This is a lesson that we should always listen to the two sides b4 we judge anyone, I’m so sorry for this man and I’m so sorry for insulting him before hearing him out, some women can give you a hell on earth.
@judeolochemusa7775 Жыл бұрын
you're right
@adejiifeanyi5825 Жыл бұрын
Perfecly said
@ritaakudo94107 ай бұрын
Me too I was actually judging him when she was narrating her own hmmm let my husband come and see violent women oooo
@perpetuanwachukwu91517 ай бұрын
Well spoken. That lady looked innocent but has no wisdom of managing her home. She locked out the man that accepted her child as his biological father and cared for him.
@oluwafemifalayi45107 ай бұрын
@@ritaakudo9410 🤣🤣🤣 please leave your man out of this biko
@danielohemu6119 Жыл бұрын
The gentleness of Emma Bello flows in the blood stream of his family. I remember the younger brother, Anthony Bello of blessed memory, their father a jovial old man. Emmanuel was my model of gentleness. I loved to see him around during any of our religious gatherings. Watching you on this episode of justice court has made me ponder on the irony of life. 'This life no balance at all'. Every good woman would have love to have you as a husband but unfortunately, your Marital life has been hell from your explanation. I pray that God will give you peace of mind. Brother! Emmanuel Bello as we used to call you back in the day, you're one of those that taught me gentleness. I also remember your adage; everybody's goat is nobody's 🐐 and that goat will either die of hunger or gluttony.
@chriskewe4238 Жыл бұрын
Wow. You sure know him... obviously mistakes were made. He even took her in without first marrying her. Sad.
@agbortambeferinhoo2807 Жыл бұрын
The lady is a trouble maker
@jollofbraiding7448 Жыл бұрын
God will fight for this man
@d-artam8968 Жыл бұрын
Are you saying you knew him?
@danielohemu6119 Жыл бұрын
@@d-artam8968 Yes, i do very well.
@kinniemanyeh9601 Жыл бұрын
Chai!!!! We men are going through a lot. Thank God Hakimi paid back. Just 1 time but gives us a sigh of relief.
@nnannaoketa76756 ай бұрын
It is better to live in the desert than to live with this type of woman.
@AndrewOwie Жыл бұрын
I can just imagine how justified and relieved her former lover feels now watching this. Once a person is damaged or battered from a previous relationship, marrying her may be suicidal. Such a person is likely to avenge all pains of that previous relationship on you. Marrying out of pity is destructive. Anyways, the main issue here is the welfare of the kids as the marriage is definitely gone. However, paternity test is required for all 4 children to truly ascertain that those are his children. I comment my full reserve for now until final episode. Gracias!
@nduodiaka1739 Жыл бұрын
Paternity test for what?what was he thinking before they started bearing his name.?was he sleeping.?
@taracarson9466 Жыл бұрын
@@nduodiaka1739 Never too late to do test. Bearing his name doesn’t make him their father
@nduodiaka1739 Жыл бұрын
@@taracarson9466 Yes, you are right. But to decide now for parternity test makes no sense.If they are not his children, psychological and emotionally the lifes of those children will be ruined.He would have done that before the ones born to him by the woman started bearing his name .And again , their birth certificates carries his name.How will you feel if you now know that the name on your birth certificate is not of your real father when you became young adult or you know a little bit of things about life .?
@fridaynetel4609 Жыл бұрын
@@nduodiaka1739 You're just emotional on the issue, paternity test can be done anytime if the need arise, even if its 50yrs. The husband can even do his own paternity test if there are findings that his mother once cheated on his father way back. So for a woman like this, paternity test is very important. Forget about birth certificate, trauma, they have been bearing his name, he didn't do it from the beginning, its now that he wants to do it, and all that. You can't use those excuses not to checkmate a cheating partner. What if the biological father is somewhere waiting, and this man is raising the kids, how will his old age look like? Unless you are scared for the woman and looking for a soft landing for her.
@nduodiaka1739 Жыл бұрын
@@fridaynetel4609 He has the full right to do parternity test I am only talking in the interest of those innocent children,
@obedorji24565 ай бұрын
I can't stop enjoying the disposition of this beautiful cool young judge.
@henryfamo Жыл бұрын
I really love Mr. Bello, he is really someone who keeps details. This is one story that supported my stand that a man should not be handed 100% blame in a divorce case. Looking at Mrs. Bello's countenance its obvious she is a troublesome woman. Look at her, she never mentioned all her bad side and that is the same story she will be playing into people's brain to make her man bad. Sames goes to every woman who has been involved in divorce. You cant claim to be a victim in a situation you join to create.
