as a south african viewer, he genuinely ISNT being controlling he is trying to protect her from men down here because the SA cases down here are astonishing
@hospitable_ghost Жыл бұрын
We're pretending it can't be both??
@claudettelol Жыл бұрын
@hospitable_ghost could be, but i don't think you would understand till you lived here
@kelly8107 Жыл бұрын
Honestly, in certain parts of the U.S. people will look at you like you're crazy. She looks trifling.
@stephaniegreen5306 Жыл бұрын
I totally agree , fellow South Africa Herr from Athlone and yes unfortunately what you wear makes you a target especially in areas where it is dangerous .stay safe out there girls 😔
@JellyBean-hb7cj11 ай бұрын
💯
@ItsAmandacS Жыл бұрын
As a South African, I had a proper chuckle at the aircon situation 😂 BOLD of her to assume that the government can actually provide electricity to the whole country on a continuous basis 😂😂 for the first half of this year we didn't have electricity for at least 12 hours most days 😂 On a more serious note, South Africa is dangerous when people from other parts of rhe world compare. But to us robberies break-ins, electric fences, alarm systems security gates, burglar bars, motion beams etc etc is just every day life tbh. It's quite eye opening to see people's comments on what, for us, is the norm 🥲
@stellag4301 Жыл бұрын
Seems to becoming a norm for most anywhere nowadays…🤷
@peacelover2767 Жыл бұрын
12 hours without electricity? Where do you live? Because where I'm at it was 6 hours max.
@peacelover2767 Жыл бұрын
12 hours without electricity? Where do you live? Because where I'm at it was 6 hours max.
@NomadicSheep01 Жыл бұрын
As a fellow South African i can agree with this comment.
@MrWood-qd6kr Жыл бұрын
Yeah, Americans, especially American women, have a hard time grasping reality for MOST of the world.
@Speleomimus Жыл бұрын
She is not all there. This woman carries herself like a spoiled teen and her lack of awareness and savvy could see her get into dire trouble in a place like SA
@stellag4301 Жыл бұрын
Yep…exactly. You’re not in America anymore ToTo…
@imacarguy4065 Жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯
@Julia36D Жыл бұрын
She’s one hundred percent on something.
@danasandoval624 Жыл бұрын
@@Julia36DI wondered that too!
@melissamorales9449 Жыл бұрын
@@Julia36D I totally agree. She seems like she’s strung out all the time.
@xtelevat0rsx Жыл бұрын
I knew she was batshit insane when she said 400k isn’t that much in US money for a place to live. Sis, most of us can barely make rent let alone even think of buying a home.
@lijo4518 Жыл бұрын
Yup this chick is Coocoo for cocoa puffs 🤣
@skontheroad11 ай бұрын
Yes. But she was speaking about buying a home, and was therefore referencing the housing market for those who own.
@BronnyJames2025MVP11 ай бұрын
That’s about the average now which is completely insane. It was $250,000 just 3 years ago. 64% of Americans can’t even come up with $400 dollars for an emergency. The top 0.1% have 90% of all our wealth. Because neoliberalism capitalism is working so good. 👎🏻
@kraftmacaroniandbeez Жыл бұрын
that crypto bout as safe as his house 😂
@katherine4283 Жыл бұрын
Crypto money is NOT real money
@she_sings_delightful_things Жыл бұрын
HA!!
@KNByam Жыл бұрын
@katherine4283 People are idiots. If crypto was so valuable then why do people exchange it for dollars. It's just a way to make money off of a hippie fad.
@writerchik44 Жыл бұрын
😅😅😅
@staceyshere Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@thisbelitha Жыл бұрын
South African woman here. My personal take on him policing her outfit here is that he's pumping up a real issue of GBV and using it as a blanket to hide his insecurity and controlling tendencies.
@AdaAdaAdanna Жыл бұрын
That was my thinking too. He's definitely insecure and using that as an excuse to control her. It's sad that she actually believes it.
@habeashumor9814 Жыл бұрын
Same! (I'm not in SA, but that's totally what it seems like)
@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI Жыл бұрын
To all the Passport Bros, HERE IS THE EVIDENCE!!! The modern woman is all over the world. What these South African modern women heard and saw was "insecurity" and "controlling" on the man's part. PLEASE SAVE YOUR MONEY ON THOSE PASSPORTS. No man ON EARTH wants his lady to dress like that!!!
@Speleomimus Жыл бұрын
So its safe for her to walk around his neighborhood? She can wear what she wants and it won't lead to any trouble? Even tho he dresses normal and has been robbed several times?
@thisdrinkinglife Жыл бұрын
GBV? In English? Tsk
@annaelisavettavonnedozza9607 Жыл бұрын
As funny as you are, you’re also surprisingly vulnerable w/us. Like the ac story or the time you opened up about how you used to feel about other women’s looks. It makes your channel more than just hilarious-It gives your channel depth & warmth as well. Ok corny I know, I’ll stop now 😂❤
@TylerNarwhal Жыл бұрын
You’re so right! Thank you for saying the words that I couldn’t think of 😩🫶🏼
@RiotMonster Жыл бұрын
This tho! Like wow she made me start caring about this lil shit-talking potato person lol 🥔
@kinley.-. Жыл бұрын
I love her for this! She’s honestly probably my favorite KZbinr 🥺🖤
@Little_Devotchka Жыл бұрын
I agree!!❤❤❤
@crystalstimmell1596 Жыл бұрын
Right???? I feel so comfortable and welcome here especially reading the comments 😂 I FOUND MY PEOPLE!!
