He was made to choose between Me & the Church|Ministers Wife Exposes the alleged corrupt system

[@andisiwesokwanqa714]

We have normalised silence to the point where , when someone stands up. we find it odd and we fight them….

[@sibongilemnguni5189]

Can't agree MORE with you, dearest, please 👏 👍 🙌 💯 .

[@lifewitYolandaMbeki]

💯

[@michellematjeke5396]

It’s everywhere, church, friend groups and even families.

[@galaxyfox5hy]

So true

[@nomsangema8162]

Truth be told being a pastors wife doesn't mean you must let people walk over you❤

[@Sims_Online]

I surprisingly love Nandi. We live I a world that lies that telling the truth is deemed crazy

[@sybillamula7190]

Don’t marry someone for their looks, make sure your visions and values align

[@motivationalconnect7641]

Tough one that one

[@smangelenkosi9300]

Amen to that

[@siziwetobie5818]

💯🤞🏾 Yhoo Mfundisi sana choose wrong

[@blackbusinessdirectory8952]

Your view is very worldly. Pray for a partner and ask God to bless your marriage. Stop with the stereotype that beautiful women are bad. They’re created by God to glorify his name.

[@blackbusinessdirectory8952]

@@siziwetobie5818uyaziva ukuba uthini Sisi?

[@thandolomanzinizungu]

I love this lady. A lot of church people are hypocritical and due to that many don't attend church today bc of them. Love her for standing up for herself.❤

[@jacksonmpala7870]

live holy is not being hypocritical. these people want to mix Christianity with the world,

[@nonkanyisomofokeng7470]

😂me and you there dear😂

[@amdemichaeldessalegn801]

This woman was never a Christian, listen to her. God does not give the gift of shape shifting, that is gift of the devil. Learn to discern. She went in to distroy and deceive.

[@kitchenforall1]

If she knew she would stand up for herself instead standing up for Christ, why marry a man whose image will definitely put you out there. For Christ sake let’s stop normalizing nonsense in the name of standing out please 🙏🏾 This is not judgement. We’re not God

[@abbafatherswarriorprincess3627]

We should never look to others for our standard of holiness; not even to the church, but to God's Word. We should never compare ourselves to others, because the world is evil; only to God's Word and what HE says. And the Holy Spirit, the Helper, is always there to guide us.

[@wystee2895]

Like me some South African woman.

[@huldahjay8495]

Exactly. Well said. Measuring your faith against flawed humans is a recipe for disaster. Only God's standard matters. Period

[@abbafatherswarriorprincess3627]

@@huldahjay8495 AMEN

[@dejavu1107]

@@abbafatherswarriorprincess3627 AMEN.

[@mandyg5322]

The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, Nandi. How we conduct ourselves is important to God. Moses never entered the promise land because he misrepresented God in his conduct. If God has called you to bring change to the system do it in a holy manner. Esteem your hubby's calling, through it you too will be blessed.

[@prettymandoyi4402]

True, I agree with you

[@ThobileBiyela-nh7pb]

I agree

[@joshuagoldneil6118]

Who told you that Moses misrepresented God in his conduct what kind of rubbish is this, Moses is a prophet of God, stop your nonsense and show respect to the lord and his messengers.

[@lungab6524]

​@@joshuagoldneil6118Moses did not enter the promised land because of his disobedience to God's specific command. In Numbers 20:8-12, God instructed Moses to speak to the rock to bring forth water for the Israelites. However, Moses struck the rock twice in anger instead of speaking to it as commanded. This act demonstrated a lack of trust in God's provision and a failure to uphold God's holiness before the people. As a leader, Moses was held to a higher standard of obedience and faithfulness. Additionally, Moses' actions in the incident at the waters of Meribah reflected poorly on God's character and authority. By not following God's instructions precisely, Moses misrepresented God's power and sovereignty to the Israelites. Ultimately, Moses' disobedience resulted in the consequence of being prohibited from entering the promised land. This serves as a sobering reminder of the importance of obedience and faithfulness to God's commands, especially for those in leadership positions. Moses misrepresented God

[@Redeeminglove1414]

@@joshuagoldneil6118I agree with you!!!

[@lindiwehlekani4501]

She is very true about the injustice and corruption in the church. It's not only the Methodist church. I grew up in church and had to watch and endure my own mother being abused by my father who is a respected elder in the church. When I grew older and tried to save my mother, I was labeled as a rebel who don't respect church and marriage and of cause my mother went back on her knees to the same church and husband. Nandi is fighting a good fight even though I don't condone her rudeness but I relate to her fight.

[@TT-qn2kz]

Sorry to hear that

[@NtsikiManson]

Which church? Out of interest

[@Nozist55]

She's not rude, she's realistic.

[@nombulelohangana7433]

Nandi no one will ever understand the things that happens in Methodist church unless u grew up attending the church .I understand u fully .Good luck

[@fionagriffith8481]

I used to lime with Methodist members. They drank like fish. It made me question their commitment to God

[@tedebare7874]

Really!

[@optimisticmargie5948]

It is happening in Anglican Church,the wife of the priest,who has been sleeping with his fellow priests just died and story has it that the woman was sacrificed or killed deliberate.I pity for her 4 growing kids.

[@nomileziphodlamini1453]

I think that Nandi is refusing to be judged by sinners and has chosen to be real and not hide 20:17

[@Siiviwe]

Thank you for this episode. I'm a big Methodist Church girl and I had to watch this episode twice. I hear Queen Nandi. ❤ I'm glad she's fighting the injustice!