@evelyinipaja7022 Жыл бұрын
I agree with you, that this woman is troublesome.
@herminedobson5036 Жыл бұрын
She is a bad woman
@uchechukwuuzougbo710 Жыл бұрын
Is really good to hear stories from both sides before concluding on who is wrong. I was thinking Mr. Bello must be a devil when i was listening to Mrs Bello. But later hearing the man's side of the story and the way the woman was even reacting to it made it very obvious who the bad person is between the two of them. The man must have really had enough and decided to run to save his life.
@horlayiwolahorlajeedey7297 Жыл бұрын
@@evelyinipaja7022l😊
@remikatvongrim2641 Жыл бұрын
Her body language says it all, she is a piece of work
@annefalola9278 Жыл бұрын
Unhappy marriages are so sad! I pray they both find peace.
@godsson4683 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@kimbihimself Жыл бұрын
Look at how she kept her neck when he was talking 😂. Suspicious
@peterock570119 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@omowunmihilda583 Жыл бұрын
This woman is something else !!
@stephennwadere5140 Жыл бұрын
So happy to see Judge Funmi doing what she knows how to do best
@oladokunowoola599 Жыл бұрын
Anybody complaining about abuses in their previous relationship before they meet you, u need to make a rigorous background check before you proceed with the relationship with them because most times they're actually the abuser.
@abokkolang4218 Жыл бұрын
She does not want to grow and mature. He is an older and humble person who wants a quiet life while she still wants to go out and explore. I believe she got with him because he felt pity on her and she knows he would provide. She certaintly is not ready to be monogamist
@LucianaJacyOzy Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@debbie755 Жыл бұрын
This man speaks so good😊
@princessessien1240 Жыл бұрын
He is polished
@justinobiako6940 Жыл бұрын
And has a calm mien too
@UgochukwuChukwure9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 Much English is the result why the Marriage failed
@ayoronkekemi8215 Жыл бұрын
The most important part is the upkeep of your children
@unrulysuspect Жыл бұрын
One of the Nigerian program that makes me happy ☺️☺️
@jasmiejunior7231 Жыл бұрын
Aswear
@hakeemojikutu2015 Жыл бұрын
The only court that works and follows the rules of judiciary in the Nigeria at the moment.
@isaackalu2512 Жыл бұрын
It is really unfortunate that Mrs Bello is unable to control herself during Mr Bello's testimony as her body language really indicates that she has an anger management issues. Her Husband was very quiet during her testimony. Mrs Bello is unable refute the allegation about her violence towards her Husband or her various neighbours including possible adultery. She should go for anger management, and also should include her husband in relationship counselling. I reserve my further comments until the conclusion of the case.
@uwisikesamuel2703 Жыл бұрын
Marriage is a school you got a certificate b4 you start d school without exam, yet know graduations, it just endurance nd hoping one day dead will set in to put asunder
@mobi6341 Жыл бұрын
The man is calm does not make him a saint. From his shortcoming, he lacks the duty of care to the children. Irrespective of what must have happened between them, the children welfare comes first.
@pekunfajemisin1238 Жыл бұрын
Bros , what else have you got in reserve
@happybaby4898 Жыл бұрын
@@pekunfajemisin1238 🤣🤣🤣 I wonder oo
@elvis4best Жыл бұрын
@@mobi6341 yes, the welfare of the children come first, but when you have a wife like this, you will regret your life and don't want to have anything to do with such woman. Where he made the mistake is not bringing her first daughter to take responsibility. Open account for her and send every penny to your daughter. At least 15yrs is matured enough while he allow the woman to leave a single mother's life. She have a child before and this man took the responsibility of the child, but she have the heart and mind to lock him outside of his own house, house the she is not paying rent. Women are crying outside they don't have husband, why you that have is pushing him outside. If she is frustrated, she don't have the right to put her frustration on another person. Everybody is frustrated in the country, most people are just managing their frustration.
@peacefulflourish5539 Жыл бұрын
Ma'am you're the best lawyer in the whole wide world 😌♥️♥️ I love you..I wish you more wisdom, knowledge and prosperity ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🙏🏼❣️
@adajiojonimi3254 Жыл бұрын
I can relate very well, the man should find a life again.
@Warrake53 Жыл бұрын
Husbands even if you are not interested in the marriage please don't let it affect the welfare of the children.
@marvinokere9832 Жыл бұрын
This is what you get when you marry out of pity. He met a single mother struggling to provide for her son he helped and affection grew.
