Is this happening to you? Tell me about it below and see how I can help..
@fadouaaitbatahar84145 жыл бұрын
Sometimes speacialy when I keep teexting him all time..and we are near to get engaged but when i tell him why he didn't reply he said hevis busy with work or there is nothing to say (I don't want our relationship be a bored one) I need ur help alex thank u
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 жыл бұрын
Fadoua, You need to let him do the first steps. He will be scared to lose you!
@fadouaaitbatahar84145 жыл бұрын
Yes it's happening to me....they love me in the beegining ...and up everything goes like if I m dreaming...and I don't want this to happen to me specially this time.
@sarahbakhshandeh56705 жыл бұрын
Dear Alex after he told me about my saving and my future job ... becoz after marriage I will move to his city then I will lose my job ... the n I told him It is me and I will lose my job u and takes time to gind a new job and you can decide do u want to continue or not I dont make u want me then he goes silent... ( recently he bought a house he is rich but i think he is a kind of mama' boy)
@lflores89lf5 жыл бұрын
I text him nd he blocks me then unblocks me idk wat to do can u plz help me alex
@Baquetsartbakery4 жыл бұрын
Work on yourself works. Don't bother contacting him. He will eventually contact you out of the blue, out of no where and you will be like, WTF, LOL,, play it cool when he does, pretend you're not interested or wait a few hours to respond back, he'll contact you more, but NEVER stop working on yourself and stay connected with the Creator. The Creator will send you the one for you and you will know!!!
@maxtechmax2 жыл бұрын
Huh? Is this advice for a man, or a woman?
@lyndawright3365 жыл бұрын
Forget him he doesn’t want you .you are worth more than that!
@stitchingcreativityforall95525 жыл бұрын
He played with my emotions. I am in depression
@JB-ue6pw5 жыл бұрын
He can go to he'll fuck him. I have been talking to this stupid. man he was doing the same to me now answer my text .
@anapastorfide81164 жыл бұрын
True
@KimiTheWitchOfficial4 жыл бұрын
Apparently he’s my twin flame tho ugh so confusing
@sunitafisher47584 жыл бұрын
Lynda Wright 🌸 thank you 😊
@pamelabassmarsh52623 жыл бұрын
If he doesn't put in the work...time to go. NEVER chase a man that doesn't chase you! He's not worth it!!!
@lovelydevil32653 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!💯💯
@sweetvonbettie13 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@christinamcqueen88033 жыл бұрын
Most aren’t
@galwaygirl81312 жыл бұрын
Needed to see that today
@ak-47intelligence754 жыл бұрын
Mirror him. He breadcrumbs you, you breadcrumb him. He replies after 2 days, you reply after 2 days. He takes a week. You take a week. And so on and so forth.
@annasperl65304 жыл бұрын
Rebecca-Joy Henson my mind is going like crazy! I know I guy since 2013 we have dated back and forth.. and 2018 he left me on read did not answer stopped to like my Instagram photos and just vanished like a👻. Guess what he came back 2020 and started to text me I was bored so I answered him we texted for like 3 months and last Sunday he left me on read... he is looking on my Instagramstory but doesn’t write anything.. I forgot about him I took 1 year and poof he came back 3 months in my life and now left again I’m so ill of this childish game that men are playing.. what should I do? Help me
@arianatuler98574 жыл бұрын
@@annasperl6530 block him, he just wants to play
@solinpembe58814 жыл бұрын
Definately forget about him and move on because he's messing around
@debajanikhataniar38724 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@verklapper4 жыл бұрын
ain't nobody got time for that. Girl block him and focus on your lashes. A man that's worthy of you won't play these games.
@stephanie54715 жыл бұрын
Don’t let him become the centre of your universe. Match his efforts, never do/show more. Ignore bad behaviour. And like Alex said, challenge him.
@danaglover68015 жыл бұрын
Stefanie S This is SO true💯. I’m learning that right now. That’s been a big reason Y I always end up getting hurt. I give way toooo much, I’ve ignored red flags thinkin shit would change. I played to the beat of his drum as if he was the damn prize. I’m bk on point now and it’s all abt me. If I don’t see no act right and he’s not matching MY efforts or at least tryna show me that he’s truly interested then I’m out..... NEXT! I’m too old for the bullshit💯
@harrybear1935 жыл бұрын
No response is a response
@FleurDeLysPTV5 жыл бұрын
Yes
@anitakujur12655 жыл бұрын
How..??
@dianamarietyndall-rick67225 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@anilesojbanaga45 жыл бұрын
A response that he is not interested..
@metusalemanderson9054 жыл бұрын
😢😭😢😭😢
@DatDyme9805 жыл бұрын
Screw him! DON'T bother with people who play with others feelings especially, for their own ego boost!
@happyworld91645 жыл бұрын
Nikki Doe ... don't be with that man... that will ruin your health ....mind ... you will waste time..
