healing after heartbreak & running away from my problems

[@anna.lee_jy]

I think I'll do a live at 11am KST on Thursday- please join if you can :) My dress: bit.ly/3pHPDXE Silver ear cuff: bit.ly/3IWiKwH Silver Hair Clip: bit.ly/3qBTaXy

[@cindypoole6792]

I'll be there. Take care of yourself.

[@dianacampuzano1936]

I haven’t received my Nalva yet. Diana Campuzano

[@LG-rw6zf]

Everyone is different but sometimes trying to push back feelings of sadness just makes those feelings push back even harder. Give yourself grace and time. Thank you for making videos that so many people can relate to!

[@blessingsoutlaw]

Maybe a little weird, but I see so many content creators prancing around with big fake smiles on their faces, and appreciate the courage you show in being vulnerable and REAL. Thank you for that…

[@nuffchi]

My boyfriend and I broke up and I’m really thankful for these videos. Having someone to relate to and knowing we are going through the same process of healing and letting go is somehow soothing. Thank you for being vulnerable! You are strong ! We got this! 😊❤

[@fabricesaintfleur994]

Anna you are amazing and strong I know you will get through this you are not alone

[@jennyward]

Hang in there! Time will heal. That black dress looks amazing on you!

[@ht9851]

Your laptop can be repaired. Search for an independent tech (non Apple) in your area that can repair the motherboard and you'll have access to your files. Apple has no interest in helping you repair your machine as they would rather sell you a new one. Going forward I would suggest you setup a NAS (network attached storage) in your apartment so that when you're connected to your WiFi your laptop will automatically backup to it. It's like having your own personal cloud in your residence.

[@bayangannaga]

As someone in IT, i would say always make back ups on external drives. Never keep files just in one place and don't rely too much on the cloud. I have a backup of most of my important files on a NAS and once every few months i make a back up of my NAS to an external harddrive that i keep inside a fireproof safe. If something happens to my pc no problem i still have my NAS, does someting also happen to my NAS, no problem i still have the hardrive in my safe. And chances are low that something happens to all 3 at the same time. But anyways, stay strong, You'll get through this. And i'm sure you'll eventually find someone who will love you as much as you love them.

[@bloopbloopbloopbloopbloop]

Always back up your computer to an external harddrive (or to two for two physical backups) and email imp documents to yourself as well. never depend just on the computer and the cloud

[@MC-ww2tv]

Thank you so much for your brutal honesty through this whole journey: it's helping many people get through similar things. Don't worry about the ups and downs; you are doing everything right! It doesn't matter if you are at 100% or 10%...you're still an amazing person and we 💜 and support you no matter what.😊

[@melliott3681]

It's okay to grieve the loss of something that meant a lot to you. You're grieving. So allow yourself to grieve. What you'll find is that the time you spend grieving will lessen as you continue to live life. What you're experiencing is individual to you, so don't feel bad about it. This time where you are experiencing both grief and loss yet the desire to continue to live and move forward is who you are as a person. What I see is a healthy human being just experiencing their current feelings. It understandable and relatable. Don't fight it, don't feel guilty, honor your feelings because it you being you.

[@mullen25]

his loss. you're beautiful!

[@jozsefvarga6514]

You are amazing. Be kind to yourself, this like all things will pass xx

[@pavithraj22004]

I appreciate U being honest ...seeing you deal with it jn positive way had an positive impact on me aswell and motivated me to be do stuff tht mames me happy

[@davidpan572]

Looks like you had a fun weekend overall! Getting through a breakup is really hard for reasons that you've experienced. I appreciate your willingness to openly share those feelings with us, even though it puts you in a vulnerable position. We will always have your back through all of life's good and bad moments!

[@seanrobin1910]

Hi Anna. Thank you for sharing your life with us, the good and the bad. Having good people around you is key when everything goes hell. My electrical engineer brain switched on when you were talking about losing all of your files. Depending on the failure in the motherboard, the data may still be recoverable so don't discard the laptop. There are shops that can either repair the mainboard enough to get the data off of it or remove the chips where the data is stored and put them on another working board that can access the data. There's no guarantee that it would work and it doesn't tend to come cheap, but it's an option.

[@Bkayxo]

The worst part of a break up is the high/low period. One minute you are fine and feeling like you have control over the situation finally and then the next, you are hit with sadness. Don’t worry, you know this is just temporary. It will be a distant memory soon. Until then you have all of our continued support and well wishes. ❤

[@shaunaemb1784]

I love that black dress. It looked like you still have some fun with your friends. Baby steps...you'll feel better soon enough. Just let yourself go through it, don't try to push away the sad times. Take care!!

