He put their honeymoon funds into CRYPTO so now they can't go! (90 Day Fiancé)

[@claudettelol]

as a south african viewer, he genuinely ISNT being controlling he is trying to protect her from men down here because the SA cases down here are astonishing

[@hospitable_ghost]

We're pretending it can't be both??

[@claudettelol]

​@hospitable_ghost could be, but i don't think you would understand till you lived here

[@kelly8107]

Honestly, in certain parts of the U.S. people will look at you like you're crazy. She looks trifling.

[@stephaniegreen5306]

I totally agree , fellow South Africa Herr from Athlone and yes unfortunately what you wear makes you a target especially in areas where it is dangerous .stay safe out there girls 😔

[@JellyBean-hb7cj]

💯

[@ItsAmandacS]

As a South African, I had a proper chuckle at the aircon situation 😂 BOLD of her to assume that the government can actually provide electricity to the whole country on a continuous basis 😂😂 for the first half of this year we didn't have electricity for at least 12 hours most days 😂 On a more serious note, South Africa is dangerous when people from other parts of rhe world compare. But to us robberies break-ins, electric fences, alarm systems security gates, burglar bars, motion beams etc etc is just every day life tbh. It's quite eye opening to see people's comments on what, for us, is the norm 🥲

[@stellag4301]

Seems to becoming a norm for most anywhere nowadays…🤷

[@peacelover2767]

12 hours without electricity? Where do you live? Because where I'm at it was 6 hours max.

[@peacelover2767]

12 hours without electricity? Where do you live? Because where I'm at it was 6 hours max.

[@NomadicSheep01]

As a fellow South African i can agree with this comment.

[@MrWood-qd6kr]

Yeah, Americans, especially American women, have a hard time grasping reality for MOST of the world.

[@Speleomimus]

She is not all there. This woman carries herself like a spoiled teen and her lack of awareness and savvy could see her get into dire trouble in a place like SA

[@stellag4301]

Yep…exactly. You’re not in America anymore ToTo…

[@imacarguy4065]

Exactly 💯

[@Julia36D]

She’s one hundred percent on something.

[@danasandoval624]

@@Julia36DI wondered that too!

[@melissamorales9449]

@@Julia36D I totally agree. She seems like she’s strung out all the time.

[@xtelevat0rsx]

I knew she was batshit insane when she said 400k isn’t that much in US money for a place to live. Sis, most of us can barely make rent let alone even think of buying a home.

[@lijo4518]

Yup this chick is Coocoo for cocoa puffs 🤣

[@skontheroad]

Yes. But she was speaking about buying a home, and was therefore referencing the housing market for those who own.

[@BronnyJames2025MVP]

That’s about the average now which is completely insane. It was $250,000 just 3 years ago. 64% of Americans can’t even come up with $400 dollars for an emergency. The top 0.1% have 90% of all our wealth. Because neoliberalism capitalism is working so good. 👎🏻

[@kraftmacaroniandbeez]

that crypto bout as safe as his house 😂

[@katherine4283]

Crypto money is NOT real money

[@she_sings_delightful_things]

HA!!

[@KNByam]

​@katherine4283 People are idiots. If crypto was so valuable then why do people exchange it for dollars. It's just a way to make money off of a hippie fad.

[@writerchik44]

😅😅😅

[@staceyshere]

🤣🤣🤣

[@thisbelitha]

South African woman here. My personal take on him policing her outfit here is that he's pumping up a real issue of GBV and using it as a blanket to hide his insecurity and controlling tendencies.

[@AdaAdaAdanna]

That was my thinking too. He's definitely insecure and using that as an excuse to control her. It's sad that she actually believes it.

[@habeashumor9814]

Same! (I'm not in SA, but that's totally what it seems like)

[@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI]

To all the Passport Bros, HERE IS THE EVIDENCE!!! The modern woman is all over the world. What these South African modern women heard and saw was "insecurity" and "controlling" on the man's part. PLEASE SAVE YOUR MONEY ON THOSE PASSPORTS. No man ON EARTH wants his lady to dress like that!!!

[@Speleomimus]

So its safe for her to walk around his neighborhood? She can wear what she wants and it won't lead to any trouble? Even tho he dresses normal and has been robbed several times?

[@thisdrinkinglife]

GBV? In English? Tsk

[@annaelisavettavonnedozza9607]

As funny as you are, you’re also surprisingly vulnerable w/us. Like the ac story or the time you opened up about how you used to feel about other women’s looks. It makes your channel more than just hilarious-It gives your channel depth & warmth as well. Ok corny I know, I’ll stop now 😂❤

[@TylerNarwhal]

You’re so right! Thank you for saying the words that I couldn’t think of 😩🫶🏼

[@RiotMonster]

This tho! Like wow she made me start caring about this lil shit-talking potato person lol 🥔

[@kinley.-.]