[@zanelemazibuko6086]

She seems to be misunderstood because while she's vocal and present, others who are performing worse go unnoticed. I understand her perspective. If you witness wrongdoing and don't fit in with the organization, it's okay to leave. She's honest and doesn't pretend to be someone she's not.

[@phumud4644]

Well said 👏

[@kiya3328]

She is so strong... I need a character like her in my life! She answers with a smile❤❤❤❤. This is authenticity, and i am here for it!

[@makwenarapudi7170]

It's God using Queen Nandi t expose this hypocritical churches! May God give u strength to set others free!

[@NthabelengNakeli-nu2oo]

This just opened my eyes 😢

[@stevemonssen3012]

Its every church

[@blessingjebison]

Holy Spirit we need your guidance and leadership in the Body of Christ.

[@oliveDaughterofZion]

For real

[@nomzekelomdloyiya620]

Millicent’s line of questioning 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@NoxoloMqela-wf6sm]

She need to grow up very fast

[@lindacooper1543]

No ou live cording to Os wor bikini ing in nose is a no no no matter church you a in Read the bible shes contrary..to Gods word.thats what matter SIN IS SIN no matter what.church.you go to READ THE WORD YOU.REPRESENT GOD!!!!!!!!shes wrong

[@mamakhabaneramoshabe8795]

I like her😂 She basically said "When they go low, I go underground"😂

[@BontleHlongwane]

We’re supposed to be set apart.

[@nonhlanhlamtshali4485]

I love Nandi for being herself and not conforming to people's standards. She speaks her truth, and that's what people do not like about her shen

[@akhonangxabani539]

Let her be herself outside of the ministry…a whole minister’s wife in a bikini in public. Isn’t her body the temple of the Lord?

[@amandamalindi9360]

Exactly

[@nolwaziginindza7460]

From this interview I will see her with a different eye yazi

[@naledikabai8578]

She can't change the church and it's people, she just has to switch and go to the one that suits her.

[@pfulu]

When you read in between the lines i can sense Pride and Arrogance. The is no standards at all.People with standards own everything they have .you can not bite the hand that feeds you.

[@CELEBUTAIN]

Speechless just speechless, even the twins were shook but they did handle this with care.

[@MuziwoxoloDukwana]

,l😂😂

[@ms_tee]

Nandi is the EFF of the black churchs, she triggers transformation, necessary conversations and exposes things. Uwuthwele umnqamlezo wakhe.

[@nomileziphodlamini1453]

Exactly, someone needs to speak up. African Missionary churches are different from the other churches in their original countries and need to speak up about it.

[@feziwemotshabi3096]

I agree

[@mariasono6117]

😂😂😂😂EFF of the black church

[@nonkanyisomofokeng7470]

😂😂😂😂yabona wena umgqibile ukumchaza😂

[@Inchrist611-k2q]

CENT Twins well done for interviewing such a difficult person!!

[@mercynjoroge3753]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@JackieNtwayagae]

She is

[@honeybee7245]

We need the spirit of discernment when choosing life partners because WOW!!!

[@madamtt2090]

True

[@NoxoloMqela-wf6sm]

Say it again ❤may Lord help us

[@MgoMgowo]

And churches also need the spirit of creating proper rules. Not changing them whenever , then painting orhers as delinquents. Then fail to prove the delinquecy thereafter.

[@bbm2116]

​@@MgoMgowobefore the church rules kuqala uMoya oyiNgcwele ungekalawulwa Nguwo libala. Once the Holy Spirit takes over thhe church won't have to say nothing to you

[@saintsinclair]

Because WOW!!! 😢😢😢

[@nonkululekomehlomakulu2037]

For your calmness, standing your ground, owning your story and being you..... They will say you are full of yourself, they will say you have pride.

[@GODMALUV1]

When you come to christ , u can't be you. You have to be what God want you to be. She is not even a Christian to be in the first place

[@GODMALUV1]

Stay which calm. Watch the whole episode or series from the beginning be4 u make judgement mama

[@blackbusinessdirectory8952]

@@GODMALUV1leave that to Christ. You don’t have authority to pass judgments. Pray for forgiveness

[@Camagwinee]

@@blackbusinessdirectory8952 the authority that we've been given is in the Word of God and we do have the authority to judge accordingly, that is with the Word of God John 7:24

[@blackbusinessdirectory8952]

@@Camagwinee not with hatred. That authority must not be unchristian. Look at it this way ‘what would Jesus do?’ (WWJD). Spread love not judgement

[@victoriasonqishe1878]

Love Nandi to bits,you served them nice,you gave them what they deserve.Inkohlakalo nobumenemene ecaweni yethu abunyamezeleki.Well done cc

[@saintsinclair]

Wow. You guys support such nonsense, nyani.

[@Cookist_Mahlengi]

Now you understand why the bible speaks about being unequally yoked. This type of situation will make you suffer in your calling. He is the pastor who upholds the standard and she doesn’t. There’s nothing wrong with her reasoning. They are just unequally yoked period. They will never have common ground. Also she’s an Alfa female who doesn’t know how to submit and is unwilling. There are relationships that cherish women like her. But the one she’s in, is not the one. Even with 6 kids. What’s unfair is that he has to compromise his calling to please her. It’s a tough place to be in as a man of God. I hope God helps her grow especially because her marriage needs it. Even if she doesn’t become mam’mfundhisi. Just being a child of God who is humble enough to her husband and God. And doesn’t care about being right. God will defend you if you feel mistreated. We don’t fight fire with fire.

[@khosiethabekhulu3497]

Well putted. She is not the woman for him. This is sad. It is like Megan and Devon.

[@xolilemazibuko4390]

I share the same sentiments with you he chose wrong

[@MaureenkediboneMonareng]

Well said yooo I feel sorry for the pastor Shame

[@toscamilanga4640]

Was waiting for someone to point that out.

