He's the RIGHT GUY but it's the WRONG TIME

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He's the RIGHT GUY but it's the WRONG TIME... In this dating advice video, I will discuss he's the right guy but the wrong time. You can meet the right guy at the right time, and it can be on first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to this dating advice, and be sure to watch the entire video.
It would help if you didn't think that it is always the right time for both of you to be together when you meet the right guy for you. I want you to understand that it is possible to meet with the right guy at the wrong time. Ensure you embrace this relationship advice for women to know what to do when you meet the right guy but at the wrong time.
If you have ever met with the right man and felt like he's the right guy for you, but it was the wrong time right person, this dating advice is for you. I understand how it feels whenever you meet the right guy at the wrong time or wrong place. This dating advice for women will help you know why the right guy wrong time happens to enable you to have better dating experiences and relationships.
As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray that you find this video helpful, and you will be able to enjoy dating and have a fulfilling, healthy relationship.
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[@idoracruzinofre2882]

Thanks Stephan Speaks I'm always watching all your video and it truly help me may God bless you always

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that and may you b blessed as well 🙏

[@idoracruzinofre2882]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks even my ex left me. I haven't got into another relationship anymore and if someone told him that I did it's a big lie that probably someone just want him and wanted to take him from me and only I can say is I didn't cheat on him and if his one of your listener he already had a big mistake

[@bennawhite4097]

This Is True Because we as women don't want to admit we're not used to a man guiding a leading because we never had that in our life or a man doing for you because you had to do everything for yourself it is a very scary frightening situation to have to let your guards down and dig deep within yourself and be honest with yourself and take all accountability to be truthful with yourself This Is What I'm Going through right now ❤️ l Must Be honest with myself I'm Not Use To It ,And I Must Say ,A Lot Of Time's It's Not That Men Don't Want To Guide or lead It's Because No One Showed Them The Right Way To Guide Her Amen ❤️

[@bennawhite4097]

Thank You ❤️

[@doritofu]

As a guy this was helpful for me too. I met someone who I had the most amazing connection with. She was pretty much everything I've wanted and more. God was also at work between us. I experienced massive spiritual growth during our time together, including deliverance from addiction. I was convinced that she could be the one. But a lot of things you mentioned applied to us, including lack of stability, healing, and possibly maturity. And God also made it clear to me that it wasn't time for a relationship, and so we ended up parting ways. I don't know if God plans on bringing us back together, but I know that I won't settle for anything less than the connection that we had. The chances of her coming back or me finding someone better seem equally impossible to me, but I believe that God is a God who does the impossible. Right now my focus is on following him and wherever he's leading me next.

[@michellerangel7960]

Update?

[@ericajanellelifecoaching]

I have literally experienced this and every single thing that you said was accurate. When the connection is there and the timing is not right, its best to just be willing to wait for divine timing. I’ve had to learn that just because l may desire the relationship at the wrong time, it’s just not worth the risk rushing and not letting God bring it to me at the right time. Honestly it’s best to shift your focus and work on the areas, goals etc. and be willing to wait for it while working on yourself.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.

[@BabyFaceRose]

Love this response … I’m trying to gain hope

[@riannab5256]

But how do you know he is not just wasting your time and breadcrumb’s you

[@monicathompson9751]

This is where I'm currently at. I want to shift and focus on GOD like you .. Thank you 😊.

[@melanieortiz712]

Yeah going through this right now. So working on work right now. So I'm ready when he gets his life together.

[@fitforfreelance]

That story about letting someone go when it's not the right time hits 🎯 focus on your development and health, stay true to your word, and let people make the right decisions for themselves. That's real love

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 💯 Yes!

[@womanofnations1]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks i am in a situation right now . God told me must wait but he sent me the similitude of the guy I just want . Now things became hezzy and now we are apart , no communication nothing . But I feel peace because God wants to prepare me

[@jeffreyjephter4172]

That’s how I been feeling

[@fosterjanine5112]

Just because you're in a relationship with the RIGHT person it doesn't mean it will be a bed full of roses there will be challenges and obstacles along the way but as long there is an investment from both parties then that's what is more important. Partnership and Good communication makes a relationship work.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Communication is definitely key, thank you for sharing!