@DatDyme9805 жыл бұрын
@@happyworld9164 That was my point in case you didn't notice.
@therealone86285 жыл бұрын
@@DatDyme980 lol u savage
@jammyjay9175 жыл бұрын
I don't understand why men treat us women like this, it's pathetic. So many people are playing these stupid games.... I just move on, don't let them treat you like crap...you deserve so much more.
@letisand36895 жыл бұрын
@@jammyjay917 yes. .right. ..manipulations in relationships are disgusting
@PP-ei2hy5 жыл бұрын
If he ignores,then move on. It means he doesn't like you anymore.
@Foomanlol5 жыл бұрын
I'm a guy I agree. Either hes not interested, playing games, has someone else, or just one of those flaky people who just aren't good at it. There's no point either way. There are obvious exceptions like work and other stressful problems he may be having but I personally have never ignored a woman even in in times of stress or super busy with work. I'll just say hey I'm really sorry I'm very busy or have something going on and won't be able to be as attentive for a while or whatever. Ill never just flat out ignore a girl I actually like. It takes 20 secs to write a message maybe after all. Some people though can be very needy though and want to talk to you all day when you are at work or something and its hard to accommodate that.
@jeevithamathias14624 жыл бұрын
Foomanlol .... I have a guy .. he ignores me ...he says I love you when I say I love u and he only says I miss you when I say first ... it’s like effort from one side .. when I asked him wether u need to marry me .. he said yes ... but keeps on ignoring me ... then I asked him do u really like to be in relationship with me .. he didn’t reply yet ! What shall I actually do .. my mind is totally messed up
@faithduh28954 жыл бұрын
Yeah maybe you are right these guys just like to mess with a girls feelings thinking that you don't exist anymore they just shut you out of their life 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄😒😒😒😒
@rubypaul1004 жыл бұрын
@@Foomanlol but a guy if he doesn't wants us doesn't even say that he has someone? I'll see smone else then..& doesn't even blocking me, removing me from fb...I don't understand men
@rubypaul1004 жыл бұрын
@@jeevithamathias1462 date others, see at least..if u get someone..who's ready for u..marry that one..I hv already wasted my 2 yrs for a guy who wasn't sure & then he married someone & I was depressed & now I understood. Now again a guy he's hot & cold sooo I hv decided I'll keep him aside ,if je initiates then fine,meanwhile I'll see others also, if he doesn't initiates anything bcz I hv apologized, tried talking too.he's cold..rarely msgs all of a sudden. If I get someone better than him who is valuing me..ill marry that new one.let him sit & see
@stars_for_night_lights3 жыл бұрын
I backed off on texting because he was giving me bread crumbs. Then he texted me and said he purposefully waited two days to see if I would text him. I'm tired of the head games. Ladies, hold out for a man who you don't have to do cartwheels and jump through hoops of fire blindfolded for.
@janjangregorio97602 жыл бұрын
If u love a men u need to update on him even u busy just simple message on us made us happy hope I will find a partner like this 😭😢😢🌞
@milytorres17725 жыл бұрын
Why waste your time with this type of man narcissist...run away that's my advice.
@ginaballarbare-25015 жыл бұрын
Mily Torres thats right!!
@divyarajesh6974 жыл бұрын
But a married woman with his 2 kids.. what can do???
@mai00333 жыл бұрын
Alex isn't a narcissist
@Bogna13 жыл бұрын
When guy is a narcissist - I do agree - just run but sometimes also good guys do this.
@Naaz2424 жыл бұрын
Moral of the story keep distance always, control ur desires, work on ur self. Be you And let the world follow you.
@raceray8 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@lalapsy234 жыл бұрын
Quarantine has everyone acting different . .. Actually they are showing their true colours. ..
@cherrylYTChannel044 жыл бұрын
Yeah you're right, atleast God give us time to think what's the best for ourselves and not for others. 😊
@celissewillis93994 жыл бұрын
This is actually very true! Quarantine has been like one long Mercury retro, but also bringing a lot of clarity when it comes to seeing people’s true colors & accepting that that’s just how they are... so it’s really been a blessing in disguise.
@sivakumars24014 жыл бұрын
You must take it in happy manner, bcos god give u the opportunity to find out the real colour.
@ladennayoung29394 жыл бұрын
This don't have ANYTHING to do with the coronavirus/quarantine. Some of you all make your whole life about it. Just stop it already. If a person don't care about you, they simply don't care about you. This have been happening since the beginning of time. I'm sure.
@engagesyoungages61905 жыл бұрын
Ladies 👸 care for someone who cares you
@DatDyme9805 жыл бұрын
Amen! Simple!
