The breakup vlog

I knew I had to address it at some point before I made future vlogs so...
I watched some other breakup vlogs on KZbin which were actually quite comforting so hopefully, this can be helpful (?) to those of you who have experienced heartbreaks too.
Sorry for how gloomy this one is but I'll be ba back with my regular content soon! Thanks for understanding 🤍
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[@anna.lee_jy]

Thank you to everyone for all your messages, ilysm thank u🤍

[@oskirules]

Hang in there! 😃

[@kc_1802]

@jyannalee I just went through this process recently too, and have been getting better. It took time, and many days I didn't know if I could fully be okay, but now I think I'm actually making progress and seeing the light. Also I think what helped was both loved ones and myself not beating me up/shaming me for needing a lot of time to process, longer than I thought. (Full disclosure it took me 7 months.) Recently, Susan Winter's (she has a series on mental loops, obsession, etc) and Matthew Hussey's youtube videos have been helping me find clarity, as well as a lot of self-examination and reflection. The greatest gift for me out of my experience was a ton of learning, and a catalyst that is actually shaping/changing my course for the better ! Will be thinking of you and praying for you

[@cosmicexplorer4856]

Thanks for sharing Anna, I greatly appreciate it. I went through a break up 2 months ago as well, can totally relate to your experience. Much Love

[@oohlalalia]

We love you Anna with time comes peace ❤

[@IzzyOnTheMove]

You were brave to film it, and it was good idea. Cathartic! I can't remember how many times i was a complete mess because of this a**h***. Face burnt by tears, headache and toothache from days of frantic crying, couldn't function. Took a long time to learn, and i'm older than you so you definitely have a good head on your shoulders. You will come out stronger ❤

[@yumiNYC]

A couples therapist said when she picks up that a woman is more invested in the relationship than the man, she can predict the outcome of their breakup for the most part. She said the couples who are equally invested or if the man is more invested are the most successful. She said its bc women in general put in more emotional work in the relationship, even if they arent feeling it, than men. You saved a lot of time and energy breaking up now. You got this!

[@lauraespi1543]

that' exactly what i said in my comment before scrolling down and reading your comment. THIS IS VERY TRUE.

[@sonofsarek]

Never listen to a female couples therapist. They only tell you want you want to hear, not what you need to hear. Worse yet, she does it from the female perspective. If you want truth, ask a man. If you want emotional support, talk to a woman. That said - It’s very rare for a man to break up with a woman. I could discuss the reasons, but it would only fall on deaf ears.

[@yumiNYC]

​@@sonofsarek The topic isn't about who breaks up with whom, although I agree with you,. Men rarely do the breaking up. They just make the relationship unbearable for the woman so she ends up doing the emotional work for both parties.

[@magnolia2]

@@yumiNYC Yup most guys are coward. They have said in many KZbin videos and podcasts that they rarely do the breaking up. They start to act up so women can break up with them instead. It’s so pathetic.

[@sonofsarek]

@@yumiNYC 1) men are already expected to do a lot in the relationship. Asking them to be the major emotional contributors is unrealistic and outside their nature. 2) the instant a man contributes emotionally to the relationship more than the woman, the woman will punish him by losing interest - this is a cold, hard fact. So if you don’t like the lack of emotional commitment from men, blame women.

[@Blitz_Beast]

As someone working on their degree for counseling, a health coach, and a fellow human being that can relate to the pain, loneliness, and anxiety: I'm so unbelievably proud of you, Anna. You're doing what you can and honestly more with everything your mind and body are going through. I'm so sorry for what you've been and are dealing with right now, but I'm so grateful to you for putting this out there for all the people who can find it and know they're not alone in this kind of suffering. Also very grateful you have friends that really love you; hearing your one friend pick up and say "I was just about to call you" is ARGH everything. God bless, I hope you heal a little quicker each day ❤️

[@shwetaghosh6193]

Feel what you're feeling. Nothing lasts forever, the light with come thru Anna. You've given me immense strength, and I'm radiating all positivity towards you🩷

[@one.girl...1]

No, love never ends. If something ended, it wasn't love. The problem is that many people in the 21st century live for entertainment, want just have fun, and do not think about morality. But everything has consequences. Don't look for someone for bed, but be decent and look for a good and decent person too with whom you could build true love and strong family.