[@renee167]

Absolutely! I agree.

[@BAM4_]

And being honest and trust worthy.

[@Char796]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks mm

[@marshayn6358]

@@Char796 that’s really him replying this time!

[@privateequityguy]

*20 Life-Tips I wish I Knew In My 20s:* 1. Marry the right one 2. Don't Lie, ever 3. Learn to be Brave 4. Learn to Say No 5. Be curious about everything (ask questions) 6. Develop a Code and Live By It 7. Be Patient with Yourself (but put in the work) 8. Learn to Listen 9. Avoid Debt (big one! if you want to make some moolah!) 10. Seek out a Mentor 11. Develop a Space to Confined In and Ask Questions 12. Be Kind, Be Compassionate 13. World changes constantly, keep an open mind 14. Break bad habits 15. No dirty websites 16. Read more (it’s actually really good for you - makes you more intelligent) 17. Limited time for gaming 18. Not drinking too much 19. No drugs 20. Enjoy life, smile Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@msdemeanour]

No dirty websites? 😂😂😂

[@jaelenrandolph2030]

@@msdemeanour yes. It does harm to your sexual relationships even if you don’t realize it. TV and reality aren’t the same so the more you watch dirty websites, the more you began to have unrealistic standards for people who aren’t in that ‘career field’

[@Keevus03]

@@jaelenrandolph2030 True. Porn and "excessive" masturbation desensitizes mentally and physically.

[@lisabrown7409]

Amen! Life goals

[@JamaicaLove876]

What is meant for you will always find its way back to you. Over time we naturally gravitate back to things we love & things that speak to our heart. We can meet someone we have a strong connection with but if we are not ready to receive love it will not happen. Often both partners have to go through a wilderness period to build our character spiritually & emotionally into a level of maturity to handle the vulnerability and commitment required of a loving relationship. Everything must come into alignment and things will fall into place. True love is always present yet if the relationship is not nurtured and watered how will it thrive & take root. Nothing ever happens by chance, God is always strategic in preparing us for His blessings. Excellent video. Blessings, peace & light to you. "Love aligns in the right time by God's design."

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@JamaicaLove876]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank you for great quality content. ❤ 🙏

[@crystalo3402]

This is everything thank you 💕

[@JamaicaLove876]

@@crystalo3402 ❤

[@monicathompson9751]

This is Beautiful Thank you 😊.

[@sandragreen5146]

Never ever let the " right girl" go. Life is way too short for that.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@sandragreen5146]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks you welcome❤️😊

[@creestewart3805]

The “right woman”

[@digthewarmth]

Stephan dropped a Gem here. Do not get with someone who you don't have a stronger connection with than the person you had the strongest connection with. Amen to that!

[@patriciascorner4686]

So many people are in relationships, but heartbroken because it's not with the one they truly wanted. It's tragic.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but we need to focus on doing what is truly best 🙏

[@patriciascorner4686]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks absolutely 👍🏾

[@samildeperez8399]

Some profound wisdom here. Best line for me was do not settle. If the next person that comes into your life does NOT surpass what you experienced so strongly with that special person-then move on. Wait. Don’t settle.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@theone8327]

Someone needs to explain what settling is... whats your definition of settling

[@shirleymartin3605]

My friend and I broke up after almost 3 months. It was the wrong time for both of us. Well 9 months later we have reconnected we are taking it slow and the Lord is a very large part of us. I had been carrying around distrust since I was six. My friend who is a minister has helped me pray to rid myself of theses horrible feelings. They are almost completely gone and we are moving on with our relationship slowly. No more mistakes. You are so terrific. Thank you

[@sandragreen5146]

When the time is right, I the lord will make it happen' Isaiah 60:32

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤

[@sandragreen5146]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks you welcome❤️

[@yokojacobson8494]

@Sandra Green, Isaiah 60:32?, the 60th chapter of Isaiah only goes up to 22nd verse. Perhaps you were thinking of another chapter in the book of Isaiah?

[@dejanae7336]

60:22. I believe.