@BudduredToast Жыл бұрын
South African woman here. Yeah, it's pretty dangerous, and you have to keep your wits about you. But it's not really a clothing thing, in my opinion. I'd say being foreign and being clearly very clueless are what would put the target on her back. He just wants to control her. He's clearly super possessive.
@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI Жыл бұрын
Control her? Wow...
@yazooy3860 Жыл бұрын
@@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZIdon’t even argue with her lol most of these women’s are programmed to see everything as being controlled. They don’t have any other excuse to be hoes. Then they get mad when men approach them a specific way. I’m sorry aren’t you the one presenting yourself like a ho??? Women want so much shit from men now in days like bish wtf do you bring to the table?
@katia1044 Жыл бұрын
girl she dresses like a street walker….. and since she is religious she should be a bit more modest.Her mom (chaperone) should have advised her of that
@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI Жыл бұрын
@@katia1044 Finally, a woman with some sense.
@SoSoSteph Жыл бұрын
Very covert with the control
@yen_manz Жыл бұрын
A viewer from South Africa - it is very dangerous. It’s got nothing to do with what you wear though. Think he is using that as an excuse.
@habeashumor9814 Жыл бұрын
This seems to be the consensus, which totally is what I expected to hear.
@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI Жыл бұрын
@@habeashumor9814No consensus. Just modern women... Please ask the men.
@tez228 Жыл бұрын
@@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZIget a grip!
@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI Жыл бұрын
@@tez228 gripping...
@truecrimefan1433 Жыл бұрын
@@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI😂incel
@Janebunni25 Жыл бұрын
Even if I'm not interested in the show I still watch your recaps. 😂😂 Always so funny bestie
@Amandy36 Жыл бұрын
I've never watched any of these shows but these recaps are my jam too lol
@ProfessionalPUNKER Жыл бұрын
@@Amandy36omg sameeeeee I thought I was the only one 😂
@Alejaccx Жыл бұрын
X2
@snooganslestat2030 Жыл бұрын
I haven't watched the last few series of 90d but i still watch the recaps here lol.
@daswookie79 Жыл бұрын
I wonder if his business suddenly dried up just as she was making her way to South Africa, or if it was already struggling and he just wasn’t honest with her
@Cherish1056 Жыл бұрын
Honestly the economy is on its knees. The taxes for people are high. For businesses the taxes are very high. Also too many regulations. It's not a good environment for businesses at the moment. Many businesses are closing in certain parts of the country so yes it's very possible that the business is now suffering
@1_star_reviews Жыл бұрын
I’m thinking WTH, why did he allow her to move down there if he knew he was financially struggling? He seems to be a little dishonest
@Cherish1056 Жыл бұрын
@DaisyAppleJuice why did she get on a plane at 44 with no money of her own and not do her research? 44 is old to be so naive and reckless. If she was 22 then we could blame him but at 44 she must take responsibility for her own actions... just my thoughts
@R.O.T.C._SEEM Жыл бұрын
Maybe he was just testing her and she failed
@1_star_reviews Жыл бұрын
@@Cherish1056 According to this clip, they both had 40k saved and she spent 5k on her tickets there. Doesn’t seem like she didn’t have any money to me. However I don’t watch the show but from this clip it’s really shady of him to use money which she thought was for their honeymoon on crypto. Everyone with sense knows that’s the most high risk investment in all of investing. It’s time for her to leave and never look back. These American and White South African relationships never work out, due to money issues because what we Americans deem small amounts of money is large amounts of money to South Africans. 400k is normal housing cost in the US but he looked at her like she was crazy when she suggested that they spend that amount on a house. Lil Sis needs to come home like yesterday.
@lelaniadriaanse7552 Жыл бұрын
As a South African woman, where the murder rate for woman are like 4 times higher than in the rest of the world, it's really dangerous for a woman in the country. However, many woman in my country dress the same way Holly does, and although I understand where Wayne is coming from, I don't think Holly's clothing should be an issue. He should explain and ease her into how dangerous and how vigilant she needs to be in South Africa.
@Emihle_Cassie_Mhlongo04 Жыл бұрын
On point ❤
@lainedoss2734 Жыл бұрын
Why is she a red flag when she wants a safe home and he lied to her about his finances? I'd be OUT
@xletragedyx Жыл бұрын
I don't like her personality but he's constantly lying and that's the biggest red flag. He even lied admit her mom staying with them. Where's she supposed to stay?
@dhglowlightblue Жыл бұрын
Ikr…she’s a weirdo for sure, but he’s definitely more sus. I feel like he might have lied to her about his financial stability to get her to move in with him… 😅
@SeminarioMAE Жыл бұрын
because she's 50 and behaves like a 13 year old
@themysticwarriorgal946511 ай бұрын
@@SeminarioMAEshes not 50
@BronnyJames2025MVP11 ай бұрын
He shouldn’t have lied, but she’s also a loser for not being able to afford her own home.
@kaytunes8487 Жыл бұрын
Poh, I am wearing very short shorts right now in Johannesburg at 21:40PM, and I was out to buy pizza. I am perfectly safe. We take precuations, but Wayne blew things out of proportion to ensure he has control.