@madisonhilario94355 жыл бұрын
Right 😊 you need to love and respect yourself 😊move on find a man that will love you and value you😊
@shiengalleto13393 жыл бұрын
Im trying him to not text 3 days im doing ur advice but after he doesnt reply he is not sweet . Its difference ehen we first meet how can i do what is ur advice i like him so much. Im fallen inlove i cry when im lonely hes afghan
@shiengalleto13393 жыл бұрын
Can u advice me
@DatDyme9805 жыл бұрын
If you're being ignored why would anyone need to ask "What should I do" ? Do you ignore people that you have real feelings for? Build strength and self 💪 esteem by moving on and not chasing someone who obviously, doesn't value/want you. ANY man can tell you're NEEDY and don't love yourself THAT'S why you'll KEEP LOSING!
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment!
@kellypyffer39585 жыл бұрын
If they ignore me once I ignore them forever 💯
@tessemerrose2 жыл бұрын
This
@TheNisiu5 ай бұрын
Exactly!!
@rosabecker28235 жыл бұрын
Do this👉forget him!!!
@daffodil37925 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 the best one
@starsky15535 жыл бұрын
Rosa Becker yes just wasted
@fattyhealy57254 жыл бұрын
Wish it that easy
@murphypaschal2 ай бұрын
Even though it hurts like hell...that hurt will one day stop. Life rarely gives us what we want. Suck it up, let him go. He is not interested in you. Probably it is nature's way of protecting you from an idiot.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching and for your comment on this! I appreciate your support!
@shinefernandez75015 жыл бұрын
If he didn't reply you. Then move on and forget him.
@CC-kr3mr3 жыл бұрын
Get anotha one! When a man isn’t performing he needs to be replaced. Think of yourself as a valuable company - if the employees are not performing they get replaced.
@cicichambers38875 жыл бұрын
Jesus Christ, why is everything a game. You make it sound like every day for the rest of life is OUR responsibility to keep a man entertained like he’s 2 years old. Ugh. Ladies , neither of you don’t text back because you were raised without manners and are afraid of ,”thanks, but no “ No man who isn’t working on who HE is will stay interested. Nor will they stay interested if you aren’t working on you. Period. You can’t be validated in others, but your need for love CAN and must be evidenced by receiving extrinsic love...or we become anxious. just like kids cannot damage themselves, you can only do so much healing yourself. Then the external is needed. If they aren’t giving it, look inward first, then move on. Remember, you ARE worthy. You shouldn’t have to dance a man’s childlike dance to get him. men need to move into 2020. Period. Stop damaging each other.
@Foomanlol5 жыл бұрын
CiCi Chambers, problem is many women seem attracted to these "mysterious guy" badboy doesn't care attitude and want to "fix him" and make him give her something he just wont ever give. They often ignore the attentive reliable guy, always available, because hes "to easy" or seems desperate. Those guys will give you exactly all the attention and love you want but you aren't attracted to them for that very reason.
@lulalula71205 жыл бұрын
Agree
@ak-47intelligence755 жыл бұрын
@@Foomanlol The very type of man you are talking about IS the man who will end up eventually ignoring you and taking you for granted once he is confident he has your heart. It ALL starts off all flowery and lovely dovey. As a matter of fact, every single woman who ended up with a player didn't know what she was getting into until she knew what she got into, which is, of course, by then, sometimes, a little too late ! No woman with a sound mind would date a player if she knew what he was about. It is only after he knows he has her, he starts running games.
@jamesmartoneiiihumbledbych44004 жыл бұрын
Very true and inspiring by all
@ceciliakaari7824 жыл бұрын
Can I laugh first?😄😄😄😄
@annv67814 жыл бұрын
I tell myself everyday. You choose to be positive (and make positive changes). You respect yourself.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert4 жыл бұрын
Yes, you make your own choices and with that said ,Learn to always love yourself first.
@abundantlife47585 жыл бұрын
Top tip- don't associate with people that play games! Respect yourself enough and set boundaries. If someone is being this rude and trying to control you or have power over you then they are not respecting you!! Respect yourself, move on and associate with people that act mature and can handle a two way conversation. This is playground stuff and shows narsissistic tendencies and nobody wants to be associated with someone like that.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment!
@Kkkkkkmmm11115 жыл бұрын
Beach Girlie good thoughts
@peaceofmindofpeace16505 жыл бұрын
So well said!
@moonstone44754 жыл бұрын
If they are really interested, they do reply in a reasonable time frame. If they reply late they are just bread crumbing you in case they have no other option for sex. If they don't reply at all, they don't give a shit. All this regardless of the way you talk to them or what you say.
@amandaparr344 жыл бұрын
I’m a women and the reason I didn’t text him back is bc I was upset how he can go all day without texting me , so I just didn’t reply anymore .
@dannifeng83394 жыл бұрын
If he don't like her, say it, be honest to each other. Why choose to ignore? I think this is related to manner ,politeness and respect.
@HeartCenteredUniverse11114 жыл бұрын
I totally agree. Women need to lean back and let the man chase her. And not be bothered if he doesn’t pursue 😍
@Alieortwo5 жыл бұрын
Why? Because he is immature and played you.