I love her for this! She’s honestly probably my favorite KZbinr 🥺🖤

[@Little_Devotchka]

I agree!!❤❤❤

[@crystalstimmell1596]

Right???? I feel so comfortable and welcome here especially reading the comments 😂 I FOUND MY PEOPLE!!

[@BudduredToast]

South African woman here. Yeah, it's pretty dangerous, and you have to keep your wits about you. But it's not really a clothing thing, in my opinion. I'd say being foreign and being clearly very clueless are what would put the target on her back. He just wants to control her. He's clearly super possessive.

[@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI]

Control her? Wow...

[@yazooy3860]

@@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZIdon’t even argue with her lol most of these women’s are programmed to see everything as being controlled. They don’t have any other excuse to be hoes. Then they get mad when men approach them a specific way. I’m sorry aren’t you the one presenting yourself like a ho??? Women want so much shit from men now in days like bish wtf do you bring to the table?

[@katia1044]

girl she dresses like a street walker….. and since she is religious she should be a bit more modest.Her mom (chaperone) should have advised her of that

[@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI]

@@katia1044 Finally, a woman with some sense.

[@SoSoSteph]

Very covert with the control

[@yen_manz]

A viewer from South Africa - it is very dangerous. It’s got nothing to do with what you wear though. Think he is using that as an excuse.

[@habeashumor9814]

This seems to be the consensus, which totally is what I expected to hear.

[@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI]

@@habeashumor9814No consensus. Just modern women... Please ask the men.

[@tez228]

@@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZIget a grip!

[@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI]

@@tez228 gripping...

[@truecrimefan1433]

​@@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI😂incel

[@Janebunni25]

Even if I'm not interested in the show I still watch your recaps. 😂😂 Always so funny bestie

[@Amandy36]

I've never watched any of these shows but these recaps are my jam too lol

[@ProfessionalPUNKER]

@@Amandy36omg sameeeeee I thought I was the only one 😂

[@Alejaccx]

X2

[@snooganslestat2030]

I haven't watched the last few series of 90d but i still watch the recaps here lol.

[@daswookie79]

I wonder if his business suddenly dried up just as she was making her way to South Africa, or if it was already struggling and he just wasn’t honest with her

[@Cherish1056]

Honestly the economy is on its knees. The taxes for people are high. For businesses the taxes are very high. Also too many regulations. It's not a good environment for businesses at the moment. Many businesses are closing in certain parts of the country so yes it's very possible that the business is now suffering

[@1_star_reviews]

I’m thinking WTH, why did he allow her to move down there if he knew he was financially struggling? He seems to be a little dishonest

[@Cherish1056]

@DaisyAppleJuice why did she get on a plane at 44 with no money of her own and not do her research? 44 is old to be so naive and reckless. If she was 22 then we could blame him but at 44 she must take responsibility for her own actions... just my thoughts

[@R.O.T.C._SEEM]

Maybe he was just testing her and she failed

[@1_star_reviews]

@@Cherish1056 According to this clip, they both had 40k saved and she spent 5k on her tickets there. Doesn’t seem like she didn’t have any money to me. However I don’t watch the show but from this clip it’s really shady of him to use money which she thought was for their honeymoon on crypto. Everyone with sense knows that’s the most high risk investment in all of investing. It’s time for her to leave and never look back. These American and White South African relationships never work out, due to money issues because what we Americans deem small amounts of money is large amounts of money to South Africans. 400k is normal housing cost in the US but he looked at her like she was crazy when she suggested that they spend that amount on a house. Lil Sis needs to come home like yesterday.

[@lelaniadriaanse7552]

As a South African woman, where the murder rate for woman are like 4 times higher than in the rest of the world, it's really dangerous for a woman in the country. However, many woman in my country dress the same way Holly does, and although I understand where Wayne is coming from, I don't think Holly's clothing should be an issue. He should explain and ease her into how dangerous and how vigilant she needs to be in South Africa.

[@Emihle_Cassie_Mhlongo04]

On point ❤

[@lainedoss2734]

Why is she a red flag when she wants a safe home and he lied to her about his finances? I'd be OUT

[@xletragedyx]

I don't like her personality but he's constantly lying and that's the biggest red flag. He even lied admit her mom staying with them. Where's she supposed to stay?

[@dhglowlightblue]

Ikr…she’s a weirdo for sure, but he’s definitely more sus. I feel like he might have lied to her about his financial stability to get her to move in with him… 😅

[@SeminarioMAE]

because she's 50 and behaves like a 13 year old

[@themysticwarriorgal9465]

​@@SeminarioMAEshes not 50

[@BronnyJames2025MVP]

He shouldn’t have lied, but she’s also a loser for not being able to afford her own home.

[@kaytunes8487]

Poh, I am wearing very short shorts right now in Johannesburg at 21:40PM, and I was out to buy pizza. I am perfectly safe. We take precuations, but Wayne blew things out of proportion to ensure he has control.

