He's 'Feminine' & I'm 'Masculine' - And We're In Love | LOVE DON'T JUDGE

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TO JAMES and Maren, they aren't any different from other heterosexual couples. But other people have often mistaken them for just friends because of the way they look. 22-year-old James, who previously identified as gay, is a feminine-presenting man, whilst Maren, 20, is a masculine-presenting woman. Growing up, James came out as gay to his friends and family because it was "easier". Maren, who describes herself as bisexual, had only dated women before she met James over TikTok and the two hit it off instantly. When they shared their relationship online, James and Maren faced a lot of judgement as people struggled to comprehend their relationship. But the couple couldn't care less about what others say.
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[@mollynash2597]

It makes sense in a way, she's attracted to feminity and he's attracted to masculinity. I hope they have a happy relationship.

[@aswing2706]

That guy is not feminine that guy is just ridiculous.

[@diabolivirtusen-tavares-ea4645]

😐

[@genesis8550]

Yes that makes sense

[@trollfuente8341]

Nah this destiny is failure

[@_Romans10.9_]

You mean disgusting and twisted

[@YouKnowImOnMyPeriodYah]

This whole relationship is iconic. This is the gayest straight relationship I’ve ever seen and I love it

[@justauser]

Hahahahaha so true, the gayest hetero relationship ever

[@Omar_PS9inchhs]

And youre a tall square jaws whos into bts and here to confirm yourself..and No..Women are not programmed to be attracted to dudes who can only survive if there is laws and the police 😵..

[@sashatiana-alize6186]

Yep. I fully agree 💯💯👏🏽👏🏽 The best way to describe their relationship

[@kh9242]

If only this was the weirdest thing that was going on. I oddly don't have an issue with this. Thay are basically a straight couple. A weird a$$ straight couple, but a straight couple lol

[@Ms.VisalDaily]

Yeah this is cute

[@iisan1]

They are totally polar opposite of each other, but yet so beautiful together

[@jamesgarland8322]

Couldn’t you say that about a lot of straight couples ?

[@ForThePremium]

@@jamesgarland8322 i mean yeah but it also applies here i think

[@gentlebabarian]

Oposite attracts. It's the laws of physics! Can't fight nature!

[@TheMrPeteChannel]

Some say they're actors.

[@bogus69]

@@TheMrPeteChannel some would be right

[@chinwekeneegbe9217]

I've always wanted to see a couple like this and I'm glad I finally get to see that. I pray that your love for each other never dies. 💗

[@cardsfan5100]

Me too. I hope they keep a lasting relationship.

[@jermainecornelius7193]

​@@cardsfan5100that's very nice of you to say. I don't know them but they seem very happy together.

[@cardsfan5100]

@@jermainecornelius7193 They do seem happy together. It gives me hope. I wish couples like this were more of a norm.

[@Clown-is-tired]

This is the only freaking nice comment I have seen with good reply’s lol

[@cardsfan5100]

@@Clown-is-tired I wish we could see more couples like this.

[@JackOLanter]

A Femboy and a Tomboy, what an incredible story.

[@l.r.designstudioslauriesul8993]

It’s perfect

[@sherueatyourbestfriend6791]

Fr

[@masacatior]

Haha so unusual

[@Carltonwanks]

Incredible? Not the word I'd use

[@Carltonwanks]

@@jpprainbow6140 indeed

[@Spiritista17]

It’s better than a toxic, narcissistic, gas lighting, disrespectful relationship. Edit: Thanks for all the likes 😊😉

[@bestress04]

One doesn't negate the other. The way they present in terms of gender and sexuality has no bearing on if their relationship is toxic.

[@NetiNeti-gm5bz]

@@bestress04 it is leaning more towards authenticity, leaving v little room for manipulation/ gaslighting and toxicity. They simply respect the truth, thus communication can flow

[@Alaskanman]

@@bestress04 Preach

[@johnhattanfine]

Sounds familiar to you 😅

[@ladyinblack3398]

How they treat each other is what matters. Why can't people be happy for them? They are!

[@Ebiisan]

The way their friend said they are proof that people can be made for each other🥹 they’re so cute🥰

[@nickyperryman2683]

It’s lovely to see people being happy and being who they want to be. Cute couple 💕

[@lilplague4857]

This is a heterosexual relationship, whether you like it or not.

[@dicksmashermicrocock7984]

Yes and it feels illegal to say so

[@Eugene-tq2kr]

I mean obviously

[@lilplague4857]

@Eugene-tq2kr def not obvious to some people apparently

[@Sindoku]

He said he was straight bro… you okay?

[@nickpavia9021]

No, it's a fake relationship for the cameras. They "broke up" when they realized their content wasn't getting views.

[@chantalkellyman2187]

A heterosexual couple literally just expressing their personality. Edit: I think there has been a misunderstanding, the couple is a heterosexual couple, that doesn't mean they don't have other sexual orientations or tendencies. I was simply pointing out that they are a man and a woman who are in a relationship and expressing themselves within that relationship. I was describing them as a unit and not as individuals

[@levent.a.7280]

If they're heterosexual then IAM Michael Jackson

[@LordofYumYum]

@@levent.a.7280 ROFL

[@LordofYumYum]

"Heterosexual" most lik,ely cuz they are confused and they are looking for attention.

[@mikipav1064]

Nope. If you’re looking just at their sexuality than they’re both homosexual without any doubt. They just have a strong emotional connection with each other. Or as i would label it: A strong friendship.

[@forpspeakingclass4444]

@@mikipav1064 If they are in a relationship that means they are screwing or at least most likely which is the fair asumption. Would u call screwing apart of friendship or non-heterosexual between a man and a woman?

[@peggymarsden8803]

I am a straight conservative middle aged white woman from Texas and I say " good for you".