@georgeduplessis8534 жыл бұрын
do you know how to deal with different zodiac signs and the text massaging
@ivy38394 жыл бұрын
Because he did not felt like it
@cn19765 жыл бұрын
Move on. He’s bread crumbing you!
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 жыл бұрын
Not easy to be strong but you're right!
@cn19765 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I have been through a lot. I just started dating in January. I was married for 12 years and with my husband 5 years before that but he passed away in 2014. Then I met someone and was in a solid relationship for 3 1/2 years but we parted ways because we wanted different things. So this is my first time dating since before 1997! I met what I thought was my soulmate type of guy Jan 31. For 3 weeks we were in sync! He called and texted all the time. He told me many times how amazing he thought I was and told me a couple of times how he was falling for me and that this thing was headed somewhere serious. I am normally very guarded and slow moving with new people but he made me feel comfortable and confident so I followed his lead! I didn't express the things that he did because I was cautious and I told him a few times that I was still trying to play it cool. This went on for 3 weeks! Then out of nowhere he got distant! I know he had personal things going on that he tried to keep from me. His ex had financial issues and he told me she had to file bankruptcy and he would have to pay more for their son for things but that was the extent. Then he said he had a bad day at work. I asked him what was up with him and he just told me he had a bad day but was very cold to me as if I was bothering him! The next morning he texted me and told me that I was great and didn't do anything wrong but this thing was moving way too fast and it was consuming. He also said this was just supposed to be fun but it was headed somewhere serious and he said I was pushing on the gas pedal too hard and had him on this pedestal that he felt he didn't deserve. Then he said he didn't know what he wanted. I was so upset. I never asked him for a commitment. I never asked where it was going because he is the one that said it was headed somewhere serious. I never told him I was in love or falling for him. It was very odd. My response to that text was that I didn't find it fair that he was blaming me for his work issues and that we both were moving fast and I was just following his lead and he never once said this was just a casual thing. He never responded. I tried many more times to talk to him. Over the course of 2 months I emailed and texted with no response. Some were angry messages and some were understanding. He never replied. Then I found out he also filed for bankruptcy so I reached out and told him I knew what was going on and if that is why he bailed, that is silly because that is his personal finances and not my concern. This time he replied and told me to stop trying to contact him! Now if he would have done that in the first place and was just honest with his reason for wanting out, I would have obliged. I just didn't understand. So after he said to stop contacting him in a cold demeanor, it triggered something in my head. I basically was done done done! He was not at all who he presented himself to be to me. At that point I was able to move on. Before that I would go on dates but I didn't take any of it seriously. I thought I was waiting for him. Now it is different. I am able to actually enjoy meeting people and there is one person that I am very interested in but I will take all of the above as learning and be more careful. So that is why I said, when a guy does those things, move on. Men are more complicated than we think. They put logic over emotion and women do the opposite. They will walk away from love if they have to if it is inconvenient. It isn't worth our sanity. I was a wreck for those 2 months thinking I did something because his text made it seem like I did. I know now that it wasn't me at all. I am back to being myself again but I am a little stronger than before. I hope this story will help you with your clients. Women should be careful not to get to wrapped up in things even if the guy is driving the bus that is moving so fast. Set boundaries and stick with them. Don't get to comfortable too early. Thank you
@ginaballarbare-25015 жыл бұрын
but my ex he keep calling to go out with him
@therealone86285 жыл бұрын
@@cn1976 next time once a man sends u the first message saying...it was moving fast. Or I don't deserve u or any of those shit even just cold attitude pls and pls disappear. Don't write messages or calls as u did until he told u to stop contacting him damn.
@therealone86285 жыл бұрын
If he doesn't respond to your messages pls respect yourself and DON'T send him anything again
@mariamarzena65345 жыл бұрын
I love your simple, straightforward, and honest advice.
@yorishgrahiro10534 жыл бұрын
Just wait 24 hours if he doesn't reply, don't stress yourself to someone had no interest with you.. It happened to me..i know what does feel, when someone ignoring you..
@bookworms56564 жыл бұрын
should i just run block and do nothing ????
@kavyatripathi44503 жыл бұрын
@@bookworms5656 don't block him. Don't let him know whether it makes any difference if he talks to you or not. It is happening to me..so I know..what it feels to be in the situation like this..IT SUCKSS!!😑😑 Btw, what's the current status??
@nickilewis7865 жыл бұрын
If he don’t apply it’s time for you to fly....
@wadewalker1185 жыл бұрын
I sent one last message stating this isn't working out. Then, I wished him the best and left it at that. Bottom line...move on to something better, yourself!
@annasperl65304 жыл бұрын
WADE WALKER I texted I guy and he was like low key on his message and the last message I wrote was “👍” and he read the message and never replayed back.. if he was interested he would keep up the conversation the only thing he always wrote was what’s up and that’s it
@BriW33 жыл бұрын
Periodt
@sheynberkin48345 жыл бұрын
If the man does not pursue for get him. Men are simple if they don’t like a women it’s final. Because maybe your not the one he is looking for. If they like a women they will go for it.