[@basically2956]

She says that she paid $5K fOr hEr dReSs aNd fLiGhT! 😂 But $400,000 isn’t *that much.

[@Jessica-jl2cy]

As a South African, I think it's a big misconception that it's dangerous everywhere. It heavily depends on where you are. Where I am, people literally sleep on the grass in community parks during the day and they're perfectly safe. Also, only 3% of our population carry a gun on them, which when compared to America, is a major difference. Honestly, aircon is expensive, but we manage. People often see so much negative in South Africa, but I feel like we still have so much to be greatful about. We have such a friendly (and funny) population, we don't have terrorism as a major concern, we have a good education system... Small things like that make life much better here. I love standing in a queue at checkers and having someone speak to me about how irritated they are with the service 😂

[@SeminarioMAE]

South Africa sounds like paradise!

[@yikesyourchunkyhostilityha2321]

You know...its okay to not know things. Sounding like a spoiled brat isn't "oh I didn't know other people were going through these things." Sounding like a privileged spoiled brat would be when you know and you reprimand those who can't afford it for not getting a better job or living in a better place. Or look down on those who don't know like you're better than everyone Don't feel bad for not knowing something. Ignorance is human. Bigotry is not.

[@tiffanykim2773]

good point

[@Mo-vu7jc]

I like to think that it's how we react to and process new information or how we process finding out that we were ignorant or wrong that says so much more about a person's heart than the initial ignorance could ever say.

[@cremebrulee4759]

If you going to move to another country, it's not smart to not to do some research and understand what you're moving to.

[@antoinettenyuurnibe3302]

​@cremebrulee4759 Exactly. Unfortunately, many people refuse to do this.

[@unbeknownst2mee929]

Absolutely but in this day and age people like to shame or make you feel stupid for not knowing something

[@Mvjesty23]

This couple makes me so mad. There are just so many reasons, I can’t list them all.

[@sesimakoya]

If there’s one thing I’ve learned about living in South Africa, the more you put many security things around your house is the more you’ll attract thugs. 🤞 If you look like you’re protecting gold inside your house you’re literally the perfect target market 😮‍💨😂😂

[@yamomma8560]

no literally 😂😂 i’m from dominican republic and it’s the same , and when my family go we don’t speak english in public and have our phones put away, no jewelry they ruthless

[@laurenr9659]

Does Holly even own a home? Providing for you doesn't mean demand a life you're not even used to living. And was Wayne really at a point where he could afford a home that expensive? I would think that if so, he'd had lived in a safer area.

[@elenaaleksandrova9460]

Totally agree with you! She acts like a Disney princess with no reasons.

[@lemonmuffin2656]

I think this is a sign for her to get out of this relationship

[@Vudux]

I agreed he should have talked to her about the financial problems about where he put his money at but at the same time I feel like she needs to go back to the US and find her American man because if a man cannot provide for a woman then why should be with him? him

[@memyselfni3474]

​@@Vuduxbut I thought we were equal now?😂

[@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI]

@@memyselfni3474modern women... LMAO

[@lavenderlovee]

​@@VuduxExactly. Men nowadays don't wanna be men. Bunch of 😺s Only want "equality" when it benefits them, just to gaslight without understanding a damn thing 😂

[@R.O.T.C._SEEM]

​@@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZIExactly all they looking for is a meal ticket. The moment she found out he was hurting for money she bailed.

[@rachaelwhelchel8176]

I used to live in a big house. And people would crawl through the window all the time. It just got to where i didn't care if people tried to rob me. I generally just hollered at them and said "hope you brought a gun, this isn't a knife fight." They would scurry out the window. One even fell out of the window trying to run away.

[@nataliemesbah1639]

😂 I love what you’d yell!😂

[@tayla1234]

🤣

[@docfabz]

That's scary, glad you were able to defend yourself. Where was the house located?

[@rachaelwhelchel8176]

@@docfabz Springdale Arkansas

[@almostclintnewton8478]

One thing about robbers is that they're scared shitless like 70% of the time. A solid threat like what you did tends to do the trick. Love the bravado!

[@miraclemay24]

As a South African she should go to the gym... run at your own risk... gyms are the safest places to be. Air Conditioners are available but it's very expensive on your electricity bill. Personally I don't like AC it closes my nose. I was in the US last month and I couldn't stand the AC everywhere 😅😅

[@stellag4301]

Ummm…where you in the Southern part of the U.S…in the summer heat??

[@miraclemay24]

@@stellag4301 Minnesota.. it wasn't hot at all. It's not in the Southern part I think. But it wasnt hot though but the AC was soooooo cold

[@1_star_reviews]

@@miraclemay24Minnesota has mild summers, they should be using the ac sparingly. Minnesota borders Canada which is an attic tundra.

[@chesnay1222]

@@MonicaO920TRIPLE digits??