[@nelliebellie2222]

​@@dejanae7336Yes it is

[@Latoya_T]

I’ve been waiting on this video! I wholeheartedly believe in right person, wrong time! I’m literally in this situation as I type. Our connection is like nothing I’ve ever experienced! We are real friends first, before anything else. We have talks often about us and what we want from each other if/when the time ever presents itself. We both are at points in our lives where we know we’re not ready to enter into a relationship. We’re both on separate self development and healing journeys. We both want a healthy relationship and most importantly for it to be RIGHT! I know this man is MY ONE and I pray that our timing is in alignment with God’s timing!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤

[@briannaroberts8255]

I agree

[@marshayn6358]

I’m happy you’ve found someone you connect with so well! I can feel your energy, love, devotion, compassion, desire and do much more just reading your comment it’s unreal and how your words run through my body! I pray you’ll both heal not quickly but quickly so you all can enjoy and love each other as one! I can’t wait until I can realize, and accept that can of love and connection!

[@Latoya_T]

@@marshayn6358 thank you for your comment! I could literally tell you so much that it would have you saying, “that’s crazy!” I’m learning though, patience is important to me and that’s something I’ve always struggled with. The more I heal and work on myself the happier I become and with that, brings the things my heart desires. I pray you will accept everything God has waiting for you. Position yourself and He will place you on the right path🙏🏾

[@lyndavialet]

I’m going through something almost exactly the same right now

[@Jehovahsdaughter1]

The best message that I got just when I needed it the most.. because I truly love this man and he's my soul mate.. and I cant even bring myself to let him go... but I need this time to work on me. I'm literally praying that time will work this out for us both❤❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy that this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@BabyFaceRose]

I am going through the exact same thing

[@demimiller794]

Me too.

[@jelenajecarankovic6746]

What happened?

[@courtneypelcha4519]

I just experienced this. I met this guy. He and I have a great connection, love the same things, we dated for a couple months. and he let me go because he wasn't ready. He told me I did nothing wrong, that I was amazing and everything he wants, but he got scared and realized he wasn't ready for where we were heading and what we had. We are still good friends and talk, but timing is everything in life. It just wasn't the right time.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that 🙏

[@courtneypelcha4519]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks, you are welcome! Thank you for all you do! I needed this video today. 😊

[@avannagirltv9898]

This was a similar situation I had.. I’m not sure if we’re going to end up together..but I’m just going to focus on me and if it’s meant to be it. Will be.. I hope you get you person..🙏🏾

[@celestialhappiness]

I don't think I can be good friends with someone I love 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@courtneypelcha4519]

@@celestialhappiness it isn't the easiest thing to do, but we don't have anger toward each other. He and I both wanted to still be in each other's lives, so friends is our option for now.

[@melloniefrazier4421]

I totally Agree 💯 another person that you are not in love with will NEVER have all of you when someone already has your heart.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

[@darlineb426]

Long distance and lack of financial stability is what ended my 1 year relationship. It felt so one sided, he meant well but I was the one making plans to visit him and honestly it began to irritate me. I finally let it go. Good man but he needed to get himself together before entering any relationship 🤷🏾

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and receive the man who is truly best for you the man God has for you 🙏

[@annea6288]

I did this for 5 years before I saw "the light"... spent 10 thousands, did the whole partner emigration thing, paid for everything. Distance makes it harder to see the abuse. I let go in the end. It was his time to come over the bridge, I had done enough .. he only wanted to when I had let go of him.

[@sixteen.candles.4644]

This was me 😭

[@renee167]

One thing that I’m learning during my single season is that timing is everything! If it’s not the right time then I’m cool with that because GOD’s timing is always better. I’ve met some good guys that made me think hmmmmmm all is not lost they do still exist! With that being said I’m very hopeful for the future and until then I will utilize this time to continue to work on myself.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

It really helps when we embrace working on ourselves. Thank you for your feedback ❤️

[@slgraphicsinc.1207]

You’ve explained it all. We started as a long distance relationship 15 years ago. I had initiated the meeting in person. Took care of the tabs. Even initiate moving together. Took care of the finances and his school to better him. Have a child together. I had alway pour into the relationship. I had felt like it was always a one way. I finally realized that he isn’t right for me. Like you said, if a man loves you, he would do everything to get there to make you happy. I am at peace right now and ending this relationship. Years doesn’t matter anymore when you are let down so many times. You have to take the bull by it’s horn. Ready to take charge of my life and happiness. Loves your videos. Keep up with the good advices.