@adj57674 жыл бұрын
@Cindy Lou still doesn't mean anything. He can go for it, punch himself out and then oops! 'We are not a match'!
@sarahscroggins27934 жыл бұрын
It’s usually the ones they don’t need to peruse...the bad ones.
@ceciliarecto4 жыл бұрын
Subscribed. Thank you for the content. I was ghosted but moving on. 🤣😄😀 No begging..no chasing. Self respect is the key!
@lovelydevil32653 жыл бұрын
I am an Indian, and i really like your voice and accent. Its so sweet and soothing 😌🌹
@poorhai93214 жыл бұрын
some men easily gives up even the slightest misunderstanding and find someone new...one guy told me being in loving relationship doesn't need much effort i told him but being in a relationship isnt perfect either...maybe thats why men run away when it gets deep like when women have "expectations" already. They enjoy the fun side but doesnt bother the "drama" thats what they call it
@DallasJayCook3 жыл бұрын
Texting back is a problem now.. back in 2010 things aren’t like this. It’s getting worse smh
@jagpreetkaur63755 жыл бұрын
Alex your intentions of helping women is amazing. Your French accent is too good.
@peppa_pig_4 жыл бұрын
Why is "dating" harder than differential calculus wtf? We shouldn't be too detached/play "hard to get" because then he'll think we're not interested but we can't be over-eager -- everything is too much
@lmusima32752 жыл бұрын
It’s called ghosting. I’m so glad that I no longer bother with text communication anymore. I no longer get this anxiety
@vanessamuckett278 Жыл бұрын
Omg if a guy doesn’t text you back just block him and move on! There really is nothing to think about
@thessamartinez81325 жыл бұрын
Tough situation honestly... it hurts soooo much!😭😭😭
@ginaballarbare-25015 жыл бұрын
Tear Dropz let him go!!
@wafiiqmohamedhossen16955 жыл бұрын
It is same for me it is too hard to forget him oh god what's my sin i have done
@faithduh28954 жыл бұрын
Yes I know it hurts when you open up to their heart not thinking about you anymore I know how you feel I'm going through the same problem right now 😔😔😔😔😔💔💔💔
@tissaarora56704 жыл бұрын
💔💔🙂🙂
@ireneboakyeyiadom21123 жыл бұрын
This situation is really really painful nd it's well with us
@j.rebekah86053 ай бұрын
I would really have to deeply loathe someone to not even reply within two days and at least say I'm busy.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 ай бұрын
I understand what you mean!
@smarie42334 жыл бұрын
Dump him... find someone who appreciates you
@mysticalmultiverse2 жыл бұрын
I'm not gonna play games to keep a man interested. I'm looking for a companion to spend the rest of my life with. A person to lean on and trust. If he ghosts me early on I'm grateful that I was able to weed him out before investing years into him. Just imagine marrying and having kids with a guy like this. No thanks.
@cherrylYTChannel044 жыл бұрын
I met this guy online, we chatted and have VC for almost 2mons. But lately I've notice he changed, his not like before like calling me everyday even if he is at his work he called me during his break time and after work he called me again, 2 weeks ago I've notice that the scenario was changed. In the evening I chatted him and want to talk with him because that's the only time we can talk well since I understand that his busy at work. But he was just replied that he was tired from work and want to sleep, I felt upset because he was not like that before even if his tired he VC with me. I want to know the real reason, why his acting like that. If he don't want me to chat with him and felt annoying because I always chat or show cared with him, then it's fine. I don't want him to disrespect with me. And i don't want to waste my time chasing with a guy who doesn't see my worth. Now that I watched this video, it really enlighten my mind that there is really much important doing something to myself than focusing with a guy who was not into me. I will keep distant with him because if he really loves me, he will reach out and misses me. 😊
@daryldagaas85514 жыл бұрын
Same situation here😔
@yuliestriasih23574 жыл бұрын
Me as well, and finally he blocked me for small reason.
@Bogna13 жыл бұрын
If you never met him, just chatting it doesn't really mean anything. Why you didn't meet earlier? He just might get bored of endless conversation over chatting.
@ireneboakyeyiadom21123 жыл бұрын
Very powerful dear
@lucitsa5 жыл бұрын
I dont really understand why we have to play these stupid games! If a man loves you ! He just does you dont need all this crap ! If i man loves you he cannot breathe without you ! My flatmate was intimate with someone from the first date they got engaged in 4 months me being hard to get and all this drama kept me alone for almost 6 years !
@fayeholder22384 жыл бұрын
I am tired of all the games if I text a guy and he ignore me I am done with him!!
@jazminolivari37344 күн бұрын
🙏🏻
@michelleg53715 жыл бұрын
Lol he’s not interested. Move on simple
@danaglover68015 жыл бұрын
Michelle G Yep, that’s abt the size of it.
