He’s a 5 but…👀😍 | Episode 55

[@maryannemau1940]

Murugi, I have a man who's an excellent communicator, I at times lag behind. He's very open about his feelings, I give him a safe space to share his emotions and I don't invalidate them. Solving conflict is very easy. I don't have to guess where he is, who he is with, and where I stand with him. I disagree with Lydia on being a man's first. I am this man's first girlfriend, I set a boundary with myself and said I won't teach him the basics of a relationship, nor will I do his emotional work for him. He'd been preparing to be an amazing partner before we met. I am loved well, spoilt a lot, supported, and he is faithful. I enjoyed the episode.

[@carolmutua5266]

I love that😊. Makes me so hopeful.

[@mumuhassan1166]

Wow

[@moraaviviannagmail.com1]

Does you man has a twin brother? Am interested 😁 honestly I also disagree with Lyd's opinion on being a man's first.I mean men who wait until they're emotionally, spiritually and financially to date and when they're ready they're ready to marry.Thats a 20 for real.Chances are rare they'll cheat especially if they're true believers read "true believers" again.Also sex is an art,we learn everyday.Its okay to teach them since you know better 😂

[@annekathambi9807]

Mine was different. If I hadn’t found out I would Mrs. Idibia-ring in a few short years. I feel like it’s just like any other man, you get what you get, you can’t generalise

[@olivechege4184]

If he is financing my dreams, my goodness he is a 24K coz that's gold. 😍

[@immachep]

My husband of 5 years is an EXCELLENT dad, cook, communicator.. and extremely emotionally and mentally WOKE... Meditation, journaling, reading on psychology, deep conversations all night, cold and breathing mental exercises.. Wouiiiiii... It's been a beautiful journey to watch.. Good and solid partner is possible. Stay positive, healing, Learning and Growing.. He shall indeed come!! Loved the episode 😂😂❤️

[@FayKay348]

Holy shit!! I am just realising I have a 100 😯. One of those GREAT communicators you hear about in bedtime stories lol. And by great I mean GREEAAT!!!!! A man so in touch with his emotions….and mine. I never have to guess where we stand at any particular time. And talk about loyalty, eish!!! His level of honesty and communication reassures me beyond a shadow of doubt that he is absolutely unequivocally faithful to me………And the cherry on top, he is 6’3, pocket heavy and spoils me rotten. Excuse me while I go appreciate this man 😉 In case anyone is wondering, I was facing Mt Kenya when I prayed 😂😂😂

[@thegodlyprincess_kenya]

Hallelujah 😂

[@beatricemuringi4120]

Waaaaaaauuuuu beautiful. Must be nice. Mt.Kenya iko side gani?

[@paulinekiboi851]

Are you sure we're not dating the same person? 😂

[@angelachange9382]

goodness, is your man single?

[@aseasyas4cfro643]

😆

[@slymwende_17]

Lydia's sense of humour is so elite 😂😂😂she is so funny unprovoked

[@Sharon_Njoki.M]

Minute 13 is on repeat cause what!!🤣🤣 Lydia is so comical asiii

[@1takebyben_kirthiga_benn934]

TMI is GOLD each time 👌🏾 As a 49 year old man, let me candidly say, being on social media is not in itself bad. After all, it’s now the way of life. Easily, anyone oblivious could be lacking. What I really came to say is men, we are chameleons. I’ve done my research and I dare say my data in empirical whilst you both clearly note, “men are from Mars”. Rest assured, a good communicator is a reflection of YOU! Keep shining 👌🏾

[@Asalix2]

My man is a great communicator! They actually exist...and he has zero social media presence. He's not even on FB! Does not care about social media, we share a cell phone, supports my dreams, and he's not a 5, he's immeasurable! OMG he's a unicorn!

[@Daisy-Ke]

He's a 5 but cares about your feelings and is emotionally available. 100!

[@edinahkendi9871]

He is definitely a 10.5 for me... nonchalant men ain't for me

[@beloncekamz2821]

He is a 5 but he intellectually stimulates me😘. Good vibes🔥🔥🤣🤣😭😭, keeping it 💯. Not me thinking next week TMI tutakuwa tumevote tunangoja the final results.