[@geeavo4058]

This right here is where I am. Thanks Stephan for this video. I am on track!! Great connection like I've never had, but I had to walk away because he said he's not ready. I am open to new experience, and I accept what we shared as a standard before I can commit to anyone.. if he comes around again, then it's all good. If not, I am thankful to God for the experience, the set standard and what I trust God has in store for me. 🙂

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

[@sarapalin4137]

Same

[@ShanturaBonner]

I totally agree. I had a connection with someone new after my divorce, but my extenuating circumstances along with not being healed from my divorce, I wasn’t ready. This left me with regrets of the unrealized potential I lost.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing and may you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

[@demimiller794]

Hope your paths can cross again once you're healed

[@eli30013]

Author Billy Chapata said “I pray that you never become so familiar with pain, that you reject anything good that tries to find you “

[@dymondboyer5473]

I'll just say.... Find YOURSELF than seek. 👌🏾 easier said then done!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@crystalo3402]

This is right on the money. I was sad about our breakup but it was inevitable and I respect our maturity and agreeing that we want to establish financial and emotional stability so we can be better for ourselves and each other. I know that if we’re supposed to be together in the future, we will be.

[@manucastrocombr]

Unfortunately, we are living in a society where a "friendship zone" is something not healthy, and because of one simple principle, we are entering into relationships based on necessity and not based on love...

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus should be on doing what is truly best 🙏

[@francistheresiadavids7011]

I like when you shift to a spiritual perspective 🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽💪🏽

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing I appreciate that ❤️

[@damonteforney8076]

I felt this way a few weeks ago. I met someone we went on one date. One day I told her it wasn’t working out because she was always busy and the communication lacked. She told me that a situation with her friend was taking a toll on her. That it wasn’t the right time. I still don’t know what to think now but I’ve left and tried dating others but no luck.

[@giantonamission]

This message is soooo powerful! Especially the part about the spiritual maturity and trusting that God will send me a man whom I could embrace as my lead; Being prepared to sit in the passenger seat. Thanks for allowing the Lord to speak through you.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@alicesutton6470]

You are so right about the cake. We should not rush a relationship, we should give people time to work it out and have a come back.

[@OhioGalReads]

My current and most likely last boyfriend I met 17 years ago. We weren't ready for each other. Now we are and it's beautiful.

[@dnormanlett]

This is my second time listening to this specific popcast. You're so on point. I'm in my kitchen spinning in circles, like i really can't believe you're saying these things word for word. I've met this person, found out I was his high school crush. After communicating with him, it was like instant i realized we had such a crazy connection. It got scary to the point, I couldn't understand why I'm feeling the way I do. It was as if, I was floating on air and could not stop myself. I found myself crying because i didn't like how I've became so vulnerable. Also as you mentioned, I'm that person that protects me at all cost. This attitude as I don't need anyone. Then there came this man, that broke down all barriers and gained access. In addition we are countries apart but vehicle accessible. Thanks so much

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@ComradeFromRhody401]

Sounds like he helped you address your attachment trauma. Soulmates will do that 🫂

[@dnormanlett]

@@ComradeFromRhody401 He sure did. Thank you

[@dejanae7336]

Happened to me too & have no clue why I have a soft spot for him. Feeling safe with him & just knowing I can be at peace. I feel sooooo submissive & I never really felt that way with anyone & it’s beyond me.

[@godseed79]

So much truth in this video. I married the wrong guy twice! Different guys, same problem. I didn't want to be alone, but I suffered for those decisions. Never again.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm sorry to hear about that, I pray that you heal from all that you have been through, and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@godseed79]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Yes, I am healed and have spent a number of years single and figuring "me" out. I am ready to love again, but will never repeat that mistake again. ❤

[@jenng5925]

Same here. Been divorced for almost 12 years, healed and ready to move forward . This time will be different.