[@shannon.a.smithh]

I appreciate you sharing even the hardest days and moments here. That’s not easy to do but I think it’s so valuable to see content that actually reflects real life. It’s totally okay and even healthy to fully feel your emotions and grieve this ending, so don’t worry about rushing yourself into feeling better before you’re ready. Sending you lots of love across the globe! 💗

[@zainabfatima3107]

Anna, you are literally so strong. You WILL get through it, i will personally keep praying. Sending u lots and lots of love, support and prayers. You deserve soooo much more!!! We love u, queen!

[@sharoncorseri1240]

This will pass. Don’t stop loving and giving love it will be worth it and most of all love yourself because you are worthy

[@amyfaurote1488]

I'm very sorry. It's hard to break up with someone but you will survive and thrive.❤

[@Steffy.93]

Though it may not feel like it now, time alone provides an opportunity to evaluate, work through everything that you are feeling so that you can indeed move on. People come into our lives for a reason and a season and no matter the outcome we grow and sometimes get to know ourselves better. Sending you a virtual hug. 🌼

[@abena8339]

Thank you for being so vulnerable and real. You inspire me to be more transparent instead of keeping up images 💗. You will get through this❤️

[@Dhsu33]

So sorry Anna. Breakups are the worst. One thing that helped me in the past after breakups was planning something to look forward to - like a trip that I could spend time planning, or a fun personal goal that I needed to work towards like running a marathon. Whatever strategy works best for you to cope, I hope you feel better soon! ❤

[@dianalee441]

Breakups are never easy but it seems that you’ve made a decision that your future self will be proud of because deep down you do know what’s good for you in the long run.

[@MischievousMischief]

I am glad you had enough self-respect to want to find somebody that will cherish you as much as you cherish them. Also, 6:48 what an excellent question from your best friend!!!

[@macross25]

I spent 7 years of my life with a woman whom I kept thinking loved me unconditionally, turns out in the end she didn't and it took many years to get over that... while I do not know you personally from what I see in your videos I see an incredibly kind, thoughtful, intelligent and yes, brave woman who unlike me has the courage to travel & live around the world, I wish I had that in me, maybe someday. You'll get passed this, it just takes some time and hopefully some friends to help out. An old buddy of mine once told me "Don't go looking for someone, they'll find you and everything will make sense". You're a 1 in a Million, someone is going to see you for all that you are and yes, everything will make sense. For now, grab some junk food and get some sleep. Take care Anna. Sincerely from Lawrence, KS

[@bluepeartree]

I'm so sorry things didn't work out... you deserve someone who's as into you as you are into them, and good for you that you didn't settle for less!

[@eeshdeepkaur3666]

My best friend just ended her 2.5 year relationship with her boyfriend 2 weeks back and the past few days have been the absolute worst for her. She's been crying everyday and trying to resume work but it's hard. I keep assuring her that time will heal everything and try to distract her mind as much as possible by hanging out with people and doing activities that she loves. She feels like she wants to give up on everything but I keep giving her words of encouragement. All the broken hearts, don't give up! You will be through this period of time!

[@serenityssolace]

Why do women always breakup and never the guys? And then they also cry about it? If she didn't want to break up why did she? I don't understand women

[@JW-sy2yt]

I've been where you are and I can only say you will get through this. You won't know when or how (frustrating) but you will slowly begin to enjoy things. "In time, this too shall pass."

[@noonamn]

Gosh Anna all the feelings you’re describing I have felt before and it’s so painful to go through. Don’t force yourself not to feel them. I’ve also felt like omg please just be over, I don’t want to feel these things anymore and then one day you wake up after some time and you are better than good again. The gym helped me also and venting about it over and over again to my friends. Once the feeling was over I met someone new a few months after and that person who hurt me so much was just a distant memory now and I was so happy that it didn’t work out. We all have to go through this to allow for the right person to come in ♥️ You got this girl!!!

[@davidpan572]

Aww I’m so sorry things ended up this way, Anna + you have nothing to apologize for! Going from loving someone to not seeing that person anymore is really hard to process in the short-term. I’m happy to see you reaching out to your friends for support and I know you will find someone better for yourself in the future ❤ Whenever I felt a little down in the past, I loved watching your videos for inspiration. Your wholesomeness and ambition helped me motivate myself to make better life choices and to feel happier. Though I likely won’t see you in person, I’d offer you a hug of gratitude if I did 🤗

[@두잇두잇-b3h]

사랑을 잃은 아픔... 너무 크죠. 이해가 됩니다. 솔직한 감정, 일상 나눠줘서 고마워요.

