Healing Trauma in a Toxic Culture

Healing Trauma in a Toxic Culture | Dr. Gabor Maté

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@sheribrougham4863 Жыл бұрын

Gabor is beyond insightful. He doesn't use fancy words to confuse people he just explains it in a clear way that resonates. ❤

@beale.8049 Жыл бұрын

Yes I agree with you.

@pavelskop305 Жыл бұрын

Absolufakinlutely ❤️

@BuBu-uz9qi Жыл бұрын

Hi, everyone I have a secret for you reveal. The reason why the United States of America and the Vatican keep delayed time by playing the voting game between President Biden with President Trump even though they know their children is going to die for no reason because if the Tibet and India know Pope Francisco does not want to see Holy Dalai Lama but he sent a Vietnamese came to Tibet say Vatican and NATO will liberate the Tibet and India. In contrary; every time NATO visit any country, Pope Francisco will visit that country. They do know the Vatican had done with Tibet 's citizens, thus they don't even say sorry. Secondly; I hope the India' citizens please pay attention. Don't you think this is disrespectful. Lastly; Pope Francisco told the whole world that he had a plan to make the world will be peace but I say from now to 10 years our economic will collapse and we will face the flood of the ocean that will drown alot of country such as Japan, Korea, Philippines and Taiwan etc later. Because Russia will fight with NATO in Europe at the west, and at the east, both of them fight at Alaska. When the iceberg break and melt, the sea level will be up. IF India doesn't allow NATO settle in their country. Unless Pope Francisco says sorry to them so this disaster will not happen. Please tell me your comments Sincerely Thanks

@MonkeyDIvan Жыл бұрын

Unlike a certain Canadian "intellectual"

@carolgarrett1786 Жыл бұрын

Agreed 👍

@thoreevos 9 ай бұрын

That lovely guy is my Bob Dylan of therapy. Cannot get enough of him.

@JanKatrinaGuanzon Жыл бұрын

Gabor Mate really understand in all levels about trauma and wounding. So much appreciation for his teachings. It speaks the unspoken truth of our society. Sending Love and healing to all people who is watching this video. 💖

@zuzanapaulickova9872 Жыл бұрын

The same to you ❤️

@lambchop6278 Жыл бұрын

"Speaks the unspoken truth" ...well said!

@imanmalik5631 Жыл бұрын

🙏🌹🌹🙏

@MrToontuber Жыл бұрын

Culture is NOT youre friend. Terrence McKenna..

@bambooscramble4748 Жыл бұрын

I have improved my life 1000% by reading and following Gabor, and leaving all social media. I have real friends and quality of life now. American culture is so toxic right now. I also send love and healing hugs to all. 🫶

@REDEEL16 Жыл бұрын

This man is a gift. His books are great

@julialincoln-stefan1066 Жыл бұрын

These messages need to be spread far and wide

@chongmai77 Жыл бұрын

This is an extraordinary interview. And I've listened to several with Gabor, and am almost done with the book! Andre, you have done an incredible job with this interview, the best I've seen, with your presence, your understanding of the content.... it's more like a dialogue, than just barraging the interviewee with a bunch of questions. So well done! Thank you so much. We need this kind of information and perspective, so much, in these times.

@BuBu-uz9qi Жыл бұрын

@darlenefarrow3296 11 ай бұрын

Uuuuyy it yyuu it uuyuyyyuiuujuiy iiiy

@sheiladuke3289 8 ай бұрын

😊😊❤❤❤

@aishamumtaz2144 Жыл бұрын

His insights make me feel sad about my childhood and become aware of myself and attitudes I had adopted to fit in which have damaged my real personality

@jcm5171 Жыл бұрын

First the sadness, oh yes, I hear you. It's OK. We use what is available to us, what else? All that matters in the long run is your awareness. 😊

@priscilla9995 Жыл бұрын

"It's not your fault." Powerful ending. Thank you for this conversation.