[@womenwhodate7643]

"Love is a piano dropped from a fourth story window, and you were in the wrong place at the wrong time." Ani DiFranco

[@Janet1975]

I recently met a really good guy who didn’t want to be in a relationship, just wanted to date. Based on a lot of things I think it was a right guy wrong time situation. He, I believe, has not healed from his ex. It’s clear he’s still hurting, but he’s in denial. Even with his initial stance on no relationship status we were getting close until his ex started stirring trouble again with his friends which led him to tell me he likes me, but wanted a break. I believe the ex is the reason he doesn’t want to be in a relationship. All I can do is honor his need for a break and pray that if he’s the right man for me God helps him heal and leads him back to me. In the meantime, I pray for peace and strength to move on.

[@KaylyaP]

The end of the video is my current situation😩😫.I love my current mate but I'm not In Love with him nor is the connection as strong as it was with the previous guy.

[@cget]

I know this video was directed at the women, but man I couldn't help but relate to most of these scenarios with different women. And it's sad to think about all the relationships that didn't get a fair chance because I was worried about losing them, when I was actually hurting my chances by trying to make them work. This is very illuminating because I used to think that any relationship can work if the two just put in the work, but it's not that simple at all.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback ❤

[@melissasibell4866]

Completely believe in this. Just had to end it with the man of my dreams. We had a great committed relationship for quite some time but he was so damaged from 2 previous relationships that he had not healed from. His fear destroyed us. He tried counseling, did not connect with that person so he quit the process out of frustration. Completely heartbreaking.

[@icydedppl]

Please everyone watch this all the way to the end! You won’t regret it! It hit me hard and definitely said some things that I didn’t want to but needed to hear. I believe this one was divinely inspired bro, thank you. 🙏🏻

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@hl4507]

I am shocked how much this all applied to my situation. I had so many questions and most of them were answered here. I never knew until now whether I should keep myself free for this man or just keep going, but you have now answered that perfectly and saved me from a lot of hurt. I am looking forward to more! God bless u!

[@sissyb576]

Situations like this a lot of times push people to pick who is convenient. And of course they usually don't work.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're absolutely right, thank you for sharing!

[@KrazySoul1]

The part with you may of met someone that made you vulnerable. That hit me wayy different. I'm ready to get healed and on the rest of my journey to a godly healthy relationship with myself and my future husband. Im excited for part 2. Thanks uncle Stephan

[@prettyr9597]

Stephan hearing your video I felt like I went through all those stages. My previous relationship we met our last year of college and he was my first bf. Our connection was real with lots of love. From the start he told me after graduation he would leave to the army. I was blinded to it and thought “he’s here now. I want to try”. We were both told by our family to break up because long distance would be too hard. A year and half goes by and the conversation of long distance comes up and we choose to not talk about it and hope for the best. He leaves to seattle while I live in NC. We ended breaking up because I didn’t want to give up on my dreams here in NC and he didn’t want to give up on his military career. We didn’t know how we would get back together when we were going two separate ways so we thought letting go of each other will be best until we met again. This relationship made me closer to God and now that it’s over I feel like I want to grow even more closer to God.

[@keziyahyisrael9672]

Wonderful Stephan🤩 Definitely going thur this RIGHT NOW! This man been trying to talk to me for years now. The man I'm feeling came, when me and my twins father having issues. Our first time meeting we held a conversation getting to know each other, and I just broke down in tears, He embrace me and held me tight. I felt that energy 💥 The twins are now 5months, and I Definitely haven't healed 😫 I Definitely been praying and asking God for strength🙏

[@traceycordero2575]

Thank you for making this Stephan!! Can’t wait for the part 2. I truly feel I have had this experience and the hardest part is trusting God and not fighting my feeling about it!

[@kc5620]

I’ve been subscribed to your channel for awhile & purchased a book. I have to say, this video right here?! Sooo spot on! Thank you for sharing & taking the time to do what you do!

[@auroraborealis6398]

Everything you say makes perfect sense, while there are many brilliant people on youttube, this is the first time that I hear someone putting things in this way, and makes me understand so much things about me, and men in my past relationships. Thank you so much, god bless!

[@MixagEQ]

I've been struggling with many of these issues this past week, I came to KZbin for some advice and checked your channel. This video was just what I needed, thanks.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏 Glad I could help!