[@blackbusinessdirectory8952]

@@khosiethabekhulu3497 OMG! How, on earth, do you know that? Do you know anything about God’s purpose for them? Do you know why God let that marriage to exist in the first place?

[@fikifesi6790]

Your truth Nandi... you've exposed the injustice. You're eloquent and elagant.

[@4hinson777]

Do no harm and accept no harm. She's a real one. 😂 🔥💎🙏🏽

[@dejavu1107]

I’m a Christian but since most churches comply with the world I’ve decided to build my relationship with God from home and in peace. Until God himself shows me a church where he’s truly worshipped I shall keep it that way. God is spirit and can be found everywhere and the Holy Spirit is the best teacher in case there’s something I don’t understand.

[@giftbhera3765]

You are not alone. I took that decision too! Eversince I made that decision, I am at peace.

[@dejavu1107]

@@giftbhera3765 Amen and to God all the glory.

[@stefanmnguni5168]

Heb.10.25 Not forsaking or neglecting to assemble together [as believers], as is the habit of some people, but admonishing (warning, urging, and encouraging) one another, and all the more faithfully as you see the day approaching. (AMP)

[@stefanmnguni5168]

Heb.10.25 Not forsaking or neglecting to assemble together [as believers], as is the habit of some people, but admonishing (warning, urging, and encouraging) one another, and all the more faithfully as you see the day approaching. (AMP)

[@dejavu1107]

@@stefanmnguni5168 Amen to this… Unlike at Church when I pray from home I know that the people I pray with truly have a relationship with God.

[@YandisaNozembe]

A woman of seel in deed, love her tenacity. Truth has many enemies...

[@kurubalanrengaraju8528]

Wonderful lady Just plain honest May Jesus bless this wonderful soul

[@michellephandle364]

If Christians will show grace,kindness and love among each other,problems like these won't exist,as a so called Christian we suppose to spread love....and how do you begin to feel when you think you have a dictatorship card on someone else's life....Ministers are called yesss,but they are not robots....AND WHO CALLED THEM WILL FIX THEM ....if they had to correct Nandi with love in all her wrong doings(their perception)she would have maybe changed or tried to fix her mistakes....THEIR ONLY WISH WAS TO SEE THEM SUFFER......Love love love ....humanity, kindness and forgiveness......GRACE people GRACE

[@mariasono6117]

True neh

[@zasendlunkulumalimela4998]

I salute you girls, you handled this conversation very respectfully. You might look young but very matured. Keep up the good work. Keep fighting girl stand for the justice and better run to Christ as your Savior you find piece.

[@mulisaramarumo9968]

Queen Nandi is a fighter and unfortunately many Christians want timid people to conform to anything just for peace sake .Matthew 10:34-36 , rather expose the ills of church than hide and have churches that are built on people's pain..

[@somnguni]

!!!!Exactly

[@Nombuso-bd5du]

There is a lot happening in churches and people don't want to listen.

[@Fatima-k6t5l]

Quoting…Pastors sleep with their colleagues, the church uses him by him emotionally manipulate people and get money out of them to reach a target otherwise the pastor doesn’t get paid. She wants the husband to get his job back but she’s here bashing the church,…I mean she’s comparing herself to a 23 year old gosh I can go on and on and on lol she’s the biggest hypocrite!!!! I strongly doubt that the husband will be given back his job. And for those who watched this episode I hope you’re aware of the evil that is being performed in churches today! Still shocked at the fact that she was honest enough to admit that pastors lie and emotionally blackmail us to give out money.

[@ImaniQ_9]

8

[@Camagwinee]

@@Fatima-k6t5l Jesus extensively warned us that the last days will be like the days of Noah and for us to be weary and to discern many folks who come to us in sheep's clothing and are inwardly ravenous wolves. Now think how hectic were the days of Noah that God flooded the whole world😳

[@leratoramaphoko3286]

After watching this all I can do is send prayers to Minister Mlambo. May the Holy Spirit show him the way. This must be tough on him😢

[@ndileka216]

Quite sad.... Rev Mlumbi

[@myrahtshabalala5473]

This maybe the only reasonable response

[@mncedisilundi]

He decided to marry someone who belongs to the streets

[@souldelite8645]

​@mncedisilundi according to?

[@sindisiwesibuyi9466]

When your partner was chosen to be your fall from grace. I blame him for not discerning. He knew who she was before giving her 6 kids.

[@zanelendevu5887]

😂🤣😂 So much truth, its his fault

[@mandisanorman8513]

It was not about the cape but character 😢

[@Dimz7890]

So true

[@Sibusisosibanyoni-gm6js]

The husband he's in hell, emuva kude phambili kude shame,.

[@mynameis2685]

Sooooo true. Sisishumane. Shame. He was stupid

[@rebotiletutja9022]

May she rise up in prayer and sound a trumpet of revival for the Methodist church.. That God may change the systems and align it to His just and righteous way.

[@ulohoonome8379]

Amen

[@qaphileqaphs4470]

Thank you Nandi stands for the truth kudlalwa ngabantu kanti in the name of the Lord haybooo bengingaz indab kngak mina im shocked 😮

[@NolwaziM]

Nandi said what she said chile. She said silence is not golden! She’s not remorseful. She said she never broke any Methodist law. She said she tried to conform in the beginning to people’s opinions and no matter how hard she had tried they still did not like her. She said they had already made up their minds about her so she had to make the decision to be authentically herself. This sounds to me like religion trauma and you can hear from the number of times she cussed in this interview. The sad truth is that most pastors wives are going through this silently. Those who try and trivialise her experience by saying she doesn’t read the bible when they don’t live in her house shows how narcissistic religious people can be. The fight is definitely bigger than just her and her family. I believe through this experience she’s going to find her calling and touch many lives.