@nabilc1667 Жыл бұрын

@@rachael6829By coming closer to ourselves by listening to our body and thoughts and beliefs. It would take longer to gain this without listening to Gabor, but is certainly not impossible without him.

@katherinemnusa 11 ай бұрын

I am 71 and always knew that something was not right with me. In my 40’s it showed its ugly face…Cptsd, I was at a job where I was a receptionist waiting on Angry 😡 people. I had a medical retirement. I did have madd…and recently had 8 Ketamine infusions..it helped the depression, but I was left with the Cptsd…now working on dealing with it. I feel I wasted my life sadly ❤️‍🩹 Dr. Gabor Mate’ is Awesome he really knows his stuff. I love it when he makes a joke and laughs…He is a Dear man..KUDOS to him. Thank you Dr. ✌️🍀

@Svjx 4 ай бұрын

I would give my life savings to spend just a few hours with Gabor, his insight is just impeccable!

@AA-zk6dl Ай бұрын

your ife savings are likely small

@philcerdorian6429 Жыл бұрын

excellant every health professional in the world should listen to this

@sapphiresennelier2319 Жыл бұрын

So agree on the definition of family and relating. No two kids have the same parents. I cannot like this enough. The answer to the woman contemplating creating a family is golden.

@clarebartholomew3471 Жыл бұрын

What a wonderful conversation. The lady who asked the first question made me cry as I decided years ago that I didn't want children as I couldn't bear it if I made then unhappy like my parents made me. I often think how different I would have been if I'd had parents who looked at how they behaved and realised the impact it had. I think this lady will be a brilliant mother.

@waveofdetermination Жыл бұрын

Nicky is a rockstar to show mature growth in action. That is what willing to heal and grow looks like. Such a great talk. Gabor Mate is one of my favorites!

@ruceblee969 Жыл бұрын

This man gives me permission to be human!

@jcm5171 Жыл бұрын

Yes, you are! We all are!!! 😊

@deedee9312 4 ай бұрын

He speaks such truth, wise and clear! That which we knew , Dr Gabor makes sense of it! Wish I was there ❤😊

@marylee2809 Жыл бұрын

I’m from a very large family, took care of children and my experiences showed me childhood to adulthood. Dr Gabor Mate understands and speak for the children! Great talk!

@zita-m Жыл бұрын

i am so grateful for this episode to be a live one. I have seen and heard many talks with Dr. Gabor Mate, and because they often tend to be repetitive (nonetheless still very interesting), it is the Q&A part that made this one so much better. I had so many a-ha moments that came through the answers to various questions from different people with different experiences that I could relate to. Thank you both for creating this space and to the audience who were not afraid to go deep. This was truly awesome to watch.

@bebaaskaful Жыл бұрын

One of the best hosting of Gabors presence. Thank you

@daniellacosta1756 Жыл бұрын

Days and hours of binge watching interviews with Gabor Mate' this would have to be one of my favourites. So many light bulbs moments, so many times brought to tears. Gabor is a true gift to mankind and his words have personally made me feel truly seen and understood.

@Asis4God 6 ай бұрын

When you shine a light into darkness, darkness becomes light itself. Love this

@NiKi-ij2ln Жыл бұрын

I will say it 100 times, this guy is fantastic 🙏🌟🌈❤️

@mariarossi6719 Жыл бұрын

Wow. What a treat to have this wonderful man on your show. He articulates so well what I’ve always felt deep in my soul but didn’t know how to express this in words. Everyone around me seemed to be so accepting and unquestioning and I always felt something was wildly amiss. Our society, has been and continues to be, very toxic indeed. Most people are trapped in jobs they don’t want to be in and that’s just for starters. Is it any wonder people are struggling. Anyway, I’m going to enjoy listening to the rest of this on my evening stroll. Thanks for keeping me company with such brilliant wisdom.

@soul17169 Жыл бұрын

Yes trapped in $jobs - That still isn't balance for most. Take risks, always question, find a job more you. Join the revolution. Contribute you.