[@deborahdinson6962]

Loving someone is a choice... Relationships require daily work... Just like a garden!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're absolutely right!

[@j.b.2592]

I literally got chills listening to this! Did you somehow watch my past 15 years then do a video on it? Everything you said hit me and was spot on!!

[@toywilliams3340]

I am in the predicament

[@teresadavis-amoako6717]

This message is true. Me and my husband are going through this very thing right now. We have been sperated for about seven years he's finishing up medical school...and I wanted to attend ministry school... we had to make some adjustments. But now he wants to get back together and start a family, I was like this is God he has a timing for everything. There was a lack of maturity on both sides. I had my degrees but he was getting his career life together... but the man must lead and be a provider. This video should be the best supported. This really had to happen in order for my husband to lead. God Bless You!

[@trinamarina2150]

All so true I had God’s confirmation that my soon to be ex was the man I was supposed to marry but we both had readiness issues that took it sideways past the point of repair. I have an anxious attachment style and a tendency to cling so this is a great reminder for me to really transfer my dependencies to the Lord before launching my next relationship!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@mcdull81]

Thank you Stephan. Your final advice hits home. Be with the one who surpass the last one with the strongest feeling ❤️ the right guy wrong time so far was the best. Just timing was off…

[@graceabraham008]

This is by far, the most impactful message I’ve received through Stephan. Thank you 🤎

[@queenbree7305]

After having healed so much this past couple months my relationships with family, friends, and even significant other starts to look different 👁👁

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing ❤️

[@bleugirl101]

@Stephan this has been a major struggle for me. I believe I have found the right guy but distance is a major issue so we decided not to start anything. However I have been struggling about whether or not to move on. Tbh, I may have unconsciously put up barriers to other relationships. I was so glad that near to the end of the video you explained what to do: find someone who I have more feelings for. The answer was so simple and sensible lol. Thank you for your advice!

[@geebee4166]

I definitely agree with this! I felt this about my ex I wanted to pour into her but wasn't where I needed to be stability wise! Can't build like that and I will never let that happen again!

[@kresageorgie5030]

This is true for me. I have a tendency to be very defensive when someone is getting too close I recognize that and I am trying to get out of that phase.

[@lindsayc1971]

We must trust the progress and timing of our lives 💜 love the video Stephan 💕

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate that!

[@PJ-xl5hs]

Wow! The spirit is definitely present and flowing. Beautifully done😌. Keep going.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

[@kimberlysmithcarlson1777]

Every aspect of this video resonated with me 100%. Thank you for this confirmation. I am so very grateful!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help!

[@alisoncanty5660]

All I can say is the Holy Spirit just used this entire message to hit my spirit like a ton of bricks. Oh my. I was in tears for part of this. All I can say is this was the message I needed to hear literally right now at this moment. Thank you so much, Stephan. It was like fire. Cannot wait for the 2nd video.

[@plasmamig]

Wow alot of this advice went both ways and was a major help now after i heal I’ll make sure the feelings the love for the next woman is far stronger than the love I had for my ex

[@50andbeyond.anewbeginning.18]

Omgosh. Exactly what I’ve prayed for. Praise God!!! Thank you so much!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@tracymcnally8413]

This is for me. I fell in love with a man and it wasn’t the right time. We weren’t healed.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@queenk.w_williams]

So true when we experience a different type of love we latch on overlooking the other stuff. It's just so beautiful ...

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing ❤️

[@jessicarodriguez6276]

💯

[@shugababybooks]

It’s about preparing to receive what’s best for you! I like that thank you so much again ….and also thank you for allowing God to use you to give us these videos because this one was right on time as well …… and it’s also about how can I become better and ready ……I got it!!!!! 😁🙏🏾❤️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you ❤

[@amyhines0953]

Dropping SO MUCH deep wisdom! This *really* blessed me. No matter if we get together down the road or not, this was so so so confirming. I'm grateful for the experience & how he set the bar so much higher. Such a HEALTHY, healing, balanced & peaceful experience!! I can't unsee it & won't settle. Thank you & God bless!!