@LucianaJacyOzy Жыл бұрын
Apt
@gabrielpavel8846 Жыл бұрын
Am telling you, this is my first word when he explained how she mate her
@quicklinks1643 Жыл бұрын
It is always advisable to avoid a single mother unless her husband is dead, anything other than that is a no no
@queenoparaugo2356 Жыл бұрын
@@quicklinks1643 you not serious! What has single mother got to do with someone's personality
@cynthiaosuji1190 Жыл бұрын
@@queenoparaugo2356 don’t mind him …people will just open their mouth waaaaa…
@vivianogochukwu5729 Жыл бұрын
You see ladies with this type of stature and size, I dey fear them oo.
@sandraaugustine6316 Жыл бұрын
And Tall guys love those small size women so much
@chrisjonah5757 Жыл бұрын
I have same perception about women with this stature
@ozonyiaonyekachi349 Жыл бұрын
@@sandraaugustine6316 I dnt ooo
@epiphany_experience Жыл бұрын
This stature? Very arrogant set of human being
@oluchijessica2843 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@IHEDIGBOCELINENNEKA21 күн бұрын
This man speaks well.
@patiencepatrick8608 Жыл бұрын
Happy to see Justice court notification E dey give me joy And . learning alot Thank you ma God bless you The man is from same state as me wow
@hakeemojikutu2015 Жыл бұрын
Me too ✋️
@kingtemitemidayo938 Жыл бұрын
Watching from U.K. much luv to the amazing judge 👩⚖️🇳🇬💐💐
@Renrens-LionessofJudah Жыл бұрын
Hi, also from the UK
@giftedet5782 Жыл бұрын
may God not allow us to settle down with a wrong partner , they were not made to be together💔💔😢😢
@favourgodisgreatcoolbreeze5034 Жыл бұрын
Amennnnnnn!
@osasgodspower8042 Жыл бұрын
@@favourgodisgreatcoolbreeze5034 AMEN
@chimadavid2321 Жыл бұрын
He who fineth a wife fineth a good thing and uptaineth favor from God.theres no perfect match in marriage,is only those who are there makes it perfect.untill everyone knows there limits marriage will never stand.if you like be a real pastor.and one person can't fight for a better home, the two must put head together
@jerryiwo54842 күн бұрын
Women are strong oh, God bless this lady.
@onyekwereiwobi1195 Жыл бұрын
Woman and their "weakest point" moves. She a smart woman, see her narrative how she went straight to the kids and build it with emotions and pity while she the fire cracker in the marriage
@PeaceMbakwe5 ай бұрын
May God have mercy on this troublesome woman
@charlesogbonna1245 Жыл бұрын
Damn this man is real gentle man
@BeckEddie Жыл бұрын
Some gentle men can still make a woman suffer o. Lol... I know this woman has her faults but the man should take care of his kids.
@lolaabe2964 Жыл бұрын
Both are eloquent and are able to express themselves clearly, no further comment till next week. God bless Judge Funmi.
@alinayili2199 Жыл бұрын
I love that. That's an Open Minded person there
@Sislloyd847 Жыл бұрын
You know, these things will happen, going to church and don't have a relationship with your God. What kind of example are you setting for the children?
@uwisikesamuel2703 Жыл бұрын
Marriage is d MOST difficult exam to write! NOBODY IS PERFECTED OR HAVE EVER GRADUATED FROM IT, EXCEPT WEN DEAD SET IN. EVERY FAMILY'S HAS THERE CROSS CARRYING. SO NOBODY QUALIFY TO MEDIATE ON MARRIAGE EXCEPT GOD D AUTHOR OF D MARRIAGE.
@crypticcyril8005 Жыл бұрын
@@alinayili2199 What context of the text echoes "Open Mindedness"? This is the case of a woman that dispays an attitude that is horrifyingly reprehensible and I should expect a very objective analysis of the case at hand. Did you see the body language of the woman while the man spoke on the antecedents that led to them being in court?
@crypticcyril8005 Жыл бұрын
How delightfully paradoxical that the "Plaintiff" was indeed the culprit. @Lola.The double standard is so palpable and I know that many women were disappointed with the man, hoping that he was indeed the violent one. You had no room to vilify the plaintiff "Emma Bello" , and all you could speak on was how they were able to articulate their point(s), even though it was clear that the gentle man, with an unstintingly remarkable demeanour, was effortless in his diction and with his choice of words. My point is that you would have sponsored an uprising if the man was indeed the villain and "The me-too" gremlins will have all risen to the occasion, to literally scavenge on the man's soul. You are suddenly lost for words.