[@chesnay1222]

@@MonicaO920oh nvm, I just realised you’re not speaking about degrees Celcius 😅

[@sarahh2072]

I dont think they should be together. He can't provide a safe home for her and she's uncomfortable living in south Africa period. She wants the US experience in another country but she's not going to get it and she won't get it until someone attacks her sadly. She needs to just go home

[@stellag4301]

Exactly 👍

[@Cherish1056]

If she wants to live safely in SA that requires money to live in estates or gated communities or they have to move to a different province (state) in SA that is safe. She can get the US experience but it requires money to get that here.

[@trashhbeast6090]

it also requires money in the us to live in gated communities

[@stellag4301]

@@trashhbeast6090 Yes it does…a lot of money…

[@ladytee43]

As a South African woman I can confirm that it is dangerous but Wayne is grossly exaggerating things. He's leaning into the danger factor as a means to control her and what she wears, period!

[@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI]

You are wrong, Sisi.

[@katsthename989]

It's nice to hear opinions from South African women because I couldn't tell if what he was saying was totally true or not. I understand the need to be careful with what you wear, but at the same time if someone wants to hurt you they're going to hurt you no matter the type of clothing you're wearing.

[@ladytee43]

@@katsthename989 you're absolutely right

[@calyl]

you are the cutest Po! your personality just warms my heart! thank you for being you Po! love the recap! aren't they in their 40s? how are their communication skills be so sucky?

[@tammi8542]

That electric fence looked like the one on Jurassic Park, to keep the T-Rex contained. 😂

[@honeyGg7]

😄 I thot the same!

[@cherylarshaluys6079]

😂

[@bubblegumrose777]

It didn’t help them either.

[@phoenixluna4137]

Just because Wayne told her not to dress like a ho or to be more aware od her surroundings, doesnt make him controlling. He is looking out for the dumb girl because she's the type to walk into a dangerous situation and act like she didnt know what was happening.

[@Its-Mrs-Ladd]

I feel like Holly is extremely childish and very unaware of the fact that she literally came to South Africa with NOTHING to offer. She clearly doesn't have some big savings account of her own, which is why she's so insistent on him providing for her. She's also 44 yrs old, not 24, so she doesn't have the luxury of landing some rich man and bringing nothing to the table herself. At 44 years old I don't understand why in the world she brought her mom along with her for a multi month stay and if she knew she couldn't feel safe and comfortable in his current home why did she move there?? I also still feel like she's on drugs.

[@taylorcarson8893]

I think there's some type of addiction issue too, I think the mom came along to chaperone because they're Jehovah witnesses and it has something to do with their religion

[@CourtneyTiara]

The scowl in your picture goes perfectly with this comment 😭😂

[@RaccoonNation]

Who remembers when Holly said she goes running.. AT MIDNIGHT… THROUGH THE GRAVEYARD. This may be why Wayne became a little uncomfortable about her running at night 😅

[@stellag4301]

Just shows the woman is another looney tune…

[@traceyarnaud8433]

That’s sounds like something she’d do. 😑

[@captainlarrynosleepfishing5350]

I don’t think she goes out during the day because she’s so pale. Running at night to the cemetery? Wow 😳

[@staceyshere]

She’s nuts for that. A graveyard??? I thought graveyards are closed at night??

[@danasandoval624]

@@staceyshereshe probably crawls over the fence.

[@pinkrebellionxyz1567]

I’m not from South Africa but I am South African, I’ve heard many stories from my mum, ouma and aunties, cousins that it’s so dangerous for women and they’ll kidnap you broad daylight. I was talking with this woman on the train that had to help her sister who was literally being kidnapped in front of her mid conversation on the beach. It’s a beautiful country but it’s tarnished by the dangers. Nearly every household has to have a guard dog or 3 to protect their family. Our family has dogs too. There are shootings outside the house it’s terrible

[@kaytunes8487]

I have lived here 43 years of my life, and yet to see this. Yes there is crime but people are not being snatched mid conversation anywhere. I currently live in Johannesburg, I've lived in Cape Town, Durban and the Eastern Cape. Travelles throughout the country. Even Paris has ghettos or places where people need to know their surroundings. I was more scared in America in Los Angeles because every place has a shady area. You all make it as if we live in a war zone, we live a really good life for a so called third world country.

[@rubi815ify]

Sounds like California 😂😂 as a teenager we knew if they pull up creeping and hop out leaving the doors open......bitch run cus the gorilla ( guerilla) pimps were out there at that time

[@bellonaying3975]

Girl why you gotta post juicy shit when I’m in class lol

[@mythots]

hahahah pay attention

[@roreo1612]

People who don’t have ACs adapted and can tolerate it better. We are privileged and fragile.

[@Julia36D]

The aircon commentary is funny. I’ve lived both in South Africa and in America. Honestly, when you don’t have a/c you just acclimatise to the weather. I live in Europe now and honestly I can’t stand sleeping with the a/c on and find my American friends and family blast it to ridiculous levels and they can’t cope when there’s no air conditioning. Just my two cents.