[@tmw7550]

Can’t wait for the part 2 please! When is ETA? 😊😊 so excited. This is an answer to my prayer!

[@michellesutton3945]

This video really opened my eyes for myself. Every time my mind is at ease, I have this gut feeling that this specific person in particular is the one but I know now that I have things going on holding me back and sabatoging the potential of our relationship and I’m sure he does too. I’m really just going to have to let it be and focus on getting my self together and just wait and see if my gut is right.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

[@KenshayBerry]

I believe that things always happen when they’re suppose to

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Most definitely!

[@valerienabong1212]

Definitely learned a lot after watching this video. Thank you. I have been following you and reading your books.

[@sassanthony00]

Stephan as usual you spoke volumes and truth.I have waited patiently for this video in particular.And I agree with you on all you have said.I totally understand everything you have spoken.I met this man of God years ago,and I knew years in advance that their are good men out there,I always said that even though I was in a very painful,hurtful marriage.So when the Lord brought this man of God to me I was not ready at all.Btw my husband had abandon me and our 2 children, way before I met this man of God.I thought I was ok,healed,delivered,etc..,but I definitely wasn't.Past issues,flash backs,and just plain old fear cause me to sabotage the beginnings of what could have been.However it caused me to become aware of my underlying issues and fear.I thank God for showing me these behaviors and thought patterns, so He can heal me.Thank you Stephan for your spiritual words of wisdom. I'm looking forward to part 2....Shalom..Also this man of God has made me truly and I mean truly look at other men so differently.I refuse to date(I don't date anyway) or entertain any man because now I know that good men do exist.And if a man cannot match him or surpass him I am not interested at all!

[@leatricewalker8038]

This was awesome! It was so informative and you were right on point!! Thank you 👏🏽🔥

[@imaneelatia9321]

All your videos are amazing but this one is another level … It hits you really hard and the timing is just perfect to listen to it :)! I am really excited for part 2 and god bless you Stephan ❤️❤️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing I appreciate your feedback and may God bless you as well 🙏

[@caseyj5597]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Did you do Part 2 and if so what is the link please?

[@TheyNeedJesus1]

Watching this got me thinking about how crucial it is for parents to be in the healthiest relationship with each other before having children. These kids will have their parents as their best role models at the time and when they start dating in high school, college, etc., what they've seen can be their only guide. Building healthy relationships of all kinds will be positive no matter what. I loved this video. Absolutely loved it.

[@Crybabycry884]

Exactly it affects your children as well

[@raychelo.8896]

This video spoke to me from the beginning to the end!!!

[@myrtlensekela3109]

Thanks for this information! I am going through the example you used in the man and woman was not ready! Now after 40 years we are in a relationship! But we are in different city and it is very hard to get together, so I don’t know! He wants me to be patience! I will listen to you video again and again because it is a great blessing! God bless you!

[@mariagontevas6643]

Gods work is truly amazing 🙏 I found you in one of my lowest and a place at a place in my life when I was not comitting at all to God. I think I was emberassed for how I haved lived my life actually. And eversince then, everytime that I struggle to be a good human, your videos keeps turning up. Everytime I go on KZbin there is a video from you, always and I mean always, talking bout the things going on in my life and the things necessary for me to hear to grow as a human being. Your work makes me a better person and I am so grateful that I get to have such a wonderfull life coach. Finally social media payed out 😂 I really wanna say thank you for doin what god wants you to do 🙏 Greetings from Sweden 🇸🇪

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy that the videos have been helpful to you I appreciate your response 🙏

[@ladybelle9546]

Wow. This popped up right when I needed it. 20+ years of Undeniable connection, Unconditional love... yet unfortunate timing... I believe the stars will align for us when the time is right. ❤❤

[@anon6056]

Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and help with the world. It's really helping me

[@creestewart3805]

I believe this wholeheartedly because I am a person who just believes in love. I recently rekindled with my first love after not speaking for 14 years. Our connection was like no other however, when we did rekindle we moved way too fast. We decided to pull away BUT we both came to a mutual agreement that the timing was just wrong. We’re both on 2 different spectrums of life, we also both agreed to stay in each others life and remain friends for now but I truly believe this is my person. It’s like we both sparked something in one another I know we’ll meet AGAIN! ❤

[@steph_steph876]

This was deep....looking forward to part 2!!❤💯👏

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you, I appreciate your feedback. Part two will be out soon!

