7 Style Secrets Rich & Classy Women Never Talk About | Fashion Over 40

[@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40]

SHOP THE LOOKS HERE: LOOK 1: QUINCE BROWN LEATHER BLAZER XS: go.magik.ly/ml/26ire/ QUINCE TAN KNIT TANK XS: go.magik.ly/ml/26irg/ BLACK JEANS 24: go.magik.ly/ml/26irh/ QUINCE BLACK HANDBAG: go.magik.ly/ml/26irj/ LEOPARD HEELS: go.magik.ly/ml/26ddx/ BLACK BELT: go.magik.ly/ml/26irq/ GOLD BAR NECKLACE: go.shopmy.us/p-8167188 LOOK 2: QUINCE CAMEL CARDIGAN XS: go.magik.ly/ml/26irx/ BROWN BODYSUIT IN COCAO XS: go.magik.ly/ml/26iry/ FRAME JEANS 24: go.magik.ly/ml/26isa/ BROWN HEELS: go.magik.ly/ml/26isf/ LEOPARD BELT: go.magik.ly/ml/26isl/ GOLD BAR NECKLACE: go.shopmy.us/p-8167188 DIAMOND TENNIS NECKLACE SIM: go.magik.ly/ml/26ism/ LOOK 3: QUINCE BLACK CASHMERE CARDIGAN XS: go.magik.ly/ml/25say/ QUINCE BURGUNDY SLIP DRESS XS: go.magik.ly/ml/25saw/ BLACK AND GOLD STUDDED BELT: go.magik.ly/ml/25sbh/ FOR LESS: go.magik.ly/ml/25sbj/ BLACK HANDBAG SIM: go.magik.ly/ml/25t08/ LOOK 4: QUINCE BURGUNDY LEATHER JACKET XS: go.magik.ly/ml/25sal/ QUINCE BURGUNDY SLIP DRESS XS: go.magik.ly/ml/25saw/ BLACK AND GOLD HEELS SIM: go.magik.ly/ml/25szy/ VALENTINO GOLD CUFF: go.magik.ly/ml/25t07/ FOR LESS: go.magik.ly/ml/25t06/ QUINCE BROWN LEATHER JACKET XS: go.magik.ly/ml/25sal/ LOOK 5: QUINCE BURGUNDY CASHMERE SWEATER XS: go.magik.ly/ml/25sar/ QUINCE BURGUNDY CASHMERE JOGGERS XS: go.magik.ly/ml/25sau/ LOOK 6: QUINCE BURGUNDY LEATHER JACKET XS: go.magik.ly/ml/25sal/ QUINCE BURGUNDY CASHMERE SWEATER XS: go.magik.ly/ml/25sar/ BLACK JEANS 24: go.magik.ly/ml/26irh/ BLACK BELT: go.magik.ly/ml/26irq/ BURGUNDY HEELS: go.magik.ly/ml/25szu/ QUINCE BLACK HANDBAG: go.magik.ly/ml/26irj/ LOOK 7: QUINCE BLACK CASHMERE CARDIGAN XS: go.magik.ly/ml/25say/ QUINCE BLACK CASHMERE TANK XS: go.magik.ly/ml/25sb4/ COH WIDE LEG JEANS 24: go.magik.ly/ml/25sbq/ BLACK BELT: go.magik.ly/ml/25szt/ LEOPARD HEELS: go.magik.ly/ml/25t00/ ALSO LOVE THESE: go.magik.ly/ml/25t02/ CHAIN NECKLACE SIM: go.magik.ly/ml/26dcu/ PERFUMES: TOM FORD LOST CHERRY PERFUME: go.magik.ly/ml/26j1r/ FLOWER BOMB PERFUME: go.magik.ly/ml/26j1u/ ANINE BING PERFUME: go.magik.ly/ml/26j21/

[@zerenamafdet]

Loved the looks! ~And love your courage to share your dating experience with us all! YES you are right- break the cycle and see what the universe sends your way! The worst is behind you and you deserve the best!

[@kayjohnson5524]

I love the gorgeous cashmere sweaters I bought. $50 is a steal !!! So soft & comfortable . Thank you, Heather ❤

[@michelleforsberg5769]

I love your style, Heather!

[@amygerges6974]

My favorite colors to wear in the winter is definitely burgundy, chocolate, emerald green,and ivory. I would like to find more deep rich purples because I think purples are so regal.

[@OnASpiritualLevel]

Lost Cherry is one of my faves ❤❤❤

[@mpbeautyinsight]

You looked stunning in the maroon slip dress .. that was my fav outfit 🖤♥🖤

[@jodenabeale4355]

Heather, I loved you in all the looks. The burgundy dress was gorgeous. I did read a comment that “fashion is suppose to be fun”, well fun is something that we would express as enjoyable and you enjoy being classy and stylish, so stick to your signature style. That is the main theme of your videos is how to look stylish over 40 and I appreciate them and you, so thank you. As for Mr Austin, I have said before there is something strange about a man that can only be there once a month. I may very well be wrong but it just sounds like he is offering you an affair. I am so glad you realize you deserve more in a relationship than monthly visits. Stay classy and true to you. ❤

[@amysmithssportsandmakeup1397]

I think you would like Replica By the Fireplace perfume. It's so nice in the fall!

[@OnASpiritualLevel]

Love that one!