[@JustKelso1993]

You have to take into account where people live too. I live in a high humidity area, it isn't the heat itself that is miserable but it is the humidity. It is the type of heat that you don't just get used to, it is miserable to everybody because you sweat immediately when you go outside. It has been 84 degrees in the gas station that I work at, in the kitchen it is higher than that and your forehead drowns in sweat, like your hair looks like you took a shower, it is gross. Lol

[@YK-mn2nd]

Sorry I don’t blame Holly, yes living in a gated community is not a super luxurious ask in SA!!! Its a safety issue. Also, he said he’d provide which is why she moved there. She’s better off returning to America while he figures things out.

[@saneira]

Yes, agreed! When Wayne said "I will provide for you" then Holly really should should have asked what he was providing lol. She couldn't have asked many questions because she thought they would have 24/7 AC. They are another dumb couple who can't communicate and are better suited apart.

[@Cherish1056]

Or maybe she can contribute to the lifestyle she wants...

[@HungryIronWolf4]

Thats Golddigger talk right there

[@DevinaMori]

​@@HungryIronWolf4thats traditional talk. Men are supposed to provide and he agreed to it but he isnt holding his end of the bargain but still getting access to her. She has every right to leave.

[@noneofyourbuizness]

​@@DevinaMoritradition only when it comes to finance LOOL american women.... Im glad there is some real women out here being patient willing to help and elevate their man when they are in difficult situations . Yall make me ashamed to be a woman, I understand why some men are bitter now . Yall just want a good situation but would run away when times get hard . Pathetic yes that is not traditionnal .

[@maeraynor8134]

What good is that big electric fence at the gated community if they blackout half the day. Holly drives me nuts. Her mom does everything for her.

[@cremebrulee4759]

They almost certainly have battery backup.

[@faithsemo7348]

Loadshedding is 6 hrs max, and not always the case, it flactuates, The most we are experiencing is 4hrs, it get better to 2 hrs.its never most of the day.

[@nannariis3985]

I’m going to America in a couple of weeks, and I’m excited to experience what having air conditioning is like 😂

[@keravg]

As a South African - yes, South Africa is very dangerous (especially towards women. We have a lot of GBV here) but we learn to adapt and overcome. Although, why he's paying so much attention to what she wears is weird to me. Like dude, grow up. But also - if someone tells you that a place is dangerous, how stupid do you have to be to walk (in this case, run away) around a place you dont know. Especially a different country. Blows my mind.

[@suva707]

Girl really looks like her outfits are what she wore at the club all night and its the next day!

[@Emily-lh6em]

The party is still going from the night before for her. I don't know how she's comfortable like that, apparently she had to ditch her shoes to run away.

[@elenaaleksandrova9460]

Her makeup as well always looks like last night leftover )

[@Emily-lh6em]

@@elenaaleksandrova9460 I've left on makeup for the night before once or twice. When I was young enough to just wake up feeling fantastic no matter what and probably thought it looked better than it did. I really hope she starts wearing more practical & comfortable clothing and shoes. What if stepped in glass or a nail during her barefoot walk. I think she's beautiful but the dresses she wears are not always flattering because they do look like last nights club dress. You don't have to wear party dresses and heels to look pretty, elegant, and put together. She can still wear dresses too but a different style of dress. Club dresses are not comfortable and she knows it lol. If you have to worry about it showing your hoo haa when you sit then it's not the right fit or style. As a woman with long hair (at my hips right now)....I understand loving her hair and not wanting to cut it but at this point you're treating it like a swiffer mop and that's not good. It might be well past time for a small trim..just a bit at least. 😅

[@josephinevelickovic9813]

“She pulls a Pedo Paul, she pulls a Creeper Mike” 😂😂😂😂

[@arykahleigh4570]

She’s wearing her red flag as a dresssssss😂 dead

[@beanieNX420]

(American) On the AC topic, I actually bought a house last year thats over 100 years old and it didn't have any form of air cooling besides ceiling fans. I had NO IDEA how expensive it is to put in a new unit. Ended up going with a couple window units for now. Even a tiny house with existing air ducts and vents for heat, just to get the unit which does not include all of the labor and inspections it was three times what I had envisioned it being. Truly understand on a new level how you could just not be able to afford it, even if you could afford the electricity costs.

[@nataliemesbah1639]

Wait until he tells her that her hair is a safety hazard and she needs to cut it for her own good!

[@honeyGg7]

😂 her natural hair?! It's honestly bs that hair looks like a weave from her life to my tv screen which is UHD😆

[@luvbeinghiswife1148]

She should. It's a rats nest.