@mikem3242 Жыл бұрын

Now try to rewrite this without that spiritual religious babble

@katherinemnusa 11 ай бұрын

💯❤️‍🩹

@rheamendoza7657 Жыл бұрын

Just wow. I'm only half way done with the video and I had to stop to comment this.. but this has to be the most profound and perspective changing video I have every watched. Thank you Andre, you never fail to bring on the most amazing guests and ask hard but very important questions as well. Love this video.

@jcm5171 Жыл бұрын

This man is a bouddha.

@hoobyhoo Жыл бұрын

Oh man...to have him as my physician would probably get me to a cure!

@annemurphy8074 Жыл бұрын

I had 2 NDE's and saw that it is not knowing who we are, being disconnected that leads to a fearful way of being and all kinds of strange and destructive behaviour comes from it. Trauma is one of the main ways this disconnection happens. Kind of like a rabid dog getting the rabies virus and becoming dangerous and unpredictable. We come here and we live in a particular culture, family, group of people and we get conditioned to not be our true selves. We kind of all catch the same "virus". We forget who we all are, which is Love and because of the disconnection and forgetting who we are, all kinds of insanity happens from being unconscious. Also, earth is a place of extremes from the worst of the worst to the very best and everything in between. We come here for that challenge. I was received in the NDE's with total unconditional Love, compassion and acceptance without judgement. There is no separate from us "God" of any religion, that hands out rewards, punishments and judgements. I saw that nobody is ever left behind. To awaken to who we all truly are, while we are embodied and having a human experience and then to live from that pure state of BEING as best we can, is to bring the kind of unconditional love without judgments I experienced in the NDE's, through us and into this realm. It deepens and expands the Love that we are, deepens our compassion and brightens the light that we are.

@Footballallday-x9g Жыл бұрын

Well written… I too was fortunate enough to have a similar experience. It has forever changed my life. Unfortunately, it’s taken almost 3 years now for me to finally surrender & just accept that I can’t go back to that intense unworldly type of Love I was so lucky to feel. Or worse yet, searching for answers to “why” did this happen only for me and no one else around me? After living my entire life surrounded by trauma, I have learned to see life through a whole new light & that alone is something I’ll forever be grateful for. It was true enlightenment, knowing there’s certainly more to the universe than what we’ve all been told. Thee other side of the veil…. learning everything that happens to us, actually happens FOR us. Energy…. ⚡️ 🌎 ❤🙏

@annemurphy8074 Жыл бұрын

@@Footballallday-x9g Beautiful!

@CakeChef7 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Dr. Gabor 💟🙏💟

@teresatw8894 7 ай бұрын

I feel such a profound love for Dr Mate that I cry instantly when I hear his voice 😅 just can't control my compassion, or maybe it is effect of feeling his endless compassion for entire humanity...?

@AA-zk6dl Ай бұрын

or you mentaly unstable?

@dealensky Жыл бұрын

What a tribe in the audience! Wow! All my favorite people that I follow, along with the incredible Gabor Mate whose way of talking is so soothing and healing. Huge! Thank you!

@kannakanina6552 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for uploading this. As someone who has only just reached a point where I have the appropriate psychiatric care to help me begin the journey of finding the self I am underneath all of the dissociative coping strategies that I used to survive, I think it’s important for mental health providers as well as survivors and patients to understand that the most challenging and productive work is letting go of coping mechanisms that no longer serve us and learning ways of existing that allow for less rigidity and more authenticity. Gabor Mate’s words are incredibly insightful.

@Jana_Rea Жыл бұрын

Hi dear, please check out Irene Lyon and her nervous system healing work. The nervous system is the missing piece, where everything else clicks into place - in all things trauma and healing. We need to go through the body first. This work is such a complex yet simple, beautiful, self-honouring, gentle thing. It's tender magic is hard to put into words, let alone in a short youtube comment. Irene has a ton of high-value content on here and you can find more about her and her work on her homepage. I am currently starting her main program SmartBody SmartMind, which is going to enable me to truly become my own medicine; I can't wait to start living and thriving instead of merely surviving! (please check out testimonials - it's the most life changing, if not lifesaving work I have come across) Wishing you all the very best!