[@selbybopape23]

Religion Trauma,That's a Good Phrase

[@successnefox1724]

Thus what I sense as well religion trauma. Unfortunately ladies get fed up fast than man hence she said is like they are hypnotized. Again personality matters if you are fiery (red dominant) is not easy to tolerate injustice.

[@EstherAkinsola-s6p]

My dear this is what my mum is going through honestly 😢😢😢😢 Sometimes I cried seeing my mom going through what she is going through has a pastor wife 😢

[@well360]

​@user-pz7gp3sh1i This must be very wounding. I pray you can find a safe space to heal from this trauma. May God guide you accordingly

[@NolwaziM]

@@EstherAkinsola-s6p May God strengthen your mom 🙏🏾

[@ceciliakunene9106]

One just needs to put oneself in Nandis shoes. She is married and whatever affects her husbsnd affects her. She is Right to expose everything that hurt her. So that she gets Healed. I think this is Therapy for her.

[@phindiswaapril]

Andizu ngasho umhle ntombiyakuthi

[@andremanuel3244]

The fruit tells it all... 😢Prayer is needed guys, let mercy lead n let's rather meet at our secret places n pray n not offend.it's not about the church it's about Christ Jesus, Thank you twinzzzzzzz

[@selbybopape23]

I respect Her Not being a Hypocrite, And She says, pull out the Rules and Find Me Wrong.. I respect People who Will stand proudly for what they believe..Not these Simps in Congregants...😂😂i Like Her👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽

[@ComfortEkpin-ru6jm]

It is not about her, but about God and His word.Even John Wesley's wife was not born again, it might be the same spirit at work.

[@mimie2745]

U are one strong woman ….these churches they try to control our marriages so much

[@Dearqueennandi.]

Manipulation 😢 which is just pure evil

[@nelisakungu4365]

@@Dearqueennandi.hayi Jonga I love you for days Gqumakho ❤

[@charis7513]

That's not biblical. What does the bible say about marriage, what does it say about a husbands role and a wifes role? Those churches are using Gods name in vain. Working from a place of fleshly desire. Masking it with faint scripture. That's manipulative, not the holy spirit; evil. God will deal with them too, but please people need not be afraid to speak up and ask questions and get Godly counsel. That's one of the ways people are being tricked. Through Shame and fear. The people in their lives are complicit or just being dishonest. Some are over worked. It depends. The kingdom needs workers that are adequately eqquipped to disciple people truthfully, without getting carried away or backsliding.

[@Alwaysgrateful4361]

She spoke the truth. Silence is not golden. This is why the churches are riddled with evil. Too many good people are silent. 😢

[@MemoeBeni]

I love how people here are just being straight forward... No sugar coating... That's how the church shld be.

[@philasibonge.mkhize]

Appreciate Nandi for exposing things that go on eWeseli👏🏿

[@khumalolungile973]

This was really nice to watch. I really dont think she is bad or wants to fight because she enjoys it. I really hear and understand her point, if she can just express herself without swearing I think her point will definitely get across a lot of people. Much love to her and her family. May God heal her husband, may he be reinstated and may God continue to provide as they wait.❤

[@abigailtakobana2950]

I think this gave an insight of who Nandi is, I love her, stand for your truth publicly not in secrecy.

[@MartinMunyaradzi]

That's a very worldly and carnal woman,your body is the temple of the Holy spirit so respect your body.

[@zanelendevu5887]

Yep, I think she needs a lot of maturing nje..... Whats worse she is comparing herself to other 23 yr old's 🙄Even though she is married more so a Reverends wife.

[@angelajohn1327]

Bible talks about modesty. Read your bibles please.

[@MgoMgowo]

I dont think so. The church seems not to be sure of what their rules are.

[@MartinMunyaradzi]

@@MgoMgowo its not about rules it's about holiness

[@CharlotErnest]

Religion or Christianity that come to Africa with whites surprises me because before it we were wearing African attire whereby it was not covering the whole body but now you talk too much about ppl dress code shhhhhshhhh

[@sebehlongwane8002]

You found Wesley Church like that, no matter how much noise you make nothing is going to change, we grew up under such at church and the moment we matured we walked away for our own sanity and peace of mind. I feel sorry for her husband, a little fame got into her head honestly

[@gugumkula7498]

True.

[@viwenyati3529]

Thank God she is not walking away.

[@phemopatience]

When Nandi spoke about how she will bring the bomb & go down with you, the twins’ reaction got me😂😂😂. You both said “yhooo” at the same time

[@neliswamatwa5756]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@MgoMgowo]

Same 😅😅😅

[@TT-qn2kz]

And when she said the husband suck money out of them 😢 their reaction 😭

[@zukiswa8741]

I love how these conversations challenge our make up as a society. I found myself accepting Nandi as she is & reflecting a lot about my life ❤

[@dudumkandla7899]

May the Lord help us as women to know what is right eyes of the Lord not what is right for people. It's a pity we like the things of the world yet we claim to love God. It's all in the Bible how a woman should behave in general you just need to read. There is surely a veil that is covering the children of God to see what is right and wrong😢

[@Ntuthu28_M]

There's a lot going on in churches even in Christian churches. I applaud you for living your truth. As for the rest of us. Let us let God be the judge cos he sees everything even what's hidden. Thank you Centtwins❤

[@nolithambebe]

Nandi is a realist, she doesn't live under cover...I pray God protect her and her family

[@GODMALUV1]

She may be a realist to the world , but not a Christian b4 God

[@sakhiwovumazonke5319]

​@@GODMALUV1 says you

[@sibongilenchabeleng5986]

​@@GODMALUV1What on earth is a 'Christian b4 God' anyway?