[@dontworryitsdi]

PO YOURE DEHYDRATED DRINK WATER

[@mythots]

GULPITY GULP

[@dontworryitsdi]

@@mythots love you girl, thats guna do way more for u than any chapstick could ❤️❤️🌊

[@mythots]

@@dontworryitsdinothing will help my lips 😭

[@dontworryitsdi]

@@mythots water will i promise!!

[@RaccoonNation]

@@mythotsyou need baby raccoon kisses on those lips! Here’s a few to get you started 💋 🦝🐾 🐾

[@paradiz3lost]

It's one thing to provide financial security such as a house, food on table, entertainment, dinners, trips, and a totally different thing to BUY A NEW HOUSE* worth few millions! If she can buy it, then let her buy it. * Buying a new house should be a two person decision and the amount paid by both parties

[@captainlarrynosleepfishing5350]

Remember, Holly complained that she spent $5000 for airfare to come to South Africa

[@elenaaleksandrova9460]

Exactly! It's not like you go to buy a groceries and on the way back just quickly run to shop for a house))

[@bettym6219]

She doesn’t have a bank account, she just hides her loose change in that hair.

[@name_not_important7757]

As a South African..the whole thing of Wayne wanting Holly to dress down..personally I believe he’s just perpetuating a misogynist narrative, South Africa as a whole is extremely misogynist, which is why our femicide rate is one of the highest in the world. Her clothes aren’t the issue but it’s where they live more than anything. During break-ins, disgusting things are known to happen to women so really the issue is the house not her clothes. They should move ASAP!

[@habeashumor9814]

Ooooh good point. Every time he tells her to wear a safer outfit, she should tell him to get a safer house!

[@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI]

Passport Bros, save your money PLEASE!

[@desireecollom5787]

Where did you get the notion that South Africa has the highest suicide by country? Its not even on the top 10 countries..

[@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI]

@@desireecollom5787the modern woman...

[@thisdrinkinglife]

"Perpetuating a misogynist narrative ", lol. I say you have your finger on the pulse all right😂

[@Flashguy4826]

...I'm seriously starting to realize something: When it comes to 90 Day, both of the people in the couples shown are just as bad as each other. It's never just one bad person, it's both, so I never know who to root for or against anymore.

[@epicnesselmer]

Hvac guy here and you are correct you shouldn't need someone to fix your ac every year.

[@irfxcqm1]

As somebody else who’s house was broken into and dog killed, I’ll excuse nearly anything this man does. That makes you go insane. Especially if you never find out who did it.

[@bubblegumrose777]

I found out who did it but they weren’t punished. Eventually the were charged with using my checks a month later. No one got time, even though the were frequent visitors to court. The only reason the cops did anything about it is because the ones who broke in were so stupid they wrote their own names on the checks. I think of them pretty often. Dustin, Karen, Andrea and Statia. I remember.

[@Chandra_Moon13]

I’m so sorry you went through that. That’s horrific!

[@katherine4283]

When you are with someone and you promise to provide financially then go and provide financially

[@ComaLies225]

So I also get the air conditioning thing. I thought the same until I became friends with people from Switzerland. It actually blew my mind since I’m the type of person that keeps the ac on almost year round 😅

[@xletragedyx]

No a/c here in Alaska. Most people don't even have a window unit

[@cremebrulee4759]

When he said he put 40K into crypto, I think he was talking about South African money, not U.S. dollars. That was their honeymoon money, and I don't think they're going to spend $40,000 on their honeymoon, not even Holy with her expensive delusions. I think they are in his office.

[@mickeyir]

This! I actually converted it while watching. That’s definitely what he meant-40K South African rand/$2,126 (USD)

[@hilarywinters2283]

I love your videos so much!! I wish they were longer!

[@spacemermaid1111]

I thought the SAME thing when she said she wanted to tun at night 💀 I feel unsafe walking from my car to my front door at night, tf I’m gonna go for a jog lmao.

[@RampageJake]

Well I guess ill be taking my break at 9am today haha. Great content, feels like I'm talking about the shows with a friend. Lol thanks!

[@RaccoonNation]

Tater is the bff we ALL need ❤

[@basically2956]

No AC in SA? I won’t be moving there. In Chicago and it’s 103° today.. and I’m menopausal. 🥵

[@hughmungous775]

I'm so confident in your ability to make great videos that I like them before I even get a minute in ❤

[@Simon_Diamond803]

I refuse to believe he's 4 years younger than her. TLC has to be capping with some of the ages with these people on the show.

[@sophiatheasian]

I'm from South Africa and also living in the same city that Wayne does. There's nothing wrong with the way Holly dresses and Wayne is a bit OTT. However, I wouldn't go running around the way Holly did, but it also depends on the area.

[@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI]

Which city is he in?