@kannakanina6552 Жыл бұрын

@@Jana_Rea I’m glad you find her work helpful! I prefer the work of other individuals, as she seems to glean from the research of others and synthesize it and explain it, which many have done. I actually prefer to read the research and other content in book form with annotated bibliographies so I can more easily trace the information. It’s a habit I got into in college after a lot of time in the science departments. I have an extensive reading list that I’m working through. I’m always glad to see more people speaking openly about such topics though! Thank you kindly for the recommendation! Best wishes! ^_^

@phyllisjackson4322 Жыл бұрын

Suffering leads to awareness, then the lesson , then compassion for the self and the suffering. Basic needs for safety and belonging are essential for survival and thriving.

@kannakanina6552 Жыл бұрын

@@phyllisjackson4322 I agree, though I would say that every step of the way from suffering to awareness, from awareness to understanding, from understanding to compassion requires conscious decisions to do the hard work. I agree that humans cannot thrive until safety and belonging are established, but I suppose I have too often heard that suffering can lead to all of this growth opportunities without hearing that it CAN lead there but that suffering can also lead elsewhere. The difference, in my limited experience, is a sense of cultivating and working towards awareness and wholeness and safety. If suffering exists in the absence of human agency and conscious decisions to grow, without support, I feel like the results can be devastating, individually and societally.

@omittapir5986 Жыл бұрын

I am so glad to see him healthy and still active. He is among the best who influenced my life. Thank you sir! Be healthy and keep influencing oi ur life.

@sheiladuke3289 8 ай бұрын

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@soundisonlyborrowednoise8269 10 ай бұрын

POWERFUL!!!! PURE WISDOM GALORE!!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@jameslabelle6416 11 ай бұрын

My wife has learned so much of herself after going into a trauma reaction that she calls a mental health crisis. She has been istening to your books and watching your videos every day. You have given her comfort by making it (the trauma reactions) make sense to her. Now, she no longer wants to be a psychologist with a concentration in addiction. She wants to focus on trauma because she now believes that addiction is a result of trauma.

@wanderessmusic 2 ай бұрын

These conversations should most certainly be taught and happening more often especially in education and medicine.. new parents need to hear this man speak. Read his books. Connect with each-other more for healing and unlearning what society has lied to us all about. Our society needs to awaken to the truth that we have strayed too far.

@kundo9639 Жыл бұрын

Without doubt THE BEST podcast I've ever listened to! SUch a blessing to have people like Dr. Gabor Maté living in our lifetime! And such a blessing to have people like André organizing such an event and then making it public for others to listen to as well. Thank you all so so much!

@number1angel66 Жыл бұрын

Thank you both for all you do! I am especially appreciative of how Gabor Mate is open and honest about his shortcomings. I have made tremendous progress in my life and I owe my success to three things: 1. I went inward to find out why I had issues, 2. I worked hard to improve myself and my life and 3. I practice heart brain coherence. This is the most enlightening information I've heard in a long time! Blessings to all in love and light!🙏🏼💜🙏🏼💙🙏🏼💛🙏🏼🧡🙏🏼💚🙏🏼

@BuBu-uz9qi Жыл бұрын

@wannaspeakbyveroniq 5 ай бұрын

It’s absolutely stunning how much wistom and knowledge is in this video… not enough words to express my appreciation and gratitude for everything that Gabor shares 🙏 thank you thank you thank you. It’s totally transformative

@jcm5171 Жыл бұрын

André, everything about you is awesome. It's the 3 rd interview of yours I see. Gabor Maté suits you and you, him! I don't know how much work you have done with your true Self, but your authenticity shines through. Thank you.