[@imungukalevera8671]

I almost hollered into the laptop when I heard Murugi say she prefers a man who has no exes. Imagine no, I say this because I have had partner who I was their first proper and almost only relationship. It's not as rosy as you'd expect. The relationship can survive but you need a whole lot of patience and grace. By that time I had much more experience. You have to patiently teach everything from opening car doors, to the importance of dates, the importance of emotional support, communication and how to be affectionate. My partner often treated me just like any other friend before I mentioned that this is a romantic and not a platonic relationship, both important but not the same. It's no easy task and I would advise someone to only do it with a person they see a long term future with. Otherwise you will do all that work only for it to be enjoyed by someone else. But they take random candid pictures of me and mid 30s with no kids, so I win on some ends.

[@imungukalevera8671]

@Gracielanera mine opens now hehe. If you make it clear you want it, it happens.

[@crochets2547]

I’m blessed, my man is actually an excellent communicator. EXCELLENT ! We cultivated a culture of saying everything as plain as it is. And we talk even when we are mad at each other, we still TALK- there’s no silent treatment here. We SPEAK OUT. We tell each other how we exactly feel (honest feelings) . Now watching this I feel like I just don’t appreciate my relationship enough🥹, I just realized that I have a really good man y’all .

[@margaretwangui698]

Love this for you!.❤️❤️

[@thegodlyprincess_kenya]

Awww you are God's favorite 😆

[@crochets2547]

@@thegodlyprincess_kenya thank you 🙏 I’m really grateful. 💕

[@crochets2547]

@@margaretwangui698 thank you ❤️❤️❤️

[@wangarikariuki6522]

Please tell him. It’s important that men know this too, as I think they’re hardly told when they get it right

[@myranjeri3401]

'You're dating an infant, 🎵🎶baabbyy baabby baby 🍼🎶🎵'!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@thegodlyprincess_kenya]

The reason why I love Murugi is she GIVES EVERY DETAIL.Lol..I love Lydia too but she filters stuff. At times when she really need to give more details she just decides to laugh out loud alooot and you can tell that she can relate to the statement she just doesn't want to give more TEA😂and I respect that you know. We can't all be the same.

[@louisawambui4475]

Murugi looking extra cute today😍😍😍. On the issue of people being over 35 with no children, I actually know so many people in that zone. Its wrong to assume that there is something broken about them.

[@rosewacu5446]

GIRLS i do not know how to say this but my man ryt now jeez he is actually better than i am in communicating and he has challenged me to actually be open about my feelings often....i feel more listened to and more understood and even when am the one in the wrong he will always get the best way to tell me about it.Honesty gets me all the tym ita a solid 10 for me.

[@ebakerscreations]

The chemistry between you two is so admirable and probably the number 1 thing that keeps me glued to your podcasts no matter the topic . I love you two😍❤️

[@Kaindi_S]

My man takes random candid picture's of me. I had to come here and give that man his flowers. AMEN sisters?!!! 😂😂

[@biimaina2441]

😂😂can we share

[@Kaindi_S]

@@biimaina2441 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@linonuko4897]

I love when Lydia speaks Swahili. I loved this episode. So funny

[@simplylinet9]

A grown ass man without any other rltnshp trial, you are the trial!DAMNIT!

[@leahjune6517]

I’m here to say excellent communicators exist I’m dating one and let me tell you it changed my life and he’s also taught me how to do that as well coz I wasn’t the best and I’m still learning. He says exactly what he’s feeling , when he’s late he’ll say, when he needs time alone he says and he asks me as well . Hence we are engaged now 🥰😛😛 Honestly answered prayer

[@leahjune6517]

Also it means I never have to guess with him at all Which is such a peaceful thing

[@annewacuka]

Aaawww... This is so sweet. All the best to you both.🤗

[@constancemutua1070]

"Pon di cockie" took me out 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭. Lyd you're too hilarious i can't!!!

[@iamrobby]

Not me laughing out loud in a matt when murugi said hes a 50 if hes faithful I love this episode

[@musinare]

You guys😂😂😂 Something very interesting happened. So I usually watch tmi in the morning and some male friends I work with are always around. As it was starting today. They all tagged along on the “it's definitely tmi”...subconsciously!!! 😂😂i think We have some kingbetweeners over here.. As always ❤️ and light

[@concyoginga6855]

Yeey another episode .A man who doesnt drink is turn on to me ,My man doesnt and i love that about him .He used to sit me down lool because i drink but he got used to it 😄😄😄

[@bethgathoni1434]

Lyd...You are so comical. You've had me on the floor during this episode 😂😂. Always a delight catching up with you ladies !