[@WorkFromHomeAfrica]

Protect her so she can continue like this?

[@jolsinq8836]

​@@GODMALUV1just because she doesn't hide manyala(evil)/things that were happening in sodom and Gomorrah)that are happening in the churches?...are we going to ignore the abominations she is exposing?!!

[@JayJay-bd2us]

I salute you Queen Nandi,it takes courage to stand up for yourself in this corrupt system

[@zanelenkame5142]

She is a not a congregant but a ministers wife and that says she’s attached to her man and whatever she does is a reflection of her husband. Her actions will definitely have an affect on her man. Uyibulele icareer yakhe! If shes not happy with how Methodist do things why does she not create her own church with her own rules? Yicawe yoKhokho bethu le! She says she wore the uniform correctly how though with a nose ring and a tongue ring. Im a Methodist in good standing but would never marry a minister because I know what it entails. Who is she to think that she can change the church????

[@mambesigoje7006]

Tjoooo so there are rules around wearing nose ring and tongue rings?

[@Mbalings]

​@mambesigoje7006 apparently earings, make up and wigs are fine 😂😂

[@gladysmgidi6439]

But kunamanyala namanyundululo in the church

[@Barbsie_M]

Girllll. Born and bred in a Methodist church. No one understands what you saying more than me. Caweni there are rules we abide phofu there are rules everywhere kodwa. She did this to her husband and her family. This man saw a beautiful lady and wanted to make her a wife. Little did he know that she will be his down fall. Uphi ngoku? She will be celebrating her birthday kwa Chief NGQOKO. Imagine umfazi womfundisi etywaleni kodwa ugulelwa yindoda allegedly. Ukuzi thoba ? Uthini ngo thoba isdima sale ndoda wavuma Uba ngu nkosikazi wakhe emazi ba ungumfundisi, esazi ba uba ngumama umfundisi funeke uzi phathe njani ? Wazi faka lo bhuti. She wants to be in the entertainment industry so bad, it's actually sad. Which industry will take her knowing she bad mouthed a whole church, one of the biggest churches in SA. Who will recognize her ? I mean if she can do that to her husband and church yintoni iProduction ? Uright pha kwa Tiktok

[@Mbalings]

@@Barbsie_M she belongs to the streets

[@JohannahRamalobela]

I love you Queen Nandi for standing up for your rights and the truth ❤

[@thambisasihlangu4696]

I love her, she’s beautiful and honest but she’s for the world❤️ No harm😅 I love the fact that she keeps on shocking the twins as well, their reactions is mine, the twins are me I am the twins 🥴🥴😂😂

[@relebohileruthsontjato2971]

😂😂😂

[@noxolonjoli702]

I love her shame ❤

[@angelajohn1327]

😂😂😂

[@nthabee]

the 'tjo' floored me... their facial expressions as well🤣🤣🤣

[@pfulu]

Hii CENTTWINZ - I love how you are Questioning her .Shes still need lots of guidance in this Christian community.

[@msngema1380]

Unfortunately she looks like the type who takes advice from no one…

[@khosiethabekhulu3497]

​@@msngema1380Unteachable spirit.

[@nomathembakhoza2892]

True no wisdom at all.

[@dianabess1505]

​@@msngema1380not even God will advise her but I pray that she softens her heart and get to have a relationship with God

[@ncedisakhewu]

​@nomathembakhoza2892 there is no wisdom in mob mentality.

[@sharonkarabomongale6250]

I love Nandi, I admit she couldn't have handled the situation better, there are amicable way of doing things but let's speak the truth , there are bullies in the house of the Lord, misleading others, not led by Holy spirit and wants to control others. That is not Godly at all.

[@spm9130]

I support the lady for the truth she stands for. Church leadership is very biased towards pastors’ wives. My ex-pastor husband did so much wrong to me and yet not even once was I called to give my side of the story, they believed him and obviously he hid his shenanigans. We become the sacrificial lambs and yet they know that they are after either your money or your marriage! Fight for your marriage sisi, those who don’t understand now will understand later! You are so right, the pandemic of corruption is very bad in our country, so much that it has infiltrated the church and is ruining families! No wonder people don’t want our Christ and that, for me, is tragic!😢😢😢

[@LethoHali]

💯

[@curious_afrikan]

you're putting in personal emotion into your assessment. as a pastors wife the bar is high for you, you're a leader and a mother figure to the entire church.

[@spm9130]

@@curious_afrikan so? Does that give anyone the right to trample over me?

[@curious_afrikan]

@spm9130 not unless you're letting the congregation see you half naked, etc etc.

[@DAVINCI85-i4h]

You need to watch pastors wives series....this lady is just all round rebellious,and im talking of matters outside the church....why would a pastors wife be arguing about whether ot not to model for sexy pics in studio....

[@Ngunikaz]

It is nolonger I who lives but Christ in me… the story would change immediately 💯

[@nchadipoo537]

I don't understand whether she's saved or not... But from listening to her she seems not transformed by the power of Christ... Therefore there's not much i can say about the way she lives her life...she needs to be saved.

[@mphodingiswayo3282]

She is a Methodist she never claimed to be born again

[@NancyM23M]

To the husband Mr Minister - 2 Corinthians 6:14 (KJV) Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?

[@SisLinaM]

I think Nandy’s message would be understood better if she could just stop swearing and using vulgar language. She is retaliating and that’s why she is like that. The Church has hurt her and her family. They abused them. They harassed them. Iwisile ibossy.