@Leonore45 8 ай бұрын

I am so glad you spoke about how children are not treated the same in the same family. The first child is First at everything. Mum usually has more time to spend with them relatives are excited for the First child or Grandchild. The second has much less time (in most circumstances) spent on them. They and feel this really Strongly that children now have to fit in! They have parents who are working full time. They shipped to nursery from such a young age and parents wonder why a child cries so much when they are left and are told ‘oh he/she will be fine when you’re gone’ the distress you hear in that babies cry 😢 yes they may stop crying when they are gone but surely it’s subconsciously that they have to survive. Why we don’t develop a community for parents/caregivers that includes both, for the first two years of a babies life, is beyond me. Instead, we have governments who encourage childcare for even younger babies, so that Mums can go back to work ! Having and bringing up a child is a gift and huge responsibility. If parents spoke and treated their children like they do their bestest friend we would be on the right road, I feel. I’m glad you said there is a way out of the Doom as in my role I see so many broken people. I, because of Dr Matê, ask nearly all my patients, how are you doing, how is life in general. Thank you

@AlenaLea94 Жыл бұрын

I've seen many Maté talks on this topic and his new book but this one has to be by far the most exciting and insightful of all for me personally. Thank you so very much for giving him a platform and also for your contribution to the discourse!

@Kal-EL_Volta Жыл бұрын

Same here. He is really on point. I don't know if it is the host asking the right questions or if he is well rested from his speaking tour.

@goldbrick72 Жыл бұрын

Same. I have known his work for a while now in English and in Hungarian but he really nailed these explanations not only detailed individually on a traumatic or Happy person but on society and on all creatures exist. Everyone should listen to this video and we all could have a chance changing our whole existence as humans on this beautiful Earth.

@suemiller8426 4 ай бұрын

I would love to start a new society using all of Dr. Gabor Wate insights, I wonder who I might have been having known all that he is teaching me. 63 years to late.

@hypnosabrina-now Жыл бұрын

This was so freaking powerful. Thank you for holding this platform. ❤❤❤❤

@laurynorder3965 10 ай бұрын

How destinedly liberating when ALL faces make it in the room. Those who often need to hear the message are not being represented. I truly live and long for the moment in time when we are all free.

@Soul.Stylist.Solutions333 Жыл бұрын

Great analogy with the tap on the shoulder with pain compared to tapping on a burn & the severity of different levels of pain! Love this thank you 🙏🏻 (I’ve had a Gabor Healing binge Saturday. Been so Good. 😍 Thank you for your work & to all for this podcast! 😇❤️‍🩹☯️☮️

@kimmysophiabrown4807 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Andre. Zach Bush, and now Gabor Mate. Saints of our world right now. Beautiful souls. Thank you so much.

@snjavister Жыл бұрын

Thank God for this man. We are so far away from adapting all this knowledge soon enough for this world to be a friendly place to me, but I have hope for my daughter’s generation.

@finding.gemstones Жыл бұрын

I am not crying... you are. 😉🙏🏻 Thank you for this format and providing this special Q&A space for such profound and also impactful questions and answers. 💜 I appreciate it a lot. And I will let those answers sink in more deeply... Thank you a lot, André! Also to the openess and vulnerablity of the audience and also for the shared wisdom and life experience from Gabor. 🦋 This Q&A session has been a very special one for me and I am grateful to be able to have witnessed it. Thank you @SorelleAmore for the recommendation & your moving question. 🦋💜

@ferdianpermana 5 ай бұрын

i love focusing on Gabor speaking, so many things learned as a psychologist myself. Thank you for making this video possible Andre.

@pyarvinabbasova5491 Жыл бұрын

The guest selection for this podcast is amazing. Thank you for putting all the work in 🙏🏽 Another great conversation

@AKAndoh Жыл бұрын

Brilliant questions by Andre for the brilliant Gabor Mate. Thank You!