[@lavender_dawn]

First timer, loving this real talk. I can't believe I thought TMI meant too much information 😂😂😂, the messy inbetween is great 😃😃😃 He's a 5 but at least he's tall 😂😂😂

[@maureenochong1949]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Sandra-wf2lw]

A grown up man with no relationship trial, you're the trial 😂😂😂😂😂aki Lydia 😊love y'all babes , vibes on vibes..

[@winnyjepkorir2787]

Lydia had me on the floor in this episode....aty there are times all you want is the bodong! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@catherinemweru9667]

Its Lydia for me ...."Mlete uyo"

[@slymwende_17]

I was dying, I'm repeating that part just to laugh🤣🤣

[@vanessawangari7963]

@@slymwende_17 I'm looking for that part!!! Iko wapi?

[@ivy3377]

Y'all seriously need to upload twice or five times a week😂can't have too much tmi.

[@annyqamau2425]

I'll take 5 times. Yes

[@catherinewanjiru3030]

Exactly,I love them

[@ruo.]

They better see this. We be starving

[@AllThingsLindo]

Honestly 🤣🤣🤣

[@catherinetheuri2346]

i knooow Right ...this Podcast is Juuust 🔥🔥🔥💯

[@zaneledlamini6018]

Oh! Ladies you were on point, I share most sentiment with Murungi. It's just make me realise how we as ladies desire our partners to understand and love us with things that are really priceless yet essential for betterment of the relationship.

[@fidyterceline]

Its the way Lydia compliments Murugi for me😍😍

[@breeworld8347]

My man is great at communicating.... He lets me know where he is, he tells me if he's going out with his friends and when he'll be coming back home and he's great in communicating his feelings.So yes men like this exit 😌

[@joendirangu5847]

Guys please consider doing at least two episodes a week. Weka paybill number we will pay for production aki

[@furahathestar]

Their content....so good😭😭😭😭

[@isaacfarrow5373]

As a guy who listens this to help understand women more it's great information, however I feel like we need an episode where the men respond.... Lol

[@fatmanasir6691]

That sharing location thing is a no no.. it can turn to control,manipulation. It's a 3 for me in a way. Out of experience it wasn't a plus..It was okay for them to be wherever , but not for me. That would depend on a lot of factors

[@maureenmuturi5758]

Murugi I so feel you on the taking authentic pictures with the kids!!!

[@annewacuka]

I related with Lydia so much about being in tune with my emotions and feeling frustrated when others don't get to my level... Hence, the man who's open to therapy and growth is 1000 for me🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@ZenandeTukute]

My man is such a good communicator guys ..he tells me even if he will be only 5min late….if it’s just me and him he tells me exactly what he doesn’t like ..it’s so weird sometimes how much he talks about stuff🤣🤣 because I sometimes just want to be in my feelings and not say anything and be mad at him but No..He likes saying we have No time to waste being angry/mad at each other so let’s talk and solve the issue 😬

[@hildawambui4213]

You blessed girl 💚wish one day Imma find a good communicator 🥺

[@elsiekariuki3914]

Love that for you sis 😍

[@melissamay6974]

Try not to laugh while watching these two....ah! Impossible😂😂 The great communicators and personal photographer guys are there.

[@LoiseUpclose]

There's something about this two,and that's CHEMISTRY!!I enjoy watching you two because you bring out the best of each other,tried watching Lydia hosting with other people aaand it was just meh. Y'all are the perfect match

[@lynnetirungu3021]

I'm watching this video for the 3rd time and I love how Murugi convinces Lydia and then she's like okay 7 😂😂😂😂

[@noelorraine]

Enjoying the podcast ladies.. Lydia's sense of humor 😅😅😅love it .The picture in the background though..I feel like it's staring into my soul 😅😅😅

[@elizabethtatu6838]

😂😂😂😂 Me too

[@irenesperspective1604]

On the point of man's relationship with the mom...it touched my soul When he first introduced me to his mom, she'd constantly make comments about my nails(tips) He once told her,..."mom, she is like that, that's what she loves, and she is the one I chose"😍🥰😍😍He is now my hubby.....

[@eunicemaina9606]

funny as always...Lydia is so dramatic and Joan the catalyst she needs

[@Nora_RN]

my man is a Great communicator, the very best, he is not kenyan though, i dont know if this has something to do about it(because of a culture thing), All i know is that this man makes sure that everything is laid down on the table and you guys reach an understanding/compromise.One of his focal points when were getting to know each other is conflict resolution.

[@favored7577]

Hi lyd my husband he's a great communicator ,he communicates his feelings very clearly,solving conflicts for us is so easy ,he always tell me when he's going to be late ,he taught me to be a great communicator as well. God bless his soul for that .