[@blackbusinessdirectory8952]

We understand it better when it’s coming from the heart, unfiltered. We understand it very well my sister because we do not judge her. She’s a child of God, who’s allowed to express herself in a way that best suits her, not us. It’s her story. Not ours. It’s her journey. Not ours.

[@mbalidlamini695]

​@@blackbusinessdirectory8952wena you're attacking everyone who's commenting go and research about the difference between being corrected and being judged

[@blackbusinessdirectory8952]

@@mbalidlamini695 that’s your opinion Mbali. I don’t get satisfaction from attacking people. It’s a pointless exercise. You may have misconstrued my view. I don’t subscribe to suppression of other people’s views. I feel that we, as Christians, can be very judgemental. This is fundamentally wrong in many ways. You can’t tear down and pass judgement on another Christian, in a condescending way. Our attitudes are terrible towards other Christians, who behave in a way that we don’t agree with. Remember, the devil is happy when we are fighting amongst ourselves. It cannot be that whatever the interviewee says is seen in a bad light. The fact that she’s speaking against the church doesn’t necessarily mean that she’s wrong. What if it’s God’s way of fixing some of the wrong things that are happening in the church? What if the church is right? Can we, instead of, pray for her healing and that of the church? I don’t know this lady and I am sure she doesn’t know me either. As Jesus Christ would say, ‘Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone” (John 8:7), I am not in any position to throw even a pebble at her. So ke sisiwam, I hope you understand me. My position is based on Galatians 5 v22-23. If I offended you or appeared abrasive, please accept my sincerest apologies. God bless. 🙏

[@mbalidlamini695]

@@blackbusinessdirectory8952 but the Bible says don't conform to the standards of this world but allow God to transform you inwardly by a complete change of your mind then you will know the will of God so keeping up with trends "the ladies my age are doing it", fashions and popular values "so called philosophies" must not matter in a Christian's life Also God constantly watches your response to people, problems, conflict and disappointments

[@blackbusinessdirectory8952]

@@mbalidlamini695 all I’m saying sisi wam is that we must refrain from being judgemental and allow Jesus to to the judgement, not us. We are not privy to the criteria that is used, it’s a mystery to us. Mathew 7:1 states clearly that we should not judge others as we are also to be judged because the same measure of judgement will be used by you. In this instance, we need spiritual maturity and guidance. Let’s not allow the devil to come between us. Let’s be steadfast in our commitment to faith.

[@asandavaaltein9175]

I don't blame her, she just sees everything from worldly point of view

[@ruthsumaili4510]

Salvation is personal journey and it seems she is far from it ,you don’t have to compare yourself with other people’s lives.

[@onikayongaba8926]

Is she saved or just a Ministers wife?

[@RosinahMonyebodi]

@@onikayongaba8926 I think she's not saved. She is just a ministers wife. May God help her and be saved. Jesus will help her.

[@ruthsumaili4510]

@@onikayongaba8926 i doubt she needs to be convicted by God.

[@FundoMpho]

​@@onikayongaba8926she is not saved

[@blackbusinessdirectory8952]

Salvation is not your construct. It’s a personal relationship with Christ. You are not in a position to say who’s receiving it or who’s not. Leave that to the owner of salvation.

[@sekasizani3124]

Am proud of Her and very happy She stood and fight for Herself, even Mama Winnie fought alone in many occurrences

[@siphesihlenhlebela7721]

Indeed her reasoning is sooo worldly. She is even comparing herself to other women her age in this world. She needs to find God. It is only him who can help her.

[@NoxoloMqela-wf6sm]

Amen

[@yakhemfumbe6649]

So true, the swimming costume wooooow who does that. And claim I'm doing me

[@nomileziphodlamini1453]

This kind of judgement is so sad because the Methodist community in England has female ministers and they were pants, whereas in SA it’s not allowed konkhe!!!

[@ndileka216]

​@@nomileziphodlamini1453that is not true, there are many women ministers in the Methodist Church. The current Bishop is a woman, the previous one as well.

[@DimphoSello-gz9pr]

ITS FUNNY HOW YOU ALL WANT PPL TO ACT IN SOME WAYS BCS OF CHURCH I DONT AGREE WITH YOU STOP JUDGING PPL BCS OF YOUR BELIEFS GOD BLESSES US IN THE SAME WAY AS HE BLESS EVERYONE FOR ME IREGARDLESS OF HOW WE ARE HE LOVES US ALL YOU ARE THOSE PPL AT CHURCH WHO LOVE PPLS BUSINESS

[@naomijung839]

I love this lady standing for her rights and truth, very brave and honest woman but others might perceive it as arrogant

[@SaritaPasserby]

A Christian without holy spirit is totally nothing....we need it to guide us....

[@gugunyanda6961]

We do need the Holy Spirit. But we refer to Him as 'Him'/ 'He'. We don't refer to Him as 'it'. He's actually a person not a thing. From a sis in Christ 😊❤

[@nomvulankoro2109]

I wonder if Christ would have referred to anyone as nothing ragardless of the differences.

[@DAVINCI85-i4h]

​@@nomvulankoro2109 what you talking about...Jesus multiple times mentioned that apart from me ye can do nothing....seems to imply the samw thing

[@LesegoBaloyi-e3v]

This is deep and only when you are in her shoes will you get it.

[@luyandangqola2522]

Very deep really

[@maryolayinka5159]

​@@luyandangqola2522In my own opinion nadi is somehow selfish. Looking at her bikini picture on X, as a Christian I feel is a form of lack of respect for the office of her husband. I am not in support of the church. The reality is that bikini is not African especially when your husband is a Pastor.