@amorkor4 Жыл бұрын
I am ashamed becos before the husband spoke I was cursing him. As soon as he spoke to tell his side I knew he was a good man. Yes he should move on with his life
@SkidCudi Жыл бұрын
This is why you have to listen to both sides of the story.
@vincentchike9579 Жыл бұрын
Exactly my advice to the man... Aggressive women can drain a man Financially and Physically.. talking out of experience
@amorkor4 Жыл бұрын
@@SkidCudi Exactly my point.
@easyware Жыл бұрын
Exactly! Before the man spoke, I was already very angry with him. Yes, we must always listen carefully to both sides of the story.
@yemifadipe7161 Жыл бұрын
Lol
@adeolaajibola3419 Жыл бұрын
This life no balance truly. Some women are virtuous women but just enduring their relationship. But this woman has her man but the man is the one enduring it
@queenethdike5182 Жыл бұрын
Whatever happened btw them as couples is their business, he is irresponsible for not taking care of his kids or seeing them periodt! Nothing to justify that
@bakareadekunle823611 ай бұрын
For every action you make, always think of the outcome eventually. This woman is a trouble on her own, it is obvious.
@philipogunmola9333 Жыл бұрын
when a good man is fed up, nothing anyone can do about it.
@teegoldakinsglobal4563 Жыл бұрын
My candid advise to the is that regardless...show your children love and be responsible.
@Advic77 Жыл бұрын
Peace is a very valuable asset. Everybody needs peace. *Note* my comment was written before I heard Oga Bello talk and he proved my comment right.
@gbemisolaolojo9256 Жыл бұрын
I laughed hard when Akin said Priscilla Ojo 😂,he must be a big fan of Priscy;Iyabo Ojo’s daughter
@taiwodamolalydia35 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@taiwodamolalydia35 Жыл бұрын
Pls do you know how I can locate justice court in Lagos
@Nafisa771 Жыл бұрын
@@taiwodamolalydia35 lol🤣🤣
@ayokunle9424 Жыл бұрын
Juggling between emotional display while speaking to get sympathy and signs of disgust and rage while he speaks says a lot. If you don't know what narcissistic behaviours are, you are not truly safe.
@Storessa1. Жыл бұрын
Please who is a narcissist and what are their character traits?
@chidinmaojigwe5825 Жыл бұрын
I noticed that as well. And she smirked all through.
@LucianaJacyOzy Жыл бұрын
God Bless You
@BeckEddie Жыл бұрын
@@Storessa1. do your research online.
@Storessa1. Жыл бұрын
@@BeckEddie please let me ayokunle reply me I know why I asked
@chikaijita1597 Жыл бұрын
Dis man sure say na him get d rest children too?..
@Talentdigitalhub Жыл бұрын
I'm also thinking 🤔🤔🤔
@dede9318 Жыл бұрын
Oh no. May he run far away from this woman and never look back. I even feel bad for him, he has to tolerate her until the kids are 18 years.
@gabrielpavel8846 Жыл бұрын
I'm telling you, you sometimes is just like to be single for life is better, from my observation here this lady has no good intentions towards this man
@femidivine4323 Жыл бұрын
No. The man can have their custody earlier than 18yrs old
@ZoeyBe26 күн бұрын
He doesn't have to o..m he can relate with his kids and not her
@christianchikwado7685 Жыл бұрын
Some women will make you run away even from your shadow. Seriously I fear Nigerian women.
@ChikaruthTv Жыл бұрын
Thank God you said some women Please don't fear us boss😫 we are nothing without Nigerian men😃
@anthoniaaniebor67985 ай бұрын
How about those decent woman with the fear of God, pls all women are not the same.
@christianchikwado76855 ай бұрын
@@anthoniaaniebor6798 and that is why I said some
@christianchikwado76855 ай бұрын
@@ChikaruthTv I did say some because I know it's not all
@Miracleozuluoha-v9v3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@seeplaceswithada4282 Жыл бұрын
This woman is a case oo jesus 😭 see soft spoken man, caring and a provider gosh
@gemcharles1587 Жыл бұрын
That lady might look all calm & collected...but I see a very violent & problematic person in her. The man has a commendable calm & humble demeanor. POV: In whatever you do, never settle with the wrong partner. Pray for Grace!! Kudos to Judge Funmi ❤️ Looking forward to part2 🤞🏽
@SkidCudi Жыл бұрын
They got married in Church 😂😂 if you are a child of God or believe in God why can't God reveal it to you
@bolajiabikoye2382 Жыл бұрын
The woman get issues ooooo.....
@bolajiabikoye2382 Жыл бұрын
Wonders shall never end....person see better man dey make issues. This man don try oooo
@bolajiabikoye2382 Жыл бұрын
I feel the man is regretting meeting the woman. What a sad story.