[@sl8605]

Speaking of scents, after I took a bath last night, I sprayed on my very expensive perfume, just to lay on the sofa and do nothing. It really elevated my mood.

[@momzel2179]

I agree Heather, you know your love language. You have figured it out, and being your best self and what will work best for you. Be patient.❤Love your fashion style.

[@allie9462]

1x a month is perfect!

[@Rollergirl1980]

I love wearing cranberry. I wish I could wear more jackets but I live in Miami. Lucky if we get a couple of cold days a year

[@danahahmad3266]

Camel with gray i like this color combination

[@ceciliam1007]

I think he might be physically unavailable but maybe not emotionally. I'd try long distance and see where it takes you! You never know!! All the best to you ❤ Watching in Argentina 🇦🇷

[@rosatedesco7241]

If u really like this man … i will move closer to him … 😍

[@sl8605]

I got a real leather blazer jacket from one of your favorite places to shop, it's not labeled as brown, it's mahogany, I got it on sale for four hundred dollars less than its original cost. It's my new favorite piece.

[@StarmoongalASMR]

Hi Heather! Sad that the burgundy leather jacket is sold out! Should have got myself one when I had the chance! Looking fab as always and I agree about never settling for less than you deserve. I know exactly the feeling you described! You shouldn’t feel that way in a relationship, your person should be by your side since that’s the point of a relationship. Everything will work out as it is meant to and it’s like you said, if it is meant to be, you’ll cross paths or it will just work out on its own without any effort, work or sacrifice on your part!❤❤❤

[@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40]

Thank you so much!! Your kind words mean the world to me!!

[@angelakeep5238]

Also, I'm curious what Mr Austin's Love Language is (what his primary-Two L-Languages are). I guess, if neither of his Top Two are Quality Time, that could definitely be challenging. Or, as you mentioned, something/someone that might need to be released.

[@lisarossiter9809]

Great video!

[@carolcoughlin7512]

I love this video❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@SusanWillans-b9q]

A lot of clothing has cheap, plain buttons. I buy more expensive, classy looking buttons to upscale the garment and make it more personal. Easy to change for yourself or have it done at your local tailor shop

[@michelleforsberg5769]

Long-distance relationships make it really tough to see how the person really is in daily life, too

[@CarolynandherClothes]

Ok. Here is my 2 cents at dating game. You are rushing-you want commitment too fast or you don’t want him. You should talk to him to see if he can meet you 1x/month and you can go to him 1x/month. Then see in a few months how you both feel. Is the excitement to see him still there/worth your drive? What about him, has he bailed out at all?

[@angelakeep5238]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings, Heather ! Your 'cyber' friends appreciate you and are prayi🎵g for you. It sure is challenging, to wait upon The Lord, no doubt about it. I think God understands our loneliness, 100%, since He was like-us and experienced it {during His earthly journey}, Himself. With your Love Language being QualityTime, I can see why you are wanting to tread with caution. Do you think Mr Austin could-be/might-be talking with or flirting with other women (in his area), or that he might possibly be in-a-relationship/living deceptively? ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏 Your friend, Angie/Angela D TRUMP 2024⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

[@joeyperez4453]

Yes girl, fix your picker.

[@roniisablake]

I don't know, Heather. If this man makes you happy, more than the other men do, maybe you should find a way to make it work...

[@melissagriffin7515]

Heather, you wear the same things over and over again. Pant, Tank, Jacket/sweater or Skirt, tank, jacket/cardigan or dress, heel/boot. I have never seen you wear silk, ruffle, chenille, boho, plaid, polka dot, floral, pinstripes, bold color, etc. I can go on and on. So why do you limit your fashion so much? Fashion is supposed to be Fun! Adventurous! Go to the edge and jump sweetheart!!!

[@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40]

Maybe I should try some more color in my wardrobe! But I do have a definite signature style which is why a lot of what I wear looks similar. I've always been told that I have a certain look and I love it! Thank you for your comment and for watching. xoxo, Heather

[@cristinanedelcu9328]

Don’t know if you watched the whole vid…but she literally wearing silk/ silky dress in this video in a very vibrant color too- that burgundy looks stunning!❤

[@ceciliam1007]

I agree!!! ❤​@@cristinanedelcu9328

[@loveheals2828]

@@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40 I love your looks and I love the new you!! Your fashion has become more relatable (to me anyway!) and so have you! The vulnerability and insights you are sharing are matched by a more approachable look in your clothes and personality!! I just started watching you again. There is definitely more of a warmth and approachability coming from you. You will have a wonderful man! I'm glad you are giving yourself the opportunity to shine and share!!

[@marieoliphant8305]

I’ve been wishing she’d branch out as far as her wardrobe. She looks basically the same week after week. 🤨 My style is pretty much the opposite of hers. I’d never wear any of her outfits, but enjoy the dating stories. 😂

[@leahcone]

Sorry about Mr. Austin guy. Why don’t you move to Austin? Maybe a change would be good… I hear Austin is great!

[@cherylsoderstrom7391]

Oh sad. I hopped it would work out this time for. Could you move closer? Just asking.

[@marieoliphant8305]

I’m thinking the guys real girlfriend is a flight attendant and works the weekends he has free for you. 😩 One weekend a month isn’t a relationship. He would move mountains if he was all that interested. Sounds like a waste of your time Heather.