@sharoncooper9042 жыл бұрын
I am in the exact situation and your advice is so hard to do but I will definitely be following your advice. Thank you.
@salvadiana92702 жыл бұрын
Me tooo
@marishkaspirit5 жыл бұрын
This is so frustrating. A whole video just to tell us to go to your session.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 жыл бұрын
No, the whole video is not about going to my session, I am also offering an amazing book!
@marymotherofgod48615 жыл бұрын
Right
@anastasijabeograd39035 жыл бұрын
Exactly !!! 🙄
@myafreeton94315 жыл бұрын
Precisely!!! Was thinking this is just a commercial!!!
@asiimwejoweria25845 жыл бұрын
seriously I feel bitter too wasting my mbs
@drmanhattan72384 жыл бұрын
Damn Aquarius opened up so deeply with me, told me his darkness secrets, and said he wanted to be w me etc... after I comforted him and he thanked me. now he is completely reading messages and not replying...
@bindushankar91379 ай бұрын
Yeah there's an aquarius , said he likes me but i never replied anything for that, now he is hurt and we don't talk anymore 😂
@shiva4ever5 жыл бұрын
It's too much work to be termed LOVE. It is more like business management. No thanks. If someone isn't linked to you like you are to them, then you are better off without them, unless you enjoy these constant mind games. Peace.
@peaceofmindofpeace16505 жыл бұрын
Amen.
@sunflowers24694 жыл бұрын
what should you do? move on & know that you’re not alone.
@MaamafricaEsther3 жыл бұрын
But who has time for this kind of men who are looking for challenges
@estheryatabary94445 жыл бұрын
He is not replying after reading , but he didn t block me neither , if he doesn t want to reply then why not blocking me ?
@Deepikapathak4 жыл бұрын
esther Yatabary Coz they keep a window open at their convenience...like they r sure you that you r just a call or text away...So girl wake up get up n dust ur self off n prove him wrong...Absolutely live ur lyf 🌟
@lolacookie4534 жыл бұрын
He didn’t block you because the universe wants you to block HIM. do not be just an option for when it’s convenient for him. Let him go.
@ruitingshen16854 жыл бұрын
@@lolacookie453 then what should i do if he texted after a long time
@zalmanimtiazimtiaz68404 жыл бұрын
Same with me .
@zalmanimtiazimtiaz68404 жыл бұрын
Yeah what if he replied someday?
@isabelmamaclay63375 жыл бұрын
Don't beg someone to stay ur life if u still texting .calling nd still.ignoring walk away from him..Move on that is easy way.
@judithbartlett33394 жыл бұрын
Interesting. I fall into this category, guilty. I am in a long distant relationship. In the beginning I was the one who didn't text back. But as time went on I found myself texting him constantly. Now he verily answers. And when he does he verily says anything. He still claims he loves me, but I feel like he is just playing with me. I believe he wants to see me fall apart and then come in and tell me how he loves me only to start the cycle all over again. I believe he loves me but I also believes he enjoys the control of my emotions.
@tessemerrose2 жыл бұрын
This
@Noone-vz5xu Жыл бұрын
Should i block him or just let him see?
@lesleymiller84462 жыл бұрын
Why is it always the woman who seems too easy, it takes 2 to tango, so hes just as easy...
@stylemaniastylemania6305 жыл бұрын
U r the best relationship expert I've ever seen. ❤
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, it means a lot to me!
@patiencejassy41243 жыл бұрын
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert Alex please can I have your email address
@silentdreams24153 жыл бұрын
Mr, Cormont, I understand u very well! Ur English is find! Great video! Thank u!
@agnesdereulle-recitsdevie23715 жыл бұрын
He read my messages but did not replay, often I was in this situation. You're right, I will be patient :-) Have a good day coach.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Agnes!
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Agnès, wish you the best!
@lovesongs35215 жыл бұрын
Same as mine too..I sent messages but only he read it .When he felt im getting upset that time he will ask if i still love him since he is an army
@lovesongs35215 жыл бұрын
Pls reply i need your advice thanks 😊
@mel07105 жыл бұрын
hi...i met an american guy in the USA when i was about to leave US...i am from the philippines, and we met for the first time in person somewhere in asia and he knows i was going back to the US after 2 months...he said he would feel better if i would come back to US and he's looking forward to seeing me again...but slowly he doesn't message me anymore the way he used to...but told me to message him when i return...now i'm back and let him know, i got only one message saying...hello...i'm going back to work, chat later...haven't heard from him since...i'm confused...i don't know what to think...i stop to message him
@sonias97222 жыл бұрын
I've done this to people (I know it's bad and I try to be better) but I've only done this to those who I don't care about that much and I take for granted. That's how I know when somebody ignores me it's because they don't like me and don't believe I'll leave/don't care if I do leave.