@basically2956 Жыл бұрын
She says that she paid $5K fOr hEr dReSs aNd fLiGhT! 😂 But $400,000 isn’t *that much.
@Jessica-jl2cy Жыл бұрын
As a South African, I think it's a big misconception that it's dangerous everywhere. It heavily depends on where you are. Where I am, people literally sleep on the grass in community parks during the day and they're perfectly safe. Also, only 3% of our population carry a gun on them, which when compared to America, is a major difference. Honestly, aircon is expensive, but we manage. People often see so much negative in South Africa, but I feel like we still have so much to be greatful about. We have such a friendly (and funny) population, we don't have terrorism as a major concern, we have a good education system... Small things like that make life much better here. I love standing in a queue at checkers and having someone speak to me about how irritated they are with the service 😂
@SeminarioMAE Жыл бұрын
South Africa sounds like paradise!
@yikesyourchunkyhostilityha2321 Жыл бұрын
You know...its okay to not know things. Sounding like a spoiled brat isn't "oh I didn't know other people were going through these things." Sounding like a privileged spoiled brat would be when you know and you reprimand those who can't afford it for not getting a better job or living in a better place. Or look down on those who don't know like you're better than everyone Don't feel bad for not knowing something. Ignorance is human. Bigotry is not.
@tiffanykim2773 Жыл бұрын
good point
@Mo-vu7jc Жыл бұрын
I like to think that it's how we react to and process new information or how we process finding out that we were ignorant or wrong that says so much more about a person's heart than the initial ignorance could ever say.
@cremebrulee4759 Жыл бұрын
If you going to move to another country, it's not smart to not to do some research and understand what you're moving to.
@antoinettenyuurnibe3302 Жыл бұрын
@cremebrulee4759 Exactly. Unfortunately, many people refuse to do this.
@unbeknownst2mee929 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely but in this day and age people like to shame or make you feel stupid for not knowing something
@Mvjesty23 Жыл бұрын
This couple makes me so mad. There are just so many reasons, I can’t list them all.
@sesimakoya Жыл бұрын
If there’s one thing I’ve learned about living in South Africa, the more you put many security things around your house is the more you’ll attract thugs. 🤞 If you look like you’re protecting gold inside your house you’re literally the perfect target market 😮💨😂😂
@yamomma8560 Жыл бұрын
no literally 😂😂 i’m from dominican republic and it’s the same , and when my family go we don’t speak english in public and have our phones put away, no jewelry they ruthless
@laurenr9659 Жыл бұрын
Does Holly even own a home? Providing for you doesn't mean demand a life you're not even used to living. And was Wayne really at a point where he could afford a home that expensive? I would think that if so, he'd had lived in a safer area.
@elenaaleksandrova9460 Жыл бұрын
Totally agree with you! She acts like a Disney princess with no reasons.
@lemonmuffin2656 Жыл бұрын
I think this is a sign for her to get out of this relationship
@Vudux Жыл бұрын
I agreed he should have talked to her about the financial problems about where he put his money at but at the same time I feel like she needs to go back to the US and find her American man because if a man cannot provide for a woman then why should be with him? him
@memyselfni3474 Жыл бұрын
@@Vuduxbut I thought we were equal now?😂
@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI Жыл бұрын
@@memyselfni3474modern women... LMAO
@lavenderlovee Жыл бұрын
@@VuduxExactly. Men nowadays don't wanna be men. Bunch of 😺s Only want "equality" when it benefits them, just to gaslight without understanding a damn thing 😂
@R.O.T.C._SEEM Жыл бұрын
@@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZIExactly all they looking for is a meal ticket. The moment she found out he was hurting for money she bailed.
@rachaelwhelchel8176 Жыл бұрын
I used to live in a big house. And people would crawl through the window all the time. It just got to where i didn't care if people tried to rob me. I generally just hollered at them and said "hope you brought a gun, this isn't a knife fight." They would scurry out the window. One even fell out of the window trying to run away.
@nataliemesbah1639 Жыл бұрын
😂 I love what you’d yell!😂
@tayla1234 Жыл бұрын
🤣
@docfabz Жыл бұрын
That's scary, glad you were able to defend yourself. Where was the house located?
@rachaelwhelchel8176 Жыл бұрын
@@docfabz Springdale Arkansas
@almostclintnewton847811 ай бұрын
One thing about robbers is that they're scared shitless like 70% of the time. A solid threat like what you did tends to do the trick. Love the bravado!
@miraclemay24 Жыл бұрын
As a South African she should go to the gym... run at your own risk... gyms are the safest places to be. Air Conditioners are available but it's very expensive on your electricity bill. Personally I don't like AC it closes my nose. I was in the US last month and I couldn't stand the AC everywhere 😅😅
@stellag4301 Жыл бұрын
Ummm…where you in the Southern part of the U.S…in the summer heat??
@miraclemay24 Жыл бұрын
@@stellag4301 Minnesota.. it wasn't hot at all. It's not in the Southern part I think. But it wasnt hot though but the AC was soooooo cold
@1_star_reviews Жыл бұрын
@@miraclemay24Minnesota has mild summers, they should be using the ac sparingly. Minnesota borders Canada which is an attic tundra.
@chesnay1222 Жыл бұрын
@@MonicaO920TRIPLE digits??