[@luyandangqola2522]

@@maryolayinka5159 That's true hey 😘

[@zamambhele242]

I honestly think she means well, fighting for justice , it’s just the way she’s going about it that will put her in a disadvantage

[@BomkaziNtinganti]

First time hearing about Nandi in this channel. I love love her views about life. I truly wish her and her family all the blessings. A Queen. Now let me go follow her on all her socials ❤

[@Keomolf_]

I pray for Nandi may she open her heart for God more than she ever did so that she can hear God clearer. Can u kindly allow God to minister to u for a while. I see potential though

[@Dearqueennandi.]

I think you projecting seek God. Love and light my dear

[@wendyjones1231]

Religion will have you moving in fear of being rejected by man about issues God nor his Word is even Concerned about‼️ indoctrination, hurts and steel peoples individuality‼️

[@sindingwenya603]

Gos is using her to fight injustice

[@asavelachola9938]

She's just a strong woman at a wrong place. Love you Nandi ❤

[@sarahmatsetela9736]

Queen Nandi, keep fighting, they will understand you later. You are at another level

[@NonwaboSkosana]

I love her... She owns her truth church people can be very abusive

[@victoriakgabi7383]

Hi ladies lm always admire your interwiews with your different guest. I'm a full member of Methodist this church is not like in the olden days. Now is only about money not saving the sauls of people is a money making scheme. In rural areas the old people like pensioners they taking that last money to the headquarters of the church while they struggling to put food on the table. Some in the rurals are busy trying so hard to build the church they just attend in a shack while in urban have decent buildings cause they taking the money from different branches like to say ntlo kgolo e batla bokana from that poor community. That ntlo kgolo just collecting not helping those branches about the building instead they taking from them it's heartbreaking. And most of the time in rural areas is old people pensioners at the same time they are breadwinners because the children are not working and also you share with the church that grants l don't think is fair Methodist think twice about this because is oppression in the name of God. But understand me l don't say to attend church in the shacks are wrong because church is not about buildings is about you but still we need buildings as a shelter.

[@AzaMdlokolo-v2h]

This is sad 😢😢Nandi needs to grow up

[@takhonavilanemabanga8158]

Love Queen Nandi guys like struuu❤she's true, not fake❤❤❤come for them wena queen

[@fatherschildpeace2174]

This lady Yooo. She is Ahabs wife, incarnate! It's clear she is not a believer. Her reasoning is so wordly and warped.

[@theriebank]

Shes embarrasing her self and her husband proudly so

[@shalom2889]

I used to respect Nandi a lot until I watched Amabishob 😢😢😢her character doesn’t represent Christ.

[@thendokhameli2556]

The swearing😔.. She's a disgrace to 😔the body of Christ!

[@NoDnaJustRsa]

Personification of Jezebel here twisting Scripture. I respect the methodist church.

[@bethechange2335]

I agree, I discerned spirits on her and didn’t watch beyond 1 minute. My spirit was disturbed by her words and I stopped. This woman I didn’t need to hear more after only watching for 1 minute because her statement that she is the type of person that can even wear a bomb to go down with another person reveals the spirit speaking through her is demonic and extremely vile. She is of this world & operating under serious evil spirits. She is not fit to be a wife of a pastor or any true believer as her heart is not right. She may be exposing evil people but where someone exposing is evil I don’t even need to hear it. I don’t entertain devils like the ones in her.

[@nolithambebe]

Thanks for bringing her in, she is lovely....may the Lord bless her heart ❤.

[@glorykgala430]

For the first time, I kinda,sorta understand where Nandi is coming from. However, salvation and the Spirit of God is really needed.

[@LinaEsther-z7k]

"Am I really a bad person or you just want my husband?" Wow👏👏👏👏

[@KhanyiMboodles]

This was actually such a great episode. Non-biased despite knowing Nandi personally, I think I LOVE how Inno asked such important questions and made such valid comments. Nandi did well in being open & honest and besides a little bit of profanity, she made a valid point. Or two. I’ve got so many questions or rather things to say. 1. Is the husband being held hostage in this marriage? “Go cool off and come back - you’ll love me again” I think as a woman that’s one thing you fear hearing from a man. 2. To Inno’s point, if roles were reversed, how would she feel? 3. I hope one day her husband finds it in his heart to forgive her for the hurt she has caused him and sees what she was trying to do - at the end of the day she says she was fighting for his justice 4. I worry about their children. I worry so so much raising kids in a broken home (Judging from what she was saying) Isn’t it better to raise your 6 kids as Co-parents who are both healthy in all aspects? 5. Have they received counselling / are they attending therapy? As single units, as a couple and as a family. It is SO important. They’ve been through a lot (and are still going through a lot)

[@lebosihlangu]

Couldn't have said it better! ❤

[@paballofavoured]

Couldn’t have said it better

[@therealmncwanegwabeni7263]

What a sick situation! I feel sorry for the husband and the kids 😢

[@sindingwenya603]

I hope one day the husband will thank Nandi for her bravery. The kids are fine and they are still going to have more.

[@lindiwemoletsane]

Truly speaking, these days our churches are known about money.

[@morakanemorakane9830]

Wow…there’s a target to collect money instead of saving souls 🤯🤯🤯🤯

[@yolisadzanibe7479]

This is beyond worrying

[@YouTuber11111]

I wish they asked what is it exactly that she felt people were jealous off? I think as Christians we understand that we have to dress modestly maybe that’s an aspect she was not willing to compromise on, she should not look at the fact that other 20 year olds or these other people are having sex with each other etc instead she should look only at herself.