[@sarandipitiqwe4387]

Just because you are “white” or “middle aged” doesn’t make you sane

[@2A-Bear-Arms]

I am a straight conservative middle aged white man from New York and I say "this is messed up." 🙄

[@larrypotter2243]

Ty.

[@larrypotter2243]

​@@2A-Bear-Armsoh no, two people like each other.

[@2A-Bear-Arms]

@@larrypotter2243 I don't care what anyone says...it's abnormal.

[@demim.9203]

I’m here for this relationship. I Iove it tbh

[@jimjones3287]

I like her chilled vibe. It balances out his diva energy. A good match.

[@RHathemoment]

👍✨.🥰

[@BlackMamba-lt8oe]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@LeoTM]

420 likes

[@ValbbyRod]

This is sweet

[@sirquacksalot6463]

🤢🤢

[@akysnii]

the epitome of "just be yourself, and love will find its way".

[@renee5063]

That’s a lie!

[@XdgamehackerXd]

We are so fcked as a society. Feminity and masculinity should both be embraced. But this is not balance this is chaos.

[@renee5063]

@@XdgamehackerXd E are so because man refuses to turn back to the LORD. Psalm 33:12 Blessed is the nation who God is the LORD. So in essence when you have a nation who does not acknowledge God as their lord, that nation inevitably fall to ruin. This is a nation that sees all things as permissible, and are under the belief that so things are a benefit to one life-this is the farthest thing from the truth. We see how things are consistently in decline of humanity and morality and yet there is a continued belief that we don’t need God for moral direction.

[@lexs.1994]

Yes!!!

[@renee5063]

@@lexs.1994 This is the epitome of a lie. This is not who God made them and so it goes against who they are. We are in need of Jesus in the most profound way, sadly we have grown comfortable with the lies. Our comfortability in the things we’ve accepted as good for our life is what’s leading us to physical destruction, but also to spiritual destruction end. There is a hope for all who will turn away from sin, but you must ask to be forgiven, repent and ask Jesus into your lives.

[@wishingonthemoon1]

They are so cute and perfect for each other. I love that they can still be proud to be man and woman and show that you don’t have to present the way people expect you too. I hope they work out.

[@benjaminmedrano1177]

Bro I was convinced by society that a relationship like this wasn't allowed to exist for half a decade

[@gomezk1493]

Tbh the way that different sexualities and preferences started to make sense for me is to just not focus on physicality and or genitals, cause usually that’s the part that matters for people who don’t know what they REALLY want. Seems like they know what they want tho. Although I disagree with him saying he is straight when he isnt but neither is she, they just like what they like and dress how they dress

[@leasagna2202]

Me too. I'm happy they found eatchother

[@contrarian9999]

@@gomezk1493 How can you disagree with someone about their own sexual orientation lol. He said he likes women and is straight.

[@notveryrea1]

​@@contrarian9999 🤣RIGHT. Some people are so funny lmao.

[@st.michaelofcigarillo2845]

Clearly society is much better off with extremely feminine men who act like women and women who like to pretend they are just as tough as guys. Lord help us if the US ever has to be involved in any boots on the ground combat. I can see it now. Male soldiers asking to stop and change their tampons while the female soldiers just bleed all over the place and pretend it isn't happening because they are just as tough as guys.

[@cavalrystyles8776]

They both break through 2 different entire lines of stereotypes, incredible.

[@jaredyates2603]

hah aahhaha hahah

[@jwst2898]

Being sus is different, incredible. 🤣🤣😐

[@schteak7388]

Shut up

[@jaredyates2603]

hahhaha haahah ahahahahaa

[@zapbranigan5099]

No they don't break any stereotypes, they're playing their true selves

[@WiLLeyeHam]

This is an example of love being different things to different people. We may judge as a society but may not understand people may be perfectly happy in their “own” way. And that is OK! I’m genuinely happy for them. Because some people go their whole lives without having a love like this.

[@Mabeylater293]

Religion’s head just exploded!!! Their homophobia suddenly has nowhere to go. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@nondumisonkosi143]

Right?😂

[@redeemedbytheblood]

The devil is a Liar! Repent people… God is not mocked!! 1 Corinthians 6:9 ESV Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality,

[@TRUTH_IN_CHAOS]

I’m a masculine woman and feminine men have been hitting on me for decades! This is not a new dynamic. I mean I’ve not been with a feminine man, but I don’t think this is odd at all. EVERYONE literally has both masculine and feminine; one is just more dominant than the other in most cases. You two are very cute and full of love. Sending y’all love and light.

[@malesedithato164]

I agree with you 100 %... I'm now in to bodybuilding and i can tell you that i now look muscular and more feminine men are hitting on me including those with mummy issues

[@ElisaJewell]

i agree with this. we all posses feminine & masculine its just what we are more of.

[@melancholycollie1466]

I had a friend in High school who was quite Feminine and admitted he needed a Masculine Female. But he's only been with feminine dudes yet isn't sure what he's into anymore.

[@moon_mint]

Feminine men are 🤤🤤🤤

[@sin3358]

I'm pansexual and I am quite the gender fluid individual, although I mostly identify as a woman. I like being both, masc and feminine, depending on my mood. When I'm masculine, I attract feminine men or women (my female friends get shy around me LMAO) and when feminine, I attract the more masc men. It's interesting how this goes

[@shianntilman3409]

My cousins relationships used to exactly like this one. It was new and unusual. They got married and had children. On their wedding day they decided to wear the traditional dress for the women and suit for the man only for their children. Years passed and i ran into her at a club and she said her husband passed away and at such a young age. Their relationship takes me back to the good ol days. 😍

[@bettyconfettii]

Aww 😢

[@twistedara]

Damn 💘

[@briannam8230]

That’s horrible 😢 so sad for the family

[@avakinquinnz2578]

LMAO

[@unhappyoption5910]

@they expect me to be nice, but they're not humbled you🚫

[@mazmazxavier3069]

I do not think you are weird as a couple. You both match each others energies. You are both a young couple enjoying each others company. All the best to the both of you. Thanks for sharing your story, it's enlightening.