[@sazlasung]

Have been quietly following your content but just want to send you lots of love and virtual hugs. I have been where you are and all that you shared feels like I'm watching a mirror of my life. And just like you shared how you know you will be better and you deserve someone what will love you and cherish all of you, hold on to that. On days where the emotions dip, remember that. Lastly, just want to also say how beautiful you are not just outwardly but how you lovingly share your culture with the world. All you share comes from a place of love and it is true. You have so much of it to share. 💖💖

[@thegatewaytoprestige]

Hmm. This was hard to watch. Very open and honest. It’s wild how a breakup can make us feel so alone and out of control. It happens to everyone. That’s being human and yeah it hurts, but here’s the thing Anna…every breakup, every relationship, every moment of pain, struggle, and loneliness…it only serves to help us grow into who we are meant to be for our eventual husbands and wives. You would never have even crossed paths with who you’re going to marry without your previous relationships. You will be loved and looked at with eyes you didn’t even know existed❤. Hang in there, God has incredible plans for you. I promise❤️

[@IzzyOnTheMove]

It's OK not to find anyone else, you know. Honestly, there are so many things i enjoy better than all the trouble i had with a relationship. Food, travel, my cat, hobbies, my friends, making art.......just a relaxing day by myself doing watever i want every day for the rest of my life. I don't think i'd have the patience to let someone else in, i almost feel like a new relationship would be a burden, i don't have space for that anymore. I gave my all to this person for 10 1/2 years, when most people would have been out of there so fast. If I EVER have another partner, they better be a f*cking DIAMOND. 💎

[@carolineang92]

We love you too Anna! I know you know that but I just want you to hear it again. As a fellow single lady with worlds of love to give, lets continue giving love to ppl and most importantly, to ourselves. I want to thank your mom for giving birth to you, thank you Anna's mom!

[@veekchan6175]

Focus on you; you have so much in life to celebrate and be strong for. When one chapter closes, the next chapter begins right away. Not every chapter has a guy in it but someday perhaps, there will be one who chooses to be in your story and stay by your side. Don't lose hope and stay strong Anna. Someday you will look back and know you are in a better place.

[@Bkayxo]

This took me back. Back to my last breakup. I literally felt like I was watching myself. It’s so hard to handle all of the feelings that hit you at once. You know this is for the best but it feels like literally the worst thing ever. Unfortunately it’s just one of those things that you have to just process and go through the motions. But you will look back at this soon and realize how necessary it was for you going forward. Lots of love to you and you are never alone. You deserve what you want out of life.

[@creativelyseen]

Because of your openness and vulnerability, this video is going to comfort and help so many others 😌 Feel better Anna💛

[@sedie94]

Thank you for sharing something so intimate with us. I think it takes a lot to leave someone you still love and I'm so proud of you for knowing that you deserve more. It's okay to allow yourself space to feel those emotions, it's okay. It hurts and it's supposed to, but like your bestie said, you have gotten through this before and you will get through it again. I'm rooting for you!

[@Kris-lp4yr]

Girlllll.... I relate to you and for once I wish I didn't. It hurts right? I dated my guy for a year and broke up with the same reasons you were willing to share about. Exactly the same. We both deserve someone who will love us right. Letting go of the "potential" was the hardest thing in the healing process. I hope your healing journey is as smooth as it can be, and just know you're never alone in your feelings.