@chesnay1222 Жыл бұрын
@@MonicaO920oh nvm, I just realised you’re not speaking about degrees Celcius 😅
@sarahh2072 Жыл бұрын
I dont think they should be together. He can't provide a safe home for her and she's uncomfortable living in south Africa period. She wants the US experience in another country but she's not going to get it and she won't get it until someone attacks her sadly. She needs to just go home
@stellag4301 Жыл бұрын
Exactly 👍
@Cherish1056 Жыл бұрын
If she wants to live safely in SA that requires money to live in estates or gated communities or they have to move to a different province (state) in SA that is safe. She can get the US experience but it requires money to get that here.
@trashhbeast6090 Жыл бұрын
it also requires money in the us to live in gated communities
@stellag4301 Жыл бұрын
@@trashhbeast6090 Yes it does…a lot of money…
@ladytee43 Жыл бұрын
As a South African woman I can confirm that it is dangerous but Wayne is grossly exaggerating things. He's leaning into the danger factor as a means to control her and what she wears, period!
@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI Жыл бұрын
You are wrong, Sisi.
@katsthename989 Жыл бұрын
It's nice to hear opinions from South African women because I couldn't tell if what he was saying was totally true or not. I understand the need to be careful with what you wear, but at the same time if someone wants to hurt you they're going to hurt you no matter the type of clothing you're wearing.
@ladytee43 Жыл бұрын
@@katsthename989 you're absolutely right
@calyl Жыл бұрын
you are the cutest Po! your personality just warms my heart! thank you for being you Po! love the recap! aren't they in their 40s? how are their communication skills be so sucky?
@tammi8542 Жыл бұрын
That electric fence looked like the one on Jurassic Park, to keep the T-Rex contained. 😂
@honeyGg7 Жыл бұрын
😄 I thot the same!
@cherylarshaluys6079 Жыл бұрын
😂
@bubblegumrose777 Жыл бұрын
It didn’t help them either.
@phoenixluna4137 Жыл бұрын
Just because Wayne told her not to dress like a ho or to be more aware od her surroundings, doesnt make him controlling. He is looking out for the dumb girl because she's the type to walk into a dangerous situation and act like she didnt know what was happening.
@Its-Mrs-Ladd Жыл бұрын
I feel like Holly is extremely childish and very unaware of the fact that she literally came to South Africa with NOTHING to offer. She clearly doesn't have some big savings account of her own, which is why she's so insistent on him providing for her. She's also 44 yrs old, not 24, so she doesn't have the luxury of landing some rich man and bringing nothing to the table herself. At 44 years old I don't understand why in the world she brought her mom along with her for a multi month stay and if she knew she couldn't feel safe and comfortable in his current home why did she move there?? I also still feel like she's on drugs.
@taylorcarson8893 Жыл бұрын
I think there's some type of addiction issue too, I think the mom came along to chaperone because they're Jehovah witnesses and it has something to do with their religion
@CourtneyTiara Жыл бұрын
The scowl in your picture goes perfectly with this comment 😭😂
@RaccoonNation Жыл бұрын
Who remembers when Holly said she goes running.. AT MIDNIGHT… THROUGH THE GRAVEYARD. This may be why Wayne became a little uncomfortable about her running at night 😅
@stellag4301 Жыл бұрын
Just shows the woman is another looney tune…
@traceyarnaud8433 Жыл бұрын
That’s sounds like something she’d do. 😑
@captainlarrynosleepfishing5350 Жыл бұрын
I don’t think she goes out during the day because she’s so pale. Running at night to the cemetery? Wow 😳
@staceyshere Жыл бұрын
She’s nuts for that. A graveyard??? I thought graveyards are closed at night??
@danasandoval624 Жыл бұрын
@@staceyshereshe probably crawls over the fence.
@pinkrebellionxyz1567 Жыл бұрын
I’m not from South Africa but I am South African, I’ve heard many stories from my mum, ouma and aunties, cousins that it’s so dangerous for women and they’ll kidnap you broad daylight. I was talking with this woman on the train that had to help her sister who was literally being kidnapped in front of her mid conversation on the beach. It’s a beautiful country but it’s tarnished by the dangers. Nearly every household has to have a guard dog or 3 to protect their family. Our family has dogs too. There are shootings outside the house it’s terrible
@kaytunes8487 Жыл бұрын
I have lived here 43 years of my life, and yet to see this. Yes there is crime but people are not being snatched mid conversation anywhere. I currently live in Johannesburg, I've lived in Cape Town, Durban and the Eastern Cape. Travelles throughout the country. Even Paris has ghettos or places where people need to know their surroundings. I was more scared in America in Los Angeles because every place has a shady area. You all make it as if we live in a war zone, we live a really good life for a so called third world country.
@rubi815ify11 ай бұрын
Sounds like California 😂😂 as a teenager we knew if they pull up creeping and hop out leaving the doors open......bitch run cus the gorilla ( guerilla) pimps were out there at that time
@bellonaying3975 Жыл бұрын
Girl why you gotta post juicy shit when I’m in class lol
@mythots Жыл бұрын
hahahah pay attention
@roreo1612 Жыл бұрын
People who don’t have ACs adapted and can tolerate it better. We are privileged and fragile.