[@ZehraNurTarhan]

Love your channel🤗 much love from Belgium💙

[@mely2959]

Damn, she's a budget Jasmine 😂

[@julietteoscaralphanovember2223]

I live in the US and my neighbors are from S. Africa, they never, ever use their air conditioner!! Even when it was 103⁰ F, with such high humidity, they don't turn it on. They also didn't know how to use a mower or how to edge his lawn so he asked my husband and my husband showed him what he needed and how to use them. Very sweet family. I guess they're use to no A/C

[@Cherish1056]

Yes we only use AC in our cars malls businesses etc but not in our homes. We love nature and prefer the fresh air

[@trashhbeast6090]

or maybe ac is expensive

[@julietteoscaralphanovember2223]

@@trashhbeast6090 my neighbors are use to hot humid weather, they live in a 3 story expensive home, so I don't think its about money with them.

[@myqueerplantfamily]

I’m Cuban and most of the time I cannot tolerate the way Americans blast their ACs. It’s one thing not to suffer in heat, it’s another to turn every building into a commercial freezer! 😂

[@xletragedyx]

I'm American and same! Especially office buildings in the summer. You have to bring a sweater. My nose often will run from the cold after sitting at work for 8 hours. I would get up not to exercise, but to warm up or have to go outside

[@tianaleecloete4241]

As a South African. All that he is saying IS TRUE. I walk with a weapon on my key chain just to "feel safe"

[@miabellaful]

She's 2 scoops of crazy 😂

[@bataineh]

😭 watching this as I melt without A/C

[@Aloysius_OHare]

I hate when ANYONE goes "Well you said you could provide for me financially" meaning shes only thinking about the money, like seriously? Your partner's money should be enough to allow you to live comfortably but both people have to provide for themselves. its VERY dangerous there, so if this American woman wants to live there then she needs to start preparing herself to be protective over herself and to stop acting like an idiot but i doubt she will. She seems to care less about herself.

[@NF-hh3qq]

I'm going to tell my kids these are Brangelina.

[@caylinthomas2286]

As a South African woman , I can confirm that it is quite dangerous here , especially for woman , young girls/ladies.

[@yvechapman9342]

I grew up on a farm in GA with no AC and HONEY I will NOT live without it ever again. I love my "city girl" life lol

[@mewtglenburn]

I love ur content Po! Thank you so much for keeping me updated on 90 day Fiancé when I have cancelled my cable subscription. I appreciate you so much ♥️

[@s.onyaaa]

can’t wait for this recap!!

[@princememphis7726]

Naaaah, he can put HIS money wherever the fuck he wants to put it

[@starmine]

Lived in Southern California for 26 years and our home did not come with A/C my parents were the type that didn’t want to waste electricity so getting an A/C was out of the question. Had to stick with ceiling fans. I now live in a house with A/C I don’t know how I survived living in that dry heat all that time. 😅

[@Unknown2Yoo]

That's what funny to me about Po's story is her mother mentioned people in other parts of the world, but there are a lot of Americans without A/C, too. 😆 My sis has a friend in CA with no A/C as well.

[@xletragedyx]

​@@Unknown2YooAlaska checking in! It hasn't really gotten hot here for many days. Blackout curtains do a lot of the heavy lifting with cooling. And we all have ceiling fans. Most people don't have window units, either

[@habeashumor9814]

I can't say that Wayne is horrible, because the evidence isn't there yet, but the feeling he gives me - the vibes - put me on edge waiting for the other shoe to drop. From the little hints the show has given, I get the feeling that he can be hot tempered, abusive, violent, sexist, racist, and absolutely terrible with business and finances. I get the suspicion that his business downturn, and maybe even his multiple home burglaries, are consequences of his own actions.

[@MensWorstNightmare]

100% agreed. He strikes me as someone who could become physically abusive. Not sure why, it’s just the feeling I get from him.

[@xletragedyx]

​@@MensWorstNightmareis it because he looks like a werewolf?

[@MensWorstNightmare]

@@xletragedyx interesting point, but far be it from me to impugn werewolves in that manner. ;)

[@LeaEspinoza12345]

Lol I live in the Caribbean. It’s forever summer here. And AC is not a normal thing in the average household. It’s funny your story about the AC 🤣🤣🤣

[@nanimishy]

It's ok you didn't know about the AC before, but now you know! And I appreciate how humble you are ♡

[@Fatbottomgirl666]

I ignored my landlord when she said I can't have an air conditioner. Where I live in Canada it's usually very hot and humid and I'm going through menopause and have horrible hot flashes especially at night around 3 am I'll wake up soaked in sweat my mattress soaked! There was no way I wasn't having air conditioning! Out in British Columbia they have something called a heat dome and it can get up to 40 there. It's so bad that air conditioning has to be in all new construction and they are giving away air conditioners to people in need and a massive rebate on it for everyone else but some landlords won't let people install them in there units and are being taken to court.

[@monaeallsup6140]

There are mini or portable air conditioners under 50lbs or so. I have one and all you do is open your window, put the unit in and there you go. You can always just put it away when you don't need it. No one should take you to court about it because it does no damage to the apartment.