[@jennifermattly2874]

I’m so sorry you are going through this. I don’t think you should ever apologize for talking about it. This vlog may actually help others in the same situation. I don’t know if that helps you at all. I hope it does, knowing that you aren’t alone and others will know they aren’t alone. You are such an upbeat person and I know you will battle through!! But it’s so hard to see that right now. Sending love and light!❤

[@failshot1219]

When a door closes others open.... Same thing happened to me 2weeks ago and I know and I understand how you are feeling, all you need is to survive and hope for the better days which for sure are coming ❤

[@janetpotasnik2942]

Hi Anna: As one of your subscribers and fans, I was so saddened to come across your news today. I can identify with all you are experiencing because am in a “grieving” process as well but not for a break up but a death. What you describe is so typical of the ups and downs or “waves” of that process. Just remember that you have to move through that process and be in the middle of that hurt until you get through to the other side of it. That takes time. Be patient with yourself and don’t rush it. Love yourself enough to do that and be kind to yourself. You are a very strong, determined human being and

[@mafloo3GMS]

Your bestie is the best therapist 😄💙 you dont need another Sorry to hear what you are going through 🙏🏻 get better 🌸

[@bklyngirl913]

Anna, thank you for sharing and being vulnerable with us, when you really didn't have to during such a difficult time. As the saying goes, " Time heals all wounds." I'm so sorry you are going through this, but, please take this from someone much older than you, better you find out now before you invest more of yourself and time into the wrong relationship. It's hard at first, but continue to work on yourself, your goals and the wonderful friends that support you.

[@IzzyOnTheMove]

I stayed 10 years and a half with the wrong person because "i loved him" and he was "darn handsome" and i thought he was "the one" and it was "meant to be, destiny", and he had a mental illness and i thought he would be better if he got help. It's all excuses. If you ain't happy, let it go, Life is too short. I went to the end of this and ended it in April 2023. Not the ending i wanted, the ego took a blast (we were married), but now i feel so liberated, no more stress or chaos. I'm so happy now with my gorgeous CAT. ❤My cat is so much more pleasant that my ex ever was 😆

[@choochenwei6356]

Take your time to heal and know that brighter days are ahead. Take care ♥

[@paniz1479]

Anna I've been watching your blogs since you were new to youtube, I never forget how you inspired me to exercise, to improve my English, to never give up and be strong... Anna you're real, you're not faking anything and that's so precious🩷 I just want you to know that you're such a warm hearted person that even I, who is far far away from Korea and never have seen you and probably never will, love you so much as one of my best friends and feel close to you🩷 Never forget that you are a precious person that even people you don't know can feel it🩷 You'll get better, you'll find a true love, but never forget to love yourself first💜

[@judyherman6289]

I've read all the comments and I feel your words touched me the deepest. I hope Anna gets a chance to read your thoughts and it helps her, too.

[@richarddewberry6387]

Thanks!

[@richarddewberry6387]

Dear Anna, just wanted to say that it hurts me to see you having to go through this emotional heartache. I have read so many of your subscribers' comments and I feel the same way, you are truly Loved. I also watch you with David on KPC. I am sending you a few bucks just in case you might need a glass of Korean Soju. Also sending you a big American hug. I know, I know, NO hugging in Korea. My dear beautiful Korean friend, know that you are Loved very much..

[@NLiz-u1z]

It’s so real that you are sharing your sadness with us…just shows that we are all going through the same thing if not worst…believe me u sharing this helps alot of us…only time will help to heal but till then hang in there! U got this💪🏻

[@mitzkt1679]

My heart hurts for you dear Anna. 😔. As others have said here, give yourself the time and space to allow these emotions and feelings to wash over you. With each new day you will wake up a little bit better than the day before. You are a young, intelligent, vibrant, beautiful woman. Thank you for having the courage to share.

[@mmn1442]

Never settle or you will wake up one day and realize your life could have been so much more.

[@csilveira8951]

Take your time to heal, continue being confident & be kind to yourself, life sure has away of working things out. Even if it doesn’t feel like it now. So glad you have a great support group, you are blessed.

[@jennyward]

So sorry to hear! No matter the reason, it still hurts. Take care of yourself and know that you're an amazing person who will find someone else lucky enough to have you!

[@enchantrathomas7761]

Take all the time you need to heal, you got this!❤

[@vyompatel1414]

Hey Anna! I can't really relate to how you're feeling about the break up but I think handling it well so far and I hope you heal to 100% hp soon! To slow your heart rate down and to ease your mind tho, I also recommend Just having quiet moments to yourself where you walk around. For example like go to the Oceanside and listen to the sounds there and think about how that makes you feel. Stuff like that helps me , so I'd say alongside gym and other stuff to distract you, give it a try! Just listen to the surroundings in silence ya know! You're doing amazing so far, wish you the best!