[@TravelingFoodie22]

I am glad you're keeping busy but it was heartbreaking to see you in the hotel sad. You will get through this and I am sorry life is hard right now.

[@e.beauty.jpg.]

Anna I love these raw/ real videos you’ve been making showing the realities of hard breakups. I for one can relate so much to what you’re going. You should feel so proud of yourself for not completely shutting down and carrying on with your life. It’s okay to take breaks and acknowledge that you’re not feeling your best. Also, talking/ being open about your feelings wether it’s to your friends, a therapist or the internet, in my opinion i think it's a great way to promote your own healing. I hope you feel better soon girl! Fighting! 💜🫰🏻✨

[@ekaterini2957]

Anna one can't really totally explain why we love you, I think it's just because of who you are, like any other close friend. The internet is funny, in some ways I guess it allows us to be closer than real life might permit with people we might never meet. That being said, thank you for being so honest. Your life is a reflection of so many lives -- it appears bright and shiny on the outside but there are struggles and realities behind the scenes that we all deal with. Sure, I'm older, married, with a different career living in a different culture and a different country, but the struggles when you get down to it are the same -- disappointments, struggles, feeling alone, getting hit from left field with painful and difficult events -- anyway, sending mental hugs, love, and encouragement. Yes, you are stronger than most of us and you already know to just get up each day and start over -- but maybe hearing it helps anyway? Love from Houston...

[@tinyrick6264]

You’ve got a great head on your shoulders. Take it from an old grandpa you’ll get passed this and be stronger then before. I love your videos because you’re so upbeat and have a positive outlook while talking about Korea and your life. Stay strong.

[@silverstar8886]

Anna, thank you for being available to share your feelings with us here. You will get through your sadness but I think most everyone can identify with what you're going through. Don't pressure yourself to hurry up and heal, you have to let things take time, enjoy your friends and good times with them.

[@mikemarkong]

Go have fun! Find activities that makes YOU happy. Acknowledge that you're experiencing something sad and happy at the same time, but there's nothing wrong with being in between those feelings.

[@marviarodney9585]

Anna, you will get through this. Please stay positive your mental health is very important have a good cry and let it all out you will feel much better afterwards. I wish blessings to hug and cover you.

[@ami0613]

So proud of you for even getting yourself out of the house to get some fresh air. Just know that healing always takes time but it does happen, it does get better. Allow yourself to face and go through each stage and you will come out on the other side with that bright light of yours 💜

[@copaqueen]

You are inspiring & beautiful Take time to heal. Distractions are good especially with friends. With time everything will get better!

[@Nino-fp6hs]

Purchase an external HD or two and add a new routine of backing up your work every 4-8 hours, don't rely on the Cloud only. I hope that helps and don't worry too much about the future. It's okay to feel bad at times too. Thank you for letting us see Korea for this perspective.

[@LightBox101]

Anna I know what you’re going through. You’ll get better as you get busy. His loss because you’re still your beautiful and gorgeous self. I won’t be surprised if your ex is still checking you out on social platforms. Be well and stay strong.

[@MyBelch]

Vacuous and insipid come to mind. Being beautiful and gorgeous and being "checked out" is what counts. FFS. Grow up.

[@slambdunkindonut5420]

Yep. Grief hangs around that way. Just take your time! You're doing great!

[@enchantrathomas7761]

This vacation is a great healer for you! Time to feel the breeze and have fun! I'm glad you're doing so much better Anna❤

[@lucinders]

Anna, you are a beautiful and strong woman. When you meet that special someone, he will appreciate everything about you

[@Eddie-tq7tu]

힘이 되실지 모르겠지만 시간만이 해결해줄거에요 이것밖에 말씀을 못드리겠네요 힘내세요 정말 멋지시고 매력적이세요 꼭 좋은분 만나실거에요!

[@hwamilka]

The only time I felt so sad about a breakup (my first breakup) it lasted more than a year. You're recovering really fast, especially for how much you were into him.

[@ssblingbling8685]

Awww it’s ok. Take your time. And you will be ok!!