@Julia36D Жыл бұрын
The aircon commentary is funny. I’ve lived both in South Africa and in America. Honestly, when you don’t have a/c you just acclimatise to the weather. I live in Europe now and honestly I can’t stand sleeping with the a/c on and find my American friends and family blast it to ridiculous levels and they can’t cope when there’s no air conditioning. Just my two cents.
@JustKelso1993 Жыл бұрын
You have to take into account where people live too. I live in a high humidity area, it isn't the heat itself that is miserable but it is the humidity. It is the type of heat that you don't just get used to, it is miserable to everybody because you sweat immediately when you go outside. It has been 84 degrees in the gas station that I work at, in the kitchen it is higher than that and your forehead drowns in sweat, like your hair looks like you took a shower, it is gross. Lol
@YK-mn2nd Жыл бұрын
Sorry I don’t blame Holly, yes living in a gated community is not a super luxurious ask in SA!!! Its a safety issue. Also, he said he’d provide which is why she moved there. She’s better off returning to America while he figures things out.
@saneira Жыл бұрын
Yes, agreed! When Wayne said "I will provide for you" then Holly really should should have asked what he was providing lol. She couldn't have asked many questions because she thought they would have 24/7 AC. They are another dumb couple who can't communicate and are better suited apart.
@Cherish1056 Жыл бұрын
Or maybe she can contribute to the lifestyle she wants...
@HungryIronWolf4 Жыл бұрын
Thats Golddigger talk right there
@DevinaMori Жыл бұрын
@@HungryIronWolf4thats traditional talk. Men are supposed to provide and he agreed to it but he isnt holding his end of the bargain but still getting access to her. She has every right to leave.
@noneofyourbuizness Жыл бұрын
@@DevinaMoritradition only when it comes to finance LOOL american women.... Im glad there is some real women out here being patient willing to help and elevate their man when they are in difficult situations . Yall make me ashamed to be a woman, I understand why some men are bitter now . Yall just want a good situation but would run away when times get hard . Pathetic yes that is not traditionnal .
@maeraynor8134 Жыл бұрын
What good is that big electric fence at the gated community if they blackout half the day. Holly drives me nuts. Her mom does everything for her.
@cremebrulee4759 Жыл бұрын
They almost certainly have battery backup.
@faithsemo734811 ай бұрын
Loadshedding is 6 hrs max, and not always the case, it flactuates, The most we are experiencing is 4hrs, it get better to 2 hrs.its never most of the day.
@nannariis3985 Жыл бұрын
I’m going to America in a couple of weeks, and I’m excited to experience what having air conditioning is like 😂
@keravg Жыл бұрын
As a South African - yes, South Africa is very dangerous (especially towards women. We have a lot of GBV here) but we learn to adapt and overcome. Although, why he's paying so much attention to what she wears is weird to me. Like dude, grow up. But also - if someone tells you that a place is dangerous, how stupid do you have to be to walk (in this case, run away) around a place you dont know. Especially a different country. Blows my mind.
@suva707 Жыл бұрын
Girl really looks like her outfits are what she wore at the club all night and its the next day!
@Emily-lh6em Жыл бұрын
The party is still going from the night before for her. I don't know how she's comfortable like that, apparently she had to ditch her shoes to run away.
@elenaaleksandrova9460 Жыл бұрын
Her makeup as well always looks like last night leftover )
@Emily-lh6em Жыл бұрын
@@elenaaleksandrova9460 I've left on makeup for the night before once or twice. When I was young enough to just wake up feeling fantastic no matter what and probably thought it looked better than it did. I really hope she starts wearing more practical & comfortable clothing and shoes. What if stepped in glass or a nail during her barefoot walk. I think she's beautiful but the dresses she wears are not always flattering because they do look like last nights club dress. You don't have to wear party dresses and heels to look pretty, elegant, and put together. She can still wear dresses too but a different style of dress. Club dresses are not comfortable and she knows it lol. If you have to worry about it showing your hoo haa when you sit then it's not the right fit or style. As a woman with long hair (at my hips right now)....I understand loving her hair and not wanting to cut it but at this point you're treating it like a swiffer mop and that's not good. It might be well past time for a small trim..just a bit at least. 😅
@josephinevelickovic9813 Жыл бұрын
“She pulls a Pedo Paul, she pulls a Creeper Mike” 😂😂😂😂
@arykahleigh4570 Жыл бұрын
She’s wearing her red flag as a dresssssss😂 dead
@beanieNX420 Жыл бұрын
(American) On the AC topic, I actually bought a house last year thats over 100 years old and it didn't have any form of air cooling besides ceiling fans. I had NO IDEA how expensive it is to put in a new unit. Ended up going with a couple window units for now. Even a tiny house with existing air ducts and vents for heat, just to get the unit which does not include all of the labor and inspections it was three times what I had envisioned it being. Truly understand on a new level how you could just not be able to afford it, even if you could afford the electricity costs.
@nataliemesbah1639 Жыл бұрын
Wait until he tells her that her hair is a safety hazard and she needs to cut it for her own good!
@honeyGg7 Жыл бұрын
😂 her natural hair?! It's honestly bs that hair looks like a weave from her life to my tv screen which is UHD😆
@luvbeinghiswife1148 Жыл бұрын
She should. It's a rats nest.