[@anitw8940]

Good for both of you, its not all oldies that have a problem. I was so bloody proud when my beautiful niece told me she had a girlfriend. (I already knew 😂). She was so so scared, because i have always been strict with all of mine. ❤. I then knew what was coming next. My beautiful granddaughter said, Nannar i need to tell you something, she was stuttering. I said baby girl, i already know. You can talk to me about anything, as long as you are respectful and a good person, that is all i ask. ❤❤

[@WillowFrancais]

It’s different. I can’t say I’ve ever seen a straight guy as feminine as this, but it’s lovely to see them work as a couple. It’s also nice to see different types of people. I hope they stay happy together.

[@eddiespaghetti1451]

Boy Hogg hi cutie

[@tamiyaharrison9774]

@@eddiespaghetti1451 down terrible

[@jeffghant4760]

That boy ain't straight.

[@vincentharris2259]

@@jeffghant4760 Lol Hell No He's Not.

[@Facts-Over-Feelings]

ANTI BLACK AGENDA TO KEEP THE EYES OFF THE PRIZE OF REPARATIONS AND JUSTICE REFORM.. STOP WITH THIS DEGRADING BLACK MUSIC ANTI LIFE NON SENSE.. BOYCOTT THIS TRASH..

[@bowielukas6815]

They are an heterosexual couple with different ways of behavior but anyway a REAL couple who represent the acceptance and accepting themselves without going farther.

[@bowielukas6815]

@W.A.Mozart you get a grip yourself super fool!!

[@MrTriangle3333333]

@@bowielukas6815 They play with reversed roles, but these are roles after all, even more accentuated than any cis person. If roles are normally intended to be broken because they are supposed to be "toxic", then why play the boy and girl roles? Let them do what they want, but it seems a bit hypocritical to me. Everyone accepts what is different with pleasure, but the old is discarded.

[@proverbs31woman31]

So basically this is a heterosexual couple, 🤔🤦🏼‍♀️

[@andrew20146]

@@MrTriangle3333333 I don't think you understand about gender expression. It's a spectrum, and it isn't false or socially constructed. Freer/more tolerant societies like the Nordics tend to see more dispersion in gender expression.

[@MrTriangle3333333]

@@andrew20146 More tolerant or more brainwashed? I dont need to understand that, i prefere to focus on important things.

[@remnant1018]

I’m more interested in finding out if they’re still together considering their _personalties_ are so different. He seems very extroverted and she seems very introverted. He’s very chatty and she’s more reserved. His clothing style is very urban while hers is very suburban. I’m having a hard time seeing them having enough in common to not get on each other’s nerves. They seem like they’re happy here but how long will it take before she asks him not to wear distressed jeans so much or for him to get tired of doing more of the talking? I do hope they have enough core characteristics in common.

[@janetuss6496]

Plenty of extroverts are with introverts. Opposites can attract. Sometimes you see qualities in the other person that you are attracted to, but don't have yourself. More importantly than how they dress or how much they talk is their core values. Things like political, moral, and religious views are more likely to make or break a couple.

[@Suki_Damson_123]

Opposites attract...❤

[@viafenice]

They broke up (I found out on tiktok)

[@MayISpeak]

@@viafenicedamn so sad

[@elisabetpurve2908]

@@viafenice Oh noo 😔

[@Mugiwara2k]

If they’re happy, that’s all that matters.

[@user-lr4dj8fs6e]

I am 60yo and while I understand none of this, seems no matter how hard I try. Maybe it is not for me to understand. What watching videos like this has taught me it...not everything is about me. I now remind myself " Move out of the way, and allow some things to be for some one else; not everything is about you."

[@fuckyoethnicity]

HUH?

[@redbirddeerjazz]

If only more people were like you! ❤

[@brendakabanda2181]

39 here, and I don't either, but if they aren't hurting anyone, we can all accommodate ourselves

[@carlosbarrero1058]

Cool. 👍

[@GS-ww1ju]

It’s no different than a “straight” relationship. It’s just the woman is masculine and the man is feminine. It’s “usually” flipped..the woman is typical fem and the man masculine. So this is literally just that, just genders are swapped. I’m glad you don’t judge, I just hope you are able to see how simple this relationship is.

[@_kmCarter]

“I like to be cute. Period.” 😂 This is such a cool relationship. I’m so glad they chose to share.

[@vovac8915]

This is called attention-seeking.

[@alsikamis_trash]

​@@vovac8915 from who? lol. only one seeking ur attention is ur mama maybe u should call her idk

[@beefortebrea9386]

@@vovac8915 you felt the need to say this so you coukd get attention. Pot meet kettle.

[@hermeticuniverse1950]

You are absent-minded, if you had a mind at all, you would not have said this nonsense

[@alsikamis_trash]

@@hermeticuniverse1950 "oh no, people don't agree that seeing others live a happy and normal life that is strange to ME should be crucified🙀🙀🙀 they clearly can't think for themselves!!!"

[@avagardner2949]

just discover this video and, i love it

[@najahjinks3019]

I love your authenticity and your romantic relationship 🤎 So beautiful. This shows the purest form of love.

[@impepenane]

They already split up

[@jnation29]

In a way this makes sense. I’m surprised there aren’t more couples like this.

[@MsFeliciaG]

Or are there 🤔

[@juwoningram]

Don't be surprised everyone else is mentally sane and playing the right roll 🧍🏾‍♂️

[@jwatts94]

@@juwoningram What “right role” would that be?