[@RockingMarshall]

Hope you are doing better now Anna!!! That black dress looks indeed so good on you. 🖤🖤🖤 Travel vlogs are very fun to watch, new things to see. 😍😍

[@Amiraj777]

I appreciate your openness and willingness to share how you are feeling about the breakup. It's ok to be sad. You will get better. You have the best supportive friends. You did look like you enjoyed yourself. 😊 😊 As for the laptop it SUCKS. You will recover. Keep your head up Anna❤❤❤

[@Suoiv]

I just found you today because of the film where you were talking about what to don't do in Korea, and then I checked ur channel and I saw the break up vlog. So sorry about it, I hope you are feeling much better now! You seems be a really kind and lovely person, I think I will stay here for a while. C:

[@magnoliaflower3310]

Everyone goes through breakups differently. I prefer diving deep and work through my feelings and learn as much as I can. Ots painful doing that, but when I'm through it, I dont get feelings of missing the person. I also journal to process my feelings. Afterwards I just distract myself with watching shows or doing activites. I think the more you like the person, the longer it takes to heal. Moreso, if you unconsciously plan a future together.

[@IzzyOnTheMove]

I just discovered your channel. Super interesting vlog, and i love your accent. I'm a travel and lifestyle vlogger from Canada who travels with her cat. I ended a 10 year and a half marriage this past April. My ex was abusive on top of having a severe mental illness and refusing to get help or even admit he had it. I am so much better now. Liberated from all the drama, chaos and stress he brought to my life. Enjoy yourself, feel your emotions but don't let it affect you too much. You're smart, keeping busy and having out with real friends is the best way tio move on!!! ❤

[@eyenot9327]

It's good that you have friends who you can help you get through this. It's his loss. Don't be so hard on yourself. I'm a stronger believer that things happen for a reason. Big hugs 💜

[@emg1060]

You look beautiful Anna. I don’t think this is a weird video at all, it’s real life! I think people are more drawn to this type of Vlog, theres already plenty of fomo isn’t my life great” video and Instagram BS. Life isn’t supposed to make us happy, it’s supposed to make us FEEL. You especially will be ok, you’re a great girl.

[@master-gbig1140]

Braking up with someone is very painful. It is worst than recovery from surgery because we were never supposed to separate after the marital union. The only cause for separation is supposed to be death. I am going through the same thing at this very moment and I have no idea how, or when, I will ever see the light at the end of this tunnel. It hurts like a fist in the chest when it hurts. Sometimes I can find a reason to laugh and smile, however, I am haunted by the fact that I still love her, even though I know it is truly over between us. Anna Lee, I wish you all the best. You are a beautiful lady and I thank you for sharing this moment with me.💔❤‍🩹❤💞

[@Crystal_clear_7]

Girl, I feel you. When your not in the mood, you have to just walk away and find a better or more comfy space. Hang in there 🤗😘

[@sokhihfx1754]

Hang in there Anna. That’s how break ups work unfortunately. You will feel better soon. Treat yourself to massages or spa day. Stay cool 😎

[@crushedflora2696]

Its ok to feel your feelings and be sad. Just shows how much of yourself you put in. Nice you have good friends to help distract yourself and have moments of fun

[@michellesantos6706]

This is literally how it goes sometimes. Lost my Dad, got Divorced, lost my job, Mom moved in with me all in 4 months time. Yep!!!! I think that its just a human condition. When it rains, it pours & instead of focusing on that we need to focus on what we're grateful for....when you are ready! You're beautiful inside & out. Everything happens in it's right timing. ❤

[@nikitasantamaria]

I love that you were able to go on a little friend trip away to try some kind of distraction even if slot of the time it doesn’t work but at least y’all will have the happy memories. Also fabulous job on the cloud thumbnail 😊😊

[@Sky_no_katasumi]

I'm sorry for what happened, Anna, hang in there! I know it's easier said than done but time will heal those wounds and I'm convinced you will get the opportunity to share all the love you have to give. Stay strong!

[@christinepaley6149]

Anna, I'm a lot older than you and live half-way around the world, but I really enjoy watching your content. I'm so sorry for what you're going through. It's grief, something that I'm acutely familiar with as my husband died from brain cancer leaving me with two kids. But I am not giving up and am almost at the point of dating again and you will one day be too, if that's what you want. Give yourself time and feel every negative feeling - they pass more easily if you acknowledge them every time they come. You've got this!!

[@qq84]

0:55 13:49 that's why you need a backup on an external HDD. Maybe the apple costumer service can repair it or at least save your data. Alternatively you can pay a data restore company like Ontrack, but they're quite expensive.