[@kohnshots9505]

I can feel the pain that you are on RN , there is no other alternative way to sort out of that pain but one thing i am sure about you is you will be fine. you may get support from friends and relatives at the moment but the most important thing is you. love yourself and dont let the negative thought manipulate your mind. stay strong and try to stay active on physical activities

[@eyenot9327]

So sorry to hear this Anna. Break ups are hard, especially if you realise that the feelings were so one sided. You have to go through the grief process. You have to grieve of the future you thought and imaged you would have together. It will take time. Don't be so hard on yourself. You are an amazing person and you will get through this. Just give yourself time. 💜

[@jamesleeliving]

This is maybe the 4th video I've seen since I subscribed and it broke my heart. I feel like I have gotten to know you through your videos and seeing this was rough. I've been through it and it is tough. You are lucky having your group of friends and support. I'm sure you know that your subscriber community is here for you as well. Chin up 😊.

[@cjaeyr]

Oh Anna, I’m so sorry to hear this 😢 I can understand how you feel having come from a 22 year relationship that ended. It’s okay to give yourself time to feel what you feel. Allow your friends to help you, and yes getting distracted works too. It’s good that you’re doing productive things still. I’m rooting for you. You’ll get thru this but there’s no pressure to do that quickly. You have our support. Sending you positive thoughts. Take care always! 💜💜💜

[@Omar_Hassan]

i have never been in a relationship before So i really don't know how it feels like when you break up with some one .. But what i have seen from your videos is that you are a Confident Strong Woman & you will definitely get through this i wish you happiness and success in your life😊

[@shwetayaduvanshi9376]

I know it must be hard for you to deal through this...it hurts when you are giving too much into a relationship but the other person's just crashing down the expectations and not valuing your efforts.. But As you always say "this too shall pass"...every cloud has a silver lining...You deserve the best of everything!! Take care of yourself 💓..we love you💕

[@joesagabaen2348]

Sorry to hear about what you are currently going through. It will pass at any time. Like what the quote of Lance Armstrong, a former cyclist, once said: "Pain is temporary. Quitting is forever". We're all gonna pray for you. God Bless you, and continue making progress no matter how big it is.

[@yarilarymusic]

I'm sorry you are going through this. This reminded me of myself back when I was in college. I was in a relationship that I honestly felt I was going to marry the guy. We ended up breaking up. I have never seen myself at my lowest until that point. I was all anxious, I couldn't explain how I felt to my friends because I never have felt like that before. After 3 months I was still feeling bad, which was surprising to me. I would be walking to classes and my anxiety was so bad I would be feeling like I was going to throw up. Anyways, after 3 months I got professional help and it helped me a lot. After that huge breakup I didn't have a relationship probably until 7 years later. It helped me see what I wanted and what I didn't want, so I was more picky. And now I'm happily married. You'll get through it. Just give it time. Keep going to the gym and keeping yourself distracted. Time will heal you ❤

[@lisaineurope]

Hi Anna. You said that you didn't think he was as much in to you as you were with him. So, it's best that it ended right? You deserve so much more than he could give you. I know it hurts right now, but you trusted your instincts and acted on them, so that is a positive thing. You are such an inspiration to so many people and you have that energy that is like a magnet. It's good that you are going to the gym and keeping to that routine, you are an intuitive person and that is what will get you through this. I'm a Gemini too and when we love someone we give them our all, our everything. There will be someone out there who will love you just as much as you love them. Seoul, get ready for Anna Lee, because she is single and ready to mingle! Sending you love and best wishes from the UK 🇬🇧

[@SecretLabyrinth]

It's a process and you will feel blue for a while, it's totally understandable and you don't have to be sorry for that, Anna, just live your process and you will heal little by little until it doesn't hurt anymore❤ I'm glad you know you deserve better! It's really important to realize that. Thank you for sharing this with us ❤

[@Maria-fi5vd]

Sweetie, my heart breaks for you. Someone once told me to never beg to be loved. You are worthy of love, and when the right person comes along, they will do everything just to be able to spend time with you. Take care, heal, and then get back out there. Remember, someone out there is thinking the same as you. Have faith. You are a beautiful young woman inside and out. 💜

[@zenyrosalina]

Awww 😢 I’m so sad this happened Anna. As you say yourself, it will get better but it’s also good to not fight against your feelings and emotions and just let it all out. Hope you feel better soon ❤

[@mimirril]

Thank you so much for sharing your process❤️ You are literally so brave. It will get easier, just taking it day by day as you have. Sending much love!