[@stellastesh3328]

Goodness anytime I see TMI notification i become so exiteeeeeeeed like a baby. I'm definitely an in betweeneeeeeer🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@vanessawangari7963]

13:01 has to be one of my favourite lines from lydia😂😂 You should put it on the totes😂

[@nzilanikimani7139]

Omg I loooooooooved this episode so much! I have laughed so much omg!!! 😂😂😂😂loved it!!! I love this friendship so much

[@nzilanikimani7139]

This is the worst episode to watch when you are fighting with your partner.. I was in tears!!! Laughing out loud and he’s just fuming!!!! Omg!!!!! 😂😂😂soooo funnny!!!!!

[@bellnyawira5493]

Karibu I pick this as a favourite episode😍😍...laughed soo hard all through, Lyd: mletee huyo, huyo ndo wangu😂😂😂 and then it got deep at the end with the therapy part aaaww...TMI keeps getting lit with every episode, love love it here, the greatest content Jo&Lyd👏👏🙌

[@boldisbeautiful2684]

I had a great communicator. Absolutely great at it. But dates, treats etc? Rumours 🤣🤣

[@lydiarichu8421]

Loved it..road to a 100 subs this year🤪🙏🥰🥰🥰

[@joanmuriu]

We need a series of he/she's a 10 but.. So hilarious 😂😂😂❤️

[@immaculateabbo3504]

This was such a beautiful episode😍. AND FUNNY TOO 😆 So much love from Uganda

[@crinahtasha97]

🇺🇬🇺🇬

[@rachealmburu11]

Believe it or not, I've always landed on the arms of a faithful man and they are always always great communicators. If you think this is not true, heal baby! DM me I'll show you how 😂. My current guy cooks for me, tells me where he is, I can touch his phone anytime, he is a great great communicator, he can control his drinking, he is INTELLIGENT AF and I'm not bragging please 😚he is an 85

[@arinaitwebridget4741]

It's the heal baby for me 😄😄😅😅😅

[@rachealmburu11]

@@arinaitwebridget4741 meeeehnnn, people need to heal. I always tell ladies, sit down with yourself in silence, ask yourself what kind of a man you want. You will attract that. You won't be out here fishing everything and anything. Thank me later siz

[@paulinemakaishewangendo6612]

Tell us more dear

[@boldisbeautiful2684]

I wanna DM you asap 🤣🤣🤣 I have healed

[@rachealmburu11]

@@paulinemakaishewangendo6612 just DM me I'll talk to you at a personal level @rael_mburu

[@firandcurly84]

Cleaning house and laughing so hard!! Ladies , ladies thank you

[@hadassahnyambura4017]

Me I had a guy who was a great communicator,it was never hard to talk about anything,🤦🏻‍♀️but as they say no one is perfect,his weakness was women,the women he cheated with😭😭😭I could count almost 10 in a month

[@eulermuli4296]

Definitely a zero

[@edinahkendi9871]

I agree with Lydia so much on being the first woman he is dating🤣🤣🤣like that dating an infact and am not ready to teach you nothing kinuthia🤣🤣🤣

[@beatricemuringi4120]

I agree with Lydia. He is a solid ONE if I am his 1st relationship. We are not dating infants Murugi plizzzzzzz

[@maureenochong1949]

Y'all look extra cute. This was incredibly hilarious! My man takes random candid picture's of me.. giving him his flowers. He's a good communicator too, never been loved right & spoilt a lot like he does.. I have learnt a lot from him too. lakini Lydia you'll kill us one day😅. God bless you Ladies.

[@starvibes5575]

Lydia @44:45 I am so with you on that point. I have watched it x5 🤣🤣🤣. I hope that wink was ''intentional'' otherwise we need a tutor ASAP.

[@brendaimani4072]

Me too😂😂😂 I've rewatched that part

[@b_mod_st]

The pink cocktail, took time to get over that 😭🤣

[@biscotti7140]

👑Kingbetweeners are Tens 😎💯

[@sandracirmih1839]

y'all def are 💜

[@periswerimo8]

❤❤❤

[@WakejiKamore1]

Financing my dreams.. He just came from a 5 to a solidi 100.. Kwanza that my dream is to travel the world ... Woooow, that would be something,.. 😂😂😂😂😂

[@boldisbeautiful2684]

My dream too..I wanna tick off all countries in my list 🤭

[@Gakenzzz]

Ndio huyo!😂😂😂 mlete huyo!😂😂😂 ndio wangu! 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Lydia please😭😂

[@samkevin60]

The wow from murugi for great communication 🤣🤣🤣

[@ms_wsi]

“DOES HE STAND ALONE?”🤣

[@magdalenemuthoni1933]

This is my favorite episode so far. Had me in tears

[@candidmusings]

I think I had to see this to realise how blessed I am.