[@theowlhook]

For what it's worth, you look fabulous! Hang in there! 😘

[@milicavelisavljevic4582]

Anna i love your video so much💜

[@ivanapiperina]

It was good to go away for a couple of days, even if it's early and the healing process needs more time, it was still a good thing. I feel you both on the lost files (lost A LOT of stuff years ago, it was so traumatic) and the breakup, even tho in my case it was a situationship with a lot of potential, so not even a real thing. And I've had an 11 years long relationship that took me a veeery long time to recover from. You know you're gonna be ok one day, but the process is horrible. We just want to stop feeling sad and having the ups and downs. It's hard when we feel good and we think we're ok, and then we feel sad again. But it will be ok in the end ♥

[@J_1111]

You are so beautiful, inside and out. You'll get through this. Allow yourself the time and space to sit with your feelings, even if they make you sad. It's upsetting when a relationship ends because it's the end of a chapter in your life. But there will be other chapters, new beginnings and bigger adventures ahead of you. You're doing great just by being yourself 💜

[@spittingame4241]

Losing all of those files is worse than the breakup

[@maryhartgrove8967]

Anna, I so enjoy your videos! It just takes time, love always comes when you’re not looking for it. Glad you were able to have some fun with your friends. Wishing you much happiness and success, keep smiling!😉🫶🥰🌻🌻🌻🌻

[@themilesinkorea]

I really liked your reflection here and sharing the reality of your life, like how a happy event can be a sad one in these personal times. I found the brief moment at 11:28, especially touching, given this context.

[@allisonB123]

You need some time to heal, please be gentle with yourself - you will be ok - you were in love with your bf, you can’t just cut out pieces of your heart, be patient, the pain will ease. I know it’s no consolation yet, but you look beautiful, the black dress was lovely on you, and you really rocked that bright bikini!! Just keep going through the motions, and do what you can to keep busy and productive - sending hugs 🤗🤗💜💜

[@elinab22]

Such a great video Anna , going away and having fun is the first step of healing. After all, you went out with the girls and had a nice time :)

[@karnjum]

I hope this trip make you feeling much better. ❤

[@Tabetha.]

Things will look up. Stay strong, angel. ❤❤ it will be ok.

[@harunrachman3143]

Simple option… but an portable external drive (something like 1 or 2 TB in size) and you can offload all your work daily to it. It’s a simple and relatively inexpensive way to save you data and it won’t be hacked or stolen like it can be with the cloud. Of course you can just access your files directly from the external drive to make things easier however keeping a separate copy will always help save you sanity. I periodically copy all my data and program file to the external drive and it gives me piece of mind.

[@IzzyOnTheMove]

As a YouTber i have a 2Tera portable external drive (small) and i have bigger ones (vaults) that i regularly transfer onto. It's a must! I don't use the Cloud at all because i film so much it would be wayyyy too expensive to buy that extra space.

[@cg6917]

Hi Anna - Sending happy thoughts and well wishes your way. You'll get through this, and as they say "This, too, shall pass." I have faith that you'll find the perfect person for you. Just live your best life. I was debating if I should share this, but I will in hopes that it will help you - my ex-wife and I divorced after 10 years of marriage. To say that I was blind-sided would be an understatement. She wanted to re-live her youth and wasn't agreeable to counseling or anything. That left me with taking care of twin boys who were less than 3 years old and a 6 year old daughter. I don't know how I got through it - they've all graduated from university now. If a person like me can get through something like that, you can, too :) There will be down times and times when you're up. Just keep pushing through, live your life, spend time with friends, and stay active. Wishing you all the best!

[@helenhugh4108]

Anna I'm so sorry There is nothing worse than heart pain 💔😢 Wishing you healing and wholeness 😘

[@erwinirwin9616]

you have some good friends! Friends are what you need after a breakup.

[@eelnedroj]

Always have a backup. I don't even keep files on my internal drives anymore, outside of program software it's bare so I only need 256gb SSD laptops. I keep any personal/content files on 2 external copies. May even add a 3rd copy drive soon, that's overkill for most people but for you (content creators) probably smart to always have at least 1 backup imo. Keep it simple tho, update once every month or two, maybe 6 months, no need to do it daily tho.