@sundayjosephine98064 жыл бұрын
Alex same to me, my Boyfriend doesnot reply to my text massages I want to quit this relationship he always tells me that he is busy catching UP with deadline or working ON his project
@FrenchRelationshipExpert4 жыл бұрын
There is always time to send a simple message.
@angelawilliams90884 жыл бұрын
He is soooo right! Sometimes it's not what you do, but what you say. I learned that, I did EXACTLY what he said and stopped texting him. Then all of a sudden he next me on Mother's day, I was shocked! he hadn't done that in many years. Wait, if he's really for you he will come.
@Gypsymumma903 жыл бұрын
I think its upsetting when he doesn't respond for hours then when I go to his home I saw him texting his ex...its bullshit
@SaraFJones3 жыл бұрын
I’m guilty of this sometimes, I just hit the like button!
@mindset_happy4 жыл бұрын
Ignore him back,,let him feel the same
@natashamoon61245 жыл бұрын
I text my ex,he didn't reply after reading ,I blocked him.
@lucitsa5 жыл бұрын
Good girl !!!!!
@natashabutt60825 жыл бұрын
Wao girl you rocked by the way my name is also Natasha
@alhassanfirrdous72925 жыл бұрын
I also blocked two guys, and bam the right guy showed up
@saudahsau62515 жыл бұрын
😀😀
@anilesojbanaga45 жыл бұрын
Thats good
@podersa2414 жыл бұрын
Number 1 rule you send one message and if no response then just move on. I have a guy that keeps calling me and texting but I rarely respond. I do not want to hurt him but asked him to move on. He still bothers me and claims he wants marriage with me. He doe not even know me like that. He calls me selfish but eventually he will move on. NO reply is no reply. Thank him for not wasting your time be grateful some people spends years of their life and realize it was not meant to be.
@anabellee12255 жыл бұрын
Alex, no, you have a beautiful accent and the suggestions you offer are very valid. I am from Europe as well, and except the Anglo-Saxons the rest of the world speak English with an accent, so no worries at all. If anything, it indicates diversity, which is wonderful! 😇🍀
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the support :-) It means a lot to me!
@Fuchsiababe4 жыл бұрын
This happened to me. Don't send a love letter. Guys DO NOT process texts like women at all... Save that for face to face and phone calls. ❤️❤️❤️ sometime they do this to look for a safe spot to reply. listen to this man.
@Jinglealltheway-z7y4 жыл бұрын
Just happened and I did the same thing deleted him. It hurts so bad now I can’t even breath for a second that I can feel my heart breaks 💔
@cherylharwood72674 жыл бұрын
I have texted this guy he reads my massage him he reads but doesn't respond we've been friends for 20 years we were intimate 15 years ago we just reconnected he travels a lot because of his job just curious why this guy doesn't respond to any of my texts he reads them I still feel like he wants to stay in touch with me but I think you just wants to be friends
@Cc-xc4jj4 жыл бұрын
You must resist to text him, text a friend instead. Do not text until he does. Just move on!
@patriciaearley41774 жыл бұрын
This guy just stopped texting and calling me after pursuing me for 4 month.I know he's interested but acts aloof.I think this is immature and not acceptable behavior I don't know what to think what does he get from not talking to me? Geezos🤔
@cherrylYTChannel044 жыл бұрын
Same here girl, but all we want to do is to focus ourselves first. 😊
@elhamalizadeh82124 жыл бұрын
Do the same
@CrystalLynnLove5 жыл бұрын
I wish you would encourage honesty, humility and accountability. What’s the problem with just being honest??? Why feed mind games that hurt people????? Here’s a real challenge for you... integrity!!!!!! 🌬❤️♾
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 жыл бұрын
Because honest people are always vulnerable and we don't live in the Walt Disney and Hollywood world! We need to accept that the balance of power exist. And Also ALL my videos are here to help people who miss self confidence to empower themselves...
@amanishajay9145 жыл бұрын
I really wish my situation was easier. I am .Married to a Cancer, I am Libra. He anandoned me in October and haven't heard from since. My husband/best friend/soulmate. is not a burden to me, what he did makes me sad you're right I was forced into the seperation. But I've been doing all I can I have own goals! I love my husband, and I changed for myselg. Great video!!!
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your support. Stay strong and continue focused on your goals.
@payalpatel31634 жыл бұрын
He wants an ego boost, and when you reply quickly he gets the validation he needs so will ignore your text! Plus he is probably speaking to plenty other girls and so keeping you on the back burner as an option. Finally they just enjoy the thrill of the chase once they can see you are interested they back off. And they said men are simple 🤷🏽♀️🙄
@landriahm61615 жыл бұрын
I casually texted him bc I'm ready to move on from him and I just wanted to let him know that I'm ok and accept the friendship. And that there no hard feelings... But didn't receive a reply. I'm over it! On to the next!
