Relationship Killers | Episode 132

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If you’re feeling like your relationship is on the edge then high chances it’s probably dead 👀
In this episode we get to talk about the different relationship killers from lack of emotional support to possessiveness and it’s A LOT brothers and sisters 😮‍💨😂
Whether you’re watching with your partner/girl squad let’s unpack together and also tell us what led to the death of your last relationship?
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[@RoseSchwinn]

If you feel someone is lower than you, that's your body telling you you are misaligned and have no business connecting with them. When you call it contempt, you are essentially dismissing your own internal guiding authority. Religious conditioning makes us disobey ourselves by gaslighting us into condemning and dismissing our inner voice. I'm sure you thought thinking someone is lower than you is pride on your part thinking you are better than or superior. But no. If someone is below you, your body warns you, and asks you to keep off...they will drain you, and drag you down to their level. Only connect with people you feel you are on the same level

[@geddramotari2463]

So true Experienced it with my ex🥲

[@RoseSchwinn]

@@geddramotari2463 I experienced it with an ex friend. Never again will I dismiss my inner guidance

[@wanjiraschannel6931]

Agreed 100%

[@lornakahonzi7434]

This comment... learning to listen to your body

[@nyamburakimani3726]

100%

[@catherinenjoki2636]

I actually love how Murugi communicates, gets to the point within shortest time possible. It makes listening to her very interesting I even find myself thinking "be like Murugi" whenever I watch other you tubers who take foreeeever to get to the point😓

[@twentytwo3840]

It coz of her communication style. She's direct...most people are passive

[@ashlee1142]

Yeah, I love her concise way of communicating.

[@BeatriceGithenya]

I have learnt so many new English words from this podcast.My articulation and confidence has been influenced ❤.

[@dorineangulu2898]

That part where Murugi said ' God has a sense of humor' got me. You really get tested with the thing you really yearn for mostly.

[@teteyian3258]

Thank you Lyd....its struggling with infertility Issues. Barren and impotent are no longer courteous words to use on people with child bearing issues

[@celineogoye906]

Would you mind inviting maurice matheka the sexologist..it could be such an exciting episode

[@lorrecco]

Oh yes!

[@abigaelmuthoni5693]

I agree

[@joannenjenga6130]

The spice would spice

[@margaretkanganga4882]

i totally understand when Lyd says about insecurity like literally you are in the office maybe something [popped up and you had to extend for few minutes but you HAVE to send them pictures for them to believe you are in the office or any other place if it's maybe 6 or 7 and you are not at the house yet. Wangu ady alieka whatsapp yangu kwa simu yake to monitor who i talk to.I lost weight upto 46kgs coz it was draining but i thank myself i left and few months later am happy, no stress and am at 54kgs.

[@Spinkly]

Lydia was so specific with the Japanese men with dreds. Is there something she wants to tell us 🤣🤣🤣

[@wambuimuthoni4221]

I loved the part where Murugi said that they are looking for a good church and how she described her preference... I found it so funny 🤣

[@JMandy]

Did not expect this conversation to get that deep into the roots of everything 😏🤓

[@annkangethe3943]

For sure Lydia is great listener

[@user-su9br6zz7e]

Murugi gives how issues present practically and KM has a lot of theory 😂

[@phy.Nyambura]

As an upcoming podcast babe ,this has to be the best channel .Also you guys have helped become so much better in grammar ,expression and articulation ....Ilysm

[@EmmeGee_M]

right? absolutely eloquent

[@wanjiraschannel6931]

Contempt, unmet needs (most stemming from unspoken expectations), misalignment... these definitely led to the death of my last ☹😭 taught me so much about myself though and what to keep in mind in my next one so yay 🤗

[@daisydeeh2860]

God knows how much we love this channel 😂❤️always educating and enlighting us on real life situations

[@mutaicherobon6550]

I love the sense of humour 😅😅 i laugh my heart out every time i watch TMI.Thank you ladies❤

[@greatness23FL]

Jamani I'm in a meeting mmesema earpod ni skio moja ingine meeting eee😂😂❤ consistency check❤

[@venahkerubo1035]

😂😂😂😂 me rn

[@sherrynalwanga8928]

Lack of communication is key killer because at times it could be a mis understanding