[@uuu5713]

Girl you don’t have to suffer like this even as a vid woman you can get HRT or estrogen therapy to make menopause way more Manageable with barely any symptoms like this I’d really recommend looking into it

[@ZumbaZINJPanda]

Where the hell is she running? With no shoes 👟

[@captainlarrynosleepfishing5350]

I don’t think she left the house with any shoes? And why is she playing with her hair all the time?

[@ZumbaZINJPanda]

@@captainlarrynosleepfishing5350 that women of 44 years old has some issues going on. She is like a teenager. She is older than him.

[@chelsea-t]

Holly is the princess of Delulu land!

[@anavasconcelos9168]

I don't watch the shows but I love watching you talk about it 😅

[@Beeboop7]

POtato, I love you! ❤️ LOL I left for awhile due to something being said in a vid awhile ago but I can't stop watching. I love when you share personal things, I can completely relate. You actually made me come to terms with the fact that my possessiveness, envy and jealousy comes from a place of self hatred. Unbelievably I'm exactly like Mary, or at least at my worst I was. I'm trying to work through it but it got really bad recently and now I understand why. Thanks po!!

[@StAr51269]

Same! Something was said that was not ok. But as long as I am not busy I'll keep watching for now.

[@HWAL3VER]

in france we don't have AC, it exist but it's expensive as hell... you can find it in hotel or in store but you can't have it if you're not rich as hell 😂😭

[@stacyj8564]

Same for the Caribbean but honestly with all the breeze and air coming in , it's usually cool

[@clarepurves9759]

Same in the uk

[@02loud]

I swear she was about to say AC was a human right 😂 I was just waiting lol.

[@miss7182]

I live in East Africa and we have air conditioning in every single room. It's not that there are no air conditioners, it's that Wayne is not very financially well off. The idea that "some parts of the world doesn't have air con" isn't true, it's about your financial situation.

[@zodiacthekid1736]

It's really dangerous But a beautiful diverse country . As a South African 😂😂😂

[@callira2064]

The way you looked at the puppy and we got the side potato profile I'm crying 😂 I don't know why that was my favorite thing I've seen today 💜

[@violethastings794]

If he finds any extra $ to give her, I sure hope she uses it to buy clothes that have more material than what she currently wears.

[@cookie22100]

South Africa isn’t very dangerous, it’s just a different place. It’s like living in the city, a little street smarts goes a long way. I visited SA in 2018, granted I stayed in a richer part of town, but common safety smarts still took me a long way. I had a great time.

[@LenkaHomolkova]

Funny tangent: in many countries in Europe we just don't have the airconditioning - especially in the mild climate areas. I personally don't see airco as something to be able to afford but as something I don't want for the sustainability reasons. I rather opt for passive temperature managing possibilities like shades, curtains, blinders. :)

[@brittneyhenderson6697]

He played her and I think it’s not fair to string someone along knowing your finances are going down but yet you keep promising a lot of things. She might look like she’s over reacting but she’s just has high standards and he knew that. Now she has to lower her standards because he’s lied and kissed all his money?? She needs to run because what else would he lie about. 40k is a lot of money in Africa

[@ichangedmynameforyoutube]

Holly needs help. Somethin ain’t right with her, and I say that with all seriousness!!! I completely understand the reactions regarding the crypto investment, but let me tell you!!! When crypto first became a thing, I invested ~$1K… 7 years later it was worth over $100k! Had I not needed to pay for my brother and fathers body’s to get out of the morgue, their funerals, and travel for my kids and I to go back to the East Coast for all of it, I’d be pretty set right now. But the timing when he bought is not the best. Too many people have taken it over and crashed the worth. But at one time, this was a good investment!

[@realtehen]

i just noticed your backround and i love it!!!

[@michelle_m4446]

We bought a new prefab. It has a freaking SWAMP COOLER, with zero ducting!!! This summer we have had record high 110+ temps. Anything over 95 or high humidity and my house turns into hell's basement.

[@princememphis7726]

It's crazy yall call people "controlling" when they just want to protect someone they love. So glad I'm not dealing with American women no more. it's crazy

[@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI]

Bruh!!! Save your passport money my G. Look at the comments from South African women.

[@princememphis7726]

@@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI definitely not going to south africa. im over here in asia

[@mipanda123]

Here in Brazil, some people can't afford an AC. electricity bill is expensive.

[@tomatoexiong]

"Look at her. She's wearing her "red-flag" as a dress" 😂🤣😂🤣👌🏼 L I T E R A L L Y

[@beatmania3rdmix]

1:57 back when I was living in the Bay Area nobody I knew had air conditioning. Granted, the weather out there used to not get hot during the summer, but when I moved to the desert, that was the first time we had air conditioning in the house. I'd generalize that air conditioning is still uncommon throughout the Bay Area

[@kimberley8902]

He reminds me of that English singer, Robbie Williams.