[@smitaash]

Anna feel so sorry for you, I cried through all this vlog with you. Just want to hug you mentally and support you. You are a wonderful, very intelligent person with so much love in your heart, you deserve a partner like you. Someday you will feel better, you know that, but just let the tears come out. Thank you for sharing that you are vulnerable and sensitive and so sincere, this means a lot to me. Hugging you!

[@agha_stay]

Aw dearest Anna! I’m so sorry.. (I honestly thought this was a click baity title but reading all these comments and watching for the first few minutes, my heart just breaks for you!) I know you really liked him.. sending you all the strength and support you need to get through this. 🫂 💕

[@MrTobi013]

From a friend far away, I'm sending so much love and understanding to you Anna. Never forget to be your best and #1 supporter, because when people fail you...and they will...you can be there. It's not the easiest thing, supporting yourself. You know yourself best and until the universe pairs you with someone who can earn that place, never stop loving yourself deeply. Breaking up is never simple and it never will be so long as emotions are involved. You want the guy to like you the same as you like him...only to find out...maybe you were the only one giving %100. You had a right to ask. You have the right to want romance with the relationship, but if he retaliated in such a way that lead to a breakup...then perhaps it was for the best. Only under such harsh and hard pressures can rocks transform into diamonds Anna. Perhaps you just need a little more time to cook before you transform into a beautiful gem who'll finally find her perfect partner that'll truly make you shine.

[@sulianat3083]

I know you got this. As they say...some people come into our lives for a reason, a season or a lifetime. The one meant for a lifetime will come to you when you least expect it. Keep positive ❤

[@Laura-ev1qe]

Anna, I'm so sorry you are going through that. I know it seems difficult to imagine that it could get better, but it will in time. Just surround yourself with people who really care about you and keep busy. This too shall pass. Sending you a virtual hug.

[@Flo-Flo.]

Awe my heart aches for you. It's proven that one person loves more than the other. But loving someone and caring for someone are very different. I promise it will get better. The hurt is just temporary. These relationships allow you to be better; when you finally do find someone who will love you wholeheartedly.

[@PatBTheOwlcaptain]

My heart aches for you. Everyone grieves in their own way and in their own time, so don't feel bad about being gloomy. The whole anxiety and wanting to sleep because you don't want to face reality makes so much sense. It's painful right now and facing pain isn't fun. This awful feeling and experience right now will eventually pass and you'll be ready to share the lots of love you have within you again. Until then, grieve as you need and as you feel.

[@alinaflorentina2082]

You will be fine,the right person will come for you and will give so much love and happiness. You are amazing!❤

[@JuiciXD]

❤ sending you all the love and support an internet stranger can. I went through a horrific breakup last year and was a zombie for awhile. Never cried that much before in my life. Take the time and space you need to process 🥺💙❤️

[@bluepearlagain]

Thank you for sharing this - I hope you know it will help someone going through the same thing. I’m not in that situation but seeing this helped me remember how to be there for my friends and myself in the future

[@annvwfv2204]

其实从你的一些vlog 里很明显看得出你爱对方 胜过对方对你的情感，比如拥抱的时候，如果是害羞还可以理解，但我看出对方根本不回应你的肢体接触。。Whatever, girl u really deserve someone better!!!

[@lauraespi1543]

you will find someone when you least expect it plus never over dote on men. For some reason men stop chasing when you give them too more attention. you are young and will have no problem finding anyone - thing is let them come to you. good luck and this will all pass- believe me. you will look back and wonder what you found so special about him.