@dontworryitsdi Жыл бұрын
PO YOURE DEHYDRATED DRINK WATER
@mythots Жыл бұрын
GULPITY GULP
@dontworryitsdi Жыл бұрын
@@mythots love you girl, thats guna do way more for u than any chapstick could ❤️❤️🌊
@mythots Жыл бұрын
@@dontworryitsdinothing will help my lips 😭
@dontworryitsdi Жыл бұрын
@@mythots water will i promise!!
@RaccoonNation Жыл бұрын
@@mythotsyou need baby raccoon kisses on those lips! Here’s a few to get you started 💋 🦝🐾 🐾
@paradiz3lost Жыл бұрын
It's one thing to provide financial security such as a house, food on table, entertainment, dinners, trips, and a totally different thing to BUY A NEW HOUSE* worth few millions! If she can buy it, then let her buy it. * Buying a new house should be a two person decision and the amount paid by both parties
@captainlarrynosleepfishing5350 Жыл бұрын
Remember, Holly complained that she spent $5000 for airfare to come to South Africa
@elenaaleksandrova9460 Жыл бұрын
Exactly! It's not like you go to buy a groceries and on the way back just quickly run to shop for a house))
@bettym6219 Жыл бұрын
She doesn’t have a bank account, she just hides her loose change in that hair.
@name_not_important7757 Жыл бұрын
As a South African..the whole thing of Wayne wanting Holly to dress down..personally I believe he’s just perpetuating a misogynist narrative, South Africa as a whole is extremely misogynist, which is why our femicide rate is one of the highest in the world. Her clothes aren’t the issue but it’s where they live more than anything. During break-ins, disgusting things are known to happen to women so really the issue is the house not her clothes. They should move ASAP!
@habeashumor9814 Жыл бұрын
Ooooh good point. Every time he tells her to wear a safer outfit, she should tell him to get a safer house!
@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI Жыл бұрын
Passport Bros, save your money PLEASE!
@desireecollom5787 Жыл бұрын
Where did you get the notion that South Africa has the highest suicide by country? Its not even on the top 10 countries..
@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI Жыл бұрын
@@desireecollom5787the modern woman...
@thisdrinkinglife Жыл бұрын
"Perpetuating a misogynist narrative ", lol. I say you have your finger on the pulse all right😂
@Flashguy4826 Жыл бұрын
...I'm seriously starting to realize something: When it comes to 90 Day, both of the people in the couples shown are just as bad as each other. It's never just one bad person, it's both, so I never know who to root for or against anymore.
@epicnesselmer Жыл бұрын
Hvac guy here and you are correct you shouldn't need someone to fix your ac every year.
@irfxcqm1 Жыл бұрын
As somebody else who’s house was broken into and dog killed, I’ll excuse nearly anything this man does. That makes you go insane. Especially if you never find out who did it.
@bubblegumrose777 Жыл бұрын
I found out who did it but they weren’t punished. Eventually the were charged with using my checks a month later. No one got time, even though the were frequent visitors to court. The only reason the cops did anything about it is because the ones who broke in were so stupid they wrote their own names on the checks. I think of them pretty often. Dustin, Karen, Andrea and Statia. I remember.
@Chandra_Moon133 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry you went through that. That’s horrific!
@katherine4283 Жыл бұрын
When you are with someone and you promise to provide financially then go and provide financially
@ComaLies225 Жыл бұрын
So I also get the air conditioning thing. I thought the same until I became friends with people from Switzerland. It actually blew my mind since I’m the type of person that keeps the ac on almost year round 😅
@xletragedyx Жыл бұрын
No a/c here in Alaska. Most people don't even have a window unit
@cremebrulee4759 Жыл бұрын
When he said he put 40K into crypto, I think he was talking about South African money, not U.S. dollars. That was their honeymoon money, and I don't think they're going to spend $40,000 on their honeymoon, not even Holy with her expensive delusions. I think they are in his office.
@mickeyir Жыл бұрын
This! I actually converted it while watching. That’s definitely what he meant-40K South African rand/$2,126 (USD)
@hilarywinters2283 Жыл бұрын
I love your videos so much!! I wish they were longer!
@spacemermaid1111 Жыл бұрын
I thought the SAME thing when she said she wanted to tun at night 💀 I feel unsafe walking from my car to my front door at night, tf I’m gonna go for a jog lmao.
@RampageJake Жыл бұрын
Well I guess ill be taking my break at 9am today haha. Great content, feels like I'm talking about the shows with a friend. Lol thanks!
@RaccoonNation Жыл бұрын
Tater is the bff we ALL need ❤
@basically2956 Жыл бұрын
No AC in SA? I won’t be moving there. In Chicago and it’s 103° today.. and I’m menopausal. 🥵
@hughmungous775 Жыл бұрын
I'm so confident in your ability to make great videos that I like them before I even get a minute in ❤
@Simon_Diamond803 Жыл бұрын
I refuse to believe he's 4 years younger than her. TLC has to be capping with some of the ages with these people on the show.
@sophiatheasian Жыл бұрын
I'm from South Africa and also living in the same city that Wayne does. There's nothing wrong with the way Holly dresses and Wayne is a bit OTT. However, I wouldn't go running around the way Holly did, but it also depends on the area.
@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI Жыл бұрын
Which city is he in?