[@juwoningram]

@@jwatts94 man act masculine females act feminine pretty obvious

[@jwatts94]

@@juwoningram Why do they HAVE too?

[@daniaguinaga1754]

I love how they explain that it's the fem/masc ENERGY they're attracted to, not body parts. It's about energy and vibe. So beautiful.

[@alwmwo9286]

يوجد كثير من الرجال ينجذب الى المراه القوية

[@imontosomething2609]

I’m looking for both personally.

[@alwmwo9286]

@@imontosomething2609 i love girls strong

[@sofypi7493]

"they're attracted too, not body parts" that's them other people are different

[@kay-collins]

Right! I’m fw it!

[@Soleil1ly]

I'm so happy for them ! such a happy couple❤❤❤❤

[@massimosalerno3075]

That explains so clear that the sexuality , the attraction and the appearance are not a standard and they don't have a standard connection. Love u guys.

[@yvie9627]

Sexuality aside, if they love each other, that’s two less lonely people in the world. Everyone deserves love and acceptance, and they clear give that two each other. Good for them.

[@vivere__]

Love is love

[@Alexander-wq7qo]

@@tsavmannyslengest4018 you know damn well thats not what that means

[@dianeaishamonday9125]

@@tsavmannyslengest4018 love is love as long as they're above the age of consent, ya nasty

[@itstwinshi2179]

@@dianeaishamonday9125 😂

[@luciomoreira2055]

👏🏾agree bit crazy though

[@conniq1585]

I love their dynamic. They found the person who matches who they are and they compliment each other. I wish them the absolute best.

[@1CHOZN7]

But this is not who they really are. This who they became!!!

[@franksaddiction]

@@1CHOZN7 💀

[@KayleeANNAytbe]

Keep ur homophonic comment for yourself

[@blitzkriegedvanhauten5261]

Disgusting

[@franksaddiction]

@@blitzkriegedvanhauten5261 no.

[@mbalinzimande-kd8tl]

I like the fact that they accepted each other the way they are, you can be my feminine man be yourself in anyway possible... Be my girl and be your masculine self they didn't try to change each other which is why most relationships aren't working today because people do not see things that can make them happy they just see projects that needs to worked on so it will fit the perspective of the society we live in... I hope they still together I love them

[@ReiherAllendi]

I like the fact that they don't feel the urge to assign the opposite gender despite their personalities. You don't need to be called "she" to behave femininely nor "he" to behave in a masculine way.

[@MintyLemon]

Girl, I've literally been thinking about this type of dynamic in a relationship. I knew it wasn't all in my head 😩!

[@iamy3356]

So I’m talking to this guy and stuff and we might be a thingggg but like I am not very feminine heck ppl think I’m bisexual. And like I act a bit more masculine and with him I still kinda act like that and it feels so weird😭😩

[@queenmama9229]

I'm with you on that!

[@thebinlgbtisbabadook7832]

Yup! It really does exist. We once live in a townhouse apartment where the old landlady lives closeby with her stay-in gardener and housekeeper. The gardener is a very masculine woman and the housekeeper is a very feminine man. They are married to each other, and when we paid the landlady a visit years after we moved out, the couple were still happily together and had adopted a son. The kid calls the gardener "mama" and the housekeeper "papa", but it's the housekeeper guy who do the stereotypical housewife duties and while gardener lady plays the role of a stereotypical husband. ❤

[@rio.escobo]

It is all in your head way after you say this video that is and tried to seem relatable or connected for attention. Typical sassy girl emojis too, along with the 😂faking like your laughing but got a straight face clique🤡😂

[@TimTidmons]

Women... lol

[@taylamorris]

I love how peaceful they seem together.

[@ab-jc8nv]

Hey u from?

[@manachaozit6732]

Yes! And they seem to genuinely click with one another.

[@bawseeeee602]

Its fake for the cameras

[@Be1smaht]

Right. I noticed that

[@kobo4924]

@Monke He meant that it’s all a lie to Brian wash u into thinking it’s actually good it’s weird and disgusting 🤢 I can sit here an say oh I’m a bird I won’t fly tho it just doesn’t work like that

[@justing320]

They dont want you to be authentic they want you to be the same as everyone else and be fake and pretend with their egos, you go, keep being authetnicly yourself, you guys are so strong, love that for you guys it is everything to be authetnicly yourself, dont ever let anyone tell you otherwise, god bless ❤😊

[@Leylah974]

Finding someone that balances you out is the most important thing. ❤

[@IAmJe]

This works because they are two authentic people - I often say it's not so much the 'sex/genitalia' that they are drawn to per say but the essence of the aura, feminine, masculine - this is cute. I'm glad they shared their story - whatever you are - just be YOU!

[@luigidragonborn]

is about who they are and not body parts, that is like 10/20 of who you are....!!

[@sulagreen5792]

It depends on the person, for some people the body doesn’t matter, for some people it does. All are valid.

[@bluesoul7163]

Are we sure they are straight ? I am not....i am pretty sure they are both homo

[@Ljounieh]

Feminine and masculine are taught. You don't make sense.

[@IAmJe]

@@Ljounieh no you don't make sense. Bye dummy

[@katiedunlap235]

I'm 5'10 and my boyfriend is 5'5. The whole "We don't look how they expect us to look" is something we are faced with constantly. For example, we were staying at a hotel the other night and a guy at the counter looked at us and asked my boyfriend how it feels dating a woman taller than him. He responded "Damn good." Love is not one size fits all. I commend this couple for embracing and sharing their relationship. They look happier than most "normal" couples I know and I hate even using the word normal. Hope whoever is reading this has found or will find the love of their life

[@berchyzgb4423]

"Damn good", love his answer 😁

[@ngashjr]

I'm 5'7" she is 6'1". Her sister once asked how it works.... She said.... I respect him and he adores me simple.. *chuckles* Short king but carries a might staff if you know what I mean.