[@savage1510]

I'm so sorry to hear of your breakup. It sure is a tough thing to get through but you will. Nothing is going to keep you down for long. The right person for you is out there Anna. Chin up beautiful lady. Every day gets easier. Sending hugs your way

[@Billy33753]

Sorry to hear about your breakup, good things come when you least expect it

[@krisp9763]

So sorry to hear about it Anna. You are a wonderful person and give so much good energy to people, especially through your youtube channel. I have had many sad breakups in my life. I found the best way to get through the sadness is to work on a big project and let the tears flow. Then after a couple weeks when the sadness lessens, I have a new garden, or my house is painted, or I have cleaned out my storage. And friends are a wonderful support! Mourn the loss of the relationship, but also try to keep doing positive things for yourself. You will get through this and find someone who loves you as much or more than you love them. Thank you for sharing with us, it is very brave of you. We are with you Anna. ❤

[@May-ze5xt]

I am also going through a break-up so I feel you Anna. Gym, work and friends do help a lot. I would also had family and getting back to your roots. You will get better soon and you will rock again 💪

[@AlejandraXio]

I think we can all relate to that stupid heartache. I remember after my last break up I was expecting that heartache but after a year I was like something is wrong! Long story short reading self-help books made me realize I had limiting beliefs and helped me understand where my pain was coming from. It was like the clouds cleared the sky and my poor heart finally stopped hurting. It also helped me realize where I messed up. Make sure you actually broke up for a legitimate reason and not some other issue you have deep inside clouding your judgment. You got this Anna! So many of us love your personality and want to see you happy :) No pressure to please us or anything! We care for you whether you are in a good mood or sad. Just know that we do

[@arbaski8999]

Ohh Anna, I'm so sorry. This has been the most real vlog I have ever seen. You are so good at articulating your feelings. I have been watching you for a while and I love your content. I even expressed to my husband how awesome you are as a content creator in Korea. But girllll, you are brilliant and deserve a man that will cherish you for the beautiful, intelligent and strong woman that you are. Don't call him. Let him miss you too. Big hugs from the states🤗

[@CyberMew]

this is partly why i dont dare to go into one... but cheer up, time heals all wound, the feelings will fade, it will be part of some experience and you will adopt to the new normal.

[@Megan9689]

Aww I'm sorry to hear, Anna. You seemed super into him and had fallen fast but maybe that's just what we saw as viewers with the timing and stuff and he seemed like your super ideal type from what you said so that sucks it didn't work out. There will be someone else out there, don't worry! Especially a guy that likes the gym! Gym life and working out is super popular now days, especially from what I've seen over there in SK and you're an outgoing girl who is pretty and also takes care of herself...you won't have a problem! Hang in there girl. Time does help to lessen the pain(I won't say it cures it).

[@cindypoole6792]

Oh man!!! I'm so sorry. Breaking up isn't ever easy. Please seek therapy and/or antianxiety meds to get you through a hard time. Thank goodness you have the support of your youtube friends, Korea friends, UK friends... family. It's going to take time and you'll have to move through the pain at your own pace. Focus on what you HAVE, not on what you don't have. Big Hugs from California.

[@brooke9798]

It’s so important to feel equally loved in a partnership! It will be okay. I know you will find that person girl!

[@sgdsingh9123]

Hugs, Anna! You DEFINITELY deserve someone who absolutely adores and cherishes you!🙏❤️💞❤️

[@geniuspeng]

Thank you for sharing your experience and being open and vulnerable about the process, both the good and the bad. It is nice to see someone sharing their raw and relatable emotions. It’s so hard at first but you’ll get through this stronger than before and we’re supporting you Anna ❤

[@georgew8586]

It’s hard when the scab on your heart is so fresh. Life will get better, the pain will be less over time and eventually you will meet the right person. The rational side, will say it’s better to have happened now, than later in life when things could be so much more complicated.

[@AileenTownsend]

Thank you for sharing Anna. I'm so sorry you're going through this heartbreak right now. But have hope, find ways to fill your day as you mentioned. I went through a very difficult breakup in college and I started working out and volunteering my time at an animal shelter & senior home. When I started doing things to help others, I was much happier and overall it built up my positivity and confidence little by little. Not soon after, I met my husband! And even we had a minibreakup as we were dating long distance in college and had our ups and downs. Now we've been together for 23 years! Have faith, focus on loving yourself and sharing your light with others or the less fortunate! ❤ I enjoy your vlogs and getting your pov over on the KPC channel 😊

[@rochellel33beckford]

Coming from somone who has been there as well the best thing is to allow yourself to feel these emotions. Feel the heart ache but do not allow yourself to live in it. This will make you stronger and you will heal from this. You will gain greater insight into what you deserve and the right person will come. Even greater success is in store for you and you will smile even brighter because you will realise that there is good, better, and best. Your best has yet to come but it will. Sending love from NY to a categorically stunning and successful Queen 🥰

[@LaneBee]

I've been there, I understand how hard it is, but that doesn't really help someone in your position, but it is nice to know you aren't alone and you can get through it as tough as it seems from the start.