@ZehraNurTarhan Жыл бұрын
Love your channel🤗 much love from Belgium💙
@mely2959 Жыл бұрын
Damn, she's a budget Jasmine 😂
@julietteoscaralphanovember2223 Жыл бұрын
I live in the US and my neighbors are from S. Africa, they never, ever use their air conditioner!! Even when it was 103⁰ F, with such high humidity, they don't turn it on. They also didn't know how to use a mower or how to edge his lawn so he asked my husband and my husband showed him what he needed and how to use them. Very sweet family. I guess they're use to no A/C
@Cherish1056 Жыл бұрын
Yes we only use AC in our cars malls businesses etc but not in our homes. We love nature and prefer the fresh air
@trashhbeast6090 Жыл бұрын
or maybe ac is expensive
@julietteoscaralphanovember2223 Жыл бұрын
@@trashhbeast6090 my neighbors are use to hot humid weather, they live in a 3 story expensive home, so I don't think its about money with them.
@myqueerplantfamily Жыл бұрын
I’m Cuban and most of the time I cannot tolerate the way Americans blast their ACs. It’s one thing not to suffer in heat, it’s another to turn every building into a commercial freezer! 😂
@xletragedyx Жыл бұрын
I'm American and same! Especially office buildings in the summer. You have to bring a sweater. My nose often will run from the cold after sitting at work for 8 hours. I would get up not to exercise, but to warm up or have to go outside
@tianaleecloete4241 Жыл бұрын
As a South African. All that he is saying IS TRUE. I walk with a weapon on my key chain just to "feel safe"
@miabellaful Жыл бұрын
She's 2 scoops of crazy 😂
@bataineh Жыл бұрын
😭 watching this as I melt without A/C
@Aloysius_OHare Жыл бұрын
I hate when ANYONE goes "Well you said you could provide for me financially" meaning shes only thinking about the money, like seriously? Your partner's money should be enough to allow you to live comfortably but both people have to provide for themselves. its VERY dangerous there, so if this American woman wants to live there then she needs to start preparing herself to be protective over herself and to stop acting like an idiot but i doubt she will. She seems to care less about herself.
@NF-hh3qq Жыл бұрын
I'm going to tell my kids these are Brangelina.
@caylinthomas2286 Жыл бұрын
As a South African woman , I can confirm that it is quite dangerous here , especially for woman , young girls/ladies.
@yvechapman9342 Жыл бұрын
I grew up on a farm in GA with no AC and HONEY I will NOT live without it ever again. I love my "city girl" life lol
@mewtglenburn Жыл бұрын
I love ur content Po! Thank you so much for keeping me updated on 90 day Fiancé when I have cancelled my cable subscription. I appreciate you so much ♥️
@s.onyaaa Жыл бұрын
can’t wait for this recap!!
@princememphis7726 Жыл бұрын
Naaaah, he can put HIS money wherever the fuck he wants to put it
@starmine Жыл бұрын
Lived in Southern California for 26 years and our home did not come with A/C my parents were the type that didn’t want to waste electricity so getting an A/C was out of the question. Had to stick with ceiling fans. I now live in a house with A/C I don’t know how I survived living in that dry heat all that time. 😅
@Unknown2Yoo Жыл бұрын
That's what funny to me about Po's story is her mother mentioned people in other parts of the world, but there are a lot of Americans without A/C, too. 😆 My sis has a friend in CA with no A/C as well.
@xletragedyx Жыл бұрын
@@Unknown2YooAlaska checking in! It hasn't really gotten hot here for many days. Blackout curtains do a lot of the heavy lifting with cooling. And we all have ceiling fans. Most people don't have window units, either
@habeashumor9814 Жыл бұрын
I can't say that Wayne is horrible, because the evidence isn't there yet, but the feeling he gives me - the vibes - put me on edge waiting for the other shoe to drop. From the little hints the show has given, I get the feeling that he can be hot tempered, abusive, violent, sexist, racist, and absolutely terrible with business and finances. I get the suspicion that his business downturn, and maybe even his multiple home burglaries, are consequences of his own actions.
@MensWorstNightmare Жыл бұрын
100% agreed. He strikes me as someone who could become physically abusive. Not sure why, it’s just the feeling I get from him.
@xletragedyx Жыл бұрын
@@MensWorstNightmareis it because he looks like a werewolf?
@MensWorstNightmare Жыл бұрын
@@xletragedyx interesting point, but far be it from me to impugn werewolves in that manner. ;)
@LeaEspinoza12345 Жыл бұрын
Lol I live in the Caribbean. It’s forever summer here. And AC is not a normal thing in the average household. It’s funny your story about the AC 🤣🤣🤣
@nanimishy Жыл бұрын
It's ok you didn't know about the AC before, but now you know! And I appreciate how humble you are ♡
@Fatbottomgirl666 Жыл бұрын
I ignored my landlord when she said I can't have an air conditioner. Where I live in Canada it's usually very hot and humid and I'm going through menopause and have horrible hot flashes especially at night around 3 am I'll wake up soaked in sweat my mattress soaked! There was no way I wasn't having air conditioning! Out in British Columbia they have something called a heat dome and it can get up to 40 there. It's so bad that air conditioning has to be in all new construction and they are giving away air conditioners to people in need and a massive rebate on it for everyone else but some landlords won't let people install them in there units and are being taken to court.
@monaeallsup6140 Жыл бұрын
There are mini or portable air conditioners under 50lbs or so. I have one and all you do is open your window, put the unit in and there you go. You can always just put it away when you don't need it. No one should take you to court about it because it does no damage to the apartment.