[@TheVolumeIv]

Girl, first - empty laptop, it's a new beginning! That's a blank canvas for you now. It's time to take it to a new level 💕

[@kellyblackwell8422]

It takes time to heal, don’t stress over it too much. It can be 4 weeks from a breakup or trauma or any situation, it can be 2 years and a person can not feel 100%. Each person has their own time/journey for healing. I hope you were able to have a good trip. We can’t escape our problems but we can spend time with friends, do activities that bring happiness and make us forget about the problems (in the moment). Focus on that and keep your head up high, brighter days are coming ahead. 💜☺️

[@slavvalb3933]

Anna , I think I mentioned in my previous post regarding laptop. Please, use external hard drive so that you have a back up of all your files and data . Please, ask in your electronic appliances store what can u use to make sure that you have a back up of all your data . Have a nice week , Anna. As always you look gorgeous 😍.

[@zacharikurbah6358]

I'm happy to see you again, you're a strong person

[@peacelife]

Glad u got away a bit. It is hard but you are strong. It is hard when you are invested and got suprised suddenly. Think of it this way! Those deserved you will destined to stay that is for your friends and lovers.

[@Aatish2k8]

A break up can last from a couple of days to months or even years. But then someone else will come eventually when you least expect it to make you move on. Even when you don't want to. Just keep your chin up Anna. Welcome to the dating life. It sucks, I know.

[@susanprice203]

I love your vlogs Anna. I think you’re an amazing person-beautiful inside and out. All any of us can do in the face of hardships is to keep moving forward. I’m so glad you have good friends to support you and distract you too! I’m sending you positive energy and good vibes! 💜

[@NURREDIN]

Anna, you need to get yourself a few portable hard drives. I use two Seagate 8TB drives. EVERYTHING I do goes DIRECTLY to the drives,so if a computer crashes,I haven't lost anything.I don't trust the cloud with my documents.I backup the backup.

[@kevinj135]

Recently found you on youtube and subscribed. Love that you show your real emotions! Hope you're better now

[@tamiwilliams8521]

You're an amazing young woman that will thrive in whatever you do! Hugs from Chicago!

[@thebugacademy]

I got to say it Anna it really is the best therapy what your doing, I did the same long time ago and it does much more, all that time away is a chance to evaluate your life and help you to mentally strengthen you inside, and make your heart stronger, and more capable of dealing with all kinds of pain, healing takes time, enjoy yourself, as I see you are, good for you, be happy 😜

[@thebugacademy]

thanks Anna for taking the time to read and acknowledge

[@jangsy33]

You’re blessed with good friends! As hard as it is, have courage creating new memories around objects and places, so that they have new significance. Learn from this pain and when you get really down, close your eyes and imagine the “Anna” ten years in the future looking back....you will think it was a necessary loss to learn from, which shaped choices leading to a loving relationship😘. You are doing great!

[@SuperJanieg]

It's going to take time Anna, just take each day as it comes, just believe that you will get through this. Hugs

[@roryscottbrown]

About computers: Always have back ups. A back up is not a back up, unless you have another back up. Have business stuff and your most important stuff backed up in 3 locations. For a business, always buy a business class computer with a standard 3 year warranty, not a 1 year warranty one where you can buy an extended warranty. Apple computers are not business class. I've had many in the past. Generally speaking from my experience in Canada in selling and building computers for 30 years in the Vancouver, Canada area, in the last 10 years or so, all consumer computers only come with 1 year warranty and they are meant to be used 3-4 hours a day on average. The business class computers can come in 1 year warranty and 3 year warranty and they are designed to by used 8 hours a day on average. The standard 3 year warranty ones have better quality parts then the 1 year warranty ones. Obviously, the 3 year warranty business class computer is going to cost more. The manufacturers really want people to buy the 1 year warranty ones because they will sell more because they are cheaper price and will fail sooner. The big question is how much can you afford in a computer and how many hours a day on average do you use it? It is then a financial calculation. In Canada, the Lenovo Thinkpad models with the 3 year warranty are the best value. Lenovo does have Thinkpads with only 1 year warranty. The HP Business class 3 year warranty models are better built than Lenovo, but significantly more money to buy.

[@Crystal_Sky_]

2:59 Anna's smile/laugh was too cute here

[@jc986]

Sorry to hear about all the issues. :( Know that can be rough, and know issues can just ramp up so much all at once. The parties looked like fun and being around good people! Working in entertainment, the best piece of advice I got in terms of video work is have redundancies where you can. Mixed with some cloud stuff, I have a few physical backup drives I use to monthly backup all my files. Never know when things can go wrong!