[@wangarinyambura9797]

Murugi's outfit 🤩🤩🤩

[@karensquest]

uuuuhhh its definately TMI. Your are both my favs 💓

[@lorrecco]

Great conversation as always. Joan today looks like a real mke mwema

[@agnesgeraldine181]

OMG..Lyd and Murugi I missed y'all so much🥺❤. I'm sorry I can explain😅I haven't been active much but I am glad to be here and having listened to this conversation,I can say that it makes me see so much growth within myself.My last relationship was a killer cos that man never respected me. He was disloyal,he destroyed my self esteem by body shaming me all the time,borrowing money yet I felt he would have been the one giving the money to me since I was 18 hustling and he was 25 at the time.I expected him to be more mature.Anyways,I have experienced so much growth and rynow I am in a relationship that I believe will lead to marriage.I loved this whole conversation and you look absolutely gorgeous❤

[@hamelynmotika1807]

You guys have been making my day for a year now. I'm becoming a better version of myself every day. it's like you became my sisters, and it helps me not to miss home too much. Please don't break this union. Ensure this relationship ain't dying oooo. Cheers from SC

[@WanjiruMuya]

Outgrowing each other

[@lisamwajuma9892]

Favorite hour every Wednesday

[@tmipodcastke]

🎉

[@izziejames2994]

Its definitely TMI🎉🎉🎉

[@constancemutua1070]

Johnny from Kiambu and Japanese men with dreadlocks took me out 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭. Lyddd!!

[@dorothyshee777]

My favorite podcast ❤

[@Med_learn33]

looking stunning ladies!!

[@user-mh4xq3mj8s]

I really struggle with expectations I really learnt a lot

[@anindomercy1238]

Postpartum depression lead to the end of my relationship. it's sad because now I'm struggling emotionally and financially

[@sellyyvvette]

Hugs and healing your way ❤

[@atienoo9704]

I’m sorry baby

[@anindomercy1238]

@@atienoo9704 Thanks

[@missinjairu1448]

😅😂😂😂"for example when i talk to you and you pick up your phone...' Lyd😅 I love you.

[@annedeki1265]

Hi besties, I believe 100%Lydia is purely me... How she think, decision making, How she look at life, How she treat others nd Her feeling, how sensitive she is ~She can talk on my behalf nd my arms are held nd I will be very comfy with her take**❤❤❤

[@dandi.23]

You two are a blessing to us the young generation of women,your agemates and women. WE LOVE YOU AND MAY GOD BLESS YOU SO MUCH IN ALL WAYS ALWAYS❤

[@dandi.23]

Tmi to the whole wide world🥹

[@dandi.23]

🚀🚀🚀

[@e.s.t.a.r]

Codependency was it. Loved the episode🎉. So informative!

[@RosaliaShiweva]

Girls you went deep with this one ❤ wow 🤩

[@pellacyber9561]

what led to my last relationship was lack of attention and toxic behaviours and emotional abuse

[@rizikiokumu]

You deserve better

[@tetyootornado1598]

The only negative tbing avout this channel is that it ends. 😢😢

[@dorothyclangat9840]

I love it here❤

[@charityndegwa2057]

👏👏👏👏,I love it here❤

[@JanetOgola-xb9nn]

The best podcast!❤

[@paulinekamau2575]

Yeey! Its definitely TMI

[@tmipodcastke]

😍😍

[@irenegitonga5368]

All time favourites 👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽

[@The_Introverted_Pisces]

Murugi is soo funny 😂😂... You also look fabulous. I love that skirt

[@RosaliaShiweva]

The line you said .. wait I am not a Floating angel 👼… ? 😂😂😂 I get it Lyd 😊😊

[@royalty_11]

It's TMI🎉my favourite part about Wednesdays

[@tmipodcastke]

🥳🥳🥳

[@Kamesh338]

I love my Wednesdays because of you girlies 🤌❤️

[@Kamesh338]

So I'm really the narcissist in my relationship 🙂‍↔️🤔 Y'all are our saviors as online Big sisters 🥂

[@annemwaura3910]

Tumefika🎉🎉TMI ❤

[@lynbee1238]

❤Love you girls❤

[@evatwili157]