@ayodeleawoseye8297 Жыл бұрын
Pastor
@deanaWnelson Жыл бұрын
i have been in such a situation and i love my woman and unfortunately we separated about two years ago, but i could not let her go, so i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment of it, i could not let the love of my life go
@deanaWnelson Жыл бұрын
@Philip C Carpentier Here, Sylvia Regina White, she is a great spiritual adviser who can bring back your ex. lookher up, youll find her website
@julietwasih1656 Жыл бұрын
Congratulations sir
@alextmichaelmoji5101 Жыл бұрын
@@julietwasih1656ok
@davidamen7747 Жыл бұрын
@@deanaWnelson scammer 😂😂😂😂😂
@johnjennifer2387 Жыл бұрын
He needs a DNA please, all i can see in her is narcissistic behavior.
@hlengiwemasondo2858 Жыл бұрын
Lol 😆 I thought the same , I know a story like this and it turned out the woman committed paternity court.
@JulyMediaTV7 ай бұрын
Exactly my view. The woman is evil. The man is very weak.
@okeifeugochukwu798820 күн бұрын
bad behaviour indeed
@ShiikaneTv Жыл бұрын
Even if the woman is problematic as he claims, that is not a good enough excuse to neglect your kids! Judge Funmi will correct him next episode!
@princeemmanuel2544 Жыл бұрын
How are we even sure...the kids are his....
@mengndzevitalis2742 Жыл бұрын
you don't know violent women who want to use kids to nail a man down
@priceelesslove8846 Жыл бұрын
@@princeemmanuel2544 but they is not prove yet , that the kids are not his. And he never denied the kids. So why will he abandon them?
@Storessa1. Жыл бұрын
Please don't judge him for abandoning the kids,we may not know what he may be passing through
@annabellasergey9482 Жыл бұрын
No let her hear you o...🤣
@Pearl916 Жыл бұрын
Now I understand why the Bible says " it is better to live alone in the corner of the roof than live with a quarrelsome wife in a mansion " Proverbs 25:24
@alabisundayakinlabi3897 Жыл бұрын
wrong verse aunty
@israelagbeja9348 Жыл бұрын
You're so on point! The Bible is so so complete.
@Pearl916 Жыл бұрын
@@alabisundayakinlabi3897 Edited, thanks for the correction 🙏🏽
@abdulaikoroma1604 Жыл бұрын
I think the guy is a peaceful and humble guy she drove him away and when a man back's up they back up for real
@heldkanyurira8048 Жыл бұрын
Thanks dear for preaching
@victoriaalabi8496 Жыл бұрын
The man knew that the only weapon the woman wants to use against him is the kids.He had to set his mind free from the kids to protect himself from this manipulative woman otherwise he would never be free from her wicked shackles.He loves his kids. But he must live first!!!!!!
@ericgreg7681 Жыл бұрын
If it were those days the children will always be in their father's side while the mother will be visiting... My dad/mom separated when we're very tender (4, 6,9yrs old) and three of us was moved to father's side while our mom used to visit us. What a terrible moment though 😭😭😭 and I don't pray that any child should experience it.
@nwoluoluchi109 Жыл бұрын
Your mum didn't go to court cos she had no money....
@ericgreg7681 Жыл бұрын
@@nwoluoluchi109 those days nothing like that dear
@currenttrendtv89208 күн бұрын
The woman needs deliverance
@annabellasergey9482 Жыл бұрын
Courtship in relationship is as important as marriage NEVER ignored signs if you can't manage courtship you are 99% likely not going to manage your marriage...
@nebochukwuemeka3152 Жыл бұрын
But women can hide there character at that stage, you can easily know a man during courtship.
@careeyam8873 Жыл бұрын
The Lady is collected as well and seem to be calm even when the man was explaining his side of the story. Please takecare of your kids
@haziri5118 Жыл бұрын
Lol it was very difficult for her. I could tell from her body language.
@margaretdaniel5878 Жыл бұрын
Is always good to hear from both side
@mosespromise758 Жыл бұрын
That man is a good man. God bless you judge funmi
@Abrahamseed Жыл бұрын
Perfect place to make peace ✌️
@lite2323 Жыл бұрын
It's good to listen to the two people o. This man has been through alot. Chai
@christianndubuisi8433 Жыл бұрын
The body language of that woman justified the man's statement. The woman onws the man a lot of honour for ever accepting her with a son that's not his biological child. If the woman is not problematic, I believe there wouldn't be any cause for alarm.
@omanoyeedum22 Жыл бұрын
Was he force to marry her with a son?
