you think you can keep secrets, you’ll have to manage them responsibly and eventually clear the air to move forward in trust. If you don’t, then you're not really in a relationship-just pretending to be in one.

[@dsjtravels]

No. It's an intuition feeling. Because everytime you look through a man's phone you find someone.

[@tofo2]

​​​​@@dsjtravelsIt is called integrity. If you look through someones phone it is over anyway. You become a problem as well, being suspicious without being honest about it. If this is your standard, expect to have your own drawers scouted when not in the room. The person you are at war with will also use his intuition an feel you are hiding something. 😅

[@briang2034]

the current state of our world, dont get married, your both going to hurt each other and the kids, please stay single. and go to Therapy and do family bonding.... when you marry you bringing in Courts and lawyers that end up winning with your hard earned money. wish you all the best!

[@sosoutherncustomequestrian4598]

LEAVE!

[@MercedesBenitez-fr6gv]

If you decide to stay you both need to go for counseling bc this will scar you. You will always question and doubt him. He won round one. Be careful!! Leave for your own good.

[@Jess-kl3uy]

My eyes popped out my face listening to this. I’m so fkn sorry …. I would say a 10 step program and if he doesn’t do what it takes to build trust: I would leave ….. pls run ..if I were a friend I wouod beg that you protect yourself. You don’t deserve this kind of treatment. Alex said it correct!

[@johnphamlore8073]

I want to know who in this day and age would advise someone to stay in these circumstances. No, don't try and rebuild this. There was never anything to build. Also, she's 30. Shouldn't she have learned to stand up for herself by this age?

[@Madi-dt7bo]

For both of your sakes, you leave. I know it’s hard when it’s not a physical cheating but in some ways the emotional is worse

[@kevindonovan121]

Damn girl love the books!

[@mohammedsmart8477]

“He worshipped the ground I walked on” ahhh so you didn’t marry him cause you liked him you married him because you have power and control over him, but yet you get mad when he cheats on you with a girl that might actually like him…. Huh…

[@kevindonovan121]

Once a cheater ALWAYS A CHEATER! Run fast don’t look back.

[@daughterofthemosthigh3366]

Cheating is just so crappy but this story is horrible. How does anyone recover from this?

[@tdc9136]

Now I know what's wrong with younger women...this thing

[@jeragenhope6822]

be serious. wedding vows dont mean anything anymore

[@公主_maya]

Leave! Once a cheater, always a cheater

[@skyehap]

Um 100% leave sis. Married or not. No thank uuu

[@143paigemarie]

Well said

[@jjthejet8447]

I would have got an annulment if it was that fast

[@meh5552]

Wow, you look so cute sitting on the couch in your outfit.

[@DJLvanillaICE113]

Found out after you got married is crazy

[@TheMzx124]

Can't shake the feeling of watching a high-school drama described by one of my high-school girl classmates lol. Is this how nowadays 30 y old women talk as well? OMG OMG...

[@flowerjpotter1629]

What's going on with the bookshelves ? It looks like an olf school library from the 1950s. No dust covers and the books a uniform size. Normal book shelves don't look like this, xo im guessr this is the work of an interior designer.

[@420Ragnarok]

RBG Ruth Bader Ginsberg said that Roe VS Wade SHOULD GO BACK TO THE STATES!!!!!!!!!!

[@ladywan_kenobi666]

Girl leaveeeeeeee please

[@YourCompanyNameCouldBeHere]

No you don’t leave because as much as you hate men, you need their protection and income to get by.

[@jvo3777]

This podcast is disgusting. Seek Jesus. Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me." -John 14:6

[@VictoriaSullivanFouche]

Leave girl leave ✌️

[@kevindonovan121]

You need to get Hawk Tuah girl on 😎

[@ChamberlainMamie]

913 Verna Cape

[@smokey2174]

🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

[@thisismyname3928]

👄💩

[@JessicaKapler1111]

⛓️🎡💣⛓️‍💥🚀

[@OscarTheGrouch755]

This is just weird. If you’re that insecure with your relationship to where you need to ask some random chick online (who has no successful history of relationships btw) than you probably need to re-think your life a little bit shorty…😂😂 Women stay giving eachother terrible advice too. Single women keep women single. Guarantee that man probably protected, provided, and was funding a certain lifestyle for her… and was most likely told her up front that he has other girls but she couldn’t deal with the competition. Women cheat, successful men exercise options. If a man is taking care of you, providing for you, protecting you, and is funding a certain lifestyle for you he can exercise options. A guy is only loyal if he doesn’t have other girls that he can go to… a guy is only as loyal as his options💯 so she left the potential rich guy who was funding a certain lifestyle for her because he “cheated”, now she has to go get an average guy who can’t provide that certain Lifestyle for her, and she thinks it’s gonna be different now?😂😂you’re just gonna potentially get cheated on by the broke guy now too. You played yourself shorty. Would you rather cry in a Rolls Royce or a Toyota Carolla?😅

[@j.ceasar]

No evidence that he's rich, no evidence that he told her beforehand.

[@j.ceasar]

He still deserves to get left after cheating. Any man who does that doesn't deserve a woman.

[@ScottSwisher]

Why start over ?

[@DeathAndTaxesAbolitionist]

Men that are completely loyal to their wives and children won't come back until the patriarchy comes back. Men are not going to be loyal to stressed out career women.