@pp-1954 Жыл бұрын

0:35 Sensitivity Is the only genetic thing Child need 16:52 1. Connection 2. Unconditional acceptance 3. Safety of experiencing every emotion 4. Spontaneous playing 28:08 kid becomes afraid of their true selves

@thehylers1021 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this list. I'm 62 and re-parenting myself, discovering how to care for my needs. Through prayer, meditation, and writing, I'm prioritizing and practicing these essential needs in my life. Feeling alive as never before. Love and blessings to everyone here ❤

@chyfields Жыл бұрын

Thank you. I found this video imparted so much sense. Our problems are multi-generational. When I meditate from the perspective of my early childhood all my senses hurt: sound hurts, light hurts, rough touch hurts, smell hurts, many foods taste foul, the emotions of others hurt. Youngsters eventually become more tolerant to the world; parents can, and are duty bound, to alleviate such discomfort.

@TW-ek2kt Жыл бұрын

I must say that this was one of the best interviews I have seen. As a clinician, this was a training for me! So much good insight to take back to my practice and my book comes tomorrow. I also plan to take his compassion course. He gets it‼️ In order to do this work well and truly educate your clients, you have to be willing to truly connect with them and this whole interview stress the importance of connection and the negative side effects when we are not connected. Unfortunately, this culture is over feeding this activity of disconnect. Thank you for this❤

@TW-ek2kt Жыл бұрын

@Bojan V I'm trying daily! Thanks

@LibertyDino 11 ай бұрын

I have healed through the Pesso-Boyden method and other therapies. Gabor is absolutely right and I love to see more content on us reconnecting to our own purity.

@ariadnaju421 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Gabor Mate , just listening to you is healing.

@MarcosMorffe Жыл бұрын

Amazing, thank you so much for this. Yes, when we think of these conditions like that, it's not our fault or anybody else's, the healing is much more compassionate, I hope when I wake up tomorrow to remember that, but I am very concerned about what I am seeing. We need to work together not compete with each other, God bless you all.

@neildean7515 2 ай бұрын

Fascinating interview. Having taught Football (Soccer) to young children 30 years its incredible that Adults expect young children to be like well behaved adults.. Some parents fail to understand that these young people are learning, will make mistakes and experience the full range of emotions. As a Coach i have learnt to love the chaos of running bots football teams and try not to be a control freak, but let children to experience and be a consequence of their actiobscwhilst supportibg them to understand what is like to be part of a team that will win and fail. But, we will stay together and enjoy the highs and lows..

@themysticnavigator Жыл бұрын

Gabor gives people with big T validation which comes healing. Not sure how aware he is of the many people he has brought the validation to light just by his talks and books. Gabor's insights are what society needs to heal in today's world. May be all be gentle with ourselves. ❤

@sheiladuke3289 8 ай бұрын

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@victorialouise2941 Жыл бұрын

Absolute life changing talk here. Thank you André & Gabor, wow... will be rewatching!!

@progresssonsgaming 10 ай бұрын

I happy as a young man I’m able to find this man before venturing into parenthood

@pauljung3534 5 ай бұрын

"A levity & voice, that emanates from experience - is so worth listening to." "The most tender words.. come from the gut, grime, grit & glory -- of a life grasped in full." "A dance of life fulfilled.. it is passion & grace, elevated over time & space." "Prize progress -- over perfection. For maybe - it is the journey -- that matters most." .. Gabor's advice to the woman worried about parenthood was heart warmingly embracing and priceless!! ~ Paul Jung "What you are to be, you are now becoming." ~ Carl Rogers “What lies behind you and what lies in front of you, pales in comparison to what lies inside of you.” ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson "If the day and the night are such that you greet them with joy, and life emits a fragrance like flowers and sweet-scented herbs, is more elastic, more starry, more immortal - that is your success." ~ Henry David Thoreau “I am seeking. I am striving. I am in it with all my heart.” ~ Vincent van Gogh

@mohdnazirmohdnainar5992 Жыл бұрын

wow dr gabor mate .. INFJ have the gift to experience all this .. but sir you are above an infj .. you could explain these skills for the world to heal .. you will always be in our hearts & tqvm sir

@Remykur 2 ай бұрын

dr Gabour is gift to humanity ❤

@Asis4God 6 ай бұрын

no two children have the same parents, experiences, life - even if they are a twin. I learned this - this year.