[@magiccarp3710]

No one cares as much as you think

[@heckinbasedandinkpilledoct7459]

@@ngashjr true. I’m two inches taller than you, but it’s mostly how you carry yourself

[@virginiachavez6414]

My grandparents were like you very much in love with each other and they were married in 1921 and grandfather loved to see grandmother with high heels you can tell he was very sure of himself and by the way they had 8 children. 😄🇨🇷

[@TinkererTaylor]

I love seeing feminine men with masculine women, it’s so cool! Happy they are being themselves

[@iTSY0URb0YEE]

their chemistries fit perfectly together like a puzzle.. what's the odds of that ever happening, lol.. great story

[@essji9302]

I find this relationship to be weird only because I haven’t been exposed to this dynamic but do I hate it? Nope! Because it’s not about me, it’s about them! Everyone deserves to be happy and treated with respect and dignity. They look happy so that’s the only thing that really matters in this world..... finding a person who accepts your true authentic self and loves you because of it!❤️💕

[@ab-jc8nv]

Hello how r u?

[@Arliepwrlifts]

I honestly wish everyone thought that way, the world would be easier.

[@Pansexual-Imp]

My king and or queen

[@popitupaau1126]

This write up was so complicated and beautiful

[@bunnylarese2161]

But you are used to Tom boys.

[@elephantdanceparty7917]

Finally, a Love Don’t Judge couple I actually don’t judge

[@danamichelle1290]

RIGHT! It's 3:30am and I just watched the one with the 27yo woman who presents as a toddler, I can't EVEN.....

[@AJ-TheGr8]

@@danamichelle1290Bitch they said don't judge! Try! 😂😂😂 Lool I'm joking, I haven't even watched that one yet. It was just the perfect response to your comment, I'm sorry.😅

[@gregoryjohnson7043]

Real talk! As a christian at first i was like hell naw. And then i actually for some reason went through with the video and by the end i was like Thank you Lord for always having a plan for us. This is completely holy. Who cares how they act or represent themselves. This is a holy relationship here. No christian no republican no church can say otherwise. Trust me i tried. And i gotta say this is kinda beautiful

[@elephantdanceparty7917]

@@AJ-TheGr8 I saw that one as well

[@maenad1231]

I know right???😂😂😂

[@colleenpino1358]

I absolutely love you guys. Stay strong and ignore the haters. ❤

[@FAMEBangBang]

🥰Literally smiled during the whole thing. THIS IS SOOOOO CUUUTE!!! 🙏🏼Wish them the best.

[@bmjankle]

I've actually thought this about some couples years ago where the man seemed more feminine and the woman seemed more masculine. At the time, I first thought they were closeted and trying to keep up an image. Then as the years went on, I realized they just didn't fit it the little boxes we put people in in this society. It's nice to see this video to get better understanding and see people happy and able to live authentically.

[@guesswhof7323]

Only in America 😂this weird $hit happens 🤦🏽‍♂️ this why US REAL men have left the country and got us a REAL woman these weird azz no culture hoes. Like I always say if it’s not foreign it’s boring

[@suckerforcats2416]

Honestly they're a really cute couple, it really intrigues me that they're both so open to their preferences and doesn't suck up to other people's stereotypes. I hope their healthy relationship lasts forever.

[@aaliyahali5537]

Is people like you that their souls and mind was taken away peer pressure.

[@hornerfarah2282]

Maybe we live in different societies but when I see something like that it make me cringe. I Dont call this healthy relationship

[@suckerforcats2416]

@@hornerfarah2282 It's alright, I respect your opinion. I mean we all have different perspectives and views right? My comment is just solely based on my mindset, and my own opinion too.

[@ceyciemateo9411]

It’s fake lol

[@STEELOOFFICIAL]

@@aaliyahali5537 you're really in 2023 complaining about stuff like this lol. couldn't be me.

[@ces4399]

I can honestly say I have no issues on this relationship, even though anything I say means little. Just the same, I truly wish them well. This works!

[@crystalbender5490]

Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful connection with us all! Wish you the best! I am a masculine presenting female born to a single mom and most straight “masculine” men feel emasculated by me… still navigating 🙏🏽namaste

[@youngk001]

I actually get their relationship dynamic. im a very masculine female myself, im bisexual but i like men more and i was in love with this very feminine guy, he was straight though, he didnt wear feminine heals though but he wore a little makeup and was more attracted to masculine women cause he found their power and the energy they walk in sexy. im attracted to feminine men because i find their gentle nature beautiful and sexy. these two are so cute.

[@omegawicked1]

u is lost.

[@rwn490]

Your IG ❤

[@mryoutubeuser]

I like ur story I don't think there's anything wrong with men being submissive and women being dominant Sometimes I feel myself as submissive man and I love strong bold women but due to society we all live under a mask I hope one day we all break all these gender roles and stereotypes

[@Ani-gi1pf]

@@mryoutubeuser ..r u indian?

[@mryoutubeuser]

@@Ani-gi1pf yes why?

[@boebender]

The older I get the less “weird” this seems. Growing older together is something to be grateful for, and to cherish. Life is short. Be happy.

[@cutepoiisonn]

exactly, gotta feel safe and loved. no matter what who cares

[@neonboy1998]

lets address the elephant in the room for a sec. She is definitely pegging him

[@cutepoiisonn]

@@neonboy1998 and why do you care so much? Is it supposed to be an insult?

[@deathvvitch]

@@neonboy1998 that’s pretty weird dude.