[@DignaK]

These girls are so funny! 😂 Murugi is hilarious 😆 That’s why Lydia is always hollering.

[@lizwangari5738]

🤣🤣🤣 this was so much fun to watch. Sooo hilarious

[@marungaprossie7744]

Murugi’s make up , Lydia’s energy! I love it

[@charlenewanjiku5624]

Y'all are hilarious 😂 This episode was entertaining and informative 🙌

[@charlenewanjiku5624]

I agree with murugi on the no exes part

[@lylo301]

I thoroughly enjoyed this episode! Every one of those 62 minutes 🤩

[@__mwesh__]

Aaah this pisces duo🥺😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️ Love you ☺️☺️

[@eddah9389]

Lydia's kiswahili has me on the floor😂😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️

[@Ndagire_Reacts]

Love you from Dubai.. please talk about relationships with other nationalities

[@susanmureithi1964]

It's always about fun, enjoyment, learning you are so beautiful keep the fire burning ,it's definitely TMI 😘

[@teshian07faith]

Another enticing episode from my gals🥰🥰🥰,,,,,, Its definitely TMI❤❤❤

[@nyaradhiambo]

Could have scramt when I saw the notification... I scrom So happy to see you 😍😍😍😍

[@margaretwangui698]

Haha

[@terryngatia]

I admire your friendship ❤️

[@kihararosa]

Communicator: Kabi Wa Jesus 😄

[@maremboke]

Murugi your hair looks Amaizing😍😍

[@hopewangari5970]

I know right 🥰🥰🥰

[@thegodlyprincess_kenya]

That part for He's a 5 but a good communicator just soooo relatable 😆

[@viviannabulime1218]

The humor I didn't know I needed 😅😅😅thanks guys

[@naomikemunto6696]

I have been in such dilemma and for me that was it, it was abusive because he twisted my arm for tickling him. it hurt and he didnt care

[@wanjiku805]

The snippet you talked about accessing his phone and the stories😂 ati the stress is up.

[@diiva71]

This episode is a ten over ten👌 I laughed so hard😅😅

[@annnyokabi1469]

Mimi sijui leo mmekula nini... Si I've laughed ah ah 😂😂😂

[@user-vw6oy4lk6p]

Just found out about you ❤️❤️🥰 and am in love 🥰🎉🎉

[@stellaadlyke656]

I haven't laughed so hard in long 🤣 😂. Sending good vibes from Australia

[@loynansasi]

My man is so bad at communicating but he lets me hv the fingerprint to his phone he will not mind, he’ll let you use it coz sometimes he has better reception n data. So I never get the feel to check his phone though at first I used to n abruptly without him knowing coz I just wasn’t used to gud relationships😂😂

[@rosewanjiku8404]

That infant is an 8 for me Yeas murugi am with you on this😅

[@pezzwaithira2221]

Yeeessss Its defiantly TMI...enjoyed the live experience

[@ms_wsi]

Ladies. Question: After how long do you introduce your boyfriend to your family? And how did y’all introduce your person to your family?

[@Seanthia..c]

I wouldn’t introduce him. If he’s into me like that he’ll push for introduction when it’s time and make plans to Jileta.Probably accompanied by his people

[@thegodlyprincess_kenya]

I think, let the desire to be introduced come from him. If he isn't campaigning to be introduced Kaa polepole😂

[@malkiawaalego2552]

A boyfriend? Introduce to siblings and friends. Save the privilege of meeting your parents for your fiancée

[@angelamwangi6073]

My favorite episode thus far!

[@marthaauma7503]

I suppose you meant to say its weird to find an African man in his mid or late thirties without kids, cos in Europe i see plenty of such men , my two bosses 38 , and 40 both have no kids , they are not even in a rush, met my man when he was 37 , he was child free, his friends have either 1 y/olds or they pregnant now...... i think its not an anomaly here in Europe........

[@Spinkly]

I am here for the mid 30s single and no kids. Sign me up!!!

[@rosemarywambui930]

This was ❤‍🔥and incredibly hilarious!