[@noelanderson7204]

This video was spot on! I mean everything, great job! Please keep sharing.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you! Will do!

[@chrisparker6249]

We have to be in position to receive, that's with anything. Being honest with self first prevents a lot of destruction, devistation, and depression later on.

[@cymonearcher4882]

Thank you. I needed to hear this.

[@CC-ny9he]

Not sure how I missed this one; however, had I saw it at initial release… I wouldn’t have acted. I say all things happen for a reason and I do not believe in coincidences nor luck! 7.5 months in and I understand why me and my companion are shaking and moving the way we are. I thought, I was healed but I am not! He is not healed and that’s our issue. Thank you Stephan for this video and I’ve been distant from him this past week and it’s what we need for now. And spiritual growth oh heck yeah, I know I’ve lost my way.. Im praying and asking for guidance.. Love your spirit Stephan ❤️❤️

[@dimez1981]

Yes we both have to work on our past trauma

[@theposhfamily876]

It’s the title for me!! I was literally thinking about this the other day!!! You are amazing ❤️❤️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏 Hope you like it!

[@theposhfamily876]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks watching now! And let me just say…I watch the entire video every time!! Love how you take your time with explaining things! I enjoy watching your videos

[@celestinebennett212]

wow you have actually talked about things that people don't talk about ..everything you said here is true 100%

[@yourlovestorytarot2864]

He's the RIGHT GUY but it's the WRONG TIME....I have seen this happen in my own family. It is more common then people would think. I myself have had this same issue twice, right guy, but wrong time to be with him in a relationship and it can be very heartbreaking.

[@annaking7997]

Very!!! Going through it now

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I feel you it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

[@lizmy606]

Amazing Video! Thanks for those words! 🙏🏽 May this video bless so many people !!! ❤❤❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

[@dimez1981]

Omg he nailed my situation on the spot I’m in it and at the crossroads

[@herdiscussions3682]

You are spot on with this one!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you!

[@carrieanderson6872]

This was so good. I'm saving "I don't believe in getting with anyone if they have not surpassed whoever I previously had the strongest feelings for". Wow

[@amyfoxx3448]

I am dealing with this right now and I fully believe this is right person wrong time. We had been together for 11 months. Things were going amazing, we were long distance so it was a little hard but we had an amazing connection. We met 5 times in the 11 months. He drove to see me it was about 11 hours. It isn't cheap and the money was part of the reason the break up happened. Another reason is age. Don't come at me for this but I am 16 and he is 21. I know a lot of people don't agree with it but we were ok with it (so were both of our families) so that is all that matters. We are both at different stages in life and it's as simple as that. Before we dated we were bestfriends, and still were bestfriends while we were together. Everything was just so easy. Nothing was forced. It was a chill relationship. We had our fights but always got through them together. It's been 2 weeks and 4 days since the breakup. We have not talked much, I tried to message him to see how he was and he said he didn't want to talk too me right now and that he needs more time. I hope that we can continue being friends whenever he is ready. I don't know if it would be better to just not talk and see what happens in the future. I truly care for this guy with my whole heart and I just KNOW there is something there. We were both there for each other in our darkest times. I truly believe we are Soulmates. Maybe not lover soulmates. Maybe bestfriend soulmates. idk. I am torn over this. I am getting better though. If anything I think he is the one hurting most at the moment. And I just wish I could be there for him and make him feel better. But he just doesn't want to talk too me. I am going to give him space and work on myself in the mean time. I love him with my whole heart. I have been in relationships before and moved on pretty easily but with him it is so much different. I guess I will just work on myself and if it's meant to be it will. I have faith.

[@ashleyboo42ify]

Wowww! I definitely needed to hear this!💜🙏🏽

[@user-db6kz8dz7h]

Yes thank you for this teaching. I'm going thru this right now.

[@barbaracanterbury8533]

Your point of view Stephan, is so inspiring!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that and don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing!

[@thisismystone9658]

Thank you for preparing and sharing with us.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