[@deathvvitch]

My thoughts exactly! Why should we care when love is hard to find in the first place. If they are happy then that’s what matters. I hope they live a very full and loving life

[@mhamory777]

I always wondered if any relationships like their’s exist and I’m happy they do

[@michellecaroline9004]

I’m a 65 year old woman, and I love you both, this is so refreshing xx

[@darkboimoise]

2 gays in a straight relationship New level unlocked 🫡🤯

[@21nameyuser]

brother you are so accurate haha

[@djo_shorts6154]

It'll soon get a unique name and added to the lgbtqanda+- community 🤡

[@darkboimoise]

@@djo_shorts6154 brother you are so trueeeee 😭🤌🏿

[@user-uv4rg2qp7c]

Crazy how the world has developed so much yet this is only the first time I've ever seen a relationship like this. I'm here for it. Glad they got to share their story. Very heartwarming and lovely

[@solarlola5953]

Because the world is confused

[@dntskdnttll]

Right? You would think this would have happened in the 1960s during the sexual revolution and while I’m sure it did sometimes (David Bowie and Prince both loved women lol), you don’t see relationships where both buck stereotypes that frequently. Cool to see people being braver about it.

[@imrandom5340]

@@solarlola5953 it's not that the world is confused, it's just that it lost touch, especially in recent years, there have been relationships and different gender expressions like this for decades and in many cultures but as America is ruled and influenced by the media and consumerism, they only have the rudimentary view on these topics so when the trend of the mundane lifts like it does through every decade it's suddenly scary and new again to those who are oblivious.

[@fifinanti80]

Flame Monroe talks about his children's mother & his past relationships. He's feminine and the women masculine. Check out some of his interviews.

[@confu5ed_]

This is WAY better than other Love Don't Judge videos I've seen. Usually I'd see someone in love with a person pretending to be an animal, or two people with a HUGE age gap. I'm happy for these two 💙

[@AS-jo8qh]

Exactly. Probably the first time i am seeing a normal healthy relationship here

[@belove751]

Yes!! I really love this couple. People just being masculine or feminine without being trans.. it’s beautiful. This seems so much more healthy and fulfilling.. don’t need surgery, meds or any weird ideology.. just being who you are.

[@supernova7848]

@@belove751 ❤❤❤

[@sarab7794]

@@AS-jo8qh normal means the norm. They’re not the norm but it looks like a healthy relationship from the outside. I am happy for them ❤

[@Luna303]

Honestly this doesn't seem more normal to me than either of those examples.

[@mysticery]

This is eye opening. I never thought of this kind of arrangement. And this could be something i might be into. Wow.

[@queenk.369.1]

IT ALL IS IN ALIGNMENT RINGO. WHAT YOUR TEACHING IN THIS STREAM. I AM LEARNING A LOT AND I AM GRATEFUL FOR THE KNOWLEDGE, WISDOM, AND CLARITY. 💯💯💯💯👑👑👑👑🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@bluecube7247]

This couple makes more sense as a match-up THAN THE MAJORITY of couples and marriages.

[@jonbanks653]

@@mirandasworld OK and to each their own. Go after your Rambo's and let the rest of us be. Just don't knock it simply because you have different taste

[@XingAoShen]

@@mirandasworld where are you finding warriors and Vikings? Lol

[@NahNo-xy2kq]

@@mirandasworld and where are you finding those at?

[@jonbanks653]

@@mirandasworld How was the OP knocking people like you? The message was simply that the two people are unique compared to most het couples. Knock the chip off your shoulder and your paranoia too

[@jonbanks653]

@@mirandasworld They are everywhere and sadly they force their opinions onto everyone else which you are doing in a subliminal fashion. Harry knuckle dragging bullies are all over the place but not everyone wants an insensitive, unfeeling, narcissistic brute.

[@m1tw141]

When you truly allow people to be themselves

[@user-ct5ve8ie4t]

Nah thats more like, when you brainwash people so bad they think and act against their biological desires

[@NP-xx8nt]

Mentally ill people*

[@musicmashup9597]

And they become Fricks

[@INFP-Turd]

So we should let pedophiles be themselves? (Not @ the people in this vid)

[@witheredskull]

@@INFP-Turd Where did you get pedophilia from this? I'm curious so please tell me

[@jodimcguirelpn]

they are so so so sweet together! this makes perfect sense to me

[@JulieDHunter]

This is so cool! Tbh I’ve wondered why I haven’t seen this more in the world.

[@marvinogega2384]

I've come to realize that your soulmate might not be who you always expected and that love has no labels and that love is beautiful

[@animehawtie]

FACTS!!

[@mommydearest3164]

you can’t do that in your native country only european countries. that last name???

[@mommydearest3164]

it won’t last he’ll be with brad 😂🤣😂 buckbroken smh

[@ismailmounsif1109]

You have taking a beautiful word like love and have distorted it how mad

[@johnstamos2365]

That’s because you love weak, pathetic, girly men!

[@dontkillyourkat1733]

Not gonna lie, this is what we all can strive for: a healthy, understanding, and romantic relationship. And I wish them both a wonderful life together ❤😊

[@steviedub9370]

There both gross , 🤮🤢 most women would never date a “Feminem” man , Most girls like tall strong alpha males this is stuff you only see on the internet , in the real world of if & when you go out you don’t see tnis stuff

[@Shilobu]

No

[@fernbear3950]

@@Shilobu good point, I hadn't thought of it that way before

[@eeeeee8829]

@@Shilobu you truly have a way with words

[@ismailmounsif1109]

@@Shilobu buckle up mate this is only the beginning of the madness the west is going to produce in the future don’t be surprised in 5 years a woman is in a relationship with her cat will also be an inspiration according to them

[@SmooshedPotato123]

And now watch all the homophobes be mad at this heterosexual relationship too. There is no reason behind homophobia, it’s in the name, it’s not an opinion, it’s a fear.