@karlad4082 Жыл бұрын

Such an amazing talk. Thank you for sharing and Dr. Mate for his wisdom 😊🙏

@Dumballa Жыл бұрын

Gabor Mate. A world treasure.

@Virvepaulina Жыл бұрын

I've been going through these things and integrating my experiences for ~3 years and this still makes me cry. Meets not being met. Still carry that and it won't change either, just have to see the effect and work with it consciously 🧡

@joevalentin2450 Жыл бұрын

More than 2000 years ago, Socrates said that the task of living is ultimately to "know thy self". Dr. Gabor Mate is as close as you could get to a Socratic figure of the modern world. What he is saying are more liberating than all the wars that Idiots of today have unwittingly initiated that only caused human suffering.

@pauljung3534 Жыл бұрын

"Above fray & fracas, to thy own self, above all, be true." ~ Paul Jung

@richardscathouse Жыл бұрын

Remember how Socrates ended 🔥😱🔥

@karinabadary3179 7 ай бұрын

Thank you both for this insight, transforming, helpful and hopeful session. Dr Gabor you are a blessing to the human race, thank you for insight, experiences, knowledge, wisdom and encouragement 🙏

@nancyadams4358 Жыл бұрын

I remember looking at my mother in bed and realizing I did not matter…. I knew at 4 years old and it continued threw abuse by family members then onto growing up and marrying he abused me also. I am learning now at 68 I do so Matter, Thanks to folks like Gabor, Melanie Tonia Evens, Nick and Jessica Ortner that helped me know I do Matter.

@goldbrick72 Жыл бұрын

Of course you do. We all are, but you have to define yourself every day again and again and do not believe to others how they treat you because that's their wound. Remember what happens to a $100 bill when you step on it, soak it wet, crumble it up, tear it half then tape it back, then chip it's corner! It will still worth $100.

@annasjourney Жыл бұрын

The very 1st question: the 34 year old is afraid of being a mom because of perpetuating the cycle she experienced as a child. ⚠️Warning⚠️ I was given the same advice: because I am on a healing path and asking the questions I will be ok. For me it's not always ok. It's important to remember your children also pick you. It's important to witness your mistakes as a mother and the solutions. So yes, you will be ok. But if your experience is anything like mine, traumas sneak up, and triggers do happen. Give yourself the space to sit with those moments, do the healing, and let your kids witness you in your fullest! They learn more from your actions than your words. There is no perfect outcome in life, just moments. My wish for you is to have more moments of pleasure with your kids than the moments of pain. 💓✨️☮️

@mottiwenger6450 Жыл бұрын

Would love to see Dr. Richard Shwartz on the pod!! His book “No Bad Parts” is a really transformational book

@tanvski5984 7 ай бұрын

btw - love all the words of this man so much that I can't even make a compliment so THANK YOU for existing

@Stillpoint23 4 ай бұрын

What an amazing session! I really love the Q&A, both Gabor and Andre did a fantastic job. Thank you both for making this knowledge available, what a beautiful thing to be on the Path ❤

@ildikovisolit2014 7 ай бұрын

I spent my whole childhood away from my family in care from a baby in schools aftercare. I only had my dog as a friend but they kept removing my pets too. I felt alone cold waging school at age 6. The sadness and the Loneliness is still vivid in my mind

@TerriLynch Жыл бұрын

Not only children, but adults as well.

@DahshonPugh-iq1bd 7 ай бұрын

This is such an amazing segment. You shed light on so many issues amidst our society that really should be being looked at. I am glad you said this; This is my first time listening to you but I have loved “Know Thyself” for a couple weeks now. Basically people need the information. My question for you is if you feel the problems need to be addressed before healing can occur? These things take time but speaking is the first step to recovery.

@arthurtapia7465 Жыл бұрын

Gabor Mate is the GOAT and every adult needs hear these facts

@andreadybvik 9 ай бұрын

What a conversation! So many insights and new perspectives flowing through my mind right now! Thank you for this! 🤍

@suzychristensen8977 Жыл бұрын

This guy is the Cat’s Meow… ! Excellent!