@ibehsamcynthiaifeanyi18888 ай бұрын
The man is a good person I must tell you,well it's a lesson to my kind of person
@tolagee1497 Жыл бұрын
Alot of people here won't understand what the man is going through. Immediately you marry a wrong partner....boom your hell start here on earth
@queenkuty1221 Жыл бұрын
She beat someone's child and mistreated them!!!!!??? She deserves what she gets
@ronniebalogun6440 Жыл бұрын
There IS Always two sides to a story.. I started hating on the man when She gave her own verdict... NOW SEE all he said 🙄
@okwudiemmanuel3666 Жыл бұрын
A coin has 2 sides
@nwoluoluchi109 Жыл бұрын
Whatever he says he MUST pay school fees
@dickjustus5 ай бұрын
This guy is a calmed guy I like him
@eberekoko1858 Жыл бұрын
Mrs Bello needs to go for anger management workshop. I pray her husband forgives her because he has already had enough.
@okekechukwudi1475 Жыл бұрын
Forgive who? Just dey play, he has already shoot himself in the foot by marrying a single mother and forgiving her cheating ass something he shouldn't have done. Any man that forgive a cheating woman will have himself to blame
@taiwodaniel541121 күн бұрын
Wow.. this is serious. May God give us happy home.
@chineduchristianonwukwe5754 Жыл бұрын
My brother run ooo run ooo
@richieabdul8233 Жыл бұрын
Calm couples in speech but only God knows how their tolerance cycle is. But I think judge funmi is doing a great job.
@henriettaemoekabu285 Жыл бұрын
I understand how it may not be fair that the children are affected but this man is severely traumatised by this woman that he is willing to avoid her by all means. He said her phone number gives him bad memories, that's a sign of severe trauma and that was totally disregarded in this proceeding. I feel so much for this man eventhough I blame him for staying to the point where he became traumatised. He should have left at the first sight of violence, someone is violent and you still decided to marry her.
@PepTalkTillYouDrop Жыл бұрын
Family members probably confused him. Recall when he said a family member joked that their problems stemmed from their union not being legalized which prompted him to do a church wedding but the lady picked a fight on their way back from the wedding?
@victormathiasthompson262327 күн бұрын
Just imagine hearing this woman's story alone without hearing from the man...😅😅
@favourgodisgreatcoolbreeze5034 Жыл бұрын
See, I know the woman may have her own bad side. But as a man and a father too. He doesn't have to abandon his children because of the woman's bad behavior. If he doesn't want the woman fine. No one is forcing him. But, he has to stand up for his responsibility for his own children as a father. I trust ma-ma funmi she will correct him on that same in the next episode.
@autodesk_empire Жыл бұрын
So he doesn't stand for his responsibility yet he accepts her other child and support her in the first place. Continue....
@Naijanest Жыл бұрын
If the woman is taking advantage of the situation to Syphon money from the man. It's annoying
@temitopejulius5956 Жыл бұрын
Like u ar using 1 percentage to reason in this matter, or is that the way you are
@olagokeolayiwola8111 Жыл бұрын
Ure obviously one of the problems of this world. When you can’t just say the truth.
@godsfavoursaint5055 Жыл бұрын
This case is different oh, see its better to stay at the corner of the roof than to stay with a contentious & trouble some woman. There's no man that will stay with you with you are troublesome
@eziunormokwunyei750611 ай бұрын
I love the man’s eloquence 💋💋
@gladysuchenna-nwanedo Жыл бұрын
This is a hard one, but the man is more believable than the lady. The worst thing is to marry a narcissist. The trauma alone is mind addling.
@jeremiahiro7418 Жыл бұрын
Oh, you are so on point. This is that point where they say we should forget about their past. We need to know what happened in her first marriage or situationship
@nnamdigifted5789 Жыл бұрын
The man is believable because he is a man 🙄
@Storessa1. Жыл бұрын
Please explain who a narcissist is in your own terms?
@aaa-pp Жыл бұрын
@@nnamdigifted5789 This is the problem with Nigeria, it's a misogynisgtic society. Men are put on a pedestal. How can you make such an ignorant statement, "men don't lie".
@prinasblendempire1633 Жыл бұрын
@@aaa-pp madam this is the problem with us women, we see the truth and claim ignorance, how is it possible for her to move when the rent has not expired, and also said she is scared he will relocate them to his village, did you not see the lies she blows
@nwachukwukenneth8262 Жыл бұрын
See how she started with "🥺🥺🥺 your lordship and he did this and that" damn...obiriiiinn
@alexlouis9424 Жыл бұрын
The way she first petitioned her case as if she was innocent.