[@cindypoole6792]

Maybe not push yourself so hard to "get over it". Roll with the emotions 😢... it's a death to a relationship, it takes time. Oh no!!! Back up all computer stuff... all stuff every day. A little late now, but something to practice from now on. 😊 wonderful Vlog. Thanks for taking us along. ❤❤

[@maryblack3297]

Great video as always! You will be ok eventually, trust me. I was with my ex for 23 years (yes 23!) and it does get better, I promise. Take care of yourself. ❤

[@smilelovecookie]

After having the roughest week in many many years.. I feel this entire "pull yourself together"-mood on another level. However seeing that I am not alone with such weird feelings, somehow helped me a bit. So thank you very much for sharing your thoughts. :) We will pull through, right? Hope you feel better soon. xoxo

[@Tinaneomutina]

Hi Anna! Funnily enough we had almost the exact same relationship timeline (from starting to date to break up, around the same week!). I personally find if I let all my sadness out it helps me move on faster, I feel pretty okay these days. Something that can help of you’re not good at feeling your feelings is to read books of people going through the same thing (notes on heartbreak by Annie Lord, Everything I know about love by Dolly Alderton, anything by dolly really haha) You’ve got this and you WILL bounce back and be grateful that things went the way they did ❤

[@nicolewilson4058]

Hi Anna, you will get through this. Just stopped being so hard on yourself. I know from some other comments you were told this already. You can recover you data. It is not lost. Do not take it to an Apple vendor. You can find a data recovery service provider that can help you.

[@lisaineurope]

I think all the cr&p happens at once, then you get some good luck and positive stuff starts to happen. Life is cyclical, we have ups and downs and that's just life. What a sodding nuisance to lose all of your files 😢. Good times are on their way Anna 😊

[@udamiubeyrathna8587]

Anna, I love u so much❤ love the vlog.. give yourself some time. You will be fine.❤❤ you got this❤ hwaiting👊

[@slavvalb3933]

Anna, you are very strong and you are giving encouragement to be strong like you ! Your adorable smile is so contagious as it brings a smile back from us ❤️. As your laptop, did u save any of your data on external drive ? Are u going to buy a new laptop? Anna , everything is gonna be all right ! Love and luck to you 💕

[@alanaledia2588]

Can't help you with the post-breakup feels, I think only time can do that for you. But for your files, not sure if this has already been mentioned in your comments, but make a backup regularly of your laptop on an external hard drive. Plenty of free apps online that can help you create a scheduled backup routine so that this doesn't happen again, good luck and hope you feel better soon!

[@HieuNguyen-ts1bo]

when you're sad, you just be happy instead. you'll be fine.

[@DJB4437]

Stay strong, this too shall past

[@roxannemarieguerin5747]

That black dress is so cuteeee

[@CupofTaewithSugaandaKookie]

You trying to quickly recover from a broken heart is not reasonable you need to just give yourself time to heal. I went through the same thing before I met my husband now we’ve been together for 28 years and married for 21 we met at 19. My last relationship before him was 2 years and I thought how would I get through this and I thought that the previous guy was supposed to be my one but destiny had other plans for me. When you least expect it and when you’re not looking you will find your one but until then don’t rush your healing because if you do you might rush into something you never wanted. I hope what I’m saying makes sense. I tell the same thing to my children don’t rush and don’t put your eggs in it be basket just enjoy every moment of your life 💜

[@lucyfiona9739]

Hang in there. Everything will work out in time.

[@georgew8586]

I went through something similar with a 4 week old Mac book pro, years ago, just loaded a ton of photos from a east coast trip, we live outside Seattle, yeah losing all that was not fun. This was before all the cloud data sharing systems today. Keep your head up, going back to the hotel was probably wise, if your head and heart are not ready to be out. Give yourself some time, no need to jump immediately into a new relationship, an old girlfriend did that over and over, would tell me why guys are awful, she did eventually find the right guy, 3 months later they got married.

[@집돌이-y4t]

저도 여자친구와 헤어졌을 때 감정 기복을 많이 탔었는데, 친구들은 위로는 되지만 자꾸 내 상황에 대해 얘기하다 보니 계속 떠올라서 마음 정리가 잘 안되더라구요, 그래서 혼자 게임하거나 혼자 음악 듣거나 혼자 마음의 정리를 하는 시간이 상황을 변화시키데 있어서 가장 중요 했던것 같아요. 잘 극복 하실거에요 :)