@uuu5713 Жыл бұрын
Girl you don’t have to suffer like this even as a vid woman you can get HRT or estrogen therapy to make menopause way more Manageable with barely any symptoms like this I’d really recommend looking into it
@ZumbaZINJPanda Жыл бұрын
Where the hell is she running? With no shoes 👟
@captainlarrynosleepfishing5350 Жыл бұрын
I don’t think she left the house with any shoes? And why is she playing with her hair all the time?
@ZumbaZINJPanda Жыл бұрын
@@captainlarrynosleepfishing5350 that women of 44 years old has some issues going on. She is like a teenager. She is older than him.
@chelsea-t Жыл бұрын
Holly is the princess of Delulu land!
@anavasconcelos9168 Жыл бұрын
I don't watch the shows but I love watching you talk about it 😅
@Beeboop7 Жыл бұрын
POtato, I love you! ❤️ LOL I left for awhile due to something being said in a vid awhile ago but I can't stop watching. I love when you share personal things, I can completely relate. You actually made me come to terms with the fact that my possessiveness, envy and jealousy comes from a place of self hatred. Unbelievably I'm exactly like Mary, or at least at my worst I was. I'm trying to work through it but it got really bad recently and now I understand why. Thanks po!!
@StAr51269 Жыл бұрын
Same! Something was said that was not ok. But as long as I am not busy I'll keep watching for now.
@HWAL3VER Жыл бұрын
in france we don't have AC, it exist but it's expensive as hell... you can find it in hotel or in store but you can't have it if you're not rich as hell 😂😭
@stacyj8564 Жыл бұрын
Same for the Caribbean but honestly with all the breeze and air coming in , it's usually cool
@clarepurves9759 Жыл бұрын
Same in the uk
@02loud Жыл бұрын
I swear she was about to say AC was a human right 😂 I was just waiting lol.
@miss7182 Жыл бұрын
I live in East Africa and we have air conditioning in every single room. It's not that there are no air conditioners, it's that Wayne is not very financially well off. The idea that "some parts of the world doesn't have air con" isn't true, it's about your financial situation.
@zodiacthekid1736 Жыл бұрын
It's really dangerous But a beautiful diverse country . As a South African 😂😂😂
@callira2064 Жыл бұрын
The way you looked at the puppy and we got the side potato profile I'm crying 😂 I don't know why that was my favorite thing I've seen today 💜
@violethastings794 Жыл бұрын
If he finds any extra $ to give her, I sure hope she uses it to buy clothes that have more material than what she currently wears.
@cookie22100 Жыл бұрын
South Africa isn’t very dangerous, it’s just a different place. It’s like living in the city, a little street smarts goes a long way. I visited SA in 2018, granted I stayed in a richer part of town, but common safety smarts still took me a long way. I had a great time.
@LenkaHomolkova Жыл бұрын
Funny tangent: in many countries in Europe we just don't have the airconditioning - especially in the mild climate areas. I personally don't see airco as something to be able to afford but as something I don't want for the sustainability reasons. I rather opt for passive temperature managing possibilities like shades, curtains, blinders. :)
@brittneyhenderson6697 Жыл бұрын
He played her and I think it’s not fair to string someone along knowing your finances are going down but yet you keep promising a lot of things. She might look like she’s over reacting but she’s just has high standards and he knew that. Now she has to lower her standards because he’s lied and kissed all his money?? She needs to run because what else would he lie about. 40k is a lot of money in Africa
@ichangedmynameforyoutube Жыл бұрын
Holly needs help. Somethin ain’t right with her, and I say that with all seriousness!!! I completely understand the reactions regarding the crypto investment, but let me tell you!!! When crypto first became a thing, I invested ~$1K… 7 years later it was worth over $100k! Had I not needed to pay for my brother and fathers body’s to get out of the morgue, their funerals, and travel for my kids and I to go back to the East Coast for all of it, I’d be pretty set right now. But the timing when he bought is not the best. Too many people have taken it over and crashed the worth. But at one time, this was a good investment!
@realtehen Жыл бұрын
i just noticed your backround and i love it!!!
@michelle_m4446 Жыл бұрын
We bought a new prefab. It has a freaking SWAMP COOLER, with zero ducting!!! This summer we have had record high 110+ temps. Anything over 95 or high humidity and my house turns into hell's basement.
@princememphis7726 Жыл бұрын
It's crazy yall call people "controlling" when they just want to protect someone they love. So glad I'm not dealing with American women no more. it's crazy
@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI Жыл бұрын
Bruh!!! Save your passport money my G. Look at the comments from South African women.
@princememphis7726 Жыл бұрын
@@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI definitely not going to south africa. im over here in asia
@mipanda123 Жыл бұрын
Here in Brazil, some people can't afford an AC. electricity bill is expensive.
@tomatoexiong Жыл бұрын
"Look at her. She's wearing her "red-flag" as a dress" 😂🤣😂🤣👌🏼 L I T E R A L L Y
@beatmania3rdmix4 ай бұрын
1:57 back when I was living in the Bay Area nobody I knew had air conditioning. Granted, the weather out there used to not get hot during the summer, but when I moved to the desert, that was the first time we had air conditioning in the house. I'd generalize that air conditioning is still uncommon throughout the Bay Area
@kimberley8902 Жыл бұрын
He reminds me of that English singer, Robbie Williams.