The link to the podcast that Lydia mentioned please 😊

[@lovesoniah772]

Listening to you both always makes my day😊❤❤

[@teresiahnyokabi78]

I'm always here

[@TumpeineMapenai]

I love you guys 😘

[@tmipodcastke]

Love you right back 🥰

[@malusisarahmulola]

I think outgrowing each other and not really having the same beliefs about life..lack of communication in every way..no intimacy in the unsexual way.....etc...is what might end the Relationship 🤦

[@MerryhopeNyagha]

Japanese men with dread got me on the floor😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@joyceyugi9266]

Wednesday has officially begun ❤

[@mohshii6672]

Lyd is not herself today...what's up hun? Sending love❤

[@missmuroti]

@tmi ...you guys didn't tag the podcast on love lyd was talking about...

[@wairimuuu]

From 38:03 to 38:55 ni ukweli mtupu 😂💯

[@TashaNjagi]

Wednesday made so much better❤🎉

[@tmipodcastke]

You know it. 🤭

[@Nyabokeonyonka]

Where’s that link ??😢😢 the one for we are real children

[@sarahakinyi3879]

I wish the discount was also applicable to monthly subscriptions😅😢

[@shaniceamira4201]

Inbetweeners ndio nadonjo ...kuko aje uku . 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@maureengitonga350]

Content ni deadly deadly😅❤

[@KeziahKamau-qu9pe]

Lyd u look amazing 😍 😍

[@rizikiokumu]

I agree with you lydia, my dad never paid attention to me for a child. When my husband assumes me. It hurts me to the core. I would love.him to be the opposite of my dad.

[@dianamaina7530]

❤️❤️

[@cherrymakena]

Please link the podcast Lydia was talking about in the description box👀

[@brendacarey9506]

A meme led to the death of a relationship😂

[@paxliviacherono7157]

We can call it a Wednesday ❤

[@valentinengare3022]

Absolutely love this comment. I mean how else would you define Wednesday without these two beauties? ❤❤

[@carolinemusila9748]

I just left my 8 year relationship a month ago because apparently my ex 27 yr old guy realized that he wants a polygamous marriage unlike me who can NEVER be in one so I had to leave.

[@ZippyKazi-Carzy]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@JoanJepkemei-zm6jw]

Consider featuring Kwambox

[@messymbigo6736]

Earlybird here 🥰

[@tmipodcastke]

Ouuuh we love it 😍

[@winnymwangi984]

💋

[@cikunp9546]

The link to the podcast on love that Lydia was talking about is not tagged

[@tmipodcastke]

We’ve added it sorry about that 🫶🏽

[@cikunp9546]

@@tmipodcastke no worries thanks

[@shalommirembe500]

I currently live in Japan. I literally died ati,the Japanese men with dreads 😂😂

[@sakuraesther6309]

His mrembo. Hiw is Japan?

[@annekaraba9691]

The co-dependency part reminds me of the show "why women kill" beth Anne's relationship with husband Robert

[@ivynjoro1442]

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@beatricesloan7063]

Loving the conversation but the Japanese men in dreads 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@muchain2985]

Who has Googled Japanese men with dreads 😂

[@missw.4882]

Someone rephrase that 'bar' quote by Murugi's mom ..didn't quite get it

[@wambuimuthoni4221]

Me too I didn't get it

[@splendouruzima3297]

Like getting to the bar first doesn't mean you'll be the first one to get drunk i.e. you may be at a good place now but that doesn't mean you are the first one to win in life. I hope mnaniget. More like kutangulia si kufika

[@missw.4882]

@splendouruzima3297 thank you!!! It makes sense

[@Grandey38]

Lyd didn't tag the love podcast about us being kids in adult bodies

[@faithnamu5063]

It's on the description box ..I hope you saw it

[@Faith.m.m]

What's the name of the podcast that lyd was talking about?

[@tracybaraza174]

Stuck on Japanese men with dreads 😂

[@perpetualjambi7011]

Japanese men with dreads 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@britneyG1837]

I need to try schedule sex, it just seem boring from the outside

[@mercykariuki7463]

Japanese men with dreads...really Lydia 😅😅😅😅

[@perpetualwahu9769]

109th viewer ❤