[@terearchi7385]

This is a unique situation! I bet you both are a lot of fun. You guys are twin flames and you had a connection in a previous life regardless of gender.

[@akdlg9sjjslk8]

I’ve only ever seen a “tomboy” have a relationship with an “effeminate guy” in the movies. It’s so nice to see it actually exist. I hope they stay together for a long time!! They’re both so lovely individually and together ☺️

[@fadi8002]

would you care to tell us the movies names ?

[@XingAoShen]

What movies? I’m tryna see sumn

[@xBINARYGODx]

and usually, it's for laughs in the movie when they pull the feme guy with butch girl.

[@greybook6616]

@@Schrodingers_Kat just a question

[@lunedogg]

@@Schrodingers_Kat because what are all these movies? I can’t think of a single one with butch woman and femme man

[@sarahtaveiraaa]

I am a bit old school and not as open-minded to this type of thing. But I clicked on this video in my recommendations out of curiosity, and I was pleasantly surprised to see that these two are so in love and so accepting of each other. At the end of the day, what else could you possibly need in a relationship? I think they are truly an inspiration.

[@ab-jc8nv]

Hi ur study completed?

[@albal-v3869]

@@ab-jc8nv It was just an observation, no need to be rude hun

[@heuvelke1065]

@@albal-v3869 the only one who is rude is you who already assumes its rude to ask if she finished her study.

[@deeppanpizza4847]

They don't actually seem like they are in love though. They do look more like friends

[@acaciagirl]

@@deeppanpizza4847 they are clearly In love

[@curlotte]

more power to them! i first saw this video on Facebook i love them

[@user-tm5km9pq1e]

Can't forgive her for killing Joel.

[@anartistcalledlucy2.0]

OMG the abby reference ????

[@LoveAlwaysAlwaysLove]

I was married to a beautiful black man in the early 1970's for 36 years before he passed. We apparently went through what we did, beginning in Southern California, getting spit on even on Hollywood boulevard. Yet, these things are sooo much better now. Keep being True to you. You shall help uplift the world . ✨🌎✨💗✨🌎✨

[@amirsiddiqi6542]

Can you be my Suger Moma

[@theenemisisshoww9025]

Awwwww bless you queen

[@chicagorainbow8935]

My Deepest Condolences!!!!

[@LoveAlwaysAlwaysLove]

@@theenemisisshoww9025🙌💗🙌

[@LoveAlwaysAlwaysLove]

@@chicagorainbow8935 Keep Love in the lead every moment. ✌

[@theonlycorner7519]

I'm gushing over them, the confidence, the self love and expression, it's all so beautiful I hope they have many years ahead of themselves together ❤️ Wishing them a long happy relationship

[@garybronson4525]

Self love queen slay. F trump. You do you they is not hurting others

[@byunniq9060]

Yess they're so cute omgg😍

[@_Romans10.9_]

Your perverted mindset is disgusting.

[@arianayoung7537]

He still crossing his 🦵 😆

[@lunalee5843]

Same!

[@deavenlinen4885]

Love it! "You're paying the bills" 😂😂😂

[@samy7342]

I wish them the absolute best. I wish we saw more couples who aren't scared of what society thinks like this.

[@lanielovespopculture]

It’s not weird, it’s just interesting because we don’t see it often. But I’d love to see more couples like this!

[@RoseTheRealest]

Why? It’s not natural. God didn’t give men the testosterone just to do it. They are stronger and wired neurologically different than us for a reason. If a tiger attacks them you all will want the “masculine” presenting woman to defend her feminine man

[@buzzingnoise]

I feel like me and my partner have this is a more subtle way.

[@lukekillemall3269]

that's literally the definiton of weird. Something you don't see often.

[@lesliejohnson-nelson4003]

Lol why would you wanna see more couples like this? Do you wanna be the man?

[@dope8003]

It's not

[@axel4196]

They couldn't be any more different, yet they found love with one another. Good on them for doing their own thing ☺️

[@TheSign0]

LoveIt

[@belle3055]

The end is near

[@caryns6373]

@@belle3055 what you mean end is near

[@aliciaparks3767]

It's a perfect balance!!

[@noneya1238]

It's almost like he's dating a man, and she's dating a girl. Like what male and female couple act the same anyways?

[@Whyhellothereowo]

They’re so suitable with each other! I hope their relationship lasts forever!!!! ❤❤

[@sangtilkr8946]

I support this couple rather some clout chaser transitioning into something thats not.

[@mbg140897]

I went to junior high and high school with a couple like this. All through out they dated. We’re 29 now and they got married a few years ago. They’re still going strong. Love is love!

[@isabellajones7644]

Hey

[@faithintheunseen1294]

Tbh I’ve OFTEN wondered if such a relationship exists & I’m so happy that it does. They’re awesome.❤

[@samukelodlamini7086]

Dude me too.... And when I saw this video my initial respense was... "oh so I'd does happen" ❤️😂

[@kelly8107]

I can understand this sentiment. I knew they existed, just never seen it. I'm not sure if it was SNL or MADDTV that had the couple "Pat" and "Chris". It actually might be a reason why I'm accepting!

[@justinaacuriouswanderer1496]

omg same

[@faithintheunseen1294]

@@kelly8107 SNL, the skit was called, “It’s Pat!”

[@kelly8107]

@@faithintheunseen1294 I wanted to know someone like Pat!

[@genesishomeres7736]

this is inspiring, God bless to the both of you

[@Harith-le5iq]

J U I C Y aryan woman dominating the black. Very classic

[@BFoxy1326]

it’s not inherently weird, it’s just different because it isn’t something we see often. But with the laws of sexuality and gender being bent so far to the point of fluidity, it’s not shocking or surprising. And i’m a firm believer in “if you’re not harming anyone, it’s not my business” 🤷🏻‍♀️ Strangers who insert themselves into relationships they don’t personally agree with is hands down the weirdest thing ever to me. Not this couple. This couple just wants to exist and be together. They hurt literally no one.