@Asis4God 6 ай бұрын

"When you are caught up in this - you do not know it" This.

@TheHarvestchef Жыл бұрын

I love this man with all my being. Please listen to him. His ideas changed my entire existence.

@richardscathouse Жыл бұрын

He looks like he just stepped out of a clothes dryer 😮

@sheiladuke3289 8 ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@patrickdarko6808 Күн бұрын

Gabor mate should rule the world

@marioradlinger5581 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this incredible live interview. I love this new format and it was so beautiful to have Gabor`s wisdom paired with so many of your former podcast guests in the space. Thank you André for all the love you pour into your work!

@theasianwitch Жыл бұрын

Amazing interview and questions, super insightful and helpful for someone who is studying to become a therapist. Much appreciations to all who put this together as well as the brave audience members who asked questions.

@andrearukas9235 Жыл бұрын

This man is a genius!!

@larsstougaard7097 Жыл бұрын

Love this man, can't wait to see this 😍

@davidalanmors3233 6 ай бұрын

Another remarkable episode. Thank you, Andre'

@susanj5591 Жыл бұрын

Such an important and impactful Message and I am so grateful that you are bringing it to us. The understanding and compassion that comes through you now could only exist because you came through the gauntlet of trauma to awareness and healing. The work is when we become aware of it and become more compassionate with ourselves and others. You and Tara Brach ( of whom I am a long time fan) have brought this wonderful much needed RAIN to us thank you.

@MackiProductions Жыл бұрын

thank you for organising this. so muuuch wisdom

@barbarafifolt7296 Жыл бұрын

He has been there. Helps so many others,as that's all there is love!

@tanvski5984 7 ай бұрын

this is so crazym , at 29:00, in my family we never ignored the other for trowing tantruns as young people and I never really understood how my parents could do it. thanks mom for not raising a traumatized kid and not make us fight for love (btw we are awesome to our parents now in our 30-40s).

@geneoluminology Жыл бұрын

Yes yes ... soo many beautiful marvelous people in th world also makes me remember that humanity is gonna be alright 🤍🙌🤍

@Asis4God 6 ай бұрын

Live life without judgement, but observation.

@patricialancaster4320 Жыл бұрын

SUPER!! I can see the abuse and how we deal with it.

@hienienguyen6766 Жыл бұрын

yes i do agree trauma is a lot deal with toxic homes. It's not easy to heal but anything is possible. I think these are great words of wisdom. As someone that had a best friend that was a clinical psychologist. I knew the old habits that I would fall into. Having adhd change my perspective of how I view my relationships and what it cost me. I am now on my healing journey after years of therapy dealing with a dysfunctional home. This comes so close to home. Like dr phil always say "we can't change what we don't acknowledge." I am studying in healthcare administration right now I see and study all these things that are so interesting that i never knew before. Psychology was always apart of me. a lot of successful people have trauma. it applies to everyone that has a toxic household i have seen. Facts are that people have the inability to be heard or seen.

@sheiladuke3289 8 ай бұрын

❤ God Bless You 😇 ❤

@PABWECG Жыл бұрын

Wow, thank you SO much for this amazing podcast.

@SkateRideLove Жыл бұрын

Yess 🙌🏼 So grateful for this pocast!! What a fire combination of humans 🙏🏼

@graceismine1111 Жыл бұрын

Everything he talks about, especially making the unconscious conscious is the core of hypnotherapy and NLP work. You don't need years of talk therapy, or even psychedelics to change your mind. Change can happen with a good practitioner more quickly than you think.

@headgirlblues Жыл бұрын

So many insights and in that very welcome, soothing Maté voice, too. One tiny point on animals. Troop primates are frequently abusive as parents, too - and can allow abuse of their own offspring by others, usually further up the hierarchy. Orang Utan far less so, as they are naturally solitary with no troop politics to deal with (they only group in human-created environments).

@Asis4God 6 ай бұрын

Everyone breathing should listen to this.