@eziunormokwunyei750611 ай бұрын
I swear 😂😂
@preciousedet32592 ай бұрын
Short people and hot temper
@princeemmanuel2544 Жыл бұрын
i know her type...the need DNA to even confirm those children....
@adejiifeanyi5825 Жыл бұрын
God bless you judge for your great widom
@princeduru1050 Жыл бұрын
I can really relate to this story, the woman loves the man and the man loves the children. It's not easy to talk to such a woman, she has manipulative character. The man is going thru a lot
@michaelmichael5390 Жыл бұрын
She looks like ogbanje lady with many ways to make trouble while this man is a complete gentle man that he's totally tired of her ogbanje characters.
@mengndzevitalis2742 Жыл бұрын
@@michaelmichael5390 hahahahah
@kogsysugarcraftcenter8252 Жыл бұрын
He has no excuse about duty of care to his children. That is wilful neglect😢
@knix9014 Жыл бұрын
@@kogsysugarcraftcenter8252 but if it was the other way around She as an excuse abi ...double standard
@digipixphotography2741 Жыл бұрын
She doesn't love him pls. This man has gone thru alot, how many men can tolerate a cheating wife? A wife that can lock her husband out of his own house? Let him do a DNA test n take care of his biological children, cos I'm sure some are not his.
@faithnkiru3607 Жыл бұрын
Oh Lord give this innocent man peace of mind, women! Women!! Women!!! Una matter dey God ✋
@ibrahimdidamson2067 Жыл бұрын
From my personal opinion, and base on the testimony from the couples, the woman does not deserve this man. The man is too soft and gentle hence she took advantage of that to live the type of life she want. Sad!😔
@oluwaseyeige197 Жыл бұрын
I embrace the views of the judge.
@olusegunekundayo5955 Жыл бұрын
Mere looking at her face one would know she is contentious and confrontational.they love taking advantage of a gentleman.
@УАо-ж1ш Жыл бұрын
That lady with gold short hair always present In court....her facial expression tho😆
@rachaelogunleye4603 Жыл бұрын
As much as I sympathise with this man, he should NEVER have deserted his children including his step son. So sad when marriages don't work, there's a lot more to this story, you can't understand in one sitting, people shouldn't be too quick to judge.
@rachaelogunleye4603 Жыл бұрын
@@Ceedee824 You might have missed out on the part where they said the child now bears his name, if he adopted the child, that's his responsibility now. You don't have to be the father to have responsibility over a child. There's nothing wrong with marrying a woman with a child, he knew she had a child when he married her.
@jiddec Жыл бұрын
@@Ceedee824 Raising an innocent child is not mumu.
@moujekwuemmanuel6162 Жыл бұрын
Say no to single mother men no go hear...they are bitter and narcissistic in nature u sound like one
@Cruise4travelling9 күн бұрын
A very good measure to ensure balancing in every sector
@evangproofmediatv Жыл бұрын
Men still gat blamed for most of the issues in marriages. This is one of the issues we go through, especially when getting in relationships with single mothers. Good job JC. Keep the Legal Sanitations going mam
@MarthaOmai2 ай бұрын
So sorry my brother, let her go for deliverance, and she needs to know God for herself.
@gisehernandez5634 Жыл бұрын
The plaintiff is a typical angry mother. Just how she stands, chewing gum in the court shows lack of respect. I know the defendant is frustrated. He should seek a lawyer to organize the upkeep for the kids should be done. I pray the kids make something of their lives or are able to live with their father eventually.
@jennyb5721 Жыл бұрын
I see no evidence of her being angry or chewing gum I think you are mistaken
@Mimi-mo9lj5 ай бұрын
This man seems to be telling the truth, i even feel sorry for him
@sharafolawale9083 Жыл бұрын
From her action, The lady is violent. Chief move on, just try and provide for your kids. That lady is not a wife material, someone that gave your son his surname. You are still abusing him.
@alinayili2199 Жыл бұрын
Really? Is he Father material, just giving someone a name is something to write home about? After not seeing them for over a year and fine about it. Why is he not the one in court to compel the woman to allow him see them? Thank God u r not a judge, passing judgement without hearing the substance of the case
@easyware Жыл бұрын
@@alinayili2199 "just giving someone a name is something to write home about?" He took care of the boy and paid for his upkeep even before he started dating the woman... even when the boy's biological father didn't care to do it. yes, he should have fought more to see his children. On that he shares some blame. But it's quite clear that the bulk of the blame for the failing of the family falls on that woman.