[@sajjjk]

So then you must agree with incestual relationships? Technically it doesn't hurt anybody using your logic. Father-daughter/son, Mother-daughter/son or siblings.

[@jeremiahgray1017]

You greatly underestimate just how much of an effect we have on one another. The amount of views on this video alone is proof that we have a profound effect on one another.

[@clearerthanwater]

@@sajjjk but incestuous relationships *do* hurt people...they aren't built on genuine love and affection, it's usually one family member preying on another, and it comes from an unhealthy attachment to family and is inherently problematic for that reason. a man and a woman from different backgrounds who happened to meet and fell in love hurts nobody.

[@BoraBlooded]

@@sajjjk Since when is abuse not harming anyone? lol Weirdo.

[@BFoxy1326]

@@sajjjk i would strongly disagree with the assessment that parent child sexual relationships hurt no one. They undoubtedly hurt the child who is not receiving the proper kind of love from their parent. That kind of a relationship will lead to a plethora of mental health concerns and emotional trauma. Two NON related consenting adults in a relationship are not hurting anyone. And i would argue that anyone they do hurt is absolutely unintentional and almost certainly a direct result of that person or persons beliefs. For example: the very religious take personal offense because they believe God abhors these relationships and in being devout, they too must abhor them and sometimes take it even a step further and consider it their responsibility to god to try and lead them down the “right path.” A father or Mother who actively chooses to have a sexual relationship with their own child 1000% knows before starting it that that they are engaging in inappropriate relationship. That parent is absolutely aware of the ramifications.

[@MrMsLisa]

Far too many people deny themselves happiness because it doesn’t look like what they imagined or what people around them think it should look like. I applaud this couple for being open and following their hearts!

[@jonbanks653]

You hit that nail on the head!!! More people than will admit reject or accept people because of what their friends and relatives say

[@misaelgarcia6105]

😂

[@johnglow7845]

Yeah the judgment is shats weird let people be happy.

[@GoddessLuna23]

So many people!

[@Proverbspsalms]

Yes we do - we see too many

[@emanipettiford868]

I remember when I was in high school in 2013 I use to imagine this kind of relationship and to see it come to fruition has got to be the most fascinating thing to me ever in my life

[@lennyball3885]

They're giving best friend in love energy, and I'm here for it! They're beautiful together, nothing weird about it.

[@steviedub9370]

It is very weird & disgusting women can claim to be masculine all they want but to be masculine means you can Project fear & nobody is scared of women a woman can be holding a gun I still wouldn’t have fear , that’s why all horror movies the villain is a man

[@steviedub9370]

Most people think it’s weird other then feminist & sjw

[@basilmweramakokha9557]

@@steviedub9370 yeah it is weird, and saying it's not forces everyone to act like it isn't. The thing is, there's nothing wrong with it being weird! The love between them is clear as day for anyone who's been around humans in love before. You can see there's no tension or insecurity between them despite how society at large may perceive them. That's REAL love. It's weird AND it's beautiful. The 2 aren't mutually exclusive and that's what makes life more fascinating than anyone's wildest fantasies.

[@xd._.28234]

@@basilmweramakokha9557 true :D

[@TheVikasas]

Omfg!! You are not normal.. Maybe you are a masculine woman.. You haven't met a masculine man yet..

[@kennedydumas6195]

Finding someone who accepts you for you is amazing

[@karenwilson4259]

Yeah it is... John why are you gonna throw up on this...

[@rosea6653]

that's what it's all about

[@jujew317]

I love it! Funny but cool. It just works and I’m happy for y’all.

[@Seevawonderloaf]

You don’t look conventional. You don’t act conventional but I can relate to your relationship. You are both so cute ❤️❤️

[@honeyisnatural5]

I’m jealous. Many of us will never know this kind of natural unconditional love. I’m smiling from ear to ear right now.

[@sulaman4280]

That is unnatural behaviour him being lifted by her is one thing but to dress and act like women if an altercation happens with a normal couple they will be smashed to pieces and their future kids will probably commit suicide

[@popitupaau1126]

Truly many of us are blinded by the norm the society gives from birth and we are forced to obliged by it..... only few who dears to be free by following their heart 💜

[@itstwinshi2179]

@@popitupaau1126 yap and most of it drive and control our lives, who we be with, how we should be with them and etc and I think that is definitely fine, but it depends on individuals too.

[@GurlinDaBackk]

For everyone

[@izzyDbuzzin]

@@popitupaau1126 you do realize they still fall in the norm right? Masculinity and feminity are theorized to be attracted to each other. 2 men dating will still have one person being more masculine and one more feminine. Same if it was 2 woman , so and so forth. The roles aren't assigned to the sex or gender, but focused on the opposing *energy* of attraction.

[@divyanshisingh1670]

I got told my preferences are weird for getting attracted to feminine people 💀really feel happy to see them

[@raecilee6393]

I've been saying for a while now to men, if you LIVE YOUR TRUTH, YOU WILL STILL FIND LOVE! I've been known of women who loves feminine men! I once met a stud woman who ADORED transgendered males! It's NOT A PROBLEM! The problem IS that men aren't living in their truths and lying out here, to the rate that their women are single mothers or catching AIDS. Just BE YOURSELF, that goes for ANY AND EVERYONE!!!!

[@goddessofmoon]

Same ☠️

[@pennyspamzlol]

okay but i really like how in love and happy they are, the guy in particuar seems really sweet

[@generalrodcocker1018]

they are both very likeable! I like his positive attitude and smile