[@nomathembakhoza2892]

True.

[@vusimngomezulu2500]

Which church are true according to the Bible in this world? Because many churches are not true according to this scriptures, Roman's 10:1-3,2thimoty 4:3-4,2Peter 2:1-3....

[@nefefefulu9760]

She says if people see her husband on tv they will call him at weddings to come preach

[@madamdhergirls433]

True

[@ArenaOfLibertyMinistry]

I get u Nandi completely...people are out there'ready with red pens to keep people's mistakes..

[@MgoMgowo]

Also red pens that mark what doesnt need to be marked. Look at how she complied with rules, immaculate. She asks them to show her rules they are faulting them on , they fail to. I also hear Nandi! I hear her yazi

[@nosiphonotshokovu9706]

Growing up in the Methodist Church,at 37 I would never personally raise my kids there.My pensioner mother pours out money just for going to church,the pensioners are getting bad cause the church soley relies or litches off them.I'm good with that church.Nandi thanks and be strong Mami...

[@ladyd9511]

Fact

[@mphoteti6069]

If awubhatali itikiti they won't bury you

[@AnittaM_Diaries]

God despises divorce unless there was adultery involved but the church is insinuating he divorce her... Tjeer

[@mbaliqotyana]

If only she was able to articulate the diabolical things she’s trying to shed light to. We needed to hear this hey

[@eyethumkumla]

I completely understand her , what she stands for and is fighting for but at the expense of her husband? She clearly said the man loves his job , can’t her love for him allow her to compromise? Yoh bethuna

[@nompumelelomasango4860]

Exactly

[@BuyisileSibiya-ju8ef]

Exactly. Church is all what her husband knows,why take that away from him? Why not compromise for the well-being of your family?

[@MgoMgowo]

​@@BuyisileSibiya-ju8efshes not taking church away from the husband. Church faiked to even prove what they are doing wrong. How is that taking church away from the husband. If she bent rules and not complied , she woukd be tskijg that away. But she hasnt she even kept minor rules which most, including those that are finding faut with her fail to keep. It is nice to compromise , but being conditioned whereas rules to justify the conditions arent even there is a bit unwarranted. Too much to bear

[@thembisasoci9970]

As a pastor's wife I would never think of piercing my nose, wear a nose ring and pierce my tongue or mouth. I no longer live for myself but for my husband's dignity, mine, the church's and the Lord's. The Word of God teaches us to submit to our husbands. That will not kill her in doing that.

[@DAVINCI85-i4h]

​@@MgoMgowoyou clearly havent watched the Pastors wives series....you would see how she is almost totally uncompromising in things she does....she was at one stage refusing to take heed of her husbands objections for her to pose for sexy shoots i believe for a calender and it was only when her close friend convinced her out of it did she opt out.....this lady just never wants to be wrong in cases when she is right and when she is wrong

[@rejoicedongonda2060]

I don't care about the wrongs of the church whatsoever.. You are wrong for marrying someone you can't fully accept .. Its his job, his calling and you walked right into it knowingly

[@BuyisileSibiya-ju8ef]

Thank you 😊

[@bongiswakopeshe6906]

Thank you!

[@edinahnakambale2305]

God have mercy on us

[@edinahnakambale2305]

God have mercy on us

[@Sibusisosibanyoni-gm6js]

I don't think she loves and respect her husband, it's a shame.

[@BontleHlongwane]

18:45 It’s not our opinion, it’s the spirit’s opinion. It’s the self righteousness for me.

[@lionelscarf2872]

The pretentious self-righteousness in these comments 😂. Taking a stand against the subjugation of people's inclinations is not wrong. The church is a building, run by people. If you have a problem with the people it does not mean you have a problem with God. People are not God. Your church leaders may pretend to be that, but it is exactly what they are not. Prayers to Nandi and her family.

[@dineosithe5961]

Indeed let's continue praying for her. She's not wrestling against flesh and blood, these are principalities.

[@lionelscarf2872]

@@dineosithe5961 The principalities are the judgemental holier than thou people who use their vision for looking outward instead of inward. We spend more time praying for people's principalities and yet we harvest and harbor demons in our daily lives. Who here is exemplary?

[@PortiaGojela]

🫖💯

[@viwempongwana]

When you fighting such battles it can't be in place of a good character, you can do it in a Godly manner. Still be kind,well mannered and stand your ground.

[@chiefer1325]

She loves her husband, dont be mistaken at all...she is fighting the system...

[@nomfundojantjies8465]

Exactly

[@auditingtaxmadeeasy]

I love her, love her honesty and transparency, but right now the most important thing is not who's wrong and who's right. The most important thing is her husband's mental health and how they can get out of the cycle of co-dependency on the church.

[@5thdimensio284]

How is he co dependant when he's getting a salary that he could save to buy a house, most Methodist ministers have more than 1 house, Nandi and her husband just have a lot of kids that's why they can't afford a house.

[@SisLinaM]

I wish the children of ministers could meet and fight for the rights of their parents. I saw a post at some point abantwana beventa ba abafun noybona icawe coz yabahlukumeza bona nabazali babo. Siyeke umjaja uNandi. Simxhase and am sure baninz abangancedeka

[@moroesitsoai3675]

Children shouldn't have to fight their parents' battles. If this woman was wise, her children were the first people to protect from her bitterness and vulgar words.

[@SisLinaM]

@@moroesitsoai3675now read my comment again. This time uyfunde uyve

[@phakamabusiswanatasiambhel1871]

I'm actually starting to love uNandi ngoba uyalimela iqiniso...i really hope that your husband gets justice shame...people have a huge problem with people who stand for their truth