@hakeemojikutu2015 Жыл бұрын
I wonder oooo
@alinayili2199 Жыл бұрын
@@easyware it seems u won't have taken care of another fella? I don't know the people u mingle with cos u r standing on him accepting the child as some big. Well it's not, from my circle, we take care of people without any possible benefits eg sex with the woman. A judge is someone who has heard from both sides, asked questions, with a whim to spot liars etc. He/ she doesn't bring personal sentiments. That's why God is a Judge. He is seen all and knows the heart that is the intent .
@bihngwee4069 Жыл бұрын
Paternity test should be done on all the kids before any next step.
@georgewilliam627719 күн бұрын
They will act like d victim till u hear from the man
@betikuvictor409 Жыл бұрын
Justice funmi should make this more of a conversation after getting the full story behind the scene so that we the viewers can get the full story also. It feels like an incomplete story because the plaintiff didn't get to defend her story
@isashina21505 ай бұрын
this man is too learned for this lady
@judeobanor8756 Жыл бұрын
I see a man who left all the love of his children with his wife,they are closer to her, she's turning them against him ..
@lightweightentertainment77478 ай бұрын
Thank God they Will watch this video when they grow up
@davedeluxe6196 Жыл бұрын
Always vet people properly before allowing them into your life!
@vincentchike9579 Жыл бұрын
This reminds me of my previous relationship, so much violence from this lady... she poured me hot water burnt my clothes and many things I may not be able to type here, we have 2 beautiful kids together.. it got to a point I could not bear it anymore, i even went to LEAN ON ME radio program in abuja to know if i could get a solution😂😂😂😂😂 all efforts failed.. To cut the long story short I left the house with few of my clothes and never returned... YES she later wanted reconciliation and also wanted to rope me with the kids BUT my brother “Vuuuuum dey say, is better than statement”... I have moved on and not looking back, I’m happily married today, when my kids grown if they feel they want to come back I will welcome them but going to court and human rights again with my EX is a big NO!..
@alinayili2199 Жыл бұрын
Your story at the end is sad, does it mean you don't care of the children cos of their mother? If you are in their life, they won't have to feel like, when they become big people, will u still say that? Nothing is predictable in life, anything can happen, there's no guarantee your new children will be better off than the old ones. We hope she will not bring you for us to watch on the Justice Court.
@edmundokojie6781 Жыл бұрын
But you owe your children responsibility of care and education.
@debbiebalogun8803 Жыл бұрын
*"She wanted to rope me with the kids" Aren't they your kids???* 👀
@vincentchike9579 Жыл бұрын
@@alinayili2199 I tried taking care of the children but her troubles won’t let me, she was using the children against me and I still wish to take care of them but this lady breaths trouble, we can’t even have a phone convo without her insulting me, the last time i saw some nice OKIRIKA CLOTHES and decided to buy for them she poured the clothes on me that I bought nonsense for them to wear and ended up tearing my cloth(top)... that was the last day I used my money in buying anything for them..... and for the kids if they even become Elon Musk tomorrow its not my business, my concern now is way forward.. thanks!
@vincentchike9579 Жыл бұрын
@@edmundokojie6781 YES SURE.. If their mother permits me in peace I’m capable, they are my kids I LOVE THEM but I can’t my ex’es drama
@nwububrichard847011 ай бұрын
More GRACE to the judge, who is lying now
@Talentdigitalhub Жыл бұрын
My suggestion is, Please the court should help this man with the DNA test for the children. This lady is something else o. We from the northern part of Nigeria people always take advantage of us because we're calm. They think they are wiser, even in offices it's the same. Please the honorable judge Fumi. Your honor Ma, help this man he had suffered in the hand of this ungrateful woman. Not because he's from the North like me, but let justice be done we all deserve justice. Thanks 🙏🙏
@olatejufaidatmuchloveigatf7426 Жыл бұрын
I concur
@blessedwoman9274 Жыл бұрын
Definitely...
@samallyhvac3119 Жыл бұрын
Is like you don't know what you're talking about My wife of 9yrs still sleep around with her EX the nigga is frm KD She's from Borno state while am Yoruba by tribe It boil down to individual Pls stop the hate speech
@smoothietalkwithsosa Жыл бұрын
Please don't bring tribe into this. Nobody thinks they're wiser than others just because they're from the north. What has tribalism got to do with this topic now? If I tell you how mean northern people have been to me, you wouldn't even be talking here. Doesn't still mean I'll go about saying people from the North are mean.
@LucianaJacyOzy Жыл бұрын
Lol. You're taking tribalism into it already. Evil people are everywhere just as calm people are from every tribe.