[@yulik2422]

This happened to me exactly, it was almost a 10 year relationship. We didn't have a big fight, no one cheated it just happened.... I told to myself that he was the one , but they are right time heals. It has been 8 months and I feel better, I finally notice that he didn't deserve all the love I gave him, I finally notice that I was the only one making the effort BUT I still get that nostalgic feeling because I still remember the good things. But thank GOD I finally see that the good things were nowhere near the same amount of the "bad" little things. For everyone who is going to this process lets just give it time, is not the end. I am turning 30 years old and thought I had found the love of my life , I didn't and I am fine. Enjoy life!

[@odetowoozi]

Noooo💔 you absolutely deserve someone who gives you the same vibes/energy in a relationship as you give! Sending positive healing vibes your way 🫶🏼

[@pigz2pigz]

Take care~ Stay strong~ My sis survived a 15 year relationship break-up... Met her current hubby a year+ after and has 2 kids now~ I'm sure u will get over it~! 💪💪💪

[@GirlofSteeleBFFs]

I dealt with a relationship for only two days or something like that and it wasn’t that bad when he said he wasn’t ready for anything. I hope you get better soon and stuff.🌸❤️ we’re all here for you.❤️❤️❤️🌸🌸🌸

[@theowlhook]

I am so sorry for you Anna... You are a strong person, it will get better and you will forget him eventually. Breathe in for 4, hold for 4 and exhale for 5 when you feel the anxiety creeping up. He doesn't know how much of a fool he is for letting you go. Sending you big hugs and positive energy! Much love Anna, hang in there!

[@kenyoung6666]

As someone who has 7 ex-es, some times you wouldn’t know if the both of you are really compatible until after being together for a year or so. Whether you were more into him or vice versa, it doesn’t matter because at the end of the day, the RIGHT person will be the one who stays with you till you grow old. I’m a very straightforward person so I don’t sugar coat and I apologise if my words are difficult to swallow. I believe everyone serves a purpose, people come and go in our lives (doesn’t have to be romantic) and I think he was in your life for a reason. Breakups suck, especially on the receiving end. Take your time to grief while working on yourself, learn to be ok with being alone again. Self love self worth always! Best of luck and I truly believe the one for you is still out there waiting. Stay strong!

[@sebastianmartin8665]

Oh yeah, i been there…. What helped me is also to remembering this… the fact that you loved so intensely, means you can. Which means, when another person is found, you can do it again

[@rachelb253]

Anna I am so sorry to hear about the breakup.... its seriously so tough to go through. You have an entire youtube family that supports you no matter what! I know that you're extremely strong and I hope that you feel better soon. Sending lots of love ❤

[@XOut4This]

I’m so sorry 😭 You’re an incredibly strong and talented woman. I know you can roar! Wishing the best for you 💜

[@SpringRae]

Anna it’s okay to take the time you need! I’ve had a similar experience where I felt like I was more invested in the relationship. Being around friends is the best medicine because they will give you the unexpected laughs you need 😊I hope you feel better in your own time ❤

[@TheSilviepie]

Aww Anna I just want to give you a hug. It will be okay even if it doesn't feel like it right now. You are just one step closer to finding the right person for you. ❤

[@stephynusch]

You are SO brave. You respect yourself enough to walk away from something that was giving you those dopamine hits because you KNEW you deserved better. That's so hot. You'll definitely find someone better in the future! I also went through a breakup this year myself, ending a 7 year relationship and it absolutely sucks for both ends. It's a rollercoaster but yeah just keep relying on your friends, exercising and doing you! The future holds incredible thins for us, I know that! ❤

[@Maya09950]

Aww Anna big hugs , you'll be okay it just takes a bit of time 💙

[@copaqueen]

I am sorry to hear this. Take your time. Distract yourself with what you like to do, be with friends, hit the gym, etc. Time will heal & that person will come. I can relate after almost 7 years my bf broke up with me right before Xmas and my mom passing. You will find that person that will love all of you. I know you will be ok because you are a beautiful person! Hugs