@anessamazleen4 жыл бұрын
It’s funny when i read your book in french accents hahahaha
@aubreemeadows5092 жыл бұрын
That means he doesn’t like you, or he’s busy, either way: MOVE ON 😅
@andreamolina5505 жыл бұрын
Tell me what to do my boyfriend doesn’t answer he just opens my messages but doesn’t answer I already told him if he’s mad I’m sorry but 🤷♀️🥺😞
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 жыл бұрын
Just give it some time.
@andreamolina5505 жыл бұрын
Alex Cormont - The French Relationship Expert no update he broke up with me
@user-gz4fi1ns7c4 жыл бұрын
@@andreamolina550 sorry to hear that. My partner is also doing the same thing, opening messages and not answering. Could you share why he broke up with you?
@jam-se8yq3 жыл бұрын
I am done with games. Life is not a game. In true relations we need trusting and respect not playing games
@sheilamaemore42114 жыл бұрын
Omg i just watching this vlog bec someone didn't actually replied to me after texting him several times, and now in the middle of watching it, HE REPLIED !!!! OH MY GOODNESSS 😅🤣
@jyoti45493 жыл бұрын
Lucky u
@DrLotfi-lk7wf3 жыл бұрын
Girls, he didn’t say anything!!! Please text him, u seemed a guy with manners guess got mistaken about u, happens) have a great week! Or u seemed to have potential but I see u are not my type, had crazy plans for u) If a guy doesn’t respond step back but having a standard of a high value! That’s simply and don’t do that mistake again!
@kudziestherdelali73335 жыл бұрын
I'm watching this because I want to wast my bundle and throw my sim card away. I want to start new. He can go to hell😂
@deliwepontsho35913 жыл бұрын
Yoh m in love with a narcissist and I can't seem to get over him don't know what's wrong with me...i cook for him , wash , clean but he doesn't reply my texts n worse part he told me he will call me only when he needs sex I mean nothing to him now
@brujalinda3 жыл бұрын
he's using you, narcissist ppl will have you doing stuff for them and then say i didn't ask u to do anything for me. really ungreatful
@sydluvsdepechemode4 жыл бұрын
I love your work Alex. My person didn't reply to my good morning text but read it.. I'm going to back off and I just realized I didn't even ask an open-ended question or anything engaging. He'll probably text me later on today venting about how busy he was at work 😂
@NalaMahal3 жыл бұрын
My person does this too much and it’s exhausting. He would start with responding then stop. But will read my follow-ups. He knows what I wanted and rather than replying yes or no to my question (it was a request to meet-up) he chose to ignore me. So my *final text* was me *acknowledging his withdrawal* and told him that *I will give him space.* As soon as I sent that, he responded so fast. 💨 But now I’m really not interested in pulling teeth to get someone to respond. I have since left his message *unread* and will just move with occupying myself with other things.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 жыл бұрын
I am sorry to hear about that Nala! I understand how frustrating that can be. There is a video on my channel I want to share that I think you will benefit from as well. I hope you take the time to check it out:) kzbin.info/www/bejne/nIqufZ6mhcmKp80
@LoveLife-ho3rg5 жыл бұрын
I love your videos! Been binge watching them all! I got totally ignored by crush whom I’ve liked for some years and when I finally took the chance to approach him , he ignored me bad.. it’s been so hard to overcome that, I’ve been an emotional wreck. Crying and overthinking what went wrong... now I know .. I may have been to obvious. It’s just to put yourself up on the horse and learn the game! No more heartbreak for me.. Alex tell me, is it hard to date you ? Lol you’d see through all the women’s games, thinking oh I know what you’re doing.. I teach this for a living ..
@bossladdy77dh84 жыл бұрын
I love your accent Alex It’s mesmerizing..... Thank for the Advice 🙏🏽🤲🏽
@Bhrglr5 жыл бұрын
He said that want a relationship with me but then we argued and didn't start a relationship. i was sending messages to him. he was answering with short messages. After that i stopped send message 2 days later he sent message me. i answered but then he did not reply. Later he said he wants to be friend with me not a relationship. i did not accept this. i unfollowed him instagram and delete number. He did not delete me. Did i do right thing?
@cn19765 жыл бұрын
eyireltia yes!
@meenuselvam15 жыл бұрын
Yes
@qtee25185 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!! Let him chase you like the coach said.
@gustinaebizi55235 жыл бұрын
eyireltia yes you better move on fast I know its not easy
@joycejoalfon57694 жыл бұрын
Very nice advice... Nice tips 👍
@FrenchRelationshipExpert4 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot
@dansmith4874 жыл бұрын
I'm a woman who has not responded to the last 2 messages from a guy. My reason is he repulses me.
@renoponciano88544 жыл бұрын
Alex your tips are so awesome.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert4 жыл бұрын
Glad you like them!
@klaramika5 жыл бұрын
I actually watch these videos because of your French accent! ;)
@tracyg97215 жыл бұрын
Klara Mika I was thinking the same thing and then I wondered if it was real? DdI you ever see outsourced and the array of accents.